12:03 ignoring their actions is ignoring reality 12:03 someone that loves you shows you compassion 12:55 you’re only hurting yourself by telling yourself they care/love you when they don’t say or show it 13:11 fantasizing that they feel otherwise is lying to yourself 13:54 it’s not all about what you want, it’s about what they want they have their own wants & desires 14:34 (reality check) 15:20 some progress isn’t enough, significant change is necessary 16:24 answer to ‘should I wait for her’ - NO x 9 17:52 the distortion of ‘destiny’, fantasies of it & how to reframe harmful beliefs of it
Why am I still crying 56 days later?? I think he’s found a new girl. I miss him every moment of the day. We haven’t talked since the break up, except for 2 weeks after which I initiated to ask him to stop sharing his location with me. He wished the best for me. I miss him so much.
Your fortunate you haven't neen crying for two years like me , no sleep , doing things that are not you ... It's a miserable life . The only chance you have is No Contact What so ever , give them space and just maybe ..
Lol I am waiting on someone to put all the clips together where you say 'people please spell check before sending so that I dont look incompetent' lol ...another excellent video
Wow...when you said if she didn’t care about him, that it sucks, but he has to care about himself, really hit me hard. I’m in my 40s and have loved two men in my life. First one was my son’s father and now I’m trying to move on from a man that I was in a “situation” with for 4 years. I know, I’m too old to be so stupid. But there is just something about him that I love and care about so deeply. I love him in every way you can love someone. I’ve been in NC for 14 months and I broke down and sent him a message a couple days ago say hello and that I hoped he was doing well. I also asked if he was seeing anyone. His reply was nice enough, and he said he wasn’t seeing anyone and that he was content being single. Idk, but I replied back that I still had these strong feelings for him and that basically I wanted to be with him. As of yet, I’ve received no response. I’m tearing up as I right this. I love him with all my heart and would give him the world if I could. He, much like my ex husband, just can’t reciprocate that. It’s my curse in life, I think. I’m afraid I’ll always want men who don’t want me back. 😔😢💔
Damn and I thought I had it bad. Poor guy. It really does have to get to a point where you need to have self respect for yourself and keep it moving. When you’re blocked that’s it let that go. I still have a toxic ex ten years mind you and still tries to find a way to contact. I think he is psycho now thanks to that. What’s meant to be will be. But have to take care of yourself first and make yourself happy so you don’t end up like this when it’s over. Nothing is a guarantee even in the best of relationships I am learning that now.
Some people have the worst grammar, adults too; spellcheck, people! It floors us when my sister gets emails from her kids school from their teachers and they can’t write or spell, and they’re teachers? Anyway, sounds like the girl was the guys first, like mine and he miss have attachment issues or trauma growing up, like I had (and many other things) and it’s hard to let go of someone when you had all that suffering. My relationship lasted 5 and a half years and I broke up 5 weeks ago, I still hurt and cry every day and night to get it out and I watch Craig’s channel and his videos to get me by and lighten my mood! I still hold on to hope though
My favourite video thus far, coach!!! Thank you for all your hardwork and dedication on these wonderful videos! I can so totally relate to the ending bout believing in soulmates, or fate/destiny. Sounds romantic, but living in fantasy and daydreaming is definitely not the way to go, and unhealthy. Excellent advice on living life fully and letting go!!!...Afterall, if they are really your soulmate, destiny will bring them back to what's meant to be 😆 Thanks again, coach. 🤗
I feel like guys that actually treat their partners well don't get second chances because there's not a whole lot to change. Sure we can work on insecurities, find a new job, go to the gym but they've been treated well. But a guy that is disrespectful, uncaring, inattentive, anger, etc get second chances because those things can improve and it's because they love them so much blah blah blah. Maybe we should just be shitty people.
i begged, called, texted for 2 months and now i stopped and i'm on day 25 of no contact. i wish i had done this from the start. you dont deserve to beg them to be with you. if they regret their desicion they will come back, you only disrespect yourself and show you have no dignity. thats my opinion after this experience
What makes me feel bad is that she wanted to end things, but regretted it in 48 hours and phoned me crying that she misses me. Then I disappointed her and she left again few weeks later.
@@buek14 what do you mean you disappointed her? I'm scared of this because if my ex does come back (really praying he does) I'm worried that he'll immediately change his mind or something like that.
