Copping Out on a Cousin

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  • @KennuhWayne
    @KennuhWayne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +533

    They kill me with these "gifts". Never in my life have anyone gave me a $3000 gift. You know dang well that's a loan.

    • @MhiaLee19
      @MhiaLee19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lol I disagree.. maybe y’all ain’t been around wealthy people..

    • @KennuhWayne
      @KennuhWayne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@MhiaLee19 Been around wealthy people all of my life. Much closer than you may realize. And 99% of the time they don't splurge unnecessarily. They would rather invest. There's a reason why they're wealthy...they didn't attain that wealth by foolishly tossing $3k around here and there. And when they do generously hand out money it's usually for a tax write off. At least that's what Forbes has detailed in their reporting. But that's an entirely different class of wealthy people than what you may be referring to.

    • @stevielovee7656
      @stevielovee7656 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I need them to come up with a new excuse 🤣🤣 obviously the "gift" shenanigans ain't working .

    • @KennuhWayne
      @KennuhWayne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@stevielovee7656 Facts.

    • @awesomehigames
      @awesomehigames 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@MhiaLee19 People's Court isn't a showcase of wealthy people

  • @MsSparklesNGlitter
    @MsSparklesNGlitter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1298

    I've never been showered like that with thousands of dollars. It amazes me how so many grown adults all come in claiming it was a gift. Pay your own bills.

    • @livenowliveright8509
      @livenowliveright8509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      That is what baffles me, ma’am, you’re grown and speaking in this manner? Tf, go work and pay tor your own items, lifestyle as such.

    • @heyayup
      @heyayup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      They always knew it was never a gift they just don't want to pay it back now

    • @MsTruthhurts007
      @MsTruthhurts007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Its the harassment excuse that drives me nuts😡. You know you owe someone money and claim harassment.

    • @brandoncook3158
      @brandoncook3158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bully. It was a gift when you give money to someone you know cannot or probably won't pay you back.

    • @marleshaross3258
      @marleshaross3258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Once when I was on LOA from my job I asked to borrow $300 until I started receiving my temp disability checks and felt so bad about it. I paid it back with my 1st check. I couldn’t imagine having the audacity to ask for such a large sum then have an attitude about paying it back.

  • @JamieM470
    @JamieM470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1498

    How to know for sure that someone will never pay you back: They'll tell you "I'll pay you back when I get my income tax money."

    • @rowan64official
      @rowan64official 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      I learned that from Judge Mathis.

    • @giondennis6808
      @giondennis6808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      My husband came here on a K-1 visa from 🇯🇲 Jamaica. I told him point blank," you NEVER depend on tax money coming back. Once it is in your hand do with it what you plan 2, but NEVER borrow from someone with the intent 2 use it 2 pay back from or assume it will be a particular amount. Until it is dispursed, it is not certain." I can not stand people who spend what they do not have or try 2 borrow based on something they do not know will come...

    • @Jean0987654321
      @Jean0987654321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I see you watch Judge Mathis too 😅🤣😂

    • @bekimcolaku5258
      @bekimcolaku5258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      If you have to rely on your taxes to pay your bills you have bigger problems 😬

    • @BCNeil
      @BCNeil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      generally people that earn $5000 a year get tiny refunds

  • @goblueinga
    @goblueinga 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    Never loan money to a relative unless you are prepared not to get it back.

    • @519Trishers
      @519Trishers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      good rule of thumb

    • @mmurph617
      @mmurph617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And that's real

    • @kizzyrichards593
      @kizzyrichards593 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      well it's not a loan then is it, if you don't get it back. how about don't ask to borrow money if you have no intentions on giving it back. people are so stupid. 🙄

    • @terrybonham9426
      @terrybonham9426 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is very true

    • @daisialewin
      @daisialewin 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      100% true, now they owe you and can’t ask again 😆

  • @diamond6256
    @diamond6256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    WHY do people you loan money have NO integrity to pay it back? This is a stab in the back!!!! PAY BACK WHAT YOU BORROW.

    • @looknbakatu
      @looknbakatu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      they probably had no integrity to begin with!

    • @4leafliyah
      @4leafliyah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Honestly! I make it first priority to pay someone back (happened maybe 2 times) as soon as I get money. I don’t even consider the amount of money I borrowed mine because I’m in debt with someone.

