Dating is super depressing for me. I havent gone on any dates in almost 2 years or had sex in 7 years. It really sucks. I attempted suicide 3 times in the past. It's very depressing to hear about men sleeping with several women while having a girlfriend. Im 37 snd have never had a girlfriend. I hate the real world ☹
1. She positions herself near you 2. Eye contact & sexy smile 3. She's making the effort 4. She doesn't hesitate when you ask her out 5. She initiates physical touch 6. She's fully present with you on the date 7. She wants to introduce to her friends
@@jecktv3158 Nice question. For no.4, even she wants to, there might be other obligations prevent her from going out. For no. 3, she will only make effort if she's in love with you from head to toe or she'll indirectly imply to meet with you - will give you a lot of signals to do so.
1, 2, 3, 5, and 7 are all very rare. I almost always have nothing to go on. But ask a girl out, and the response is usually good. Fact is women suck at dating game just as much as men. They think it's a man that goes first in the ritual. But that's wrong. It's just the approach and ask that the man does first. The woman is supposed to provide the cue before hand. And they just don't, usually.
This woman at work smiles at me, and touches me sometimes. Then i realised.........she does that with everyone. She's just a touchy, feely and flirty woman.
If she doesn't make excuses when you ask her out, she definitely likes you, if she flakes on you the first time you ask her out, she doesn't like you and she's using you to get unearned attention and validation
In my experience, anything other than yes, is no. When that occurs, just politely move on, and don't lead her to believe her rejection has broken you. Other women are out there. Don't get angry. This validates her rejection and makes her believe she dodged a bullet. You don't want that. Just move on with dignity and don't paint yourself as either desperate or creepy. This approach may even encourage her to pursue you at a later date.
Here's Reality: If a woman doesn't think you are handsome: She couldn't careless about your skin routine, your other looksmaxxing efforts --- or your friendly qualities. The dating market is all about how handsome you are, and materialism.
If she’s messing around on her phone a lot, I’ll pretend to be concerned and ask, “ I noticed you’ve been on your phone a lot. Is everything OK?” And if she keeps doing it I’ll say “Hey it seems like you’ve got a lot going on. Let’s reschedule.” Usually one of those snaps her back into reality.
I've been single 30 years encounting, and never once has a woman done any of those signs towards me. They look at me and give me the "eww stay away from me look" if they see me approach to maybe start a small conversation.
Hi, Julia! Often, we as humans, when we say, "I like you", we focus more on the idea of the "I" doing the loving or liking and less on the quality of the liking or love being offered. This is because we are trapped by the idea of self. We think that we have a self. Genuine liking or love involves letting go of the ego.
Some girls are shy and scared. Not every girl will let you know and they actually try and hide it with a guy they really like. These girls are often worried about liking you too much. This is usually with a guy that she doesn't really see herself with but for some reason can't resist his energy. She likes him for a different reason and needs time to understand her feelings because she most likely has never had a guy make her feel this way before. Your advice is literally for Chad's and Jessica's
@@johnmooney4983people seem to forget somebody's been hurt a lot of games that are going to come with it because they have a hard time putting themselves back out in the dating game along with trusting people. Lot of TH-camrs seem to forget this
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game. I get annoyed when people say go see a therapist because it's not like a therapist can reset my life or have me start my life all over again. I spoke in a few other guys who feel the same way in regards to being forever angry and upset, sad, over never having had a girlfriend until later than normal, until late in life. Probably because guys and men to learn and know all of these skills, all of these social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way or have a certain lifestyle, have a certain body, certain income, and more than that which I either don't know or forgot. Women are pretty much basically all set for just being born and just existing. Because being pretty and beautiful is not a skill and it doesn't require any learning, it's not a behavior that takes training
Yeah, imagine telling an attractive girl she has to walk a certain way to get a man! 🤣 Back to your situation: I've been angry too at the disparity between men & women. Women do have it easier in alot of ways. There is no equality! However, if you now have what you like, don't let the past rob you of your present good luck! Many men NEVER find someone! At least you have a "girlfriend" now! Good luck! 👍
There's this girl at my work I really like but she got hurt in the last relationship. I asked her out the first time if she told me she was busy with her kids and kept acting interested. Time went on and I asked her out again and she said the same thing along with I haven't done anything in a while and I would let you know. Now she makes a point of walking in my area and even walking with her head down past me just to turn to see if I'm looking. So that being said I've already asked her out in the balls in her Court yet she acts like I'm the one that has to do all the work and ask her out again I don't know if she's interested or looking for validation
Congrats on becoming future parents. wish you all the best. Please consider becoming marriage retreat speakers. You and your husband have a lot to share and it would benefit so many people. Because people have serious questions about sex, boundaries and expectations that are afraid to be asked by current autorities - you guys would shatter that ceiling and bring light to proper lovemaking.
