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  • Give Your Breakup Time. Yes, Breakups need time to turn around. Time is a critical aspect of getting an ex back. If you give a break up time, the situation can often improve.
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  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy15 5 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I tell people that I watch videos from a relationship coach online to help me through me relationship hardships. But they look at me funny. People don't know how good Coach Kenneth is. I am very thankful I stumbled across this man and Ms. Margaret. They have helped me more than my family and friends.

  • @joshcourtois9556
    @joshcourtois9556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +656

    I never watched so many videos in my life.

    • @BETherealBWA
      @BETherealBWA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Me either.... I'm so heartbroken

    • @joshcourtois9556
      @joshcourtois9556 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too!

    • @iCreationProduction
      @iCreationProduction 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      less than a month they jump into a new relationship

    • @cindercinnamon2204
      @cindercinnamon2204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@iCreationProduction Rebound

    • @chase3864
      @chase3864 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Josh Courtois that’s a fact

  • @maristoldboys5466
    @maristoldboys5466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Let time do the heavy lifting for you. Be patient and also realise that you are the prize.

  • @anisshafikahabdulrahman8103
    @anisshafikahabdulrahman8103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Being dumped on this quarantine time is just too much 😭😭😭😭

    • @dankline9162
      @dankline9162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's also bad breaking up last year, finally getting her to meet you when the virus was on the horizon, but failing bc you were too eager and emotional. I didnt find helpful videos yet at that point, and it hurt me. NC... When you know that you could be helping this person through this difficult time.. Is really hard.

    • @10imbahashimgulzar75
      @10imbahashimgulzar75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know, right?

    • @renatosilvaportilla1564
      @renatosilvaportilla1564 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@10imbahashimgulzar75 It literally sucks too much

    • @10imbahashimgulzar75
      @10imbahashimgulzar75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@renatosilvaportilla1564 have faith, we all are gonna get through this!

    • @adriedrake8605
      @adriedrake8605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too. No matter what he put me thru I still love and miss him. It's been so rough.

  • @wrektem240
    @wrektem240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    All y’all going through this with me.. stay strong, stay positive, focus on rebuilding your mental state. Say it with me, this will not define me, I will get past this. It’s all love. Yeah it hurts. Stay focused. Ps I love this guys videos. Phenomenal

    • @HN-kk7vy
      @HN-kk7vy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wrektem thank you, I needed this today

    • @ATXMEX78
      @ATXMEX78 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you doing? I'm 1 month and 10 days in on being dumped from my ldr I am a bit stronger now she just gives me breadcrumbs here and there just to check on my torn ACL LOL
      I'm pretty sure she's missing me since I'm doing no contact and maybe she doesn't miss me that's the mystery of it all for me

    • @missqueen5878
      @missqueen5878 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thankyou

  • @NK-iu5tf
    @NK-iu5tf ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don't wish this pain on my worst enemy.

  • @josh2838
    @josh2838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    She came back. Thanks Craig for helping me through the process. Your awesome !!!!!!!

    • @bartucelasun4909
      @bartucelasun4909 ปีที่แล้ว

      can you share your story

    • @josh2838
      @josh2838 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@bartucelasun4909 my relationship split apart and was done for. No contact etc... Craig helped me have value and self worth. Once i changed from within, realized she missed me and wanted a different version of me. It takes two healthy individuals to have one healthy relationship. She came back to our marriage and now we are better than ever before.

    • @Benji88878
      @Benji88878 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is the hope I have a step at a time

  • @MUSICIANSAVANT
    @MUSICIANSAVANT 7 ปีที่แล้ว +476

    Women are stone cold........They can go from promising you their life, saying they are yours for life, talking about life together, to turning into an emotionless robot the next day....... Unreal.

    • @Valoelify
      @Valoelify 7 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      +MUSICIANSAVANT WOMEN???? Are you for fucking real???? I finally found the love of my life he was such an incredibly warm, sweet loving man and I loved him so much and I loved to drown him in my warm love, he said I was the best girlfriend he has ever had and he has never felt so loved and happy ever in his life like I made him feel, he came with all these big fucking words about how he wanted to marry me, and have kids with me, and how he wanted to be with me for the next 70 years. I never said such big words first, because Men have often told me big words that are nothing but empty bullshit in the end. But he seemed to be the most honest genuine man in the world and I wanted to believe him so I did... fool I was... when he said them I would always return the words, I wanted to spend my life with him. But nooooope... him and his big words was gone before even a tiny pathetic year could pass. He said "always" so many times but was gone right away from my life as if he was never there, he said "I want to be with you for 70 years then 35.000 years" blah blah that he "has never been so in love before" and he was shocked as he wondered if he had ever even been in love at all as everything else was nothing compared to what he felt for me.. blah blah blah...
      Yet he is gone before it has even been ONE year.... he broke up with me after 11 months together... I have never been so crushed and utterly broken in my entire life. I cried and cried and begged and begged and told him he is my happiness, I was soooo pathetic begging him to be with me don't leave me.... I told him he is the light of my life, don't take away my light... he is all I want... he is a perfect man... I told him everyday in our relationship that I felt like the happiest girl in the world that could have him as my boyfriend, that he made me so happy, that he was The One, he said the same things to me... but no... in the end... he went from the warmest, sweetest most passionate kind warm loving man... to a now STONE COLD, DISTANT, SELF-ABSORBED douchebag... :'( Don't come here with your bullshit about WOMEN as if we are all the same, my love for him never wavered, I was as warm as I have always been towards him even LONG after he became cold towards me. MEN are cold to me I'll say then. I am crushed for the rest of my life because of him.... I stopped talking with him 3 weeks ago EXACTLY because of how much his cold and distant behaviour was hurting me...