    • @ruth2nice0769
      @ruth2nice0769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Just don't loan money to anyone. It just makes life easier.

    • @looknbakatu
      @looknbakatu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Ruth Ferguson, we ALL! may need some help at some time, these situations just shows You WHO?! people REALLY! are!

    • @sonjasimmonds9933
      @sonjasimmonds9933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And with the grace it was given so rude and disrespectful.

  • @slrcouture
    @slrcouture 3 ปีที่แล้ว +659

    I cringe when I hear women state they’re a single mom 🙄 as if it’s a handicap. The defendant used and took advantage of the plaintiff. Her getting fired during training because she was dishonest “most likely on her application” clearly shows what type of person she is....shady and a liar. The defendant should be grateful and willing to pay her back. The plaintiff paid for her security deposit, rent and uhaul. She lost out on a kindhearted person who was willing to help her get ahead. She deserved to lose her job and her case. She’s highly ungrateful.

    • @konige-tochteru.9295
      @konige-tochteru.9295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Very well said.. exactly what I thought!

    • @nikam4167
      @nikam4167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      It is a self inflicted handicap.... Most of the time

    • @Childfree334
      @Childfree334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @M Tol Well to be fair it works for men. The moment they say they are single fathers they get all kinds of praise and sympathy.

    • @JamieM470
      @JamieM470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@nikam4167 So true! They might as well announce "I have no morals and I make poor choices."

    • @danir6695
      @danir6695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Childfree334 not my praise and sympathy.

  • @myshanamakisi6063
    @myshanamakisi6063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    The defendant is messy and ungrateful. Says a lot about her condition

  • @Childfree334
    @Childfree334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +567

    Never loan money to family. It never ends well.

    • @looknbakatu
      @looknbakatu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      SO TRUE!

    • @303Kelly303
      @303Kelly303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      In general I feel that if you can’t afford to lose out on that money, don’t give it.

    • @heyayup
      @heyayup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Never loan money period if you ask me.

    • @ronaldturner5733
      @ronaldturner5733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@heyayup damn . Where were u 7 yrs ago? bcuz that's the last time ive talkd to my family over money😁😅

    • @heyayup
      @heyayup 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ronaldturner5733 We need more people like you Ronald :)

  • @damnnerves24
    @damnnerves24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    The plaintiff was being very generous by paying for the entire move, prorated rent and deposit.. And giving the defendant until income tax to pay it back. The defendant seem to have gotten aggravated about the plaintiff trying to manage her life and used that as an excuse not to pay! There’s no way I’d be comfortable allowing a relative to foot that kinda bill and not pay it back! Shameful

    • @4everThoughtful
      @4everThoughtful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I agree with you. That 17 year old had better enroll in school; if he refuses, he'll have to get a job and pay rent as I worked a full time and part time job to repay the loan and put some away for future emergencies.

  • @livenowliveright8509
    @livenowliveright8509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    This is so pathetic. How do you think someone should support your lifestyle and you’re a GROWN woman with children? And has the nerve to be talking about, it was a gift.

  • @dianemartel5205
    @dianemartel5205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    That woman’s Elvis glasses were DOPE!

    • @leetakamiya
      @leetakamiya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I’m sure she would say: Thank you… Thank you verymuch.

    • @tinydancer7688
      @tinydancer7688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Absolutely. Who is the designer,. I want a pair.

    • @monicakeenon8943
      @monicakeenon8943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely!

    • @nicholewhite4067
      @nicholewhite4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow family needs to do better

    • @PaulaWallaPP
      @PaulaWallaPP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ditto. I NEED THESE GLASSES!!

  • @34stzoo
    @34stzoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +411

    I love my family members very very much! This is no reality where I would gift them 4K for personal bills.

    • @Bebedollie
      @Bebedollie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Some families do that for each other. Especially if they rich and giving kinda people

    • @leetakamiya
      @leetakamiya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Even for an important medical procedure?

    • @jacquelynclark3782
      @jacquelynclark3782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Amen to that, hell not even $400, if I do it better be a life or death situation, not because they’re behind on bills or even getting some one out of jail. When I say “life or death” I mean “life or death”. Family or no family. Like Judge Judy says “No Good Deed Goes Unpunished”. I’ve witnessed people throwing a person a life line only to have the generous person get kicked in the teeth for helping them.

