Understanding Cancer Survival Rates

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  • Well, yknow, It’s a weird one, but I make stuff about the things I’m thinking about and this is definitely one of them! It’s such a wild thing that we talk about cancer in a unified way when it is many hundreds of different diseases. Cancer isn’t a disease, it’s a way for disease to happen. And even with something as treatable as Hodgkin’s there are lots of ways it can be more or less dangerous, and sometimes it gets really stubborn! So far that isn’t happening with me, but I am very aware that it could. I’m not a population, I’m just one person, so I get to be on one side or the other! It’s good to actually understand what it all means. ELECTRIC CAR BRAKE LIGHTS ARE FASCINATING if you're not in the mood for this: • Electric cars prove we...
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  • @mediocreengineering6900
    @mediocreengineering6900 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4909

    Gah that furby never gets less unsettling

    • @ayaanmohammad6645
      @ayaanmohammad6645 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +211

      I didn't even notice that until you pointed it out, and now it's somehow the most noticeable thing in the video. I can't stop looking at it, and I don't know how to feel about that.

    • @jayroger7612
      @jayroger7612 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      I had so many furbies growing up including full sized electronic and old plastic mcdonalds toys that it took me scarily long to find it in the background

    • @SoulB123
      @SoulB123 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      It will always be watching

    • @MBMCincy63
      @MBMCincy63 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It's sad I know what it is, but don't remember what was the deal with them. There's several things in the life of now regarding the items of the life of yesterday.

    • @onemoreguyonline7878
      @onemoreguyonline7878 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      The og ones had certain bad word filters so they wouldn't repeat swears. The problem was you could teach them words that were close, and eventually another furby could seemingly bypass the language filter when it was learning things from other furbys.
      Eventually a couple buddies and I collected a box full of cussing furbies and left them in the back corner of an abandoned house in our neighborhood. None of us went back because of that nightmare fuel

  • @everything-is-interesting
    @everything-is-interesting 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14518

    My father died of HL in 1952 at the age of 28 while undergoing experimental treatment. I like to think he's part of the reason Hank has a good chance of surviving!

    • @jeremycraft2445
      @jeremycraft2445 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +291

      😢

    • @levilukeskytrekker
      @levilukeskytrekker 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      +.

    • @maymorning8504
      @maymorning8504 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +835

      ❤ so sorry for your loss - what a lovely way of thinking about it.

    • @eliscanfield3913
      @eliscanfield3913 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +333

      *hugs* I think he is, too. My dad was in a similar situation, having therapies that were still under study. He was about the same age at diagnosis as your father though he was a boomer and had a different cancer. His survival had been a close run thing for a while there.

    • @xXHarleyMaeMcAfeeXx
      @xXHarleyMaeMcAfeeXx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +293

      Absolutely, no person lost to cancer is lost in vain. Every loss contributes something to our understanding of disease and the advancement of treatment. It’s just heartbreaking the nature of the disease has made this the case though

  • @Sqwearl1
    @Sqwearl1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4096

    My stage 4 lung cancer had a 5% 5 year survival rate back when I was diagnosed. I'm still here and currently working through year 7. Good luck to you my friend :3

    • @danevertt3210
      @danevertt3210 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      How old are you?

    • @megan5867
      @megan5867 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      Congratulations! That is absolutely fantastic 🎉

    • @rotisseriechicken8537
      @rotisseriechicken8537 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      th-cam.com/video/y08hX5Ijly4/w-d-xo.html

    • @huntergtx
      @huntergtx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      congrats man you deserve it

    • @chriswarfs3244
      @chriswarfs3244 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      so glad you're still here friend

  • @PaulLefebvre
    @PaulLefebvre 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1246

    My non-hodgkin's lymphoma had a 0% survival rate when I was diagnosed in '83. Prognosis was 0% survival rate at 6 weeks WITH treatment and 2 weeks without treatment. I got extremely lucky as they discovered an effective treatment protocol WITH me.

    • @Rose-jz6sx
      @Rose-jz6sx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      Wow! That is incredible I'm so glad you were there for that

    • @demetriusschiller
      @demetriusschiller 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      same to me '86.

    • @Uhohlisa
      @Uhohlisa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Wow Paul. This actually made me cry. I’m so glad you’re still here.

    • @TheLastP4NDA
      @TheLastP4NDA 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Awesome for you! Grasp life

    • @PaulLefebvre
      @PaulLefebvre 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

      @@Uhohlisa Thank you. I like to share my story because so many people feel like there's no hope when it comes to cancer diagnoses. But you never know WHEN a cure to a type of cancer will be found.... even when everything feels hopeless.
      You need to FIGHT, even when doctors say there's no hope.. because you just never know.
      I had the chance to have a fairly full life, And I've got two kids whom I love to death, and every single day I've had in the last 40 years has been a blessing.

  • @TheKingShyGuy.
    @TheKingShyGuy. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4483

    Imagine taking a month long break from TH-cam and you come back to see hanks new office, hanks new haircut, and Hank now uploads videos over 4 four minutes.
    A lot changes fast.

    • @KrazyKaiser
      @KrazyKaiser 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

      Among other things...

    • @TheKingShyGuy.
      @TheKingShyGuy. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +259

      @@KrazyKaiser can’t think of ANYTHING else personally

    • @xraylife
      @xraylife 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Claims he's got cancer as well, but seems way to upbeat to be true - but could be a Psy Op for the 🐑

    • @thebugcoiiector
      @thebugcoiiector 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

      @@xraylife is this a joke lol

    • @ChrispyNut
      @ChrispyNut 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

      I'm sorry, but imagining the impossible just isn't something I'm good at.
      Taking a month long break from YT?? Whoa.

  • @userasdf
    @userasdf 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2400

    As an oncologist, thank you for explaining this to people. Youre amazing for everything you did before and now.

    • @pureicefire
      @pureicefire 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      Thanks for the work you do.

    • @madzane8218
      @madzane8218 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      And you're amazing for everything you do

    • @jmyers52995
      @jmyers52995 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah and I'm a neuro surgeon

    • @kcmaldonado3948
      @kcmaldonado3948 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jmyers52995I would like to hear an oncologist's explanation of so many post -vaccination aggressive cancers surfacing. I will never take an experimental gene therapy.

    • @asliceofjackie91
      @asliceofjackie91 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kcmaldonado3948 You can't start a discussion with a random statement. What are your sources for what you're trying to talk about?

  • @quickredf0x143
    @quickredf0x143 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1259

    That "A person with an 85% chance of dying in the next 5 years is 100% alive right now" line hit me harder than I would have expected. I don't even have anyone in my personal life dying of cancer that I know of right now and it still made me tear up. The closest thing was my grandmother dying of cancer when I was like 8. It hardly hurts me anymore and I just remember her with what little memories I still retain.

    • @Kantara01
      @Kantara01 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      "Those who only chase tomorrow will find it cold and gray, but those who make the present count, live lifetimes every day"

    • @iam_aaa3025
      @iam_aaa3025 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@Kantara01 wow that is a rhyme

    • @miadrawz421
      @miadrawz421 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I’m sorry for your loss ❤ may she rest in peace

    • @cubic_regent
      @cubic_regent 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Kantara01 beautiful

    • @Svensk7119
      @Svensk7119 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My mother died of leukemia over forty years ago. I was eight. I usually don't even think about it anymore. When I do, I say heigh. I love you. Stuff like that.
      I still have my father.

  • @Beeranden
    @Beeranden 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +435

    I am an Acute Lymphocytic Leukemia survivor. Was diagnosed back in 2009. I've had chemo, a bone marrow transplant, and finally on the last relapse, a clinical trial called CAR-T cell therapy. It cleared me up completely, and I have been cancer-free since 2017. It is now being FDA approved and is being applied to other cancers.
    I can't tell you how cool it is to be a part of something scary and unknown, but wholly helpful for so many people.

    • @halometroid
      @halometroid 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Thank you for having fought all these years. I am so happy to know that you are feeling better today!

    • @PaleoTheExaminer
      @PaleoTheExaminer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      THATS AWESOME MAN CONGRATULATIONS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @zach_334
      @zach_334 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      CAR-T is a game changer. Glad you kicked cancers butt 💪

    • @iconicthief9204
      @iconicthief9204 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love you.

  • @YuBeace
    @YuBeace 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +970

    “We’re 100% alive right now.” Is amazing in the context of anyone with a chronic disability or terminal illness. I love that very much. In fact, it goes for everyone, no matter the health, you never know what happens tomorrow. But we are here.

  • @juicesnap
    @juicesnap 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1113

    as a health statistician, I'm so glad that you talked about the nuance of survival rates. I just finished working as a data analyst for a pancreatic cancer clinical trial.

    • @HexerPsy
      @HexerPsy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Sounds interesting :O Care to give us a scope?
      As a Radiotherapy Tech we see the inoperable pancreatic patients come through our clinic. I am curious what the trail is on and its results

    • @Qwerty0791
      @Qwerty0791 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Oh god, Pancreatic cancer? So basically the death sentence that is the whipple procedure. How do you feel about the "new promising" vaccine for adenocarcinoma?

