MODESTY OF BEHAVIOUR - THE forgotten PIECE OF HIJAB
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- HAYAA | MODESTY - THE forgotten PIECE OF HIJAB - Salam all, this is my take on the direction that our idea of modesty and hijab is taking and some tips for us all on how we can improve inshallah.
• ┇Modesty: The Missing ...
Trying to be modest is the really hard these days. But in this video, i'm talking about all aspects of modesty for example modest clothing especially were the deen is concerned but more importantly having modesty in behaviours.
When people talk about hijab nowadays, rarely do you hear them talk about modesty in behaviour neither do they talk about hijab or modesty for men. I hope we can get a conversation going about how we improve our sense of haya/modesty in our behaviour and shift hijab from just being about modesty in our clothing.
FYI - I am not in any way a sheikha, nor would I consider myself a student of knowledge. I have such a long way to go with my hijab and development as a person and in my deen. I'm just your average Muslim woman trying to better herself.
Thank you guys for of your support and encouragement, may Allah reward you. :)
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Zai Beauty this is Nur!! 😍 MashaAllah
you are the only Muslimah i subbed to because you are balanced you are not angry, judging, ranting, and you are not promoting fenty beauty and dont wear heavy make up..., you are naturally beautiful and pleasing to the eyes...masaAllah tabarakallah.
Alizza Lovely Samonte Thank you
I am a reverted ‘youth’ (almost 15) and I am an extrovert, but I’d like to practice more haya (especially around males.)
Emilie Smith masha’Allah xxxx
same, im also an extrovert your age :) I find that being an extrovert is very helpful for maintaining hayaa
(assuming you're 16)
Samee i converted right after turning 16 and i will be 17 soon. It really sucks knowing that my friendships with males are haram when some of these people have been my friends since I was 13. Please pray for my strength 🙏🏽
4th video i am watching and i can confidently say that you must be a good teacher, mashaa Allah May Allah increase you:) you're way better than other hijabi youtuber out there in the fact that your message is unapologetically islamic and clear. Allah will reward you for your niya and hard work inchaa Allah. ps: i couldn't believe my eyes when i saw your content , a hijabi muslim talking abt islam without pushing makeup products or tutorial...unbelievable lol keep it up sis!
halima diallo lol, you made me laugh sis
Mashallah so true sis
I'm finding your character and passion so inspiring.....subscribed
Life OnMaarz thank you
Dear sister Nafisa,
I don't understand why I discover you today and why not sooner hahaha. I love your videos because they are really beneficial and I admire the way you put yourself out there and I admire your knowledge Allahumma barek laha, ameen. 🌹 I also like the background you set that up very beautifully. I hope to see more content from you sister Nafisa, because you deliver great content. Assalaamualeykoum warahmatullahi wabarakatu - Love from The Netherlands
Anonymous Viewer inshallah and thank you
I feel the same about these issues. I wish more people wearing the hjjab acknowledged they're representing a larger community. It's a responsibility. The news has a field day because of such behaviours. Thank you for bringing up this conversation.
Saarah N yes, may Allah help us all improve, ameen.
I'm a new hijabe and I'm trying my best and actually starting this hijab but the SAS thing is buying hijabe things her in our country is expensive.. But I know I can have it someday
1 or 2 dollars online
You're someone I'd be blessed to call a friend. JAK
Modesty and self confidence are completely different from each other, this is soo trueeeeeeeeeee 😍😍 May Allah help everyone to differentiate between these two, ameen ❤️
Oh, I'm terrible. I don't talk seductively. I'm loud and common although I don't realise it. I really need to work on it. 😂 May Allah forgive me.
We need more people on social media like you !🥺🥺🥺
I am a Christian lady (don't look at the picture. I had to cut my hair short due to health issues and it broke my heart 💔). I thank you for the message! I totally agree that conducting ourselves with modesty is such a precious gift a woman can share with this world!
May Allah reward you and increase you. ❤
Amin
I completely agree with you sister ❤️
Nour Osman thanks sis
Salamalaykum dear! Just recently found your Channel. Seriously, it is so rare to see such a modest "Hijabi TH-cam" in these times. May Allah swt bless you and keep your work blessed. ❤🤗
Salaam Alhamdulillah (All praise to Allah - God)
Wa Alaykum Assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu. Thank you for these lovely reminders. Alhamdulillah I’m a revert for 4 years now and wear the Niqab. I have had so many people ask me if I’ve been to Hajj, I asked them why you ask that and they say because after a sister goes to Hajj she starts wearing it and that’s how it supposed to be and I was like no I never read that anywhere. May Allah help us all to keep seeking knowledge and continue down the street Path. Ameen
Mashallah, jzk for this, so eloquently put, keep it up Nafisa
Salam oualaikoum, thank you so much for the important reminder.