    • @MUSICIANSAVANT
      @MUSICIANSAVANT 7 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Ok, well...........wanna date?

    • @DuskAndHerEmbrace13
      @DuskAndHerEmbrace13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Jesus Christ I can see exactly why he left you...

    • @cristianx0115
      @cristianx0115 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      is sad when you love someone that much you gave them everythimg they came into our lifes then leave as if we have to chase them its sad when they leave and all we have to offer is all of our feelings that they dont care about is like ones we were climing to the top of the moutain as a Team then.... ones you start to need their help they keep going and abandon you leaving you there weak but we get back up we heal and use that pain as leaverage to climb faster than them

    • @patriciafalfan5029
      @patriciafalfan5029 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yes, that is truth, she said that she will never leave me that i was the love ogher love, i did wrong i know however she knew mew that way she made me change in many ways but not that fast and then she left me ! now she call me to say she loves me but we cant be together and bla bla......

  • @rickyderby
    @rickyderby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    We’re gonna get through this people💪🏼. Keep your head up, I get it, I’m hurting too rn. But the best thing we can do is work on ourselves. Let’s hope and pray for the best, whatever that may be.

  • @exercisemyrights
    @exercisemyrights 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    my wife of 23 yrs is divorcing me.
    been gone 3 months now.
    has me blocked on everything.(most likely on advice of her lawyer)
    this is the 3d time shes left me in 5 yrs.
    shes avoidance..high strung and emotional.
    this happened after my 21yo son moved to cali.
    they are very close.she went into an almost clinical depression prior to him leaving..then BAM..
    please pray for us.things should not be this way..its killing me

    • @Genes1s___
      @Genes1s___ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      walnutlogger 43 hope all is well, praying for you!

    • @Banana-lk7tf
      @Banana-lk7tf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so sorry to hear this. Has your situation changed at all?

    • @middleofacockfight
      @middleofacockfight 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Take care of yourself. There's nothing that any of us can say or do that will make you feel better. Just take care of yourself and have a real think about your situation after some time has passed.

    • @joshinbama83
      @joshinbama83 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did it work out for you bro?

  • @bluedemon218
    @bluedemon218 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    What sucks for me is that it hurts a lot Mentally everything I really enjoy gets her off my mind and then somehow, SOMEHOW she enters my mind and it drives me nuts. It's because the thoughts of our relationship makes me feel I won't find anyone who won't accept me as much as she did or as trustworthy as her. She was the most amazing person I've ever met. I may be over her both emotionally & physically. But Mentally she won't leave my mind. She was more open to me than anyone else including her exes. Sometimes Idk if should get back with her or not due to what happen between us during our last week.

    • @DihzyHD
      @DihzyHD 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      how are you now brother?

    • @taylorisonlinereal
      @taylorisonlinereal 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Update brother

    • @onurbole7921
      @onurbole7921 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't know where you are now but if someone is trustworthy they stay. They are trustworthy as long as they do stay, but it is more correct to say a relationship you build with someone is trustworthy for that moment. Even the most unstable people have their moments when you can trust them, but the most devastating feeling is when someone has been stable and trustworthy for years, then they ruin it. The thing is, people change all the time and nobody is trustworthy forever. You shouldn't worry about finding someone as accepting and trustworthy, that's the easy part. What you should focus on is your emotions. You will be accepted, you will be yourself with another person, but will you feel as happy? Should you feel as happy with this person as you did when you were with your ex, as the same person you were? If you can say yes to that, then I assume you didn't get too comfortable with your ex to the point you couldn't even realize the little mistakes you made. Those little things accumulate, and when partners look back and can't find any major problem that may have ruined attraction. If that happened to you, you should have a bit of self-critical introspection so in your next relationship you establish a deeper bond, you can act much less naive and more mature, realize that a relationship is a living entity you should do your part to keep alive.

