HOW TO BE AN INDEPENDENT MUSLIMAH

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  • HOW TO BE AN INDEPENDENT MUSLIMAH
    Salam all, as Muslim women independence is quite different from what mainstream society teaches. I hope we all learn a lesson or two from the great examples of muslimah's whom Allah mentioned in the Qur'an and those mentioned in hadith of the prophet Muhammad (pbuh).
    FYI : I am not a sheikh, scholar nor would I even consider myself a student of knowledge. I am just your everyday Muslim trying to better my self and my deen. Additionally, as a human being, I make mistakes just like everyone else, If you notice a mistake of mine, fear Allah in your approach of advising me.
    Nafisa's Pearlz
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  • @sairaailia8691
    @sairaailia8691 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Number 6" Submit to Allah, NOT to your husband or the creation. Just wanted to add that in there.

    • @JkaysCorner
      @JkaysCorner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said sis

    • @MOTHUG786
      @MOTHUG786 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable”
      [al-Baqarah 2:228]

    • @MOTHUG786
      @MOTHUG786 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women). So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret that which Allah hath guarded. As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever High, Exalted, Great.

    • @MOTHUG786
      @MOTHUG786 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@Miracleofnight__Surah Nisa has 176 verses divided into 24 Rukus/Sections. "Nisa" in Arabic is "Women."This Surah is named so because it mainly discusses issues and laws regarding women, marriage, inheritance, and Rights of women. After migration to Madina Muslims became a community and thus required laws and regulations regarding day to day life. The underlying theme of Surah is the family life and instructions to consolidate this basic unit of the society. Laws have been given for marriage and the status of women. Orphans also have a central theme of this Surah as because of battles this issue was becoming intense as more and more families becoming victims of these battles. Thus laws and regulations have been laid down for the proper care of orphans and their inheritance.

    • @MOTHUG786
      @MOTHUG786 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @Miracleofnight__ just know that it's easy to pay for the hour. Money in exchange for goods and services. I know married men who fly out to Morocco for "hammam" and "massage". So you can stay in your prestigious bubble, but know that it's for sale and men will pay for the hour instead of taking street trash home with them.

  • @aichadembele205
    @aichadembele205 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Can you make a video about how a muslimah can become financially independent ?

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That's a great idea, inshallah, I will.

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    MASHAALLAH I love you for the sake of Allah, this is so inspiring ! Keep it up !

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Alhamdulilah, thanks sis and love you too for the sake of Allah❤

    • @ashaabdi5100
      @ashaabdi5100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mashaallah

  • @preetypreetydoll1788
    @preetypreetydoll1788 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Mashallah you are amazing sister I am new to your channel and am already inspired Mashallah may Allah swt bless you and your entire family ameen

  • @abdulmukar2131
    @abdulmukar2131 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Mashallah may Alllah reward you abundantly

  • @mariamkizito3455
    @mariamkizito3455 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this. Jazak’Allah khair. May Allah reward you. Keep it up sis 💝

  • @leilahassan8108
    @leilahassan8108 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did I just enjoyed? I loved every bit. MashaAllah Nafiisa

  • @kokosfro
    @kokosfro 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ❤❤❤ i love this mashallah. I like your message of dependence on allah and not the creation x

  • @theresapearls2302
    @theresapearls2302 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jazak Allah khair Nafisa. You inspire me everyday .

  • @merlissafarrell238
    @merlissafarrell238 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    walaikum salaam sister maashaa Allah awesome informative video shukran.

  • @bailaoudiallo7397
    @bailaoudiallo7397 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was an amazing video! Thank you!

  • @amahorohusna9670
    @amahorohusna9670 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    JazzakAllah kheir..
    Thank you for encouraging me...

  • @ladolcevita2991
    @ladolcevita2991 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Again another great video!!

  • @Naturalqueennai
    @Naturalqueennai 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    bissmallah Allah i proud of you a lot when people make fun oif me because im a muslim but i say im proud to be a muslim and have trust im Allah bissmallah

  • @Anisahbei
    @Anisahbei 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    subhanAllah my beloved sister Nafisa, jazakumullah so much for this beautiful video, I feel like I just really needed to listen to this today xx May the Almighty truly bless you in this world and the akhirah

  • @dishahayath
    @dishahayath 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashaAllah. Great voice

  • @afshanmunir9228
    @afshanmunir9228 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re amazing 🙂🙂 Mashallah ❣️❣️

  • @zayinbahusenhusen5671
    @zayinbahusenhusen5671 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    jezaka allah hiyer mashallah

  • @halimamohammed3651
    @halimamohammed3651 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    masha Allah sister Nafisa..may Allah reward you for your ispirations and motivationing us towards Allah.. jazaakil Allahu khair