    • @sparrowhawk5673
      @sparrowhawk5673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's nice. . .hope they feel the same way. . .sadly most relationships are not mutual

    • @TheQueenrevolution
      @TheQueenrevolution 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Period!

  • @FinancialfitDiva
    @FinancialfitDiva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    One thing I learned from Judge Mathis is if someone says that they are paying you back during income tax time...you can kiss that money goodbye 🤣🤣🤣

    • @laynadorado4731
      @laynadorado4731 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have lent money for the income tax return but I always get collateral, aka a class ring, an engagement ring etc. it's amazing how quickly that money comes back when you have something they want.

  • @commonsense5506
    @commonsense5506 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    If a relative gave me money and later called it a loan, I would pay them. Regardless, if I thought it was originally a gift.

    • @kay22100
      @kay22100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Same!!

    • @insertcoffeehere3429
      @insertcoffeehere3429 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same even if I didn’t have the money I’d sort out a payment plan or pick up overtime at work 😭

  • @kaylove7260
    @kaylove7260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    If you know your cousin has “a pattern” of giving then demanding refund why accept money from her??

    • @cousinsister69
      @cousinsister69 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. She shot herself in the foot a few times with stupid comments like that 😊

    • @thankthelord4536
      @thankthelord4536 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She's a user.

  • @NivellenMcJazzy
    @NivellenMcJazzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Amazing how the defendant literally started off by saying the plaintiff felt like she was being used by everyone… then proceeds to say “Oh but no she totally just gave me $3000”

  • @Empowermeforward
    @Empowermeforward 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Family always do you dirty when it comes to money!

  • @boriqua1222
    @boriqua1222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    finally some new episodes!!!

    • @ftngie
      @ftngie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right 😆

    • @leetakamiya
      @leetakamiya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Yeshuas Return You know that the TH-cam channel for PC has ALL their downloaded videos, right?You can watch any or all at you leisure.

    • @arteena
      @arteena 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yayyyy!!!!!!

    • @TheMsklg1981
      @TheMsklg1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@leetakamiya What’s the name of the channel? I found one but there’s only abt 10 episodes on it.

    • @dklouisjean
      @dklouisjean 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@leetakamiya What is the channel name? I am a feen!

  • @osawagedk
    @osawagedk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    "Eva has a realy really bad habit of giving me free money. It's a pattern for her."

    • @saramichele7366
      @saramichele7366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣 hahaha right! Acting like she isn't accepting it with open arms!

    • @LoveThinkLaugh
      @LoveThinkLaugh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂🙌

  • @luxvella1598
    @luxvella1598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    This is why I disappear without a trace. My family, friends, everyone only talk to me if they only want something. 🙄

    • @4everThoughtful
      @4everThoughtful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've been missing a few times myself!! Before caller ID, I'd just let the answering machine record any messages. If there were a series of hang-ups, I didn't dare answer because I knew that a loan (that would never be repaid) was involved.

    • @TheMsklg1981
      @TheMsklg1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Aww that messed up. It’s always the good ppl who get done dirty. I always say let’s get all the good ppl who’ve been done wrong by their blood relative sand let’s make our OWN family together. I wldt mind having some new cousins 😂

    • @ronaldturner5733
      @ronaldturner5733 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheMsklg1981 yeah wassup cuz?😳

    • @keerose4769
      @keerose4769 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too...

  • @ladyl8898
    @ladyl8898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Never loan money you can't afford to lose because unfortunately you may never get it back. And the #1 sign you will not get it back is when they say I will give it back when I get my taxes.

    • @leetakamiya
      @leetakamiya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you recall, it was the plaintiff that suggested that she could repay the loan from her tax refund.

    • @4everThoughtful
      @4everThoughtful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@leetakamiya Yes, that was the text but I thought that the plaintiff said that's what the defendant had told her BEFORE loan was issued. Maybe this was her way of making sure that it was in writing.

  • @bixbycro
    @bixbycro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Plaintiff knows she stretches her “DoJ” employment status as far as she can 😂

    • @Fribee83
      @Fribee83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Yes, I work for the government but if someone asks me for ID, I'm using my drivers license and not my badge.

    • @TheMsklg1981
      @TheMsklg1981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I def believe she did that 😆

    • @foreverblessed6443
      @foreverblessed6443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Fribee83 same. That's what they teach us to do.

