She wants him back now that she's 30
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'females' lmao
This is kinda toxic in my opinion, to be mature in mind you shouldn't mix internet information with your own environment.
Evaluation is needed so you won't be an incel Infront of potential spouse
You mean "don't put any partner over your goals" ? Because the use of "females" just makes your (otherwise good) advice sound like something an incel would say.
Remember guys :
"If she doesn't want you in her prime, don't take her in her decline".
A 304 at 40 is still a 304.
304???
@@jaynelouise1969type 304 on a calculator and turn it upside down lmao
@@jaynelouise1969 Search for it.
@@jaynelouise1969 It means "hoe". Back in the day, you could type "304" in a calculator and if you turned it upside down, the 4 looked like an h. I'm sure you can put the rest together. We also used to type "58008". We'll see if you can guess that one lmao.
Respect to that guy. He gave out his all just for her to say that bs
Yeah, poor guy.
also what really made him somewhat admirable. Was that when he was talking about why they broke up, he just said because of trust and respect issues. He didn't flat out say she cheated on me. It shows what kind of a guy he is, that even if someone did him poorly he doesn't bring the other person down.
Though I can't tell if he didn't flat out say cheated because of his character and values or that he still cares and loves her deeply and wouldn't put her on the spot
@@alceusrydan6237 whats the original vid?
@@eleethtahgra7182 if exes were completely honest by jubilee
@@eleethtahgra7182he deserves so much better
"I have always wanted to self-destruct. Also, I want a family and kids". That's a whole bowl of nope right there
She needs to solve those issues.
The silver lining is that she will not likely ever ruin a family.
She will jump from dick to dick a little and as if being very selfish and emotionally disabled wasn't already enough, her chances of finding anyone to start a family will keep approaching zero like that with every single year that passes.
That woman didn't fumble her relationship. She fumbled her future.
she wanted to be passed around then come back and say wife me. what the lmaooo
@@bobfg3130
It's all BS. She and most women are NOT self-destructive. Women are selfish and destructive in general, and, they believe they can use their monopolized victimization to escape accountability, hence "Oh I'm a victim of myself!". They're disgusting...
Men, on the other hand, are self-destructive. The majority of substance and alcohol abusers are men, and the majority of suicides are done by men. I'd argue that men's tendency to believe that they're the issue and put the blame on themselves, and, allow themselves to be used, betrayed, abused has to do with their self-destructive nature as well.
This has to stop.
@@bobfg3130 People in general who go after pleasure and easy way out will never solve those issues. The more pleasures people use generally, the weaker the mind is. Unless they have worked for it really hard, which turns the table around.
Crazy how she says this all casually. She belongs to the streets
"Was the best relationship I ever had"
"I did it because I always wanted to self destruct"
She has to have some sort of mental handicap right? No way she was of sound mind, while also being okay with those words coming out her mouth
@@ironduke5058fr, like no emotion at all… I wouldn’t want to be with someone like that 😅
That's because that simp gave her all the power so she's like.. well U should be on your hands and knees to beg me to come back.. of cos I'm gonna talk to U like you're a piece of shit
She gave her love and passion to the guy she cheated with and she EXPECTS her ex to give her a family with kids like a buisness transaction. No love just a status for her.
shes not even top thousand in terms of looks to do that😂sigh
"We're 30 now, we should have a family and kids."
Correction: We could have had a family and kids, but someone decided to sleep around on someone who, even though he didn't know what he was doing, was still giving it his all.
She’s obviously missing a few screws. Poor woman probably doesn’t know what she’s doing is wrong…
She didn't even tell him.
Bro I'm still not even 13
"I hit the wall and my options are extremely low, I need to find an ATM, err sorry a husband to start a family before the clock runs out"
Honestly, a man without experience getting with a woman with experience is just... not right. I am glad she cheated. Men cannot be at the mercy of women - and that is not an aversion borne out of insecurity, but a consequence of the asymmetry in responsibility and honour between the two.
"I thought I gave it all, cuz thats all I knew".
Damn. That hurts. Its painful knowing that you gave everything you had for a person who end up betraying you.
I wish the best for him.
My dad gave me some sound advice. A man can only give his all because that’s all he has to give. A woman only wants it all because there’s nothing stopping her. That’s why men and women love differently. A man loves romantically. A woman loves situationally
he meant about his small pp
@@acebambino7187 - damn that's strong.
I'm 17 right now and in a relationship, whatever you see in my channel is just pure jokes or sarcasm, don't take it to heart. But if this does happen to me, no matter how painful, I will keep on the grind, always striving to be an even more stronger and better version of myself.