    • @InvertedGoblin
      @InvertedGoblin 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So I read somewhere that the 5 year survival rate is also deceptive because we can detect cancers earlier now. This means that even if nothing else changes these people will seem to be living longer.

    • @PhoenixHyena
      @PhoenixHyena 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      My 12yr old brother passed 2 months ago from pancreatic cancer. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you for working on this ❤

    • @juicesnap
      @juicesnap 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Qwerty0791 no idea because the trial I was helping with seemed to be also very experimental but I was mainly looking at the average length of treatment for patients for certain drugs and the site level metrics and biomarkers. Also because my background is in statistics and programming some of the bio things were left to the people on the team and most of the statistical protocols and design was already there before I joined the team.

  • @Morbanaa
    @Morbanaa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +166

    When I got diagnosed with cancer at 10 they didn’t think I would be alive for more then 6 months.
    After four years of treatment (radiation and chemo, and being paralyzed from the waist down for a year or so from spinal surgeries) it reached that weird point where I was surprised to still be alive but starting to think it might not come back for round number 5.
    I’m now 23 and able to run ski and surf. Life is weird… 😅
    Wish y’a all the best Hank! You and your brothers videos where a favorite source or entertainment during the long years of treatment❤❤❤

    • @Raj-dy2cn
      @Raj-dy2cn 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      So happy for you!

  • @alexacarrillo4339
    @alexacarrillo4339 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +566

    My husband is officially in remission from Hodgkin’s lymphoma(he was 44 almost 45 at diagnosis but he decided to decrease his odds of survival by getting a a motorcycle and getting in an accident July 3rd mid way through treatment. Then while he was recovering from the damage of the accident which took longer due to the chemo my son brought home Covid his first week of school. I am grateful he is still here celebrating his 46th birthday.

    • @setphaser
      @setphaser 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      I’m so sorry for all the stress you’ve gone through with all that, I’m glad everyone is ok.

    • @YesPlease1
      @YesPlease1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Sheesh, he's been through a lot. I bet you and your son have been very loving and supportive. Wishing him a healthy recovery.

    • @interstate80.
      @interstate80. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Boys will be boys

    • @KOKO-sf6kg
      @KOKO-sf6kg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Woah, that is a wild year, lady.
      If you need Jesus, remember to call his name and be still and know he is with you, and then be thankful and tell him what you need.

    • @Roguescienceguy
      @Roguescienceguy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      What can I say. Men will be men😂

  • @JasonFrankenstein
    @JasonFrankenstein 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +518

    "Our lives are not valuable because we expect to be here in a certain amount of time, they are valuable because we are here now"
    As somebody who is feeling their age lately, thank you, Hank. That's going to stick with me.

    • @CharlesAYoung
      @CharlesAYoung 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      We're here because we're here!

    • @beepmcjeep5527
      @beepmcjeep5527 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah this stuck with me too... Thanks Hank

    • @19shelby99
      @19shelby99 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Could make for a sweet tattoo honestly. Such a beautiful perspective!

    • @aamirrazak3467
      @aamirrazak3467 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True, a great reminder of being present in the moment and being grateful for being alive currently. I need to work on this and being more grateful

    • @lyndsaybrown8471
      @lyndsaybrown8471 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hmmm...suspicious comment from a Frankenstein

  • @spacey-sam
    @spacey-sam 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +631

    “A person who has an 85% chance of dying in the five years is 100% alive now”
    My mom got diagnosed with Parkinson’s a few days ago and I’ve been having a hard time keeping myself from imagining what could possibly happen to her years down the road… it’s been a rough week but everything you said surround that quote was stuff I really needed to hear right now, thanks Hank 🖤

    • @AmaraJordanMusic
      @AmaraJordanMusic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I’m sorry about your Mom’s diagnosis. But maybe, having the diagnosis is helpful, in that fighting shadows is really really hard. But once the enemy has a name, once we can understand it and its process, we’re on a more level playing field and can begin digging in and doing the real work to treat it and to prolong the time before quality of life gets impeded.
      My Mom had Lupus and then cancer (which the Lupus hid) and it was so hard before she was diagnosed. It wasn’t what she wanted to hear, but it was so much better than some doctors thinking she was maybe a little nuts or wanting attention or drugs and it gave her a community of so many people who also had the diagnosis.
      I hope she gets a great medical team in place to deal with the illness and its symptoms. She’s lucky to have such an empathetic kid that is really feeling this with her. Hang in there together.
      My mom was sick almost my whole life, but we had a lot of fun together, even when we were in pain. She gifted me great memories.

    • @AderynBach42
      @AderynBach42 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      This is me. I'm in remission from stage 3 overian cancer. I got like a 15% five year survival rate. Had 6 rounds of day long chemo treatments, and now I'm doing a year of maintenance treatments. Like I said I'm in remission, my numbers look great. My CA125 is at 6, which is better than some people who don't have cancer. That 15% haunts me tho.

    • @AmaraJordanMusic
      @AmaraJordanMusic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AderynBach42 My Mom managed stage 4 Appendiceal Cancer for over two years at almost remission levels. If it wasn’t for COVID messing up her treatment schedule, they don’t think it would have gotten out of hand.
      Treating it and looking at it like another chronic condition is so different, but sometimes that’s the way to go. Especially since stress can be somewhat toxic, that mindset seems helpful.
      Also, SOMEONE has to be in that 15%. It could be your group! ❤️

    • @jessicashaw6815
      @jessicashaw6815 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry to hear about your Mom's diagnosis, I hope this might offer you a bit of comfort though...My grandfather got diagnosed with Parkinson's in his 50's and mostly had a very active and full life for 25 years with Parkinson's. There are a lot of difficult things that came along with it but he was still building decks, driving, and travelling with my Grandma when he was in his late 60's- early 70s so for him, there was lots of time to still do all of the things he loved, even though those things sometimes had to look a little different for him. He was also diagnosed over 30 years ago so there has been lots of progress since.

    • @m.w.kaplan447
      @m.w.kaplan447 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wishing you and your family comfort and support. I studied Parkinsons at NIH and the disease can be devastating, but there is also a lot of hope. So many approaches are available and emerging to not just manage symptoms but preserve joy in living. My uncle lived with Parkinsons for many years. It's a very hard diagnosis to receive. dftba

  • @becwatson7906
    @becwatson7906 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    Hi John, I was diagnosed with lymphoma a week ago. I still don't know what kind i have. I should find out on Tuesday. My daughter introduced me to you videos because of your journey and the insite you share with the world. I can't thank you enough for making these videos. ♡

    • @m.w.kaplan447
      @m.w.kaplan447 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      welcome to the community! i hope your journey goes smoothly and you find support here!

    • @Self5
      @Self5 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      How are you doing now one month later?

  • @Anonymous-ti8yw
    @Anonymous-ti8yw 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    I’m a cancer biologist graduate researcher in a Phd program in a research hospital, but less than a decade ago I was a terrified daughter helping my mom through her cancer diagnosis as a chemistry undergraduate.
    This was an amazing explanation of how we measure survival and why these metrics matter. This video would have been so helpful as an undergrad, and I hope others find it helpful ❤

    • @pikachuuprising637
      @pikachuuprising637 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Do you know about the radical remissions? I know there are rare but not much has gone into investigating them.

    • @johnjarvis2168
      @johnjarvis2168 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My team has been treating people for 10 years now. We have achieved an amazing success rate using only cannabis oil for treatment. 1 gram a day for 60 days is the cure for cancer. What do you people do all day? Seriously.

  • @JulieAiken
    @JulieAiken 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +298

    When I was diagnosed with a very large brain tumor, just before going into surgery to remove it I thought to myself, "Everyone I love knows that I love them. So I'm OK no matter what happens." That is the one great lesson I learned from major illness. And I hope I never forget it. Make sure everyone you love knows that you love them. And then it's absolutely going to be OK.

    • @lillianbarker4292
      @lillianbarker4292 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      That was my reaction to my father’s brain cancer but from the other point of view. I knew my dad knew I loved him. We were solid. That’s what mattered and when he died I was grateful he was free. Of course I mourned but it was easier.

    • @AVspectre
      @AVspectre 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      You’re reflection is beautiful. Just have to say that right off the top.
      On a less serious note - I initially read your comment as saying that you were preparing to operate on yourself and my brain just kind of whirred to a stop.

    • @polyanima
      @polyanima 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      +

    • @cyberpunk-2O77
      @cyberpunk-2O77 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That reminds me a lot of what the artist Louis Wain said

    • @goldenpapaya6862
      @goldenpapaya6862 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @gerrysongs4170
    @gerrysongs4170 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +572

    There was a third reason people are watching Hank. It’s because people you have never even met care about you. You are part of our lives and very obviously a great person.

    • @waffles3629
      @waffles3629 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Yep. Parasocial relationships are weird, but millions of people around the world care about Hank.

