Narcissists and Psychopaths Are Disordered In Their Thoughts
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Always trust your intuition with these demons 👹
they never EVER learn from their mistakes
They dont it's over for them since birth you gotta stay spiritual protected
"They are a whole other specteum of looney toons..." Spot on 💯
The whole goal is to traumatize you into adopting their traumatized ideology, worldview, beliefs, paranoia, hate of the other, distrust, threat sensitivity and so on.
Yep. That's all that's really going on in public schools
@@TrevorHambergeryou think home school would be any better?
@sponkmcdonk3898 yes. It's honestly absurd to say otherwise. The entire point of the public education system is to turn people into consumer minded narcissists. It has absolutely nothing to do with education whatsoever.
@@sponkmcdonk3898 I made an entire 7 hour series about how effed up the school system is and I can make another 10 hours easily. The entire purpose of public school is to create people who can't think for themselves
Being able to self improve with no support is a superpower, it all starts with belief, anyone is capable💯
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I notice this a lot people are off, that's why at 32 I just stick to myself. I couldn't be bothered with people and their drama anymore
The real trouble is when you are dealing with a psychopath.
I have dealt with those kinds when i was in my twenties i had to get the Police involved.
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@Purplelove4 they wont stop they sold out to satan they wont stop at all!
Seriously. Even actively trying to avoid people a few still slip through the cracks
I want to add that I cannot tolerate these evil doers. They seem to leave their immediate family members alone, but select us to abuse when we're not even their people. They don't even know basic information about their own siblings, or pretend not to, but want to call us whenever they want. Terry is right that these individuals don't want to level up and be mature/accountable. They'd rather attempt to bring others down, cowards.
Yep, there is no normal communication.
It's all True. It's really hard when it's your own family.
This may sound cliche or hard to believe, but praying the rosary every day has brought me a remarkable sense of peace and joy. The only way I noticed that I had relationships with narcissists and was experiencing narcissistic abuse was when I noticed the contrast between the peace that I felt and the lack of peace, or unpleasant emotions, that I felt emanating from these people whenever they talked. I noticed how they tried to pull me away from this peace and into their hell during interactions.
Oh they can help it. They choose not to.
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Because its easier to play victim to get thigns,easier
@@Grego-xz9pt They can't get $hit from me.
@christophercox1717 who said you even had anythign to offer lol. There's 8 billion ppl in this world what makes you si special bud
@Grego-xz9pt who said anything about being special? I said they can't get shit from me for being the worthless POS people that they are. The narcs think they are special and entitled above everybody else 🙄 .
I have Autism and Adhd Terry, I'm doing my best as I can and I'm trying to focus on myself. It's gonna take me a while to learn my lesson in a hard way.
Devoid of empathy..communication..love. peace...cannot do happy.
I just finished dating a woman exactly like this recently and I tell you, it’s been the most horrific and hurtful damaging experience I have ever felt. I’m starting to do a little better now being a little over three months of no contact and also in therapy. It is something another guy will not understand unless they experience it themselves firsthand. I’m just slowly starting to find myself again.
brother, I am going through the same. This has been my weakness and my pitfall. My discernment and my judgement and my boundaries and standards have been poor. That is on me. I have been poor at vetting women. Last year I dated a Covert Narcissist -- and I foolishly overlooked so many red flags staring me right in the face. I am in therapy for trauma. I really wanted the relationship to work out long term with me and her. It has been heartbreaking and it wrecked me. I have called her out on her BS.
Don't judge yourself. Life happens and sometimes it gets hard.
It was not your fault. This people are insane. And we are not prepared for their malicious circus the majority of times. Especially if this girl was your first narc.
It hurts bad, I know.
And the recovery is not a linear road. You will fall short and do stupid things in the process.
But when It ends, IT ENDS.
YOU WILL NEVER LOOK THIS PERSON AGAIN THE SAME WAY.
TRUST THE PROCESS AND PRAY TO GOD.
HE'S YOUR ONLY REST IN THIS SELF DISCOVERY JOURNEY.
Love from Brazil!❤🇧🇷
@@RSPRenata thank you Renata! 🙏🤗
Bro with me having ADHD and being on the spectrum. I’m the prime target for these kind of people but I just let them manipulate me to see where they want me to go while playing stupid. But mostly just don’t want to deal with it
I hear you. I was raised by Parents that are both mentally unwell and I've been around a sibling who has the same traits as our parents. Their behaviour is so bizarre to the point where it's just not even funny. I avoid them the best way I can. They're the most exhausitng and toxic people to be around. I'd rather spend my time alone than be surrounded by Narcs.