@@peachblossom.phlox3403 Well, we immediately went to a party after this and there she didn't feel what she wanted to feel. Kinda crazy. Anyway I'm over her for about a year now. Deleted her phone number and removed her from my followers on IG, also muted her on FB. Nonetheless she broke no contact last October by the time I was dating someone else and met a handful of cool people on the road. Now I don't care about this ex anymore, even if she begged to me, I wouldn't want her back. She's a codependent person and I was in a way of a rebound to her just like the next guy after me. People like this are toxic.
I just got out of a three month relationship and she really upset me and I asked for space for a little while. She got really angry after a couple days and told me it wasn’t working for her anymore and asked me to stop contacting her. Her dad called me 5 minutes later and threatened me saying he knew where I lived and worked and threatened me with a restraining or for no reason. I got the police involved when he said he was coming to my house and I got a civil standby to get my stuff back. I haven’t called or texted her since then for about a month now. I’m not sure if we’ll ever be anything again at this point. She was very nice and we clicked very well, but I’m not sure if she’ll ever come back now.
😂 I’ve been in similar situations I can only Laugh so hard.. ! I think we’ve all been here. You are awesome coach. I can tell you really love what you do. Thank you.
Love you Coach Graig! No faffing about!😂😂 You said it "you are ignoring reality "! I believe it is important that a coach deliver his intake, in a brutal manner! No sugar coating words! For healing to take place, we need to see the reality of the matter! Thanks Coach Craig for all you do! Much love💖❤💖
I had been in a similar situation before. The twin flame journey omg that phase was scary....seriously. The psychic literally convinced into believing such things which was real bad for my mental health. I have learned a lot from that phase....just don’t go into such stuff...it really sucks.
coach what if your ex is angry at your parents and this influenced his desicion to breakup with you? even if he changes his mind i dont believe his will try to get back
I'm really tired coach, I'm so done trying to hang on a hope, all I want to do is move on, but I can't, why can't I move on even when I want to? all it takes is a message, or just to see her when I get my kids. and everything falls apart. what do I need to do to move on? she's with someone and already living together. what else do I need to see to get in my head to realize it's over?
Kids... it hurts so much :/ Im trying to wrap my head around the fact that the ...now ex step dad of my son and the father of my unborn son broke up with me but i just can't do it. I just can't. How long have you been like that? doesnt it get easier with time?
Am in a similar situation... I was the one who did the begging. I stopped after he said he was cutting me off, and, when he blocked all channels of comunication... we've gone NC for a month... we are colleagues... lately he seems nervous around me, but, I pretend not to see/feel anything. Truth is... I still love him deeply. But, I'm afraid of reaching out and driving him away. He's very stoic... I only sense the nervous vibes lately. I might be wrong. I was depressed after he cut me off, but, eventually got around to doing the things I used to enjoy doing, and, trying to live my life. I still think about him 24/7... is there really no hope, even though I was the begger? Can you please contact me, Mr. Craig? I would like to get a consult, but, I went to your page and I really can't afford it.
Almost sounds like my current girlfriend. It seems she rather have time alone than spend it with me . We usually only see each other on the weekends. She uses stress at work and her son as an excuse. It wasn't like that in the beginning. I told her I was happy to be in a relationship with her and she said I'm glad you're happy with my version of a relationship. What the F?
As bad as good as it can go with me being an anxious preoccupied and her being an avoidant personality. But I am learning to deal with our relationship issues. Knowledge is power. When things are going her way everything is perfect. When it's not.....
can u pls make a video on how to stop thinking about ex. after breaking up of 8yr relationship..she was my first love.i feel like dying every single day tears come out frm my eyes in her memories. I'm unable to do my regular activities.moving on feels impossible
This is extremely creepy, its very similar to my case besides the "she was dumped by her fiance". My ex also said i was "perfect" but that she doesnt need a man in her life after 12 years of relationship, is this a new trend with the "strong independent woman" movement? haha. She really broke my heart, also blocked me from all social media and calls since day 1. She called me some weeks after saying that she really misses me, but that shes still firm with her decision...
He has been calling and texting me. He moved out of state when he left. He tells me he loves me, misses me, wants us to work on ourselves and then come back together. Thing is he does this calling and texting me when he is feeling depressed, I assume because he will cry when we talk about the break up and all that stuff. He is a vet and waiting to get surgery. Then I don't hear from again for a couple of weeks. If I initiate a text I get short answers. So now I don't text him anymore, again the with no contact. So I am holding on to hope that he meant what he said. Anybody have any suggestions.
