Boyinaband people want your attention but dont do the obvious thing: reply to YOUR FREAKIN COMMENT! Is the world dumb (not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that that is enough)!!!!!
“That doesn’t mean wheel chairs break people's legs” Great Dave, now you put this image into my brain of people screaming and running away from wheelchairs
Everytime i think that Dave hasn't done a video in a while, he makes a great and interessting video again A great example that quality is more important than quantity
It's raining outside, 3 AM, and I'm watching Boyinaband rambling about internet addiction, studies and statisics with a satisfyingly educated voice. I love it! Also I'm commenting this because it also makes me statistically happier than not commenting.
Facebook is really annoying. It’s just doing things like: “your friend’s friend comments somebody’s picture! You don’t know this people but that is not my problem”
Same with pinterest? Some random guy followed this other random guy you were following, although you don't know or give shit about any of them. (And I know I'm obviously the only one with pinterest here but I just wanted to rant I guess)
And yet he has less subs than Prince Ea who he called out for not listing his sources and checking the facts. I have no problem with him aiming to better the world with what he does, but now knowing these flaws it just makes me see him in a bad light.
I’m so pissed because in the part where he was talking about the Facebook chime getting more attention than stop signs and he played the sound I reached over to check my phone and had an “oh shit” moment as I realized that I just got played. I guess he was right.
I don't think it should ever be just called "Internet addiction". The Internet is huge and can be used in many ways. Social media, gaming and other forms of entertainment are what actually cause the addictions, and those addictions can have quite different characteristics. And remember, stuff like gaming and video streaming don't even necessarily require the Internet.
I have been purposely avoiding this video because I don't want to believe Internet addiction is a thing but finally a year later I am watching it and I think it's a good video with strong evidence.
Emergency news report: after a random TH-camr started that wheelchairs DO NOT go around breaking people's legs, the universe decided to make the statement untrue out of sheer wanting to annoy humans. Dogs also seem to be floating from balloons in Australia, why? No. Just no. You don't get to know why
"Extroverts have a tendency to be addicted to Facebook more than introverts," me an introvert: We know how to choose better since we spend most of our times on the internet -_'^'_-
in a way i can agree with that. generally i spend my time on social media to look at interior pictures or cats but rarely updating or checking my friends (only important people), and i'll be fine without my facebook/twitter/IG (not YT tho since YT is basically my TV now). socializing with people even on social media can be tiring lmao
I love how this guy works hard on his videos, makes them interesting, and maintains a good personality and consistensy when doing all of this. Very solid TH-cam channel, one of my favorites as of now. Props to you, BoyInABand, keep up the great content! :)
I love how much better your videos are getting. You've really seemed to settle into your own style of comedy and I enjoy the heck out of it. Keep rockin brutha
NOOOOO DEFINITELY NOT *flashback to the time when a "cowboy lookin' dude" said 'this is the men's room' to Dave and he turned around and said 'I know'*
I love your videos. I’m an ex drug addicti who is finding new ways to keep me happy and you are one of them :) my mind is becoming so much more fresh and informed thanks to you, believe it or not.
It’s tough because everything is online now: applying to jobs, learning new skills, honing skills, doing work, communication, etc. It’s not all scrolling through social media... though it usually is.
I never use social media actively... Even writing this comment is very uncommon for me. When I actually post something I get a small adrenalin rush because it's so scary to me but also so exciting.. Very weird. I guess I should think about changing something..
Nah man, keep it like it is. Social media will not make you a better person. It's like any addiction, if you're not on it RUN. AWAY. and STAY. AWAY! You're probably an decently interesting person (even if you don't think so yourself), you don't need this crap. Especially FB, stay away. Don't sell your soul!
I can relate, TH-cam is probably the only place where I actually talk to anyone online. Everywhere else I just passively like things and don't really interact with anyone.
For me, I love interacting with people and getting my thoughts out there, but talking overwhelms me and I get terribly anxious. Just now I've realized I haven't commented in a while since pretty recently because of this.
The part about self image is very interesting to me because when I didn't go online that much much I hated my body. But on sites like TH-cam I see people who are confident in their skin even though they're plussized, and THEN going down in the comments and seeing people compliment them makes me happy.
weird person You're definitely not alone there. I also found it to be powerful motivation to happen upon stories of people successfully adapting to a new, healthier lifestyle. I can understand how it has the opposite effect for others though, it's a shame.
Been having problems with this sort of thing but your youtube instead of Facebook or some other shitty social media. Actively procrastinating and being distracted extremely easily are a big problem of mine and I would love it to change, but I find it really hard to do so.
It's always so weird when people say that when you are on the internet too long it makes you hate your appearance. I'm totally fine with my appearance and I'm able to love myself without make up on and without wearing fancy clothes. However what brings my self esteem down the most is when I start to realize just how hateful people are/ can be when you make a small mistake and I start questioning my abilities and skills. I constantly feel like there is competition all around me and I'm the one coming in last all the time. I feel like I have no talent to contribute to the society and I'm kind of a waste of space.