@@garyoakham9723 The best advice my dad ever gave to me was, 'Never walk out of a bookies with a smile on your face.'
It's a toss up between the next two for second place:
'Some women are like prawns, their pink bits are lovely but their heads are full of shite.'
'Never get married son, just find someone you don't like and buy them a house.'
You're welcome😂
Exes don’t miss you; they thought the grass was greener on the other side.
Don't know why your comment remind me to Stanley pines from gravity falls animation, "my ex missed / misses me, but her aim getting better"
yes never EVER take back someone who left you for someone
have some fucking respect and dignity you clowns
nobody is special
it's called living with consequences
@@muzs89I thought that joke was funny, it surprised me that none of the people laughed at the joke when grunkle Stan said it.
my ex did and came running back to me after a month or a few weeks with some other dude didn’t work cause she said it felt wrong and kept thinking of me, the love between us is still there it was ldr but i went to see her to go talk about this and she’s just been all on me since. like i want to believe people can change and not feel like they want to keep doing that because that’s just me thinking from her pov like i do with anyone’s situations to keep an open mind but when she cried and regretted it i felt a little sad for her because she was scarred from the other dude and she didn’t want to go back to feeling that way and just crashed on me crying all night but on the other hand it was also hard to keep feeling bad because she did it to herself. and thus makes me think of how shitty it makes me feel she betrayed me like that when she could’ve waited another month for her bday surprise visit but noo just had to be this one college classmate i so warned her about im lost but idk man
@@oni5909 cheaters cheat
Sometimes people can't see what they have until it's gone
254M
She did not have that. She realised he is a backup plan as she could not secure the men she really wanted.
Sometimes, people are whores. I think I'm closer to the truth on this one lol...
*Most times
Yes but that not the reason she' need to resolve her own self destructive trauma. Broken people
This chick has some real audacity to insult him like that and still ask for him back total narcissist
Yep and for me it makes no sense to leave someone because they aren't satisfying you sexually. Why not just teach them what you like? Communicate with them about what you like and don't like.
And if they refuse to try to learn and get better then you break up you don't cheat
Again... where in this video did she ever ask to be taken back?? She seems quite happy with the outcome, the next guy made her feel more in a short amount of time then this other guy did for 8 years, she said that. And you all think she's asking for him back again?? Where??
@@johnlennon6790 At first I wondered this too but I think people interpreted her "we should be married by now" as saying she wants him back
@@johnlennon6790 look at the very corners of the screen it shows him as no and her as yes.
Plus this is clearly a short clip of a longer video
@@johnlennon6790
She seems happy? She said he was her best bf and that cheating was her biggest regret lol. Are you a dumb AI that cant comprehend what the hell youre actually watching? Shes literally standing on the "yes" side you dolt.
"I'm getting old and now that I don't have much choice, I need a good guy to marry me. 🤣🤣
This, so many good men out there shouldn't be a second option for the woman just because she knows she can keep him as a backup option while she tries to chase the bad men that will never be hers or treat her right.
Pffft, 30 is hardly old, but I get your point as well. She had it good and now realises she messed up and could have been in a far better position at her point in life than she is now, if only she hadn't decided to be a ho lol
@@blankmeme224This woman is fucking dumb. She could have privately expressed regret to this man and asked him if there was any chance they could try again.
I'm not suggesting if she did that he would take her back. However, now that this is out there publicly the next guy to date her will know she's a ho lol. Most women hide that fact. And not only a ho, but a cheater too.
So she just told every guy in the world that even if she is in a happy healthy relationship it still won't be enough to keep her legs closed.
@StayStrongForever2323 A woman's hormones do not start to decline rapidly at 30 at all. There are changes, sure, but a rapid decline doesn't start till around 40/45 when menopause starts. If a woman starts going through major hormonal changes at 30, then she has a medical condition. I get that men prefer younger women, put the scare mongering and making out that women in their late 20's and in their 30's are more or less expired is really getting tiring, especially when people spread misinformation about it.
@StayStrongForever2323 You're being very dramatic, seriously 30 is not that big of a deal. Consider that in countries like Finland and Denmark, the two happiest and also healthiest countries in the world, the average age to have your first child is at 30 (also the case for most of Europe as well btw). It's really not the big scary deal you seem to want to make it out to be.
Shame on that lady for cheating on her partner, that man deserves way better than her and she’s lonely and she deserves to stay that way
She's not a lady, she's a female.
she can always change the plan and be innocent and somebody has to scrap her shits down the road😢poor future guys
Boyfriend, stop this partner shit.
