Mel B Gets Honest About Abuse
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
- The talented Mel B stopped by and opened up about her experience with abuse - and what she’s learned from it.
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Abuse is never okay 🙂 Don’t ever stay with someone who abuses you mentally and physically. YOU DESERVE BETTER!
Mel B is smashing it.. she’s the real spice girl who’s actually shown girl power - utilising her suffering to create strength in other women experiencing DV Gowan Mel x
Yeah, abusers always try and separated out from your family 😔
They always seem paranoid when you have support from family or friends!
She is a very strong woman.
Baby I am so glad you made it out alive not only for yourself but for your precious daughters too. Bless you.
Yeah but her daughters witnessed it and who knows how that will effect their future perceptions of relationships.
I love her voice
Abuse comes in emotional, physical, intellectual, spiritual, forms. Plz, do not stay in a relationship if you sense unhappiness. Don't be afraid to leave if you have nothing. It may take time for most to walk away bc it is not easy to just leave when you're vulnerable and feeling so down. I understand that. But, know where you're at, and work on where you want to go. But do not think you are trapped and stuck. It is never love when you're abused. And the abuser will use love as a tool, which is a source of manipulation to manipulate the situation. Abuse is not Love! Love heals!!!!! It does not make you feel low, or unhappy, ever. Keep in kind, abuse is not love. Love heals.
I'm happy she found the courage to speak up.You see out of bad things good things can come out now she's written a book that will be a sucess a book that will help many.
Isaiah 40:31 New International Version (NIV)
31 but those who hope in the Lord
will renew their strength.
They will soar on wings like eagles;
they will run and not grow weary,
they will walk and not be faint.
Exactly 💯 you don't find an abuser they find you. Imagine you been meeting healthy people all your life and one bad apple came in your basket. It's so subtle and now looking back I saw warning signs but I didn't understand it as an abuser sign but once you are in it you start to see everything and after coming out you see the whole story of what happened clear as day.
The abuser finds you, you don't find them. And they find you when you're at your most vulnerable and they show up to you like Prince Charming.
Yes getting out and running
The best feeling
Thank God
Luv honesty.
On my reading list.
Love u too
I love mel. I'm glad she's safe and happy but didn't Eddie humiliate her by claiming the child wasn't his and had nothing to do with the child til just recently.
Like the bible says, God always gives each and everyone of us signs that the person you're smitten by, isn't who he has for you. After my mum left my dad, I asked her, did you see signs and she thought all the way back to her teen years and said yes, but when it's happening, you don't realize it.
Women speak up about these things, never let anyone silence you, especially your boyfriend/husband. Abuse does happen to men as well, so men if your girlfriend or wife is always bringing you down, placing their hands on you and its not in a loving way, it's time to leave. Besos!!!
I love you Mel B! from Pakistan
Hope Mel B finds healing
Yay! Glad the Spice Girls are coming back! Girl power! Glad she shared her story. There are many women who went through abuse and would need to hear this. I'm definitely going to tell a few of my friends also. Good for you Mel B! Let's keep spreading the love!
I love me some Mel B!
#Survivor you go girl
Mel B I love u I dont know why.U are just interesting to hear and watch,I wish you the best in life.
Mel B is such a good and lovely lady who got in a relationship with bad ass men. I wish you all the best Mel B.
Good luck and best wishes Mel b🌻
I need to get that book I been there though the years
I knew the feeling Mel B. 💖
Hello Melanie b, I believe in due season we may meet. A family member of ours who lives here in the US shared alot about you, in 2013 with me. Trust me I did not believe her, but she connected the dots. I am extremely private, been the US for a long time. I am now Stepping out in Faith. We come from a beautiful family, oh yes nothing is perfect.
I happy to hear Spice Girls are having a reunite in England, I know you ladies will ROCK the HOUSE. I pray that God's blessings will continuously flow in you & through. Bless those young girls you have, for they have your gift too. Surround them with LOVE. May you always be blessed marcia brown 😍🙏❤
I love Mel B. She needs to stop messing with her face. It’s starting to look awkward. She’s a natural beauty.
Wow I love this
I love Mel B
Yes Mammm 💯💯💯
I like Mel B
listen to your intuition...
I used to be a serious fan of her and the Spice Girls. And I feel so sorry for her. Would've never believed she was in any trouble? OMG. Sighhhh.
How can he(Eddie Murphy) have been "the best"???🤔🤔🤔
He straight up denied ur child...smh..
She needs lots of help.
I love Mel ,she is adorable lady
It’s seethrough she had too lol
an Iron skillet when they are asleep can work wonders
God bless you
Haha....why didn't I think of that. I'm so laughing here😆😆😆
Mel b is a woman went throgh so much with her ex this will help her with her truth
Melanie, I love you.
How is her ex not in prison?
She sounds BRITISH
der...because she is from England...
@@ykook7000 no wonder
Lol
She is, from the northern part of England, that is why her accent is different from those from South like London.
Well she's from the Leeds in England so she's obviously going to sound English
What a voice ohh i love her she'pretty cute age just number
Steve I need your help
Are you OK? I know you wrote this year ago. But I hope you're OK......
"If you had to decide between a diet and a piece of chocolate, would you prefer dark, white or milk chocolate?"
and them blaming conservatives for not ewanting "free health care" right?