I rejected a girl yesterday. She started crying, i kindly just said no. After years of getting rejected it feels so good to reject women. Guys start rejecting women. You will feel this power too.
@@neuroticohio52 Guess what? I didn't like the past 20 years either. Did anyone feel bad for me? Man up, stop being a loser, stop being this stop being that. Do this do that, don't do that. You will see when you get some experience.
@@tuinov6286 best way to approach her or ask her out when all you've done is the eye dance? i.e. you feel someone staring at you and ya turn around and its her.. but no other signs.. counsel me bro
I agree with skincare but the key with good skin is a good diet and drinking absolutely nothing but water and good hygiene. Your diet can prevent acne. I use absolutely nothing on my skin and people tell me i look 21 and im 30 lol. eat alot of fruit honey and red meat eggs and some veggies. Your diet is everything with good skin. But above all else i agree all these points
You just have to keep trying you only lose when you stop trying and think there's no hope because there's always hope... Women are just people same as men just with different emotional patterns
Julia this all makes sense. When a girl likes me I notice she doesn’t put any resistance or hesitation towards the moves I make on her. Now when they don’t like me I feel the resistance.
I think the issue is guys, myself included are waiting until they are SURE the chick is into them before shooting your shot and I think we need to adopt the idea of going for it without being sure 100%
Just ask her out and she'll either say yes or no. This removes all doubt. If she says yes.........bloody fantastic! If she says no, thank her for preventing you from wasting your time further, and move on. Don't get depressed about it......... it's been a common occurrence in every country, throughout history.
2:56 here is 2 examples from the same girl. Some months ago she message me, "have you been to xyz yet?" It was the newest restaurant that open just couple weeks ago. So I knew what it meant, so I set it up. Then came a concert, one of my favorite artiste and she knows this. First she messaged "I know you are ready for this", though I was overseas the time, she fishing for information. I deliberately didn't really give her. Over time leading up she would make other lil suggestive responses. ON THE DAY, I messaged her, "how you getting there", although I didn't know if she had a ticket, but she had asked me a question about a ticket section that was suggestive. And well, we went. I knew from first message what she wanted, but I couldn't commit at the time because I was away. She had even outright asked me at one point, and I said "if I make it there".
Imagine you're 30 years older than you are now, so 46 years young, imagine that you see an attractive younger man that you like. You have more money than him, but he is surviving just fine. Would you show interest in the same way you described in the video?
From a male British perspective, men do not pull birds. If a bird likes you she has already decided and gives off signals that she wants to be chased. At some point the male will give chase and chase her until she allows herself to be caught. Men DO NOT pull birds. Women pull men.
She is selfish and entitled with a high body count and uses you for your wallet. Wait, you asked for worst thing. I gave you average. Not worth the time and effort. Women are broken and need to fix themselves.
I want to know before I ask her out. She seems to be doing a lot of these things. Last week she shared something very personal with me so in our path to guide each other towards a relationship, I hope, I finally feel comfortable asking her out. I always have this lingering feeling women use me for validation so I'm hoping she'll be different. We're both older and she's older than me and seems genuine so hopefully she's not playing games.
I NEVER EVER KISS ON THE FIRST DATE. Telling a man to expect a woman who barely knows him to touch her or do something intimate with her is terrible advice. No wonder men stay confused.
1. She positions herself near you - she does it on purpose, if she goes out her way & hopefully it's not too cheesy & on the way or she might be faking it 2. Eye contact & sexy smile 3. She's making the effort - initiate contact & set up you asking her out. some just want validation so set up the meeting is a sign she serious to spend time together. 4. She doesn't hesitate when you ask her out - if she does it's for validation. don't simp, as a leader you dont as that signals you dont need her and have other girls (hypergamy triggerred) 5. She initiates physical touch - open body language too. They will set up your lead but not lead. 6. She's fully present with you on the date - if you are more masculine vibe girIs will be more feminine which they want to be. 7. She wants to introduce to her friends - you says this is good sign, I believe you they even have them stalk you i notice. wanting to put in effort to meet further she should. maybe she is a single mom... and wants to show off to her single friends... funky. she says if none of these signs are present she is looking for validation & move one.
If you've got big tay tays the sky is the limit in this world🤣🤣🤣 this girl can literally become a millionaire selling shoe polish on the side of the street
Good timing on the video as I am wondering if a nice colleague of mine likes me. Since we are at work and I suspect both of us don't want to make it obvious not only to each other but to the others as well she doesn't position herself near me, but it's very often she looks at me and me back at her. And she sometimes tries to crack a joke which is a positive sign for me. I must go and talk to her soon, I feel like a dumbass for not acting or at least show her that I am interested as well.
