I had done the fierce self love without realizing it a year ago. I did it out of frustration promising myself that I will never go back to my person until he comes to me. I drove out even thoughts about him in my head. He drastically changed. He chased me, he pined for my attention, he texted me every single day. He was a completely different person. I did not expect it, but it works ..
@@ShellyBullard if they aren't showing up its not them its really you though. So how does that work. If said person doesn't deserve to be in your life if they give breadcrumbs, but essential you are creating that right?
I tried affirming, feeling and visualizing. Affirming felt like grasping as the logical mind kept on fighting the affirmations. It came up with counter-affirmations based on what it saw in the 3d. It was frustrating. However, visualizing helped to land in the feeling. Once the feeling was anchored, the mind naturally started thinking (affirming) what I wanted. Your way of explaining is so simple. It's like magic! Once the feeling is anchored, all the obsession, anxiety, doubt is naturally released. It feels like my wish did indeed already come true. I don't 'want' anything anymore. I feel so light and happy. I am not worried about the how. It's like I am not the least bit fazed by the 3D reality. I am just enjoying the feeling in my body. Wow! :)
That's why we need to do deep slow breathing & go into meditation, and only from that non-attachment empty inner space we can attract and create anything
I combine loa with the feminin and masculine art of seduction🏵️ Ex. When I started dating this man, he told me. No, I don't give flowers, and Im not a romantic person. My manifestation become, I want a lot of flowers and romance from him😂 I never told him this in person. Short story, I did affirmations, positive assumtions and visualization. I have from earlier on, learned to put my self first. I had a needy and clingy behavior because of childhood trauma. When he started showing up with flowers and romantic gesture, I showed him gratitude and happines in a very feminin reciving way. Making him feel his own masculine energy. Now, Im in a very romantic realationship with a hole lot of beautiful flowers 😂💙 Edit: During I was writing this text, he actually sendt me a picture of his garden flowers. Telling me that he has never given me that amount of flowers at the same time before😂
I ended up saying no full stop and then went about enjoying myself and refocusing on things I enjoy. I affirmed and visualised and had a lot of fun and then my current man came along out of nowhere! Absolutely out of the blue and he has always given me the communication and attention that I felt a lack of elsewhere 🥰
Self love is always the answer, that’s how i manifest my sp back, i keep telling myself that i’m worthy, beautiful, magnetic and highly attractive 🥰🤩 Thanks shelly
Love this video. I actually did say to my SP that how they were showing up wasn’t going to work for me anymore. It was an unhealthy pattern that kept repeating. I didn’t go on and on explaining to them. I just kept it very short and sweet and matter-of-fact. I felt it was necessary in my situation. I haven’t heard back from them since I said that but I felt SO good saying it and not contacting them again. I feel like I’m looking out for myself now and practicing self-love. I’m actually ok with them not contacting me. I know they are thinking about me all the time and they will come towards me. I’m not worried about the timing and just living my life! I’m much happier💕
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I just stop feeling needy with my sp. I focus on myself with self love. I always assume that my sp loves me. When I give more love to myself, I start seeing attention and love from my sp.
Thanks for sharing, Shelly! I have, in the past, put my sp on a pedestal and have learned to play a trick on myself when I feel I am getting too appreciative of him in my mind (appreciation feels great though), because I sometimes can come from a place where they're the prize, and that turns into lack quickly and subtly. So I begin to act as if they're someone who I'd be ok with being with and ok if not. Sounds like I'm talking myself out of my manifestation but really I'm minimizing the importance and the resistance, while feeling like I'm the One. I know in my heart he is the one I want but it's so fun getting sassy about it and feeling playful and flexible. I feel that I am free to be myself and screw up and be a fool in front of the guys I dont want, but want me. I could care less what they think of me, so there's that level of sass and goddess. I start to feel constricted when I give my guy too much power in my mind because that leads to me feeling afraid of being rejected and then I can't relax and am acting awkward and unnatural...icky. It works like a charm for me but it takes persistence in the mind about me being the prize and not losing myself in feeling like I'm wishing for us to be (yet feeling the essence of lack) and actually just being love for the pure enjoyment of it 💜
Affirming,feeling, visualizing and being next to my sp is the best thing that can ever happen to me and the self love meditations of yours are the best thing happened to me. Your new thumbnail is absolutely amazing and very different. Doing your inner child meditations every now and then. A huge fan of yours and great thing to be a part of the community, Shelly. Great video to watch and looking forward to the video.
I actually had to tell him that I need to respect myself. That is exactly what I said; I didn’t get demanding or give him any type of ultimatum. He said he understands and agrees. That was about 2 weeks ago. It was just evidence that I need to work on my self-love more and that is what am doing. I know it will happen but it will happen when I have complete and total conviction that I am loved, whole, complete, and 1st best! I’m getting there. 💗
@@beanieyounghans3878 Nothing worth reporting. A lot of things have happened since that comment but as of now, it still has yet to happen how I truly desire. But it will.