  • @aminamohamed7819
    @aminamohamed7819 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    manshaalah May Allah bless u

  • @halimamohammed3651
    @halimamohammed3651 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you have really motivated me to start a channel like this. i wanted to start a channel in regards to my career but since I discovered your channel you have brought me closer and closer to thinking about my purpose in life and my Deen. jazaakil Allah khairan dear sister

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Halima Mohammed waiyakum, all the best. X

  • @bookclubforlife
    @bookclubforlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it!!! re-watching it right now...thanks once again dear Sister.....KNOW WHAT YOU WANT is number one when it comes to being a woman whether you are Muslim or not!! And go after what you want! woot woot! much love from USA

  • @tee3556
    @tee3556 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallahu Khayran ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jijohassan6401
    @jijohassan6401 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Masha'Allah tabaraka'Allah sister, your video's are so inspiring ❤❤❤

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      jijo hassan jazakallahu Khairan

  • @emeraldcity7845
    @emeraldcity7845 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah love awesome video❤️

  • @sm-bu9dp
    @sm-bu9dp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is so great MashAllah

  • @justbeautyprod.3808
    @justbeautyprod.3808 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so helpful on my beginners journey

  • @mirajomer1286
    @mirajomer1286 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope I can think like that sis .may bless u with more strength. Mashaa Allah

  • @qamarnawazish237
    @qamarnawazish237 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah

  • @naima981
    @naima981 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    New subscriber, mashallah I love your channel💞

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aww, thanks sis, welcome on board

  • @soukaynabousebha6234
    @soukaynabousebha6234 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashalah ❤️

  • @amu4128
    @amu4128 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah khairan

  • @naida6958
    @naida6958 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sister i just love you, thankyou for your wisdom & knowledge
    May Allah grant you goodness and further increase you with more knowledge ameen x

  • @MsFaiza762
    @MsFaiza762 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ma sh allah sister may Allah bless you with all you desire

  • @sultanaparvin7413
    @sultanaparvin7413 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    May allah bless you sis x
    Im so happy alhamdulilah that i have found your channel💗

  • @sohilasadat6131
    @sohilasadat6131 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha Allah

  • @allah_the_merciful5165
    @allah_the_merciful5165 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mashallah i love you for the seek of Allah😍😍😍✨and love your Channel mash Allah
    May Allah warded you 🤲🏻
    You inspire me sis Keep it up 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👌👌👌
    May Allah ward you the alfirdaws ‏ ‏aleayila Ameen

  • @ayas4243
    @ayas4243 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah, sis! You are beautiful, I love you and your videos. You make me feel close to Allah. Thank you

  • @englishurduculture4090
    @englishurduculture4090 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    im loving all your videos Jazak Allah khayran sister .

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yara Intheworld waiyakum, thank you

  • @rouguiatoubarry2233
    @rouguiatoubarry2233 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much sister

  • @yasmeenshaikh8908
    @yasmeenshaikh8908 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sis may Allah accept every step of urs in HIS cause...INSHA ALLAH

  • @ExhomoJesusAdvocate
    @ExhomoJesusAdvocate 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I give Allah (swt) thanks for you Sister.
    Alhamdulillah!!!! InshAllah you be the happiest muslimah you can be.I am a new revert muslimah;your videos have helped me alot.💓!!!

  • @tee3556
    @tee3556 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wa Alaykumus Salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu

  • @ascha730
    @ascha730 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    MashaAllah sister. May Allah reward you with the best in this life and the next

  • @faraha7310
    @faraha7310 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love u n ur voice n u r a practicing muslim ma sha Allah

  • @muhammedtahir6323
    @muhammedtahir6323 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subscriber and I love your channel

  • @Ck-hp8zq
    @Ck-hp8zq ปีที่แล้ว

    Salammou alaikom, i love this video so much❤️🫂

  • @zarfihzs3123
    @zarfihzs3123 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    may Allah bless you sister

  • @bookclubforlife
    @bookclubforlife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1...Know what you want 2...Go after what you want, work towards your goal(s) 3...Make sure you do not allow anything that will come between you and your goal(s) 4...Never depend on others for your happiness 5...Be financially independent, REMEMBER TO REMAIN HUMBLE AND THANK ALLAH FOR THE WEALTH YOU HAVE

  • @MrArdam2005
    @MrArdam2005 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Assalamu Alaikum sister, Just stumbled upon this video. Its well-thought and well-spoken. you made me cry.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mohammad pervez Thank you, may Allah continue to bless you, ameen.