Arcticsnowfox Yeah, but if people ackowledged that then they probably had to take a look at themselves and reevaluate how their actions affect others, blaming everything on technology is way more fun!
Arcticsnowfox Anecdotal, you may not be affected by it (even then how do you know? ), doesn't mean lots of other people are not. We know this happens subconsciously and not consciously. Also, yes, we know being torn down constantly will reduce ones self esteem. This is why when people tell you words don't have any power they're wrong. We know they do we know that if someone tells you you are worthless long enough, you will start to believe it. It doesn't matter how strong you are eventually you will be eroded.
Stop putting stock in what other people think or say, specifically people to whom you aren't close. I know the whole "I don't give a fuck" thing is cliche as hell, but it's honestly true. If you let other people tear you down about (insert subject), it's bc you yourself are not happy with it either. If you're truly happy with (insert aforementioned subject), no one will ever be able to tear you down about it, bc their opinion ceases to matter. As soon as you stop relying on others to define yourself, you'll be just fine.
How person cured internet addiction: 1. sold house and every electronic device in persons ownership 2. buys shed deep in the Himalayas and lives for 420 years until person dies trying to recreate an i-phone using rocks and other minerals in the Himalayas.
I can tell when he's happier when he adds something totally unnecessary yet funny. It's like he's stopped stressing about whether we think the content is perfect and just flows with whatever makes himself happy.
I am a person on the autism spectrum and I found social media really useful in helping me connect with other people where in real life I would have a more difficult time with it. Due to bullying, I am often weary of other people in real life and find myself not able to REALLY talk to people, don't know if it is due to my autism or the bullying I have experienced. I am now just starting to become more healthy and active, trying to gain a social life after being fucked over so many times by people. I also depend on the internet because I have an independant business and I often try to advertise myself on places like Facebook.
SpiderWomanWhoWearSensibleClothes I'm glad you're trying to get a social life again. I understand it must be hard but every step you take is a good one! there's nothing wrong with using the internet for information or business purposes, even some relaxation is fine, just try not to be too dependant on it.
SpiderWomanWhoWearSensibleClothes Our situations are similar, although mine is due to both bullying and not being able to connect to people who don't share my interests, as well as living in a rather isolated area. Social media has helped me find like-minded people and even meet up with them, and as such I'm starting to make more friends. I also share my video game playthroughs, complete with commentary.
Fwiw, I had to look in places like Meetup in order to find people who seem cool. I still get a bit of anxiety whenever I go to an event by myself. I was always the "loner" type. I am also doing community stuff too which is also great.
SpiderWomanWhoWearSensibleClothes i got bullied for 4 years during primary school and now think that everybody is talking about me at all time now I made some friends in secondary school and am quite happy now. most of the time. but I still cannot trust people any more because everybody turned their backs on me and stabbed me in my back. I don't get emotionally attached to anybody any more I'm hardly emotionally attached to my family and that makes me feel really bad because I know that I should feel emotional towards my family. I think that might have went really confusing near the end.
SpiderWomanWhoWearSensibleClothes I so get that! I have autism, and also PTSD from bullying. Next to that I also have asthma and Crohn's disease. So next to having a lot of social issues, I also can't hold a job and am sick at home a lot. It makes socialising nearly impossible. I used to play a lot of MMORPGs, just to be able to chat with people and walk and jump around. It did almost turn into a serious addiction though, where I could spend 12 hours in one MMORPG in a single day... Luckily the game had a system built in where it warns you when you play too much. I quickly deleted the game. I still needed the social interaction though, so I went on social media. This was great! I met like-minded people, who pointed me to events in my interests. I had very little energy, but going to an event an average of once every 3 months was doable. I found awesome friends there, who were happy to stay in touch online, meet up every once in a while and who also attend these events. Later I was one of three founders of a local weekly meeting by and for people with autism. We created a safe space to just hang out and socialise, while having people around you who get it if socialising doesn't come naturally. This weekly meeting by and for people with autism hasn't just helped me out tremendously, but also a lot of our visitors. Even some visitors who never had friends, were able to find friends at this meeting, and learn how to keep the contact going, simply by trial and error with understanding people. Now I have lovely friends who are very understanding of my disabilities, a great volunteering job and the knowledge that I'm helping others with similar problems as well. I love my volunteering job.
Fear of missing out (FOMO) is a social anxiety stemmed from the belief that others might be having fun while the person experiencing the anxiety is not present. It is characterized by a desire to stay continually connected with what others are doing. en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fear_of_missing_out Sources are marked and linked to on the page ;)
ade badani im not actualy addicted to social medias or the internet But its kinda true If im feeling realy low ill go on the internet to distract myself
I always delete my comments or posts. When you say something in real life than people can forget it. But if you post something online it is not like that. Even after I delete it... there is a feeling that haunts me.
