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What helped me is to realize that the first step to having a dream life is to decide you want one. I was holding myself back from even mentally allowing myself to have my dream life. Now I live in New York City and have a transatlantic relationship with a Londoner. Anything is possible.
My life changed drastically, and i truly feel that what helped was starting settting boundaries, treat myself with respect and how that reflected in my overall apeareance
thanks for sharing this video sis. I'm 49 and One thing I learnt in life is that no matter how little, no matter the age it's never too late to get started and having the mindset that every day of your life you're evolving. Life becomes unpleasurable when you add too much pressure. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Watching this in tears. I feel so hopeless and full of regrets. I am 32, no kids, broke, overweight , in a horrible job, in deep debt, lacking confidence, dealing with anxiety and depression the list goes on 🥺 your message gives me hope but I don’t know where and how to get started
You know? You already are on your way to success! You already know what you want to improve and change! Take the few things you really want to change the most and start there!
You are very, very young, (i know what i say, i am 48))) so, you do have so much happines ahead! Believe in this with all your heart and mind and start your wonderful transformation Just have a plan and implement it, you can!!
Hello girly pop, I'm also in a reinvention journey. Try setting goals for yourself, obtainable goals, for example "this month I'm going to lose 1kg" then break this goal into small steps like "I'm gonna eat less bread, I going to use the stairs or try to walk more" and so and so. As you advance you can set for yourself bigger goals. In my case my first goal is to drink 2 lt. of water everyday, may be very small, but I hate water I can be days without water, so even if it is a small setp, it is a step. Also remember that if you fail, you have to try again!
I am 52 , changed my life a year ago ..got rid of toxic men and also family members ,who did nothing but drama . I am now qualified PT and changed my minset . I am at college ,never to late to change your life . Us ladys do go through a shift with menopause. Embrace your change ,get dreessed up and put together. You all got this ❤😊
I cannot agree more. The other day I talked with some "friends" (with whom I no longer want to be associated) who made condescending comments on people who fled our home country due to political reasons. They said other countries only treat foreigners like beggers, one of those "friends" confirmed and said that he couldn't find a job in the UK because of his forieng-sounding name on the CV. I said that's not true, I've been teaching at a UK university and I offered to have a look at his CV (I charge £120 per CV editing job, but I offered him for free). He refused and said "You're just luckier than I am." Excuse me? Throughout my 9 years in the UK I obtained 2 Masters degrees and a PhD while working part-time to support myself. Even with my qualification, I sent 200+ applications all these years and have to keep polishing my CV and enriching it by doing things. Long story short, as Anna said, that's the difference between a loser and a winner. A loser blames everything and everyone else for their own misfortune; a winner knows what they want and work for it.
I’m in the middle of the journey. I started with clothes and dating practice, now apartment and therapy, ✅got rid of toxic friends. I’m noticing a difference and it’s far more peaceful. The work continues.
I always say that you really care about your audience and you want us to win because of the quality of your content❤🙏🏾✨ Thank you for another great video Anna!
Taking out the trash, for me, has been built on my relationship with God, and renewing my mind with the help of Scripture on a daily basis. Truly, to see ourselves through God's eyes is priceless because it ends self- limiting thoughts and cast us in a flattering light, in which we are able to see ourselves favorably, without anyone else's approval. Our identities are sealed in Christ and our value comes from our Creator and Maker, allowing us to believe anything is possible through the power of the Holy SPIRIT regardless of our current situation or circumstances.
Have you ever read the old testament? All the wild rituals, animal sacrifices, and ark of the covenenant stuff cured me of any notion of basing my life on those insane books!
@@autumnaticAs followers of Christ, we are no longer under the requirements of the Old Testament law (Galatians 3:13), but have been set free to pursue righteousness by the redeeming blood of Christ.
I love seeing Anna’s old photos and videos. I’m just in awe…and completely shocked. It’s like her alternate ego. Or not so evil twin. Makes Anna’s philosophy on leveling up and success so much more believable and DOABLE. SHE DID IT.
Anna, you really have a talent as a motivational speaker. We need more videos like this one where you talk to people like this about how to improve their lives. This is really a strong skill of yours.
I really appreciate how honest and open minded you are. I usually can't get into "elegance/level up" content because the creator is trying to present as some perfect person. But I love that your advice gives room for reality and fluidity rather than very rigid ideas that very few people can actually achieve
This needs to be taught to every woman who is 18 years old. Maybe even younger. I didn’t have that kind of confidence when I was young nobody filled my head with you can have anything you want. I later learned and achieved what I wanted in life and have a good life, but it took me time.❤ Great video!
This is what my plan is; this is what leveling up for me means: I want to finish writing my book. I want to keep being slim, healthy and in my case, alcohol free. To be feminine, of course. To buy a basic caravan and live the winter months in there somewhere where is warm I want to keep going jogging every day and eat healthy My goals 😊 Money could also be just enough for basic living. I love Anna's videos 💕
I'm from a very disadvantaged background here in South Africa 🇿🇦 , but I was able to start my TH-cam channel against all odds, in fact the latest video on my channel is on MINDSET because I 100% believe in what you are saying, I myself am taking steps to break free from my limiting beliefs, my goal is to get to a point where I have no doubts at all about my capabilities, I want to achieve so much success so that everyone around me can believe that it's possible for them too!! Thank you for this video!!
Honestly, it's really cool that you decided to follow your passion and get creative with videos. I might even check out some your videos. It looks like you put lots of energy and effort in your uploads. Stay motivated 🍀 #womensupportwomen
I'm currently on the path of leveling up and I have recently started using the law of attraction and facing my fears. It is super difficult to change a thinking pattern or old habits that you dont even notice. I am literally scared of everything, but Im prepared to change that now and become the person I always wanted to be because I am ready to stop living in fear. Thank you, Anna, for inspiring words and the questions to ask myself.