  • @Dp_modesty
    @Dp_modesty 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Asalaamu walaikum! I’m a new subscriber & i love your channel, already! Binge watching all your videos

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Felicia Henderson lol, that's ok, welcome to the family!😃

    • @sbegum29
      @sbegum29 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Felicia Henderson ikr same I love binge watching her old videos until I’ve acted upon them while waiting for a new video!

  • @flowertchand
    @flowertchand 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am new to ur channel i am already in love with u . ur videos ,ur personnality ur adviced ... Everything on point . may Allah bless u .

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      drea mer ameen sis, welcome to the family xxx

  • @bluelotus2021
    @bluelotus2021 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish more people ,look this .jajjak Allah Khairan

  • @salaama.9850
    @salaama.9850 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol MASHALLAH!!!!! 😆🤍YOU'RE THE BEST!!I LOVE YOU❤

  • @fulanah0976
    @fulanah0976 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for sharing sister 🤍🤗

  • @ShabanaK2011
    @ShabanaK2011 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic video dear sister! Wish I had come across this video earlier.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shabana Karim jazakallahu Khairan

  • @maryanmohamed4546
    @maryanmohamed4546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha Allah Ukhti You look so Much like my little sister Masha Allah I love u for the sake of Allah

  • @sylphtajamul2743
    @sylphtajamul2743 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More inspirational videos

  • @aborgeshonorato
    @aborgeshonorato 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sister I respect and love you. Inshallah.

  • @savanemassiragbe2398
    @savanemassiragbe2398 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really love you sister in the sake of ALLAH😘

  • @anilakasami7986
    @anilakasami7986 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah, you can explain thongs very well ❤️😘

  • @ummzubayrqmar4481
    @ummzubayrqmar4481 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    As salaamu alaykumu my beautiful sister, i Just Love your vídeos they are very benificial....all i ask inshallah can you please start providing proof for everything you say as much as you can....shukran

  • @neematm8266
    @neematm8266 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have goals but a lot of them seem a little difficult to reach for me..they will require time and patience and inshAllah money and ease. May Allah AzzawaJall grant us independence Ameen

  • @sabihawali1846
    @sabihawali1846 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha Allah!! Why don’t you do a video on a typical day of your life!

  • @neematm8266
    @neematm8266 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:12 Oh to be steadfast like Asiya Radiya Allah Anha. 💛💛 She's so inspiring

  • @canopuslife6823
    @canopuslife6823 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    i loved it so much. you're so cute mashallah.

  • @arishaabdullah6288
    @arishaabdullah6288 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pls make more of inspiring Muslim woman videosssss plssss

  • @TILISMIVlogsLifestyling
    @TILISMIVlogsLifestyling 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sister you are so sooo beautiful ma sha Allah

  • @azzaxx8365
    @azzaxx8365 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos ❤️ #HijabiWomen

  • @khadijahx8047
    @khadijahx8047 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi i love your videos very good mashallah plz can you help me and others and do a video of how to get pass marks for exams and good gcse results

  • @Naturalqueennai
    @Naturalqueennai 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i wish i can read the Quran rit now and read about muhamod

  • @Siminarakazi
    @Siminarakazi 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi. I want to know about istekhara.. please make video. I want to do istikhra regarding my job.

  • @mutiatmabifa1171
    @mutiatmabifa1171 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New subscriber here and I absolutely love your channel. I recently started hearing about " halal dating" and its still confusing to me. What's your take on this? And how exactly does it work.

    • @mutiatmabifa1171
      @mutiatmabifa1171 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Salaam alaykum!!

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Walaikumsalm, welcome to the family. No, I've never heard of 'halal dating' before

    • @aishahprastowo9423
      @aishahprastowo9423 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe... going for dates with your husband/wife? 😁

  • @marziasultana4124
    @marziasultana4124 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U r looking great in pink

  • @neematm8266
    @neematm8266 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about independence on family..what do you think about that?

  • @prem_tamilsiddha8987
    @prem_tamilsiddha8987 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What type of a flower is on the two framed photos in the back?

  • @YAsh-sh6qy
    @YAsh-sh6qy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That hijab color scheme complements your complexion very beautifully. Just a personal style preference. I watch your videos but dont like those very dark shades (especially darker shades of red ) on milk chocolate.
    When you dress with the coco enveloped in your look, the wow factor comes out. Im just saying😍.

  • @NafisasPearlz
    @NafisasPearlz  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks Kawthar; and if anyone would like to see the pro's and con's of being an independent muslimah, pls check out Kawthar channel 'Thirsty Soul' xxx

    • @missyspot4luv
      @missyspot4luv 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nafisa's Pearlz
      as salaamu aliakum sister can please more hijab styles...