Coach you are right. Thanks for another great video and insight. I wish I had found your work earlier in life. My ex told me I was the greatest love of her life and that she will always love me for the rest of her life. Then she goes right back to her ex. She continued to tell me she loved me deeply and regretted the break up because she wanted to marry me and grow old together. She kept reaching out to me even when she told me she was spending time rebuilding with her ex. I told her t make up her mind and choose like you teach. If I cannot be with you the way I want then no thanks. I agree with DreamBeatsBakery. She had Dad issues. She actually ran from her ex to me and then turned around and ran from me back to him. I should have read the signs from her past and Dad issues. I ignored all the signs you have talked about and the fact she had been married twice before. She ran from both of her ex husbands, and I found out she cheated on both as well. Now she tells me she is going to honor her marriage and go back to him. Mind you she divorced him after we met. Trust me I held on for minute but she is gone and that is reality. I am moving on with my life now. No way would I want her back to ruin my life twice. No thanks. Hope is not healthy with women like this it will only hurt you more. Move on and don't look back. You might bump your head......
Your ex sugar coated some bullshit for you, so she wouldn't feel guilty about leaving you and breaking your heart. That's NOT love and her actions spoke louder than her bullshit words. Hope all is well, just learn and grow from this, find someone who will match their actions with their words.
Thanks man. I realize it was because I watched her actions vs her words. Her words were very compelling. Then this happened. She is a master manipulator. I found out the hard way she is not the woman I thought she was. I think she would have done this even if I had married her if something did not go her way. I have a feeling she is not done. She used the fact that they have kids together as part of the excuse as well. Only time will tell.
You're welcome, I just hope you realize this woman is incapable of a healthy and loving relationship cause she's all about what serves her and doesn't care about the destruction she leaves behind. She will only come back if there's a self serving benefit in it for her, so beware of that. Ex's don't come back because they woke up one day and suddenly fell back in love with you, they come back cause it serves their needs, not yours. I know this from my own experiences.
You are right. Thanks man. I think that is what she did because her ex started paying bills for her while we were still together, and I was not aware until she dropped the hammer on me. I found out they had already opened a bank account together and had a trip planned within a month of us breaking up. WTF!?
Oh man, well he's basically buying her back and that's her only motivation for going back to him, not because of "love" cause there's a monetary gain in it for her. She's playing her cards to get the best financial deal and if that falls through, she'll be back telling you "How sorry she is" and that she was just "confused", so if that happens, don't fall for it. She doesn't have "love" for you or anyone else, so let her use some other poor dude out there. My wife wanted to come back 6 years later but ONLY when she needed a place to stay until she could get back on her feet, but I said NO. hahaha. I was nice about it but it would only been to use me, so just beware of what females will do to manipulate any male for their own gain. ;)
Coach Craig , is there any hope left for me after my wife of 19 year's of marriage , separated from me 2 years ago , I've been Ghosted , No contact from her what so ever , and No contact from me . Sincerely , Heartbroken .
C.C. I'm really interested in using your coaching I have a situation my ex says she loves me we haven't spoke for 3 months she she sends me an occasional I love you I miss you and I can't wait to be with you but then goes blank and ghost me out she just pulled this hot and cold she send me an occasional messages saying she loves me she can't way to be with me thing going on for 4 months I finally called her out on her BS and follow-through I'm not going to wait by the phone well now she blocked should I tell her that I'm over the games and that she doesn't have the compassion to acknowledge me as a man as a person or should I just go blank on her I sent her a email saying that I'm working on myself and then if she like we can work things out so basically what I'm saying is should I give her a goodbye letter or just go blank I really do want to get back with her but at the same time I'm tired of your shit
Hello Coach Craig, I wanted to start by saying I am learning from your videos that everything I have done in the past almost 20 months was completely WRONG. I really wish I would have found you sooner. Well I guess I should start with I know you require personal one on one coaching but unfortunately due to the fact that my ex is not helping me with our 2 sons financially or really any other way, I just can't afford to to the one on one coaching right now. If anything hopefully just getting how I feeling out will lessen my want to just be done with life. My ex and I have been together for over 21 years and we have 2 sons. Our oldest is almost 19 and the youngest is almost 12. We are not legally married but consider ourselves to be husband and wife. The last 4 or 5 years have been not the best. A big problem is his mother. And she is basically the reason I asked