Although I agree that being okay by being alone is good and healthy. It’s different from isolation. I had a period in time when I’d stop communication with my friends because they didnt understand me anymore. I learned to love spending time being alone, and I made efforts to make new friendships. Humans are social creatures and are meant to have some sort of connection with each other. Don’t make the same mistake I did of thinking isolating myself and being alone are the same. Because one is when you are given the choice of socializing and always turning down, and the other is having no plans on a weekend and being able to enjoy time alone.
Im a 34 year old man, going through the worst time in my life, hopefully. I just lost my home. My pets. My job. My partner of 10 years and best friend, and a baby that I had been trying to have with her for 5 years... lost in the final trimestre. Im so ready to give up. But your videos have been a godsend. Really. They are so soothing, well thought, and inspiring. Thank you. From the bottom of my heart.
@vuhias im broken. Im almost 40. Im not going to get to have a family. I work so hard. In everything I do, and I try to be the best person I can be. Its not fair how badly I've lost. Its not fair how close to homelessness I am. How I have no support system. I gave everything to my job, and my relationship for almost 15 years. Everything. Staying in the relationship when I probably should have left. Working off the clock to get the company in a better place. They both booted me out of my own life.
I want to be independent too but deep down I truely want someone that I can rely on. I kinda feel disconnected with my emotions right now so being alone might be my only choice at the moment.
nah im in a similar situation. coming after a breakup, i feel like there's a need to connect with someone on a deep level. but i can survive on my own, just need to embrace and make the most of it right ? 🤷♀️
@@ethantypeshi yes u can but just don't isolate yourself like I did. I might have isolated myself thinking it was independence. It was dark time of mine and I still trying to get back on my life.
@@namkieu24 that's a good point, that contrast between isolation and independence. ill watch out for myself, and i hope ur doing well too :) we're all on our own journeys
Not sure why, but ur voice always sound so soothing, coupled with the calm and steady music, it always feels better after watching ur video. thanks :_)
My Grandpa is 86 yrs old. My Grandpa left us 25 yrs ago. I wasn't even born that time. It's been 25 yrs since my Grandpa living without my grandma. He still go to our farm still walk around 8 km everyday. He wake up early and does his all work by his own. Once i ask him out of curiosity why didn't you die when grandma left you 😅 i was little kid back then. He smile and reply "Life doesn't stop for anyone" we have to live this fullest. He reply i have my grandchildren, my sons and one beautiful daughter I've so many reason to live life. I admire my Grandpa most in this world. I like his sincerity.
00:24 Like having a multi beam moving head ball for stage lights, u rotate it through directions of the mind/soul dance floor - conscious, unconscious: same set but you can get very different scenery
A wolf is always alone for loneliness is a wolf's only companion... is something i could imagine a wise Samurai warrior would say. So considering im not a wolf or a Samurai (wise or otherwise) loneliness sucks... kind of but im slowly getting used to it. On the plus side i look at my brother in-law who is married to my sister (he was warned) and i think... damn if that is what life is like i'm better off alone.
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I appreciate you, but please don't try to gas light me or brain wash me into believing that being abandoned, rejected, isolated and forever alone is a good thing, because it's not. You have family and friends to fall back on in your times of need or trouble times. When you're left abandoned, rejected, isolated and alone you really don't have that true someone to fall back on, when you are alone within this world of billions of people, you are just alone 💔
I think the lesson is not that being abandoned, rejected, isolated and forever alone is a good thing, but when you are in one of those situations, instead of feeling like its the end of the world, you should embrace the situation and get back on track
Although I agree that being okay by being alone is good and healthy. It’s different from isolation. I had a period in time when I’d stop communication with my friends because they didnt understand me anymore. I learned to love spending time being alone, and I made efforts to make new friendships. Humans are social creatures and are meant to have some sort of connection with each other. Don’t make the same mistake I did of thinking isolating myself and being alone are the same. Because one is when you are given the choice of socializing and always turning down, and the other is having no plans on a weekend and being able to enjoy time alone.
100%
This is exactly what I’m going through rn thx for the advice :)
Agreed :)
Im a 34 year old man, going through the worst time in my life, hopefully.
I just lost my home. My pets. My job. My partner of 10 years and best friend, and a baby that I had been trying to have with her for 5 years... lost in the final trimestre.
Im so ready to give up. But your videos have been a godsend. Really.
They are so soothing, well thought, and inspiring.
Thank you. From the bottom of my heart.
hang in there man , you got it
you got this, all of us believe in you
i know you’ll figure it all out and you’re gonna be okay 🩵 sending love and please reach out to whoever those can support you
you're so strong, keep staying strong!