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      walaikumsalam, Inshallah I will do, thanks for watching x

  • @jasminedahir9645
    @jasminedahir9645 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah! you look beautiful and lovely in pink 💕💋❤️

  • @hiddenuser8844
    @hiddenuser8844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Remember sisters the only person you submit yourself to is Allah swt

  • @ayshasunaina8726
    @ayshasunaina8726 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How to get your parents to trust you on choosing your spouse?

  • @sairaailia8691
    @sairaailia8691 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sister, I thought we're supposed to submit to Allah alone. Why should I submit to my husband who can leave me whenever he please's?

  • @lebendige_maerchen
    @lebendige_maerchen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7:32 haha i laughed so much oh yeah

  • @khadijahkhalidgh
    @khadijahkhalidgh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    VIP ticket to Jannah😂

  • @sainabousarrkinteh1978
    @sainabousarrkinteh1978 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi please make a video on how to live and cope with a toxic mother-in-law

  • @AliceAshlyn
    @AliceAshlyn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sister, are you married? Can you please make a video advising on how a muslimah can prepare for marriage? I am getting married to a complete stranger in a few months, and I am so terrified that I can't even pray Salah properly because of how the fear has affected my Imaan. Please help. JazakiAllah alf alf kheir!

    • @bigbee3289
      @bigbee3289 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AliceAshlyn what? Why is the person you're marrying, a stranger?

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      AbuDhabiBlogger inshallah check out some of my other videos on marriage, I have a playlist called 'Marriage'

  • @celanesephillips8218
    @celanesephillips8218 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm on my Deen, & my husband is not bt, I love being mulismah

  • @SYED_GAMER_927
    @SYED_GAMER_927 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who disliked this vedio🙄🙄😠😠😡😡

  • @mssummerrose1
    @mssummerrose1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry, but u can't under any circumstances count Khadija as an independent Muslim woman... !!!!! She was big BEFORE Mohammed and BEFORE Islam... plz get ur points right... women under Islam are, have been and will always be oppressed... if you happen to have some freedom, it's because you live in a Christian country... please
    Besides, she was not Mohammed's wife, Mohammed was HER husband... ok

    • @marziasultana4124
      @marziasultana4124 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mssummerrose1 may Allah give u understanding

    • @mssummerrose1
      @mssummerrose1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marzia Sultana you ppl have been brainwashed unfortunately... to count Khadija as a Muslim woman is a complete lie... besides, are there no other strong empowered independent and educated MUSLIM women... ? I'm waiting for your answer, please...

    • @gehadyasser1001
      @gehadyasser1001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes and she still was independant after Islam... Muhammed was still working for her and she was his boss even after they got married she still was because it was her business...but later on Muhammad made his business so he didn't need to work for her anymore and they both used together their businesses to help islam that's why they were poor because they gave all their money to serve the poor and help free the slaved muslims because the muslim slaves were tortured for choosing islam over worshippment of idols...she also helped Muhammed when he was scared after knowing that he will be the prophet and she gave him council because she was so wise...and she encouraged him that's why he loved her so much because she stood for him and helped him with everything she could without him having to tell her so.. about independancy she was able to do everything she wanted..besides as I a muslim girl I am not oppressed I chose to wear the hijab and that's why I am more secured now and treated by men as if I am one of them...because I am not sexy to them anymore so they are talking to my brain not my body... I hope that answers ur question my sister..if it didn't please tell me what's it that u don't get in islam and hopefully we can discuss it together..at the end we both want to do and follow the right thing right?May Allah (God) guide us.I am here for any concerns u have about islam just please be nicer when u talk about the prophet because those are our role models and most beloved people so it really hurts when u insult them.Yet I can't blame u,u just don't Know them just like how I didn't know them either back then and I also thought muslims were opressed but little by little I met some muslim people who showed me what islam really is and that's when I literally discovered everything I thought about islam was wrong.and I'm now so happy and proud to be among those I used to think were opressed till I knew the truth Alhamdullah(all thanks be to God)

    • @gehadyasser1001
      @gehadyasser1001 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      She said his wife because maybe some new muslims don't know her..but there are no muslims who don't know the prophet they believe in right?...just like in Christianity if my chrisran friend was telling me about marie she would probably say the mother of the prophet because I may not know her...that doesn't mean she's not so awesome it's just away to tell someone who may not know a person who they are

    • @mudondomudondo911
      @mudondomudondo911 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      When ppl like you don't believe in God you start speaking nonsense you think religion is oppressing thats why ppl like you have lost purpose of your life. Once you start to question God you are lost. Everything was and is God everything is about God and to be Honest like i dont understand ppl who dont believe in God. That's why in the Quran it says when the end is here They will come to know(non believer's).