Great reminders sister....May Allah reward you for that.Ameen
Walaikum As Salaam Shukran for the reminder sis
This was a really good reminder that had me reflecting back on my own behaviour. Inshallah we can all be more conscious of the way we behave when we are wearing the hijab. Jazak Allah khair.
You're so straightforward, May Allah (SWT) reward you ❤
Nehar choudhury ameen and you too
I agree sister nafisa ! love your advise and your vlog 😀😀😀👍👍👍
Oh I missed you so much ! :)) Mashallah that was a great message you shared. Please do a video on how to establish salah in our lives, how to plan our days around it.
I really missed you guys too, forgive me, I was gone a bit too long but because I work in a school, its almost the end of the academic year so we had so much deadlines to meet.
Anyways, yes that's a brilliant idea and i'll definitely add that to my list. Thanks for coming back. ❤
I think the same sister jazak ALLAH ou kheir
You speaked my heart! Jazakallahu Khayran ❤️
I loved this video. Jazak’ALLAH khair sister 💗🙏
I totally agree with you and we need to keep steadfast. Ameen.
Salaam my sister. You are an inspiration. I love your devotion
Mashallah my sister you helped me a lot with your video about stop listening to music
MashAllah sister you're doing a great job.... May Allah bless you.
Alhamdulillah your videos are very educational as usual may Allah reward you greatly ameen
Very interesting topic may Allah reward you dear sister❤️
Thank u Soo much Sister
I found myself nodding vigorously the entire video. Jazaka llahu khair sister :)
Someone reported they see hijabi's in these clubs/lounges and of course who are we to judge but it gives the non believers the wrong idea. I've seen a few in a comment section say how hypocritical our community is: so much for modesty he said, according to him he sees hijabi's wearing tight jeans, so tight that you can see their camel toe (astaghfirullah) and that was coming from a non-believer..
Alhamdulillah for your reminder Muslims first need to understand that intention is most important we wear hijab because Allah (swt) commands us in the Qur'an so we do it for the sake of Allah in order that we might gain rewards. May Allah (swt) forgive our sins and make it easy for us to stay on the straight path ameen
I love the aim of your channel! The content are amazing your not any ordinary TH-camr who’s a beauty guru, subhanallah your a special one, the one who’s going to strengthen our imaan 💗
Tazma Begum Thank you
Your videos are so helpful may Allah swt bless you endlessly jazakallah Khayr Mashallah 💕
As selam aleykum sis, Jazak'Allahu Khairan for your contributions. Just recently found you on here alhamdulillah. Good to have a sister empowering other sister! Please keep your videos coming. Wassalam, Laura
Walaikum salam Laura, thanks for your kind words, i'm really happy to be of help and I have a great team (my subscribers) who support me also. It's really good to have you join us, welcome to the family 💐
Love this. Thank you x
Alhamdulillah am soo happy that I found your videos I feel sooo contented inside !
Fatma A.noor thanks sis, welcome to the family
You are a beauty inspiring me to hold the rope of Allah strongly.
الحمد لله على نعمه الاسلام وكفى بها.
Waalaikum assalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu sister Nafisa. Ameen absorbing in shaa Allah.
Found your channel and subscribed!
Masha'Allah welcome
@@NafisasPearlz Thank u sister for being a motivation for us ,I'm a teen girl trying to make myself a better muslim and your channel seems quite good(as I saw few videos now), May Allah bless u
This was a very nice video! Thank you so much 💕
Rameen Asif thank you for watching.
Alhamdulillah, very inspirational 🙏🏾❤️
MashaAllah
Just discovered your channel, you seem so lovely and genuine x
Felt in love with the caption. 🌸💘
You are such an inspiration. ❤️❤️
Thank you sis, may Allah bless you. ❤❤❤
Oh my God yes, I totally agree! Awesome video sister mashaAllah 👏👌
I also have those exact thoughts, like, we really have to guard ourselves and hold onto the rope of Allah.... times are so crazy...