You know what i love about you and your profile Anna?!?! You’re humble and show vulnerability, honesty of your past. You don’t lie, shame yourself or keep it secret. That to me is so rare of people in the public eye. It’s truly inspiring bc it shows that irrespective of your past and present you hold a strong sense of self, underpinned by principles, values and integrity. Such a role model ❤
Anna, I was given the gift of being ''single again'', at my youthful 65. I AM MY ENERGY not the number of springs. . . . Four years single, I learned ''my part'', in marriage failure, moved into amazing self love now knowing love is mine. Honestly, so thankful to no longer be codependent. I am courageous, quit work 9/30, go visit family and friends until Nov 8, 2023. Woo Hoo, thank you for helping me become more elegant in this amazing season that I am thrilled to have manifested. Love and Light Joy in Texas, USA.
What I love about you is you bring brightness even you dont open your mouth yet. Its just the way you dress, the color combination, your hair, your smile...its just amazing
The cleaning external trash for me is leaving behind toxic friendships/ family members. It’s nice, makes u feel relieved, but I’m not gonna lie, it’s sad and lonely. I know it’s just a brief phase, but that’s what it is.
Anna, thank you for this video. I just turned 68 and you are helping along with my doctor. My mental and physical health has been improving. Listening to the negative thoughts 🤔💭 and actions.🇦🇺😊♥️
I love you, Ana. You have no idea how much the way others treat me and the people I attract has changed just by refining my clothing and my social media. I'm addicted to your videos; I take notes, I implement, and so on. It's splendid to know that there are enriching TH-cam channels and quality content out there.
@kc3810 Your mindset can be changed because 60 is not the end of the road. [I graduated from an elite college at a “non-traditional” college age. THEN, I went to a reputable bootcamp to learn Software Enginering because I’ve always been nalytical and able to focus deeply]. If I can do it, YOU can do it. So you continue to do things that your heart wants, things that bring you joy and fulfillment. You walk with confidence and grace, take time for yourself, and take baby steps toward your goals! Greetings from an Internet Stranger in Chicago. 🙂🪴
I’m still in my journey to reaching my own version of feminine success. One of the few things that has helped is working in a affluent area and dressing well there as well (Thank you Anna!) I’m currently working in sales in a museum and you get to see all kinds of people that you have never knew that are wealthy from young families in upper middle class, to old snowbirds coming to Florida for winter season, to other people who are more showy with their wealth coming in. It really broadens your mind on how success can look different like with people. So don’t get discouraged and enjoy the process now! You’re future you will thank you later! ❤
And you live in a beautiful area, Florid, that a massive success also! I'm from part in Europe where weather is crap. My life is comfy, but the climate... don't ever underestimate it, dear )
I love how Anna keeps improving not just her students but also herself! She is now true Master Life Coach of Affluence.🎉 Great job, Anna! Wish you were around when I was a young girl ❤
Wow, what a breath of fresh air your are. Discovered your channel a few days ago and have watched and LISTENED now to a few... thank you and keep on keeping on ( you are making a difference for the better)
Super Right On Time! I’m in the process right now! U have been helping me so long! I know why! The ghetto has been conditioned to keep everyone & everything around them (DOWN)…. I confirmed with GOD I would walk alone! I will not be following these creeps!! I no longer sit @ the tables where everybody look the same! I need the other cultures to help balance me out! For wellness I take a weekend vacation every month! I’m going to Polo matches, Luxury Picnics & having Vichy Showers!! Growing my professional development, joined The Toastmasters Club & some Colleague Resource Groups @ work. I think we’re putting up with way more than GOD ever intended! It’s meant for me to live an abundant & self fulfilled life!
Excellent mindset! There is such a “crabs in the bucket” mentality in certain groups, and the only way to get out is to walk alone and do your own thing.
Im ready to leave my post at the excuse factory and dream big and achieve my dreams while becoming the best possible version of myself! We've got this ladies.❤
I started to apply the philosophy: "do the best you can with what you have". It's slow but works and you manage to face everything with optimism, but with a realistic approach.
Loving this type of content! Couple of years ago I saw some nasty posts online about you and your past, haters trying to put you down... But I'm glad you managed to turn things around by setting a good example of how a person can actually change for the better. You are a blessing. 💜
you should honestly write a book, i would buy it! we’ve heard bits and pieces of your life story but the entire story would make such a juicy book! hope u consider it one day
I have visited your videos (and binged watch they may I say) every time I am down, for the past five years. You have helped me through many hardships in life and I am so grateful. At this point, your videos are soothing to me. Thank you, Anna!
This video in incredible, thank you very much for sharing this. Its true that we often limit ourselves of dreaming small because of how weve being raised, how much we appreciate and love ourselves. It takes a lot of healing too.
I love how Teddy gets up and leaves the moment you talk about having a plan of where you are going........he's like, " I better look like I got a plan before Mum accuses me of making excuses." 😆😄 Brilliant talk, your content, zest and class are inspiring. Always look forward to more and more appearances of Teddy too would be nice......😁
I resonate with a video I've come across IG about sometimes not everything is about leveling up or chasing something. Sometimes life is acknowledging your present and living it. And the real quiet luxury or luxury is having a calm nervous system.
Love that you showed your old self before the beautiful elegant lady you are today. Honesty is the best way to change if aren’t getting satisfaction from your life 💕
Anna Bey you are the most admirable woman on the internet!!! Thank you, deeply. I am so grateful for stumbling upon your content on my leveling-up journey. Everything you share resonates with who I am and it's so refreshing to see such an authentically elegant woman supporting other women and sharing so much about yourself and your own journey. people hide their past and you offer such inspiration by being so open and relatable. The woman you are now would intimidate so many, and by that I mean it would feel unachievable, out of reach, too much like something for "her" and not for "me". Thank you for sharing and breaking down those barriers for women, to know, if you can do it, so can they! Wow. What a gift to the world. Bless you xx
Hello Anna, I appreciate that you advocate for people to go therapy. It was one of two big changes that helped me immensely. That's definitely an investment but it's worth it. The second one was to participate in a big contest around my hobby. I've learned perseverance, about myself and something clicked. I didn't win any prize however, I grew incredibly as an individual. I'm a lot more confident now. I'm currently working on my personal presentation and I'm sure that by next year, I'll be completely different. The outside will match the inside 😊 Thank you for your videos!
