Empowering Singles Night at Change Church: Real Talk with Dr. Dharius Daniels, Anthony O'Neal & More
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- 🔥 *Welcome to Singles Night at Change Church!* 🔥
Join us for an unforgettable evening at @ChangeChurchGlobal in Atlanta, GA! This dynamic and honest conversation, based on biblical truths and real-life experiences, took place in front of a SOLD OUT crowd. Don't miss out on these insights and perspectives on love, relationships, and faith! 💖✨
📅 Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction
02:00 - Welcome and Opening Remarks
04:15 - Introduction of Panelists
06:30 - Topic: The Importance of Clarity in Relationships
10:45 - Panelist Introductions and Backgrounds
14:30 - Discussion: Challenges of Being Single in the Modern World
18:50 - Panel Discussion: Balancing Career and Relationships
24:10 - Q&A: How to Approach Dating in a Healthy Way
30:00 - Guest Insights: Dr. Dharius Daniels on Biblical Relationship Principles
35:20 - Anthony O'Neal's Perspective on Financial Stability in Relationships
40:45 - Leticia & Rod Gardner Share Their Love Story
46:30 - Amber Hemphill on Navigating Single Motherhood and Dating
52:15 - Interactive Segment: Audience Questions and Panel Responses
58:45 - Break
1:00:45 - Rejoining: Deep Dive into Emotional Health and Dating
1:05:20 - Corey Arvinger on the Role of Community in Finding Love
1:11:00 - Addressing Common Relationship Myths
1:16:45 - Practical Tips for Building Strong Relationships
1:22:30 - Panel Discussion: The Role of Faith in Relationships
1:28:15 - Audience Q&A
1:33:40 - Guest Sharing: Overcoming Relationship Challenges
1:40:20 - Encouragement for Singles from Pastor Darius Daniels
1:46:00 - Final Thoughts and Takeaways
1:51:30 - Closing Remarks and Prayer
1:55:00 - Outro and Upcoming Events
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- [Anisa Brenee]( / anisabrenee )
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1 Month 25 days, we were married by the Justice of the Peace. God told me with a Budweiser in my hand; when she walked in: "There's your Wife" she got her beer and left. 2- weeks later we met face to face, 1 Month 25 days later we were Married. 34 Years later I love my Godly Gift more then Life itself. (I/We Heard God)
Woooowww!!!!!!!!! Amen and Amen When it's God ordained , you will know
Amen, indeed 🙌
@@wywy4803 Amen, indeed 🙌
My goodness. What a beautiful story.
Were yall at a bar? I’m just curious bc a lot of ppl say you won’t meet your husband/wife in a bar
“Singleness is not a curse and marriage isn’t a right.” Love this.
Amen to the heavens!!!
The majority of women ain't worried bout no $100 first date.. real women wanna find out who you are and walk that out
Facts. What is $100😂😂😂
That man seems a little bitter. He’s finding a problem with everything like he has some healing to do. We all do but it’s giving very negative.
Real talk..I just don't understand because I've never thought about how much a man spent on date
@@gabriellasabertiniI thought I was the only one who got that vibe as well. Thanks for saying it ❤
@@kellyjordan84 no I felt this strongly! I love men and I want all of them to feel safe and express themselves. I just felt he kept bringing up things that weren’t moving us forward.
Thank you so much for having me on the show! Such an honor.
You had the ladies upset Anthony 🤣
You knew the assignment
Hope we get to see you again! On Dear Future Wifey perhaps?
Thank you for your transparency
This man😂😂❤
Anthony’s comments may not be popular but they are real. I can hear his growth in his answers. This was very important and needed dialogue…especially in the church. Each panelist gave insightful commentary. Great job to all!!
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Singleness isn't a curse; Marriage isnt a right 👏👏👏 so on point!!!! This panel was 💣
Yass, this was it 🎉
Anthony seems to have an attitude most of the time and that’s not attractive to a woman. Hopefully he’ll grow in this area and then find him a wife.
He is very high strung and will have to find a wife that’s mild mannered
Yes, I was thinking the same thing. Women usually want to be with men that make us feel safe. He sounds unhealed, scorned, negative and resentful because he's not ready. Prayers up for him on his journey 🙏🏾.
Yeah he def comes off Attitudinal, cheap, immature, bitter, unhealed and unreasonable..
" We are figuring out marriage so much, no one is getting married" That's a nugget right there. Anything worth having is worth the risk.
I agree. It is to many out here talking about what marriage is, especially the married folks who seem to be unhappy, until no one wants to marry.
Because God isn't in.... People are in control not God
When sis said she dated a pastor who wouldn't even pray over the food, I felt that in my soul. Similar dating experiences, and so very grateful I didn't get trapped with someone with biblical knowledge, rather than biblical love and godly character. My husband, who is also a minister, embodies this and was worth the wait.