    • @UsmcDevildog-rd1yt
      @UsmcDevildog-rd1yt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm going through it with my baby momma and recently ex fiance of 4 years. No contact isn't really an option. I'm hurting bad and don't know what to do. We have a 2 year old son together so I can't just not talk to her. She says she wants to see other people to see if she's happy. Should I just do no contact unless it's about our son?

    • @bluedemon218
      @bluedemon218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@DihzyHD for some reason TH-cam never notified me.
      No contact worked it took about 4 weeks. I was being told that she was talking about me between our friends. She was then using our friends to make me go to her yet it's like "No if she wants to talk to you, you make her come to you."
      Eventually things were still messed up as in though she threw the Red Flags and I chose to block her on all Media platforms I was still blamed for the Breakup.
      So two months afterwards she go Married and later was Pregnant. I'm glad I'm not with her she probably cheated on me and was insecure so got married to quit having bfs.

  • @queenkashmir
    @queenkashmir 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Almost went to see him today. It's painful. Thank you for this video. It saved me some major embarrassment.

  • @stephanberg7335
    @stephanberg7335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    For all the people out there struggeling with a break up at the moment because of the quarantine. Think about your ex partner. They got nothing else to do but thinking about you right now too. And that's the silver lining

    • @MOTwaccoe
      @MOTwaccoe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope so. I want my ex back so much

    • @stephanberg7335
      @stephanberg7335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MOTwaccoe I got my ex back today, we broke up about a month ago

    • @peachblossom.phlox3403
      @peachblossom.phlox3403 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stephanberg7335 I wish my ex would come back

    • @stephanberg7335
      @stephanberg7335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@peachblossom.phlox3403 And I bet he or she is thinking about you as well. If you still hurt that much, your partner will hurt too.

    • @peachblossom.phlox3403
      @peachblossom.phlox3403 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stephanberg7335 I don't think he is. We were together for three years and he broke up with me over a month ago. We work together sometimes and he is perfectly fine without me while I'm depressed 24/7. He told me he just wants to be alone for a long time so I don't think he'll want me back ever again 😔 I miss him so much

  • @StaticCollapse
    @StaticCollapse 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2 weeks of no contact, and thanks to these videos, I am shifting towards having a secure attachment style. I am ready to move on, sure I was hurt and wish her the best, but if she realizes my worth later on and/or figures herself out later down the line, maybe we can work things out. But I'm not going to wait for her to come back, I am ready for a relationship. You snooze you lose!

  • @lizp637
    @lizp637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He ended it this year after 9yrs. 9 great yrs. I'm devastated. I still cry 2 months later. I miss him so so much, I wish he knew how much. I gave him 100% and now dumped. Lifes so cruel. Thank god I've got these coaches to get me thro. I'm totally heartbroken

    • @felixthecat4584
      @felixthecat4584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am right there with you Liz. Mine was only 2 years and not 9 but the pain is absolutely real. Hopefully we both pull through this and will find love again.

    • @jameskillner364
      @jameskillner364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're not alone here guys, almost 7 years for us living together and sharing our lives. About 6/7 weeks into the breakup now and we're in limited contact due to pets/moving etc.. Days are really up and down but I'm completely heartbroken, hurts like nothing I've ever felt before. I feel for everyone in these comment sections because I know their days are mostly made up of watching the 3 fantastic coaches! Honestly don't know where I would be without being able to watch these videos & listen to them to fall asleep! Coach Craig, Margaret & Victoria out here doing gods work! Can't thank them enough for helping get people through the roughest times of their lives!

    • @lizp637
      @lizp637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@felixthecat4584 thanks. I found out 2 wks ago that he started seeing someone else about 2 wks after he dumped me. So cruel. I've been crying for a man who didn't give a toss. I never really knew him

    • @felixthecat4584
      @felixthecat4584 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lizp637 Yeah, that hurts bad. I saw my ex kissing a "friend" literally the day after she broke up with me supposedly saying that she did not want to be in a relationship right now. Apparently the qualifier WITH YOU was left out. (although I am almost sure it started before we officially split)
      The hardest part is that they just couldn't be honest with us, at least tell me what I had done wrong to deserve it so that I can work on myself! As it is all we can do is pick up the pieces and move one. I hope we can both find happiness again one day. It may feel hopeless right now but we must solider on. Best of luck dear internet friend. Wish I could buy you a drink and give you a shoulder to cry on.

  • @bonfacemacharia8712
    @bonfacemacharia8712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    16 wks no contact still strong

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Update???

    • @bonfacemacharia8712
      @bonfacemacharia8712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dwightschrute8141 my ex came back but I was already in another relationship

    • @middleofacockfight
      @middleofacockfight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@bonfacemacharia8712 your ex just came back out of the blue?

    • @bonfacemacharia8712
      @bonfacemacharia8712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@middleofacockfight yea bt i saw no need of taking her back she left me for another guy that guy had pumped and dumped her why should I take back a woman who that man doesn't want. I told her to keep it moving.

