Wedding Night Advice for Muslim women marriage. First night | Nikah | Walima

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  • @Thebridesamaanah
    @Thebridesamaanah  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    www.thebridesamaanah.com

  • @maryamolaogun8800
    @maryamolaogun8800 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    Thank you sister, This topic is going to help a lot of Muslim women and May Allah reward you abunadantly and grant you the highest level in paradise insallah.

    • @Thebridesamaanah
      @Thebridesamaanah  19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Aameen JazakaLlaahu khayr sister I appreciate your kind words 💕💕. I pray that it is helpful and may Allaah grant your jannatul firdous and your loved ones ♥️

    • @AdamaABDOULLAYE
      @AdamaABDOULLAYE 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      أمين

  • @HooriAngel-y7r
    @HooriAngel-y7r 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    We can't pray for others we just pray for ALLAH S.W.T and ourselves we just make Dua for someone

  • @LaibaAbbasiii
    @LaibaAbbasiii 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Addressing such a sensitive topic.... jazak Allah o Khairr sister.May Allah Almighty help you at each and every step of your journey ❤

    • @Thebridesamaanah
      @Thebridesamaanah  17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Aameen sister I appreciate your kind words and dua ! 🩷🩷🩷

  • @zainabajibade963
    @zainabajibade963 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I really want to get married, but this part is just somehow when ever it crosses my mind. Hmm I'm really scared and I'll be getting married soon inshallah

  • @ShadabKhan-g2j
    @ShadabKhan-g2j 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    So thoughtful sister, May Allah reward you ❤

    • @Thebridesamaanah
      @Thebridesamaanah  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Aameen,Same to you! 🩷🩷💕

  • @weissgoku6798
    @weissgoku6798 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Do the nikah months or a even a year before the wedding . Then they can know each other more and talk and chat and hold hands and even kiss . yes slowly slowly she will be fully ready before she move in with her husband. And know that it is all for a good cause . For the sake of ALLAH. Know that it is the husband's right. He takes care of her and she takes care of him. Try to spend the first night in worshipping ALLAH and Thanking ALLAH . As it is a very blessed night when prayers of the couples are answered. Just know that for a muslim who have lowered his gazes and guarded his modesty for the sake of ALLAH deserves a good woman. ALLAH loves the doer of good. And is all for a good cause for saving one from falling into sin for increasing muslim population and for having children who will worship ALLAH . Be a devoted worshipper and pray for pious children read the duas of Hazrat Ibrahim AhlayhisSalaam and Hazrat Zakariya AhlayhisSalaam. Read Surah Maryam . Give sadaqa and leave everything to ALLAH and His HUJJAT AhlayhisSalaam.

  • @WISDOMLINES7
    @WISDOMLINES7 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Asalamualikum
    Watching for first time your channel..
    Really impressive dear n the eloquency n modesty u maintain in your talk is really appreciative✔️
    Jazakallah
    🤗💚💚🤗

    • @Thebridesamaanah
      @Thebridesamaanah  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Walaykum salaam , aww JazakaLlaahu khayr sis your so sweet 🥰

  • @MaryamSaddique-e7k
    @MaryamSaddique-e7k 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Make A Detailed Video How To Stop Pregnancy With Intimacy According To Islamic Rules

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Is using a condom haram?

    • @khanhamid3744
      @khanhamid3744 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Barrier methods are allowed. They are the most safest as well. However both spouses should agree to it and it should never be for long term to prevent kids. Allah knows best

  • @RaifahNoor-ve6of
    @RaifahNoor-ve6of วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video helps me a lot. I am getting married, and have barely seen him. he hasn't seen me either. our parents have set the marriage. i am very scared.
    i know that we should not hesitate and a girl has to give herself to her husband.
    we are very conservative muslims and girls in our family stay fully covered when going outside.