    • @PrinceMarcelllus
      @PrinceMarcelllus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@foreverblessed6443 can you explain

    • @PrinceMarcelllus
      @PrinceMarcelllus 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Fribee83 explained

  • @starlightlatham8086
    @starlightlatham8086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    It's so amazing that people are very bold when comes to asking others for money.
    This woman doesn't know how fortunate she is, in that she had someone so willing to help her. It never fails to astound me when others feel sooo entitled to get/take money from a friend, a family member and then act as if they don't have to repay...

  • @mcampbell932
    @mcampbell932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I do believe the plaintiff was helping her get out of a bad situation that money was definitely a loan not no gift she wasn't your child

  • @prettiiprettii2700
    @prettiiprettii2700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Home girl was confident showing the judge that phone lmaooo .. she’s unstable and knows that was a loan

  • @donteclaypool5095
    @donteclaypool5095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Imagine owing someone thousands of dollars and having the AUDACITY to file a counter suit for $5k claiming they caused you STRESS?! What?! You the one stressed out?!

  • @KamisKisses
    @KamisKisses 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This defendant has some nerve!!! I am glad the plaintiff won, I hope she learns her lesson.

    • @sophiehaze6685
      @sophiehaze6685 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for telling me the verdict before the end of the vid 😒lol

    • @thankthelord4536
      @thankthelord4536 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@sophiehaze6685# 1 lesson: never read the comments first.

  • @Indygrandma56
    @Indygrandma56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Defendant lied and got caught up in her lies

    • @leetakamiya
      @leetakamiya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She would also have lost if she had told the truth. Her emails showed her true colors.

  • @lambisheila8071
    @lambisheila8071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think I'm blessed. My sister brought me from Africa, paid my flight and every document I made and has housed me for 2years. I don't pay a dime. Instead when I do groceries she'll be mad and ask me to safe for my future then later refund the money. I'm just so blessed

    • @lambisheila8071
      @lambisheila8071 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And she's my step cousin not even blood sisters

  • @BobBlumenfeld
    @BobBlumenfeld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Defendant's arguments make no rational sense unless you already believe her story without any evidence. It's truly circular reasoning.

    • @giondennis6808
      @giondennis6808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She did have a point with the text however. If they had an original agreement for her 2 pay back the money with her taxes as the plaintiff cousin testified, why would there suddenly be a text "asking" if when she received her taxes IF she could pay her back. I mean the judge is correct, she did reply, " absolutely. " But why would she be asking her 2 if that was what was originally agreed upon? It wasn't asked in a manner that was reaffirming the original agreement, like..." Are you still going 2 be able 2 pay me back when you get your taxes?" Or, "I will still need you 2 pay me back when your taxes come." It was very specifically asking,"Can you pay me back the money when you get your taxes?" That implies that there never was an agreement 2 do so prior...

    • @c0gimyun
      @c0gimyun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@giondennis6808 there is a possibility that the original agreement was to pay the plaintiff back and the defendant said “let me know when”. that would prompt such a text imo. also, WHO GETS GIFTED THAT MUCH $$$$

    • @giondennis6808
      @giondennis6808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@c0gimyun For sure...NOBODY is ever trying 2 just GIVE someone a large chunk of money...But sometimes I think these people come in2 money from some kind of settlement or so.ething and it is the LARGEST amount they have ever had so they think it is really more than it is. Or more realistically that it will "go" farther than it really does. So at first, they hand it out, trying 2 be super generous and appear soooo giving and wealthy. THEN it begins 2 run out & panic mode sets in so now they start claiming "loan" and suddenly want it back...Regret giving...

  • @mrshappilymarried1
    @mrshappilymarried1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    If you were afraid of going to prison you should have paid that woman her money back!

  • @primobest12
    @primobest12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    You borrow a family members money and get upset because you have to pay it back. What is wrong with people?

    • @motorcity313
      @motorcity313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      People always get mad when you want your money back.

    • @thankthelord4536
      @thankthelord4536 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shameful and selfish.

  • @nishae7436
    @nishae7436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Doug questions and comebacks don’t hit where needed ...they need me in the hallway...

    • @braeutchen41
      @braeutchen41 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Come ON Nisha girl....get IN there and lettum havit!!!
      POW!!! Right between the eyes.....