    • @middleofacockfight
      @middleofacockfight 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bonfacemacharia8712 good on you brother.

  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I doubt my ex will try us once more, but reading these comments make me hopeful.

    • @codydavis3100
      @codydavis3100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you need to move on man. I don't know what your relationship was like but I literally scrolled down the comments and saw yours from two years ago and now this one. Two years is too long to be hung up on one person. I know it is hard and scary but you have to live your life man. I was with my ex for 6 years and I didn't see the breakup happening and all my friends and family were very shocked that we broke up. So I know for me it is going to be hard to see her move on but she ain't coming back. You got to find stuff you enjoy. Read books, paint, dabble in photography, write, music, anything. Eventually you'll find someone better and you'll be better prepared.

  • @bmschneider30
    @bmschneider30 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im growing to despise my ex the longer no contact goes on.

  • @LiLgPnoy15
    @LiLgPnoy15 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Your videos give me hope, and I appreciate that. I just hope it works out the way I want it to.

  • @dollyblevins2903
    @dollyblevins2903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Me and my ex I need to tell you she loves me and loved me from day 1 and this is my circumstances just as you are speaking of this girl so I gave it to god because we didn’t hide our love but as I said she ran for everything else she is clearly not happy it is showing in her health that’s why I ask you to pray for her and I because we still love each other

  • @maureenmaureen2217
    @maureenmaureen2217 6 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I want my ex back so much

  • @hellorodmae
    @hellorodmae ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dearest Coach Craig,
    I have been brokenhearted for four months now. I am so thankful that I came across to your videos. Thank you for everything that you do. Thank you for sharing you insights, your life lessons, your time and energy for saving each one of us. May God bless you and your team even more. 🤍

  • @touchingisjustthefirststep
    @touchingisjustthefirststep 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    But if my ex had partners prior to me it really makes me believe that they just move on and that's it.

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Update???

    • @touchingisjustthefirststep
      @touchingisjustthefirststep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dwightschrute8141 i was 6 months in no contact with her.
      During this time she pretended to be dating her male friend who i never even heard of anything (she made friends with him in her friend circle) to hurt me to see if i cared.
      Long story short after a bunch of apologies and arguements we got back together only to break up again over more petty childish fights.
      I was bothered because she was too "busy" to hang out with me, go on dates or anything really.
      However because of the little game she played (pretending to date someone else) i lost most of my feelings for her so honestly this time around it didn't hurt so bad, it also turns out she is kind of a narcissist so i dodged a bullet.

  • @MeowMeow-sy2mi
    @MeowMeow-sy2mi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cant afford your courses/workbooks but these videos have been so helpful on their own ❤

  • @couldstrife1
    @couldstrife1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How much time? It’s been almost 5 months we started talking and meeting up which I thought was going well, but then I stood up for myself because she kept talking h about her rebound ex no I’m back in no contact

  • @user-vs7yy8jw9r
    @user-vs7yy8jw9r 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey, people! The man is great! I had an email couching with him and he understood deeply what was going on with my ex girlfriend reading my only 500 words letter. He is a real treasure with great empathy and understanding skills!

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for saying that! I hope you're doing better now!

  • @jns0399
    @jns0399 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    When someone says to you "if we get back together we need to take it very slow. Don't get excited and hopes up but if we do slow" I don't know what slow is 😁

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol ;)

    • @kirkv2262
      @kirkv2262 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Jacquelyne Wauro when someone says at the end of the day I want somebody who can financially support me you should run for the freaking Hills.

    • @jns0399
      @jns0399 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kk V I'm confused?

    • @ppiron6
      @ppiron6 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha yep

    • @jns0399
      @jns0399 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bryan Fredrick what does that mean exactly? I'm a go getter so having to pump my brakes is foreign.

  • @georgehathaway1590
    @georgehathaway1590 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Within the last week I had two traumas, my dog of 16 years had to be put down and my ex dumped me, I feel like this was paramount because 2 things hit me at once, trust me it’s not easy, I have a few indications that my ex either thinks about me or is trying her best to move on. Every passing day I start feeling myself again, give it time because I can assure whoever reads this, that time is our biggest weapon, because unbeknownst to you, that weapon slowly pierces there heart without us even knowing it!

    • @wanxlol
      @wanxlol ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you doing George? Any update on your situation?

    • @edwinhernandez5581
      @edwinhernandez5581 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I HOPE SO. SORRY ABOUT YOUR DOG

  • @theTVremote2697
    @theTVremote2697 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Time has only made this worse.