❤ Your teachings are so aligned with how i have had my Journey for the last three years, dear Shelly ❤totally love how you teach, how you put words to everything that is difficult to put into words😍 self love, being genuine and true to one self is essential ❤ it is magical ❤❤thank you ❤❤and i love the way you teach us how to see them in a positive way ❤that really works like magic, see them with unconditional love from the heart ❤❤
I feel this video spoke to me at exactly the right time!!I am notorious for holding out for or being just ok with a few crumbs knowing I'm not ok with it!!!I find it so hard but also I do try and celebrate the smaller messages....so my SP does message me every day without fail and some are nice flowing conversations whilst others just fleeting 1 word messages or emojis. On days when I in myself am more confident and not being needy and have a lighter energy i get the flowy conversations.When I'm tense feeling duped i get the 1 liners.So it is from me and my inner world radiating to my outer.... I dont want crumbs damn it...i want the whole loaf!!!!!!!That's my new affirmation!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You need to read this This absolutely works, I tried this one day before and today my bf is obsessing over me and he wants to keep talking to me and is acting like a crazy lover. Although all the negative emotions that I were feeling earlier were only in my head, as I tried this all the negative momentum changed not only to positive thinking patterns but also to positive results. My bf loves me soo bad. I was just out off track for a while but now I am back to my original self using this and my bf is loving me even more now, (touchwood), you too can manifest love as there is abundance of it in the universe. ❤❤
Love how you talk about affirming in action on their end such as they are texting me. I just wanna let everyone know, don’t feel discouraged if you have been affirming for a bit and no movement in this 3D. In general there is always moment and everything will happen, keep persisting.
So relevant to me now. Have been on a roller coaster of emotions but could identify the thoughts which weren’t serving me and decided to change my perspective on what I was understanding and added this is just a bridge of incidents which are all aligned to get me there. So as that was all part of the manifestation I have begun to just appreciate and say thank you to my inner being who knows exactly how to get me there. I don’t know how it’s going to happen all I know is if I have a deep desire for something and I have asked the universe, God, then it is answered and even I can’t get in my own way. Totally amazing and aligned video to my situation. I believe it was sent specifically to me me. 🤗. And yes, why would I accept crumbs when I asked for gems 💎!!!! 🥰 Video worth watching more than once! Thank you 😊
wow, perfect timing, Shelly! just right after i posted about my Success Story on the Neville Goddard sub-Reddit, where i shared what "techniques" i used to CHANGE my SP, i also mentioned about crumbs (all thanks to a previous crumbs video you uploaded!). and then, THIS came out! divine timing indeed~
A few weeks ago I started to feel my SP is getting distant. Then I binge-watched your videos and read Neville Goddard as much as I could for 2,3 days. In only 1 day I noticed some big positive changes in his behavior!! Although I'm still not fully satisfied with the relationship right now, I'm taking baby steps and I know everything is getting better each second!
@@roset4459 I still have doubts but I try to control them. I don't and can't believe that my SP is madly in love with me right now, but I can believe that he has started to like me very much. I can believe that he is very happy when he is with me. Also I reallyyyyyy recommend you to read Neville Goddard's books. You can easily access them online for free. However, he emphasizes the importance of visualizing your ideal state before you go to sleep. I can't do that either, but I try to generally feel the state of being wanted.
I watched this again today because I’m receiving crumbs again from my sp. I need to change myself and not jump at every text he sends, forgiving him easily for treating me badly. Thank you Shelly for these tips. Self love is very important. ❤️
Shelly some people might think your teachings are a bit simplistic but the more and more I listen to all these LOA topics the more I realize how good of a teacher your are to make this sound so simple but you have the whole thing so clear ! Really glad I found your channel you are really a wise teacher 🤍🤍🤍
Your glowing more and more everyday and I can feel your feminine like crazy. Whatever your doing is working and it’s definitely projecting into your outer world. I’m proud of you🙏💕
OMG 😭😭 PERFECT COMBO. I love you even more now. I definitely see passion in you too! I just really love how your softness instantly makes me feel at home.
You look great in yellow, Shelly! I’m going to say to myself, I appreciate your sweet and kind texts of how you think of me, including me in your life, and that I’m the last person you think of before you go to bed. I deserve phone calls of all you share with me because you want to hear my reaction and I’m worth the drive across the state even just for moment in time, to celebrate our successes and victories together or to hold each other in complete comfort. 😊💕🥰
I started doing the manifest specific person guided meditation . It's been only 4days. I am doing it just before going to sleep at night. I started feeling real good. Thank you. 😊 I feel more secure although sometimes it fluctuates, but I am certain about my manifestation 😊❤️
What to do when you receive crumbs from your specific person.? Or What to do if your not receiveing the type of love you want from them.? What to do in this situation..? + What does it mean to recieve crumbs from someone.? * You are in a relationship but they barely show up. * They dont show love,attention,care the way you want. * They feel distant and far way, they dont pursue you. + What to do in this scenario.? * We are creating people to show up with us . * You are in charge of your entire reality. * They show up to you based on your expectations of what you will recieve from them. * here something can happen is you might have some sought of fear , wound they are gonna leave can come up and you notice it and it expands. *This is beacuse of your focused attention on them.leaving creates it. * Any time we feel something is off we become hyper focused. * and dont see what is going on right. * we must to exact opposite thing or action we must do. * What you focus you impress your subconsious mind. * If you focus on negatives that is what gonna expand. * What up dont want will expand and grow because of your inner focus. + To change this you can do this. *1.) One of the thing or tactic is FIERCE SELF LOVE. * this includes you landing in your inner hell no. * if someone shows up barely to you. Say to yourself i am not available to recieve this little. * This is not gonna work for me * you do say or not to your sp is. * Do not say this to them cause. + You are not changing them , what your doing is changing yourself and your outer reality changes. * Raise your own standards. * If you live with this inner commitment. * People will show up to you cause your devoted to yourself. * You do not tell.this to your sp. * It is just your own inner process. * This can be scary but if you do it the outer reality gets in line. """"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""" 2.) While your sp is showing up with crumbs You must mould and shape about what your doing. * if you focus on negatives that will grow. * Instead focus on this person showing up in a new way. * Tell and new story . * If there is distance. Then go into yourself. + Feel them pursuing you + feel the new them. * Focus on them coming towards you. ############################# 3.) Tell yourself affirmations what they are doing. * they are calling them. * They are texting me. * Feel the truth of your affirmation *Start to chnage the story of what they are doing. * You can look at the text if they send in two ways + Oh my god they are not giving me enough they are barely here. + Oh my gosh they totally wnat me. They cant get enough of me. Thank You Shelly❤
Shelly, you’re glowing more than usual lately ✨ ✨ Thank you for reminding me of tip 4- whatever is showing up, assign the meaning that corresponds to the desired outcome
Love that! Each video is more valuable!!! You look beautiful;) I bought your last course but due to time difference haven’t seen it yet, hope you will send it soon:)))
This is my video! I finally got it why I am not trusting him. Because he is giving me crumps. It's a relief because I know what I need to change inside and see what is showing up or not. 😊 Thank you!