Thank you for talking about this to show that there is still life after going through an extremely hurtful experience. Thanks for showing that a great life is still possible even after being super hurt, manipulated, and abused.
what’s going on man. I’m a self aware narcissist/psychopath. I just want to validate everything you’ve been saying on these channels is completely spot on. Keep dropping these vids your helping the ones that’s need to hear this
a lot of narcissists have child like mindsets. only when they become more self aware do they start to fall down the psychopathic rabbit hole. it’s when they realize that their childish like thoughts hold them back from whatever they want to achieve
a lot of people like this don’t necessarily want to ruin and destroy people. It may seem that way. But people end up getting used as collateral on the hunt of trying to feel and not be bored. It’s like chronic bordom
there isn’t really a way for them to heal either. It’s not possible. all narcissists when they become aware of themselves and their behaviors they become the psychopath. on the pursuit of getting success they realize they have to mold in order to achieve certain goals. some times certain people can assist said goals
it’s not an excuse, but lot of them were once good people that went through turmoil which forced them to focus only on themselves. Internalizing everything. Becoming detached from their emotions because the reality isn’t stable enough for them grow normally
the more aware they become they more psychopathic they become. a lot of them have huge egos and never had anyone in their corner to let them see how detrimental it is to themselves and others to be that way.
They feel o
They feel no love, no empathy. no bevereaments, no sympathy, no support for animal cruelty
Want your money
Weird invite you for lunch, buy lunch at supermarket to cook, but don't give yoy lunch
They like salad it's weird
Therr rooms bare. No photos. No pictures. No radio, tv it's weird
They smirk but it's a weird smile
Something sinister happened in their childhood. However msny had not easy childhood but not psychopathic
They invite yoy somewhere and don't appear or turn of phone
They charming but inside a flat I saw a monster the eyes change colour lucky while he in bathroom I went and it was judt a few dates
On your birthday, xmas they disappear. Basically there bullies.
They want to control
Adding this video to my closure file so I can revisit if i ever doubt my decision to divorce her...
In order to be cured from a burn is you first stay away from the fire.
20 years with what I thought was love of my life. I just thought she was a lil special needs but you realize they actually want to destroy you to make themselves feel better
Conniving backstabbers.
Someone conniving is calculating, scheming, and shrewd - in other words, sneaky and up to no good. Do you know anyone who is always trying to get away with things? Do they constantly look for ways to get out of trouble or work? Those kind of people are conniving. This is a word for secretive, shifty behavior.
💯 Amen Brother Joel a lot is missing upstairs. The lights are on but nobody's home except Several demons plotting on how to do evil to someone. 👿 And yes it makes them happy. This is all they know how to do
Real talk about those empty shells 💯🙏❤️💎
Thank You, Terry Joel, for discussing this topic. Most Exact.
I am getting gamed in a emotional way by my parents. They are miserable, misery loves company. If knew earlier in my life I would have ran away
@@abnashibanga2806 what they're doing?
Emotionless ...completely. no laughing , crying or any regular human emotion. It's suppressed. They lack empathy and can literally turn a regular person into a head spin. They look at you with this stare into your soul but it's blank..and they just give you this ..duh.. look. Common denominators .I like this video.
You are so correct on this topic any weapon form against my soul tribe family will not prosper 🙏👍💯
They are not 'people' mate. These are demonically oppressed/possessed. We need to fight in the spiritual. Let go of the physical. Then you can begin to battle.
My narc bf is now stonewalling me again after some arguments and it’s been 3 days. I know what he’s doing and I’m not buying. We’re on LDR, I live in Bangkok and he’s in The Philippines, and during our relationship he cheated on me twice. He promised me he’d change and find a therapist but to this day it never happens and his intense anger and aggressive behavior is worsening. He’d get jealous with everyone around me. He asked me to stay away from some friends of mine cause he doesn’t feel comfortable about it, even tho I introduced him to them it didn’t help. He limits my social life. After all his manipulation and betrayal throughout the years I still find it very hard to just leave him for good. He always makes his ways after the breakups I initiated. He crawls back always. I really hope I can find a way to be happy again. With or without him.
Hi Joel,Tuned in❤👍thanku for the encouragement&wisdom
At this point in my life I don’t care if you like me or not. I don’t care if you want to be my friend or not. Too much selfishness in life that almost everyone and everything has become repulsive.
Well said
Thanks brother Ter for what you do!!!❤❤❤
Ty for the more positive videos even if they get less views
Thank for this message , I know it took a lot of strength to touch on these subjects and how they affected you .
I am grateful for the message ,it helped me put some things in perspective
something changed alot since 2014, i had an dream about alien invasion and even to now that dream is burned into my memory.