Lol
@@everydaylife7216 I'd choose Mel B
@@ItsaColdWorld10 haha
LOVE LOVE LOVE MEL B,I GUESS SHE IS NOT DOING AMERICA GOT TALENT!!!!!!!!!!
Eddie wanted paternity test. How could he be the love ❤️ of your life??
Sometimes a excellent girl came from stupid guys. I know I am right
The amount of times this women got married surley should would try to pick the right person dont know why a women would read about this women who had numrous failed marriages
Adam Islam 2 marriages, both with abusive men and both the fathers of her children
She’s drug addicted she never been abused she’s playing victim
I’m glad she’s talking about abuse. Side note: not all abuse is only physical! Having been there myself and escaped, I’m glad someone with such a public platform is getting the word out.
Use your brain woman: She is a superstar, she has the public sympathy, why would she stay in the same spot for 10years????
@@padilijamesmikomangwa519Did you listen to what she said?
@@patriciarowe6685 YES I DID.
@@padilijamesmikomangwa519 OK well try again.
This woman is still gorgeous after having three kids...glad she opened up about her story to encourage another young lady out there. Abuse is serious and needs to cease.
Sassy Deerah Yes, eternally beautiful.
She nailed it! Emotional abuse is so painful
Very painful 💔
I was victim shamed by someone I should have been able to go to. It was a very hurtful feeling but to be honesty I should not have been shocked by this persons behavior. I felt abused all over again. But I will never keep my mouth shut though. I will actually speak about this one day very soon so I can help many other men, women, boys and girls who have been through abuse.
Good for you girl, stand up for your truth.
shabzana shabzana it’s a guy
@@Shabzanaah nah it's the truth, can't stand that term "your truth" ugh 🤮
She deserves better
Betaaaa!!
A woman used never be a shamed for being abused by somebody that you should always speak out run 🏃🏽♀️ tell any and everybody you can help is there for you
Her style of clothing is great
Liking back you will see TONS of warning signs
Yes always trust your intuition! It never lies, we just miss it sometimes.
Well the gas lighting hurts your intuition too makes you doubt yourself sometimes the abuser will call you paranoid or not acknowledge when you are right etc. They destroy your ability to trust not just them but anything.
I keep dismissing it as paranoia for some reason
I'm sorry she experienced a abusive relationship. I remember being a kid in the 90s and used to love me some spice girls!!!
Fcukin facts!!! Prince charming my ass!!!
My Mel B 💗😍
God Bless You Mel
I have been through abuse and Thankfully I am free from him
Every day is a Blessing to be Free
Looking back if only I could have reached out and talked about it
. But he had control over me
Women or Men reading this
Reach out and talk to someone who cares
IT REALLY HELPS DO NOT LET THIS OTHER PERSON RUIN YOUR LIFE
GOD BLESS EVERYBODY ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌼🌻🙏👪
I wish with that top she wore a wide high waisted white pant like bell bottom ish. Mel is so beautiful but u can tell she needs her stylist she clearly dressed herself here
wow what a beautiful mom
I am glad you got out
Trust your Intuition
I love Mel B.
Ich Like Mel b:)
Mel B! Why did you uplift Eddie after publicly and privately being humiliated by him when he didn't claim nor care for your child ? I wanna read the book but are you genuine?
I'm reading the book now. I haven't gotten to the chapter on Eddie yet but she comes across as honest and genuine. She loved Eddie. The fact that HE humiliated her publicly doesn't change that fact. I wondered the same thing as you... why would she speak so lovingly about him after what he did? But that says more about HER than him. Clearly he wasn't worthy of her. And remember, he did Tracey Edmonds wrong too. Something happened between them after they "wed" in Bora Bora. They never legally married as a result. Even Babyface was against them dating because of the things he'd heard about Eddie. I think it's a positive that Mel B can focus on the good and express gratitude. It only serves their child in the end. Bitterness and anger never brings positive outcomes.
I read it and she talks about how it happens and they never became cordial until recently so I think that’s why she now can talk about him that way since they’ve moved past it.
Abusers are broken souls, that need Christ! The brokenness in their souls blinds the awareness of their actions!
Sometimes a excellent girl came from stupid guys. I know I am right
Side note: I'm so sad and angry that the Spice girls are not touring in the United States ☹😭😢
Thank Jesus
I love Melvin.
Dirty John
Man she shouldn't have worn the bra thingy underneath
I like you Mel
Her voice is totally different from AGT
Ya!
Shave your beard 😂
There are two sides to every story
is that cardi b sister just asking cause she look fimiliar
Spice girl
I am not buying this "I am an innocent victim" act she is playing. I like her but we are not really hearing the other side of the story cos he isn't a celebrity like she is. She is just using her celebrity friends to curry favor with the public, sell her book, make millions, while also cleaning up her public image. Mel B is no saint and she did her own share of abusing. I have read enough of her story from other parties to know how sleazy she truly is. Let's get that straight!
You need to stop
That's what I've been thinking too. She's privileged enough to go on US and UK media platforms to paint her own narratives. But of course people believe a female automatically when she claims abuse, as its best to believe first than doubt.
Knight Oyin I see your point
@@sharonwilliams8552 You need to get informed!
Of course she is not innocent, but that does not mean she was not abused, physically as there was evidence to that, also emotional abuse. I think one of her main problem is addiction to drugs and sex.
As soon as he said "My Buddy" I lost a load of respect for him...
Lools you have a problem
Why?
Why?
I call one of my best female friends buddy
Good for you