@vuhias im broken. Im almost 40. Im not going to get to have a family. I work so hard. In everything I do, and I try to be the best person I can be. Its not fair how badly I've lost. Its not fair how close to homelessness I am. How I have no support system. I gave everything to my job, and my relationship for almost 15 years. Everything. Staying in the relationship when I probably should have left. Working off the clock to get the company in a better place. They both booted me out of my own life.
I spend almost every day by myself. In fact, I do almost everything by myself.
I stay alone mostly times, my friends have there own groups, but your videos give me so much confidence. Thank you
quiet version?! I liked both!
I'm learning to be by myself, but I find it very interesting.
dudeeeee i got stood up at a mall, still had a fun day learned a lot that day.
i genuinely love you so much, u and ur channel are so cozy
i really loved this video, being alone doesn't have to be always badm, it gives you a feeling of confidence and self trust
I want to be independent too but deep down I truely want someone that I can rely on. I kinda feel disconnected with my emotions right now so being alone might be my only choice at the moment.
nah im in a similar situation. coming after a breakup, i feel like there's a need to connect with someone on a deep level. but i can survive on my own, just need to embrace and make the most of it right ? 🤷♀️
@@ethantypeshi yes u can but just don't isolate yourself like I did. I might have isolated myself thinking it was independence. It was dark time of mine and I still trying to get back on my life.
@@namkieu24 that's a good point, that contrast between isolation and independence. ill watch out for myself, and i hope ur doing well too :) we're all on our own journeys
Not sure why, but ur voice always sound so soothing, coupled with the calm and steady music, it always feels better after watching ur video. thanks :_)
❤️ one of the best channels
I prefer this version ❤
Yay thank you for this version :))
her videos feel like a hug in the dark :(
thank u for ur words, i really love ur channel. :')
Thankyou for your beautifully curated words.
My Grandpa is 86 yrs old. My Grandpa left us 25 yrs ago. I wasn't even born that time. It's been 25 yrs since my Grandpa living without my grandma. He still go to our farm still walk around 8 km everyday. He wake up early and does his all work by his own. Once i ask him out of curiosity why didn't you die when grandma left you 😅 i was little kid back then. He smile and reply "Life doesn't stop for anyone" we have to live this fullest. He reply i have my grandchildren, my sons and one beautiful daughter I've so many reason to live life. I admire my Grandpa most in this world. I like his sincerity.
being alone is a good occasion for do peace with yourself and fly high
00:24 Like having a multi beam moving head ball for stage lights, u rotate it through directions of the mind/soul dance floor - conscious, unconscious: same set but you can get very different scenery
A wolf is always alone for loneliness is a wolf's only companion... is something i could imagine a wise Samurai warrior would say. So considering im not a wolf or a Samurai (wise or otherwise) loneliness sucks... kind of but im slowly getting used to it. On the plus side i look at my brother in-law who is married to my sister (he was warned) and i think... damn if that is what life is like i'm better off alone.
Relate with this sm❤
i love this channel
Hey that voice yo
Thanks for the little essay
needed this
I Love this girl so much omg. 🤍
I love being alone. I prefer my own company quite often
what are you recording on to give this lofi/noughties vibe? Your voice is so beautiful. Has that subtle raspiness.
happy new year :D
Wow
You are cute 😇💖
I'm alone but not lonely
I see you as my big sister ❤
hey! I wanted to ask how you make these captions?! i love your translations
_44 views, 4 minutes ago!_
4 is def my favorite number
what camera do youse use kristine?
I prefer this version ❤
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the other vid version felt scary ngl, ty for changing
hey again
is turning down invitations that bad? i just feel lazy, well I guess, a homebody.
i think i want to be you when u grow up
I can't tell the difference 😕
Anyone help! :c
Let’s get married
Hy
Would this mindset just be a coping mechanism or a delusion to make yourself feel more comfortable?
I appreciate you, but please don't try to gas light me or brain wash me into believing that being abandoned, rejected, isolated and forever alone is a good thing, because it's not. You have family and friends to fall back on in your times of need or trouble times. When you're left abandoned, rejected, isolated and alone you really don't have that true someone to fall back on, when you are alone within this world of billions of people, you are just alone 💔
I think the lesson is not that being abandoned, rejected, isolated and forever alone is a good thing, but when you are in one of those situations, instead of feeling like its the end of the world, you should embrace the situation and get back on track
i want you to b my gf
First
after a break up, i’m trying to like spending time with myself and reborn again 🩶 it’s like a new chapter