How Do Chinese Moms Make Their Children the Elite of the Planet?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ก.ย. 2024
- In China, they consider Western parents too lax. These Chinese mothers are nicknamed “tiger mothers”: they overload their children with lessons, called upon to sacrifice everything in an unbearable race for success
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Chinese family speaking English,then there's french translation with English voiceovers. This is what you call 'Lost in translation'😒😂
I know right!?
the family speaks in french
Actually the translation is not that bad, also the family speaks English and French, the documentary originally was French. So this is the first „real“ translation
@kristintalia6978 At 3:31, the boy is clearly speaking English. They are a bi-lingual family.
I disagree with this parenting method. Kids are only kids once. Let them be kids not slaves. Let them find their own passion and let them work hard at it. They don't need to be masters at numerous things, its too taxing.
I concur at the same time think this style of parenting is a lot more effective than the normal American standard.
@@LuDimezofKush Parenting depends on you morals and values too and that is, the Amish or Christians will have different parenting method than the atheists or liberal parents! Greta Thunberg is one of the product of liberal parents! Society is only functional when we develop interest out of our own.
@@LuDimezofKush right as an American I agree this way of parenting is more effective an beneficial that's why us Americans losing an their ahead cuz of the laziness complaining an excuse , at least they letting us know how to get ahead not keeping us in the blind thanks so now I'm going to use this with my own twist on my children
When it comes to teenage boys, better for them to be as slaves than be sex offenders
@TempleofBrendaSong The fact you think those are the only 2 options for boys (that's all you mentioned), shows how twisted and s exist you are. God forbid you have sons! They will destroy you.
This is not some trend. This is the norm in every Asian household. Elite or not. Rich or not. I am not saying this is right but a documentary like this is like filming a documentary of an American eating a cheeseburger.
Yawn the American fast food jokes are really old
you mean undisiciplined and being a couch potato
@@soleil5923Old yet accurate. USA obesity levels are through the roof.
The second they LEARN critical thinking, is when they quit this.
Wonder how they turned out. Usually these docs are years old
Poor kids. I feel bad for them. Sometimes I think the parents do this for they’re own benefit and fame.
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What you see is only one-sided things.
Anxiety
Depression
Ptsd
Emotional neglect
I feel like these kids could turn out 2 ways. one is that they continue to push themselves to go above and beyond with activities such as swimming laps before sunrise, exercising, studying or working 12 hours a day, they will certainly be a success in the governments eye. Then theres a possibility that after years of going the extra mile and having to be compared to students older than they, having constant pressure and stress, that the student will quit extra activities or if life becomes difficult they may get burned out and may stop caring and feel like they need a break from constantly being pushed to be better.
this type of parenting leads childrern to excel in studies but at the same time make them less emotionally balance too much works leads to mental unstability just like a machine heats up after too much running. never pressure yourself to achieve a target which you know can not be achievable only leads to depression
its so true a chines friend i now had similar upbringing and sadly now as an adult is delving into dark sexuality that i can tell she isn't really happy to go in for but seems ok about it......
This is a dangerous parenting method. Your children will be top of the class, but will hate you once they realize that you took the joy of their childhood.
for sure their childhood and lifestyle is better than yours
Childhood is in the past, all you really have is the future so it’s better to invest in that
Nothing more evil in this world than beinng willing to do anything to let your children get ahead. It is the fundamental root of most of the evil in our society.
High suicide also
Is that true
@@jesusgutierrez6041 0h dear!
@@stephaniedegange2737 😧shocker
The one thing I want my children to learn is that love is conditional.
you love your child only if? wow
@@stephaniedegange2737 Because they will be better prepared for the real world then, especially since the adult world (and certainly in the workplace) is fickle, or otherwise loves people only if.
I might still let my kids find their own passions, however.
They’re not hardly elite
Can you train your kids to be faster than Usain Bolt? Maybe smarter than Terence Tao? No? This parenting comes from a society lacking opportunities?
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I don’t understand the negative comments and that’s the difference between those who are successful and those who just get by to survive. I’m sure they’ll thank her later. Children need to be taught while they’re young so they become accustomed to high standards. As they become older life will become much easier .
I did exactly the opposite with my kids, they are now "Rocket Scientists" that didn't turn out too badly, did it?
So basically you left it up to chance. This mother is being an active mother that is taking fate into her own hands. I live in a predominantly Korean neighborhood and the children of this type of upbringing live good lives.
@@MOTIVATIONBYDAR Not exactly, they were tested as gifted at a very young age, therefore no intervention was needed, however no amount of intervention would turn an ordinary child into a genius. For a parent to think they can train a child into the level is unrealistic and put undue pressure on the child. That is just cruel. Every parent hopes their child is capable of being gifted just by pressuring them, that is simply not the case.
I couldnt hear the boy talk over the translator,was still interesting to watch.
I love the straight up man voice for the boy
I do not agree about this education method. The talent comes from God even if this mother desperately wants her kids become Einstein.
I agree
FREE HONG KONG!!!!!
don't think they brushed their teeth or ate breakfast
so boring , could not watch till the end, this mother needs her own life and her own activity.
These kids being translated with an adult voice 🤣🤣 Ironic, because they're actually treated like adults there.
Free Hongkong..!
Le metier de parents cest le plus difficile car on eduque par rapport a nos ideaux nos passes nos reves par rapport ce que on est nous meme et cela malgre nous
Tout éducation est parfaite lorsque ca cree des adultes heureux
at least they give them wine so they can cope with this shit
What’s the name of the mother book?