i m ur new subscriber. ur videos r very good . i like ur videos and also i like u a lot
jazakallahu khair
Thankyou sister Nafeesa for being so kind and addressing to this problem .i am a college student wearing hijab...there are other hijabis in my class but i find them to be like in dating and all and its very difficult for me to see such a thing and answer ppl every now and then about the difference in my way of hijab and theirs...and i feel so awkward and so out of place in this time that smdays i just dont wanna cm out of my room ...its very difficult as i am not having any friend also to share the problem with me ..sister plz can u share with me your email id or smthing so that i can interact with u and share my problems. 😟😟
Thank you for your Videos! you helped me a lot, I couldn‘t find a Muslima who explained it in such a good way (for me). May Allah swt let your voice be heard by more people in shaa Allah. Jazakumullah Khair
Mk Ok waiyakum, may Allah accept our efforts in his way
Salaam alaykum, dear. I'm following you now since 2-3 Weeks and I really love your videos and how direct you are! I really searched for someone like that! May Allah (taala) reward you! I totally agree with your speech here & hope that we all can show what islam truly is & that it is always modern & don't have to be renewed (:
As-Salaamu'alaykum and Peace from Allah! In Surah An-nur ayat 31 Allah tells believing men & believing women to lower their gaze. So try practicing that haya modesty as much as you can. Lowering of the gaze is a protection for your heart and soul.
Thank you I am an American revert with a very well let's just say American party past. I have not thought of my Hajib like that I struggle to let go of my past habits one of the biggest ones it the lack of thought I give the words I use, and not proudly I could see my self bring that girl at the bus stop. and offten I don't even know what word or words I may have said, but to now ba able to see my hajib as a reminder inchallah will be the help I need. living where I do is a whole nother level of struggle, so thank you again
Thank you for speaking about this! It will be a good reminder for other muslims watching, InshaAllah ❤️👍🏼
Natissa K inshallah
Masha Allah sister. I love your videos and you. A youtuber like you is much needed. May Allah grant you the best in this life and the next
Chandana Chandragiri Ameen, jazakallahu Khairan
Jazakillaahu khayran sis for doing this. This is such an important topic to address
Kay waiyakum sis
May Allah bless you ❤❤ i agree with you 💯💯
Brown Sugar Thank you sis.
May Allah bless you too sis. x
Ma shaa Allah sister I like your videos
Jazakallahu khairan. This was very helpful😊
great reminder sister may Allah bless you!
noo noo thank you, ameen and you too.
Asalaam Alaykum Wa' Rahmatullahi Wa' barakatuhu Sister Nafisa's Pearlz jazakallah Khair for all your videos (i discovered you videos today, subhanallah I could not get enough of your messages) May almighty Allah grant more strength to make more uplift and guiding videos to help not only our fellow muslimah but as well as those who want to revert to Islam.
Thank you for bringing up this topic; i pray this messages spread out and that our sister out there realise that we are representing a larger community and Islam.
Almighty Allah bless you and reward all your deeds
Tasneem Ekhaine Ameen sis, thank you
Thank you very much for this video. It was very helpful and informative and I definitely benefitted from it. May Allah bless you and grant you and everyone watching this video happiness and contentment in life and also a place in Jannah. Ameen.
Sarah Maria Ameen and you too
still learning sis
Well said sister. Jazzakallah khair.
Amie Waiyakum
Jazaka'Allah khair sis 😍😍 great message to there.
You're so right about this kinda of designers,it is just going on another pace I tell you, I know we may be in the 21st century (which is just a count down to the last day) May ALLAH SWT continue to guide and protect Us Ameen.
Maryam Nalu Mwale Ameen
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Masha Allah your videos that I've watched so far have been great. It's so refreshing to see a Muslim sister on youtube doing naseeha like this, openly and bluntly saying it how it is yet remain so humble and non-judgemental of others. May Allah swt bless you in abundance. Aameen
Sabeen Majid Ameen and may Allah bless you too.
Just like a big sister
Love you
You have such a beautiful soul Nafisa mashallah ❤️ You are highly respected. May you reach the upmost potential of your humanity in surrendering your will to the First Principle of all of creation.
Myriam H Thank you
I completely agree with you sister
Mia Vita thanks
Wow masha Allah sis ! Love your channel ❤️🌸
yasriba hassen thanks you
As salamu alikum . Your topic choosing is really good . iam new in your channel and watch couple of videos . your thoughtts are very insightful mashallah . In this video you said exact scenerios . Yes u r right , it is very common now a days that wearing hijab and conduct not accordingly . Muslim women and myself should know how to improve inner hijab that is haya in islam. Keep up the good work
smishus thank you
MashAllah you doin such a great job.I absolutely agree with you especially these days when there is alot of 'modest fashion' which has narrowed the meaning of hijab to such a little thing as only covering your hair.I personally don't have any problem with a girl wearing turban or showing some hair underneath but what hurts me is that they all call it hijab and modesty and preach it as a recognition of Islam. When in reality Hijab has such a beautifully deep meaning and is alot more than hiding your hair.Love from Pakistan.May Allah bless you.
Just amazing ma sha Allah. May Allah SWT reward you tremendously. Ameen.