This is exactly how today was. Changing my thoughts, catching myself and the specific person's all did what I thought. Now I'm into they want me so...and good! I'm happy.. I'm in line with you too. I'm enjoying y your red lipstick ..it's eye grabbing .
I dreamt of my SP. Never before...tried so hard. Came back to this video which will sort of bird thank you very much for doing such a grand job I really appreciate it it's refreshing the way you put things across. I have listened to abraham-hicks Mr housing and Veronica Isles who I like very much and this is so refreshing to get a different take on things goes I only recommend erised yes fantastic thank you Cliff 🌹🦉💓🌈❣️🎉👌
Yeh, I had this problem. I think it's about setting boundaries and persisting in the new assumption. I asked my person to make a proper commitment to me and I turn him away now if he shows up with anything less. In the past he did things like show up late at night - so I just stopped letting him in if he didn't come early. I always assume that my person responds to me in the way that I need and that he always comes around so he will slowly conform to what I expect of him - a partner who is fully present.
Thank you for this video. One of the ways was just to be positive even on little response & I tried to write a journal more and ask universe for the best.
There's got to be another way of going about this that is more rooted in unconditional love. Life happens to people - from personal experience, I know what it feels like to be so bathed in overwhelm that one can't handle interpersonal communication for a time, even small stuff. I want to sit on the seat of unconditional love, accepting her totally, just as she is, knowing she will show up more when she gets through this period of overwhelm. I don't need constant contact; I don't actually need anything or anyone outside of myself to be totally happy. But I would love to talk to her more; it would be a cherry on top of the delicious sundae of my wonderful life experience : ) If there is a "everyone is you pushed out" method that also takes unconditional love and radical acceptance into account, I'd like to hear about that please. This, "Hell No!" approach does not resonate with me. Thank you for your videos!
I really got it this time and it made so much sense now and I finally understood what's happening with my new crush! Haha... My God Shelly you're so amazing in your teachings and guidance techniques !!! Thank you very much 🙏❤️💫
IDK how many of you have observed this but Miss Shelly's pics at the start of her videos are soo beautiful and attractive and dynamic with full of self confidence and boldness. Also she looks prettier day by day!
Hie Shelly! Great video💕 Your 3 tips : 1) fierce self love - setting boundaries 2) changing the storyline internally 3) taking everything that happens in your stride and imagining them pursuing us. I think I am doing everything what you said: The last time he had called to inquire about something, I set a boundary that I won't initiate till the time he talks to me the way I want! I am not hyperfocusing on him being distant though we haven't spoken in the past week. I had a couple thoughts on "where is he?"and I felt like asking him about being distant, but I did not because I didn't want to chase him and i also didn't want to waver from my boundary..so i moved to my inner story of him wanting and craving for me! So there's no lack as well❤️ (my constant affirmations are - he's wanting me, claiming me and pursuing me,love comes to me easily and effortlessly, I am the queen and he can't resist me). I am infact doing imaginal acts with him being around me and treating me like a queen and I am enjoying doing it and my affirmations as well and it all feels natural! So basically, I am working on my self love , focusing on the way I want him to come in and enjoying living in the end ❤️ Do you think it is just a matter of time that he'll show up in my 3d soon? I know we are getting back together real soon! It's a done deal ❤️ I am just a bit confused sincce I think I am doing all the things you mentioned in the video.
I had this really bad dream with my sp and anothr girl whom his friends say he likes. nightmares are often your fears so its maybe my inner fear blocking my manifestation? how do I work on it?