  • @kia4334
    @kia4334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The only person in my life that gets money me as a big gift is my grandmother. She’s 86 now God bless her she raised me gave me the world. She taught me how to be a young lady.

  • @bebebe1354
    @bebebe1354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I got a loan from my family member to purchase a home...I made sure to pay it back in 2 months...I just could not afford to pay the rent anymore..My rent was was over 1700 for a 2 bedroom 2 bath...I purchased a home and now my mortgage is 1160....I'm just thankful my family could assist.

  • @belleame1064
    @belleame1064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    You have to be careful who you share losses with. She confided in her cousin that she was being used and the cousin noted it as a weakness, and took advantage. She came down to use her..

  • @fullybad8932
    @fullybad8932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This lady is a real good cousin that you don't find in these times,she should of had a conscience and give her atleast some money back

  • @freenchrist2935
    @freenchrist2935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    WHAT gets me, is HOW u help people, then after they get your money, they go ghost, and no longer want to communicate. The lady who who lent her the money WILL DEFINITELY remain BLESSED because she has a given heart. I also HOPE she learned wisdom. Dont lend money unless you have it to lose. Always assume you wont get it back. If u dont have it to JUST give away, then dont lend it. Its ALWAYS a possibility you WON'T get it back..

  • @ScarfaceIsMissingYou
    @ScarfaceIsMissingYou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    She owed that money and didnt wana pay it back....but she was reaching on that ima federal agent mess😂

    • @ntrock22
      @ntrock22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed!

  • @Aries-tx3zz
    @Aries-tx3zz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Plantiff do NOT loan another DIME to a family member or friend! OMG!!!

    • @giondennis6808
      @giondennis6808 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think she got her disability lump sum and was trying 2 look all flashy like she had it 2 spare...Then whatever insurance claim she was going after is investigating her for fraud and whatever settlement she was intending 2 further pad her pockets with fell through so she "suddenly" decided they were loans...

    • @Aries-tx3zz
      @Aries-tx3zz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@giondennis6808 LOL
      Maybe

  • @shdagentzero
    @shdagentzero 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The look at 1:12 told me everything I needed to know about this Defendant.

  • @katem3667
    @katem3667 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Cassie, would you be able to pay the money back around income tax time?"
    "Absolutely!"
    Busted!!
    🤣

  • @Shaikhofilm
    @Shaikhofilm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Some people just won’t pay you back, unless you get a third party involved , like a court. Then they’ll be full of excuses and justifications to try to get out of it.
    I know people that become habitual borrowers - borrow from everybody that would be willing to give them a loan, then not pay them back. They become a big “DEBTOR” .

    • @DebraBright-r6g
      @DebraBright-r6g 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      But then those ‘chronic borrowers’ have to always find new ppl to borrow from!

  • @ninosimone
    @ninosimone ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guy in the green shirt was rushing to sit down 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tenny1010
    @tenny1010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Never loan family money! This lady can't even enroll her children in school without help... which is a major red flag, showing irresponsibility.

  • @maryburke7850
    @maryburke7850 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl bye! Who is going to pay for your GROWN self with KIDS 3 at that to move out of state. Smgdh. NO good deed goes unpunished!! Ms. The suburbs! Lol

  • @kasandramckenna6221
    @kasandramckenna6221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If I loan someone money I ask myself one question- “If I never get any of this back will I be resentful?” If the answer is yes, I won’t do it.

  • @Jessica-uf3zp
    @Jessica-uf3zp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the style of both the plaintiff and the defendant! Wish I could pull off those glasses!

  • @jessicamarsh9779
    @jessicamarsh9779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It ALWAYS makes me laugh when they file a counter suit for stress, slander & everything else that falls under that umbrella. I’ve seen the Judge rule in favor of it only a few times & those cases were EXTREM cases. Same when they file for lost wages.

  • @soloseraphimheartsong3710
    @soloseraphimheartsong3710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    If her employer gets wind of this she might lose that job. That's not the first time she flashed that badge for no official reason. If her cousin is salty enough she might turn her in.

    • @iris-nx1wt
      @iris-nx1wt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree but I have a feeling a lot of people flash their badges.

