Thank you for considering me as "good people." Right now I feel like my soon to be ex, my kids, her friends, coworkers, and her family's fingers are pointing at me. I did my best at it with some faults along the way. It takes two.
Morning Song, the choice is yours to make. When you are contemplating to stay or leave, it would be a good idea to way the pros and cons of each choice.
Stay away from people who try to take over your soon to be ex relationship to the point they effect your mental and spiritual health. Pray that God removes them so his peace can enter. Take it from me harsh negative words will end up being sad from you and your ex spouse due to the meddling of these type of negative toxic DRAMAFIED people. Trust me they will never see or believe thay there meddling was harmless or nothing forgive them anyways remember forgiveness is for you not them. Surround yourself around healthy people they are such a blessing during a time like this. Negative toxic people well allow God to use there actions to show you what not to be or do when it comes to someone you may and may not knows divorce. Also guess what! Divorce is not the end of your life it's just the ending of a relationship and a new beginning and if things end peacefully which that is up to your behavior and your ex spouse behavior than maybe in the near future maybe you to can be friends. May your divorce be peaceful and healthy try to be a healthy example for your children you never know they may need to look back on your behavior if they ever have to go through a divorce in their future in order to be strong. Stay away from uncivilized people if that is possible.
Joshua Mancilla, working with some great people on creating coaches who can help more people. Get in touch with the office if you are interested in the Live On Purpose Institute.
I have heard this so much. Easy to say when you are in agony. This could help later on. Dude people that are listening are not the ones who ended the marriage. 99% of time. The ones that left never listen to these talks because their ego is not damaged.
Dr. Jenkins, love your vids and you have some really good topics that apply to my life especially this one. although it is hard to agree with you on some of these things as I am right in the middle of a divorce. I would like to see you do a video about what happens to a marriage when you threaten divorce and being in a child centered marriage.
Life is very difficult when you are going through a divorce, stickaman. Hang in there, better days ahead. Thank you for watching, and we don't have to agree on everything. I will consider your topic.
When you cheat there is no equivalency. That's not a mistake, that was intentional... Oops I banged the pool boy, would ya look at that! Sorry about those vows and those kids of ours. Guess my needs were more important! Maybe if you did *insert thing here* I wouldn't of been compelled to take a dive with the pool boy. This damage is your fault too, it takes 2 after all... I like the positivity and owning your own life, but that doesn't require quasi moral equivalency in this matter.
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Thank you for considering me as "good people." Right now I feel like my soon to be ex, my kids, her friends, coworkers, and her family's fingers are pointing at me. I did my best at it with some faults along the way. It takes two.
Testable DaddyO, what a stressful situation. No one is perfect, we just keep trying our best. Keep the kids as the focus.
I’m dealing with this right now and it’s breaking my heart
Wow! Exactly what I needed to hear. I’m going to be positive!
You are so welcome, Sarah Cutler. Honored to be on your positivity team.
Thanks for this
My pleasure!
I need this today. Thank you so much.
Any time! Jetnick.
Thank you❤️
You’re welcome 😊
Thank you so much 🙏🏻✨
Honored to be on your team, Haya H!
What about when your kids see through your spouse’s BS and are begging you to leave?
Morning Song, the choice is yours to make. When you are contemplating to stay or leave, it would be a good idea to way the pros and cons of each choice.
My wife just randomly threatened divorce what do I do
Get legal advice, check out the other videos on how to save your marriage.
very good thanks for sharing
You are welcome, James L. Elcome. Honored to be on your team.
Stay away from people who try to take over your soon to be ex relationship to the point they effect your mental and spiritual health. Pray that God removes them so his peace can enter. Take it from me harsh negative words will end up being sad from you and your ex spouse due to the meddling of these type of negative toxic DRAMAFIED people. Trust me they will never see or believe thay there meddling was harmless or nothing forgive them anyways remember forgiveness is for you not them. Surround yourself around healthy people they are such a blessing during a time like this. Negative toxic people well allow God to use there actions to show you what not to be or do when it comes to someone you may and may not knows divorce. Also guess what! Divorce is not the end of your life it's just the ending of a relationship and a new beginning and if things end peacefully which that is up to your behavior and your ex spouse behavior than maybe in the near future maybe you to can be friends. May your divorce be peaceful and healthy try to be a healthy example for your children you never know they may need to look back on your behavior if they ever have to go through a divorce in their future in order to be strong. Stay away from uncivilized people if that is possible.
devilisa Lair, such a great reminder of the power of positivity, even in our most difficult circumstances.
Will you be my mentor?
Great content, thank you!!!
Joshua Mancilla, working with some great people on creating coaches who can help more people. Get in touch with the office if you are interested in the Live On Purpose Institute.
I have heard this so much. Easy to say when you are in agony. This could help later on. Dude people that are listening are not the ones who ended the marriage. 99% of time. The ones that left never listen to these talks because their ego is not damaged.
Philip Hummel, I hear you, but since we know that the only one we can control is ourselves, not another person, we have to work with what we can.
Amen.
Dr. Jenkins, love your vids and you have some really good topics that apply to my life especially this one. although it is hard to agree with you on some of these things as I am right in the middle of a divorce. I would like to see you do a video about what happens to a marriage when you threaten divorce and being in a child centered marriage.
Life is very difficult when you are going through a divorce, stickaman. Hang in there, better days ahead. Thank you for watching, and we don't have to agree on everything. I will consider your topic.
You may not have wanted the dam divorce
The Lizard King, this is the case in so many divorces. Sometime we just have to deal with what is given us.
When you cheat there is no equivalency. That's not a mistake, that was intentional... Oops I banged the pool boy, would ya look at that! Sorry about those vows and those kids of ours. Guess my needs were more important! Maybe if you did *insert thing here* I wouldn't of been compelled to take a dive with the pool boy. This damage is your fault too, it takes 2 after all... I like the positivity and owning your own life, but that doesn't require quasi moral equivalency in this matter.
Nathan Walnofer, thank you for taking the time to comment.