I love PDs vulnerability and His Wife’s authenticity l believe he is a true Man Of God
If you don’t want that reputation, don’t try to holler at everybody. Be selective in your selections.
I've noticed not a lot of churches have a singles ministry.
So true. It's like single people don't have a place in the churches or they don't exist. Somehow, i even think that churches believe that single people are evil. May God help us all.
"You dont know what to look for until you know what you need"!!!👈🏾👈🏾👈🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
That right there!!!🫶🏾💃🏾🎉
I love that Dr. Dharius is voice that adds something unique to the conversation.
Anthony is telling the truth. Women do not want to listen…. You have to hear him out..
You got kids?
If she’s not a helpmeet don’t create a soul tie with her health is wealth
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That’s the truth! I had two guys try to shoot their shot but married another lady and the other started dating another lady. I never spoke a word about going out with either one. This is great advice for the ladies from a male perspective.
We saw great diversity from this panel. Some things were hard to hear but necessary for understanding in today's era. Interesting perspectives...
Help meet - We help each other meet each other’s assignment for God! Come on AO!!🎉🎉🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💜
Yesssss…. SINGLENESS is not a Curse!! And MARRIAGE is not a RIGHT!!! WOW!!!!
I appreciate Anthony and Laterras for being open and transparent about the struggle with sexual purity as Christians (in Anthony’s case as a pastor). I’ve found this area to be one of the hardest to surrender to God. We will give our money, time and resources to God and live in sexual sin (and justify it too). I struggled with this for many years and when the Lord convicted me, I chose to leave the ministry and live in sin than to continue to defile His pulpit. It took many years to return to church. The conviction just got stronger and stronger with time. Honestly, I don’t think I ever would have made the choice to surrender in this area of my life. My boyfriend did though. He woke up one day and said he can’t keep doing this anymore, sinning and asking God for forgiveness knowing he will do it again. He felt he was taking God’s mercy for granted. We abstained from then on and got married ~2 years later.
Anytime the finaces are a problem in the beginning of the relationship, 9/10 it will be the same way once you become one if there is no financial education.
Thank you, Laterras, for taking time out of your busy schedule to provide us with amazing content ❤
Laterras,
Your stylist was in their bag with this outfit! Okay, summery swag! 💜
God may call some people to singleness and some to matrimony. He will give you grace for those options.
So happy I was in the audience. It was amazing
Thankyou Mr.Laterras for uploading this
For Us Change Church Global members✊🙏👌
I Love the honesty and transparency from every person on this show❤❤❤❤❤
Anthony O’Neal made a valid point.
I truly believe in the God factor the that Pastor Daniels talked about when he said he can set up a serendipitous meet up between you and your future spouse. Of course we need to be in movement as well. I can’t wait to meet my future hubby 🎉
That’s right love she gave him a option and then asked God to make sure he’s the one if we let go and let God he send the one who’s for you
This was such a helpful and healing episode. This healing journey will remain until the Lord returns. I am so thankful your obedience allows for us, viewers, to hear and see how God presents himself in marriage and SINGLENESS. Every perspective was needed as it displays how non-conforming God is…we must stop placing God in a box. This was another good one!!
I love the advocacy of Adoption!
I agree with what Anthony said for this applies outside of church as well…just because a man isn’t into you or vice versa doesn’t mean we have to tear them down, you or the person might not might not possess the qualities you/they are looking for. As both the husbands on stage said they knew right away that their wives were the one…so don’t hate on others because your feelings are hurt
There was ONE thing that stuck out to me. . . That BLUE SUIT LOOKED GOOD ON Mr. Latteras! Carry on.
To many voices out here talking about marriage. Some of us just want to meet someone who just want to live a simple life of meeting and loving someone and receiving it in return.
It’s nothing wrong with spending less than a $100
First off, the Daniels look Amazing!! I absolutely LOVE this collaboration! Pastor Daniels is one of my favorite pastors and thought leaders to listen to. He and the Mrs. represent Mississippi so well ! Of course I’m born and bred from The Sip😉! Good conversation with deep thinkers … I’m all ears 👂🏽!
Yes!! Looongsuffering.. enduring! PREACH!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It’s not what you say it’s how you say it. Decorum is a thing. I suggest Anthony find some in the delivery of his message.
There's a toughness about him..... That could be off-putting to some people... I wish he'd relax.
