5 Steps to *SILENCE* Imposter Syndrome & Self Doubt

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  • @magdalenanovak2471
    @magdalenanovak2471 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Hey Faye, I just started residency and this week I had to call in sick, I felt the same way you did, so guilty, even though I feel like a complete scam most of the time. It was lovely to listen to you, you are doing great!

  • @brendastevens9077
    @brendastevens9077 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I Love #5 Remembering How You felt, when all your hard work paid off.❤

  • @AbbysBandwidth-ABW
    @AbbysBandwidth-ABW 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I'm here for this topic this year cus a girl has really been through it especially as a medical student and content a content creator I'm always continuously suppressing the urge of thinking negatively

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Hope you find it useful!! It’s something so many of us struggle with and I just don’t think the current advice helps enough 🫠

    • @AbbysBandwidth-ABW
      @AbbysBandwidth-ABW 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@DrFayeBateit sure does 🩵

  • @wesalali6825
    @wesalali6825 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I don’t think you actually understand how much I’ve missed watches her channel I’ve literllay lookked every day to see if she has posted I love you Faye literally my favourite TH-camr entertainment and literally everything else

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Aw man this means so much but also, I’m so so sorry!! I’ve hopefully got some good videos coming out over the next few weeks and a lot more consistency 🫶🏼

  • @ainesj
    @ainesj 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    i've started a new job at the end of last year and i've felt massive imposter syndrome every single day, especially since everyone around me has a degree and i dropped out of uni after 3 months lol. but it's been important to remind myself, they wouldn't have given me the job if they didn't think i was capable. thank you for this faye, loved every point you made

  • @Abifabs
    @Abifabs 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Faye this video is absolutely brilliant. I especially loved the puffa fish and road rage analogy. As a Paeds nurse who has recently moved to a new speciality (I’m 3.5 years qualified) I relate so much to the feeling of imposter syndrome. It’s been so humbling starting somewhere new and feeling like I know nothing! Thank you for the tips 💓

  • @sodotta
    @sodotta 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    think i teared up like 4 different times! i'm coming from a slightly different angle w/ experience of this, but your experience nonetheless shone such a brave and honest light on it all; thanks so much!

  • @barbaraonifade5278
    @barbaraonifade5278 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Faye this video is massively made a positive impact on me as an intern and I couldn’t be more thankful for you sharing a lot of the feelings and experiences I’ve been through personally. Thank you for dropping these gems, I’m going to save this and rewatch every time I suffer from imposter syndrome. You rock!

  • @Simonedeboudhar
    @Simonedeboudhar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love your videos, thanks for them - as a woman of colour, just wanted to point out that Sheen Gurrib stole that whole impostor syndrome/bicycle face example from Reshma Saujani (Moms first, Girls who code), another woman of colour who used the example during one of her commencement speech at Smith's College. Saujani is also excellent on impostor syndrome generally if anyone is interested to look more into it. xxx

  • @Maria-lk5gn
    @Maria-lk5gn 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Most honest and helpful video about imposter syndrome I've seen out there, thank you for this. I really feel like these tools will help me with confidence at work

  • @clairedillon6168
    @clairedillon6168 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    FAYEEEE!! You have no idea how perfect the timing of this video is for me. I'm losing my mind. I just finished my first semester of law school in the US. If you know anything about how they typically work, we're graded on a curve... only so many A's to go around. And I? Am smack dab in the middle of that curve after the first semester. Not great, but not failing. And while I know people who got Cs or potentially worse are probably in a tougher spot mentally... I am still losing it and experiencing imposter syndrome for the first time. Logically, it feels ridiculous when I hear myself say this (or even as I type it now). I can't believe I feel that way... and maybe deep down, I don't believe it's true? But nevertheless, there it is. Thank you thank you thank you for making this video. The big sister energy we all need

    • @brooklynwaterfield5776
      @brooklynwaterfield5776 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bless you! That’s such an achievement for such a tough course to take!

  • @edmundobaca3498
    @edmundobaca3498 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dr. Faye 🤲💓. Since the dead of my father. I have been playing like a hard video game or studying a system from or for brilliant minds. And is the step 3.Faye is a lovely educational talk your video. Greetings Dr. Faye🕊️

  • @hino60
    @hino60 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    faye idk if you are reading this but i love you like everysingle time i am losing hope or i need some help or when i need some tips or motivation you are my go to page like seriously i have rewatched your videos again n again n again for example the how to study when unmotivated video is like my go to video for motivation i just love you, LOVE FROM PAKISTAN

  • @natashakaur7557
    @natashakaur7557 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am so glad I stumbled over your channel your videos are so refreshing and there is a nugget of wisdom in each one!
    Value exchange! Blows my mind makes total sense
    Keep being your authentic you ❤x

  • @_melany_melo_
    @_melany_melo_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Girl I never wanna hear you have imposter syndrome again👏🏼you’re educated in what you do and that education wasn’t given to you on a silver platter or drop from the sky, those are classes you spent your valuable time in, studying late nights while maintaining balanced life, and you passed those exams all. by. yourself. You earned this right to be called a doctor.