    • @BeavzMC
      @BeavzMC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@iris-nx1wt I'm pretty sure its against the law to flash your badge as a fed or a cop even if your not on a case or currently working just to get information, that been said, once some of those people get their badge they don't care about the rules behind it

    • @ariamarshall5161
      @ariamarshall5161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      As some1 who has a badge (won’t say which kind) u absolutely cannot just flash ur badge Bc u feel like it. It’s worn yes, even when u are getting off work in plain clothes shopping in for groceries Bc technically u are always on duty even off duty just like nurses/doctors. But u can’t go up to some1 flash ur badge & then question them about something or use it to intimidate ppl. She know that & that’s why she was nervous in her answer. She can definitely be in trouble for that!

    • @ronniewalker2212
      @ronniewalker2212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Judge Milan should know many people have been set up by law enforcement. And if she recieves WC a person gets big settlements, that could be why she has been able to loan large sums of money. And her WC checks twice a month would be almost as much as she makes on the job. She's in no rush to go back to work.

    • @tpurdiman
      @tpurdiman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People are full of it. It was a loan and she was trying to take advantage of family. Typical

  • @angelicrealtor1
    @angelicrealtor1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As a Retired Fraud Investigator, myself, i have to disagree with the Judge respectfully. It's NOT a coincidence that the Defendant switched her claim to the office for the Plaintiff worked. Stevie Wonder could see what's happening in that scenario. Nevertheless, her employer were JERKS because they should've waited for the final disposition of the Investigation of the claim in question before taking action, if any, regarding her employment!!!

    • @gwenjones8529
      @gwenjones8529 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The defendant literally said that she had nothing to do with the ongoing claim or investigation, so why would her transferring agents to someone in her office suddenly get her fired? It makes no sense. She was fired for her own reasons.

  • @rihannasc7941
    @rihannasc7941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank God.... finally a new episodes!!!!!!!!!

  • @mashondaknight9132
    @mashondaknight9132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Never ever loan money or give any money to family or friends they'll never pay it back and they don't appreciate it. Let them get how they get it how they were getting it before. Let everyone work and get their own stop extending your hands for someone to give you.

    • @eleanoraquitaine2966
      @eleanoraquitaine2966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree plus I never borrow or loan money. If you need it and I have it and you're immediate family, it's a gift, not a loan, but only if you have a good track record of handling money and are doing your best. Freeloaders need not apply.

    • @Fribee83
      @Fribee83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup! Was a roomate with a bestfriend until he lost his job and I covered his half until he looked for a job. Anytime I'd see him buy a video game or get fast food, I'd get pissed he could afford those but not pay me. Totally ruined it!

    • @KamalasNotLikeUs
      @KamalasNotLikeUs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So no one has ever helped you except EVERYONE in the American taxpaying public? And everyone in the country has received some benefit of the public good, so stop pretending you fed yourself from your own teets as an infant. 🙄 Similac babies know no nurturing.

  • @joeyjackson2081
    @joeyjackson2081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The best part of this show is the post verdict interviews ….homie tell it like it is all the time

  • @PeaceIsAlwaysBeautiful92
    @PeaceIsAlwaysBeautiful92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    She should of paid her something, she might need her again!🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @brdobie
      @brdobie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "should of"

    • @JamieM470
      @JamieM470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That's what users always do. She burned that bridge. Cut down that money tree.
      Her circle of people she can use just got smaller.

    • @s.k5459
      @s.k5459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Should have*

    • @PeaceIsAlwaysBeautiful92
      @PeaceIsAlwaysBeautiful92 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@s.k5459 should of, should have... Either way, she didn't....

  • @debbiesoini8136
    @debbiesoini8136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    They’re both shady as hell!

    • @t.c.5456
      @t.c.5456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah something is off...

  • @jamessmith4455
    @jamessmith4455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If a cousin handed me $4,000 I would not assume it was a gift and I wouldn’t accept it if it was.

  • @aimeelouvier-sutton
    @aimeelouvier-sutton 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    3:13 That's that "Why u gotta be tellin' all my bid-ness for" look 😒😒
    🤣🤣

  • @jpharleyd9325
    @jpharleyd9325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    If you give money to relative, parents, kids, grandkids, you might as well consider it a gift because you're lucky if you'll ever see it again. The old adage generally applies. "No good deed goes unpunished".

    • @shannontrent3702
      @shannontrent3702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did a contract when I borrowed money from my parents. They taught me to do people right and I wanted to make sure I paid them back what I owed.

