i hope you know how appreciated it is to see someone with a big platform be informed and share the right information on social media, especially given the threats you’ve received because of it
My personal and professional life is in shambles rn and these 30 mins videos are the only thing that's keeping me away from breaking down. Thank you sm for being such a comfort person to me. Ily
As a boy who grew up surrounded by men I love to listen and watch women's content so much especially i love Steph's video, she's like the older sister that i always wanted and never had and she's so sweet and authentic😭❤️🩹
I love these kinds of videos that feel so chill and like you are actually just hanging out with a friend!! its so special that you can give other people watching you that comfort
you just described my husband in your list of qualities. My love lang is words of affirmation. And his is acts of service/quality time. He literally used to wake up at 5:30/6 in the morning to make me breakfast and all and drove me to my work etc. I could have called uber but I was spoiled and I preferred him to do it and he never once complained. One thing I didn't know before but I absolutely need in my personal relationships is this: not holding grudges internally. My husband if he is hurt or etc by something, he will express it in the most respectful and nice way possible and once he is done, he will check it off/ won't hold it in. He would never bring it up in future etc. This is something I actually try to practice but is hard. I am very impressed at how mature your answers are
I personally have nothing against sponsorships but I particularly love how excited you get to talk about the companies or products you work with, its really refreshing ❤️
one thing I look for in a partner is someone who is supportive and just has empathy for all people. I also have a booktube channel and am still in the phase of not really liking to tell people that aren’t in the book community, but he’s always so supportive and cheers me on. I also want to be a published writer one day and he’s always pushing me to do it. i’m very scared to publish my work but with him in my corner I really feel like I can do anything and be anything. he just wants me to be happy and supports anything that gets me there. with all of the shit going on in the world, it’s also important to me that my partner and I hold the same values. it’s crazy to say but it can be hard to find people these days who do the research, educate themselves, and have empathy. I love you content steph and thank you for inspiring me!❤
as much as it made me happy for her when she mentioned she texts her best friend when she is anxious and she knows that she will always be there for her but it also made me so sad bcz my bsf ended our friendship.i wish everyone have someone they can count on no matter what
with the acts of service one, i totally understand that one. i recently got a bf and literally the difference of things he does is insane to basically anyone in my life
steph thank you for posting so many videos at the moment!! this came right at the perfect time, I had such a bad day, mood swings and anxiety and all of it.. you always are my safe place and lift me up ❤
Love you Steph!! Really needed this virtual sleepover! 100% love normal people, 200% love Paul Mescal. Also, I'm currently reading Hothouse Flower and I love all the characters so much and their dynamic with each other
you made such a good point about no longer wanting a guy to hate everyone but you- i feel like it’s really more about him wanting to open up to you more than anyone else rather than hating everyone. one is a healthy way of making u feel special and the other is just bad character
Steph I just have to say - the normal people rant was articulated PERFECTLY. I’ve never agreed w someone on something more in my life 🥺 ps: pls do more sleepover style vids like this it was so comforting to watch b4 bed ✌🏼gn everyone
don’t ever lower your expectations for a man, men like that do exist. i married one and am so incredibly blessed by him literally every single day. ❤️❤️
comparison as a content creator is such a real problem! it can be so hard to feel like you're doing the right things when it's just not performing the way it is for others. especially when you see creators grow in a fraction of the time that it's taking you. I've been thinking about this wayyy too much lately, so honestly hearing you talk about your struggles with it too is so comforting. it's not just me!! haha
This is the BEST I love it Also I feel like with the striped shirt thing that reminded me of me before you when she talked about the bumblebee stockings AND HE ACTUALLY GOT HER BUMBLEBEE STOCKINGS 😭😭
I’m currently reading the Brutal Birthright series! I’m on the last book, Heavy Crown and I’m not ready to say goodbye to the characters yet. Literally binged the entire 6 books in a week😂
I have been with my husband for 30 years and we buy random gifts we have said in passing all the time. He also makes dinner and has it ready on the table for me when I come home late from work. I’m in the process of finding a special Rolling Stones vinyl with the Philadelphia Phillies on it that you can’t get in Australia but I found it on line.