@@smritim3665 yes ,maybe. Don't focus on things you don't want. Just be positive and focus on living in the end. Maybe ,start with small beliefs which are acceptable to your mind? Like- he still thinks and cares about you.. And whenever you feel low, go back to SELF LOVE 💕 do some affirmations and you'll be good to go ! Don't worry dear💕
@@samhitaparab thank you so much!! Also, I can create a new story right? Like he talks to her about me tells her he misses me everytime they talk, she's just a friend or like a sis and he helps her with her issues and nothing more and they most of the time talk about me. So if I keep reliving this new story that I'm creating in mind and affirming it it's going to show up exactly the same way in reality soon
@@smritim3665 yes! You can create any story you want to. He talks to her about how much he misses you and so on😉 We can do it! We are great manifestors 💕 Good luck to you 💕
@@samhitaparab omg I so randomly just saw that girls name somewhere and my mood been off since then. I should maybe just take this like a challenge the universe is giving me to see how I'm facing. Or I maybe manifested it? Cause I've been thinking about her quite a lot for the past two days do I ended up seeing her name now?
Stunning thumbnail 👌 Looking gorgeous as always ❤ Loving all the dresses in your photos, I feel like going on a spree 😉 just don't fancy tackling the shops right now in the UK 🇬🇧. I will not accept crumbs from my sp ( SGC) but he never did before, so I suppose I've got something good to go on there😁 🦄🙏🙌❤
Yaayy Ruth!😘💕 My sp also always showers love and attention on me!😘 Though we're distant in the 3d now, I don't care about it as in my mind he's all into me!❤️
I had done the fierce self love without realizing it a year ago. I did it out of frustration promising myself that I will never go back to my person until he comes to me. I drove out even thoughts about him in my head. He drastically changed. He chased me, he pined for my attention, he texted me every single day. He was a completely different person. I did not expect it, but it works ..
Amazing!
@Prathyusha love this ✨
What was your story verse that help you get him this way ? Please
What did you do?? Ignore his texts/calls/reach out or did you tell him he needs to come correct?
Yes! “ you could be my soulmate, but if you don’t show up you’re not getting Ito my life” that is so sensible!
🙏
@@ShellyBullard if they aren't showing up its not them its really you though. So how does that work. If said person doesn't deserve to be in your life if they give breadcrumbs, but essential you are creating that right?
Exactly
“They are showing up in your reality based on your expectations” 👌✨
*YES!*
That’s not true. All heartbreaks happen when you don’t expect them to.
@@Jewelsessences subconsciously you caused them to happen with your fears and limited biliefs
I tried affirming, feeling and visualizing. Affirming felt like grasping as the logical mind kept on fighting the affirmations. It came up with counter-affirmations based on what it saw in the 3d. It was frustrating. However, visualizing helped to land in the feeling. Once the feeling was anchored, the mind naturally started thinking (affirming) what I wanted. Your way of explaining is so simple. It's like magic! Once the feeling is anchored, all the obsession, anxiety, doubt is naturally released. It feels like my wish did indeed already come true. I don't 'want' anything anymore. I feel so light and happy. I am not worried about the how. It's like I am not the least bit fazed by the 3D reality. I am just enjoying the feeling in my body. Wow! :)
Amazing!! Keep up the good work!
That's why we need to do deep slow breathing & go into meditation, and only from that non-attachment empty inner space we can attract and create anything
Love it!
Wow!! You could be a coach too!!! That is straight forward and amazing!!
I combine loa with the feminin and masculine art of seduction🏵️
Ex. When I started dating this man, he told me. No, I don't give flowers, and Im not a romantic person.
My manifestation become, I want a lot of flowers and romance from him😂
I never told him this in person.
Short story, I did affirmations, positive assumtions and visualization. I have from earlier on, learned to put my self first. I had a needy and clingy behavior because of childhood trauma.
When he started showing up with flowers and romantic gesture, I showed him gratitude and happines in a very feminin reciving way. Making him feel his own masculine energy.
Now, Im in a very romantic realationship with a hole lot of beautiful flowers 😂💙
Edit: During I was writing this text, he actually sendt me a picture of his garden flowers. Telling me that he has never given me that amount of flowers at the same time before😂
OMG YES to all of this!! THIS is exactly it!! Love it!
Whoa❤️❤️so happy for you!
😍😍😍😍😍😍
I want to marry my sp
He is syng his parents are not agreeing wt do I do..
Willow pillow, how did you manifest all that? I'm having the same issues with my bf...
“No, I Don’t want no crumbs” to the music of TLC Scrubs
😂😂
LOVE IT
I ended up saying no full stop and then went about enjoying myself and refocusing on things I enjoy. I affirmed and visualised and had a lot of fun and then my current man came along out of nowhere! Absolutely out of the blue and he has always given me the communication and attention that I felt a lack of elsewhere 🥰
Self love is always the answer, that’s how i manifest my sp back, i keep telling myself that i’m worthy, beautiful, magnetic and highly attractive 🥰🤩
Thanks shelly
Beautiful 🤍
What exactly did you do ?
Love this video. I actually did say to my SP that how they were showing up wasn’t going to work for me anymore. It was an unhealthy pattern that kept repeating. I didn’t go on and on explaining to them. I just kept it very short and sweet and matter-of-fact. I felt it was necessary in my situation. I haven’t heard back from them since I said that but I felt SO good saying it and not contacting them again. I feel like I’m looking out for myself now and practicing self-love. I’m actually ok with them not contacting me. I know they are thinking about me all the time and they will come towards me. I’m not worried about the timing and just living my life! I’m much happier💕
This is amazing. So proud you did this - it shows true Self Love which really is the key to us creating whatever we want. :)
I’ve started hanging out and getting compliments off my sp again after a long separation. Yay!
Amazing!