I know what it's like being on both sides.
I was struggling to quit alcohol back in the day, and many days I walked around with
(1) paranoia
(2) fear
(3) audio hallucinations (I misheard things, usually in a cruel or terrible way that made me suffer)
I definitely have no condition that can be detected, because my symptoms would turn on/off quite a lot,
varying according to time, day, place. If I skipped drinking the day before, I would do much better.
So, for a while, I integrated weird behavior I observed in others, and then I implemented that weird behavior.
All the while I was suffering, because I felt stuck in a prison. I was held captive by a total asshole version of myself.
The human mind is no joke. You definitely never want to "check out" the place some weird people are at,
but your sub-conscious can play tricks on you if you aren't careful.
I believe the source of inner turmoil in my case was pure self-hatred originating from a desire to change.
In any case, I did many subtle weird things that I absolutely would not classify as free will.
The metaphor of demon possession is apt.
We must love ourselves and reject the demons, then commit to change and implement!
I never really tried to mess with people online when I was going through my possession phase,
it only manifested IRL in bizarre and freaky ways.
When I started living more according to my ideals, it all just went away like it never existed.
It's like self-hatred has the power to destroy yourself, and you cannot necessarily control it.
If you struggle with alcohol or something else, just stop drinking instead of destroying yourself with self-hate.
It's literally 1 billion times easier, at least in theory. The problem is that many alcoholics need to experience
depths of despair before deciding to do something, and there's a part of the mind that engages in endless
denial of the cause of the inner turmoil. I never even considered quitting drinking at the time.
It didn't even truly occur to me as the cause. All I knew was that after work I would chill and drink while
playing video games or whatever, and during that time my mind was at ease.
This was about a decade ago.
Then, a few years ago I made intense commitments to just eliminating my weird self-sabotaging bizarre thoughts and certain patterns.
This makes me a bit more of a smiling NPC in public situations, but I now enjoy more simplicity.
It's important to keep things simple. Do not weave some kind of living nightmare for yourself.
I only really enjoy being social if the subject is intriguing. My last two face-to-face conversations of any length were in a church and later in a mosque.
If it's a bullshit situation where I feel like I should make small talk, I feel rather awkward and would rather sit in silence while waiting.
I guess my point is that demons really do possess people, but if you chase them out -- and it really is a kind of
"get behind me S*tan" type thing -- then at least you acquired some knowledge through your suffering.
For the record I was never a total madman. I haven't destroyed anyone's life.
I'm not a narcissist, but more of a general high-IQ weirdo who is socially awkward and tends to feel like an empty vessel,
which makes me an easy victim to narcissists.
Recently I just replace the weird shit I created inside my head with 'normal' stuff.
Most situations feel non-bizarre to me nowadays, luckily.
I sorta healed and reverted to my past self, which wasn't super duper, but far better than the mess I ended up with for a period of time.
My being an asshole would tend to be very subtle, but I was picking up on patterns from weird people and it was like being a garbage dump amassing evil and then spewing it out to fuck with people in subtle ways. I had my own strange analyses of the situation playing out, like over-analyzing people's words and gestures, attributing deep meanings, etc. I picked that up from a guy who was the weirdest person I've ever met. I didn't want to per se, I never sat down and planned anything, but it was like my sub-conscious was punishing me with the full force of my imagination. Such utmost hell.
Your subconscious can destroy you, but only if you let it. If you say NO, then you can change.
But hey, have you ever felt like a party pooper after an exercise session? I BET NO ONE EVER HAS!
I have previously had some truly evil people in my life and they are no longer in my life.
Ex-friend: used me as a source of narcissistic supply and even showed complete disregard for my physical safety (a psychopathic feature)
Ex-girlfriend: broken beyond belief, hating all men, another type of exploiter who chews up men and spits them out. Historically had suicidal tendencies and people around her all ended up on SSRIs before long. Subtly broken, but presenting an elaborate and carefully rehearsed facade.
There was an endless dark void in her eyes.
She reminded me of "Jenifer" by Dario Argento, although the fictional monstrous woman-like creature Jenifer is of course worse than my ex, but they always remind me of each other, lol. Not in terms of appearance, but a kind of dark animalistic or demonic feature. When you realize that a person is not truly an emphatic human being like yourself, it's so utterly insane. I tested her empathy head on, and confirmed my suspicion. The suspected witch was a real witch. Never meeting her again.
With all our flaws as rather normal people (no hard diagnoses like psychopath or narcissist), we generally want to do good.
So when we do bad, we never forget about it, and we wish we were never bad.