Truly those who are not adding to your Life are subtracting from your Life. Subtract the negative and you are left with the positive. Thank You for your time and bold honesty🍁
I have been following you since last 3 years and I have seen how your contents have grown and overall you Anna as a human. Keep rising you are doing great for yourself and the people around you. Love from India
Thanks Anna! This reboost of positive energy was just what i needed. I committed to this journey after your bootcamp and it has been fruitful. To all others put there - Deep transfomation can happen in just a few months. ❤ remember to find places to reignite. Just returned from hiking in the mountains, back into my elegant clothes. Neither I thought could be possible for me. It was. ☀️ We can all become the best, healthy and happiest version of us.
Dear Anna, I need to thank you firstly for being a great friend for all of us, even if virtually, the value you added to our lives is so grand and impactful. I actually wished I received from a mom a sister or to be honest even a friend. Unfortunately, we live in a world where everyone is there to clap for anything you say or do even when they don’t agree. I am at this stage where I seriously wish I can meet 1 decent girlfriend that is also looking to improve and make a better version of herself everyday. Instead I find myself reviewing most of my connection and eliminating so many people, some that are supposedly “affluent” but with 0 self respect, responsibility, and ambitions. I seriously urge you to create a community where all your ladies that are constantly looking to better themselves can meet wether online or even in person in the different countries that they are in. I am craving interesting conversations, deep connections and classy feminine vibes that would encourage me further and inspire me to keep elevating myself. Thanks again for your amazing content and guidance and have a lovely evening 😊
Me too. It is hard to make good quality friends. Especially since all women already have their own friend groups! I couldn't keep my old friends. A few years ago I became homeless so I lost my high-school friends. And now that I made my life into something I'm proud of, I realize how much harder it is to make friends as an adult. I've made a couple of healthy friendships now. But maybe it's better that way, to have less friends and more time for myself!
I remind myself to "walk like a Queen", with casual elegance and self-value, not stuck up or snooty! I also remind myself that inner beauty shines through the outer appearance, allowing people to perceive you as being beautiful! Love you! 🙏💛💙🌻
As someone who was once on a Swedish reality TV show, but wasn't THAT trashy.. I think you've improved greatly. Also me showning up on Idol several years back.. I gotta say when I said "now someone will take me seriously" were more like famous last words.. and today no one recognises me, nor do they care.. oddly enough my husband saw me on TV in an eating establishment while he was away at work.. and he said to me.. "You could have done much better".. also the reason I did it was to get his attention. Still working on that today.. and this was pre 2010.
You are just the best person happened to me. Living in Africa we sometimes lose the elegant style of our ancestors, dealing with the African cultures (which I embrace) but which definitely need more elegance. Returning from Mozambique after 11 years living on the ground, I found myself in the corporate world in SA, with one pair of sandals and 4 pairs of flops. I needed to re-align!
Hello Anna, I have completely transformed myself. Mentally I am on a journey, things are changing. Also my look, I have gifted myself a 'new me'. I did this on the cheap too. We have a beautiful thrift store in our wee town. I purchase expensive clothing for only a few dollars per item. Also, I have stopped swearing, using slang words ( sometimes I obviously slip up, I'm only human 😅) but this is my treat and reward to me, and I deserve it, and so do all of you❤p.s your channel has helped me so much, thankyou from a New Zealander subscriber ✨💎
When a person has a lot of haters and a person is not typically put in an attractive category then the steps to success isn’t as easy. I’m not disrespecting you and your tips are wonderful. I have been hated by my family and by friends most of my life because of my looks and my great knowledge etc. PEOPLE have hurt me and used me and abused me. Sometimes being beautiful and successful is painful. I like to see a video about your perspective about having everything and yet no one has love for someone with everything such as beauty, skills, success, etc. Thank You for wonderful videos and look forward to more. Thank You
I love that you give us psychological advice. Thank you so much Anna. You're one of my roll models in life. Im greatful for you to exist and to have discovered you 🙏💋
Really liked this video. From the first time I encounter this in my feed the focus has shifted to what truly matters in a woman’s life rather than finding a man to support a woman. All the points in your video, elevate, educate, self enrichment, polish, all this adds to self confidence, success, independence, and that will attract smart good men if that is also an addition to add. But all the things you went over are the key. Kudos to you for guiding women in the right direction. So needed when many poor young women only see and follow silly and fake “influencers, celebrities” and stupid people.
Very true that there is a specific way that ppl define success (cars, homes, jewelry, purses, hair, skin, nails, etc) that don’t end up making ppl feel fulfilled 💡
Hi Anna i just want to say i love your videos they are so inspiring. I am taking small steps to reinvent myself and better myself. I have just left a job that made me feel depressed and inadequate to start a job i have always wanted with lots of petential to progress and be promoted promoted. I am also starting therapy and have found God which is helping me see everything in a different perspective and helping me grow. Its only baby steps right now but i feel that reinventing myself internally should be the first step then i can stsrt to reinvent myself physically which i will absolutely be watching your videoes for inspiration to do so. Thankyou so much for all your help xxx
I loved this video, it came at the right time for me! I’m literally in the process of improving myself and overall being positive and confidence building! Thank you for your support ❤
Well I am slow but there is probably progress (hopefully). I am prioritizing finance, savings coz life is hard now. Next is health, I have a list of what I need to take care of like maintenance check up. One by one I will check those in my list. 3rd is shopping. Its hard to shop right now, but I am happy with my choices with elegance in mind. Im more with casual clothes but I try to incorporate what ever I can ❤️
Thank you being so direct and short! This video recovers one book, not too much explaining, just four simple steps, yet each of them have individual challenges. Now, it easy to evaluate, at which step I am. I might be at the step one with my relations but at the step three or three and half at my job. 😂 I can be confident in certain places and people and less confident in other environnents. For example, someone called me ”top professional” at work yesterday. It really shifted my ideas about myself, I had not consciously thought so -> hello, my mindset! Where are you? But definetely, some shift must had happened in my mind because it manifested in the outer world like this. This feedback makes me even be a better employee because now I consider myself as a top professional, I must act like that. And yes, I had made purge in my professional life recently. This job is a new one, I’ve been here only three weeks. I changed because I felt that they did not value me enough at my previous job… so, there was a shift in my mind: I deserve better. And I took it. I can improve each aspect, even my relationships, in my life by these steps, thank you, Anna! This was a good reminder, the first thinkg I saw today morning. ❤🎉
I really appreciate your sincerity in this video. It’s straightforward but empathetic. It really feels like sitting down with a friend. And the content is top notch. One of your best videos.