I absolutely love this. It’s one of the few pieces of media that actually calls attention to this issue, explains it, and offers/suggests solutions or methods to change or reduce the issue, doing all of which concisely
"Oh so maybe I should reduce the amount of time I spend using the internet, as this sounds like it would be applicable to me." *Immediately opens twitter on phone*
i feel like my internet usage is linked with my depression. whenever i am feeling depressed or suicidal i go on tumblr or youtube to help discract me or get help.
thetruepineapple thats why we should try and get new hobbies. something that will calm us down that isnt addictive(im the same, thats why im saying we). you know what? i think ill start drawing more. need to practice it. and listening to music also helps a lot
+thetruepineapple I don't know if I'm depressed or what but often I feel like shit and I found that caring for some plants I got helps a little. I love watering them and seeing them grow. Thinking that my actions help them grow strong makes me happy, or at least less shitty lol. The problem is a couple plants don't need much care, so to make it a hobby you need at least a little garden or balcony
Excellent video as always. A lot of what you said was on point. I really do need to cut down on the amount of time I spend online (or at least be more active, I spend most of my time lurking).
I found out about you by watching Japanese Joshi ( Hannah ) about 7-8 years ago back when I was learning what "desu" meant. Now I have passed N3 and I'm so thankful for you both.
I don't like commenting because of the notifications it brings. but I genuinely do like to talk to people on the Internet. another thing. I love It when you say the really long words to thoroughly explain it, because 1 gives you more credibility 2 I learn more 3 I find it fun keep doing you and have fun commenting the hell out of everything boyinaband!!! cya.
Well the first time I saw this vid was about a year ago and I still make use of the info in this vid till this day! I'm commenting and posting more and reduced my screentime by some hours compared to then. Thank you!
hey thanks so much for this! didn't score as high as i thought i would at the AIT but! the passive vs. active scrolling thing lit the lightbulb for me. am glad i found your video mindlessly scrolling the internet, but eh i guess there's a reason for everything. keep up the good work!
I keep getting distracted by your hair and thinking I want bright red in my hair too and it's really annoying because what you are talking abt is extremely interesting and I love your channel.. and your hair.
Me: HA! I'm not addicted, internet addiction is so fake My brain: oh yeah? Get up and take a shower. Me: well but this video isn't done and there's another cool recommended video I've had my eye on all week
I'm commenting this because it makes me statistically happier than just reading the comments.
Boyinaband people want your attention but dont do the obvious thing: reply to YOUR FREAKIN COMMENT! Is the world dumb (not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that not all of the world cos I am clever enough to know that I'm not dumb because I noticed that that is enough)!!!!!
he is a man. ♂
Boyinaband Easily among my top three favorite youtubers.
Oh true
how sticky were you fingers after the whole "syrup" thing 😂😂
“That doesn’t mean wheel chairs break people's legs”
Great Dave, now you put this image into my brain of people screaming and running away from wheelchairs
I laughed at this
How do they run away if their legs are broken XD
Aadila Anuar no they scream and run away before the wheel chairs break their legs.
XD.
Not wrong
Chinese kid: gets depression
Family members and goverment: IT'S THAT DAMN PHONE
A. K. A me
TRUEEE
Worldwide
guess who made it
To the ranch
Plot twist: He's actually addicted to maple syrup
True he literally got a needle injected himself with makeup maple syrup
@@erniecholo8527 I really thought that he's going to do it. Maybe he did it, who knows lol
dave is addicted to maple syrup:
canadians: ONE OF US! ONE OF US!
ONE OF US
ONE OF US
ONE OF US
ONE OF US
ONE OF US
I use rescuetime, it shows m exactly how big of a piece of shit I am
I thought you had a mirror for that
or your youtube channel
i love you
Boyinaband Daaaave be nice to roomie. He's a good egg. ^_^✨
Boyinaband roasted hahahahha
Everytime i think that Dave hasn't done a video in a while, he makes a great and interessting video again
A great example that quality is more important than quantity
more interesting*
More important, not for TH-cam algorithms. But certainly to us :)
Samuel stockmann yeah, Like I though about that yesterday 😂😂
Chip Skylark exactly😊
It's raining outside, 3 AM, and I'm watching Boyinaband rambling about internet addiction, studies and statisics with a satisfyingly educated voice.
I love it!
Also I'm commenting this because it also makes me statistically happier than not commenting.
Why are you staying up until 3am? Honestly that's more bad for your mental health than commenting
@@rowboat10 I'm one month late, but it's possible the person might have insomnia.
@@midnight-hq4zg yeah they do that
Hurray for being statistically happier-
@@LaRocheSews lol
Facebook is really annoying. It’s just doing things like: “your friend’s friend comments somebody’s picture! You don’t know this people but that is not my problem”
Your friends friends friend commented on somebody’s picture
Same with pinterest? Some random guy followed this other random guy you were following, although you don't know or give shit about any of them. (And I know I'm obviously the only one with pinterest here but I just wanted to rant I guess)
Ria Love. Omg, yes! I have Pinterest too! Also why does it has to automatically spam all notifications to e-mail -_-
"Introduce yourself" WTF??
its honestly ok as long as you don't friend annoying people
I loved this. You're so into it, check your facts, and sprinkle your surprising humor throughout. Quality 18 min.
very well done, I agree. have a nice day
And yet he has less subs than Prince Ea who he called out for not listing his sources and checking the facts. I have no problem with him aiming to better the world with what he does, but now knowing these flaws it just makes me see him in a bad light.
i died at the mayple (i spelt that wrong) syrup (i also spelt that wrong) part
Juce completely agree
Pixelbyte no, it is spelled syrup.