    • @khanhamid3744
      @khanhamid3744 วันที่ผ่านมา

      May Allah bless your marriage in this life and the next. Increase the connections and peace between you both and give you children that will be leaders and imams for the ummah. May Allah bless your parents and siblings. Seems like a good family mashallah

  • @laabisqureshi
    @laabisqureshi 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wa'AlaykumAssalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

  • @hauwaabubakar2514
    @hauwaabubakar2514 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So are all of these preferences to be discussed during courtship or on the day of the wedding night?

    • @Thebridesamaanah
      @Thebridesamaanah  19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      On the day of the wedding night or on the night itself.

    • @hauwaabubakar2514
      @hauwaabubakar2514 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you

  • @Zinozino162
    @Zinozino162 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I know this question is comin from fear that hopefully it will be replaced with peace by Allah, let’s say the husband was patient and considerate enough to not pressure or force his wife into it, how long can a wife avoid it?

    • @mantis1250
      @mantis1250 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Two years

    • @Thebridesamaanah
      @Thebridesamaanah  18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Hi sis, the answer to this will vary depending on each individual. In all honesty it can’t be avoided for too long before it begins to put a strain on the marriage, unless the couple have really good communication and understanding.

    • @Fifi6799
      @Fifi6799 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Its sunnah to do it within a week. So ideally the wife has 7 days to be ready for it. If you aren't ready to do it within a week, well then in all honestly you shouldn't be getting married because you aren't ready for a husband. Only get married when you're actually ready and prepared to be intimate with a man.

    • @ExposingHindutva101
      @ExposingHindutva101 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@mantis1250
      Lol
      Go to sleep...
      You're not mature enough to get married either

    • @arehman1609
      @arehman1609 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@mantis1250then marriage would not last more than three or six months if wife thinking for 2 years lol

  • @МохичиройЖураева
    @МохичиройЖураева 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    How I can find the book

    • @Thebridesamaanah
      @Thebridesamaanah  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You can find it at www.thebridesamaanah.com

  • @abanam3799
    @abanam3799 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    ASTAGFIRULLAH! May ALLAH protect our Brother & Sisters. Now a days, they do everything before Marriage, and When get married to someone else, then got frightened, What if he finds out at the wedding night!!!

    • @Valvex_
      @Valvex_ 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      What are you even saying?

    • @ProsamGaming
      @ProsamGaming 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Valvex_he's saying that some spouses have relationships off the wedlock and when they marry, they're scared that what if their partner would find out.

  • @adiyaabiltay2391
    @adiyaabiltay2391 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ua aleikum as salam ua rahmatuLlahy ua barokatoh

  • @zainabmohammed9993
    @zainabmohammed9993 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Pls how do I get the book all the way in Africa

    • @Thebridesamaanah
      @Thebridesamaanah  16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hi sis it’s an ebook so you can purchase from www.thebridesamaanah.com

  • @rubyslippers103
    @rubyslippers103 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    There are so many serious things going on in the world. Is this the only topic you have to talk about.

    • @Thebridesamaanah
      @Thebridesamaanah  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yes it is.

    • @Inklicious999
      @Inklicious999 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Something that ruins a family life, which is sacred in our religion is serious enough to talk about and to learn about by those who are unaware of it. And for the serious issues going on this dunya i am sure that those who are aware and capable are doing whatever they can within their limits as human beings. So please be respectful to others, there isn't a single negative thing or feeling in this video.

  • @Sofia-u5x5b
    @Sofia-u5x5b 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Can you explain me why men will have hoor al ayn in paradise and women not? Is it because God created men polygamous and women monogamous and is it fair? Isn't it disrespectful towards women? Will women receive male hoors in paradise if they want?

    • @falsehoodvanished2165
      @falsehoodvanished2165 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Does women prefer multiple partner?

    • @ExposingHindutva101
      @ExposingHindutva101 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      When a man having multiple wives became disrespectful ?

    • @thejourneyofkaiz
      @thejourneyofkaiz 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wt if he is from different religion?​@asukalight-vm5hl

    • @Sofia-u5x5b
      @Sofia-u5x5b 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@falsehoodvanished2165 some women do

    • @Sofia-u5x5b
      @Sofia-u5x5b 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@ExposingHindutva101 it is disrespectful that men will have hoor al ayn in paradise