him to leave and not to comeback until he could apologize foe speaking to me the way he did because of her. That was in September 2017. Two months later he moved to Texas for his job and abandoned our sons and me. Although he was in Texas he would come home every other weekend. We talked and texed everyday. When he would come for the weekends we still acted as if nothing had changed except that he didn't live with us. In July 2018 his grandfather passed away on the weekend of our oldest sons birthday. Theee weeks later he moved back from Texas but lived with his grandmother to help her. He started coming and staying every weekend then. I have constantly begged and pleaded for him to move home. There has been times when he has given little hints he eventually would. During all of this time we were still intimate and he was still telling me he loved me. This all changed at the end of February after his birthday. We have not seen him since then. Now just 3 or so weeks ago he texted me that he was no longer going to spend the weekends and that he just wanted to see our sons away from our home. He also said that he wanted to get the rest of his belongings that are still here. He has said that it is over, I need to move on and we will never be together again. He said he has had plenty of time to think about it and he will not change his mind. He is my soul mate and I intended on spending the rest of my life with him. We talked about it all the time. There is so much more to this but I would have to write a book ro get it all out. If there is any insight you can give me I would greatly appreciate it. I really really wish I could afford to talk to you as I know I could explain so much better. So again if there is any way you could give me a little insight into this my sons and I would greatly appreciate it. Thanking you in advance for taking the time out to read this. Have a great evening, Brandi
Isn’t your job to help people to get back together? Seems like your a problem worshiper and not a solution finder. Who says she doesn’t want to be loved? You’re job is to help him find ways to do that in a way she is asking for and break down the tension between the two. Clearly something happened and you were supposed to try to help him get around the real problem, which is NOT her blocking him. I feel sorry for this guy. I hope he doesn’t give up because of you and he finds the appropriate advice to help him repair his relationship to her. >:(
I see where you're coming from, actually this video was a little harsher than normal, it did feel like he was mocking him a tad. But this is one of those situations that doesn't seem to have a solution, the man needs to hear the truth, its almost painful to listen to, it's really disillusioned, he even did a tarot card reading, he's desperate. She's already made up her mind to to not be with him. Im glad I had friends around me that smashed truth into my thick headed cranium. I feel sorry for the guy, but I feel relieved for him. Its a good kind of pain. It's not always about getting back the ex, sometimes holding on is what will kill you. And it's the kind of poision that works is way slowly.
12:03 ignoring their actions is ignoring reality 12:03 someone that loves you shows you compassion 12:55 you’re only hurting yourself by telling yourself they care/love you when they don’t say or show it 13:11 fantasizing that they feel otherwise is lying to yourself 13:54 it’s not all about what you want, it’s about what they want they have their own wants & desires 14:34 (reality check) 15:20 some progress isn’t enough, significant change is necessary 16:24 answer to ‘should I wait for her’ - NO x 9 17:52 the distortion of ‘destiny’, fantasies of it & how to reframe harmful beliefs of it
My ex fiancé told me the same crap; “our relationship was amazing” or “I’m so lucky to have you in my life”... interesting how she chose to leave 🤔
Omg. This episode is so funny. I couldn’t stop laughing out loud. 😂😂😂😂 Look what love has done to us. Hahaha!!!
Yun-Tzu Chang I was laughing too!
So true this one was pretty rough omg
It better be! I need a good laugh. lol
This person reminds me of me…lol…anxiety makes you say and do too much!!!😂😂😂
How to say “No” in a 100 ways or more by Craig. 😂🤣
A bit of calm when you talked about a soul mate.. Live your life and your soul mate will eventuality you there... that helped out so much...
Why am I still crying 56 days later?? I think he’s found a new girl. I miss him every moment of the day. We haven’t talked since the break up, except for 2 weeks after which I initiated to ask him to stop sharing his location with me. He wished the best for me. I miss him so much.
i hope you are feeling better now miss
Brianna any update??
Your fortunate you haven't neen crying for two years like me , no sleep , doing things that are not you ... It's a miserable life . The only chance you have is No Contact What so ever , give them space and just maybe
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Amy updates? :(
ErrNo , things are the same , Thanks though .
This one is very helpful and I need to hear it over and over to help it sink in
I've been through something similar or even worst.. things always change.. don't worry brother.. stop lying to yourself.. and move on
Lol I am waiting on someone to put all the clips together where you say 'people please spell check before sending so that I dont look incompetent' lol ...another excellent video
The grammar part cracked me up. 😂😂😂... great video
I needed some laughs today and this video certainly delivered. Thanks for making us laugh during these dark times!