I'm making a point of supporting intellectually honest TH-camrs like this. Thank you for your hard work.
o0Avalon0o Yea instead most yts just pretend the world is ok
o0Avalon0o,I appreciate people like you,that appretiate Youtbers being honest.☺
o0Avalon0o his effort shall not go unseen
Same now, I'm so glad I found this channel.
"Ashamed of their body"
"Dissatisfied with their weight"
"Lower self-esteem"
the internet didn't do that, but school sure did
*I was never told what laws there are*
Yes
Never taught my human rights like actually
damn right
*"Don't Stay in School"*
dont have facebook...
...still depressed
9 bit Hope you are doing ok! Internet empathy!
how the heck do you talk to your friends though?
Officially Satan f..friends?
9 bit SAME!
9 bit I'll be your friend :-)
I, as a Canadian citizen, hereby knight you as an official Canadian due to your rightful appreciation of maple syrup.
purplebutterfly I second this knighting.
te ; get it
Lol
LinkTheDbhRat !!! Must third it because we have to make up justin bieber somehow
Apreciation is going as far as putting it in your skin i think hes a few steps over apreciation lol
"Correlation is not Causation"
THANK YOU
I’m so pissed because in the part where he was talking about the Facebook chime getting more attention than stop signs and he played the sound I reached over to check my phone and had an “oh shit” moment as I realized that I just got played. I guess he was right.
I don't think it should ever be just called "Internet addiction". The Internet is huge and can be used in many ways. Social media, gaming and other forms of entertainment are what actually cause the addictions, and those addictions can have quite different characteristics. And remember, stuff like gaming and video streaming don't even necessarily require the Internet.
Completely agreed. The term of 'The Internet' has its definition bent to the collection of social media and its websites which act similarly.
I love that you're teaching your audience the basics of checking sources!
And that you have all your sources in the description.
I have been purposely avoiding this video because I don't want to believe Internet addiction is a thing but finally a year later I am watching it and I think it's a good video with strong evidence.
Emergency news report: after a random TH-camr started that wheelchairs DO NOT go around breaking people's legs, the universe decided to make the statement untrue out of sheer wanting to annoy humans. Dogs also seem to be floating from balloons in Australia, why? No. Just no. You don't get to know why
"Extroverts have a tendency to be addicted to Facebook more than introverts,"
me an introvert: We know how to choose better since we spend most of our times on the internet -_'^'_-
Haha
in a way i can agree with that. generally i spend my time on social media to look at interior pictures or cats but rarely updating or checking my friends (only important people), and i'll be fine without my facebook/twitter/IG (not YT tho since YT is basically my TV now). socializing with people even on social media can be tiring lmao
Antisocial Media gang.
Mlle Gisella yeah
@Zhiyue YANG same, I only keep my facebook account for updates on my teacher
I love how this guy works hard on his videos, makes them interesting, and maintains a good personality and consistensy when doing all of this. Very solid TH-cam channel, one of my favorites as of now. Props to you, BoyInABand, keep up the great content! :)
NathanRubin21 he's the "top of the props" :3
I love how much better your videos are getting. You've really seemed to settle into your own style of comedy and I enjoy the heck out of it. Keep rockin brutha
they're also informative as fuck, you really take time to say something meaningful. thnx bb
W34R3N00BZ I think he was good at the start but I only saw him in 20XX something BUT he is definitely great
Dave: I don’t have to explain this to you, you’re not an idiot.
Me: you’ve overestimating me Dave
But I'm on the internet because I've got no friends and literally nothing else to do
@S K G I get lonely while my wife is with her boyfriend
@@jimmynumale5560 hold up
Make friends
@@marciaosullivan3200 it's not very easy
@@Maxgamer-fd7hv going on the Internet all day doesn't help
"Do I look like a girl to you?"
*Pause*
"NO! :D"
I wonder how many people said yes
NOOOOO DEFINITELY NOT *flashback to the time when a "cowboy lookin' dude" said 'this is the men's room' to Dave and he turned around and said 'I know'*
I ACTUALLY never saw him even near to being a girl... Not even when i saw him the first time.
sexy gril
Should have flipped his hair
In my opinion is Boyinaband the best TH-camr
He's really educative and funny
kawah ahmed yeah, his videos are entertaining but I don't feel guilty for watching them because I feel like I've learnt something
kawah ahmed ya
mustard and ketchup ikr
Pewdiepie
@@grqfes Hell yeah
I love your videos. I’m an ex drug addicti who is finding new ways to keep me happy and you are one of them :) my mind is becoming so much more fresh and informed thanks to you, believe it or not.