I've learned (the lockdowns drove this home for me) that self-care for your physical body, your mental health, your emotional health, and your spiritual health are paramount to any other type of self improvement. You can't thrive unless you can survive.
I am always leveling up because I don’t want to stay in a place for so long that I become stagnant. Because everything is always changing, it’s so easy to become stale. I’m an at that “dangerous age” in my career - there are a lot of younger people in the market that could surpass me if I don’t stay current, but I’m too young to be able to say, “🔩 it”, and retire. This is the piece I’m working on right now, where I’m re-evaluating about what I really want, and whether I should take a leap of faith and pursue what I REALLY want to do. It’s scary, but boy I can imagine the possibilities if it goes my way….😊
Rosary every day changed my life. Bible on a string. really praying correctly…not empty repetition. Learning about the life of Jesus, and contemplating each stage of it through the rosary mysteries. It’s been three or four years now. When I first started, I thought how can I contemplate the same thing over and over and over again. it’s never been the same twice. I was astonished. Best thing I ever did. Thanks for your channel. 🕊️
I really admired you for how you talk, how you move and how you carry yourself with confidence. I wish I could be like you, I want to change myself and my life for good. ❤💕
Make yourself believe it is possible and have faith in yourself Heal your trauma's and issues Design your dream life Note down obstacles Plan to overcome them Work hard and imply them in your life.....
Usually what blocks us from re-inventing ourselves and living our full potential is just a simple emotion - shame, which becomes a toxic shame and convinces us that we can not do it, that this is not who we are. We are simply afraid of emotions because trying and taking action requires us to get out of our comfort zone and expose ourselves. Fortunately we can heal our toxic shame and re-program limiting beliefs about ourselves.
Hi Anna - I have been watching and listening for years and many of your video's speak to me but this one- hit me more than any other. Maybe it is the right timing or the steps outlined really resonate with me but I can't thank you enough. This was what I needed to hear today.
Thank you Anna, this came right on time, going through some dramatic changes in my life. Not the first time but these include a lot of things. It actually started a year ago, and now I have a foot in the luxury world, working for one of the most famous luxury brands in London... This is a big step for me
Oh Anna, I've spotted your dog next to you, oh your friend next to you. Thank you for all your inspiration all over the years! You best friend of many millions!
Thanks for this wonderful video. I needed to hear this. I'm 49 and I really need to improve my life. I've been living in fear for so long. I'm in Africa and with all the difficulties it's not been easy for me. I really want to start over and be successful. All the best to all of us.
Ladies, let's take advantage of this community on this channel. Ladies who have levelled up, what tips helped you? Ladies who are just starting their journey, what are your goals? Do you have any problems you'd like to get advice on? Leave it all in the comments below. Don't forget to take part in my FREE workshop: fabulousfutureformula.com/
Want to find true elegance but you don't have the money? Watch this video next on how you can become elegant FOR FREE: th-cam.com/video/g4aZtMpFwUU/w-d-xo.html
Hello Anna, can you please make a video how petite woman can dress elegantly? on every season :)
What helped me is to realize that the first step to having a dream life is to decide you want one. I was holding myself back from even mentally allowing myself to have my dream life. Now I live in New York City and have a transatlantic relationship with a Londoner. Anything is possible.
Babe. I am so happy to have found this video but mostly the honesty you just provided us with that is amazing! Loved it!❤ so change is possible!!
Anna Can you make a vedio of your workout routine and what you eat ? Please
My life changed drastically, and i truly feel that what helped was starting settting boundaries, treat myself with respect and how that reflected in my overall apeareance
I'm 57 and I'm not giving up yet. I've broken addictions, lost 60 pounds and studying. Great inspirational video.
I’m 56. I’m still on my journey of self-exploration.
If it’s not too personal to share….please can I ask what addictions? Well done by the way 🙌🏼💋I’m 53 and in a mess 😟
Congratulations! 💪
It’s NEVER too late!💕
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I love that line: "Don't let the old version of you sabotage your future." When you write a book, I want to read it!
thanks for sharing this video sis. I'm 49 and One thing I learnt in life is that no matter how little, no matter the age it's never too late to get started and having the mindset that every day of your life you're evolving. Life becomes unpleasurable when you add too much pressure. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Congratulations ma'am! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse:)
How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Change your mindset, read self-help books
Congratulations to you ma'am that's a great accomplishment keep it going 👍
I reinvented myself, lost all my old friendships, I'm currently working on making new friends now.
Watching this in tears. I feel so hopeless and full of regrets. I am 32, no kids, broke, overweight , in a horrible job, in deep debt, lacking confidence, dealing with anxiety and depression the list goes on 🥺 your message gives me hope but I don’t know where and how to get started
You know? You already are on your way to success! You already know what you want to improve and change! Take the few things you really want to change the most and start there!
@@angelcraze5552 thank you so much.
You are very, very young, (i know what i say, i am 48))) so, you do have so much happines ahead! Believe in this with all your heart and mind and start your wonderful transformation Just have a plan and implement it, you can!!
Hello girly pop, I'm also in a reinvention journey. Try setting goals for yourself, obtainable goals, for example "this month I'm going to lose 1kg" then break this goal into small steps like "I'm gonna eat less bread, I going to use the stairs or try to walk more" and so and so. As you advance you can set for yourself bigger goals. In my case my first goal is to drink 2 lt. of water everyday, may be very small, but I hate water I can be days without water, so even if it is a small setp, it is a step. Also remember that if you fail, you have to try again!