@@TheUnseenPathin a relationship like that you are a partner, you’ve both made the conjugal agreement to be together and adjust for each other, its 2024 in America people had been stopped getting married, so government wise when they ask about your significant other they do put it in terms of spouse/partner they do not say husband or wife unless marriage is specifically required on said form also you can be married and not be partners
*"I wanted to self destruct"*
Thank God he never had kids with her or wasted 15 years of his life building, just for her to easily file for divorce and take away everything HE labored for. Bro dodged a MOAB.
Actually im gonna call bullshit. When a situation makes it so that a woman who has cheated is not able to lie about why she did it they often resort to the self sabotage excuse.
I feel like the reality is most of these women were not subconsciously trying to sabotage themselves. I think the truth is usually a lot less complicated: they wanted to cheat and did not think they would get caught.
Though you're right he dodged a bullet
@@ChestRockwell24
accountability is like kryptonite to most women. Dude dodged more than a bullet with this one, he evaded an entire *Nuke*
EXACTLY!!!
@@ChestRockwell24ong
MOAB ain’t no way you called her a game ending killstreak lol
It’s poetic justice that this guy still has that option. While this bag of milk is almost at her expiration date.
...is already past her expiration date.
Women, if and when you leave your beta provider for an alpha, make sure you secure the alphas kids so you atleast don't end up 30 and childless. Atleast having the alphas kids will secure your own future, don't leave the beta supplier and not get anything tangigable for it.
@@kevinleewilliams5119women like that deserve nothing but struggle. Jumping from guy to guy only to secure wealth by your own children
@@kevinleewilliams5119That is a shity way to live and you are shity for suggesting it.
expired milk is bad for you
Cheating is actually repulsive idk why people think about even doing it, it only causes pain
Selfish narcissist is one reason.
My guess is itchy genitals and ZERO self-control or respect for others
It’s a way to get pseudo self esteem because you are artificially convincing yourself you are important because you are chasing pain to someone who treats you well.
In a nutshell, she wanted to have fun and probably date a bad boy. But she probably kicked him to the curb and realizes that the grass isn't greener on the other side. What I find galling is that she really expects him to take her back after betraying him. How narcissistic can you get!
Yeah where exactly is that part in the video? I missed the part where she wants him back or even says it out loud, she only laments a regret in the relationship she never said she wants him back for anything at all. What a dumb video
I had an ex like this and i told her no I wont even be friends with you, why would I, you broke up with me and hurt me and im not the type of guy go be freinds with my ex girlfriends and i dont care about you. And i told her to never talk to me again
She wasnt happy hearing that lol lol
No bad boy left her and she's alone and wants to come home
The bad boy most likely kicked her to the curb.
Naw SHE got kicked to the curve reword that bro .
This is so relatable because my ex betrayed me twice and now she wants me back, It hurts but i mustered my courage and said no
Much respect.
Respect brother, stay strong. You're heading in the right direction.
Ive been through that my friend. It sucks but it was one of the best thing i ever did for myself
Twice as korean girlband is great, twice as sums of time she betrayed you is not
Gonna be honest, my brother. Once was a betrayal. But twice?
Twice is you letting it happen. Gotta treat yourself better than being some chicks fall guy.
From the Streets she came, and to the Streets she shall return
I musta stroked out when i first read your comment cause I thought it said
"From the sesame streets she came..."
And I was like DAMN I know she was squawking but comparing her to big bird is a bit much lol!
@@music79075bruh lol
You know as his first partner she probably scarred the man and gave him trauma so honestly good on the dude for not taking her back. Disgusting excuse of a woman. He treated her right because that’s all he knew and now that probably ruined his relationships going forward.
Where did she even asked to be taken back? I watched a woman in the video show some regret for the relationship but perfectly happy with the outcome of finding a better guy who made her feel more in a small amount of time then this other guy did for 8 years. What exactly did you see that made you think she wants him back??
@@johnlennon6790cool, where's her kids and husband to show that she won? I'll wait.
@@Mastervading4306 lame and desperate - the video is titled "She wants him back now that she's 30" - that's a lie, that's what I called out, then you come in sideways with some bizarre appeal to kids and a husband and winning something...you're a desperate incel.
And I don't wait on things in life, I'm not a beta cuck. But you do you...or your hand, as it were.
That's what creates the "Chad's and "Tyrone's" of the world.
@@Mastervading4306but in the video why don't see her asking for him to take her back
When she wants you back years later and you say "nope", it's the best feeling in the world. Especially when you've improved every facet of your life.
So when she leaves you, it's not the end of the world. It may be the beginning of a better one.