I have committed to myself that I will only receive the best because I am deserving of it🙏🏼💕
Yes!
Gratitude is the most optimal state of receiving! be grateful ✅✅✅
Yes!
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I just stop feeling needy with my sp. I focus on myself with self love. I always assume that my sp loves me. When I give more love to myself, I start seeing attention and love from my sp.
Yesss
Thanks for sharing, Shelly!
I have, in the past, put my sp on a pedestal and have learned to play a trick on myself when I feel I am getting too appreciative of him in my mind (appreciation feels great though), because I sometimes can come from a place where they're the prize, and that turns into lack quickly and subtly. So I begin to act as if they're someone who I'd be ok with being with and ok if not. Sounds like I'm talking myself out of my manifestation but really I'm minimizing the importance and the resistance, while feeling like I'm the One. I know in my heart he is the one I want but it's so fun getting sassy about it and feeling playful and flexible.
I feel that I am free to be myself and screw up and be a fool in front of the guys I dont want, but want me. I could care less what they think of me, so there's that level of sass and goddess. I start to feel constricted when I give my guy too much power in my mind because that leads to me feeling afraid of being rejected and then I can't relax and am acting awkward and unnatural...icky.
It works like a charm for me but it takes persistence in the mind about me being the prize and not losing myself in feeling like I'm wishing for us to be (yet feeling the essence of lack) and actually just being love for the pure enjoyment of it 💜
Affirming,feeling, visualizing and being next to my sp is the best thing that can ever happen to me and the self love meditations of yours are the best thing happened to me. Your new thumbnail is absolutely amazing and very different. Doing your inner child meditations every now and then. A huge fan of yours and great thing to be a part of the community, Shelly. Great video to watch and looking forward to the video.
Thank you 🤍🙏
Hi Shelly, I must say this...
I love your smilie talking 😍.. giggling...
Such happy energy! 🌸🦋💝
I actually had to tell him that I need to respect myself. That is exactly what I said; I didn’t get demanding or give him any type of ultimatum. He said he understands and agrees. That was about 2 weeks ago. It was just evidence that I need to work on my self-love more and that is what am doing. I know it will happen but it will happen when I have complete and total conviction that I am loved, whole, complete, and 1st best! I’m getting there. 💗
Wonderful!
Any update on SP?
@@beanieyounghans3878 Nothing worth reporting. A lot of things have happened since that comment but as of now, it still has yet to happen how I truly desire. But it will.
Any updates?
Definitely what I needed to hear. Thanksss !! 😍
❤ Your teachings are so aligned with how i have had my Journey for the last three years, dear Shelly ❤totally love how you teach, how you put words to everything that is difficult to put into words😍 self love, being genuine and true to one self is essential ❤ it is magical ❤❤thank you ❤❤and i love the way you teach us how to see them in a positive way ❤that really works like magic, see them with unconditional love from the heart ❤❤
Thank you so much.
this new layout is amazing!
Thank you! I’m going for it!! 😉🥰✨
Hi Luv! Yes! Scripting and meditating are truly bringing my wish fulfilled into my reality.
Yesss✨
I feel this video spoke to me at exactly the right time!!I am notorious for holding out for or being just ok with a few crumbs knowing I'm not ok with it!!!I find it so hard but also I do try and celebrate the smaller messages....so my SP does message me every day without fail and some are nice flowing conversations whilst others just fleeting 1 word messages or emojis.
On days when I in myself am more confident and not being needy and have a lighter energy i get the flowy conversations.When I'm tense feeling duped i get the 1 liners.So it is from me and my inner world radiating to my outer....
I dont want crumbs damn it...i want the whole loaf!!!!!!!That's my new affirmation!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes!! Love it!
You need to read this
This absolutely works, I tried this one day before and today my bf is obsessing over me and he wants to keep talking to me and is acting like a crazy lover. Although all the negative emotions that I were feeling earlier were only in my head, as I tried this all the negative momentum changed not only to positive thinking patterns but also to positive results. My bf loves me soo bad. I was just out off track for a while but now I am back to my original self using this and my bf is loving me even more now, (touchwood), you too can manifest love as there is abundance of it in the universe. ❤❤
Wonderful!
God bless
Thank you Shelly you’re amazing at explaining things so easily!
So glad!
So helpful!! I needed to hear this .. ❤️
Looking gorgeous Shelly 😍
No more crumbs...I want the whole loaf..😆
YEP!
Love how you talk about affirming in action on their end such as they are texting me. I just wanna let everyone know, don’t feel discouraged if you have been affirming for a bit and no movement in this 3D. In general there is always moment and everything will happen, keep persisting.
So glad you enjoyed it!
You're so right! It feels discouraging when you're affirming a bit and there's no movement. But I'm sure everything is working out in our favour!
Wow!!! New Graphics are Gorgeous.... 🧡💚💙
Thank you!
I havent even watched it yet but i know its the right video at the perfect time!! Sending love your way as always Shelly 💖
Thanks girl!
OMG this makes so much sense to me.... Shelly I love your teachings you make everything so simple❤️
I'm so glad.
So relevant to me now. Have been on a roller coaster of emotions but could identify the thoughts which weren’t serving me and decided to change my perspective on what I was understanding and added this is just a bridge of incidents which are all aligned to get me there. So as that was all part of the manifestation I have begun to just appreciate and say thank you to my inner being who knows exactly how to get me there. I don’t know how it’s going to happen all I know is if I have a deep desire for something and I have asked the universe, God, then it is answered and even I can’t get in my own way.