The only time a woman has ever shown signs of interest is just to fuck with me. Had one mess with my head for months and after all was said and done, she told me that she messed me around because I was too nice/easy. Only long term relationship I've had (4 years), I was kept as a secret from her family. She did so many things that messed with my head and made me feel ultimately worthless, but I finally pulled myself together and finally ended it. Only after I ended it she gave me a speech and told me that she loved me (first time saying it).... I blocked her. The break up was hard but kept myself focused on my work and other things in my life, now I'm much better off. All I'll say is to whoever reads this, just know your worth and never let a woman take advantage. If you're stuck in a relationship that makes you miserable, get out of it. You'll probably be scared about being single again but honestly, you'll be fine.
The main question is "She wants you for what?". - your money - showing you off to her friends - FOMO - Cure for her boredom Once you notice a woman getting too clos, run, unless it's like a one-time thing
I'm always getting those choosing signals but I feel like I'm being physically manipulated or trying to be anyways and that's annoying to me I grew up with a narcissistic mother. Women pursue me and always have that's the way it's going to stay
I want to know why she giving me hints and blocked me on instagram at the same time when I didn't do anything wrong but only follow and views her stories for 3 years instead of texting yet 😢😢
I disappointed a lot of Women from the past because I never taken the shot. They were right there! Those Women that I came across they liked me and most of them fell in love with me, but I didn't go for it. Or maybe its because Im really not a SIMP guy or maybe I was really cold hearted guy that I didn't feel the love of those Women that they gave me. I don't know! Or is it Just because I'm really never got tired of chasing Purpose and Achievements in Life and I get to ignore Women a lot???
You want to talk about "tells"? Many years ago, I had to go into a meeting at work and they made us do one of those stupid team building exercises. Where I had to stand, I was facing directly at the glass door into the meeting room next door, which was occupied. There was a woman in that meeting and when she noticed me.... I have never seen a woman react with that kind of lust to my presence. Not an ounce of subtlety, just pure raw open lust. The words "in heat" and "slavering" come to mind. And I was stuck at that spot, so she got a show for a good fifteen minutes while we did the exercise. Every time I looked in that room, she was staring at me like she wanted to eat me alive. I was married and couldn't return the interest, but, damn, that was one weird experience in sexual signalling.
@@phabeondominguez5971 We had to go back to our seats on the other side where we couldn't be seen from that room. I never saw her again, but then we did have four buildings on the office campus and I only went in for a few hours a month since most of us worked remote.I've had aggressive women chase me before, but her reaction was just surreal.
7:40 this is only so with girls who are not "touchy" in general. She may not be touchy overall, but she may be so with CLOSE MALE FRIENDS. But it is also important to note what kind and where she is touching you. Most times it is subtle while talking to you, touching your hand, it could be a sign but not really. If it's going further up your arm, shoulder and CHEST.... yup. If thigh then it means BANG ME NOW.
I met a girl at the bar Saturday. We really hit it off and hungout all night. She couldn’t stop talking about me and how great of a time she had. Today 2 days later she hasn’t once text me it’s almost 4 pm. Is this a sign she’s not feeling it anymore ?
8:25 this is a BIG ONE. same girl i mentioned earlier. I am away a lot, so when I see photos or videos of her out with her friends, majority of the time she is ON HER PHONE. Whenever she is around me, she is NOT. Even at the concert, yes she recorded some stuff but her head wasn't focused on the phone browsing whatever. Issue with this girl, she keeps playing the "we are friends" game, we have known each other for a very long time, but it was always filled with flirting, she would always be sending photos of herself, the clothes kept getting less. But we just never went further, now it's a situation she IS interested but she doesn't want to potentially lose the connection we have, because she hasn't had a good track record and she is the type totally cut a person off once they no longer in a relationship. So seem to like the "play we are in a relationship" thing without the title, LOL.
8:50 same girl I mentioned about the concert. Around 11am I let her I know I would pick her up at 6pm. Around 3pm she contacts me that she is leaving her place (in a Uber) to come to me at 5:20pm (she about 20-30mins away from me). Yes, she understood that I was to pick her up, but she just could not wait.
A man got to talk a lot of ladies and have friends if she likes u or not we have to move on to the next one that all men's we got to do just be nice and friendly to those beautiful women's out there
'she comes close to you in the gym as well'. Legit this week cute girls worked out on the opposite side of where I was training lol shit happens i guess
Hiii. Have you got male friends ? Have you ever flirt with them? Is there friendly flirt and flirt for something more. I would like to make a video on friendzone female male friendships and the role of flirt in this situation. I have female friends and i see them friendly but sometimes i think they see me as a lover and im confused like what's you doing, imm readinggg 😂
I get the grocery store crossing way too much. Then this one lil chick at the coffee shop, I be torturing her pretending I dont notice. Got her dropping shit. Ear to eay smile. Unsolicited doscounts. Lingering eye with this goofy ass smile. Poppin up outa no whee just to say Youre all set! If I leave without acknowledging jer she yells, BYE! I be doing it on purpose just to tease her 😂
Too much work. “I like you, let’s get dinner.” Repeat until you ask her to go steady. Enough of this, “Her eyes were at a hypotenuse angle with a triple blink” bs. You can spin any action a woman does into her liking you.