Hey are you addicted to the internet? Use the internet to find out
*The more you know*
LOL
lol
Lol..
I mean you're not gonna find that shit in a book
Great content you can really see how much time and effort was put in this video! Subbed! 👍
Really? You did the subs? x''D
Entertaining and cares about sources? My goodness
o0Avalon0o ikr
look in the discription?
The source safe zone.
Ahh.
I got a 45, i am "possibly" addicted
I know it's a rare species of internet dwellers
It’s tough because everything is online now: applying to jobs, learning new skills, honing skills, doing work, communication, etc. It’s not all scrolling through social media... though it usually is.
YOU EXPLAIN THINGS SO WELL YOU COULD BE THE BEST TEACHER😂😂😂
he'd be a good teacher
I never use social media actively... Even writing this comment is very uncommon for me. When I actually post something I get a small adrenalin rush because it's so scary to me but also so exciting.. Very weird. I guess I should think about changing something..
Nah man, keep it like it is. Social media will not make you a better person. It's like any addiction, if you're not on it RUN. AWAY. and STAY. AWAY! You're probably an decently interesting person (even if you don't think so yourself), you don't need this crap. Especially FB, stay away. Don't sell your soul!
Snowbudy as someone who constantly gets top comments, I know what you're talking about. I used to be like you 6 months ago lol
Somali Pirate's Long Lost Gay Lover is it ironic that your comment is not a top comment...
I can relate, TH-cam is probably the only place where I actually talk to anyone online. Everywhere else I just passively like things and don't really interact with anyone.
For me, I love interacting with people and getting my thoughts out there, but talking overwhelms me and I get terribly anxious. Just now I've realized I haven't commented in a while since pretty recently because of this.
/r/dankmemes = crippling depression?
xDJan1 yup.
The mods are gay
dank.
Bush did 9/11*autistic mating call*
/pol/*
I ain't gonna lie i spend about 27 hours a day on social media according to a test i took
Sounds accurate
This video made me realize how lucky I am to have food, water, heating, and internet
the clip of you with syrup actually scared me. Are you okay David?
Ikr, when he poured it straight into his mouth I was like "o__o whut are you doing, that doesn't even look good anymore" xD
Hahahahaha
2:20 
He’s never ok
@@durdleduc8520 true
Dave: *Plays Facebook Q sound effect*
me: *wonders why I didn't get a notification message*
I got really confused too
Seeing the fact "Commenting makes me statistically happier than just scrolling" makes me smile more than it should
I like how much work he puts into vids, I hope he knows we appreciate him😀
TH-cam binger Yes. Dave, I hope you know:)
TH-cam binger KNOW DAMMIT!
the editing is really well done
+++
"White matter, not be confused with gray matter or black lives matter"
I choked on my food, that was so funny...
Barend Nieuwoudt YESSS
Lel. same. I paused the video and laughed for like, two minutes
blm
That was some top notch scoffing right there dave, I'm proud of you
England is proud.
Jack Pepper but is it his city?
Plot twist:
I created a facebook account just because I wanted to get extra gems in game.
Nice
Omg yes
I thoroughly enjoyed this video, it's great to see someone putting so much effort into both the research and the video itself!
I don't use facebook or instagram but i just can't stop watching TH-cam
Jars SAME! I don't use Instagram a whole lot but, TH-cam? Oh my, I'm definitely addicted
Jars. Me 2
Jars u missing 1 minuet of slimes or animals lol
#instagramisadicteve
The part about self image is very interesting to me because when I didn't go online that much much I hated my body. But on sites like TH-cam I see people who are confident in their skin even though they're plussized, and THEN going down in the comments and seeing people compliment them makes me happy.
weird person You're definitely not alone there. I also found it to be powerful motivation to happen upon stories of people successfully adapting to a new, healthier lifestyle. I can understand how it has the opposite effect for others though, it's a shame.
i like you
plussized best way to call people fat without being mean
I’m addicted to your vids I have been watching the for 3 hours today while doing my daily work
The amount of Research put into each video is unbelievable! So much sources and so detailed! Well done Dave!
Been having problems with this sort of thing but your youtube instead of Facebook or some other shitty social media. Actively procrastinating and being distracted extremely easily are a big problem of mine and I would love it to change, but I find it really hard to do so.
It's always so weird when people say that when you are on the internet too long it makes you hate your appearance. I'm totally fine with my appearance and I'm able to love myself without make up on and without wearing fancy clothes. However what brings my self esteem down the most is when I start to realize just how hateful people are/ can be when you make a small mistake and I start questioning my abilities and skills. I constantly feel like there is competition all around me and I'm the one coming in last all the time. I feel like I have no talent to contribute to the society and I'm kind of a waste of space.
Arcticsnowfox Yeah, but if people ackowledged that then they probably had to take a look at themselves and reevaluate how their actions affect others, blaming everything on technology is way more fun!