Life is not about scores, every parent has once the parenting experience, because every child is different, in this gaming era parents need to spend more time with them, it is a great chance to introduce their thoughts and love, respect one another, communication is the most important thing to learn for both sides, we treasure the most of the childhood moments, they are the honey dews in the bitter days of life, it is important to let the kids know that they are loved and always, balance is the key, camouflage is the survival skill in all froms
As opposed to the coddling and helicopter parenting method that has destroyed the foundation of our society. It seems our culture can’t find a middle ground.
@@LuDimezofKush yes we are struggling, the truth is faith, we need an open mind and arms to embrace the west
@ Panda Will ..BALANCE is definitely one of the key traits that I teach my children as well. I appreciate your comment in it's entirety.
@@S.Pri8 glad you feel the same, may you have a blessing year 🙏
what you like to do is not the same as what this kids like to do in their life. your upbringing makes you biased
This is why I couldn’t be with a chinese woman our methods of teaching and raising are completely different.
I am seeing a too-confident mother with two children who need a well-needed break, and childhood to develop their personality, and find things that they really love without having to think about the next assignment they have to do. I hope when the twins grow up and finally move out, they'll be able to experience things that they didn't during their childhood
to everyone complaining at least most of this kids will have a job and pay themselves a house or an apartment. sure beats the streets.
Teaching your children to be proper slaves.
@@kakusei3672 homeless rate in America is much higher than in Japan,South Korea, China,Singapore
@@kakusei3672 If they started businesses and do well for themselves, will you retract your statement?
@@bigzclipz5104 China overbuilt housing, Japan and South Korea both have aging populations...
@@A350Airways private companies in China over built and the government let them failed to teach them a lesson that this isn’t America
Les enfants c'est pas des robots!! Ils doivent s'ennuillez pour développer leurs créativités, leur réflections et leur questionnements. Ce genre d'éducation peut provoquer des psychoses délétères à l'âge adultes.
What is the book the mom is publishing?
It’s called The Roar of the Tiger Cubs
The Italian subtitles please...Grazie Mille.
Je contente que la petite fille ce rebelle et veuille choisir sa vie bravo, j étais triste pour elle, suite a l exercice avec le prof de français
What are they now??
There is a pretty huge problem with this form of parenting and it’s that it constricts a child to their parents or society’s desires. That in turn restricts a child’s mind and imagination, and more often than not they fail when they have to leave those parameters and think without structure. I’ve seen this first hand. For reference, I’m a young college student and in 2023 I attended a legal summer camp at a top university. There I found a lot of students who grew up in these types of households and a lot who didn’t. More often than not the “tiger” kids would excel at multiple choice questions and reading basic legal material but they would fall apart completely when it came time to actually argue a case or move beyond what was established for them. I still remember mock trial where I watched multiple of these types of kids bomb completely either because they were overconfident and didn’t prepare or because they just outright failed to deliver a good argument.
I think this was likely due to a lack of guidance and creativity. Most tiger kids are raised with constant handholding and coddling that smothers them over time. They become complacent within systems that they understand and excel in while more often than not failing to move beyond them and explore new possibilities. It’s part of the reason why China (a country notorious for tiger parenting) produces far fewer major innovations and Nobel laureates than the west or other Asian countries. It’s not because China is dumber, it’s because their kids lack the ability to think outside of the box because it was never a priority in their education. They became skilled at paper work, basic research, and solving multiple choice problems but aren’t so good at exploring possibilities, creative thinking, or moving beyond established concepts all of which you need for innovation.
Lastly, constricting your child can do some serious damage to their mental health. The pressure to succeed and the constraints imposed by parents can drive many kids into depression or worse. It’s often a counter intuitive method of parenting in this regard because if you’re putting the well-being of your child at risk you’ve already failed as a parent regardless of their success. Happiness has to balance success otherwise it will be hollow and ultimately meaningless, leaving the child with a fairly miserable life all for the parents own gratification.
That's a bit much but jeez I hope she bred winners for her sake....
"Elite of the planet"? Sounds like Adolf Hitler talk...
Starting with A,ending with a F?
If she cared, she would have had them in her 20s and not 40s
Ils ont dix ans donc elle les a eu dans sa trentaine
to be honest i would wake my child at 5:00am but he needs early night 7:00am - 7:30pm restful sleep to have happy mind - will find a way to cram everything in over the weekend
Me preocupa la falta de tolerancia a la frustración, esta forma de estudiar esta demasiado hecho a hacer personas sin pensamiento crítico, sin creatividad sin estabilidad emocional
Luarbiasa
No having technology is going to screw them over.
If y'all could see my face watching this. It's stuck. I forgot it could make movement.😦
Im Vietnamese. And why is there a french translation
La voix off est hyper subjectif par contre
Que deviennent les enfants ?
SOCRAE BLU ! 😪😪😪😪😪
I love this
Raised to wage 😂
The English speaking voice over is very annoying. She should try to speak more naturally.
You should make documentary about Deadliest Journey:Malaysia
Studies over the years has shown that the Chinese have the highest IQ levels throughout the world. The Chinese average IQ comes out at around 105, the Europeans around 102 and the Afro-Caribeans around 93.
IQ doesn't mean anything
Who ever has access to the most resources will have th highest IQ
IQ isn't genetic
IQ tests are designed to measure a person's potential. It does not take into account other very important factors like ambition, motivation, opportunity, the ability to think clearly under pressure etc.
@@Thunders6381 So you state that IQ has no genetic relationship to it, may I suggest you do some research on this subject.
@@Thunders6381 You are exceedingly wide of the mark here with your reply.
I would suggest you do some research buddy. This has already been debunked
the mother is pure evil , disgusting