  • @DarknessIsThePath
    @DarknessIsThePath 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey Coach Craig, maybe you should do a video where you gather 4-5 different reasons to WHY people want their exes so badly back? Lots of comments saying people want their exes back but never give their reasons to why

  • @dollyblevins2903
    @dollyblevins2903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I ask God to give her clarity and he is because she loves me and I ask God to keep her safe because she’s the one hurting herself trying to live for society but I am trusting God because he knows our hearts we didn’t stop loving she ran so I ask you to pray for me and my ex love is love

  • @TheAshleigh5970
    @TheAshleigh5970 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have been listening to you for only a short while. I normally listen from my phone in the car on the way to and from work so I have not been able to comment. Listening to you has brought to light some of the things I did drastically wrong! I feel like my situation is a little different only because my ex has been in my life since 1986. He was my best friend and in 1995 we started dating, moving in together and now share children. We separated 6 years ago. I left (LONG STORY) and he did the whole "emotional I want you back" scenario while I was needing space however he was giving mixed signals. He started dating and then a year later I did. We both went through all of these things I keep hearing you say DON'T DO. Now... Here we are 6 years later and I miss him every single day. I am very interested in your workbooks and I think interested in having you or Margaret coach me. I am a rare breed and proud of that but I am also a mess. I need some help

  • @felixthecat4584
    @felixthecat4584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wish I had been proactive and found this channel months ago. As it is, I made too many mistakes and probably pushed away my ex completely. Sucks, but it's probably for the best as she was emotionally abusive. Still.... Miss her terribly though.
    Guess we will see if no contact will work even after multiple mistakes.

  • @loricrockett-owens5117
    @loricrockett-owens5117 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Give it time. 6 years after the set up that is refferred to as a divorce damned joke if u ask me.
    6 years and I still don't give a damn about finding a new guy

  • @sheepgray08
    @sheepgray08 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh man, you laughing made me laugh so much...!!!

  • @floralwood_
    @floralwood_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know I won't get comments or response here. I am really under a lot of pain. I know a lot of you here are too. I am so confused about my future. I miss him so much and I just want to end this pain

  • @tommylyons3765
    @tommylyons3765 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    CRAIG: you have helped me immensely, but I think the ultimate goal is rediscovering ones self. the confident person ones X ell in love with n the first place. Its hard at first, but were you truly happy. wth the latter stages of this relationship you "need" to get back? Remember what it s like to be in love? I don't either, but cannot wait to again!!! Don't take false comfort in what you have gotten used to. This is a huge world!

  • @dawnprendergast9221
    @dawnprendergast9221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    31 years together he left to go to work moved in with another woman I found out 3 days later I love him and don t want to lose him

  • @jessteubner9928
    @jessteubner9928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Made the mistake and texted him twice after the breakup on November 21 2019.. told him that since the breakup I now can see the things where I have to work on myself/my life clearly and I will give myself all attention which he thought must give me. Well also said that I love him so much. His reply was it's not gonna fail on his love for me so quickly and that he loves me. That the texts sounded so positive that it made him happy that I'm doing good.
    So, here's the deal: Went no contact after this last text from him which is now about 10 days..
    Did I make a mistake with reaching out first before going no contact?
    At least I didn't look needy and didn't pleade and begged

    • @jessteubner9928
      @jessteubner9928 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MoniDmajor well to heal and because he sounded done like really done .

    • @youloveemelia
      @youloveemelia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Update?

    • @jessteubner9928
      @jessteubner9928 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@youloveemelia he didn't come back and I don't care about him anymore

    • @youloveemelia
      @youloveemelia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jessteubner9928 did you do NC the whole time and how did you cope?

  • @misturhand
    @misturhand 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    hi everyone. been following craig's videos for months now and have been working on myself everyday and have been in NC with my ex fiancee for 8 weeks. we broke up end of february but the pain is still feeling so fresh. i am not as much of a mess as I was back then. i'm slowly recovering my self-worth, and taking her off the pedestal. but is anyone still struggling with no contact? sure, i havent looked at her social media or reached out to her but it still feels rough every day. just want to hear what other people are going through.

    • @kirkv2262
      @kirkv2262 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Khoa Doan I'm in the same boat. I troll her face book under another account she doesn't know about because she blocked me . She is really a rotten girl and mental , but yet I'm obsessed with what she is doing . I do need to move on but it is hard.

    • @misturhand
      @misturhand 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kk V yeah man i think its bc after everything thats gone on with u two, u r still attached. im the same way. we both need to take one day at a time but it is a struggle.

    • @kirkv2262
      @kirkv2262 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Khoa Doan I have nobody to blame but myself. I should've paid attention to red flags of her being a fucking Fruitloop and letting her get away with too much bullshit. But that's what happens when you have an anxious anxiety personality. I know longer fear of loss

    • @ppiron6
      @ppiron6 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah man, no contact is brutal. Not easy and time does help. Have been going through the same thing though an ex-fiance' is much more intense and deeper. Best luck to you, you aren't alone.

    • @misturhand
      @misturhand 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you for reaching out. it means a lot. i've been down bc i'm going to comic con in san diego and it is usually our annual trip. but your words help me push forward. thank you again.