Arcticsnowfox
Anecdotal, you may not be affected by it (even then how do you know? ), doesn't mean lots of other people are not. We know this happens subconsciously and not consciously. Also, yes, we know being torn down constantly will reduce ones self esteem. This is why when people tell you words don't have any power they're wrong. We know they do we know that if someone tells you you are worthless long enough, you will start to believe it. It doesn't matter how strong you are eventually you will be eroded.
You really know me
Arcticsnowfox I don't hate I like it I often joke about it
Stop putting stock in what other people think or say, specifically people to whom you aren't close. I know the whole "I don't give a fuck" thing is cliche as hell, but it's honestly true. If you let other people tear you down about (insert subject), it's bc you yourself are not happy with it either. If you're truly happy with (insert aforementioned subject), no one will ever be able to tear you down about it, bc their opinion ceases to matter.
As soon as you stop relying on others to define yourself, you'll be just fine.
Dave: Scrolling makes you sadder
Me on Reddit r/memes: ArE yOu SuRe AbOuT tHaT
Molez r/wholesome memes HMMMM
R/2meirl4meirl does actually help some people
Pretty sure actually.... just wait till you spent a whole day doing it and nothing else productive, you’ll know what I mean then
using reddit inherently makes you sad
he either had a syringe on hand or specifically went out to buy one for this skit, this either commendable or worrying
Adam Hoskins Then he just put syrup in his on-hand syringe. It's fine
Adam Hoskins literally what I was thinking
Adam Hoskins he might need them for medical reasons, either way he's a successful druggy
How person cured internet addiction:
1. sold house and every electronic device in persons ownership
2. buys shed deep in the Himalayas and lives for 420 years until person dies trying to recreate an i-phone using rocks and other minerals in the Himalayas.
420 years?
yes
You seem happier. Makes me happy.
Mauritz Nyfeldt I noticed this too
I agree ! It made me happier too to see him like that :)
I can tell when he's happier when he adds something totally unnecessary yet funny. It's like he's stopped stressing about whether we think the content is perfect and just flows with whatever makes himself happy.
This video changed my life. Literally. Thank you Dave. I am now officially addicted to you.
I am a person on the autism spectrum and I found social media really useful in helping me connect with other people where in real life I would have a more difficult time with it. Due to bullying, I am often weary of other people in real life and find myself not able to REALLY talk to people, don't know if it is due to my autism or the bullying I have experienced. I am now just starting to become more healthy and active, trying to gain a social life after being fucked over so many times by people. I also depend on the internet because I have an independant business and I often try to advertise myself on places like Facebook.
SpiderWomanWhoWearSensibleClothes I'm glad you're trying to get a social life again. I understand it must be hard but every step you take is a good one! there's nothing wrong with using the internet for information or business purposes, even some relaxation is fine, just try not to be too dependant on it.
SpiderWomanWhoWearSensibleClothes Our situations are similar, although mine is due to both bullying and not being able to connect to people who don't share my interests, as well as living in a rather isolated area. Social media has helped me find like-minded people and even meet up with them, and as such I'm starting to make more friends. I also share my video game playthroughs, complete with commentary.
Fwiw, I had to look in places like Meetup in order to find people who seem cool. I still get a bit of anxiety whenever I go to an event by myself. I was always the "loner" type. I am also doing community stuff too which is also great.
SpiderWomanWhoWearSensibleClothes
i got bullied for 4 years during primary school and now think that everybody is talking about me at all time
now I made some friends in secondary school and am quite happy now. most of the time. but I still cannot trust people any more because everybody turned their backs on me and stabbed me in my back. I don't get emotionally attached to anybody any more I'm hardly emotionally attached to my family and that makes me feel really bad because I know that I should feel emotional towards my family.
I think that might have went really confusing near the end.
SpiderWomanWhoWearSensibleClothes I so get that! I have autism, and also PTSD from bullying. Next to that I also have asthma and Crohn's disease. So next to having a lot of social issues, I also can't hold a job and am sick at home a lot. It makes socialising nearly impossible.
I used to play a lot of MMORPGs, just to be able to chat with people and walk and jump around. It did almost turn into a serious addiction though, where I could spend 12 hours in one MMORPG in a single day... Luckily the game had a system built in where it warns you when you play too much. I quickly deleted the game.
I still needed the social interaction though, so I went on social media. This was great! I met like-minded people, who pointed me to events in my interests. I had very little energy, but going to an event an average of once every 3 months was doable. I found awesome friends there, who were happy to stay in touch online, meet up every once in a while and who also attend these events.
Later I was one of three founders of a local weekly meeting by and for people with autism. We created a safe space to just hang out and socialise, while having people around you who get it if socialising doesn't come naturally.
This weekly meeting by and for people with autism hasn't just helped me out tremendously, but also a lot of our visitors. Even some visitors who never had friends, were able to find friends at this meeting, and learn how to keep the contact going, simply by trial and error with understanding people.
Now I have lovely friends who are very understanding of my disabilities, a great volunteering job and the knowledge that I'm helping others with similar problems as well. I love my volunteering job.
Him: “I don’t need to explain this to you. You’re not an idiot”
Me: I mean I am...