Wow...when you said if she didn’t care about him, that it sucks, but he has to care about himself, really hit me hard. I’m in my 40s and have loved two men in my life. First one was my son’s father and now I’m trying to move on from a man that I was in a “situation” with for 4 years. I know, I’m too old to be so stupid. But there is just something about him that I love and care about so deeply. I love him in every way you can love someone. I’ve been in NC for 14 months and I broke down and sent him a message a couple days ago say hello and that I hoped he was doing well. I also asked if he was seeing anyone. His reply was nice enough, and he said he wasn’t seeing anyone and that he was content being single. Idk, but I replied back that I still had these strong feelings for him and that basically I wanted to be with him. As of yet, I’ve received no response. I’m tearing up as I right this. I love him with all my heart and would give him the world if I could. He, much like my ex husband, just can’t reciprocate that. It’s my curse in life, I think. I’m afraid I’ll always want men who don’t want me back. 😔😢💔
Any update?
I’m really sorry for you 😢
Damn and I thought I had it bad. Poor guy. It really does have to get to a point where you need to have self respect for yourself and keep it moving. When you’re blocked that’s it let that go. I still have a toxic ex ten years mind you and still tries to find a way to contact. I think he is psycho now thanks to that. What’s meant to be will be. But have to take care of yourself first and make yourself happy so you don’t end up like this when it’s over. Nothing is a guarantee even in the best of relationships I am learning that now.
Some people have the worst grammar, adults too; spellcheck, people! It floors us when my sister gets emails from her kids school from their teachers and they can’t write or spell, and they’re teachers?
Anyway, sounds like the girl was the guys first, like mine and he miss have attachment issues or trauma growing up, like I had (and many other things) and it’s hard to let go of someone when you had all that suffering. My relationship lasted 5 and a half years and I broke up 5 weeks ago, I still hurt and cry every day and night to get it out and I watch Craig’s channel and his videos to get me by and lighten my mood! I still hold on to hope though
My favourite video thus far, coach!!! Thank you for all your hardwork and dedication on these wonderful videos! I can so totally relate to the ending bout believing in soulmates, or fate/destiny. Sounds romantic, but living in fantasy and daydreaming is definitely not the way to go, and unhealthy. Excellent advice on living life fully and letting go!!!...Afterall, if they are really your soulmate, destiny will bring them back to what's meant to be 😆 Thanks again, coach. 🤗
I feel like guys that actually treat their partners well don't get second chances because there's not a whole lot to change. Sure we can work on insecurities, find a new job, go to the gym but they've been treated well. But a guy that is disrespectful, uncaring, inattentive, anger, etc get second chances because those things can improve and it's because they love them so much blah blah blah. Maybe we should just be shitty people.
I’m far more in love with my motorcycle than i am with my exes these days 😂
i begged, called, texted for 2 months and now i stopped and i'm on day 25 of no contact. i wish i had done this from the start. you dont deserve to beg them to be with you. if they regret their desicion they will come back, you only disrespect yourself and show you have no dignity. thats my opinion after this experience
What makes me feel bad is that she wanted to end things, but regretted it in 48 hours and phoned me crying that she misses me. Then I disappointed her and she left again few weeks later.
@@buek14 same bro...how did things work out for you ?
@@buek14 what do you mean you disappointed her? I'm scared of this because if my ex does come back (really praying he does) I'm worried that he'll immediately change his mind or something like that.
@@peachblossom.phlox3403 Well, we immediately went to a party after this and there she didn't feel what she wanted to feel. Kinda crazy.
Anyway I'm over her for about a year now. Deleted her phone number and removed her from my followers on IG, also muted her on FB. Nonetheless she broke no contact last October by the time I was dating someone else and met a handful of cool people on the road. Now I don't care about this ex anymore, even if she begged to me, I wouldn't want her back. She's a codependent person and I was in a way of a rebound to her just like the next guy after me. People like this are toxic.
How's it going now Georgia K?
I just got out of a three month relationship and she really upset me and I asked for space for a little while. She got really angry after a couple days and told me it wasn’t working for her anymore and asked me to stop contacting her. Her dad called me 5 minutes later and threatened me saying he knew where I lived and worked and threatened me with a restraining or for no reason. I got the police involved when he said he was coming to my house and I got a civil standby to get my stuff back. I haven’t called or texted her since then for about a month now. I’m not sure if we’ll ever be anything again at this point. She was very nice and we clicked very well, but I’m not sure if she’ll ever come back now.
😂 I’ve been in similar situations I can only
Laugh so hard.. ! I think we’ve all been here.