Girl the sky is the limit don’t for a second think you’re stuck, you can live a happy beautiful life!! God bless you!
I am 52 , changed my life a year ago ..got rid of toxic men and also family members ,who did nothing but drama .
I am now qualified PT and changed my minset .
I am at college ,never to late to change your life .
Us ladys do go through a shift with menopause. Embrace your change ,get dreessed up and put together.
You all got this ❤😊
I cannot agree more. The other day I talked with some "friends" (with whom I no longer want to be associated) who made condescending comments on people who fled our home country due to political reasons. They said other countries only treat foreigners like beggers, one of those "friends" confirmed and said that he couldn't find a job in the UK because of his forieng-sounding name on the CV. I said that's not true, I've been teaching at a UK university and I offered to have a look at his CV (I charge £120 per CV editing job, but I offered him for free). He refused and said "You're just luckier than I am." Excuse me? Throughout my 9 years in the UK I obtained 2 Masters degrees and a PhD while working part-time to support myself. Even with my qualification, I sent 200+ applications all these years and have to keep polishing my CV and enriching it by doing things. Long story short, as Anna said, that's the difference between a loser and a winner. A loser blames everything and everyone else for their own misfortune; a winner knows what they want and work for it.
I’m in the middle of the journey. I started with clothes and dating practice, now apartment and therapy,
✅got rid of toxic friends. I’m noticing a difference and it’s far more peaceful. The work continues.
I always say that you really care about your audience and you want us to win because of the quality of your content❤🙏🏾✨ Thank you for another great video Anna!
Taking out the trash, for me, has been built on my relationship with God, and renewing my mind with the help of Scripture on a daily basis. Truly, to see ourselves through God's eyes is priceless because it ends self- limiting thoughts and cast us in a flattering light, in which we are able to see ourselves favorably, without anyone else's approval. Our identities are sealed in Christ and our value comes from our Creator and Maker, allowing us to believe anything is possible through the power of the Holy SPIRIT regardless of our current situation or circumstances.
AMEN WITHOUT JESUS WE HAVE NOTHING!
Amen ❤️
Have you ever read the old testament? All the wild rituals, animal sacrifices, and ark of the covenenant stuff cured me of any notion of basing my life on those insane books!
@@autumnaticAs followers of Christ, we are no longer under the requirements of the Old Testament law (Galatians 3:13), but have been set free to pursue righteousness by the redeeming blood of Christ.
Yesss so true amen. That has been the same with me. My self awareness, habits, my emotions, etc. He has completely shifted everything in me!
I love seeing Anna’s old photos and videos. I’m just in awe…and completely shocked. It’s like her alternate ego. Or not so evil twin. Makes Anna’s philosophy on leveling up and success so much more believable and DOABLE. SHE DID IT.
Anna, you really have a talent as a motivational speaker. We need more videos like this one where you talk to people like this about how to improve their lives. This is really a strong skill of yours.
I totally agree! I was going to write in the comment field that you are very good at motivating people 🙌🏼😊💫
Girl, you are literally saving my life and to know that that was your past gives me hope
I really appreciate how honest and open minded you are. I usually can't get into "elegance/level up" content because the creator is trying to present as some perfect person. But I love that your advice gives room for reality and fluidity rather than very rigid ideas that very few people can actually achieve
I appreciate that!
This needs to be taught to every woman who is 18 years old. Maybe even younger. I didn’t have that kind of confidence when I was young nobody filled my head with you can have anything you want. I later learned and achieved what I wanted in life and have a good life, but it took me time.❤ Great video!
yesss exactly❤
Younger for sure
It needs to be part of upbringing not an after thought after horrible habits, behaviors, and self limiting beliefs have been formed.
This is what my plan is; this is what leveling up for me means:
I want to finish writing my book.
I want to keep being slim, healthy and in my case, alcohol free.
To be feminine, of course.
To buy a basic caravan and live the winter months in there somewhere where is warm
I want to keep going jogging every day and eat healthy
My goals 😊
Money could also be just enough for basic living.
I love Anna's videos 💕
I'm from a very disadvantaged background here in South Africa 🇿🇦 , but I was able to start my TH-cam channel against all odds, in fact the latest video on my channel is on MINDSET because I 100% believe in what you are saying, I myself am taking steps to break free from my limiting beliefs, my goal is to get to a point where I have no doubts at all about my capabilities, I want to achieve so much success so that everyone around me can believe that it's possible for them too!! Thank you for this video!!
Honestly, it's really cool that you decided to follow your passion and get creative with videos. I might even check out some your videos. It looks like you put lots of energy and effort in your uploads. Stay motivated 🍀 #womensupportwomen
I’m rooting for you
@@_C8H10N4O2_ Thank you so much, I'd really appreciate your support, somehow I'm only seeing your nice comment now, Thank you💕
@@JiaFit Thank you so much!! 💕
Going to see it...
I'm currently on the path of leveling up and I have recently started using the law of attraction and facing my fears. It is super difficult to change a thinking pattern or old habits that you dont even notice. I am literally scared of everything, but Im prepared to change that now and become the person I always wanted to be because I am ready to stop living in fear. Thank you, Anna, for inspiring words and the questions to ask myself.
I’m the same scared of everything
You know what i love about you and your profile Anna?!?! You’re humble and show vulnerability, honesty of your past. You don’t lie, shame yourself or keep it secret.
That to me is so rare of people in the public eye. It’s truly inspiring bc it shows that irrespective of your past and present you hold a strong sense of self, underpinned by principles, values and integrity. Such a role model ❤
Thats her job
ImGe consultant
Thx A
Anna, I was given the gift of being ''single again'', at
my youthful 65. I AM MY ENERGY not the number of springs. . . . Four years single, I learned ''my part'', in marriage failure, moved into amazing self love now knowing love is mine. Honestly, so thankful to no longer be codependent. I am courageous, quit work 9/30, go visit family and friends until Nov 8, 2023. Woo Hoo, thank you for helping me become more elegant in this amazing season that I am thrilled to have manifested. Love and Light Joy in Texas, USA.
