Lessons In Life Come When We're Walking In Other People's Shoes.

Hey everyone, have you ever stopped to think about the power of kindness? You see, we're all going through our own struggles, facing our own battles, but sometimes, we forget that everyone else is too. That's why it's so important to be kind to each other because you never know what someone else might be going through.
Think about it - a small act of kindness, a smile, a kind word, it might not seem like much, but to someone else, it could mean the world. And who knows, one day, you might find yourself in need of that same kindness. That's why I believe in treating others the way I want to be treated, with empathy, understanding, and kindness.
Being kind isn't always easy, especially when someone has wronged you or treated you poorly. But being the bigger person, rising above negativity, and choosing kindness can have a profound impact on both yourself and others.
It's about understanding that everyone has their own perspective, their own struggles, and their own journey.
So let's make a commitment to spread kindness wherever we go. Let's be there for each other, support each other, and lift each other up. Because in the end, it's kindness that truly makes the world a better place. Oh yeah and share the sidewalk.
Cheers, and wishing everyone great health. Tony
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[@Bearfoot_boy]

Unfortunately I have walked in these shoes. Really does make you think. I had the same experience where I now felt I was in other peoples way. Strange reversal in such a short time. Thanks for sharing!

[@maletenance]

Sounds like you understand. There's a great quote that sums it up. "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about."
Cheers, and wishing you and your loved ones great health. T

[@nigelbrown2907]

So true. Still have catheter in and I walk at the pace of a 95 year old and look like I am sat on a horse. Definitely changes your view on life. Operation next week so can see an end.

[@maletenance]

You totally get it. It is unfortunate that we often only learn lessons the hard way. But better late than never. Good luck with your operation next week. If you don't mind me asking - what procedure are you having? If you prefer some anonymity you can email me at [e-mail]. If you'd prefer not to answer that's cool too.
Cheers, Tony

[@nigelbrown2907]

@@maletenance hi Tony. Green light laser. I have had the problem like you at around the age of 57. First diagnosed with enlarged prostate of 125ml ( normal is 25ml). Finally had to have catheter after being admitted to the emergency room 2.5years later. MRI scan shows 170ml. I downplayed my symptoms, sometimes i could be up in the night 30 times . I always told myself things could be worse. Typical male !. The standard catheter is not designed for long-term use or to be used by active people, even when a "flip flop" valve is used instead of a leg bag. I left the emergency room with a leg bag and small number of large night bags. I had no advice given. I went from feeling like a very active and social 40 year old ( although 60) to a housebound 95 year old. Your youtube posts have been really helpful and I wish you all the best with your new design of catheter.

[@maletenance]

Hi Nigel, I'm so sorry you have been dealing with this for a while. It can be quite miserable and debilitating especially if you're an active person (my improved catheter will help for sure). Feeling like a 95-year-old homebound is awful and mentally it #%$ with the mind. Been there. By the way, 60 is the new 40! LOL
Your story is not unlike so many men who have left comments and is very similar to my own catheter journey. Denial was a big one for me until I stopped urinating completely. You said it "typical male." Then the ER, seven agonizing attempts before it went in, and then discharged with NO information. That's the one that everyone complains about....no practical information provided. It's really the definition of adding insult to injury. It's the reason I started the channel. By the way, I am humbled that the videos helped you out. Also, I heard some people use the valve but then suffer from really bad bladder spasms. You can't win with this necessary evil.
As for the green Light Laser.....this sounds really good. I don't know why I wasn't offered this. Oh well no looking backward.
Good luck with everything and let me know how it goes once you've recovered.
Cheers's Tony