Wise words to remember.
Yep too bad this guy will feel none of that because she didn't ask to be taken back, they never showed her wish she could have him back at all. She immediately spoke how the next guy made her feel more in a small amount of time then this guy did for 8 years. You heard that and thought you heard she wants him back??
@@johnlennon6790 Yeah, she also wants family and kids which is hard to do with a Chad or Tyrone. Not sure she should have kids, to be honest.
@@johnlennon6790 are you just repeating the same comment over and over. Whats it to you that got that bee in your panties anyway?
Had an ex who cheated on my 17 years ago
because I adhered to my religious beliefs and followed the precepts faithfully prior to getting married the no sex before marriage (I was in high school) he left me for someone else and even showed off a photo it then in their bathrobes in a hotel. Anyway, when the new girl find out he cheated on me for her, she broke up with him and became my friend. Just incase: nope he and any other people aren’t the reason why I left my first religion, it was a personal decision after a long time of self-reflection, it was ahead of the quarantine I isolated myself due to some personal reasons, it wasn’t due to anyone’s influences. SO BACK TO THAT EX, he then messaged me on Social media 17 years later, I am married with a great man, and isn’t even thinking of him or any other exes of mine, the only time I remembered him was when he suddenly messaged me begging for me to comeback. Obviously it was a NO.
Nah brah I hope he doesn’t go back to her she deserves to spend the rest of her life alone
Straight facts
That literally means he lacks self respect if he does thay
@@gambeer134If he lacks self respect then he would’ve go back to his ex that cheated on me but he didn’t which shows that he respects himself
@@coolgainz9307 exactly
Sadly, He go back. What can I say
To paraphrase the quote: “Treat me like a King, I’ll treat you like a Queen. Treat me like a game, I’ll show you how it’s played.”
This is GOLD!
Wow!!! This should be quoted with your name on it.
@@reaganlim3349 unfortunately I didn’t write it
@@Mayonidas05 Anyway, still, great quote.
Good to remember. who ever quoted that sure know how to give his children life lessons
*Triple H's music hits*
She could've easily communicated to him what as missing , and he would've worked on it and that would've fixed it. But im glad they separated because bro deserves better.
He wasn't big enough. That's usually the reason the women cheat, from what I've heard. They always seek bigger and get excited from it.
According to her nothing was missing, that's why she wants him back.
ya, communication is so important. If you dont treat love like a job you love...
It's gonna be hard cause love's fuckin hard ass work. Some people just want to leave instead of working on things.
Scariest part is hoping your partner cares more about the relationship and the future together than some chump(girl or guy) that tries to waddle in.
Communication is #1 relationship saver, whether it ends or not, at least it was spoken from both sides and discussed. Ya know, like adults xD
@@sigkfredShe wanted the chad pipe and she got it.
But shes too self-centred and stupid to realise chad is never going to date her because shes not a 10, no matter how much she might delude herself into thinking. Having an empty egg carton made her learn this fast.
Imagine doing it and not feeling the shame to tell it
The way she just said that CASUALLY man like have you ever experienced shame in your life bitch!? What the frick
@@cold_static agree
yea she seems almost comfortable, its normalized.
i don't know but i'm seeing a lot of people who lack this sort of self awareness online lately. its like they genuinely don't know how stupid/evil they are being. stay away from them. let them learn the hard way. there is no need for us to fix their messes up. its like they're children that never grew up.
@@newsciencestuff5540 yea but I would say this generation is weird asl , imagine being 21% lgbtq skipping biology . And this shamelessness I guess wouldn’t exist before since women would get beaten
Dude, there's nothing like the feeling of having a girl reaching back after a few months or even a year and just not caring about her now that you're not interested and found someone way better. Satisfying.
Man props to the guy bro. Gave his all just for her to say that bs
Hes...not wise.
He should laugh instead of showing sadness
All of the arm flailing around is a sign of deep fear, even terror. She is literally terrified of not getting him back because she knows there was no one waiting for her at the end of the cc ride and he is the last chance. Too late, you bought the ticket, not him.
Huh? I flail my arms around when I talk that's just a habit
@@neeltrip2443lol that’s what I was thinking too. I don’t do it, but it’s fairly common for people if they’re in an uncomfortable situation (like being in a big white room with strangers opening up about past mistakes). People just pull stuff out of thin air and others will gladly accept it without thinking twice.
Even if he were to take her back she will view him with disgust and wont respect him. She would do it all over again in that scenario. If this other guy gave her everything he couldnt why isnt she still with him. They what comes around goes around
So basically she's emotionally abusing him publicly, to cover for the fact that she's a used up loser who fucked up a great relationship.