I 🤘🏿was performing Master of Puppets 🤘🏿 on the sidewalk in front of the Westfield on Market Street in Downtown San Francisco, about a month ago. A woman that I have never met before in my whole life, walked up next to me, I almost hit her with my guitar, she played the worse air guitar, as her other 2 friends laughed, and recorded it. Who's number was I supposed to ask for? I can barely hit on 1 woman at a time! I was legit ambushed with sexual tension. Paralyzed by estrogen. I had LITERALLY NO £U€K!NG IDEA what to do! Giggity
My sister in law always ask me how she look whenever she dress and goes outside also sometimes grabs my arm lets me massage her head and traps Is she flirting or interested in me?
9:00 that has NOTHING to do with "value" of the person. It has to do with HER INTEREST LEVEL. you all got too caught up in this "high value" social medium junk too much, you use it out of context.
Why can't you Woman, just start talking to us, asking us out, cause in all seriousness, we cant tell anything from being too nice, to being flirty or whatever you do, to try to attract a man, like you are playing mind games, and I do believe, real Woman will approach and ask a guy out, if they want them to be on a date, ladies just do it and ask, the time has come for you to make the first move and ask us out on dates. Its now or never ladies, say thanks to feminism and the meetoo movement for destroying the culture of Men, for good.
Julia, please give me your IMHO and insight: question you never answer before: when I told her to text me "when she'll have a free evening this or next week" - how long should I wait till contact from her? Should I text her with anything to provoke contact? Actual state of things: met on the gym 2 times, talked for half hour or longer, gave her advice she asked - by text, then I went silent and she text first (like 4 times), between that I text first one time (with banter). Then she send me link to event poster with artist we both like. I treated it like invitation so ask her (keeping cool) if she want to go grab some drink... She textnext day - told her I 'm busy with friends and need to go offline. Next day we met at the gym (wasn't her usula training day) and she knew hours I'll be there. She text later that day, we talkde and banter for a while... Since that day I went silent and so is she. It has been 4 days since we texted and 6 days from "when free evening". She 11 out of 10. I'm really keeping it cool since now. She gave me a lot of positive signals, but now I'm a little bit confused (I'm ill atm).
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How do I know if a female colleague likes me ?
Is RED Flag when a women is asking for gift cards thru Facebook, IMessage?
I am fed up of that immature bs. I dont want to guess i dont want puzzles. Womans speak dont don bs
how do I get the attention of a girl I like without acting weird around her?
Dating is super depressing for me. I havent gone on any dates in almost 2 years or had sex in 7 years. It really sucks. I attempted suicide 3 times in the past. It's very depressing to hear about men sleeping with several women while having a girlfriend. Im 37 snd have never had a girlfriend. I hate the real world ☹
1. She positions herself near you
2. Eye contact & sexy smile
3. She's making the effort
4. She doesn't hesitate when you ask her out
5. She initiates physical touch
6. She's fully present with you on the date
7. She wants to introduce to her friends
Thanks!
@@derrrick7759 If a guy did this, he would be a mega creep.
What if number 3 and 4 are lacking?
@@jecktv3158 Nice question. For no.4, even she wants to, there might be other obligations prevent her from going out. For no. 3, she will only make effort if she's in love with you from head to toe or she'll indirectly imply to meet with you - will give you a lot of signals to do so.
1, 2, 3, 5, and 7 are all very rare.
I almost always have nothing to go on. But ask a girl out, and the response is usually good.
Fact is women suck at dating game just as much as men.
They think it's a man that goes first in the ritual. But that's wrong. It's just the approach and ask that the man does first. The woman is supposed to provide the cue before hand. And they just don't, usually.
This woman at work smiles at me, and touches me sometimes. Then i realised.........she does that with everyone. She's just a touchy, feely and flirty woman.
It’s a manipulation tactic. The red pill talks about the psychology behind women doing those things.
If she doesn't make excuses when you ask her out, she definitely likes you, if she flakes on you the first time you ask her out, she doesn't like you and she's using you to get unearned attention and validation
In my experience, anything other than yes, is no. When that occurs, just politely move on, and don't lead her to believe her rejection has broken you. Other women are out there. Don't get angry. This validates her rejection and makes her believe she dodged a bullet. You don't want that. Just move on with dignity and don't paint yourself as either desperate or creepy. This approach may even encourage her to pursue you at a later date.
Thank you, good advice, totally agree,
Here's Reality: If a woman doesn't think you are handsome: She couldn't careless about your skin routine, your other looksmaxxing efforts --- or your friendly qualities. The dating market is all about how handsome you are, and materialism.