    • @cousinsister69
      @cousinsister69 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love that old saying. Another one I like is "Be careful of what you wish for". Through age & maturity I've learned that both of these sayings often do "ring true". 😊

  • @Nitty_likes2laugh
    @Nitty_likes2laugh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gift! We talking bout a Gift, giving a Grown woman a Gift!!😂🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @erickawashington287
    @erickawashington287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Girl pay up, God Bless YOU!

  • @chowchow2theleft567
    @chowchow2theleft567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    With the defendant ungrateful attitude & mouth twisted to the side like that is proof she’s TRIFLING! FBI or not… The plaintiff had to do what she needed to do to get her money back!!

  • @elishiamariewilson8289
    @elishiamariewilson8289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She should be so grateful her cousin helped her. My family only had their hands out for my help before I said NO MORE.

  • @janelle_111
    @janelle_111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My facial expressions would never🙈🤣 those people just sitting like zombies 😩🤣

  • @smarttrout5562
    @smarttrout5562 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why do so many people who are dishonorable have similar traits?
    Head tilting, smirky smiles, inappropriate giggles and laughs, fake looking shocked ......

  • @nanchanger
    @nanchanger ปีที่แล้ว

    What a great judge, in her mind no innocent person has ever gone to jail...

  • @raeneal3825
    @raeneal3825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The defendant most certainly should've paid but the plaintiff should've been reprimanded for what she did. Glad to see a new episode though

    • @4everThoughtful
      @4everThoughtful 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Plaintiff.....reprimanded for the 'parking lot' escapade?

    • @raeneal3825
      @raeneal3825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@4everThoughtful For misusing her federal badge

    • @4everThoughtful
      @4everThoughtful 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raeneal3825 Got it!! Yes, I agree.

  • @kaiaballobey4239
    @kaiaballobey4239 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is why I will never help no one out like that. People will say anything just to get every last penny out of you and say they'll pay you back. They only say they'll pay you back just to get the money. The moment you ask them to pay you back, they have every excuse in the book on why they cannot repay the money.

  • @chanstan3658
    @chanstan3658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The plaintiff has the mannerisms of Mariah from married to medicine, glad she won

  • @sarahbarry146
    @sarahbarry146 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good, decent people pay money back they borrow. This is a prime example of someone who expects everyone else to carry her in life ... entitled and dishonest

  • @paulastrose7615
    @paulastrose7615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is just an ungrateful young lady !
    I would of been so appreciative of someone who helped me and kids move to another state and showing me the ropes ...sometimes the wrong ppl we helped at some point and time along the way ,and thats suck bc someone who is genuine at heart loose off bc of this kind of shit!.

  • @cpedersen474
    @cpedersen474 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like when he asks would you sue your cousin for 400 bucks? Im thinking "yeah id sue my brother for ten". Its been my experience that people give family way too much slack just hecause theyre family. Toxic is toxic.

  • @standmccray1037
    @standmccray1037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Absolutely Now I can rule against you. Lol

  • @stephenbanks5952
    @stephenbanks5952 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It is so simple. It was a loan not a gift. Pay the lady!

  • @GMAMEC
    @GMAMEC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Unless it’s an unexpected situation (a fire, stolen/lost wallet, health emergency etc.), always consider a ”loan” a “gift”. If you have a better living situation, your family usually believes that you have money to give away.

  • @monicabeebee9993
    @monicabeebee9993 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Instead of being grateful, the defendant showed her true colours. Glad thr plaintiff won! She seems so big-hearted.

  • @kell2badd18
    @kell2badd18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I loaned brother over 6500 dollars and he didn’t pay and i sued him. Family will do you worse than a friend expecting it to be forgiven because your blood. No way

    • @DebraBright-r6g
      @DebraBright-r6g 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Did you win your case?

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    if ppl got bad credit, get evicted, 6 months behind in rent and cant even get a pack of bubble gum put in their name WHY loan them money !!!!

  • @donaldham308
    @donaldham308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She’s a federal officer who can’t answer what she does at the department of justice when asked multiple times other than to say over and over that she’s a federal officer lol. A clear cut case of the type of person who would never have a problem trying to use that to throw her weight around to coerce people and get her way thru intimidation.

  • @ivybee347
    @ivybee347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I already learned my lesson about helping someone who I called a sister.