    • @theninja4137
      @theninja4137 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      And a fourth: there's a big overlap between people who think Hank is awesone and people who love statistics
      So when we get Hank talking about statistics, we're all ears

    • @dabneyapplechunks
      @dabneyapplechunks 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ❤ So true! Hank, I can’t find the right words to sum up my admiration for you - things like courage, resourcefulness, wisdom and unflinching honesty are rare characteristics. Unfortunately, us humans tend to be able to access them only at the most difficult times in our lives, and not all of us have that ability. All my very best wishes, both for the future, but more immediately, for that always most precious “right now”!

    • @jaycie5021
      @jaycie5021 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Took the words out of my mouth

    • @billyalarie929
      @billyalarie929 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      this.

  • @blehbloop6584
    @blehbloop6584 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    One of the first things doctors told my mother when she got cancer the first time and relapsed is to not look on the internet. They said every cancer experience is different for every person so looking at information on the internet could make a person scared and stressed with information that may not apply to them. It was very helpful and they were so open to answering questions.

    • @niggyhuru5388
      @niggyhuru5388 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      more like don't look into the internet because ur gonna find out that cancer is treat:able asf
      **HOW TO CURE CANCER**
      dig into and apply
      -sr9009
      -vit. b17
      -RIFE frequency generator
      -7 day photosynthesis (7 day water fast right under the sun)
      don't forget to avoid endocrine disruptors
      eat sufficient organs for optimal nutritional profile (recommend eating grass fed grass finished beef brain, liver and heart)
      10 sets of 30 second HIIT sprints 3 times per week
      push pull legs, but only one cycle per week, with only 1 set of each exercise at RPE 10
      don't trust the doctors or that blog post, instead trust the science.

    • @odnetnin4720
      @odnetnin4720 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I can’t agree more. Find a good team of doctors and stay off the internet. My son was diagnosed a little over a year ago. I didn’t want to know anything about the disease, survival rates, etc. my wife did, but to me it didn’t matter. What mattered was getting my son help quickly and having faith that the teams found a solution. We did have to advocate on some issues and that’s important as a patient and or parent, but in the moment a % is meaningless.

  • @jakryk
    @jakryk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am one of those rare birds: An oncology (cancer) nurse who is also a cancer survivor. I am now retired, but I worked in cancer research for almost 30 years. We used to joke that the reason we have 5-year survival rate data is because that's how long you can get a grant to follow people. I was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma in 1997. At the time I had a 30% 5 year survival rate. I was able to get into a clinical trial where I worked (National Institutes of Health), and a few years ago I was told that I no longer needed follow-up because the chance of relapse was so remote. I'm also following Ann Russell and I love her very practical approach to her diagnosis. Wishing the best for you on your journey.

  • @jomiar309
    @jomiar309 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +752

    I'm literally sobbing right now. My father passed away earlier this week from a rare form of leukemia (chronic myelomonocytic leukemia), and the numbers they gave us in the prognoses were, at least me me, not well understood, and I was more optimistic than perhaps was warranted. This made his passing pretty devastating to my family. Thank you for using your unpleasant experience to educate the internet, Hank.

    • @skrevel
      @skrevel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Sorry for your loss, hope it hurts less intensely and frequently eventually

    • @watchmeimflying
      @watchmeimflying 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    • @julietteferrars3097
      @julietteferrars3097 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Cancer is so unpredictable. You were justified in having hope for the best. I hope your pain eases soon. 🖤

    • @MaryAnnNytowl
      @MaryAnnNytowl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You have my sympathy. Losing your parents - though we ALL must do it eventually - never seems to hurt less, whether you are prepared or not. Sending virtual internet hugs!

    • @untappedinkwell
      @untappedinkwell 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My condolences for your loss. In time, I hope your father's memory will be a blessing.

  • @skylerwitherspoon
    @skylerwitherspoon 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    "I'm not a population, I'm just one person" sometimes this is helpful to clarify I think

  • @allanmonroe692
    @allanmonroe692 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    My wife is a stage IV cancer survivor who's over 5 years cancer free. The treatment protocol she underwent was still experimental at the time, but is now a standard treatment regimen for her particular cancer.
    I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Your chances are good & hopefully your side effects from treament won't be too onerous. Even so, this can be a reminder to not leave things unsaid. When my wife was diagnosed, I swore that if the worst happened, she would not go into the great unknown without knowing she is loved. I'm just glad that I've had 13 years to let her know every day. Best of luck to you.

  • @jacb523
    @jacb523 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    My father died of Hodgkins lymphoma in 2007 at 53 years old. It's so hard to so often hear that "it's such a curable cancer". It's nice to think the 5-6 different treatments he underwent may have paved the path for other's survival.❤❤

  • @O2life
    @O2life 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +727

    This hits home for me. I'm in year eight after I was diagnosed with a disease (not related to cancer) with a 50% five year survival rate. And I'm 100% alive today.

    • @typemasters2871
      @typemasters2871 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Congratulations on that coin flip
      (I know that is not how things work but I am happy that you ended up on the alive 50%)

    • @SalokinQuagsire
      @SalokinQuagsire 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Congratulations and keep on fighting the good fight ❤

    • @magsj6474
      @magsj6474 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I like the 100% alive ! I can honestly say that I have not been 100% alive everyday of my life, even now with my diagnosis I miss a few days. I'm going to try harder. Thank you.

    • @missdragon5892
      @missdragon5892 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! you are 100% alive!

    • @pureicefire
      @pureicefire 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hell yeah! Very glad you are here. 💗

  • @keelanmurphy9941
    @keelanmurphy9941 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +830

    Here in Ireland, a standard response among sick or elderly people when asked how they're doing is simply "Still above ground". I had to explain to my dumbstruck Italian girlfriend that no, my 87 year old grandfather isn't being bitter, and it's not gallows humour, it's genuine joy and gratitude that he woke up this morning, ate his cornflakes, read the paper and went for a walk. Tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but if you appreciate today, you're guaranteed to enjoy the rest of your life. You're doing grand, Hank.

    • @emilysmith2965
      @emilysmith2965 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Irish people just GET death, and that’s a great thing. The U.S. has become pretty removed from illness and death being normalized despite how inevitable it all is… and there’s a variety of reasons for that… but I hope we can turn that tide back around.

    • @missybarbour6885
      @missybarbour6885 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      My dad used to say a similar thing haha! When he got cancer people who knew (which was most people in our small town) took to asking him “How are you doing?” in this really somber and concerned tone. He started saying back “Still standing on my own two legs! :)” because being up and out and about was something he was genuinely grateful for

    • @alyssaoconnor
      @alyssaoconnor 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      When anyone used to ask my Australian grandfather “How are you?” he used to say “I’m one step in front of the undertaker” with glee and a twinkle in his eye.

    • @amykathleen2
      @amykathleen2 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I know a customer at my job who always says “Every day’s a blessing.” Despite not being religious myself, I really like that answer.

    • @tomatochemist
      @tomatochemist 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I always say “alive and employed” :)

  • @badassmystichealingtarot
    @badassmystichealingtarot 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +166

    My dad survived hodgekins. It never recurred. He lived the rest of his amazing life disease free and committed to fun. He was diagnosed in the mid 90s. The treatment was hard, but worth it.

  • @aZevonFan
    @aZevonFan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    My father (63m) was diagnosed with stage 3 pancreatic cancer last year. One of the first things his oncologist told us was that current survival rates for his cancer are already outdated. In the last several years they have made a lot of advancements in treatment that just haven't been around long enough to know how much it effects survival rates.
    One of the big things is that they now start chemo and radiation before surgery to remove the cancer. This way the person is in better physical condition to withstand as much treatment as possible, and maybe shrink the tumor making the surgery easier.
    It's been a hard year and a half, but my dad's scans are clear, there are no signs of cancer. He's still recovering from the whipple surgery, but he's here. Recovery is a sort of two steps forward , one step back situation but he's here and regaining strength and that's all that matters to me. Please have hope, no matter how scary the diagnosis.

    • @pikachuuprising637
      @pikachuuprising637 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I wish nothing but the best for your dad. My mom's friend told her the same "To never lose hope and rely on God (not meaning to proselytize), regardless of what she hears". I believe hope is a good thing and nobody has the final say. God bless.

  • @chrissmarie455
    @chrissmarie455 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +650

    As someone with health anxiety I avoid these types of video but Hank is the only person I can hear and process this type of information without freaking out.

    • @MaryAnnNytowl
      @MaryAnnNytowl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      Wow, I'm not alone with that? I thought it was just me being my crazy self, and not that it was something that's real. Hope that makes sense. 😕
      Anyway, yeah, Hank is making me feel a little less uncomfortable about serious illnesses. I'm glad he helps you, too. He is an awesome, amazing guy!

    • @HaakonHawk
      @HaakonHawk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Absolutely, I've dealth with health anxiety for years, but this past year has been especially bad. To the point where I use incognito mode in my browser when Googling symptoms because I don't want to be reminded of it afterwards.
      But Hank just has such a calm and optimistic way of looking at things, that I just don't get that panicked feeling while watching it, to the point where it actually has the opposite effect.
      I feel more relaxed from watching this video than I do from **not** researching symptoms or reading fearbait articles about the subject.