Fear of missing out (FOMO) is a social anxiety stemmed from the belief that others might be having fun while the person experiencing the anxiety is not present. It is characterized by a desire to stay continually connected with what others are doing.
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fear_of_missing_out
Sources are marked and linked to on the page ;)
I tell somebody I'm eating pancakes, I more or less mean I'm eating a piece of bread swimming in a maple syrup pond
Who said I'm eating aunt Jemima?
Wut
One word to describe his content :Quality simply Quality
Fucking love that you incorporate science, referencing articles and dumb humor. You're like my spirit animal
Grante yes, he's probably the only TH-camr including science in his videos and still managing to make it enjoyable!
Im not depressed because I go on socialmedias
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I go on socialmedias because Im deppresed
Ruby and become more depressed than before
Ruby that's what the whole correlation vs causation thing was about
ade badani im not actualy addicted to social medias or the internet
But its kinda true
If im feeling realy low ill go on the internet to distract myself
I just wanted to say that we have the same name
I sold my soul to youtube cool :)
Lowered self esteem?
Insomnia?
*nervous sweating*
I learn so much from this guy, I love how he talks so fast sometimes and yet I still understand everything he says.
Your videos are always so informative.. I appreciate you taking the time to teach us these things! :)
And he's hilarious!!!
S Y R U P A D D I C T I O N
You're my new therapist. 😊
Exactly
Assuming this is a joke, I'll r/whoosh myself.
If you need a therapist, it'd be safer to get an actual therapist.
"Do I look like a girl to you?"
Long pause.
"No!"
KevinCS I didn't even notice the other comments til after I posted this but thanks.
okay but literally i was watching this video and i said to this girl behind me "he's a genius," and she was like "... I THOUGHT THAT WAS A GIRL!"
Hannah Griffith XDDD
Looooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnnnngggggggggggggggggg pause
Hannah Griffith I saw this comment right when he said this
"Sorry I didn't mean to worry you." has to be the funniest line I've heard all day.
"And do I look like a girl to you?"
**DON'T MENTION THE HAIR DON'T MENTION THE HAIR DON'T MENTION THE HAIR**
I always delete my comments or posts. When you say something in real life than people can forget it. But if you post something online it is not like that. Even after I delete it... there is a feeling that haunts me.
Meli iii so... when Are You going to delete This?
Katrine Petersen for a change I will leave this comment here lolol
Meli iii I'm the same way too. I post things and a couple days later I'm like, "That's stupid." And then delete it
2019 here, both internet AND gaming addition is now recognized by UN and world health org
2020 here. The future is horrible.
DoDatDogeDance iT is
this world is gonna go down
WE'RE ALL GONNA DIE! AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH
I absolutely love this. It’s one of the few pieces of media that actually calls attention to this issue, explains it, and offers/suggests solutions or methods to change or reduce the issue, doing all of which concisely
I got 33 out of 100 on the quiz. Which means I have little to no problem ;)
Yeah, I lied on a few of the questions. Just a little.
Ticket Master
omg same
Ticket Master
Lol
48 (CLOSE TO ADDICTED)
I got 80 - 100 which was the highest rating, in my defense, if I'm not focusing a lot then I get extremely scared randomly.
i got 60/100 (but i probably toned down some responses...) ^-^
You can buy food,water and heat *O N L I N E*
Amazon Prime will ship straight fire to your door and I'm not talking about my mixtape
(eyy)
Lol
now guys
Ye sure
My PC is my heat
"Oh so maybe I should reduce the amount of time I spend using the internet, as this sounds like it would be applicable to me."
*Immediately opens twitter on phone*
LEAFY fan huh
XjwoodX GOD DAMN IT
I know, I'm disappointed in myself too!
(lol)
Dave, you saved me. You have no idea how many people you are helping with your videos. Thank you so much.
i feel like my internet usage is linked with my depression. whenever i am feeling depressed or suicidal i go on tumblr or youtube to help discract me or get help.
thetruepineapple omg same with my anxiety and panic attacks, youtube helps me so much
thetruepineapple thats why we should try and get new hobbies. something that will calm us down that isnt addictive(im the same, thats why im saying we). you know what? i think ill start drawing more. need to practice it. and listening to music also helps a lot
That Kenyan Llama sometimes it doesnt help, but i still rely on it somehow
+thetruepineapple I don't know if I'm depressed or what but often I feel like shit and I found that caring for some plants I got helps a little. I love watering them and seeing them grow. Thinking that my actions help them grow strong makes me happy, or at least less shitty lol. The problem is a couple plants don't need much care, so to make it a hobby you need at least a little garden or balcony
Lowlandweller _ i only have one houseplant and its currently dying lmao
if you’re up at 2 am watching youtube, you're addicted.
wait... thats what im doing
11pm but I'm thinking 3am will be a good sleep
O0of
@@ajaxtanner874 I stayed up until 3 a.m. in a half watching his videos
12:17 yep but test says I'm not soooooooo I'm fine
4am, thank you. I can't sleep after that.