You are awesome coach. I can tell you really love what you do. Thank you.
😂😂😂😂😂 coach went full savage with this vid!
Love you Coach Graig! No faffing about!😂😂 You said it "you are ignoring reality "! I believe it is important that a coach deliver his intake, in a brutal manner! No sugar coating words! For healing to take place, we need to see the reality of the matter! Thanks Coach Craig for all you do! Much love💖❤💖
Craig's voice pitch change between reading the email then talking normal 😁😄😅🤣
Yes!! I like how you turned the perception of "destiny" around. Brilliant!
During this type of email I’m always reminded of the men that I do not want but they absolutely will not go away and even stalk. Ewe.
Craig kills it in this video. Keep it up coach, and thank you for your guidance.
I had been in a similar situation before. The twin flame journey omg that phase was scary....seriously. The psychic literally convinced into believing such things which was real bad for my mental health. I have learned a lot from that phase....just don’t go into such stuff...it really sucks.
Psychics, paranormal, religion, it's all BS. Better to be an adult, educate yourself and live the best life possible.
Coach Ken is hilarious even when he not trying to be. Said everything I was think.
Swear this episode had me laughing. He's clearly obsessed. She got that man sprung 😂😂😂
coach what if your ex is angry at your parents and this influenced his desicion to breakup with you? even if he changes his mind i dont believe his will try to get back
I'm really tired coach, I'm so done trying to hang on a hope, all I want to do is move on, but I can't, why can't I move on even when I want to? all it takes is a message, or just to see her when I get my kids. and everything falls apart. what do I need to do to move on? she's with someone and already living together. what else do I need to see to get in my head to realize it's over?
Kids... it hurts so much :/ Im trying to wrap my head around the fact that the ...now ex step dad of my son and the father of my unborn son broke up with me but i just can't do it. I just can't.
How long have you been like that? doesnt it get easier with time?
you both better seek a professional help because it's really hard to go through this only by yourself
Why on earth would you be going to a psychic? Just focus on yourself. Be the you you've always wanted to be, that's all you can really control.
"NO. NO .NO . NO.NO
NO.
So Craig, is the answer NO?
Lisa Mitchell 😂😂😂😂 I couldn’t stop laughing!!!
Am in a similar situation... I was the one who did the begging. I stopped after he said he was cutting me off, and, when he blocked all channels of comunication... we've gone NC for a month... we are colleagues... lately he seems nervous around me, but, I pretend not to see/feel anything.
Truth is... I still love him deeply. But, I'm afraid of reaching out and driving him away. He's very stoic... I only sense the nervous vibes lately. I might be wrong.
I was depressed after he cut me off, but, eventually got around to doing the things I used to enjoy doing, and, trying to live my life.
I still think about him 24/7... is there really no hope, even though I was the begger?
Can you please contact me, Mr. Craig? I would like to get a consult, but, I went to your page and I really can't afford it.
Hope you're much happier now
11:25 when the audio messed up I thought you said fuck you but you said block you😂
Has there been any update from this guy??
Very true about that 'destiny' thing. Craig's correct.
Almost sounds like my current girlfriend. It seems she rather have time alone than spend it with me . We usually only see each other on the weekends. She uses stress at work and her son as an excuse. It wasn't like that in the beginning. I told her I was happy to be in a relationship with her and she said I'm glad you're happy with my version of a relationship. What the F?
Today my girlfriend text me " l love the way you look and affect me. I'm just slow on the end result." I'm not sure what she means by the end result.
how's it going?
As bad as good as it can go with me being an anxious preoccupied and her being an avoidant personality. But I am learning to deal with our relationship issues. Knowledge is power. When things are going her way everything is perfect. When it's not.....
can u pls make a video on how to stop thinking about ex. after breaking up of 8yr relationship..she was my first love.i feel like dying every single day tears come out frm my eyes in her memories. I'm unable to do my regular activities.moving on feels impossible
only yours can u provide an update mate
Yeap
Note to self: for a good laugh don’t use commas, periods, proper subject noun verb agreement, grammar when emailing Coach Craig.
This is so funny ,Craig is working so hard here . Please listen ! LOL
This is extremely creepy, its very similar to my case besides the "she was dumped by her fiance". My ex also said i was "perfect" but that she doesnt need a man in her life after 12 years of relationship, is this a new trend with the "strong independent woman" movement? haha. She really broke my heart, also blocked me from all social media and calls since day 1. She called me some weeks after saying that she really misses me, but that shes still firm with her decision...