So yea, I'm done with all the bullshit in the past.
I am slightly high IQ, somewhat autistic/aspbergers, somewhat neurodivergent (and always getting weirder by insisting on being myslef), but thankfully
I'm not a psychopath or narcissist.
But I try my best to avoid putting myself in a dark place where my inner light fades.
I try to live according to my inner standards. I have lots of stuff to achieve, but not doing too bad right now, so I generally feel whole as a person.
I love myself. And this you must all do. Self-love heals. Or know that God loves you.
While I know myself well now, one aspect of that knowledge is that I know how nasty my subconscious can make my life if I don't stay true to myself.
So a part of my required way to live, is to avoid living a shitty life, so that I will not become consumed by my darkness.
In accordance with this great episode, do what you must do to stay pure and whole, so that you may benefit yourself and then the planet.
They didn’t choose to be this way it’s a personality disorder. I still care about him and it’s heartbreaking. Can’t wait to the day when I understand why God did this. All glory to God❤
They choose to be this way, they know the diffrence between good and bad, and they choose bad so..
You are dead wrong....they DO choose to be this way. They know right from wrong but they choose wrong repeatedly because they get off on harming others.
@@TheGhjgjgjgjgjg no brother choice is,relative grow up
Think of it like this. It’s either they give in to everyone’s emotions, feelings, interpretations of reality, or they choose themselves, and live a happy, lonely, empty, selfish life.
4:31 I believe that psychopaths may have experienced a traumatic event at some point in their lives, whether emotional or otherwise, leading to their lack of empathy. And then there are the individuals who were not biologically predisposed with empathetic or caring traits.
..no you are right they dont think (only on them self)...got a like
VERY TRUE I AM DEALING WITH A NARCISSISTIC N PSYCHÒPATH.😈👿
They still think and feel like we do dawg. They just choose not to
thank you immensely for this video!
God bless you dude
7:04 Yes Misery Loves Company!
I've dated one of each. A living nightmare!
2 Tim 3
Warning about mental disorders in the latter days.
Psychopaths have always existed. Every society finds a way to keep them in check. Ancient Romans had “bread and circuses.” We have TV, stock markets and sports games. Worry about ur people.
Narcs don't do commitment or give you closure(because after they go ghost they always want to come back) they dissapear easy or give you the silent treatment, because they have other options/supply
Spot on 🎯
Dealing with this right now, I’ve blocked her 2 times before but I’m going to stick to it this time, I broke no contact before simply because we work together and unfortunately I can’t afford to switch jobs right now, I hope I have the strength this time around
Be glad you still got a job my last situation ultimately got me fired
Proverbs 26:27
“Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein: and he that rolleth a stone, it will return upon him.”
King James Version (KJV)
Do you have any video about trauma bond?and how to get out of it?thank you sir
I was in 11 year relationship like this...... I still cannot pick up my brain after 9 months..... I feel like shit. I invested so much into person who was playing with me for so long. Good bad good bad good bad....eveery fck month was same story. And constant give me attention, fix this fix that. Never enough what you do. Crazy. It took me 4 months to analyse relationship after brake up and the things I did let slide is insane... I would never thought I could be in love with someone who was using me and doing crazy shit and I was just feeling afraid to say something because I knew there will be fight.. Man if you are in relationship where woman starts playing games it is time to go. No fck thing is worth your mental health and self worth. I feel like I am worthless after this relationship....but deep inside I know I am a good person, never cheated. She cheated on me while I stopped being a good slave. So there you go. Be strong and be careful guys. Always vet them for at least 2 years and then analyse the relationship and make a decision. Never be in love 100 percent, never trust what they say, watch what they do!!!!! They can say beautiful things but their actions tell you everything about them. Be strong and MGTOW
That's on a good day. It's like biting on tin foil.
These ppl will fucked your life up spiritually
I felt fear
Thanks
And I will never retire always have projects even at 60
Yeah look at the peace in it. I still get threats
look how bad life got when you were complacent
look how good life got when you were on your Ps & Qs
I know how they played it. Getting my dollar's worth.
Terry I love your videos, but the title for this one is...to be frank with you...an understatement to the point of error. Disordered is like saying a tsunami is a large wave.
Bro please please please make a video on how to properly heal from this. I’ve left the country, I’ve blocked her, I literally ran from her, it’s been 7 months if not more, I still fall to my knees in pain. Therapy & working out, seeing other women doesn’t seem to help. I tried focusing on myself but it’s these visions, I CANNOT TAKE HER OFF A PEDESTAL. Please
Got the notice.
Loonie Toons. 😂 💯💯💯🎯
Yeah narc wife go that runs a brothel in her home
So many people can relate to this.