  • @Incog3
    @Incog3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don’t mean any harm but the plaintiff had that crazy look in her eyes too often… its a lot that is not being said here 🤣🤣😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

  • @reptilemetaljen
    @reptilemetaljen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Plaintiff rocks those glasses! 👓

  • @wb3381
    @wb3381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The defendant is full of entitlement and ignorance 🙄 she plays the victim when convenient

  • @ashleyquam
    @ashleyquam ปีที่แล้ว +2

    9:21 insurance company must have thought there was possibility of collusion?

  • @tanyapanesar2239
    @tanyapanesar2239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Finallyy a new episode :))))

  • @moodspoiler9127
    @moodspoiler9127 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't know if many people know this but here in australia when we enter a court room we always bow to judge.. i haven't seen one plaintiff or defendant do that idk

  • @mclaybry
    @mclaybry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    How embarrassing for both of them. A grown woman taking thousands of dollars and not paying it back, a grown woman on ‘disability’ throwing cash at a family member when her other cousin didn’t pay her back… throwing that DOJ badge around like she’s something.

  • @carolynyvettewright3511
    @carolynyvettewright3511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The defendant is an ungrateful liar!! Period!

  • @kotorisama3080
    @kotorisama3080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    They say u Cant judge a book by its cover but looking at these two you can definitely judge. The plaintiff is polite, kind and nice. The defendant looks shady AF

  • @trancd822
    @trancd822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is one nice cousin for helping her moved and paid for her rent .... what a horrible cousin for not paying back or at least trying to do so

  • @NikhchansGaming
    @NikhchansGaming 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    17:44 "It worries me because she is a federal agent"
    18:20 "you can misrepresent yourself as a federal agent and be rewarded for it."

  • @bridgetgregory3876
    @bridgetgregory3876 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish the Judge give the litigants a chance to finish their sentences before she starts jumping in trying to question what they say. This is frustrating...it confuses people when they are trying to tell their side of the story. Give people a chance before you start to ask questions. This very RUDE and Disrespectful on Judge Milan's part.

  • @amberhill6559
    @amberhill6559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why when somebody owe you money they be the ones with an attitude. Thats the most funniest shit to me.

  • @wagonstation3709
    @wagonstation3709 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That entire "I'm such a great person that everybody should agree with me," attitude from the Defendant was disgusting.

  • @jacquelynclark3782
    @jacquelynclark3782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hell don’t offer the money and when they ask just say “ I’m broke as a joke”. By the time they stop laughing hopefully you would have left the room. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jessj953
      @jessj953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or hit them with the “dang, i was just about to ask you if i can hold something”

    • @jacquelynclark3782
      @jacquelynclark3782 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jessj953 I like that ! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @elizabethhansen6984
    @elizabethhansen6984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hardly doubt that ANYONE has extra money laying around to give out. Even to family. Very few of us can afford to be that charitable.

  • @Pinkblueflowerlady
    @Pinkblueflowerlady 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is why you never loan noone money to family ,friends or strangers cause some would just say it was a "gift*.lol

  • @alyssastorch
    @alyssastorch 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A good word to live by 'don't give money unless you're ok with not seeing it given back'

  • @lolamaude3449
    @lolamaude3449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It is always the same, people never want to pay back money. Then when you ask for it, you are harrassaing them.

  • @MsLilacLover1
    @MsLilacLover1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I find it funny that people rely on income tax. I get pretty much nothing back for taxes because my employers take it out correctly. If you're getting a lot back in taxes you are for sure getting screwed on your weekly pay (aside from having kids)

    • @ruth752031982
      @ruth752031982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Frfr. I get my own money during the year and put it in my saving to get my own interest instead of letting the government have it

    • @DisI3oss
      @DisI3oss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea some people are just bad at saving and money management. If they claimed 0 and got full paychecks, come tax season they'd have nothing saved to pay and owing IRS ain't fun.

    • @naynayjones9166
      @naynayjones9166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If they getting a lot of money usually they have or claim multiple kids and low pay, and they don't get any taxes out cause they expected to get a refund!, they be getting usually 6000-12000 and never giving a dime to the government while ppl working decently pay that much or more and get nothing back

    • @author_tiffany_dionne
      @author_tiffany_dionne 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You already know she has three kids.