    • @batintheattic7293
      @batintheattic7293 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I wonder how anxiety impacts the quality of life post prognosis. I had a dream, last night, that I had gone in for some tests (not feeling very well) and was informed that I had an advanced stage of cancer and that (with treatment) I could look forward to six months of life and without treatment it would be one month. To me - those numbers were pretty much the same. One month or six months it probably doesn't make much difference to me as I will be spending my remaining time frozen with fear. If we are told we have a set amount of life left, and we are naturally anxious, it would just stop us in our tracks. The older we get - the faster time flies, anyway. Mortality is horrible. I'm one of those people who doesn't want to know how long I have left. We're all different, though, and a more dynamic person would be able to negotiate and utilise that information and make their remaining time count. They'd be much more likely to confound expectations. I want to be the person that puts off finding out until absolutely necessary and is then told that it's astonishing that I'm still alive. Until we are able to completely eliminate the beast that stalks us - I don't really want to know how close it is. I watched this for the third reason, that Hank didn't mention, and that is because I am rooting for him. I want to see him chase that beast back into the shadows.

    • @austinhall3937
      @austinhall3937 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I like how you found a way to make Hanks struggle with cancer about yourself.
      Edit: I say this and I stand by it. Through my life I have lost the most important people in my life to cancer. Grandpa, God father, my dad, one of my best friends. The first three being 3 years apart. One cancer death a year when I was 16, 17 and 18. Then one of my best friends right after my divorce.
      I understand Hank (almost absolutely) wants positivity, and discussions, and other view points. It's very frustrating to me though, to watch people take someone else's sickness and make it about themselves. I've seen it time and time again, someone is on their final bed and people are squabbling over who has it worse for pity points. Its particularly frustrating because my grandmother passed a few months ago and now I'm watching my uncle and 5 of my aunts squabble over petty things.
      I don't understand why it's so difficult for people to just support those who are going through the flames. The original comment I replied to isn't even about cancer or survival, it's about health anxiety. To me it doesn't make sense to say "I'm anxious about my health" to a man who's literally fighting one of the scariest diseases. Why not keep these topics for a later date, hopefully when we're watching the man who's brought us so much joy on the mend.
      I am sorry that my past experiences made me jump to a potentially insensitive comment.
      I am sorry that everyone else has their struggles and to them it makes sense to relieve stress by discussing them on someone else's video. It doesn't make sense to me but my perspective isn't the only one in the world and just because it's my lived experience doesn't make it right.

    • @toxx1220
      @toxx1220 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@MaryAnnNytowl No, you're absolutely not alone

  • @MissMolly30
    @MissMolly30 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +233

    Thank you for sharing that quote! Women in my family have mostly died before their 60s. My G-ma was 48, my mom was 52. I spent a lot of time thinking I'd not live to be old. Now at 33 I'm in surgical menopause and fighting some auto-immune stuff and have just assumed I will follow in their steps. I didn't realize until this video that I have been living as if nothing I do now matters because I'll not be alive in 20 years. But I AM ALIVE NOW! And I have a wonderful life that I've been watching pass by! Thank you so much for your positive outlook! You and John are a wonderful duo for this world!

    • @HexerPsy
      @HexerPsy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      But any event in life has the possibility to be a meaningful event. My uncle died in his 80s - his prognosis was uncertain - but the family grew much closer in his last half year. That last year has some of my fondest memories of him. Knowing what quality of life means for patients and surrounding families - he is one of my driving motivations behind the work with cancer patients I do today.
      So live life as it comes, and live it well! - you ll never know what good you may inspire in others :)

    • @aussie405
      @aussie405 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      My Mum died at 50, and when I turned 51 it felt great, but almost like I had no template for how to be older.
      There is a book called "Motherless Daughters" by Hope Edelman which may interest you.

    • @sarahprunierlaw9147
      @sarahprunierlaw9147 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You are alive now! I hope you go do some awesome things tomorrow. :)

    • @oliver_twistor
      @oliver_twistor 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think this is very common even for people who don't have low life expectancy. We humans tend to think too much of the future, so we neglect our present. Anything can happen at any moment. Disease-free people can live their best life without any care in the world and then when they are 17 years old they die in a car accident. All the while someone who has struggled with disease all their life still hangs on when they are 95. So the only thing we can do really is to try to live every moment to its fullest extent possible. Like with a movie, the length of it matters less than its content and quality. A good life doesn't necessarily mean a long life.
      Take care, and I hope you'll get to live wonderful days for whatever time you have.

  • @TheYGOMusketeer
    @TheYGOMusketeer 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    As a person who has had cancer, I decided to watch this video because Hank being so open and communitive about the cancer has really hhelped me come to grips with the weight I've carried ever since. Even over 17 years later.

  • @southie21
    @southie21 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    My dad died of pancan ten years ago. 1% 5-year survival rate, and it was really tough listening to people say "there's so much you can do these days"... And you have to say, "yes, but it's pancreatic cancer". We did get him for nearly 18 months post-diagnosis, which is a ten in 100 thing, and for that, I'm thankful. I relied a lot on "the median is not the message" by Stephen Jay Gould during that time.

    • @colliness
      @colliness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you for this post…my dad was diagnosed with adenocarcinoma in March of this year. To hear that you are still here and fighting gives me hope for my dad!!!

  • @lillianb8762
    @lillianb8762 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +228

    Hank: I'm taking a break from my job to heal
    Also Hank: Now to create an entire Statistics 201 course for you regarding the IRL statistics application condensed into 10 minutes
    Nicely done, sir

    • @euca8704
      @euca8704 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Everything Hank has been putting online throughout this is basically a course in how knowledge of science and how to learn and be curious can be applied to your life, it's amazing

    • @FabbrizioPlays
      @FabbrizioPlays 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I'd imagine part of the healing is sorting through this information so he himself can feel confidence and reassurance in the treatment and have the willpower to push through.
      When he says he's stepping away from work, he means managerial duties at DFTBA and all that. Which John has talked about taking over for him. But doing vlogbrothers is an outlet for him to process what he knows and how he feels, especially to an audience that is asking after him and is broadly concerned for his wellbeing. And while I hope he doesn't feel obligated to choose vlogbrothers over his health if ever they conflict, I'm not at all surprised that they are one and the same right now. The treatment comes first, but a patient will not be healed without the will to live. Hank needs a sense of normalcy and a reason to stay engaged with the world, not to withdraw and become a recluse, if he's going to fully recover.

    • @RainaRamsay
      @RainaRamsay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's what we love about Hank

    • @caitlindonovanwest9192
      @caitlindonovanwest9192 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@FabbrizioPlaysBeautifully put. 💯💯💯

  • @YellSpeakUp
    @YellSpeakUp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +820

    "Our lives aren't valuable because we have a guarantee that we're gonna be here in a certain amount of time. Our lives are valuable because we're here, now." This hit me really hard. Thank you, Hank.

    • @shix13
      @shix13 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Same ... this can't be over stated. My mother passed away from a rare and aggressive cancer. We did so many things in her last few years. Don't wait for a diagnosis like this before taking advantage of the time you have!

  • @tigress9643
    @tigress9643 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    This is actually really helpful, thank you Hank 😊 I’m 26 and had my cancer diagnosis confirmed on Wednesday 😢 unfortunately my long term outlook, from the limited understanding I have, is not as positive (?) but you’re right- I am 100% alive today ❤
    it’s really good to have all this stuff explained in layman talk- doctors and especially specialists can sometimes lose touch with what a non medically trained and experienced person knows and will understand; especially after having to process such a diagnosis.
    I think that someone’s reaction to a diagnosis is also something to touch on; I know for me that my brain felt like it just emptied and I kept asking the same few questions over and over.
    It’s really frustrating when people simply say “why don’t scientists just cure cancer” when like you said; cancers and stages are different diseases under the same huge umbrella. Like saying “end war” when different cancers are different diseases.
    Different wars, different battles within those wars and different causes (both of cancer and war)- it’s just more complicated than discovering a cure for a specific illness (like COVID for example).
    All the best with your battle with HL ❤ rocking the Mohawk 😊

    • @missyaman7053
      @missyaman7053 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Stay strong. You Got this ❤

  • @kellyrogers8720
    @kellyrogers8720 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    My dad stopped looking at my big brother after he was diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis at age 7 because it is a terminal disease. He never forgot that pain. He is 48 years old and my first hero. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us. Your willingness to let us into your experiences takes the fear out of the C word so we can learn with those we love and enjoy the moments we’re given.

  • @playgroundchooser
    @playgroundchooser 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +583

    It's a way overused cliché, but we don't deserve Hank. He's still out here educating the public.
    I love this man. I hope I can only be as brave as he is if called upon.

    • @shakesrear7850
      @shakesrear7850 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      *nod*

    • @SoulDelSol
      @SoulDelSol 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He likes it

    • @myladycasagrande863
      @myladycasagrande863 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      All of what you said is true, but I suspect that making videos helps Hank, too. It's something completely under his control when many other things in his life are not.

    • @i_am_an_idiot_but
      @i_am_an_idiot_but 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@myladycasagrande863Well put

    • @ealusaid
      @ealusaid 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The thing about Hank and John is that the world is so full of people who give the world more grace and love and hope than the world has generally merited up til now. People like them who can look some of the world's darkest parts and find hope deep inside them, who just do the very simple work that makes the world 0.01% better, are so amazing, and way more numerous than we might think.