And now that she's been used and done random guy was better then he first bf she's hoping it will be a Hallmark movie where the screw up skank can just fallback into the great relationship cue credits
Oh...she's EXPECTED to have a happy family and kids at 30 and a guy she knew for not even an 8th of the time was better then the bf she's desperately trying to get with in that clip.
I honestly think the moron has been gaslit by skanks and feminists and even now is just emotionally attacking the guy and claiming that wanting to be married and have a family are merely things THEY expect of her and not something she wants.
She's a pathetic easily manipulated goon.
Yet she couldn't even say "I'm sorry"
I really hope that the guy didn't take her back. He deserves better and she belongs to the streets.
He’d be an idiot to take her back.
Look at his eyes and pose , he looks proud he already knows his worth and it's not her
Why would he go on a show and let her humiliate him again… Have some self respect guys, move on and become the best version of yourself.
Exactly, that man is a weak simp, he deserves everything he got
@@khuo3568so he can roast her.
@@khuo3568 This video was posted 7 hours ago and it already 70k views, i think who is being humiliated is her...
@@DiogoPit’s definitely her being humiliated simply because she’s just exposing her sorry ass with each second she opens her mouth… Any of Us can see she’s redder than a Chinese flag… but the main point of OP is that he’s saying that dude shouldn’t have even bothered going onto this show simply because any HVM woulda threw her behind to the streets and wouldn’t even waste an exponential amount of time to come on a show just to “see” if we can “work it out”.
@@DiogoP she's being exposed but he's being humiliated. Any girls watching would feel sorry for him but none would be attracted to him
"He gave you everything you wanted
I gave you everything I had"
This comment has my respect ...cuts really deep ...I can't even describe the Dept of it ...
My ex cheated on me 3 years ago. She still calls me/wants my attention.
Her family is very female oriented, her only brother is a big soy boy, too many divorces. She gonna follow suit. Now she wants kids at 26… good luck with that.
26....theres still a chance for her if she were to repent n reform. But dont be there for her. She should seek her own redemption.
In the meantime...go plot ur own path in life without her in it.
Theres a reason traitors are often banished or executed.
How did you find out she cheated on you?
get fit
find 22 years old cashier or immigrant
focus on money
@@lucasrodrigues9766 Long story honestly, I think I knew before I had to pry it out from her.
@@troooooper100 yes sir! Already on the case. Tbh with money, these young girls don’t care too much- unless you have an absolute shoot ton. I had a new Toyota Supra and everything at 21 making 5-10k a month in car sales.
Look at him at the end he looks so upset
I hope he’s with someone better
If they break up with you, don't except them back. You weren't good enough for them. They see you doing better now, reject them. They already showed you they leave you in a instant when you're at your worst.
accept*
He wasn't even at his worst, she was - she cheated just because she wanted to, not because there was something wrong with him.
"Stay focused brothers, stay focused."'
I dont care what anybody says. she represents the majority of women out here and he represents the majority of men. I wish the absolute worst for her and her family and nothing but the best for the guy.
Same, I wish we would just wake up and move on from this stuff.
Shame most are whores and bank on financial dominance whilst guys suffer in agony.
@@kionnaaahleianah he’s definitely right idk wtf you’re talking about
her family too?
preach@@Nam3less2U
She quite literally said I slept around and don’t care about it but now that I’m 30 and still not married I want to go back to my decent ex boyfriend?
She also said she has mental problems and the guys who smashed and dashed were better then him 8n every way.
So...real winner
i feel like self destruct is a huge excuse too, you aren't hurting yourself, you're hurting him.
She makes me sick, she is a super immature and selfish person, she only thinks about herself. It's typical, she had a boyfriend who loved her and gave her everything, but feeling young and arrogant, she thought she could replace him with "someone better" and of course if it's just sex, of course she could find someone in a short time, but Find someone who loves her in a short time? That is very complicated, even more so coming from someone who was unfaithful to a boyfriend who did nothing to deserve that, I hate how society always justifies the woman and sinks the man in these cases, if the man is unfaithful it is because ''all men are the same'' but if a woman is unfaithful ''it's because the man did something'' Somehow it's always the man's fault... Seriously this double standard sucks, like this girl who was unfaithful to a good man and now that she is almost 30 years old and sees how her youth and attractiveness are fading, she now wants back the man who treated her well... Throw away someone who only did you good and look for him again Just because you couldn't find anyone else is one of the most hypocritical and disgusting things you can do.
"Society" [i.e. those who drive the narrative] only presents the strong and empowered women.