What I love about you is you bring brightness even you dont open your mouth yet. Its just the way you dress, the color combination, your hair, your smile...its just amazing
The cleaning external trash for me is leaving behind toxic friendships/ family members. It’s nice, makes u feel relieved, but I’m not gonna lie, it’s sad and lonely. I know it’s just a brief phase, but that’s what it is.
It's so difficult. But so worth it. Toxic people will only weight us down more the further ahead we get in our goals.
Anna, thank you for this video. I just turned 68 and you are helping along with my doctor. My mental and physical health has been improving. Listening to the negative thoughts 🤔💭 and actions.🇦🇺😊♥️
Oops, I meant not listening to my negative thoughts and taking action. 🇦🇺😍
I love you, Ana. You have no idea how much the way others treat me and the people I attract has changed just by refining my clothing and my social media. I'm addicted to your videos; I take notes, I implement, and so on. It's splendid to know that there are enriching TH-cam channels and quality content out there.
Thank you for posting. I really need this! Too bad I'm 60 already, but I'm finally awake enough to step up. Thanks again! 🎉
You are never too old to level up. I wish you the best ma'am.
@kc3810 Your mindset can be changed because 60 is not the end of the road. [I graduated from an elite college at a “non-traditional” college age. THEN, I went to a reputable bootcamp to learn Software Enginering because I’ve always been nalytical and able to focus deeply]. If I can do it, YOU can do it. So you continue to do things that your heart wants, things that bring you joy and fulfillment. You walk with confidence and grace, take time for yourself, and take baby steps toward your goals! Greetings from an Internet Stranger in Chicago. 🙂🪴
I do hope and pray that you get to where you want to go. 60 is not too old! Jump in and show up for yourself- you are worth it!
I’m still in my journey to reaching my own version of feminine success. One of the few things that has helped is working in a affluent area and dressing well there as well (Thank you Anna!) I’m currently working in sales in a museum and you get to see all kinds of people that you have never knew that are wealthy from young families in upper middle class, to old snowbirds coming to Florida for winter season, to other people who are more showy with their wealth coming in. It really broadens your mind on how success can look different like with people. So don’t get discouraged and enjoy the process now! You’re future you will thank you later! ❤
And you live in a beautiful area, Florid, that a massive success also! I'm from part in Europe where weather is crap. My life is comfy, but the climate... don't ever underestimate it, dear )
What part of Florida?
@@priscillas8109 Boca Raton
I love how Anna keeps improving not just her students but also herself! She is now true Master Life Coach of Affluence.🎉 Great job, Anna! Wish you were around when I was a young girl ❤
Wow, what a breath of fresh air your are. Discovered your channel a few days ago and have watched and LISTENED now to a few... thank you and keep on keeping on ( you are making a difference for the better)
Super Right On Time! I’m in the process right now! U have been helping me so long! I know why! The ghetto has been conditioned to keep everyone & everything around them (DOWN)…. I confirmed with GOD I would walk alone! I will not be following these creeps!! I no longer sit @ the tables where everybody look the same! I need the other cultures to help balance me out! For wellness I take a weekend vacation every month! I’m going to Polo matches, Luxury Picnics & having Vichy Showers!! Growing my professional development, joined The Toastmasters Club & some Colleague Resource Groups @ work. I think we’re putting up with way more than GOD ever intended! It’s meant for me to live an abundant & self fulfilled life!
Excellent mindset! There is such a “crabs in the bucket” mentality in certain groups, and the only way to get out is to walk alone and do your own thing.
I love the fact you are transparent and not ashamed to show us your past self with photos and videos and that you encourage us that we can! Thank you
Im ready to leave my post at the excuse factory and dream big and achieve my dreams while becoming the best possible version of myself! We've got this ladies.❤
Need to get out of the "excuse factory". Thanks for this Anna.
I started to apply the philosophy: "do the best you can with what you have". It's slow but works and you manage to face everything with optimism, but with a realistic approach.
Loving this type of content! Couple of years ago I saw some nasty posts online about you and your past, haters trying to put you down... But I'm glad you managed to turn things around by setting a good example of how a person can actually change for the better. You are a blessing. 💜
Just what I needed to hear
you should honestly write a book, i would buy it! we’ve heard bits and pieces of your life story but the entire story would make such a juicy book! hope u consider it one day
omg! i can’t believe the change!! i actually get it now . u really can achieve what u believe!! wow!!
I have visited your videos (and binged watch they may I say) every time I am down, for the past five years. You have helped me through many hardships in life and I am so grateful. At this point, your videos are soothing to me. Thank you, Anna!
This video in incredible, thank you very much for sharing this. Its true that we often limit ourselves of dreaming small because of how weve being raised, how much we appreciate and love ourselves. It takes a lot of healing too.
I crave reinvention SO MUCH but I have no idea what I'm going to do to get there so I really hope this free session helps me clarify what I can do 🙏
I love how Teddy gets up and leaves the moment you talk about having a plan of where you are going........he's like, " I better look like I got a plan before Mum accuses me of making excuses." 😆😄 Brilliant talk, your content, zest and class are inspiring. Always look forward to more and more appearances of Teddy too would be nice......😁
I resonate with a video I've come across IG about sometimes not everything is about leveling up or chasing something. Sometimes life is acknowledging your present and living it. And the real quiet luxury or luxury is having a calm nervous system.
Love that you showed your old self before the beautiful elegant lady you are today. Honesty is the best way to change if aren’t getting satisfaction from your life 💕
Anna Bey you are the most admirable woman on the internet!!! Thank you, deeply. I am so grateful for stumbling upon your content on my leveling-up journey. Everything you share resonates with who I am and it's so refreshing to see such an authentically elegant woman supporting other women and sharing so much about yourself and your own journey. people hide their past and you offer such inspiration by being so open and relatable. The woman you are now would intimidate so many, and by that I mean it would feel unachievable, out of reach, too much like something for "her" and not for "me". Thank you for sharing and breaking down those barriers for women, to know, if you can do it, so can they! Wow. What a gift to the world. Bless you xx
Hello Anna,
I appreciate that you advocate for people to go therapy. It was one of two big changes that helped me immensely. That's definitely an investment but it's worth it.