  • @ramenboy7702
    @ramenboy7702 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I gave my breakup time and that was 5 years ago. She never came back or reached out 😂😂

  • @kgisabeast
    @kgisabeast 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My ex broke up with me 4 months ago, we dated 4 and a half years, I didn't watch these until recently, so I did try to get her back and say I'd change and all that, she's been dating a new guy for about a month but has no pictures with him on her social media and has left all of our pictures up, the past 3 weeks I've done no contact but haven't heard from her at all. I hope I get another chance

    • @Ssengel69
      @Ssengel69 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lukas almost on the same boat. She told me she was gonna start dating again but hasn't posted any pics or any mention of her with someone else on social media. Weird.

    • @ADayInTheLifeOfJames
      @ADayInTheLifeOfJames 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You guys aren’t in no contact if your looking at her social media. Stop it trust me

    • @bosschedda_
      @bosschedda_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow im going thru this exact same thing. I mean same exact stuff. Except idk if she has another guy.

    • @dayyamm
      @dayyamm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how did it go lukas

    • @tylerjohnson3195
      @tylerjohnson3195 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Updates?

  • @fitforfreelance
    @fitforfreelance 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This person definitely needs to relax and get their mindset more balanced. The gym can help with this kind of mental discipline!

  • @kristina-oy3zs
    @kristina-oy3zs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Married 3 years together 6. I feel like a fucking failure

    • @silverroku
      @silverroku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your not. Hang in there and do your best. Youll be ok!

  • @-taylor-9980
    @-taylor-9980 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sweet spot is always around day 90.

  • @joemcginnis2421
    @joemcginnis2421 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And my family is hard to deal with she hates my family they get into our business all the time

  • @pedroroque4084
    @pedroroque4084 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the best psycho therapist I've ever seen kkkkk

  • @dollyblevins2903
    @dollyblevins2903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to tell you we are not talking I gave it all to god she reached out to me and we haven’t spoken in 5 months because she is trying to make her adult kids happy and everything else I do honestly believe we will be I do not chase and will not love someone set them free when they come back and I feel it strongly because I said we didn’t stop loving everything is in gods hands she has to see her truth and I am trusting god I only ask for prayers and thank you have a great day

  • @ronaldabinsay7900
    @ronaldabinsay7900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr. Craig my wife left me after 10 year of marriage accusing me of cheating on her with a co worker. I told my wife she is just a friend but she doesn't believr me. We been seperate for 2 years now. How do i get my wife back? We are not divorce. How do i get my wife back?

  • @jacquelinefiander2588
    @jacquelinefiander2588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Craig and Margaret you are amazing and soooo helpful!

  • @dickinyourmouth7294
    @dickinyourmouth7294 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Idc what any of y’all say. None of y’all screwed up as much as I did

  • @charliebrownhill953
    @charliebrownhill953 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Some times no contact can work in there favour to get over you

    • @DarknessIsThePath
      @DarknessIsThePath 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Helps both because if they never contact you, it means you never stopped moving on with your life. But if you are waiting doing nothing, then it becomes in their favour

  • @peachblossom.phlox3403
    @peachblossom.phlox3403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My ex boyfriend said he wanted to be alone for a long time so maybe he'll never want me back

    • @siriusly_ash
      @siriusly_ash 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine too.. I let him go.

    • @peachblossom.phlox3403
      @peachblossom.phlox3403 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@siriusly_ash it's so hard to let him go

    • @siriusly_ash
      @siriusly_ash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@peachblossom.phlox3403 I know dearie. Let's fight this war!💗

    • @dwightschrute8141
      @dwightschrute8141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Update???

    • @sobreezy2456
      @sobreezy2456 ปีที่แล้ว

      Update??? Tell us did he reach out?

  • @chuks8907
    @chuks8907 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just fucked up now! Royally. I will listen.

  • @tamikasears4742
    @tamikasears4742 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I broke up with my ex about 2 weeks ago. Because he was showing my texts to his ex and telling her our personal information. I haven't heard from him since the break up. the good thing is he haven't heard from me either. I don't think he care cause he haven't apologize to me. this is the first time we broke up it was serious and we were together 4 8months.

    • @ginag7844
      @ginag7844 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tamika Sears I would say this is something you try to talk about before a break up. Not just break up.

  • @sham443
    @sham443 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Coach. It sounds like they did get the person interested again! It was aggressive but they said they might get coffee. Is there no chance that would work?

  • @Shad0wC0mpany2
    @Shad0wC0mpany2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to reach out to this brilliant man... I need to stop procrastinating and coordinate with him to discuss my current situation.
    But I’ll ask you all this one question: How would you feel if the person you fell in love with had a previous incident where she or he cheated on a a former significant other in their long term relationship?