“Talk, talk, talk, but no actions” That right there is why I went from words of affirmation being my number one love language by a landslide, to it barely number one. When people talk with empty words, they carry less weight over time.
Ahh Steph you have no idea how much this cures my soul !! A girls night..?? Nothing better than this , literally! lysm & thank you for taking time to do this for us
Thank you for sharing some of your experiences about your life experience please stay safe and healthy and sending you my thoughts and prayers love your Aussie family friend and supporter John ❤❤❤
What a great idea for a video concept. Adorable. I’m 75% into Tim Johnston’s Distant Sons (from NetGalley). It’s got some romance, some mystery/thriller, etc. Good mixture. It would make a good sleepover book.
Yesterday I finished Daisy Jones & The Six and started Confess. And here soon I'm going to be starting the newest book in the Dark Olympus series. Im so excited and I seriously hope that 2024 is a better reading year than 2023 was!
Steph, you've just posted your video on time.. it's evening in Europe and while I'm watching your video in bed it feels like a real sleepover at your place :D
Also... you can be sooo proud of yourself for your self-awareness. The things that you said about envy, comparision etc. oooooh gosh, I sooo deeply felt that, and I think its great that you gained this knowledge in your early 20s. Keep going girl!!
You literally are the one that got me into Normal People last fall and I thank you because my life has never been the same 😭😭 I relate to them too much lol I have yet to read the book though!
I truly really loved the video like I’ve almost cried because I really felt your love &i love your videos and I guess I’m just lonely but I really love the video it makes me feel so good
steph thank you so much for making me feel normal about acts of service. literally everything you said about it made me feel so good. also the sleepover videos is so perfect thank you!
14:01 omg I feel like I want the emotional intelligence too, but like I can’t really even express emotions myself… I definitely have felt a lot of the time I surround myself with people who just don’t want to have an emotional convo BUT THAT WILL CHANGE :) 14:17 YES, heavy on the show don’t tell thing 🙌🏼 16:18 I feel like I never really though of what I wanted in a relationship or I’ve always though about the bare minimum, but you’re so right about how reading book can change your perspective IMMENSELY. Definitely when I really look into it I know I want AND DESERVE way more than the bare minimum 16:22 I use to compare ALL THE TIME but like let’s be honest, no one really has the same kind of life, like EXACTLY to a T. Whenever I find myself doing that, instead of being jealous/comparing I simply just say “wow I’m so proud of them for achieving that.” If it was something I wanted to achieve I could also try and achieve that 21:25 I’m currently reading IMAGINE ME by Tahereh Mafi!!!! the last book 😭 kinda, plus the novella BUT after I finish the series, I’m finally going to watch your two-part video of you reading it !!! 23:30 also I think another thing… if you could see yourself being friends with them. I feel like that’s another thing to really know you like them
ok steph you gotta tell us where your pj's are from, because i am obsessed! i also watched this video while drinking a hot coco and in a cozy blanket so thank you for giving the internet a place to be cozy and hang out with you.
Once you said you just wanted them to like you but you really didn't like them I screamed because girl me too LOL But also yes please to more videos like this you're literally my bff
she’s FEEDING us with vids and it’s everything
ABSOLUTELY FEEDING AND EATING
one thing i love about steph’s videos is how authentic they feel. it genuinely feels like a facetime call with an online friend!!
12:18 the way i didnt even mind that the clip repeated and just went on listening because it's soothing LMAO
hahahaha idk what happened
happens, all good!! adore you and the vlogs steph, highlight of my day fr
I kept thinking I rewinded it accidentally and started to get reallyyyy confused 😭😭
@@StephBohrer I didn't mind either! but there is the option in TH-cam Studio of cutting out clips/part of the video after having uploaded the video.
Sleepover chat with Steph makes me so happy
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There’s actually nothing I love more than getting cozy with a snack, drink, my cat, and a Steph video
she knows the vibes and the girlies love the vibes
EXACTLY
steph in her active era is everything I needed and more🫶🫶 so much comfort in these videos❤
i hope you know how appreciated it is to see someone with a big platform be informed and share the right information on social media, especially given the threats you’ve received because of it
yes yes yes!!!
did she post about palestine?