The second one was to participate in a big contest around my hobby. I've learned perseverance, about myself and something clicked. I didn't win any prize however, I grew incredibly as an individual. I'm a lot more confident now.
I'm currently working on my personal presentation and I'm sure that by next year, I'll be completely different. The outside will match the inside 😊
Thank you for your videos!
Truly those who are not adding to your Life are subtracting from your Life. Subtract the negative and you are left with the positive. Thank You for your time and bold honesty🍁
I have been following you since last 3 years and I have seen how your contents have grown and overall you Anna as a human. Keep rising you are doing great for yourself and the people around you. Love from India
Thanks Anna! This reboost of positive energy was just what i needed. I committed to this journey after your bootcamp and it has been fruitful. To all others put there - Deep transfomation can happen in just a few months. ❤ remember to find places to reignite. Just returned from hiking in the mountains, back into my elegant clothes. Neither I thought could be possible for me. It was. ☀️ We can all become the best, healthy and happiest version of us.
I'm 54 an I'm beginning my best life, thank you, wonderful tips
I'm a guy and this was very helpful! Your directness and point of view from a female perspective is helpful for us men trying to "level up."
Dear Anna, I need to thank you firstly for being a great friend for all of us, even if virtually, the value you added to our lives is so grand and impactful. I actually wished I received from a mom a sister or to be honest even a friend. Unfortunately, we live in a world where everyone is there to clap for anything you say or do even when they don’t agree. I am at this stage where I seriously wish I can meet 1 decent girlfriend that is also looking to improve and make a better version of herself everyday. Instead I find myself reviewing most of my connection and eliminating so many people, some that are supposedly “affluent” but with 0 self respect, responsibility, and ambitions. I seriously urge you to create a community where all your ladies that are constantly looking to better themselves can meet wether online or even in person in the different countries that they are in. I am craving interesting conversations, deep connections and classy feminine vibes that would encourage me further and inspire me to keep elevating myself. Thanks again for your amazing content and guidance and have a lovely evening 😊
Me too. It is hard to make good quality friends. Especially since all women already have their own friend groups! I couldn't keep my old friends. A few years ago I became homeless so I lost my high-school friends. And now that I made my life into something I'm proud of, I realize how much harder it is to make friends as an adult. I've made a couple of healthy friendships now. But maybe it's better that way, to have less friends and more time for myself!
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I had to distance from haters and vampires.
I like my own company
But pretty much all alone.
I feel like I’m in church! You are preaching, ma’am. 📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢
I admired you for being brave enough revealing your past negatives in life
I remind myself to "walk like a Queen", with casual elegance and self-value, not stuck up or snooty! I also remind myself that inner beauty shines through the outer appearance, allowing people to perceive you as being beautiful! Love you! 🙏💛💙🌻
As someone who was once on a Swedish reality TV show, but wasn't THAT trashy.. I think you've improved greatly. Also me showning up on Idol several years back.. I gotta say when I said "now someone will take me seriously" were more like famous last words.. and today no one recognises me, nor do they care.. oddly enough my husband saw me on TV in an eating establishment while he was away at work.. and he said to me.. "You could have done much better".. also the reason I did it was to get his attention. Still working on that today.. and this was pre 2010.
The combination of your sophistication and your HILARIOUS SENSE OF HUMOR is PRICELESS! You're my queen!
You are just the best person happened to me. Living in Africa we sometimes lose the elegant style of our ancestors, dealing with the African cultures (which I embrace) but which definitely need more elegance.
Returning from Mozambique after 11 years living on the ground, I found myself in the corporate world in SA, with one pair of sandals and 4 pairs of flops. I needed to re-align!
God bless you Anna, so honest about your past. You deserve all the things! 🙌
Hello Anna, I have completely transformed myself. Mentally I am on a journey, things are changing. Also my look, I have gifted myself a 'new me'. I did this on the cheap too. We have a beautiful thrift store in our wee town. I purchase expensive clothing for only a few dollars per item. Also, I have stopped swearing, using slang words ( sometimes I obviously slip up, I'm only human 😅) but this is my treat and reward to me, and I deserve it, and so do all of you❤p.s your channel has helped me so much, thankyou from a New Zealander subscriber ✨💎
Anna did talk about clean language in one of her videos a few years ago. I took heed and it does make a difference,it leveled me up a lot.
When a person has a lot of haters and a person is not typically put in an attractive category then the steps to success isn’t as easy. I’m not disrespecting you and your tips are wonderful. I have been hated by my family and by friends most of my life because of my looks and my great knowledge etc. PEOPLE have hurt me and used me and abused me. Sometimes being beautiful and successful is painful. I like to see a video about your perspective about having everything and yet no one has love for someone with everything such as beauty, skills, success, etc. Thank You for wonderful videos and look forward to more. Thank You
T - Therapy. That's also what she said and that's what personally stand by
I love that you give us psychological advice. Thank you so much Anna. You're one of my roll models in life. Im greatful for you to exist and to have discovered you 🙏💋
Really liked this video. From the first time I encounter this in my feed the focus has shifted to what truly matters in a woman’s life rather than finding a man to support a woman. All the points in your video, elevate, educate, self enrichment, polish, all this adds to self confidence, success, independence, and that will attract smart good men if that is also an addition to add. But all the things you went over are the key. Kudos to you for guiding women in the right direction. So needed when many poor young women only see and follow silly and fake “influencers, celebrities” and stupid people.
You are growing by leaps & bounds. You also look great in pink! Teddy is so sweet. I just noticed him sleeping next to you.