Amber is gorgeous ❤…Laterras??? 👀😂
She is rocking that Halle Berry hairdo….if you know then you know….Thank y’all for pouring into us unmarried folks 💯
I love everybody's contribution. I have learnt. Imma keep trusting God knows what best for me as a single 50 yr old. I know what I want so while I don't see it yet imma wait
I believe God can do it for the people that are in this room and for the people that are watching! Oh I caught that 🙌🏾
I'm really glad about this Holy Spirit-filled & Lead Atmosphere whereas we can definitely glean much Wisdom & Understanding & Laughter via Transparency!!!!!!! 🙌 👏 🙌 😌 ☺ 😊
Say that Pastor!!!! How he responds to how you're trying to teach him how to love YOU!
Listening to this, we have to be careful not to fall too, too much into sexual sin. I did but it is what my daughter's dad said to me: "we need to stop, because I don't want to make you keep sining because of you faith. He was not saved then. Today I am 16 years celebrate and determined to stay so until such time. Who's to know whether God will bless me with a husband or want to keep me to Himself, hey, I am OK with either because I love my Lord so very much and pray I will never 'fall off the wagon' again.
We all need prayer especially where sexual sin is concerned. This is where the enemy brings in lust etc hoping we will 'fall.'
Attended this podcast event and sensed these were the clear highlights or strong points to ponder:
👉 Anthony made some major observations: (A) Why are the Single people positioned to sit in the back rows of a Singles Panel event? [which I think was a subliminal indication about how our society/Church Inc. pedestalizes marriage/married people]; (B) Men are afraid to approach women at church because there's a known probability that women will talk about them if it doesn't work out.
👉Laterras made a great point about how our generation has become so "intelligent" about marriage and yet have complicated the runway to it.
👉 Amber made an extremely great point of not having a plan for herself in her younger years.
👉The Daniels', generally speaking, don't advise getting married in your early 20s because of a lack of self-awareness and relational IQ.
👉 Mrs. Daniels shot her shot to Dharius (unashamedly)
👉 Pastor Dharius encouraged singles to do the practical & remaining aware of the God factor.
👉 Pastor Shameka made a huge encouragement for women to know who they are and what they want (i.e. being emotionally intelligent and change in preferences/values)
👉An interesting exchange about male believers being willing to be abstinent
👉Navigating the difference between vetting a man when a woman doesn't tell him what she wants versus telling him exactly how to love you and giving him a chance to love you well
Overall, I really felt like the transparency between Laterras, Anthony, and Dharius really carried the podcast. The thing I find to be unique about Dharius' leadership style is how much he seemingly chooses non-dogmatic, super nuanced answers for those in the audience who are sincerely seeking advice. Dope.
He said, “stay with your daddy. He got you”.
I feel that!
Mic drop!!! He telling the truth!!
I find it strange that "Christian" men and women wanting to get married but are choosing not to flee fornication. One of the fruits of the spirit is self-control (in every area of our lives) but this one always gets missed in dating discussions. Test every spirit with righteous judgement! I understand that God is still working on us all but God will not be mocked. God is not going give you a godly wife/husband whilst you're in sin! Why would you be faithful to your wife/husband if you cannot be faithful to God? He has given us the tools to kill our flesh in every area that we struggle in through repentance, prayer and fasting from food. I believe this is clearly a subject that needs to be taught on in churches, we are bringing curses on ourselves and generations because we lack understanding. We are definitely sending the wrong message to thousands of people. God bless!
Can't put God in a box, He works in different ways. For different times.
The fellow that talked about lots of friends, some people just don't have lots of friends for different reasons.
I don't think you have to have alot of friends. He wasn't' really saying that. I think the point is that you have some people who enjoy your company and vouch for you. I'm going to be honest...I have dated guys that didn't have ANY friends and I realized really quickly why. It CAN be a red flag.
@@lisacox5405it is a red flag
This is BEAUTIFUL. I like how everyone was free and open 👏👏👏👏
This whole episode was amazing because even at 31 I’m learning how to save money and figure out what else I can do …. I also desire to be with a man who has that discipline that can help me get to that position… not looking to bum off …instead …to meet me where I’m weak and vice versa
I pray God sends Laterras his wife THIS YEAR! The ordained First Lady of “Dear Future Wifey” God is faithful and will perform it! 🙌🏽👏🏽
Thank you for this, I love the statement that we should Give him the Blueprint to deliver the love, he feels to land in your heart.❣️ I felt that so deeply. I'll be under the loins den anointing soon.
need a part two with the guests. pleassse..........very funny but realllllll
What an informative content,,,as a single woman these kinds of lessons are vital ,,thank you for the Panel,,,,all the way from South Africa big ups to this movement 🙌🙏🎊🎉
58:30 preach!! You can love when you don’t like them. We don’t divorce our kids and parents when they disappoint us. We give them grace.