    • @shaut9120
      @shaut9120 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It would break my heart it happening to me and I can’t get image out of my mind

  • @flurojello
    @flurojello 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Tht laugh @9:41

  • @glenndiddy
    @glenndiddy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I chased for a week, most of it wasn't focused on the relationship at all except when she brought it up, After that I decided it wasn't healthy for either of us since she clearly didn't want to talk with me and I've stayed away. No social media, no texting and definitely no stalking.
    We were long distance, but the kind of long distance where you can see each other in 2-3 hours at the most in an emergency. Half of my family lives closeby to her so I will be in her area from time to time, but I hope she doesn't take it as me going after her. I obviously won't be going to her house or workplace, but she works next to the trainstation I need to get on to get to my family which makes it hard not to walk by when travelling

    • @cherribabe1
      @cherribabe1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      , bomb bnb bbn bbn? Mmm?m, mlm? M MJ? MJ n,,,nn,nn,nM b d

  • @roneildevaras3043
    @roneildevaras3043 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    the best advice craig thank you

  • @thtboirich_
    @thtboirich_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this video great advice

  • @sandramoynihan9447
    @sandramoynihan9447 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need help but I'm a single mother of two autistic kids so I can't afford to get the right help. The councilor I see is it the right one, I'm looking for another one but my insurance won't cover the kids of person I need to talk to from what I am finding 😟 I am at a loss, the videos help but I'm not sure what to do.......it's a complicated situation and I am thinking of just walking away. I love him, but I love me and my kids more.

  • @craigmerrila7767
    @craigmerrila7767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    But how long? Im at 7 mths... im going on dates, mo i g on and improving myself... but 7 mths is forever

    • @Nev91280
      @Nev91280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Seven months is a long time bro, I mean realistically if they haven't reached out For 3-4 months max I think you need to move on. Yes there is the chance they will reach out down the line, but after that amount of time it's best to move on and not wait around for something that might never happen.

  • @callumwalker8183
    @callumwalker8183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What if your ex has already moved on after I spent three months trying to patch things up? When we broke up officially, she was on tinder and talking to guys the same/next day? Why would no contact work on someone that doesn't want you?

    • @siriusly_ash
      @siriusly_ash 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol it's almost same with me except I went on dating apps to take my mind off of things. I thought he would want to try and fix things but he just told me he didnt want me..

  • @honeybee1766
    @honeybee1766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you Craig !

  • @constanceragsdale679
    @constanceragsdale679 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if the ex is displaying narcissistic behaviors and discards you...is no contact appropriate in this situation...the .person was very verbal abusive, cheating, lying, and controlling..did not want to work....just cold and cruel...

    • @Luminous.Dynamics
      @Luminous.Dynamics 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You dont want him back. You can do much better

  • @backupacc554
    @backupacc554 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video

  • @pampemberton7245
    @pampemberton7245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I got a question what does it mean when a lesbian sleeps with a man and she's supposed to be a lesbian when she's sleeping with a married man

  • @backupacc554
    @backupacc554 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your advice

  • @roderichvassallo2476
    @roderichvassallo2476 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey craig my girlfriend brokeup with me because of my bad temper and its true i do have a bad temper am going to get help from a family therapist i asked her if she can come with me she said yes does that mean she did not give up on me yet ?

  • @bobcarter5299
    @bobcarter5299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is confusing. I'd like to resolve the separation I'm in. My spouse doesn't realize how much I changed to be with her. Nor, how much I shielded her from stressors. I
    did this because I love her. Now Iam in a open-ended separation. I'm in no contact
    how long should I wait for her? What's reasonable? I don't want to be a dormant entity. Thanks.

  • @savanne7128
    @savanne7128 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach Craig, please I need to know, my ex doesn't want to try our relationship again, but he keeps calling me to find out things. Like about a week ago he called to find out if I was friends with these girls again at 12:00 in the morning. And he phoned me today asking when I'll be leaving for London and he wants pictures of when I go??

  • @hongzhizhang6420
    @hongzhizhang6420 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    my ex cheated on me when she was studying abroad. I think she still has feelings for me, but she feels too bad because of what she has done. Do you think she will miss me?
    btw I have moved on, but I want to make her suffer, like she did to me. I'm doing the no-contact rule, and it's actually pretty easy, I don't feel any urge to contact her at all.
    i know it's not right to think that way, but everytime I picture her sleeping with the other guy, this anger just flows everywhere inside my body

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sounds like you are still really angry and hurt and trying to punish her

    • @hongzhizhang6420
      @hongzhizhang6420 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I am angry indeed because of what she did. She did not have the courage to tell me that she cheated. Coach, what should I do to let away the anger and desire of revenge?

    • @carloscabrera5311
      @carloscabrera5311 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      KFC for life how you found out ?