A girl like this, when she's left over past 30 and miserable, is totally ignored, except when presented in the context of "where have all the good men gone," as if men are the problem.
Definition of insanity.
You Should watch the Whole video,
It's 1000 times worse
She just admitted she wants him because he is financially secure n can provide her a safety net
And yet, so many men take back their cheating gf because their self esteem is not existent... women sleep around in their 20s when they have options and cry in their 20s because no man that focused on his own career and is successfsul will take them. Stay strong brothers, its our time to grind! Rather single than unhappy with the wrong woman!
A women sleeping around and being used as a side piece doesn’t mean she has options.
Men willing to commit long term and pay her bills is an option, not casual flings
Man, the pain of knowing that you had something good and you let it slip away. That's a lifetime of pain though, especially if she's realizing that now that she's 30 and want to have a family and all the guys that she's with. Just want to bust them cheeks. That is tough.
She did it to herself I don’t feel bad for her
She's the victim? What about the poor dude who gave her everything and got burned? You must be a woman or a simp. 😂
Funny thing is, she doesn’t even have cheeks. I seen more booty on a coffee table. 😂😂😂😂
For most women what you do is never enough. You're expected to provide, protect her and lay down the pipe like you're a pron star while not working too much and listening to her feelings. Good luck.
That’s why I’m staying single. I Don’t need to be carrying dead weight with me throughout the rest of my life. Guys could be a lot happier if they just stay alone. But they never do and then this happens
Women are whores now. All they do is open their legs to simps and inspire others to be just like them. It’s real sad tbh. Definitely wanted a family growing up, but nowadays I dodged a bullet with the trash of today. Stay focused kings
She may want him but he sure as hell doesn't. His body language and demeanor expresses everything saying 'nope.'
She's an ex for a very specific reason.
1. People cheat when their needs aren't being met.
2. Without compatibility, trying to meet your partners needs is not going to be effortless - which it should be.
3. She contradicts herself.
4. I've dated women like this when I was younger. I was "too boring" and didn't party, couldnt take my depression. Most of them cheated but all came back to me months and years later, and some (probably when their current relationship breaks down) contact me again as they've reflected and compared. I'm living the life that they EVENTUALLY wanted. Some women think that they can pick and sample like they're in an ice cream shop.
This woman has already shown what she is like and her motives are entirely selfish.
Just found this channel randomly, very full of motivation.
So the one she cheated with dumped her and now she's going back to old reliable? That's it, right?
Best comment in here
When she said that he was her best boyfriend, if I was in his shoes I would have said: “And you were my worst girlfriend, funny how that works”.
When she said that it’s “expected”
of her to have kids now that she is 30, I would have told her: Sounds like a YOU problem!”
He should say; good luck but he pity the husband.
Sad world.
I just had a breakup 4 days ago and she also cheated on me. Better fishes in the sea brothers!
rule #1 never except them back
DON'T TRUST THEM
This...THIS is why communication is so important! He was giving his all and he thought it was enough but she wanted something more but said nothing. All on her...
This falls right in line with the "secret sacrifice" females love to do, and then later use to justify cheating or leverage herself in the relationship. She never tells you, she just sacrifices, in quiet, keeps that from you and pretends as though it's something you should have noticed without her having to say - that's the excuse they throw out after citing their secret sacrifice in an argument crushing your feelings and ego, is that 'you should have known' you should have been able to 'read the tea leaves' or blah blah blah.
Refusal to communicate and tell the man her needs and what she wants from him, keep it a secret and pretend as though she's sacrificing herself and her fulfillment to make him happy. Not a single guy walking the planet asked for that, not one. And women all pretend like their quiet sacrifice is the expectation.
Women tell themselves narratives that gives them the excuses they want to behave without accountability.
His expression and honesty stings. Wishing you the best brother.
She said " Just gave me everything for a short amount of time, for 8 years of being with him I couldn't even feel it ".
I will tell guys what she meant by that
It is the emotional rush and excitement of being with someone new.. that's what she feels and causes her to cheat. This happens bcuz she sees him so often too many times and so often that her emotions for him became dull. There is no more excitement bcuz its not new anymore. Her emotions ran dry and she tried to find it somewhere else. Never do this " one too many kisses, one too many hugs, one too many i love you, and one too many weaknesess
It is because she got everything from the Man while she did not need to adapt and give out anymore with time she lost interest so she wanted something new like a stupid kid and guess what she now changed many people got used up body and spirit and is ready to get pack taking from the man what once gave anything without question to her..
Don't even talk to her. Or even look at her!!!!
