I get why people are want to step out of their comfort zone but sometimes, discomfort tells you that the thing is simply not for you or is directly harming you. It would be great if you can make a video about distinguishing between stretching your comfort zone, and discomfort as a warning sign that something is not right. Otherwise, great and inspiring video!
THIS!! It took me years until I found out that there is a comfort zone, a growth zone but also a PANIC zone, which is, when you are too far outside your comfort zone. Your nervous system is in alert mode and you simply can't grow anymore because of too much discomfort. Then it helps to make a step back into your growth zone where you still can develop and grow but the stretch is not too big
Omg its true ISNT it..? Dang! I need to stop pushing myself so incredibly out there, and accept I need to go one step at a time! Thank you main and your comment!
Yes, I feel like sometimes people are like "It is not comfortable but that is a GOOD sign I am growing so I need to keep going!" and I am like.. it can also be a way your body is trying to stop you from burnout. For me it is helpful to think about comfort zone as a "muscle". Good metaphor is learning how to do splits. You stretch everyday and yes, you feel little bit of discomfort and only after it is no longer there you push yourself more. But if people cannot recognise that threshold between "good discomfort" and "bad discomfort", they usually end up with injury that not only erases all progress for months or years but it makes it incredibly harder to achieve their goal than it was first time around. (I hope it makes sense).
I would say when it is the right choice there is DESIRE + discomfort. If there is not desire and there is discomfort then it’s probably not a good choice.
@@jessicascott9058 That is really simple and good answer, thank you! But in my example, I assume people who wants to do splits have the desire. There are so many people I saw hurt themselves really badly because they just kept pushing (they DESIRED to do splits). Quite often the desire is the reason people push themselves beyond their limits.
Law of attraction was invented by people in an already privileged position, really annoying to think that things don't go well for you because you subconsciously don't "desire it enough".
@@CrisOnTheInternet most law of attraction videos don't mention the most important step which is taking action. desiring is the 1st step but it needs to be backed up by physical habits or actions for it to show result
@@koushani357yeah...there should be physical action towards the goal to make it happen...not just desiring...but I don't get it when people who don't believe in law of attraction asks 'if it needs to perform the action what's the point of law of attraction then?' . Seriously bro...law of attraction not just means doing nothing and just achieving things,it's attracting things which are harder to achieve in an easiest way with backup physical action.....Not everyone gets everything only with physical action and it's take so much time
@@monishaabhinav8945 people really think law of attraction is some kind of magic, like is universe supposed to hand you over your goal? ofc he wont, if it was that easy everyone would have everything
I needed to see your video today ❤ I’m currently having an extremely hard time believing I’m worthy of success. You are the most relatable person I’ve followed on this platform, in a very long time. You make me believe that there is a successful world out there. So thank you for your content and inspiring so many of us out there. ❤
I really appreciated the part where you talked about embracing connection instead of isolating yourself. You're right, a lot of the videos I've seen with a similar theme to this one say that you should take time to focus on yourself and limit distractions by staying to yourself, and while I agree that in general you shouldn't be hanging around people who are encouraging you to do things that go against your values/goals, for someone like me who struggles with depression, being around people is VITAL.
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
Dearest Faye... I have a question that I would like you to think about... If believing in yourself, is the answer...why is it that so many people fail...to achieve their dreams? A dream should come true...just by believing it...if belief...is the answer... I love you...more than you know... Stanley ❤
Thanks 💙 I was on to it however, the gov forced intervention at the time led me to step away. Are you doing or have you done medicine ? @@nightcorelove2626
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My small win is that I did not only watch the video, but I did everything in it!
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@@DrFayeBate Aw, thank youuuu
I get why people are want to step out of their comfort zone but sometimes, discomfort tells you that the thing is simply not for you or is directly harming you. It would be great if you can make a video about distinguishing between stretching your comfort zone, and discomfort as a warning sign that something is not right.
Otherwise, great and inspiring video!
THIS!! It took me years until I found out that there is a comfort zone, a growth zone but also a PANIC zone, which is, when you are too far outside your comfort zone. Your nervous system is in alert mode and you simply can't grow anymore because of too much discomfort. Then it helps to make a step back into your growth zone where you still can develop and grow but the stretch is not too big
Omg its true ISNT it..?
Dang! I need to stop pushing myself so incredibly out there, and accept I need to go one step at a time! Thank you main and your comment!
Yes, I feel like sometimes people are like "It is not comfortable but that is a GOOD sign I am growing so I need to keep going!" and I am like.. it can also be a way your body is trying to stop you from burnout. For me it is helpful to think about comfort zone as a "muscle".
Good metaphor is learning how to do splits. You stretch everyday and yes, you feel little bit of discomfort and only after it is no longer there you push yourself more. But if people cannot recognise that threshold between "good discomfort" and "bad discomfort", they usually end up with injury that not only erases all progress for months or years but it makes it incredibly harder to achieve their goal than it was first time around. (I hope it makes sense).
I would say when it is the right choice there is DESIRE + discomfort. If there is not desire and there is discomfort then it’s probably not a good choice.
@@jessicascott9058 That is really simple and good answer, thank you!