If she’s messing around on her phone a lot, I’ll pretend to be concerned and ask, “ I noticed you’ve been on your phone a lot. Is everything OK?” And if she keeps doing it I’ll say “Hey it seems like you’ve got a lot going on. Let’s reschedule.” Usually one of those snaps her back into reality.
I've been single 30 years encounting, and never once has a woman done any of those signs towards me. They look at me and give me the "eww stay away from me look" if they see me approach to maybe start a small conversation.
I feel your pain brother am in the same boat come on a i robot s. With a monthly subscription you can buy your love
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Hi, Julia! Often, we as humans, when we say, "I like you", we focus more on the idea of the "I" doing the loving or liking and less on the quality of the liking or love being offered. This is because we are trapped by the idea of self. We think that we have a self. Genuine liking or love involves letting go of the ego.
Some girls are shy and scared. Not every girl will let you know and they actually try and hide it with a guy they really like. These girls are often worried about liking you too much. This is usually with a guy that she doesn't really see herself with but for some reason can't resist his energy. She likes him for a different reason and needs time to understand her feelings because she most likely has never had a guy make her feel this way before.
Your advice is literally for Chad's and Jessica's
If she likes you she will go out with wont play games win stuip prizes
Agree with this, woman do reverse psychology a lot because they’re insecure.
@@johnmooney4983people seem to forget somebody's been hurt a lot of games that are going to come with it because they have a hard time putting themselves back out in the dating game along with trusting people. Lot of TH-camrs seem to forget this
Way too much work, just get that passport and make it easy on yourself gentlemen.
thank you
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s.
It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others.
But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm.
Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend.
So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel.
I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life.
And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction.
Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not?
Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't.
I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long.
Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction.
One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard.
So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
I get annoyed when people say go see a therapist because it's not like a therapist can reset my life or have me start my life all over again.
I spoke in a few other guys who feel the same way in regards to being forever angry and upset, sad, over never having had a girlfriend until later than normal, until late in life.
Probably because guys and men to learn and know all of these skills, all of these social behaviors, talk and behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk a certain way or have a certain lifestyle, have a certain body, certain income, and more than that which I either don't know or forgot.
Women are pretty much basically all set for just being born and just existing.
Because being pretty and beautiful is not a skill and it doesn't require any learning, it's not a behavior that takes training
Yeah, imagine telling an attractive girl she has to walk a certain way to get a man! 🤣 Back to your situation: I've been angry too at the disparity between men & women. Women do have it easier in alot of ways. There is no equality! However, if you now have what you like, don't let the past rob you of your present good luck! Many men NEVER find someone! At least you have a "girlfriend" now! Good luck! 👍
There's this girl at my work I really like but she got hurt in the last relationship. I asked her out the first time if she told me she was busy with her kids and kept acting interested. Time went on and I asked her out again and she said the same thing along with I haven't done anything in a while and I would let you know. Now she makes a point of walking in my area and even walking with her head down past me just to turn to see if I'm looking. So that being said I've already asked her out in the balls in her Court yet she acts like I'm the one that has to do all the work and ask her out again I don't know if she's interested or looking for validation
Congrats on becoming future parents. wish you all the best. Please consider becoming marriage retreat speakers. You and your husband have a lot to share and it would benefit so many people.
Because people have serious questions about sex, boundaries and expectations that are afraid to be asked by current autorities - you guys would shatter that ceiling and bring light to proper lovemaking.
I rejected a girl yesterday. She started crying, i kindly just said no. After years of getting rejected it feels so good to reject women. Guys start rejecting women. You will feel this power too.
I did this once and I didn’t like the way it made her feel. Now I understand why some girls ghost rather than being honest.
@@neuroticohio52 Guess what? I didn't like the past 20 years either. Did anyone feel bad for me? Man up, stop being a loser, stop being this stop being that. Do this do that, don't do that. You will see when you get some experience.
@@tuinov6286 best way to approach her or ask her out when all you've done is the eye dance? i.e. you feel someone staring at you and ya turn around and its her.. but no other signs.. counsel me bro
Good for you, woman deserve this shit. A lot of them are mean and egotistical
@tuinov6286 you sound bitter dude. Grow as a person
I agree with skincare but the key with good skin is a good diet and drinking absolutely nothing but water and good hygiene. Your diet can prevent acne. I use absolutely nothing on my skin and people tell me i look 21 and im 30 lol. eat alot of fruit honey and red meat eggs and some veggies. Your diet is everything with good skin. But above all else i agree all these points
You just have to keep trying you only lose when you stop trying and think there's no hope because there's always hope... Women are just people same as men just with different emotional patterns
Julia this all makes sense. When a girl likes me I notice she doesn’t put any resistance or hesitation towards the moves I make on her. Now when they don’t like me I feel the resistance.