SubhanAllah and JazakAllah khairun katheer Nafisa...you have hit the nail on the head Masha'Allah and your way of explanation is smooth and very convincing as it's the truth...May Allah swt give you strength to continue this work and increase us all and make us steadfast in our eemaan Insha'Allah...much regard and love
Khudeja Razi jazakallahu Khairan
This channel should have more subss!!
slaying mochi Don't worry, Allah is in control.
salaam nafisa
you are full of knowledge sister, great
Love
watching your videos 💕💕💕👑
ummrah ashfaq thank you
assalamualaikum sister
mashallah you look lovely. may Allah bless u. truly intelligence is the best of beauties.
Jazakallah sister, your lecture was so beautiful!
I am struggling with taking hijab 🧕 properly. I wear scarf 🧣 on my head but don’t cover all my hair like you.
I wish to do that.
Qamar Nawazish come on sis, you can do it, you've already got the hijab on, just needs tweaking a bit by pulling it forward. Trust me, you will be proud that you did. May Allah make it easy for you sis. Watch my hijab confidence video if you haven't already inshallah. Stay strong XxX
Qamar Nawazish come on sis, you can do it, you've already got the hijab on, just needs tweaking a bit by pulling it forward. Trust me, you will be proud that you did. May Allah make it easy for you sis. Watch my hijab confidence video if you haven't already inshallah. Stay strong XxX
Maa Shaa Allah 😙💞😘👌😍
May Allah reward you I really learn something for it. Jazakumullah Khair
Hauwa Fayinkeh waiyakum sis I'm glad you found it useful xxx
Assalamou Aleykoum sister, mashaAllah very nice how pondering the topic went smoothly.
But about smoking part? I think it is cultural mainly, why to think it is related to Hayaa, I mean smokig is not like drinking alcohol(which is Kabira and prohibited clearly in Quran).
It is not matter if I agree with you in all the parts, Masha Allah you have a strong understanding of the concepts you are handling and presenting and I adore that about you, may Allah bless you and reward all your deeds.
Aichetou Mohamed Abdellahi I would have to strongly disagree on that one. Anything that caused harm to the body is forbidden in Islam, our bodies are a trust from Allah and it is a misunderstanding that smoking is not haram. Smoking, drinking, taking drugs for other than medicinal purposes (recommend by a doctor) is also forbidden and even the non Muslims know that smoking is a shameful deed, which is why we teach children at school not to do such things and there are many warning signs at the back of cigarettes packet. I pray that Allah continues to guide us all, ameen. Jazakallah for watching.
Tomorrow is my exam and I'm watching your videos 😄
Mashallah love watching ur videos...mashallah u are so beautiful sister..Allah reward u immensely Ameen ya Rabb:))
Pooja Dutta ameen, jazakallah
AI hope we have ten million every country like u good Muslim
Salaam my beautiful sis. This,video is kinda, old but I wanted to let you know that I love u and support you. Keep going inshallah. Allah reward you here and after, ameen. 😙😙😙
Zahra Qauomi Ameen and jzk
Assalamu alaikum.
I love the way you greet in the beginning of every video. May Allah bless you . ☺
Sadaf Abidin jazakallahu Khairan
Assalamu alaikum Nafisa, is there a place that you get your abayas from?
SubhanAllah awesome message. MashaAllah I love your content and channel. Its not just you lol, I've noticed the same thing
This color really suits you mashaAllah!
Indeed she looks beautiful with that color 😍masha Allah
You explain things very good masha Allah
Salam sis. Can you please tell me what are the other 60 branches of imaan? I’m trying to make my imaan stronger.
1 Timothy 2:9-10
~ Appearance of women.
"Will" - Greek meaning (boulomai)
Refer to intent, purpose, determination, or command in contrast to (thelo) which indicates a wish.
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"Adorn" - (kosmeo)
Means "to arrange" or to "put in order".
The Greek word translated "modest" (kosmios), the adjectival form of kosmeo, means "well- ordered' or "well- arranged".
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"Apparel"
The Greek word translated "apparel" in the King James Version does not refer only to clothing but can mean "demeanor" or "attitude".
-Paul is saying women to prepare themselves for worship. It encompasses a woman's total preparation for worship, involving both the attitude of the heart and proper adornment on the outside.
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*Her clothing should reflect a heart focused on God.
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~ Attitude of women
"With godly fear and sobriety"
"godly fear" (aidos)
Modesty mixed with humility. It connotes a sense of shame; Shame in inciting lust or distracting others from proper worship of God.
sobriety - "self-control " (sophrosune)
"Sobriety" is better translated "self-control".
In extra biblical literature, sophrosune is used to speak of totally controlling ones sexual passions and desires.