Totally amazing and aligned video to my situation. I believe it was sent specifically to me me. 🤗. And yes, why would I accept crumbs when I asked for gems 💎!!!! 🥰
Video worth watching more than once!
Thank you 😊
So glad you enjoyed it🥰
wow, perfect timing, Shelly! just right after i posted about my Success Story on the Neville Goddard sub-Reddit, where i shared what "techniques" i used to CHANGE my SP, i also mentioned about crumbs (all thanks to a previous crumbs video you uploaded!). and then, THIS came out! divine timing indeed~
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I love this video almost as much as I love your lipstick! Love that colour! 💄 xx
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Im living for these new layouts!
😂😂😂 omg I adore you!
@@ShellyBullard love you!
A few weeks ago I started to feel my SP is getting distant. Then I binge-watched your videos and read Neville Goddard as much as I could for 2,3 days. In only 1 day I noticed some big positive changes in his behavior!! Although I'm still not fully satisfied with the relationship right now, I'm taking baby steps and I know everything is getting better each second!
Amazing that you saw results! Yes, keep going... you know what to do ;)
Can I ask you how do yo do that? I mean, how do you believe what you want is possible? How you handle your doubts?
@@roset4459 I still have doubts but I try to control them. I don't and can't believe that my SP is madly in love with me right now, but I can believe that he has started to like me very much. I can believe that he is very happy when he is with me. Also I reallyyyyyy recommend you to read Neville Goddard's books. You can easily access them online for free. However, he emphasizes the importance of visualizing your ideal state before you go to sleep. I can't do that either, but I try to generally feel the state of being wanted.
Yasamin Dehghan thank you so much for your quick response 😁 iI wish you all the best and I hope you can achieve your goal
@@roset4459 you're welcome. Good luck on your manifestation journey!😁
I needed this video! Thank you so much Shelly 🥰🥰🥰
You’re welcome 🤍
I watched this again today because I’m receiving crumbs again from my sp. I need to change myself and not jump at every text he sends, forgiving him easily for treating me badly. Thank you Shelly for these tips. Self love is very important. ❤️
Loving these new thumbnails Shelly! 😍
Thanks Finn!
Thank you Shelly!!!! I manifested my sp back ♥️ he is crazy about me!!
You’re welcome 🤍🙏
I manifested my specific person in 1 week by doing your guided meditation for manifesting a specific person 1-2 times a day
OMG! So excited for you!🤍🙏✨
Thx Shelly!! I mean all of your videos are great but This one, it's the one who made me open my leyes.💐💐🐨🐨🎆🎆💯
You’re welcome 💛
I am just excited with this topic...I think it will clear my south on how to keep boundaries and no crumbs and live in the end simultaneously...
We are changing ourselves and our expectations💕
Yesss✨🤍
Shelly some people might think your teachings are a bit simplistic but the more and more I listen to all these LOA topics the more I realize how good of a teacher your are to make this sound so simple but you have the whole thing so clear !
Really glad I found your channel you are really a wise teacher 🤍🤍🤍
Aww thank you so much! Love this.
Shelly Bullard thank you for your channel I feel so grateful to listen to your wisdom 🤍 I wish the best for you 🤍
Hi Shelly! Happy Sunday everyone!
Thank you! You too!
Love your teachings Shelly! Thank you!
Thank you!!
I’ve been waiting for this video. Thanks ♥️
You’re welcome!
🌼💛 makes sense..Great video Shelly
Glad you liked it!
Your glowing more and more everyday and I can feel your feminine like crazy. Whatever your doing is working and it’s definitely projecting into your outer world. I’m proud of you🙏💕
Thank you 🥰🥰
They definitely want me, love ya Shelly 💚✨
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You really help calm my anxiety...thank you!💕
So glad I can help🤍
LIVING for these new thumbnails 😍
so cute
You’re so soft and sweet and it really really shows in the energy of this video in particular, I love it. Really enjoyed this one Shelly 🥰
I'm so glad, love.
I'm also a bit fierce, might not always show in my videos however I'm an Aries Rising. Fire baby ;) But mostly EARTH. :)
OMG 😭😭 PERFECT COMBO. I love you even more now. I definitely see passion in you too! I just really love how your softness instantly makes me feel at home.
This is so sweet of you to say.
You look great in yellow, Shelly!
I’m going to say to myself, I appreciate your sweet and kind texts of how you think of me, including me in your life, and that I’m the last person you think of before you go to bed. I deserve phone calls of all you share with me because you want to hear my reaction and I’m worth the drive across the state even just for moment in time, to celebrate our successes and victories together or to hold each other in complete comfort. 😊💕🥰
Beautiful 🤍✨
I started doing the manifest specific person guided meditation . It's been only 4days. I am doing it just before going to sleep at night. I started feeling real good. Thank you. 😊 I feel more secure although sometimes it fluctuates, but I am certain about my manifestation 😊❤️
When I saw you were hiring someone to make lovely thumbnails, this is exactly what I imagined! Beautiful!!
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Really? How sweet!
This message is very powerful!
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I do believe self concept is everything 🌸 thank you for this 🌸
You’re welcome 🤍
What to do when you receive crumbs from your specific person.?