It's always that shit. When a guy treats a girl decently they fuck you up. If you treat them bad they love you. 🙄
Its called Novelchasing. Its something only stupid people do.
That’s a sad villain origin story
She's now realizing her time is ticking while bro has all the time he needs to find that one special BETTER girl for him 😊
Correction: I’m 30 now and my value as a woman had gone down so now I can settle for a safe man
Pretty much yeah… Most women like to ride the cc when they’re young and expect to settle down with the beta loser once they’re not as attractive anymore.
I’m 30 and I realized that my sneaky links never intended to give me long term and they only sold me a dream to get to sleep with me.
Now that I’ve fingered out that they will never commit to me let me try and get commitment from my friend zone guys 😇
0:08 Lol, even the skimpy woman on the right was looking at her as if shes crazy.
She will always remember you when she's at her lowest but leave and forget you when she's at her peak.
She's definitely thinking they could be together and make a family again now that she's near the wall. The wall remains victorious. Sorry, unless that guy's a dumb simp, he won't take you back after the pain you gave him.
Any man who leaves a bad woman only improves himself.
This is like when my ex came and ambushed my girlfriend and I in the mall food court. She saw me alone and came up trying to bullshit her way back into a relationship when my girlfriend came up and asked “who is the hooker ?” knowing the shit my ex did.
Good one. Emotional damage
@@mr.knockknock3705 It was funny as hell, its one of the reasons she is going to be my wife after the move is done.
@@offworlder1 good luck 👌🏾
@@offworlder1 Best wishes to you and have a good life with your current GF.
"Self destruction"
"Self sabotage"
She's mental
To the streets now lady!
That man is still in pain from what she did.
Her words are just *dumping* massive amounts of salt into a wound that won't ever heal, and you can see it on his face while she talks.
Have no sympathy for women like her. She made her bed. She *has* to sleep in it. And once she does she can go and tell other younger women not to make the mistakes she did. That's the *only* way to get through to those types.
Yeah...hes sobbing a bit when he talks.
He should go apathy route, not sadness route. Or go apathy-hate route.
@@eleethtahgra7182 Eh if you're sad you're sad, no point in trying to pretend otherwise
@@eleethtahgra7182Well it's kinda hard to just up and change how you feel about something. And being sad is perfectly reasonable in this situation.
@@Aufbleiben I know. But its the mindset. He could have told himself "Fukk, why am I wasting tears for this waste of air?"
@@moxine_ Based on the context, she cheat on him and later want to come back to him.
Meaning, theres time between the cheating, break up, n her statement in this vid.
He could have worked up logic or emotion that would point toward hate instead of sadness.
Hes showing...weakness, thats why shes so condescending toward him.
Its like....a hog just lay waste to one's farm. So, does one just cry of the the lost farm or take a rifle and hunt the hog?
Remember guys, for a lot of women, it's never enough. If the richest men in the world can't keep their wives happy, what chance have you got?
the guy is lucky.. else he would be paying alimony and child support
She still roasted him after saying he was a good boyfriend, there is no glory in being a good guy.
"Come back, I am not done cheating on ya" 😂
"Society expects from me to be a mother" nice bs argument
Just another treesh…
Well it's not really a bad thing to want to fulfill the needs of the group. It is bad to expect that you can do something when you haven't put in the work and your history says otherwise though. I kind of feel bad for her though, I'm a man and I'm almost the same age and yet I have so much more time to improve and still have my sh*t work properly if I need it lmao
@@Aufbleibentrue.
While society does expect that, she herself isnt a mother material.
Right that was the final nail in the coffin. Not like "I want you back because you're the best"
"We're almost 30 now," translation she knows she's losing her youth and many guys she's attracted too aren't into her 😅
"losing"
Her youth was over at 25.
Where are the modern feminist???...she is the type of woman feminist wants during their street walks and rallies.
@@incognit01233 incel.
Cheating is not like a Rollercoaster. You can't go back. However, it can have one
throw up.
She hurt that dude and he had to live with that pain. Its not right for her to come back after having her good times and a party only because things are getting more difficult and she is beginning to experience the pain of no safety net. There isn't anybody that is gonna save a man from falling but himself. She hasn't even begun to regret her decision.
People are not replaceable, you just meet different ones. Women are hypergamous but there is such a hyper warped perception of what that should mean for a human. It is not a successful mating strategy to burnout by time you're 30 by having meaningless sex when the purpose is to obtain stability, protection and provisions. There is no place on Earth where you can survive by doing that. Women, like this one have more in common with long time drug addicts. The high isn't working anymore or they can't get anymore so its time to hit up the Rehab clinic.