  • @didajeon6146
    @didajeon6146 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I needed to hear this thank you Faye 💙💙

  • @Yusra....
    @Yusra.... 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You look sooo prettyyy fayee❤🫶🏻
    I love your videossss
    U have no idea how much of an impact u bring to our lives ❤

  • @erin-iq8tm
    @erin-iq8tm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    my old car wouldn't change from full beam to half unless I smacked the thing with both hands multiple times, not knowing when it would actually change. this is not safe to do when driving at night so I would often accidentally blind people. I felt so bad, and other road users made me know how they felt. I now have a different car, and the lights work like a dream. I found myself getting angry at people blinding me the other day and started flashing them. I then realised the irony of this situation and I'm trying to apply kindness in these moments and remember this example in other areas as much as possible

  • @vansf3433
    @vansf3433 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Worshipping perfectionis, and childhood experience in excessive criticism can be the causes of the psychological illness

  • @gowrishetty5030
    @gowrishetty5030 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thank you so much Faye, i've recently ben struggling so much with this, especially comparing myself with others lol and im struggling at the moment with anatomy

  • @gowrishetty5030
    @gowrishetty5030 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is my favourite youtube video ever

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg stop 🥲🥲

  • @ams7733
    @ams7733 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great insight and perspective on this rarely spoken-of topic - thank you. :).
    ps Congratulations on your hard work that has led you to all of our wonderful and well-deserved achievements Faye!

  • @teebhembe2983
    @teebhembe2983 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thsnk you for this, Faye! Please makew video about procrastination🎉🦋

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ohhhh yes!!! Great idea 🫶🏼

  • @jaiveersingh7701
    @jaiveersingh7701 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You've got a new fan!!!!🤩🤩

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey! Welcome to the community 🥹🫶🏼

  • @haffizahali3457
    @haffizahali3457 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So excited to watch this! Will we be getting a vlog soon?

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Hope you enjoy!! I’ve picked up the camera a few times but just been too tired/felt like the vlog wasn’t good enough because I spent so much time in work 🥲 Going to try vlog next week!

  • @user62199
    @user62199 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a great video Faye!
    Please do share your fitness journey

  • @jasmineflowerantar
    @jasmineflowerantar 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ur the best girl ever : ive bein studying and listening to you like podcast

  • @iammreginaa
    @iammreginaa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Today I just have found your TH-cam channel. You’re so pretty! 😍 thanks for interesting video
    I’ve subscribed 🎉

  • @mrsleb
    @mrsleb 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Completely relate to the imposter syndrome.. starting my midwifery degree in September & keep thinking to myself that I’m just a normal person, I can’t be a midwife. I have no common sense or intelligence! 😅

  • @sumayyaha5092
    @sumayyaha5092 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love this! Thank you 🙏

  • @taim989
    @taim989 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    am so sooo curious what is ur green drink???

  • @HealthZo
    @HealthZo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😊 0:08

  • @hm-ng8lj
    @hm-ng8lj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey faye, im appearing for my step 1 in a few weeks and i've been feeling like i don't deserve to be here literally everyday. Feeling like i don't know anything and im going to fail because there are way smarter people out there, constantly comparing my prep and hard work with others. I really needed this video and thank you so much for reminding me why we are doing this anyways!
    Im just going to give my best shot now because i've worked way to hard to give myself a shit time and only count my weaknesses🤌🏻 Thanks girl! You're always a life saver👏🏻

  • @RubyGeeScuderia
    @RubyGeeScuderia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm 2 minutes in and the editing is CRAZY. So off-beat and in the way. I feel like I'm having a stroke

  • @gowrishetty5030
    @gowrishetty5030 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    is there any tips you have for not comparing yourself with other people

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good question!! I think this may have to be another video!

  • @Mogalog
    @Mogalog 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    HI FAYE HOW ARE YOUU

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HEY!! I’M GOOD!! bit tired but plodding on, HOW ARE YOU??

    • @Mogalog
      @Mogalog 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DrFayeBate IM SO EXCITED TO WATCH THE VIDEOOO ❤❤

  • @Microdosingyourvalidation
    @Microdosingyourvalidation 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sad I just joined skill share 😢😢😢 I wish I used your link