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What to do if your not receiveing the type of love you want from them.?
What to do in this situation..?
+ What does it mean to recieve crumbs from someone.?
* You are in a relationship but they barely show up.
* They dont show love,attention,care the way you want.
* They feel distant and far way, they dont pursue you.
+ What to do in this scenario.?
* We are creating people to show up with us .
* You are in charge of your entire reality.
* They show up to you based on your expectations of what you will recieve from them.
* here something can happen is you might have some sought of fear , wound they are gonna leave can come up and you notice it and it expands.
*This is beacuse of your focused attention on them.leaving creates it.
* Any time we feel something is off we become hyper focused.
* and dont see what is going on right.
* we must to exact opposite thing or action we must do.
* What you focus you impress your subconsious mind.
* If you focus on negatives that is what gonna expand.
* What up dont want will expand and grow because of your inner focus.
+ To change this you can do this.
*1.) One of the thing or tactic is FIERCE SELF LOVE.
* this includes you landing in your inner hell no.
* if someone shows up barely to you. Say to yourself i am not available to recieve this little.
* This is not gonna work for me
* you do say or not to your sp is.
* Do not say this to them cause.
+ You are not changing them , what your doing is changing yourself and your outer reality changes.
* Raise your own standards.
* If you live with this inner commitment.
* People will show up to you cause your devoted to yourself.
* You do not tell.this to your sp.
* It is just your own inner process.
* This can be scary but if you do it the outer reality gets in line.
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2.) While your sp is showing up with crumbs
You must mould and shape about what your doing.
* if you focus on negatives that will grow.
* Instead focus on this person showing up in a new way.
* Tell and new story .
* If there is distance. Then go into yourself.
+ Feel them pursuing you
+ feel the new them.
* Focus on them coming towards you.
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3.) Tell yourself affirmations what they are doing.
* they are calling them.
* They are texting me.
* Feel the truth of your affirmation
*Start to chnage the story of what they are doing.
* You can look at the text if they send in two ways
+ Oh my god they are not giving me enough they are barely here.
+ Oh my gosh they totally wnat me.
They cant get enough of me.
Thank You Shelly❤
Love this!
Shelly Bullard I love your teachings ❤️ it’s really amazing ❤️
I like this but wish this post did not have so much grammar mistakes
Richal Fernandes just thought to say, it would flow so much better if it was proof read before being posted. Some parts don’t make sense.
If I took the time out to write this, I would make sure it makes sense. PERIOD
Shelly, you’re glowing more than usual lately ✨ ✨
Thank you for reminding me of tip 4- whatever is showing up, assign the meaning that corresponds to the desired outcome
It's the lighting! hahah
Shelly Bullard I meant it as more of an inner glow ✨
@@denisembaez Aww thanks love! ;)
Shelly Bullard you’re welcome ♥️🤗
I needed to hear this today, you are amazing!!! thank you so much💓
You’re welcome 🤍
I acknowledge and appreciate I have no expectations nor experiences here with your work in the past so all new possibilities
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Love that! Each video is more valuable!!!
You look beautiful;)
I bought your last course but due to time difference haven’t seen it yet, hope you will send it soon:)))
Please check your spam folders... it was sent out already. :) You can do a search for my name to find it.
Shelly Bullard thank you:))
You new course was amazing!!!
A real asset!!! Thank you❤️ the best!!
This is my video! I finally got it why I am not trusting him. Because he is giving me crumps. It's a relief because I know what I need to change inside and see what is showing up or not. 😊 Thank you!
Excited for this
yay!
This is exactly how today was. Changing my thoughts, catching myself and the specific person's all did what I thought. Now I'm into they want me so...and good! I'm happy.. I'm in line with you too. I'm enjoying y your red lipstick ..it's eye grabbing .
Thank you!
I love this I really needed something centered on this topic
Glad you liked it🤍
You did a photo shoot! Love it!
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I’m ready for this one ❤️💙💚
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Hi Shelly, Thank You for sharing your Video 💕🧸🌹
Thank you for being here!
I went videos to videos about this topic n what to do about it.. Found Nothing more accurate than this.. I loved it personally.., 💖
Really interesting. definitely something to try :) thanks
Thankyou so much🙏🏻 for this..my stupid ass keeps arguing and fighting over these little crumbs but now I am going to follow what you taught 💛💛
You’re welcome 🤍
I dreamt of my SP. Never before...tried so hard.
Came back to this video which will sort of bird thank you very much for doing such a grand job I really appreciate it it's refreshing the way you put things across.
I have listened to abraham-hicks Mr housing and Veronica Isles who I like very much and this is so refreshing to get a different take on things goes I only recommend erised yes fantastic thank you
Cliff 🌹🦉💓🌈❣️🎉👌
Thank you so much 💕🥰💖 for this 😊 guidance!
You’re welcome 🤍
Yeh, I had this problem. I think it's about setting boundaries and persisting in the new assumption. I asked my person to make a proper commitment to me and I turn him away now if he shows up with anything less. In the past he did things like show up late at night - so I just stopped letting him in if he didn't come early. I always assume that my person responds to me in the way that I need and that he always comes around so he will slowly conform to what I expect of him - a partner who is fully present.
It shows High Value. Good job.
Thank you for this video. One of the ways was just to be positive even on little response & I tried to write a journal more and ask universe for the best.
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Yellow looks great on you... you look so pretty!!