  • @nizzy1999
    @nizzy1999 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +449

    A family member of mine was recently diagnosed with tuberculosis along with some other complications. This video is a helpful framework to look at disease - it makes disease feel less wishy-washy and more something that you can sit down and understand (although there's still more understanding to do, both for cancer and TB)

    • @flowerheit4512
      @flowerheit4512 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      +

    • @rawdaaljawhary4174
      @rawdaaljawhary4174 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I hope your relative gets better and that they and your family are okay. ❤ Take good care, friend.

  • @NikkisorousRex
    @NikkisorousRex 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    As a fellow cancer survivor (brain cancer here), these types of videos, while not about my actual diagnosis, are insanely interesting to me. I appreciate you putting your life online for the world so we can learn from what you’re going through, and know that I’m praying for you. ❤

  • @glvarner
    @glvarner 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I am an epidemiologist with the Alabama Department of Public Health. I worked my way through school working as a paramedic (and I am still licensed as one). This is an excellent treatise on the subject of cancer. Excellent. I often tell people that I have never put anyone into a body bag that didn't have a surprised look on their face. Meaning that, you could easily beat cancer and go outside and get run over by a bus. The way to face this, and each day for the rest of your life is to (1) Be thankful for each day that you live (2) Eat healthy, unprocessed and whole foods and drink pure water (3) Exercise as much as you can (it helps you be thankful for each day of life) and (4) Dedicate your life to helping others find their way through this thing we call life. Meditation, relaxation and exploring your inner self will also help tremendously. Good luck and thanks for your explanations and insights. You got this...

    • @eventingkate1339
      @eventingkate1339 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love this take on things!

  • @mediocreatbest9203
    @mediocreatbest9203 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    *"Today is the best time in human history to get cancer."* It's wild hearing you say that, because I _exactly_ thought of the same thing when I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer 4 years ago! My cancer was very treatable, heck it didn't even need chemotherapy (there were still surgery and radioactive iodine therapy tho). This made me often worried that my inner turmoil wasn't warranted at all, that I was not sick enough, wasn't deserving enough to call myself a "cancer patient".
    But like you said, different types (and stages) of cancer are different diseases. There isn't one monolithic cancer experience (although unfortunately the media seems to portray the contrary and rarely captures the nuance of this illness). It did help realizing that my cancer is now very very treatable thanks to the cancer researchers and the many experiences of cancer patients before me. I'm standing on the shoulders of giants. I'm forever grateful for them.
    If anyone reads this comment, I hope you're having a good day ❤️

  • @_andrewvia
    @_andrewvia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +305

    I am doing fair 3 years after colon cancer, surgery and chemotherapy. My kidneys function about about 50%, because of damage from the chemo. It's great to see Hank enjoying life, getting a mohawk like he always wanted to, etc. Go Hank!

    • @PierreDybman
      @PierreDybman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There are a number of interesting products you can take to improve your kidney functions after chemo. In any case it can still improve over time, some of the side-effects improve over time, such as liver (my GGT went off the roof, they got back to normal slowly over 3/4 years. As for renal functions, after losing a valuable member of the family, the valuable info I learned is that your creatinine levels are a more important metrics than Uric acid or urea. Good luck!

    • @_andrewvia
      @_andrewvia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PierreDybman ty

  • @batya7
    @batya7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Prayers for all who are suffering. Prayers for the healthcare providers and researchers. Prayers for those who comfort and aid the sick. Thank you Hank.

  • @doublethetroublewithhm9843
    @doublethetroublewithhm9843 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You explained things so well. 4 time cancer survivor

    • @smexghoul4889
      @smexghoul4889 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My condolences

  • @MonikaHolman
    @MonikaHolman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +211

    I have a saying about how to act around someone who’s got a life-threatening illness: “There’s no use mourning the living” Just keep enjoying the time you do have with them. ❤

  • @fisheyme47
    @fisheyme47 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    I don't know why, but when you quoted the line, "A person with an 85% chance of dying in 5 years is still 100% alive today," I teared up. My mom passed away from lung cancer several years ago, and I just remember that even knowing she was sick and that recovery wasn't likely, I still clung to the here-and-now with her. There's a Latin quote, "Dum spiro, spero," which means "While I breathe, I hope," and I feel like that is one of the most important parts of dealing with cancer. Either in yourself or in someone you love. While there is life, there is hope. You cannot know what will happen in 5 years. You cannot know what will happen in 5 minutes, honestly, but you can always hope for the best.

  • @Hedgewalkers
    @Hedgewalkers 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I have been battling a severe, life threatening, and complicated illness for a few years now. With that being said, I just wanted to express my sincere thanks to you, Hank Green, for putting a great deal into perspective for me in the last several videos you have posted. You are a very selfless and kind being, and I just wanted you to know how, I, for one in probably many like me, are very grateful! ❤

    • @daimsaeed
      @daimsaeed 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Willing to share what it is?

    • @Hedgewalkers
      @Hedgewalkers 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sure; I have systemic lupus; a disease which caused hepatorenal failure, and a stroke which came very close to killing me. Every day I live with the threat of death. That being said, I posted because Mr. Green reminded me of something had, out of fear, forgotten: and that was that I am alive today! Today, there's still life, hope and even happiness! There is something about brushing so close to death that makes you hyper aware of time. Sometimes you forget that, at the moment, you're still living! I am grateful to Mr. Green for reminding me of this.

    • @daimsaeed
      @daimsaeed 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Hedgewalkers thanks for sharing I cant imagine what youve been through and are going through. Your will to continue is commendable and keep fighting. If you dont mind me asking, what does your treatment entail? is there a particular diet you follow i.e keto?

  • @lordtaco1300
    @lordtaco1300 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    My aunt just got diagnosed with Pancreatic cancer. Later today she will have a test to see what stage she’s at. I’m completely devastated, she’s an amazing mother of 2. Both are still in HS, if I’m terrified and hurt…. I can’t even begin to imagine what they are going through. I have yet to talk to them because I keep crying and that’s not the energy I want to give them. I want to give them hope but I know the odds are bad. Sylvia is her name, I hope to come back next year to this comment and say she saw her daughter graduate and preparing for her son.

    • @drgw04
      @drgw04 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I know someone who survived pancreatic cancer. Yes, the odds are bad but not impossible. I pray your aunt will beat the odds.

    • @Nan-59
      @Nan-59 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@drgw04wow! 😮

    • @Nan-59
      @Nan-59 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Friend, my nephew who is 55 years old just got diagnosed with Stage 4 pancreatic cancer two weeks ago. He started chemo Monday, July 3.
      He looks like he’s already lost 50 pounds and he was a very healthy muscular man who did construction work.
      I just saw him over the weekend. Thankfully he was able to come to our Independence Day family picnic.
      His sister‘s husband just diagnosed with stage four lung in December 2022. So we went from zero female members struggling with cancer to two members of our family having cancer at the same time. I sure hope your aunt does OK. It’s a very very scary diagnosis. 😢😮

    • @abigailw5153
      @abigailw5153 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Be strong. I know what you're going through. My mom passed away from pancan in March. Hank's quote "people with an 85% chance of dying in the next year are 100% alive today" is what you need to focus on. Our amazing palliative care doctor would always remind us at appointments that my mom was alive, and even if she's not capable of doing everything she used to, she still had life to live and to help her find meaning and the joy in what's left. There's also so much hope in many of the recent breakthroughs of treatment.
      And also please talk to your aunt and your cousins, even if you're crying. Trust me, mutual crying session I've had with family and friends is what got me through the last nightmare of a year for me.

  • @eventingkate1339
    @eventingkate1339 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +820

    Going to say goodbye to a dear friend who is dying from her cancer tomorrow, and is in her last days of consciousness. It probably seems like an odd choice to watch this video, but for me it was both hopeful and reassuring to remember that all people who get cancer don’t die from it. Thank you ❤

    • @Ozzy10432
      @Ozzy10432 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      ❤❤❤

    • @sta._rina
      @sta._rina 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      I hope you were able to make the most of your last moments with her, gathering closure and whatever else. That’s such a tough spot to be in and I’m sending you all of my love

    • @Rachel-fi4sc
      @Rachel-fi4sc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      I cannot even imagine the grief you are facing right now. I know it will not help - nothing will ease that kind of pain right now - but you are seen, and you are loved, and I'm sure it meant so, so much to your friend to have you by their side. I know it's not the same, but having been diagnosed with a chronic illness, you really find out who your friends are when you get sick, and you cherish the friends who will just sit with you in silence and pain beyond all words.
      I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

    • @RealBradMiller
      @RealBradMiller 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      🫂🫂🫂🫂

    • @yourlocalinsomniac2264
      @yourlocalinsomniac2264 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @lunarraven5004
    @lunarraven5004 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +313

    I really hope you're gonna fight off this crap. My mom fought and she's 9 years clean after chemo I believe you've got so much to give to this world it won't let you go too soon

    • @Ravenesque
      @Ravenesque 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      My Sibling got hodgkins aged 13. Three years going through the treatment process, but is now nearly thirty and is clean and clear and living a completly normal life.