@@whowhat_where she did on her instagram a couple of times!!
what did she share that made her receive threats?
@@whowhat_whereyeah
How Steph can literally FEEDS us with so many videos these last few days ?! This made my day 😭🫶🍂🍁
Kiss from Paris !!
@@alexandria65 OMG i didn't know 😱😱in french we say pète un coup ça te fera pas de mal 🙄
My personal and professional life is in shambles rn and these 30 mins videos are the only thing that's keeping me away from breaking down. Thank you sm for being such a comfort person to me. Ily
steph’s videos are truly my comfort place, her vlogs just feel like long facetime calls with your bestfriend which i literally love so much!💕🫶🏼
As a boy who grew up surrounded by men I love to listen and watch women's content so much especially i love Steph's video, she's like the older sister that i always wanted and never had and she's so sweet and authentic😭❤️🩹
I love these kinds of videos that feel so chill and like you are actually just hanging out with a friend!! its so special that you can give other people watching you that comfort
Thank you Steph. This video don't help only you when you feel lonley, they help us too. It feels like talking to a friend. thank you.
omg LOVING all these vlogs lately, they bring me such comfort 🫶🫶
I'm an only child, but these videos make me feel like I have a sister to bond with !
This vid feels like we’re besties so calming and comforting 🤍
stephs videos feel like you are just hanging out with your best friend
you just described my husband in your list of qualities. My love lang is words of affirmation. And his is acts of service/quality time. He literally used to wake up at 5:30/6 in the morning to make me breakfast and all and drove me to my work etc. I could have called uber but I was spoiled and I preferred him to do it and he never once complained. One thing I didn't know before but I absolutely need in my personal relationships is this: not holding grudges internally. My husband if he is hurt or etc by something, he will express it in the most respectful and nice way possible and once he is done, he will check it off/ won't hold it in. He would never bring it up in future etc. This is something I actually try to practice but is hard. I am very impressed at how mature your answers are
I personally have nothing against sponsorships but I particularly love how excited you get to talk about the companies or products you work with, its really refreshing ❤️
OMG appreciate all the content lately Steph!!
one thing I look for in a partner is someone who is supportive and just has empathy for all people. I also have a booktube channel and am still in the phase of not really liking to tell people that aren’t in the book community, but he’s always so supportive and cheers me on. I also want to be a published writer one day and he’s always pushing me to do it. i’m very scared to publish my work but with him in my corner I really feel like I can do anything and be anything. he just wants me to be happy and supports anything that gets me there.
with all of the shit going on in the world, it’s also important to me that my partner and I hold the same values. it’s crazy to say but it can be hard to find people these days who do the research, educate themselves, and have empathy.
I love you content steph and thank you for inspiring me!❤
Good for you❤
A post 3 days in a row. I feel so fulfilled 💞💞
I love this style of video. How normal people is a comfort show for you, is how your videos feel for me. I love them
two videos in one week?? we are truly getting fed & i’m so happy ❤️
this is my comfort place to come after a rough week.this makes me sooo happy
STEPH PLEASE NEVER STOP FEEDING US ILYSM
as much as it made me happy for her when she mentioned she texts her best friend when she is anxious and she knows that she will always be there for her but it also made me so sad bcz my bsf ended our friendship.i wish everyone have someone they can count on no matter what
GURLLLLL I FEEL YOU TO BOTTOM OF MY HEART. my bestfriend didn’t just end our friendship but also betrayed me in the more hurtful ways.
I hope she know the amount of happiness her videos brings us
with the acts of service one, i totally understand that one. i recently got a bf and literally the difference of things he does is insane to basically anyone in my life
made breakfast before class while you baked! Coincidentally sat down to eat when your pumpkin dessert was also ready. Love it here 🫶🏼
It is my pleasure to meet you!💕😍🌹
LOVING HOW MUCH YOUVE BEEN POSTING OMGG
steph thank you for posting so many videos at the moment!! this came right at the perfect time, I had such a bad day, mood swings and anxiety and all of it.. you always are my safe place and lift me up ❤
the videos just keep coming and i couldn’t be happier!!