I think the issue is guys, myself included are waiting until they are SURE the chick is into them before shooting your shot and I think we need to adopt the idea of going for it without being sure 100%
Hey dear how are you doing
Just ask her out and she'll either say yes or no. This removes all doubt. If she says yes.........bloody fantastic! If she says no, thank her for preventing you from wasting your time further, and move on. Don't get depressed about it......... it's been a common occurrence in every country, throughout history.
2:56 here is 2 examples from the same girl. Some months ago she message me, "have you been to xyz yet?" It was the newest restaurant that open just couple weeks ago. So I knew what it meant, so I set it up. Then came a concert, one of my favorite artiste and she knows this. First she messaged "I know you are ready for this", though I was overseas the time, she fishing for information. I deliberately didn't really give her. Over time leading up she would make other lil suggestive responses. ON THE DAY, I messaged her, "how you getting there", although I didn't know if she had a ticket, but she had asked me a question about a ticket section that was suggestive. And well, we went. I knew from first message what she wanted, but I couldn't commit at the time because I was away. She had even outright asked me at one point, and I said "if I make it there".
Imagine you're 30 years older than you are now, so 46 years young, imagine that you see an attractive younger man that you like. You have more money than him, but he is surviving just fine. Would you show interest in the same way you described in the video?
From a male British perspective, men do not pull birds. If a bird likes you she has already decided and gives off signals that she wants to be chased. At some point the male will give chase and chase her until she allows herself to be caught. Men DO NOT pull birds. Women pull men.
Guys, just ask her out. What is the worst that can happen?
If she saids no, move on to the next one
She'll get creeped out and run away. Then you'll never see her again ever.
@@darthphaser2991then you win
She is selfish and entitled with a high body count and uses you for your wallet. Wait, you asked for worst thing. I gave you average. Not worth the time and effort. Women are broken and need to fix themselves.
Women say that all men are predators, they tell us to believe all women, so I do.
I want to know before I ask her out. She seems to be doing a lot of these things. Last week she shared something very personal with me so in our path to guide each other towards a relationship, I hope, I finally feel comfortable asking her out. I always have this lingering feeling women use me for validation so I'm hoping she'll be different. We're both older and she's older than me and seems genuine so hopefully she's not playing games.
I NEVER EVER KISS ON THE FIRST DATE. Telling a man to expect a woman who barely knows him to touch her or do something intimate with her is terrible advice. No wonder men stay confused.
Thank you for keeping these videos Kiss/ keeping it stupid simple!
I like your promotion 😂😂😂😂😂
1. She positions herself near you - she does it on purpose, if she goes out her way & hopefully it's not too cheesy & on the way or she might be faking it
2. Eye contact & sexy smile
3. She's making the effort - initiate contact & set up you asking her out. some just want validation so set up the meeting is a sign she serious to spend time together.
4. She doesn't hesitate when you ask her out - if she does it's for validation.
don't simp, as a leader you dont as that signals you dont need her and have other girls (hypergamy triggerred)
5. She initiates physical touch - open body language too. They will set up your lead but not lead.
6. She's fully present with you on the date - if you are more masculine vibe girIs will be more feminine which they want to be.
7. She wants to introduce to her friends - you says this is good sign, I believe you
they even have them stalk you i notice.
wanting to put in effort to meet further she should.
maybe she is a single mom... and wants to show off to her single friends... funky.
she says if none of these signs are present she is looking for validation & move one.
I just started going on a few dates with my friends(crush), she is doing all of the seven points you have said here.
These are good. I look for stuff like this before asking them out. Asking them out before at least one of these is seen seems like a waste.
If you've got big tay tays the sky is the limit in this world🤣🤣🤣 this girl can literally become a millionaire selling shoe polish on the side of the street
Good timing on the video as I am wondering if a nice colleague of mine likes me. Since we are at work and I suspect both of us don't want to make it obvious not only to each other but to the others as well she doesn't position herself near me, but it's very often she looks at me and me back at her. And she sometimes tries to crack a joke which is a positive sign for me. I must go and talk to her soon, I feel like a dumbass for not acting or at least show her that I am interested as well.
I’d go for it in a subtle way but but just go for it but try your best to not make her feel pressure
The real top g for GENIUS.
Thanks for it. Knowing this now I think I'm most of the times in the clouds
Thank you Julia for your time and efforts making videos. I really do appreciate your hardwork. Greetings from Jakarta❤
Hey dear how are you doing
The only time a woman has ever shown signs of interest is just to fuck with me. Had one mess with my head for months and after all was said and done, she told me that she messed me around because I was too nice/easy.