    • @jankbunky4279
      @jankbunky4279 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      A beautiful sentiment, but the idea that people who *do* die early in life didn't have more to give to the world, is not actually helpful or accurate.

    • @lunarraven5004
      @lunarraven5004 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@jankbunky4279 oh sorry that wasn't my intention. I meant that he means so much to so many people

  • @chasemickey1593
    @chasemickey1593 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love technology connections, as soon as he said "a cool video about electric car brake lights" I instantly knew.

  • @Cinders634
    @Cinders634 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have had a pet scan and biopsy for suspected stage 3B lymphoma & am now waiting 10 agonising days for results and confirmation. I can’t tell you how helpful it is that you covered this stuff and shared your journey on your channel.

  • @howardagnew8471
    @howardagnew8471 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +725

    My wife died from lymphoma in 2006 at the age of 32. This was before the Affordable Care Act ... she and I were very poor, didn't have health insurance and didn't have a primary care provider. By the time her symptoms were strong enough for us to realize something was seriously wrong and took her in, it was too far advanced to do anything.
    She's one of those whose deaths were attributable to a Harvard School of Medicine study I remember reading of a death toll attributable to lack of regular access to health care prior to the passage of the ACA, several tens of thousand of deaths per year, on par with traffic fatalities.

    • @adamco42
      @adamco42 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️ death from injustice is the most heartbreaking

    • @prod.arcsyne2990
      @prod.arcsyne2990 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      This comment makes me so angry at capitalism. Money Shouldn’t be worth more than peoples lives, everyone should be able to go to the freaking doctors, its crazy that this is a controversial opinion. But like can we take care of a fellow men and women :(

    • @lohphat
      @lohphat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When corporations and entire industries OWN legislators, government becomes a de facto extension of those industries. They cease becoming a representative democracy of the electorate and become something....else.

    • @linguistlibrarian
      @linguistlibrarian 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I am so, so sorry. Stories like yours are the reason the ACA should’ve been passed far, far sooner. I remember prior to the ACA passing because I found out first-hand why I could only ever have a job that offered health insurance: pre-existing conditions meant no insurance would take me, and that was a very scary thought in my mid-20s based on annual costs for my medications.
      Crappy access to healthcare has become so normalized in the US that people don’t realize we’re one of the only major 1st-world countries that has people die of preventable diseases, and our average lifespan is falling because we don’t allow equal access to care. It’s criminal.
      A big hug to you, and I’m so sorry about your wife. We never truly get over losing the ones we love. It’s not your fault; repeat that: it’s not your fault. Hold onto the good memories. I’m sure she would want you to remember the good times and happiness that you two brought each other. Take care.

    • @mysticmarble94
      @mysticmarble94 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Imagine how many people could be saved / live a much more decent life with a Universal Healthcare System.

  • @HamidShibataBennett
    @HamidShibataBennett 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    Hank… I am so sorry you are going through this. I know the cancer survivor community will benefit for your outreach. In 1991, after many months of stumping the docs, I was diagnosed with a rare lymphoma, a couple weeks after my high school graduation. My case study read that there were 9 diagnosed cases before mine and I was the first to live beyond 72 months. I feel quite tickled to be celebrating my 50th birthday today. I never thought I’d make it this far. Keep on taking such good care. Blessings.

    • @joanhoffman3702
      @joanhoffman3702 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Belated birthday 🎂 greetings! 🎉🍨🎂💐🎉🍨

    • @AnnikaAwsome
      @AnnikaAwsome 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Happy belated birthday! I'm glad you're still here. Thank you for sharing!

    • @kalvenferrin1957
      @kalvenferrin1957 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, thats actually crazy. Glad you’re here to share! Take care

  • @FrancineHasCancer
    @FrancineHasCancer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Twenty years ago, when I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer, I knew I was going to survive to help others. Your life's purpose has just taken a turn. This is why I know you are going to survive. You are here to be the brave voice for others. Now I am dying from a recent recurrence. This time I will document my end of life. You are a beautiful soul bringing hope to others.

  • @jewlover131
    @jewlover131 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    my dad had pancreatic cancer for just over a year. early on in his diagnosis i looked up the survival rate and it was something like 10% of patients live in that 5 year survival rate, the average period of time was 3-3.5. he passed in january. thank you for making these videos, in a way it’s helping me along in the grieving process.

  • @Zeyev
    @Zeyev 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Thank you very much for this discussion. I have 3 types of cancer currently, none of which is in remission. But . . . one was found 35 years ago, another 8 years ago, and the last 7 years ago. So, like the woman you quoted, I saw that I am LIVING with cancer. And I make sure that my visits to my doctors are filled with laughter.

  • @moriahblalock9071
    @moriahblalock9071 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +245

    As a person who works in clinical oncology trials, I absolutely love this video. The most frequent question I get is "why haven't we cured cancer?" and you address a lot of the points I reference when I answer. A lot of the time the work I do feels very invisible and undervalued because we haven't solved the whole problem yet. This was fantastic information delivered with clarity and compassion. I really appreciate that you're still taking the time to educate everyone with such generosity and complexity, even at a time when we all would understand if all you wanted to do was play Animal Crossing in bed.
    Sending you all my love and best wishes and deep, deep thanks.

    • @GabrielaCenturionNeumann
      @GabrielaCenturionNeumann 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank you for your hard work. And I am so sorry we are very ungrateful sometimes. I, too, have often wondered why we haven't cured cancer yet... specially when someone close to me is diagnosed with it. This week it was my dad and I again asked that question over and over. I think it's the frustration of seeing someone you care about suffering so much. But, seriously, thank you for everything you guys are doing. Everything counts to beat this thing. And I hope my dad will be able to beat this :)

    • @workchannel8053
      @workchannel8053 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Man, i haven't really thought of it before, but such a big part of the problem is that the answer is "Which one?"
      Thank you for the work you do, hope you're doing well ❤️

    • @lexwithbub
      @lexwithbub 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      People have this weird conception of cancer, like, we can treat tuberculosis, but that doesn't mean no one gets tuberculosis, nor that no one dies of tuberculosis, but people DO consider that we have a cure for tuberculosis.

    • @Iownacoat
      @Iownacoat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You and your work are not invisible. You are doing something important, and generous. *You* are important, and generous. Thank you for dedicating hours of your time to helping others.

    • @ueblay
      @ueblay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you, thank you, thank you for your work. It's awful that it ever feels undervalued when it's obviously so critically important. Y'all are the real MVPs.

  • @Eyeolair
    @Eyeolair 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My wife have breastcancer. Thank you for shedding some light on the situation. Its been tough but she has pulled through. Theres many hospital visits and talks with doctors but Im just blessed that shes still with me.

  • @shadebug
    @shadebug 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When my mum was getting treated at the Royal Marsden here in London I really appreciated the range of nurses they had there from the super sweet and helpful to the no nonsense, just getting on with it. The latter was my favourite because her response to my mother saying to her "I was in surgery for eleven hours and they took out the biggest tumour you've ever seen" was "you don't look like you've had a 20kg tumour removed". Just no *ucks given, it was glorious.

  • @bathedinridicule
    @bathedinridicule 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Thank you Hank. My mom is about to start treatment for her stage 4 pancreatic cancer. We learned about her diagnosis a week after you shared your diagnosis, and your whole process has been helpful to my processing, even though hers is the "worst" one and yours is the "best" one.
    The odds are against us, big time. The site you quoted gives us:
    1% in 5 years
    21% in 1 year (I'm holding onto this one)
    Out of 100 people in her situation, 50 lived for 2 months to 10 months after diagnosis.
    I really hope we're not on the 2 month end of the statistics. But, she's perfectly healthy aside from the terminal cancer. And, importantly... she's alive right now. Won't let cancer and anticipatory grief rob us of the beautiful moments we still have ahead of us. Thanks Hank.

    • @cj9667
      @cj9667 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My mom also had pan can. Stage 4 at diagnosis. She was otherwise healthy and very active. Chemo was brutal on her…she spent the next 3 months in bed. Toward the end…she said,” wrong choice…should have just went on with my life as it was”. Why be miserable…enjoy the life you have left! Best wishes for your mom.

    • @HexerPsy
      @HexerPsy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There are radiotherapy treatments tested in the last few years that could locally halt the tumor for up to a year in the pancreas.
      You ll need to ask the doctor for a 'MR-Linac treatment for up to 5x10Gy' which is currently the latest we offer in our hospital. If such treatments are available in your area, it may will be worth it. Wish you all the best!

    • @mariannetfinches
      @mariannetfinches 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so sorry your family is going through this. I hope her pain is well managed & that she's getting to spend some quality time with you.

    • @sananmir7520
      @sananmir7520 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@HexerPsyBest wish you for your Mother

  • @Ichikinz
    @Ichikinz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1207

    I struggled with that and my thyroid cancer, then I realized or found out the literature was mostly for women because they get thyroid cancer at a significantly higher rate. Mine was a fluke, super aggressive and I won. My outlook on life is so much better, I am happier than ever. I honestly count it as a blessing.
    You got this! This will be a joke or a pun later!