I love how your so authentic and genuine and wholesome 🥰
Loving ur consistent uploads❤❤
3 videos in such close proximity to each other?? it's a miracle my month is made YAY
you are my favorite youtuber these days. I love your videos. it's so cozy and comforting 💌
Love you Steph!! Really needed this virtual sleepover!
100% love normal people, 200% love Paul Mescal. Also, I'm currently reading Hothouse Flower and I love all the characters so much and their dynamic with each other
OMG, that series is everything, my entire heart just beats for the whole family💗💗💗💗
Steph, you are my comfort person on TH-cam. You are a sign of my nostalgic teenhood. 💜💜💜
you made such a good point about no longer wanting a guy to hate everyone but you- i feel like it’s really more about him wanting to open up to you more than anyone else rather than hating everyone. one is a healthy way of making u feel special and the other is just bad character
Steph I just have to say - the normal people rant was articulated PERFECTLY. I’ve never agreed w someone on something more in my life 🥺
ps: pls do more sleepover style vids like this it was so comforting to watch b4 bed ✌🏼gn everyone
Your videos are so addicting, your my comfort youtuber
don’t ever lower your expectations for a man, men like that do exist. i married one and am so incredibly blessed by him literally every single day. ❤️❤️
Sleepover with steph is soo comforting 🥹💗
comparison as a content creator is such a real problem! it can be so hard to feel like you're doing the right things when it's just not performing the way it is for others. especially when you see creators grow in a fraction of the time that it's taking you. I've been thinking about this wayyy too much lately, so honestly hearing you talk about your struggles with it too is so comforting. it's not just me!! haha
no bc your pajamas are cute affff can you link them in the description lol bc I want them
Steph your videos always feel like home to me❤️❤️
This is the BEST I love it
Also I feel like with the striped shirt thing that reminded me of me before you when she talked about the bumblebee stockings AND HE ACTUALLY GOT HER BUMBLEBEE STOCKINGS 😭😭
I’m currently reading the Brutal Birthright series! I’m on the last book, Heavy Crown and I’m not ready to say goodbye to the characters yet. Literally binged the entire 6 books in a week😂
i literally needed this, thank u steph for posting so regularly! u literally feel like my best friend, i love u.
I have been with my husband for 30 years and we buy random gifts we have said in passing all the time. He also makes dinner and has it ready on the table for me when I come home late from work. I’m in the process of finding a special Rolling Stones vinyl with the Philadelphia Phillies on it that you can’t get in Australia but I found it on line.
“Talk, talk, talk, but no actions” That right there is why I went from words of affirmation being my number one love language by a landslide, to it barely number one. When people talk with empty words, they carry less weight over time.
two vlogs in a week???? it’s like christmas in here woman
Ahh Steph you have no idea how much this cures my soul !! A girls night..?? Nothing better than this , literally! lysm & thank you for taking time to do this for us
we’re livinggg for these long vlogs steph, they’re so comforting🫶🏼
I am forcing all my friends to watch this beacuse the advice she's is giving is valuable and everyone needs to hear it.
Your videos are so comforting... love you so much ♥️
Thank you for sharing some of your experiences about your life experience please stay safe and healthy and sending you my thoughts and prayers love your Aussie family friend and supporter John ❤❤❤
I love stephs vids, so comforting 🥹🫶🏽
You’re literally saying facts I love your videos🤍
Loving how often Steph is uploading!!
Please do more Videos like this
!!!! I enjoyed every second
What a great idea for a video concept. Adorable. I’m 75% into Tim Johnston’s Distant Sons (from NetGalley). It’s got some romance, some mystery/thriller, etc. Good mixture. It would make a good sleepover book.