However only some are T.I.’s or. “targeted individuals”. This situation is similar however the narc is a covert narcissist and they use high tech ways to torture and harass their target. The discussion is usually not to be had with people who are not T.I.’s especially the details of all of the things experienced. It’s the same thing. So to make an analogy. Someone rings your doorbell and stands their and flips you off. The other scenario someone rings your doorbell and runs off-lol…but you can hear them from a distance saying F-you…Anyway, who cares. Work hard. Save money. In their faces. We are better than them. 🙏🏼
Hi Terry Joel they are seven spirits and it would be nice to dig in and these ,spirits ?
And to teach us ,because like you said they drained me of me knowing myself thank you 🙏
These words are usually just for evil people. I would recommend helping the homeless to get out of this negative bubble ur in rn
That time that you realize once again your fake buddies suck..!
Happen yesterday once again and I'm wondering,,🤔a kinda weird thing..
That waste of energy though..
Isn't giving mercy on these people important? God is merciful
God's making major things happen. Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone
I have a positive I lost every thing living in my van and working and a friend owed me some $ and he owns a big property call me and is giving his sons and my self 200 acres of Land. What goes around comes around. Greg 60 years old Coolangatta Australia 🇦🇺
1:33 👽I agree 😢
tererryyyyyy
Yeah. And it's The Ruwarch, that makes them Do that. So You should understand not to be with them.
King
Ragnar YAHUWAH ❤ ADONAI
The feeling argument with nothing achieved or lined up again. Pitiful.
They are evil
I spent 5 yrs with a narc. He robbed me of joy, lots of money, my self esteem and peace. I didn’t know what was happening until I found a channel on TH-cam about NPD. I gave and gave and he took and met my love with abuse.
Seems like too many personality clashes? I don’t see how some people are psychos. I love animals and was called a psycho so I think people just need help on how to accept individuality that’s limiting/unhealthy and just weird. Some people are just ridiculous
My ex girlfriend was about as occupied with calling others Narcisists, as You Are.. yeah. But she never called Me That.
King
Ragnar YAHUWAH
You go girl
All of my family members have mental issues
What is a soulless person? What is the Soul? The Soul is your sense of self awareness. It is the ability to watch your thoughts, emotions, body, and surroundings. It is to be sentient itself. My IQ is beyond 200. If it doesn't make sense to you, maybe you just don't understand it because you are not smart enough to. One definition of narcissist is someone that doesn't admit defeat. Another definition of narcissist is someone that loves themselves. Are these definitions right or wrong? Are they good or evil? What does wrong and right mean? What does good and evil mean?
Narcissist are always gonna have a gang to go against one person they're all cowards
Wrong. I'm the 200+ iq guy and new #1 in reality theory.
It doe not mean they are evil they were just born different come on now grow up. You choose to fall into their temptation or not its on you they do them you ultimately choose
Nah they're born evil is what your telling me children of the devil there boundaries when there that many going against you spiritually mental & physical there something wrong!
@kisigma1011 your so ignorant lol. Ppl go agaiant it because it's outside the norm it's considered different by definition ppl that are born different are considered outside the norm. Not everyone is born the same. Not everyone has the privilidge to be normal it's outside their own control they were born different not all psycopaths or sociopaths are bad ppl grow the hell up
Looney tunez. 💯
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They need Jesus 😊😄😀
SPARTA SENSAI YA KUSH TO YA CHEST
I'm telling you something true now, it's not good to talk badly about others...
What are you talking about David if these people are evil and wicked and abusive, you better expose them for what they are I hope you’re not one of them if you are I’m gonna talk badly about you. Make yourself clear man !
U dont look like ur working out as muxh
The stress from life & narcissist did it too him trust me I'm in the same position but I'm still thriving
What does working out hardcore really amount to ? Nobody cares.
@donpeace894 it benefits you
@kisigma1011 my point is I have been very muscular and buff but in the end nobody really cares
@@donpeace894 the purpose of life is to find the truth. How can you handle the truth if you can't even have the discipline to workout?
This guy is talking about himself LMAO 🤡
No he's talking about you
Full Blown Narc Projection !
oyeee SOY CHICANO(.WW.) I GET BETTER AND STRONGER😊 KEEP-IT COMING...🔥 I'm REAL GLAD y'all NOTICE🙏
Consciously, its hard to tell, but everyone is in development, and learning, but sometimes not getting the right knowledge in the right way. The carnal mind is in enmity with God and his law, as the scriptures say, so that element of cognition has its gears needing to shift from some battlefield towards, cooperation and understanding.
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