And another thing, you LOOK SO GOOD, like a princess, goddess, just incredible ❤
Always so helpful. It was your videos during lockdown, that got me started on this journey. It’s been slow, but I’ve made a lot of progress.
Very true that there is a specific way that ppl define success (cars, homes, jewelry, purses, hair, skin, nails, etc) that don’t end up making ppl feel fulfilled 💡
And specially combined with your intelligence and kindness, is just unbelievable! 🌟
Hi Anna i just want to say i love your videos they are so inspiring. I am taking small steps to reinvent myself and better myself. I have just left a job that made me feel depressed and inadequate to start a job i have always wanted with lots of petential to progress and be promoted promoted. I am also starting therapy and have found God which is helping me see everything in a different perspective and helping me grow. Its only baby steps right now but i feel that reinventing myself internally should be the first step then i can stsrt to reinvent myself physically which i will absolutely be watching your videoes for inspiration to do so. Thankyou so much for all your help xxx
I loved this video, it came at the right time for me! I’m literally in the process of improving myself and overall being positive and confidence building! Thank you for your support ❤
Well I am slow but there is probably progress (hopefully). I am prioritizing finance, savings coz life is hard now.
Next is health, I have a list of what I need to take care of like maintenance check up. One by one I will check those in my list.
3rd is shopping. Its hard to shop right now, but I am happy with my choices with elegance in mind. Im more with casual clothes but I try to incorporate what ever I can ❤️
Thank you being so direct and short! This video recovers one book, not too much explaining, just four simple steps, yet each of them have individual challenges. Now, it easy to evaluate, at which step I am. I might be at the step one with my relations but at the step three or three and half at my job. 😂 I can be confident in certain places and people and less confident in other environnents. For example, someone called me ”top professional” at work yesterday. It really shifted my ideas about myself, I had not consciously thought so -> hello, my mindset! Where are you? But definetely, some shift must had happened in my mind because it manifested in the outer world like this. This feedback makes me even be a better employee because now I consider myself as a top professional, I must act like that.
And yes, I had made purge in my professional life recently. This job is a new one, I’ve been here only three weeks. I changed because I felt that they did not value me enough at my previous job… so, there was a shift in my mind: I deserve better. And I took it.
I can improve each aspect, even my relationships, in my life by these steps, thank you, Anna!
This was a good reminder, the first thinkg I saw today morning. ❤🎉
I really appreciate your sincerity in this video. It’s straightforward but empathetic. It really feels like sitting down with a friend. And the content is top notch. One of your best videos.
You are my biggest inspiration ❤️🙏🙏I used to be an escort and now I will turn my life around and be a respectful musician ❤️❤️
I've learned (the lockdowns drove this home for me) that self-care for your physical body, your mental health, your emotional health, and your spiritual health are paramount to any other type of self improvement. You can't thrive unless you can survive.
Well the puppy on the sofa made my day ❤
I am always leveling up because I don’t want to stay in a place for so long that I become stagnant. Because everything is always changing, it’s so easy to become stale. I’m an at that “dangerous age” in my career - there are a lot of younger people in the market that could surpass me if I don’t stay current, but I’m too young to be able to say, “🔩 it”, and retire. This is the piece I’m working on right now, where I’m re-evaluating about what I really want, and whether I should take a leap of faith and pursue what I REALLY want to do. It’s scary, but boy I can imagine the possibilities if it goes my way….😊
This pink dress suit you so perfectly splendid 💗💓💞
Rosary every day changed my life.
Bible on a string. really praying correctly…not empty repetition. Learning about the life of Jesus, and contemplating each stage of it through the rosary mysteries. It’s been three or four years now. When I first started, I thought how can I contemplate the same thing over and over and over again. it’s never been the same twice. I was astonished. Best thing I ever did. Thanks for your channel. 🕊️
Anna, you have really found your true niche 🌺
I really admired you for how you talk, how you move and how you carry yourself with confidence. I wish I could be like you, I want to change myself and my life for good. ❤💕
Teddy knew where he wanted to go! Teddy is goals! 🐶 Lol!
Anna this pink dress is absolutely divine on you - the perfect shade 💝
Changing the mindset is key. Thank you ♥
You have changed my life ever since I started following you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Totally agree with Anna. If we had let our past define us, then the world would not even have Saints. ❤😍
I had to pause the video to say thank you Anna 😘 you are a really based teacher for woman.
Make yourself believe it is possible and have faith in yourself
Heal your trauma's and issues
Design your dream life
Note down obstacles
Plan to overcome them
Work hard and imply them in your life.....
Usually what blocks us from re-inventing ourselves and living our full potential is just a simple emotion - shame, which becomes a toxic shame and convinces us that we can not do it, that this is not who we are. We are simply afraid of emotions because trying and taking action requires us to get out of our comfort zone and expose ourselves. Fortunately we can heal our toxic shame and re-program limiting beliefs about ourselves.
Hi Anna - I have been watching and listening for years and many of your video's speak to me but this one- hit me more than any other. Maybe it is the right timing or the steps outlined really resonate with me but I can't thank you enough. This was what I needed to hear today.
I like how you go straight to the point
Hands down her best post yet.
I am glad to be part of this community fir my transformation🎉❤
Thank you Anna, this came right on time, going through some dramatic changes in my life. Not the first time but these include a lot of things. It actually started a year ago, and now I have a foot in the luxury world, working for one of the most famous luxury brands in London... This is a big step for me
Oh Anna, I've spotted your dog next to you, oh your friend next to you. Thank you for all your inspiration all over the years! You best friend of many millions!
This was very insightful. Anna always has something new to offer.
I love how peacefully Mr.Ted is sleeping next to her.
It's probably your best and most essential video. Congratulations
Dearest Anna, we love all your versions and your journey! ❤
I really like that you go some kind of coaching direction and I love when you jumped out of that window remind me of me 20 years ago😂
Thanks for this wonderful video. I needed to hear this. I'm 49 and I really need to improve my life. I've been living in fear for so long. I'm in Africa and with all the difficulties it's not been easy for me. I really want to start over and be successful. All the best to all of us.