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Super glad you beat it!

    • @kathyjohnson2043
      @kathyjohnson2043 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Glad to hear of your success! I'm a thyroid cancer survivor. And, I think people benefit from hearing from survivors.

    • @MachuSayTruck
      @MachuSayTruck 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      I have stage 2 Thyroid cancer, I've found the same thing, hard to find info for men with this one. but glad you beat it, good job, I got diagnosed last year so I'm not out of the waters yet. but I'm told not to worry, numbers were not good, new growths were found, but now my tsh and tg are going down so we'll see. all should be good in a few years I guess

    • @placeholderdoe
      @placeholderdoe 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@MachuSayTruck good luck. Dw you’ll get through this

    • @kathyjohnson2043
      @kathyjohnson2043 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@MachuSayTruck i hope you can find more information and most importantly, everything goes well for you! Unfortunately, it does make things worse when you are not a 'typical' patient and the fact that there is more than one type of thyroid cancer. Mine was caught very early from thyroid surgery (rather than surgery because of the diagnosis) and then treated with just a radioactive iodine pill. As you know, everyone is not going to have that outcome and that is rotten.

  • @CrossCory
    @CrossCory 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m a 20 years survivor of Hodgkin’s. Best of luck to you sir, you have an excellent attitude and energy to withstand the storm.

  • @UrSoMeanBoss
    @UrSoMeanBoss 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That bit about being treating people like they're already dead is certainly something I've witnessed. It helps me to remember that living has a 100% mortality rate: cherish people (including yourself)

  • @NWEDC
    @NWEDC 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    There is so much to take into consideration with diseases. My late wife was taken from me by Cystic Fibrosis. When she was born, her survival age was about 15, when I laid her to rest, she was 31, so the rate is constantly changing. You got this! LOVE THE HAWK!

    • @ein-veh2365
      @ein-veh2365 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Similar story with my late uncle. When he was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes as a kid, his parents were told he wouldn’t live to see 15. Instead he made it into his 30s. And he died about 30 years ago now. A child with his diagnosis now could potentially live a normal life span. The treatments are always improving.

    • @Nelle4ever
      @Nelle4ever 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm sorry for your loss.

    • @LadyBoldly
      @LadyBoldly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My grandma was told my dad was die before he was 5, obviously he didn't and didn't die until his mid 50s

    • @sananmir7520
      @sananmir7520 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences

  • @derrickmarais
    @derrickmarais 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

    Using a crappy situation as another teachable moment...god I love this man.

  • @allisonmull8328
    @allisonmull8328 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for explaining this. I've had several people in my life go through a cancer diagnosis and I never understood these numbers and now I do

  • @amandahewitt
    @amandahewitt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Stay strong Sir ❤️
    I lost my mam in Feb last year to blood cancer 8 days before her 71st bday.
    My Mam fell ill in 2013 but was finally diagnosed in 2014. I googled everything re my mams cancer and survival rates, around 10 years was the best survival for her age due to other medical conditions, she managed 9 years.
    I think knowing about survival rates helped me process my feelings of eventually losing my mam but it also meant i made every day count with her.
    Thank you for this video. I think this is very helpful and commend you for doing this while fighting your own battle with cancer. I wish you all the best with your treatment x

  • @maryel5398
    @maryel5398 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    My son was diagnosed with a rare cancer, that presented in a rare manner even for that cancer, at age 4. The pediatrician who didn’t believe him about pain and only agreed to an x-ray of his collar bone actually called and apologized while he was setting us up at the amazingly good local pediatric cancer hospital.
    He went through 3 rounds of chemo, each making him sicker and sicker, and we took a break after the 3rd one because the leftover part of the bone tumor simply wasn’t getting any smaller and was in a place that they couldn’t get to without causing issues like him not being able to use his entire shoulder and arm.
    And he was so sick. And the next type of chemo would have just kept him in the hospital full time.
    We watched and waited, and the tumor didn’t grow. We watched another 3 months. No growth. We are now at scans only once per year, and the tumor hasn’t grown. So, he still has a tumor, 10 years later. It stopped growing. But it’s still there.

  • @asdlfkj23oij4
    @asdlfkj23oij4 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    Thank you for making this video! I am a 2x cancer survivor (don't remember the first time), and all my doctors the second time emphasized how misleading cancer survival rates can be, and I have had to explain it to so many people. For example, my cancer (osteosarcoma) doesn't really have stages, just local or metastasized, and the survival rates for local vs metastasized are much different, my best friend passed away from metastasized osteosarcoma almost 3 years ago. My oncologist is actually on the treatment protocol board for pediatric NHL worldwide (through the Children's Oncology Group), he is a true hero. I now work in a healthcare-related field in IT, it is my way of giving back :).

  • @yfarrell
    @yfarrell หลายเดือนก่อน

    I lost a close friend with the same cancer, but in the 80’s. I was shocked when you got it and I’m sooooo happy it’s survivable now. Thank you so much for helping all of us understand these diseases.

  • @Liberperlo
    @Liberperlo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hank, keep blessing us 100% now with your content!

  • @eininw
    @eininw 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    If I may, a shout out to the lab techs, who are often the first ones to sound the alarm about leukemias and lymphomas. While not doctors or researchers, they are commonly the first to physically look at your blood cells and decide something is off and needs further investigation. And many people forget they even exist after their blood is drawn and disappears to the lab.

    • @elizabethr.9359
      @elizabethr.9359 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Shoutout to you guys and everyone working in the lab and research settings, I have a couple genetic conditions, some very rare and ik that my communities and I are so thankful to have research to look at to help guide us ❤

    • @RainaRamsay
      @RainaRamsay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      +

  • @mikeybarthi
    @mikeybarthi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +322

    my mom had hl as a kid and went through radiation treatment; she was unable to have children as a result, but now i am one of three adoptees who are glad that some delayed fortune could come out of it! thank you for sharing your experience and providing a platform for all walks of people to come together, hank 💜

    • @rachelellebaker
      @rachelellebaker 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      🤍🤍🤍

    • @Selsmittenxo
      @Selsmittenxo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💞

    • @kyrab7914
      @kyrab7914 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Bless your mom for taking what life gave her and twisting it around to be positive

  • @joanfregapane8683
    @joanfregapane8683 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wishing you all the best, Hank. And thank you for continuing with our education in yet another way.

  • @MakooWallinen
    @MakooWallinen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Huh, these videos makes more sense when you watch them in the correct order, who knew?
    I now know why the mohawk is a thing.
    I knew exactly which video Hank talked about just by "This video about electric car brakelights, which I love"!
    I love almost every technology connections video.

  • @theveryfirstlostgirl
    @theveryfirstlostgirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +160

    I think I can probably speak for all the nerdfighters when I say that to us, your case is not just an average celebrity diagnosis but also has a little bit of the “someone we love” feeling, even if we aren’t actually involved. So thanks for going “into the weeds” a little bit for us today. However much you do or don’t share along the way, we’re glad to be here.

    • @VereskVeil
      @VereskVeil 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I personally think that Green brothers are my favorite persons out of all the people I don't know personally and who don't know about my existence. Hank's books made so much for me in last year.
      So it's quite a lot about person I actually love, yes.

  • @Bammarjackass
    @Bammarjackass 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    “Our lives are valuable because we’re here now”. Beautifully put, I’d like to add that lives have value because they were ever here at all, too. I say this as someone finding immense comfort in listening to old episodes of Dear Hank and John for the first time at a difficult point in my own life.

  • @crisper1614
    @crisper1614 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so sorry. And I wish you good health.

  • @gabbyn978
    @gabbyn978 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wishing you a speedy and _effective_ recovery.

  • @Phlorochyll
    @Phlorochyll 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    The mohawk looks fucking sick, Hank. And, your type of lymphoma is very treatable... I don't know what to say, so I think I'm just gonna say this: We're all rooting for you, and we all know that you're gonna pull through this. Hope your chemo goes as well as chemo can go... GO HANK GO!

    • @lungcancer69
      @lungcancer69 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's sometimes all you can say. And 💯 agreement on the Mohawk! Keep it when this is all over! Hard-core science!!!

  • @AgentMaayan
    @AgentMaayan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Someone I love was just diagnosed with cancer last week, and this video was incredibly helpful to me in understanding that situation better. So thank you for, once again, adding insightful, nuanced information where I need it.

  • @brianlivingston3882
    @brianlivingston3882 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re alive now! I appreciate that. Thank you for that.

  • @nightblaze1274
    @nightblaze1274 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm sorry that you and your family is going through this but im so glad to hear that you are doing better, also i love the hair cut. Much love!

  • @GhostsOfThings
    @GhostsOfThings 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    Hank and Ann have been doing so much to help ... normalise? cancer as an actual thing you can understand, rather than the hovering almost mystical threat it felt like before. I appreciate so much the time they take to teach us, even while dealing with a lot themselves. Thanks Hank! ❤

    • @kashiichan
      @kashiichan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Seeing them comment on each other's TikToks is surprisingly uplifting.