This comment right here caught a dub from me.‼️💯
Just came out of a relationship which was mostly unhealthy for me. Now I‘m in the process to recover (which is kinda hard atm). But i learned the benefits of being single. And i’ve never been happier to be alone than now!
"Wanting to self destruct"
Is that supposed to be some sort of excuse?
Meaning shes not wife material.
"self destruct", like no one else got hurt, she's full of 💩
I could see the pain in his eyes, you never forget when someone breaks your heart and to hear her openly talk about and compare their relationship with the new guy. No you’re better for not being with her now.
Once a cheater always a cheater. Isn't that right ladies?
that's called a narcissist, doesn't care about anyone else and is self centred, keep on trucking youll find the right one
she's that type of woman who dates a fairly decent guy, leaves him for no reason, and then complain on twitter about how she's still single, men are trash, all her exes were toxic, bla bla bla. a true definition of a narcissist.
What is with this channel speaking facts and talking in BASED... holy damn shit... you are helping me a lot
Like I wish the best for him and all but in the video, he still wishes they were back together. Hopefully this was a wake up call to him that he needs to find someone better but he isn't going to do that if he still harbours feelings for her
Tell her to hit the road. You broke up because of her. She'd just cheat again, and who wants that?
Thing is it doesn't matter if she's 30. If she believes this bs, that's her problem. Thing is she sees as father material. Also, she has issues with who she is dating now. She still picks the "bad boys" or the guys that aren't interested in a long term relationship.
More like step father material. She still wants the kids to be from the bad boy sperm donor and have this guy take care of them and her 😂
They dont want the good guy until theyre out of options
@@johnreed9050
Don't. Or just bored. Women can look hot in theor 40s easily.
@@bobfg3130 But not as hot or hotter as in their 30s and 20s (unless they were fat and lost weight). And that noticeable decrease in hotness brings about a noticeable decrease in attention quality.
@@mrkiky
No, just as hot. Sometimes you just can't tell. Don't delude yourself.
she rode the carousel and now ready to settle
She got bored for a sec, then messed around and found out
When the hole has turned into a cave 💀
Never take a cheating woman back
Never take a cheating woman back. Why? Because she won't respect you. Your relationship will always suck. Sadia Khan talks about this. Difficult but important lesson, fellas!
What is she even saying "i cheated on the best bf i ever had" then says "i dont know what happened" WTF!?! You cheated that's what happened. No self respecting person is putting up with a cheater.
"im almost 30 now, i should have family and kids"
Should have doesnt mean deserve and doesnt mean you will get little princess
She's a mean person. They're not all mean, but she was broken. She'll get better and learn when it's too late, but there's still a chance for him!
Never take back a cheater. They always cheat again
I’d also argue that if he didn’t know what to do, she could’ve communicated her needs. Anyone open minded and willing to be passionate and engaged in improving is worth a lot more plus she implied he was basically the full package other than the sex!
She’s willing to hurt his feelings but not the other person
Once a woman steps out with another man, walk away forever.
DON'T TAKE HER BACK, BRO. She made her choice...now it's time to live with the consequences. Sorry.
Both bad men and women exist. Just be a good person and be honorable!
Nobody is a good person bro
@@Alden-Smith tru but you can be or strive to be a decent human being.
@@Astelch only with Jesus Christ is that possible
@@Alden-Smithno one is a good person? Doing mistakes doesnt automaticly make you a bad human, right.
@ketamineheadyoda2248 sin makes us bad people, so your statement that is actually a question is wrong.
Now that her value's falling she wants to catch you on the way down and have a safety net
I hope he moves on.
he is a backup plan as she could not secure the men she really wanted
The audacity of her to say "its expected of me to have a family with kids" when you passionately got your back blown out with a man. You shouldve had that type of lust after him instead of the man you cheated with. The way she says she wants to have a family with her ex sounds like nothing more than a buisness transaction or an investment with no love in her voice.
ABSOLUTELY. BROTHER JUST WATCH THE WHOLE THING?!?!? I WAS SHOCKED. This treesh at one point tried to say that HE wasn’t making enough sacrifices or some crap like she was….. AND ALL SHE DID WAS COMPLAIN SAYING HE NEVER TOOK HER “compliments” I hope she stays alone and doesn’t get them kids because she’s not sorry in the slightest bit.👎🏽 she doesn’T DESERVE it…. The nerve of her to even project her sorry ass crap onto him when it’s 120% her fault….
Its not even business transaction.
In a transaction one pays money for goods/services rendered. Its give n take.
This woman only take. Its not even a transaction, its robbery.