Only long term relationship I've had (4 years), I was kept as a secret from her family. She did so many things that messed with my head and made me feel ultimately worthless, but I finally pulled myself together and finally ended it. Only after I ended it she gave me a speech and told me that she loved me (first time saying it).... I blocked her. The break up was hard but kept myself focused on my work and other things in my life, now I'm much better off.
All I'll say is to whoever reads this, just know your worth and never let a woman take advantage. If you're stuck in a relationship that makes you miserable, get out of it. You'll probably be scared about being single again but honestly, you'll be fine.
A beautiful girl, to My own SURPRISE showed all those signs to me😮 the problem is that I'm painfully shy around girls 😢
Me too. I don’t care anymore, tired of my insecurities and woman in general.
As a man I never experienced these or just didn’t notice from a lack of experience
Great advice and video
Hey dear how are you doing
Nice dude Julia you are a genuine person
The main question is "She wants you for what?".
- your money
- showing you off to her friends
- FOMO
- Cure for her boredom
Once you notice a woman getting too clos, run, unless it's like a one-time thing
I'm always getting those choosing signals but I feel like I'm being physically manipulated or trying to be anyways and that's annoying to me I grew up with a narcissistic mother. Women pursue me and always have that's the way it's going to stay
I want to know why she giving me hints and blocked me on instagram at the same time when I didn't do anything wrong but only follow and views her stories for 3 years instead of texting yet 😢😢
Focus on you guys they'll come for you
I disappointed a lot of Women from the past because I never taken the shot. They were right there! Those Women that I came across they liked me and most of them fell in love with me, but I didn't go for it. Or maybe its because Im really not a SIMP guy or maybe I was really cold hearted guy that I didn't feel the love of those Women that they gave me. I don't know! Or is it Just because I'm really never got tired of chasing Purpose and Achievements in Life and I get to ignore Women a lot???
Livin’ how you do the draconian Neanderthal tone,… sounds like you’ve (sounded out) a fair few lol
+Lovin’ f’n spellcheck
You want to talk about "tells"? Many years ago, I had to go into a meeting at work and they made us do one of those stupid team building exercises. Where I had to stand, I was facing directly at the glass door into the meeting room next door, which was occupied. There was a woman in that meeting and when she noticed me....
I have never seen a woman react with that kind of lust to my presence. Not an ounce of subtlety, just pure raw open lust. The words "in heat" and "slavering" come to mind. And I was stuck at that spot, so she got a show for a good fifteen minutes while we did the exercise. Every time I looked in that room, she was staring at me like she wanted to eat me alive. I was married and couldn't return the interest, but, damn, that was one weird experience in sexual signalling.
Haha, how did the meeting end tho or who left who's vision first?
@@phabeondominguez5971 We had to go back to our seats on the other side where we couldn't be seen from that room. I never saw her again, but then we did have four buildings on the office campus and I only went in for a few hours a month since most of us worked remote.I've had aggressive women chase me before, but her reaction was just surreal.
7:40 this is only so with girls who are not "touchy" in general. She may not be touchy overall, but she may be so with CLOSE MALE FRIENDS. But it is also important to note what kind and where she is touching you. Most times it is subtle while talking to you, touching your hand, it could be a sign but not really. If it's going further up your arm, shoulder and CHEST.... yup. If thigh then it means BANG ME NOW.
I met a girl at the bar Saturday. We really hit it off and hungout all night. She couldn’t stop talking about me and how great of a time she had. Today 2 days later she hasn’t once text me it’s almost 4 pm. Is this a sign she’s not feeling it anymore ?
Wow ! now it is scientific breakdown of how a girl or woman likes you...I will be single forever...
What girls they get out from validation? Like adrenaline? Emotional satisfaction? Physical improvement?
Thanks for sharing this video so helpful ❤❤
I can Tell . . . you like me! 🙃🤣
The Gods themselves could be giving me a sign and I'd still be completely oblivious.
Your is name Jimmy Garoppolo. Then she likes you. Enough said. Now search him and see why.🤔😆
Hey jx i only have one problem im scared of getting slapped or be insulted with her friends
8:25 this is a BIG ONE. same girl i mentioned earlier. I am away a lot, so when I see photos or videos of her out with her friends, majority of the time she is ON HER PHONE. Whenever she is around me, she is NOT. Even at the concert, yes she recorded some stuff but her head wasn't focused on the phone browsing whatever. Issue with this girl, she keeps playing the "we are friends" game, we have known each other for a very long time, but it was always filled with flirting, she would always be sending photos of herself, the clothes kept getting less. But we just never went further, now it's a situation she IS interested but she doesn't want to potentially lose the connection we have, because she hasn't had a good track record and she is the type totally cut a person off once they no longer in a relationship. So seem to like the "play we are in a relationship" thing without the title, LOL.
Maybe she has you as her top orbiter?