Aww thanks!
Ok keep a positive attitude and always put yourself first 😊
Yes!
One of your best videos!
Glad you liked it!
There's got to be another way of going about this that is more rooted in unconditional love. Life happens to people - from personal experience, I know what it feels like to be so bathed in overwhelm that one can't handle interpersonal communication for a time, even small stuff. I want to sit on the seat of unconditional love, accepting her totally, just as she is, knowing she will show up more when she gets through this period of overwhelm.
I don't need constant contact; I don't actually need anything or anyone outside of myself to be totally happy. But I would love to talk to her more; it would be a cherry on top of the delicious sundae of my wonderful life experience : )
If there is a "everyone is you pushed out" method that also takes unconditional love and radical acceptance into account, I'd like to hear about that please.
This, "Hell No!" approach does not resonate with me.
Thank you for your videos!
You've great! I get so much from your videos! Thank you!!!!!😍😍😍😍
I'm so glad!
This is soooooo relatableee!
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This is 100% the video I needed
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I really got it this time and it made so much sense now and I finally understood what's happening with my new crush! Haha... My God Shelly you're so amazing in your teachings and guidance techniques !!! Thank you very much 🙏❤️💫
You’re welcome!
IDK how many of you have observed this but Miss Shelly's pics at the start of her videos are soo beautiful and attractive and dynamic with full of self confidence and boldness. Also she looks prettier day by day!
Thank you so much for doing this video. I need this today so badly. Feeling like giving up. But I dont want to really.
You’re welcome 🤍
I don’t take crumbs not since your video about it. I am good enough. I’m excited about this video.
Yes girl! Makes me so gaily you hear!
Great Video I Love This .. initially we need to raise our standard to create the SP person wants more from me
Yes!
You are so helpful thank you very much
Shelly, I believe in whatever you are saying, it is really true, because it is happening to me right now...
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Shelly I love you
Your videos are so helpful
Yes yellow suits you Shelly!
I love wearing yellow!
Hie Shelly! Great video💕
Your 3 tips :
1) fierce self love - setting boundaries
2) changing the storyline internally
3) taking everything that happens in your stride and imagining them pursuing us.
I think I am doing everything what you said:
The last time he had called to inquire about something, I set a boundary that I won't initiate till the time he talks to me the way I want!
I am not hyperfocusing on him being distant though we haven't spoken in the past week. I had a couple thoughts on "where is he?"and I felt like asking him about being distant, but I did not because I didn't want to chase him and i also didn't want to waver from my boundary..so i moved to my inner story of him wanting and craving for me! So there's no lack as well❤️ (my constant affirmations are - he's wanting me, claiming me and pursuing me,love comes to me easily and effortlessly, I am the queen and he can't resist me).
I am infact doing imaginal acts with him being around me and treating me like a queen and I am enjoying doing it and my affirmations as well and it all feels natural!
So basically, I am working on my self love , focusing on the way I want him to come in and enjoying living in the end ❤️
Do you think it is just a matter of time that he'll show up in my 3d soon?
I know we are getting back together real soon! It's a done deal ❤️ I am just a bit confused sincce I think I am doing all the things you mentioned in the video.
I had this really bad dream with my sp and anothr girl whom his friends say he likes. nightmares are often your fears so its maybe my inner fear blocking my manifestation? how do I work on it?
@@smritim3665 yes ,maybe. Don't focus on things you don't want. Just be positive and focus on living in the end. Maybe ,start with small beliefs which are acceptable to your mind? Like- he still thinks and cares about you..
And whenever you feel low, go back to SELF LOVE 💕 do some affirmations and you'll be good to go ! Don't worry dear💕
@@samhitaparab thank you so much!! Also, I can create a new story right? Like he talks to her about me tells her he misses me everytime they talk, she's just a friend or like a sis and he helps her with her issues and nothing more and they most of the time talk about me. So if I keep reliving this new story that I'm creating in mind and affirming it it's going to show up exactly the same way in reality soon
@@smritim3665 yes! You can create any story you want to. He talks to her about how much he misses you and so on😉
We can do it! We are great manifestors 💕
Good luck to you 💕
@@samhitaparab omg I so randomly just saw that girls name somewhere and my mood been off since then. I should maybe just take this like a challenge the universe is giving me to see how I'm facing. Or I maybe manifested it? Cause I've been thinking about her quite a lot for the past two days do I ended up seeing her name now?
I practice all three methods and its amazing!
Wonderful!
Stunning thumbnail 👌
Looking gorgeous as always ❤
Loving all the dresses in your photos, I feel like going on a spree 😉 just don't fancy tackling the shops right now in the UK 🇬🇧.
I will not accept crumbs from my sp ( SGC) but he never did before, so I suppose I've got something good to go on there😁
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Yes, yes, yes... love that your SP didn't/doesn't/won't give you crumbs. That's the best!
Go Ruth, Ruth, go Ruth, Ruth! (I know I say this all the time haha.)
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@@decemberclouds ha ha thank you. Love all your amazing support ❤ 🙌😁🙏
Yaayy Ruth!😘💕 My sp also always showers love and attention on me!😘
Though we're distant in the 3d now, I don't care about it as in my mind he's all into me!❤️
She looks so pretty!🥺
Thank you 🥰
Just needed this
Thank you for video - you look beautiful today !!!!
Aww thank you love!