    • @DarknessIsThePath
      @DarknessIsThePath 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Enjoy her misery only, do not let that stop your life and continue with it

  • @ji-hye5194
    @ji-hye5194 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What does that mean when my bf broke up with me blocked me on fb messenger but not on facebook, and hasnt change our “in a relationship” status on fb.. but we are not talking for a week now... is he still coming back???

    • @rejectingracists6637
      @rejectingracists6637 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      live as if yes but have more flexibility to see others too.

  • @jenettegrubb9397
    @jenettegrubb9397 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Work on yourself

  • @yvngkevv9146
    @yvngkevv9146 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video

  • @inserter400
    @inserter400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    CK do anxious attachments come back ?

  • @neiljones47
    @neiljones47 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Help! I feel i haven't got to time!! My Wife told me she didn't love me anymore and filed for divorce 2 months ago. She started dating this bloke not long after. I love her so much and want her back..can anyone please help!?

    • @ChocolateMaddi
      @ChocolateMaddi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Neil Jones how are things going for you now?

  • @onyiiilo378
    @onyiiilo378 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In the same situation except we are straight and in an interracial relationship.

  • @RenskeLogie
    @RenskeLogie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    NC day 12

  • @joemcginnis2421
    @joemcginnis2421 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I verbally abused my girl we lived together for 4yrs I stopped showing how much I really cared and she told me time and time again and I didn't change she left it's been over a month now I blew her up for the first 3weeks she changed her number and blocked me on everything what can I do is there a chance

  • @juoso4836
    @juoso4836 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow this I is exactly my situation

  • @obsidianminecart6354
    @obsidianminecart6354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am at the place where my ex broke up with me the second time , NC worked the first time and now I am doing NC again , I am not sure what to expect will it work a second time around .......

  • @kumarshubham876
    @kumarshubham876 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude you are addictive

    • @ryanreynolds6764
      @ryanreynolds6764 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol. i just got my ex back.

    • @ryanreynolds6764
      @ryanreynolds6764 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i can recommend you to the same man that helped me without any delay👌🏾💕

    • @ryanreynolds6764
      @ryanreynolds6764 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2 3 4 9 0 1 7 3 4 7 5 4 1 🌹 🌹

    • @ryanreynolds6764
      @ryanreynolds6764 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      whtz>app him now

  • @Mike-ep5gq
    @Mike-ep5gq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Like you've said in previous videos, if they ever loved you (which I know she did), they're thinking about you, and if they're thinking about you, they're probably stalking your social media. I believe this to be the case as well, but do you think posting little quirky inside jokes or references that only she would understand
    a) make her giggle and think of/miss me
    OR
    b) reinforce her idea that I still want her back
    Would this be a good idea or a terrible one, since it is kind of on the fence of breaking No Contact?
    Thanks for your help, Craig!

  • @osamaalkatib5503
    @osamaalkatib5503 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can any one show me how to comunicate with coach craig kennth?

  • @davidramirez-li1lw
    @davidramirez-li1lw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What should i do my ex got a rebound after 2 days she broke up with me and now she invited me to go with her to visit a place does she wants me back

  • @willfade7994
    @willfade7994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I couldn't relate to this video. Lesbian relationships have completely different dynamics than heterosexual relationships. Men and women are very different and the way we think in relationship situations is often different because of feminine vs. masculine energy. I usually like your videos, but as a heterosexual, this was a waste of time and didn't help me. You should do separate videos for the LGBTQ relationships, and I mean no offense to anyone as I have friends in those categories.

  • @charliebrownhill953
    @charliebrownhill953 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if they ignore you

    • @kaistitch2967
      @kaistitch2967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stop chasing and texting her, let the dumper come towards you

  • @MultiStar84
    @MultiStar84 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    any openings today coach?

    • @CoachCraigKenneth
      @CoachCraigKenneth  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      When you want to schedule a coaching do it through my website. I don't do it here.

  • @sukhmeetkaur7306
    @sukhmeetkaur7306 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hii sir I need ur help plsssss......

  • @lnejavi
    @lnejavi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    YES finally a lesbian!

    • @DarknessIsThePath
      @DarknessIsThePath 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      There is porn if you are fantisizing...

  • @pampemberton7245
    @pampemberton7245 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not lesbian my husband slept with a lesbian of my friend

  • @ddkanchat
    @ddkanchat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m starting NC

  • @RedRexxius
    @RedRexxius 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Should I send my ex a clean slate message like some TH-camr suggests or just go full no contact

    • @cynthiadavison5785
      @cynthiadavison5785 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      RedRexxius go full no contact. No reach out. Answer if they reach out. Watch more of these videos

    • @kc2914
      @kc2914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't, they'll just delete it without responding. Don't put yourself through that hurt.

  • @akbangleoro428
    @akbangleoro428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's an unnatural relationship biblicaly . There's no future for such relationship. Sorry if it sounds like stereotypes. But it's wrong
    I think the other girl took the right decision. I would support her 200%

  • @klodiaki
    @klodiaki 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2