But in my example, I assume people who wants to do splits have the desire. There are so many people I saw hurt themselves really badly because they just kept pushing (they DESIRED to do splits). Quite often the desire is the reason people push themselves beyond their limits.
I love she’s not talking “law of attraction”, but REAL stuff 🎉
Law of attraction was invented by people in an already privileged position, really annoying to think that things don't go well for you because you subconsciously don't "desire it enough".
@@CrisOnTheInternet most law of attraction videos don't mention the most important step which is taking action. desiring is the 1st step but it needs to be backed up by physical habits or actions for it to show result
@@koushani357yeah...there should be physical action towards the goal to make it happen...not just desiring...but I don't get it when people who don't believe in law of attraction asks 'if it needs to perform the action what's the point of law of attraction then?' . Seriously bro...law of attraction not just means doing nothing and just achieving things,it's attracting things which are harder to achieve in an easiest way with backup physical action.....Not everyone gets everything only with physical action and it's take so much time
@@monishaabhinav8945 people really think law of attraction is some kind of magic, like is universe supposed to hand you over your goal? ofc he wont, if it was that easy everyone would have everything
I’m changing sectors and so scared of the change!! This video has come at the perfect time
GOOD LUCK ❤️
I needed to see your video today ❤ I’m currently having an extremely hard time believing I’m worthy of success. You are the most relatable person I’ve followed on this platform, in a very long time. You make me believe that there is a successful world out there. So thank you for your content and inspiring so many of us out there. ❤
Really needed this. I'm a pharmacy student in zambia and this video doesn't feel like a coincidence to me❤
I really appreciated the part where you talked about embracing connection instead of isolating yourself. You're right, a lot of the videos I've seen with a similar theme to this one say that you should take time to focus on yourself and limit distractions by staying to yourself, and while I agree that in general you shouldn't be hanging around people who are encouraging you to do things that go against your values/goals, for someone like me who struggles with depression, being around people is VITAL.
You neeeeed to do a podcast!!!
Seriously, why is no one discussing 'Hidden Manifestation'? This forbidden book is a goldmine of knowledge that can sincerely change your life
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I love how practical and doable these steps are! Excited to try this! 😍
You always post videos at the right time
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Can you add an Arabic translation? I recently discovered your channel and I find it interesting. @@DrFayeBate
I do not think this is a coincidence, but I am currently reading the very same book. Every day, I read a couple of pages. I really love it.
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
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Girl you volunteered in Zambiaaa??!! I’m from Zambia 🎉 this is a sign I need watch all your videos and learn from you 😊
this was so much needed thank you Dr Faye Bate!!
These are great! Could you link the studies youre referencing?
This video came at the perfect time
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
I love this video! Thank you SO much for taking it step by step-it makes it a lot easier to follow and understand, so thank you! :)
spent about 2,500hrs studying for the mcat and I haven't actually started pre-med yet
ill probably put in 20k hrs before taking the actual test
half term just started. time to sort myself out
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this was so practical and helpful! thank you 💗
I chose my self after watching this
This really resonates with me, thankyou.
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Someone up for gratitude grp chat??
I amm
Sooooo there’s been so many comments about a group chat, I thought I’d make an insta broadcast channel ig.me/j/AbYC1I35kZDEiMVS/
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i love how the background its blur!
Im going to do the 7 day challenge, starting tmr! Who tried? Pls tell me how was it!!
starting tomorrow too !
Im starting today !
Yall dumb .... she posted this yesterday how would have anyone done it??!!!
Dearest Faye...
I have a question that I would like you to think about...
If believing in yourself, is the answer...why is it that so many people fail...to achieve their dreams?
A dream should come true...just by believing it...if belief...is the answer...
I love you...more than you know...
Stanley ❤
Thank you ❤
What would you have done if you didnt do medicine? Nursing? Midwifery? Somethings completely different?
thanks for this! :)
Love this video but can you share the journal prompts in text form? It was so small on screen
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I would also love to join
Me too, I'm here for it 😍
Sooooo there’s been so many comments about a group chat, I thought I’d make an insta broadcast channel ig.me/j/AbYC1I35kZDEiMVS/
@@DrFayeBate yea! 👌🏼
someone get her a ted talk!
Mam how much do you earn as a doctor? Plz reply. Thanks a lot.
What microphone do you use?
I need to figure out why I can’t reflect 🤣🤣
How did you get the grab bruises/marks on your shoulder and arm, i hope you're ok xx
Hey anybody interested in creating a group chat for gym , code and uni?
Sooooo there’s been so many comments about a group chat, I thought I’d make an insta broadcast channel ig.me/j/AbYC1I35kZDEiMVS/
I am! Sign me in :)
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Would like to have accountability buddy for working out at home
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But i already have a different brain. I have autism how do i hack that?
Is 39 yo to late for medicine?
No, it’s never too late♥️
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No Not at all!!
Thanks 💙 I was on to it however, the gov forced intervention at the time led me to step away. Are you doing or have you done medicine ? @@nightcorelove2626
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Does anyone want to join me in a WhatsApp group chat? Alexis.
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