8:50 same girl I mentioned about the concert. Around 11am I let her I know I would pick her up at 6pm. Around 3pm she contacts me that she is leaving her place (in a Uber) to come to me at 5:20pm (she about 20-30mins away from me). Yes, she understood that I was to pick her up, but she just could not wait.
I mean the answer is always no so
Mmm not sure if girls actually care about skincare or not because that bit was just the lead up to an advertisement
Surround it with earth bags, call it an earth home
I thought she liked me and nope she blasted me down in public!!!not all women are nice during rejection
A man got to talk a lot of ladies and have friends if she likes u or not we have to move on to the next one that all men's we got to do just be nice and friendly to those beautiful women's out there
This is typical bad advice well intentioned women give men. This will only work if you are already a chad.
'she comes close to you in the gym as well'. Legit this week cute girls worked out on the opposite side of where I was training lol
shit happens i guess
there is a lot of girls wants me!
except my crush💔why???
Hiii. Have you got male friends ? Have you ever flirt with them? Is there friendly flirt and flirt for something more. I would like to make a video on friendzone female male friendships and the role of flirt in this situation. I have female friends and i see them friendly but sometimes i think they see me as a lover and im confused like what's you doing, imm readinggg 😂
You are describing 2% of extroverted girls only. Good luck lol
If you were not pushing a skin care product good skin would not have made the list
Oohhh.... Well I'm off to the gym.
I get the grocery store crossing way too much. Then this one lil chick at the coffee shop, I be torturing her pretending I dont notice. Got her dropping shit. Ear to eay smile. Unsolicited doscounts. Lingering eye with this goofy ass smile. Poppin up outa no whee just to say Youre all set! If I leave without acknowledging jer she yells, BYE! I be doing it on purpose just to tease her 😂
stockers! lol
Too much work. “I like you, let’s get dinner.” Repeat until you ask her to go steady.
Enough of this, “Her eyes were at a hypotenuse angle with a triple blink” bs. You can spin any action a woman does into her liking you.
I love your videos
What if she asks for my number then doesn't text me or call me
they dont
I mean, the intelligent guy doesn’t need this to be told and explained to him, lol. It’s kinda obvious.
I 🤘🏿was performing Master of Puppets 🤘🏿 on the sidewalk in front of the Westfield on Market Street in Downtown San Francisco, about a month ago. A woman that I have never met before in my whole life, walked up next to me, I almost hit her with my guitar, she played the worse air guitar, as her other 2 friends laughed, and recorded it. Who's number was I supposed to ask for? I can barely hit on 1 woman at a time! I was legit ambushed with sexual tension. Paralyzed by estrogen. I had LITERALLY NO £U€K!NG IDEA what to do! Giggity
Hey dear how are you doing
Hey dear how are you doing r
All girls want valadtion and thats it they have to many options .
What happened if a girl touch shoulder and rub there hand on the shoulder and smile and lock eyes
she just lookin and me and smile then i approached her and she run away like i am some pedophile xddd
My sister in law always ask me how she look whenever she dress and goes outside also sometimes grabs my arm lets me massage her head and traps Is she flirting or interested in me?
9:00 that has NOTHING to do with "value" of the person. It has to do with HER INTEREST LEVEL. you all got too caught up in this "high value" social medium junk too much, you use it out of context.
I used to turn heads when I was younger now all I do is turn Stomachs
Based on all of these, yep…she likes me
Can I hear david point of view
Why can't you Woman, just start talking to us, asking us out, cause in all seriousness, we cant tell anything from being too nice, to being flirty or whatever you do, to try to attract a man, like you are playing mind games, and I do believe, real Woman will approach and ask a guy out, if they want them to be on a date, ladies just do it and ask, the time has come for you to make the first move and ask us out on dates. Its now or never ladies, say thanks to feminism and the meetoo movement for destroying the culture of Men, for good.
Keep dreaming brother. They will never ask us out because rejection literally kills them.
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Julia, please give me your IMHO and insight: question you never answer before: when I told her to text me "when she'll have a free evening this or next week" - how long should I wait till contact from her? Should I text her with anything to provoke contact? Actual state of things: met on the gym 2 times, talked for half hour or longer, gave her advice she asked - by text, then I went silent and she text first (like 4 times), between that I text first one time (with banter). Then she send me link to event poster with artist we both like. I treated it like invitation so ask her (keeping cool) if she want to go grab some drink... She textnext day - told her I 'm busy with friends and need to go offline. Next day we met at the gym (wasn't her usula training day) and she knew hours I'll be there. She text later that day, we talkde and banter for a while... Since that day I went silent and so is she. It has been 4 days since we texted and 6 days from "when free evening". She 11 out of 10. I'm really keeping it cool since now. She gave me a lot of positive signals, but now I'm a little bit confused (I'm ill atm).
You are absolutely gorgeous
If you have sisters you would.know all this
My girl called me gay lol
Lmfao
Lol 😆