I *really* like how Dave pronounces his k-sounds
a blob of butter I like how he exists
a blob of butter so normally
a blob of butter I like how English people say "talk". It's just pleasant to me
nice pic
OfDeadDestruction we say it sorta like tak
You have earned my subscription with the power of memes!
Mom: Your addicted
Me : Look at my screen
Mom: ...
Me: I have crippling depression.
thats my dad lol
@@liviajohnson4918 you have a dad?
Pfft...
@@daniloking223 true
2:22
welcome to Canada.
The big Drummy I have maple syrup coursing through my veins.
This is the reason I will never go to Canada.
In Canada, we don't have vampire problems. They all die due to maple syrup not being good enough blood
Excellent video as always. A lot of what you said was on point. I really do need to cut down on the amount of time I spend online (or at least be more active, I spend most of my time lurking).
*Jerking
I found out about you by watching Japanese Joshi ( Hannah ) about 7-8 years ago back when I was learning what "desu" meant. Now I have passed N3 and I'm so thankful for you both.
I don't like commenting because of the notifications it brings. but I genuinely do like to talk to people on the Internet. another thing. I love It when you say the really long words to thoroughly explain it, because
1 gives you more credibility
2 I learn more
3 I find it fun
keep doing you and have fun commenting the hell out of everything boyinaband!!! cya.
*n o t i f i c a t i o n*
Notification squad what up?
Jonathan Dubinsky that's so mean stop commenting
Kinda ironic isn't it?
SaryanS okay
That maple syrup scene was triggering.
Vivienne Gucwa I liked it GOT TO HAVE MY SYRUP 😠
Vivienne Gucwa are you Canadian
Realy it just made me want waffles.
Yeah, I also started craving waffles.
He protecc
He attacc
But most importantly...
He addicc
Boi he also be thicc. Probably not, though. Don't get your hopes up.
Boyinaband: comenting gives you mor happyness then scrolling through comments.
Me: nah this cured ma depression😂
I put that before reading this, totally agree
he a dick?
how exactly does attack rhyme with addict?
Well the first time I saw this vid was about a year ago and I still make use of the info in this vid till this day! I'm commenting and posting more and reduced my screentime by some hours compared to then. Thank you!
Honestly, hearing him talk for 20 min is just like an ASMR video, he could be talking about poop for all I care.
Thatt so funny and true.
Yeah I fell asleep watching this so I'm currently rewatching it
lol im not addicted
what day is it?
*me*
Uhm, look it up?
i was going to roast you but i realise you will prbly comment and ppl will start to critisice.
2nd January 2022
Eight-day
Wait am I addicted to air then
Hey I’m Pete Wenz from My Chemical Romance omg 😂
Let’s hope so
Hey I’m Pete Wenz from My Chemical Romance I LOVE YOUR NAME
I luv your name
Hey I’m Pete Wenz from My Chemical Romance well... I guess so, I mean, you literally can’t live without it...
hey thanks so much for this! didn't score as high as i thought i would at the AIT but! the passive vs. active scrolling thing lit the lightbulb for me. am glad i found your video mindlessly scrolling the internet, but eh i guess there's a reason for everything. keep up the good work!
I keep getting distracted by your hair and thinking I want bright red in my hair too and it's really annoying because what you are talking abt is extremely interesting and I love your channel.. and your hair.
Mobs_destroyer i think red can go with any hair unless you bald
" Internet Addiction can cause insomnia "
Its midnight and I have school tomorrow but let's keep watching
How's school going for you?
Me: HA! I'm not addicted, internet addiction is so fake
My brain: oh yeah? Get up and take a shower.
Me: well but this video isn't done and there's another cool recommended video I've had my eye on all week
agsdkjbvgh me right now i'm offended
Jean Fox thats just procrastination
Why is this relatable, I DONT WANT IT TO BE, BUT IT IS
God damn it I'm supposed to be asleep rn.
It's 10:07 PM. I usually sleep at like 11:00. 11:00 AM :D
13:08, little did Dave know he'd predict the future
Orange Jimin
I love your pfp!
How did he predict the future? That was a saying too back then, duh
I am internet addicted because of you
I smell a love song here
ahahaha yup
Today I deleted Instagram and signed out of Facebook.
Life needs to be lived.
Jahmazmine I have Facebook I've been on it for about 30 mins and it's existed for 3 years........ I might be addicted
damn you're so cool dude
I don't use facebook, but i could get rid of instagram. TH-cam is what i spend too much time on tho.
yep I just quit insta too , yesterday . But its hard to quit YT because so much of my daily life is affected by it
"Would you rather have basic utilities or internet?"
Sorry internet but I like drinking water.
same
My addiction is not Internet... It's computers themselves... I do everything there, my future lies in there, is it a good thing? Yeah!
BASIC UTILITIES BYE BYE INTERNET
Well you could just buy water at a local store,
Bye Bye, Web
Thank you for making this video! I set a TH-cam limit for 20 minutes after watching this & realizing it was literally siphoning hours of my day...