Found you about a month ago and became a instant fan and this is the best video ever. Exactly why Steph is my comfort TH-camr
Omg i had such a bad day but then Steph posts a new video and I’m just so happy thank you so much ily🥹❤️❤️💌
steph i wish I had a friend like you rn, but this video def helped thank you girl ILYY
istg steph you are the only youtuber i can watch fully entertained and your videos bring me so much comfort 💗💗
Ohmygod !! So much Steph and so little time ily ily ❤❤
I looooooveeee having new videos more often 😁😁😁😁😁
Yesterday I finished Daisy Jones & The Six and started Confess. And here soon I'm going to be starting the newest book in the Dark Olympus series. Im so excited and I seriously hope that 2024 is a better reading year than 2023 was!
Steph, you've just posted your video on time.. it's evening in Europe and while I'm watching your video in bed it feels like a real sleepover at your place :D
Also... you can be sooo proud of yourself for your self-awareness. The things that you said about envy, comparision etc. oooooh gosh, I sooo deeply felt that, and I think its great that you gained this knowledge in your early 20s. Keep going girl!!
i've been loving all the content lately seph! 💗🫂
I love your vlogs so much I look forward to them always you are now one of my favorite TH-camrs 🎀💕💕
smth abt coming home after a long day & getting into cosy pjs to watch steph’s vlogs like you’re on facetime with your bestfriend >>
You literally are the one that got me into Normal People last fall and I thank you because my life has never been the same 😭😭 I relate to them too much lol I have yet to read the book though!
so beautiful and gentle 🤍
always 💌
I totally love this video omg, I feel like you are my bestie, so comforting
you always post when i need it bestie. luv ya
I truly really loved the video like I’ve almost cried because I really felt your love &i love your videos and I guess I’m just lonely but I really love the video it makes me feel so good
your video literally made my entire day
steph thank you so much for making me feel normal about acts of service. literally everything you said about it made me feel so good. also the sleepover videos is so perfect thank you!
14:01 omg I feel like I want the emotional intelligence too, but like I can’t really even express emotions myself… I definitely have felt a lot of the time I surround myself with people who just don’t want to have an emotional convo BUT THAT WILL CHANGE :)
14:17 YES, heavy on the show don’t tell thing 🙌🏼
16:18 I feel like I never really though of what I wanted in a relationship or I’ve always though about the bare minimum, but you’re so right about how reading book can change your perspective IMMENSELY. Definitely when I really look into it I know I want AND DESERVE way more than the bare minimum
16:22 I use to compare ALL THE TIME but like let’s be honest, no one really has the same kind of life, like EXACTLY to a T. Whenever I find myself doing that, instead of being jealous/comparing I simply just say “wow I’m so proud of them for achieving that.” If it was something I wanted to achieve I could also try and achieve that
21:25 I’m currently reading IMAGINE ME by Tahereh Mafi!!!! the last book 😭 kinda, plus the novella BUT after I finish the series, I’m finally going to watch your two-part video of you reading it !!!
23:30 also I think another thing… if you could see yourself being friends with them. I feel like that’s another thing to really know you like them
We need more videos like this!!!🩷
u are my comfort person I love u
Can I just say, I have been LIVING off of these vlog/sleepover type vids recently. Love you Steph, you're an absolute QUEENNN!!!
shes the only reason i open yt i love her sm 🤭
ok steph you gotta tell us where your pj's are from, because i am obsessed! i also watched this video while drinking a hot coco and in a cozy blanket so thank you for giving the internet a place to be cozy and hang out with you.
Loved this💕, perfect video to start the day☺️.
this video was so nice to have on as I drew because it was really giving sleepover vibes
Idk what we did to deserve these back to back but I love it here!!!
Loving the whole a new vid every couple of days era💓
This style of video was so fun and unique. Loved it
My comfort videos foreverrr💓💓
Once you said you just wanted them to like you but you really didn't like them I screamed because girl me too LOL
But also yes please to more videos like this you're literally my bff
My first virtual sleepover i loved it it felt like were talking face to face❤
GIRL everything you said about acts of service was ON POINT we’re the same
The queen has posted❤❤❤love your vids! You are so beautiful