He has been calling and texting me. He moved out of state when he left. He tells me he loves me, misses me, wants us to work on ourselves and then come back together. Thing is he does this calling and texting me when he is feeling depressed, I assume because he will cry when we talk about the break up and all that stuff. He is a vet and waiting to get surgery. Then I don't hear from again for a couple of weeks. If I initiate a text I get short answers. So now I don't text him anymore, again the with no contact. So I am holding on to hope that he meant what he said. Anybody have any suggestions.
I'm glad your making videos everyday coach so I can learn from your advice thank you
I loved when Craig jokingly said I dont know if you people are trying to sabotage me .....🤣🤣
Gawd, I hope I’m not THIS delusional
Coach you are right. Thanks for another great video and insight. I wish I had found your work earlier in life. My ex told me I was the greatest love of her life and that she will always love me for the rest of her life. Then she goes right back to her ex. She continued to tell me she loved me deeply and regretted the break up because she wanted to marry me and grow old together. She kept reaching out to me even when she told me she was spending time rebuilding with her ex. I told her t make up her mind and choose like you teach. If I cannot be with you the way I want then no thanks. I agree with DreamBeatsBakery. She had Dad issues. She actually ran from her ex to me and then turned around and ran from me back to him. I should have read the signs from her past and Dad issues. I ignored all the signs you have talked about and the fact she had been married twice before. She ran from both of her ex husbands, and I found out she cheated on both as well. Now she tells me she is going to honor her marriage and go back to him. Mind you she divorced him after we met. Trust me I held on for minute but she is gone and that is reality. I am moving on with my life now. No way would I want her back to ruin my life twice. No thanks. Hope is not healthy with women like this it will only hurt you more. Move on and don't look back. You might bump your head......
Your ex sugar coated some bullshit for you, so she wouldn't feel guilty about leaving you and breaking your heart. That's NOT love and her actions spoke louder than her bullshit words. Hope all is well, just learn and grow from this, find someone who will match their actions with their words.
Thanks man. I realize it was because I watched her actions vs her words. Her words were very compelling. Then this happened. She is a master manipulator. I found out the hard way she is not the woman I thought she was. I think she would have done this even if I had married her if something did not go her way. I have a feeling she is not done. She used the fact that they have kids together as part of the excuse as well. Only time will tell.
You're welcome, I just hope you realize this woman is incapable of a healthy and loving relationship cause she's all about what serves her and doesn't care about the destruction she leaves behind. She will only come back if there's a self serving benefit in it for her, so beware of that. Ex's don't come back because they woke up one day and suddenly fell back in love with you, they come back cause it serves their needs, not yours. I know this from my own experiences.
You are right. Thanks man. I think that is what she did because her ex started paying bills for her while we were still together, and I was not aware until she dropped the hammer on me. I found out they had already opened a bank account together and had a trip planned within a month of us breaking up. WTF!?
Oh man, well he's basically buying her back and that's her only motivation for going back to him, not because of "love" cause there's a monetary gain in it for her. She's playing her cards to get the best financial deal and if that falls through, she'll be back telling you "How sorry she is" and that she was just "confused", so if that happens, don't fall for it. She doesn't have "love" for you or anyone else, so let her use some other poor dude out there. My wife wanted to come back 6 years later but ONLY when she needed a place to stay until she could get back on her feet, but I said NO. hahaha. I was nice about it but it would only been to use me, so just beware of what females will do to manipulate any male for their own gain. ;)
Coach Craig , is there any hope left for me after my wife of 19 year's of marriage , separated from me 2 years ago , I've been Ghosted , No contact from her what so ever , and No contact from me . Sincerely , Heartbroken .
Craig Kenneth is there any way for you to contact me I know u are very busy but my situation is very extreme hope you see this message
Gurl you so beautiful you can find someone new
Dr Craig
Is there a way to send you a private message?
Yea , not everyone can afford Coaching , give someone a little bone .
This sounds so familiar
I really wish I had the money to have a Skype session with Craig....
Poor guy, can't see she doesn't want anything to do with the him
Its simple....Love Hurts
Psychics wanna get paid, too. For a price, I'll tell u whatever you wanna hear LOL 🤣
You should give the actual statistics of your cases.
That’s simply impossible. Anyone who gives stats is lying. Trust me. Anyone who says something like that, is flat out lying and don’t trust them!
This behavior (on the part of the dude), is bordering on HARASSMENT.