    • @Domdrok
      @Domdrok 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      +

  • @leonardsusskindswar7258
    @leonardsusskindswar7258 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +671

    My dad has colon cancer. He got an MRI on Thursday, and we go to his oncologist on Tuesday to find out if it has advanced, and what treatment options are available. I am so incredibly scared. But seeing it from the perspective of "He's alive today" really helps. It's definitely brought a host of cathartic tears with it.

    • @sissinoklahoma2057
      @sissinoklahoma2057 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      My mom was diagnosed in March of last year with stage iv colon cancer that was metastatic on her liver. She takes a chemo treatment every 2 weeks and is living her best life now. Her doctor's approach is like Hank said, treating the cancer as a chronic disease. The only goal is to keep the cancer Stagnant (not growing) and balance the chemo necessary to maintain that level while also not killing her with the chemo treatments themselves. We were told she had 3 months to live last March and we tend to celebrate every day we get with her.
      Wishing your father and family healing and grace!

    • @ashrowan2143
      @ashrowan2143 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Best of luck to you and your family, I hope that it was caught early and that any treatments pursued are as kind on your father as possible (some peoples bodies react better to chemo and radiation treatments than others and don't run into nearly as much discomfort and fatigue)

    • @magsj6474
      @magsj6474 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I lost my best friend to cancer. I was diagnosed 3 years ago and underwent normal chemo and radiation. It metastasized but the targeted drugs I'm on work to slow the disease down, stabilizing me. Having been on both sides I can tell you without any doubt, having cancer is so much easier than watching a loved one go through it. I'm very sorry you are going through this. Every day matters.

    • @My-name-is-Kit
      @My-name-is-Kit 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Going through this myself. My dad got diagnosed a month ago, after being hospitalized for an unrelated issue, and time has been both very slow and very fast since then. He and my mom live three hours away, and I have been burning up all my weekends to spend time with them. He's starting his treatment next week, now that he's got his medical team together and the issue he was originally in the hospital for is clearing up. Good luck to you and your family.

    • @ContentFall757Gaming
      @ContentFall757Gaming 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All the best to your dad and family :)

  • @Lee-xw7gf
    @Lee-xw7gf 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you endlessly for taking this opportunity to educate people. says a lot about what you’ve always stood for

  • @Scorpiove
    @Scorpiove 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been watching you forever, thanks for the excellent content!

  • @Mikey__R
    @Mikey__R 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Hank, there is a third group of people watching this. We are very specifically interested in knowing if YOU are going to be ok. We really want you to be ok.

  • @rebeccasford
    @rebeccasford 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    I have had stage 4 colorectal cancer for almost 6 years. Disease free for 5 years. Thanks for sharing your journey, and for explaining this. It was terrifying for the first two years, but it's gotten easier.

    • @HexerPsy
      @HexerPsy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@samarnadra The treatment options have improved a lot since 2008. Better imaging, better treatments, better surgery. Even if the cancer returns to surrounding lymphnodes after the initial treatment, we have good detection rates and good treatments to stop such localized meta's from growing and spreading further.
      For the wider population, there is screening through testing for blood in stool samples (through swabs) too in some countries (for ages 55-75 in my country).
      These are not easy treatments, but a lot has progressed since then.

    • @Jsimmons80
      @Jsimmons80 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, I was also stage 4 CRC. And now NED (no evidence of disease). Although surveillance gives me anxiety, I gave up on worrying about it. I met a woman who had stage 4 16 years ago and she still has panic attacks every time she has a scan. But every other day of her life is fine.

    • @kimhaze
      @kimhaze 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm stage 3c colorectal cancer just over a year and a half clean getting checked again next month. fingers crossed

    • @sananmir7520
      @sananmir7520 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wish you the best

  • @algobo
    @algobo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wishing you a lot of strenght and good recovery! ❤

  • @tonylette974
    @tonylette974 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sorry to hear. I love your vids n energy! God bless you sir!

  • @dougthomson5544
    @dougthomson5544 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +220

    How interesting, Hank. My wife has heart failure and we just went through the statistical outcomes of surgery for heart valve disease with our cardiologist. He was absolutely clear about the plethora of variables that can affect the prognosis for her post surgery. It was a very interesting conversation that pretty much paralleled your discussion here. Thanks for this, Hank. By the by, my wife also had the joy of cancer some years ago. It was caught very early and all seems to be good now. She’s amazing woman who never sinks into self-pity; she just gets on with life.

    • @EricaDiebold
      @EricaDiebold 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Hope her surgery goes well! I had my mitral valve replaced in 2020. I’m available if y’all have any questions

    • @gabryelsohle6627
      @gabryelsohle6627 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      My mom (57) had a valve replacement late last year and is doing swimmingly now. Wishing you both the strength to handle this challenge, and the absolute best outcome.

  • @ichorveinss
    @ichorveinss 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    My mom was diagnosed with cancer last month. I am a very disabled young adult and rely on her every day as a caregiver. This is an impossible situation, everything is different now and will continue to change. I really appreciate your grounded and direct input on the topic

    • @italucenaz
      @italucenaz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I hope everything turns out alright

    • @cha5422
      @cha5422 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Wishing you and your mum all the best, hoping things pick up on your end ❤

    • @kathrineanderson
      @kathrineanderson 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So sorry to hear that. I hope you get all the love and support you need and know your not alone.

    • @ealusaid
      @ealusaid 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Oh no, I hope you get as much help and community as possible. I'm disabled and have worked in social services before, and I know that a lot of resources and sympathy are gatekept, so you have to go through a humiliating and arduous process to prove you're "disabled enough" to count, and accepting help often means losing autonomy. All the same, I encourage you to reach out to people and organizations near you, especially now that you have a cancer diagnosis in the family, an unfair or not, people respect that more.
      When you're struggling, it's really hard to then go talk to people on a completely different wavelength and try to get them to care about you. Even so: You deserve help, and there are many people who would be willing to help you. I hope that if you reach out, you can find a bridge between those two things.

    • @olivierolivier6080
      @olivierolivier6080 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I had a lymphom 4 years ago and I'm now 100% in full remission ! I'm still on review every 6 months but I'm confident. Be strong and keep in mind that she can be cured.

  • @nikkikitty3358
    @nikkikitty3358 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love the hair! i like how open you are with all of this. I think its helpful for those who have loved ones or themselves with this

  • @gavinthompson1133
    @gavinthompson1133 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this video, sir. More clarity than any video I've seen before.

  • @TodayIFoundOut
    @TodayIFoundOut 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1669

    One thing of doing educational videos for so long that ultimately becomes so clear is absolutely NOTHING is as simple as it first appears. And nothing is black and white. But also the complexity and nuance ends up being what makes basically everything so interesting when you dive in. In this case, questions like "Why haven't we cured cancer yet?" Or "What are the survival rates of XYZ?" Fascinating. And also amazing how far we've come with it and how fast it is changing all the time for the better. Also interesting to think that literally all of human experience since the first human to ever human has led up to our ability today to tell cancer, in many cases, to F- off. Countless thousands of years of humans humaning to get to today, and ability to do things today that even a century ago would have been miraculous. But now we say "It's going to be scary. It's going to be awful in every possible way mentally and physically. But there is a really good chance you're going to be ok on the other side." -Daven

    • @taradaves3096
      @taradaves3096 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Amen to all that Daven!

    • @connissia
      @connissia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Well said Daven. Love your channel btw, always great writing! Tell Simon Hi. 😄

    • @jaybestnz
      @jaybestnz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's sad that if we spent all the money the world spent on military on cancer research in 5 years would probably solve this.

    • @Coffeeisnecessarynowpepper
      @Coffeeisnecessarynowpepper 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      WXY and Z

    • @shootatmepls1
      @shootatmepls1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I am a teacher.
      I tell my students a few things with a frequency that I am sure they find frustrating.
      1 - If it seems simple, you probably don't fully understand it (yet).
      2 - The key to finding things interesting, is to be interested.

  • @benfiner2450
    @benfiner2450 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    You forgot the third type of person watching Hank: The childhood cancer survivors like me who, even 14 years cancer-free later, feel incredibly validated by your videos
    Maybe that's too specific but that's me

    • @allisonturner5571
      @allisonturner5571 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol (?), I'm the mother of a 14-year childhood cancer survivor who I think isn't you.
      I remember someone (not a doctor) mentioning the high 5-year survival rate (my kid also had Hodgkins) and me saying i don't see making it to 15 as a great future.
      Hank's explanation was way better.

    • @benfiner2450
      @benfiner2450 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @allisonturner5571 definitely not me, but always glad to hear about others who made it through!

  • @m8imhawk
    @m8imhawk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your passion is absolutely indefatigable 👏

  • @-divinetragedy
    @-divinetragedy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I really think about you a lot rn, i've always loved all of your videos, and cancer is just something i've seen so many times around me in my family and friends. It's permeated my life, and it's always really scary for me to hear about people I care about going through this whole process. I watched my mom really grapple with mortality and constant sickness during her treatments and idk, i just wanted to express how much you've meant to me and all your fans through the years and that we're all here for you