This was tooo good!! Thank you for sharing with us that couldn’t attend the live show!
This is such a great project because very rarely do pastors participate in ministering to the singles, it’s usually attention towards married couples. 🙏🏾
Love it pastor Shameka!
I thoroughly enjoyed it! Another win laterras
I don’t think people realize that sometimes we are in one season of our life for years before we go into our next season….. a year means nothing in Gods timing
I'm more than half way through the video and still haven't heard anyone mention GOD in the hunting, vetting and excepting process. This all reminds of Lot using his understanding and and his eyes when choosing his dwelling place.
You don't size up what God says is your mate. You get to know them .... Not to except or choose but to know how to compliment... For understanding.
Again where is God at in the Vetting process
great insight and perspective. Thanks for this platform
On the topic of women talking about the man who has shot his shot to several women at the church, I think it's fair to consider the historical abuse & mistreatment that women have suffered in church by men. Sometimes, a dude a get a girl preggo and it's the mother that takes the heat for it, while he freely moves on to others when it don't work out. I'd like to believe the women's intentions are to look out for each other, being that there are men at church who are straight predators. It's about discerning the heart and intentions of the man, but when you've been damaged, that can be tricky. If a women's experience has been that some men at church are predatorial, then it's not surprising that their questioning your intentions when you've tried to holla at several girls at the church. it does look a lil sketchy and I think it's fair to ask questions, and to also give the guy a chance to show his true colors. Wouldn't wanna interfere w/his opportunity to find someone for him, especially when his heart is pure in the situation.
I think that's awesome, brother, when you spoke about not hiding yourself from God, so also you aren't afraid to be transparent towards the world. Praying for you
PD cutting up already…”Don’t threaten me with a good time” 😂
Beautifully Said Latteras‼️
Omg I have been waiting for this ❤️
This was awesome!! Out of all the guests and panelist, this was by far the funniest of them all. Be blessed
Great episode need a part 2!
Absolutely amazing!! I wish I could have experienced it in person. Gems dropped. Great panelists; the transparency and candor are what I needed and welcomed.
This is such a great show ❤❤❤ Thank you!!!
Excellent points made in this. I thank God for you, Laterras.
This is sooooooo good!!!!
He needs to be on all the panels
Who?
Are you talking Anthony O'Neal? If so, I agree.
I do wish I would have live life differently but God is good. He would never but more on me than I can bare
I can appreciate your transparency on this podcast.😊
Thank you for your honesty, Dr. Dharius
This was a good one Laterras. Great conversation. The single the married and the diversity of everyone’s answers and opinions and narratives was interesting. Good for you.
Alright AO!!! They can’t handle to truth, pastor tipping out is funny 😂😂🤣🤣😂😂
Laterras that blue looks nice on you king.
LOOOOOOVE this panel discussion! Laterris keep up the good work!
This was excellent, you have teach it and God is so proud of you ,thank you so much, proud of you❤
Truth! Period
"I am Laterras, and I approve my own message." (LOL) Love it! And I admire and applaud your transparency! I believe many men have been blessed and are being blessed because of your willingness to lay everything on the line and go ahead and expose your own flaws, shortcomings, weaknesses, and challenges.
I'm also SO glad that you've finally premiered this "particular" Podcast because 1) I was actually blessed to have the opportunity to attend the Live Taping in person, and 2) I was so anxious to post it on my FB Timeline because I just know that both Singles and Martied couples are going to be blessed and ministered to by it. Just finished sharing this on FB....👍👍👍
AO talking spicey!!! Can't wait to hear if he talks about this on his podcast.
They did the work!
Pastor Daniels ‼️‼️‼️‼️
This is a really GO(O)D conversation ❤
This was too good 🔥
I imagined this as PD is one of my favorite bible teachers. So to see it manifested is truly heartwarming. I love God that much more for this💯
God is so good that when we truly trust Him it seems like He keeps us so busy working on ourselves and our calling that you don’t have much time to feel like you’re missing anything. I didn’t actually think that to be possible until He began to do it for me.
So I really feel Amber. Singleness doesn’t feel like a burden to me, it feels like positioning. I truly want Gods will for my life, in real life, so I’m learning daily how to be pleasing to Him and honestly, it feels amazing. I don’t feel like I have any lack. 🩵
I’m so proud of everyone on this panel. This was really dope ya’ll 🫡🤗
Are you single?
Only 1 minute & 13 seconds in and MY GODDD!!! 💎🙌🏾🙏🏾
This so good!!!
This was dope. Thank you.
God, help us all
Love this 👏🏾
Change Family!! This was amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Such an outstanding discussion and blessing ❤
Absolutely Awesome 👏🏾
Amen brother, he is telling the truth.