C.C. I'm really interested in using your coaching I have a situation my ex says she loves me we haven't spoke for 3 months she she sends me an occasional I love you I miss you and I can't wait to be with you but then goes blank and ghost me out she just pulled this hot and cold she send me an occasional messages saying she loves me she can't way to be with me thing going on for 4 months I finally called her out on her BS and follow-through I'm not going to wait by the phone well now she blocked should I tell her that I'm over the games and that she doesn't have the compassion to acknowledge me as a man as a person or should I just go blank on her I sent her a email saying that I'm working on myself and then if she like we can work things out so basically what I'm saying is should I give her a goodbye letter or just go blank I really do want to get back with her but at the same time I'm tired of your shit
She's mental mate
This guy was only a rebound
LMAO!!!!! THE SPELL CHECK!
This guy story is me lol
I wonder if she ever came back ? 😂😂😂
This guy is definitely suffering from delusions of grandeur lol
Hello Coach Craig,
I wanted to start by saying I am learning from your videos that everything I have done in the past almost 20 months was completely WRONG. I really wish I would have found you sooner. Well I guess I should start with I know you require personal one on one coaching but unfortunately due to the fact that my ex is not helping me with our 2 sons financially or really any other way, I just can't afford to to the one on one coaching right now. If anything hopefully just getting how I feeling out will lessen my want to just be done with life. My ex and I have been together for over 21 years and we have 2 sons. Our oldest is almost 19 and the youngest is almost 12. We are not legally married but consider ourselves to be husband and wife. The last 4 or 5 years have been not the best. A big problem is his mother. And she is basically the reason I asked him to leave and not to comeback until he could apologize foe speaking to me the way he did because of her. That was in September 2017. Two months later he moved to Texas for his job and abandoned our sons and me. Although he was in Texas he would come home every other weekend. We talked and texed everyday. When he would come for the weekends we still acted as if nothing had changed except that he didn't live with us. In July 2018 his grandfather passed away on the weekend of our oldest sons birthday. Theee weeks later he moved back from Texas but lived with his grandmother to help her. He started coming and staying every weekend then. I have constantly begged and pleaded for him to move home. There has been times when he has given little hints he eventually would. During all of this time we were still intimate and he was still telling me he loved me. This all changed at the end of February after his birthday. We have not seen him since then. Now just 3 or so weeks ago he texted me that he was no longer going to spend the weekends and that he just wanted to see our sons away from our home. He also said that he wanted to get the rest of his belongings that are still here. He has said that it is over, I need to move on and we will never be together again. He said he has had plenty of time to think about it and he will not change his mind. He is my soul mate and I intended on spending the rest of my life with him. We talked about it all the time. There is so much more to this but I would have to write a book ro get it all out. If there is any insight you can give me I would greatly appreciate it. I really really wish I could afford to talk to you as I know I could explain so much better. So again if there is any way you could give me a little insight into this my sons and I would greatly appreciate it. Thanking you in advance for taking the time out to read this.
Have a great evening,
Brandi
No sorry.. But she really don't feel for him..
I met guys like him.. N once I been at his place n been blocked everywhere 2.
This guy is clueless. He couldn’t just leave her alone and let her come to him. Move on fella. 😂
she did find anther guy
Toni toni was it your girl? lol curious
LMAO you sure got your work cut out for you big boy 🙊
Jeez, what a needy guy. Just stop contacting if woman asks.
she gib a bub er she gib a bub hahahahahahaha spell check
Grammar comments...Sabotage 😂😂😂
Isn’t your job to help people to get back together? Seems like your a problem worshiper and not a solution finder. Who says she doesn’t want to be loved? You’re job is to help him find ways to do that in a way she is asking for and break down the tension between the two. Clearly something happened and you were supposed to try to help him get around the real problem, which is NOT her blocking him. I feel sorry for this guy. I hope he doesn’t give up because of you and he finds the appropriate advice to help him repair his relationship to her. >:(
I see where you're coming from, actually this video was a little harsher than normal, it did feel like he was mocking him a tad. But this is one of those situations that doesn't seem to have a solution, the man needs to hear the truth, its almost painful to listen to, it's really disillusioned, he even did a tarot card reading, he's desperate. She's already made up her mind to to not be with him. Im glad I had friends around me that smashed truth into my thick headed cranium. I feel sorry for the guy, but I feel relieved for him. Its a good kind of pain. It's not always about getting back the ex, sometimes holding on is what will kill you. And it's the kind of poision that works is way slowly.
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