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  • @Djentstructer
    @Djentstructer 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +308

    The only piece of wisdom I ever needed on being alone:
    "If you are lonely when you're alone, you are in bad company."
    - Jean-Paul Sartre

    • @Clementinee
      @Clementinee 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      needed that

    • @IrrealDan
      @IrrealDan 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      good quote

    • @ZdravNaukKJV
      @ZdravNaukKJV 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. (Ephesians 5:14)
      th-cam.com/video/kKwrdGBnMiU/w-d-xo.htmlsi=qXUCzlIQaXy95dp9

    • @BrandOldSociety
      @BrandOldSociety วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      If you feel like you're lonely when you're not alone, change your social circle. :))

  • @kanserthecrab899
    @kanserthecrab899 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +192

    i come to this channel when I forget about self love. a reminder that as much as I wish to love the world, I, myself am a part of that same world.

  • @williamfire3343
    @williamfire3343 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    I'm 23 yo and am single since birth, never got in any serious relationships. It's a big + being introverted since it help me to enjoy the time alone, i almost now can't have a healthy mind without being alone at some point in the day. I hope all of you have a great new year

  • @refineme
    @refineme 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    For 6 years I lived by myself in a big 5 bedroom, 3 bath bachelor pad I bought when the housing market crashed in 2008. I was 27 and had a new car, a new truck, and renovated my house by myself. I learned a lot and was alone for almost all of it. I ate at restaurants alone at the bar, went to movie theaters alone, took road trips a few states over alone, etc. but then I got married and had kids, I cannot even use the toilet without being disrupted. I often crave for those days sometime and glad I got to experience it.

  • @isaiahhindman3024
    @isaiahhindman3024 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    “Time spent alone is still time spent with the universe”

  • @imakeadifference2011
    @imakeadifference2011 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    Being alone can be hurtful but I learned to love myself

  • @StarCollecter
    @StarCollecter 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +53

    This hit deeper than it should’ve… I pray for both your grandmothers health🙏

  • @minivdesigns
    @minivdesigns 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +70

    Our dose of peace

    • @junjh4232
      @junjh4232 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Real

  • @Waryfuls
    @Waryfuls 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    I used to be alone a lot when I was a kid, but my mom said that it never bothered me... now I understand why, it brings so much comfort once you get to know yourself better!

  • @ajwaddanwarr3409
    @ajwaddanwarr3409 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Your videos are mind boggling cause I feel like I am watching an OG TH-cam clip from the early 2000s and yet I know it just came out. Like there is something soo nostalgic about your videos, I just can't put my finger on it. I miss this kinda of videos man, people just recording themselves and not minmaxing everything in their video for views. Thank you for your hard work!

  • @cloudschocobo2565
    @cloudschocobo2565 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    im another person feeling saved by timing of this video. knowing how to be happy alone maintains our self improvement, and ultimately we will share that happiness with others! thank you, yan :D

  • @xo_ellis
    @xo_ellis 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    you helped me through hard times, i am forever grateful for you and your videos. they have helped me a lot

  • @sleepytre
    @sleepytre 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    This video came at the perfect time. I am nearing my final semester of college and this makes me feel more prideful! Your Grandma is amazing for still pursuing her passions! I recently got into producing this year after studying abroad in Japan and now this makes me want to work twice as hard!!

    • @ninaaqisya1899
      @ninaaqisya1899 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      True, i am actually not in good terms with my best friend, but i think that i want to be alone from now on cause i feel more happier. I dont need to think about others.

  • @itzjustthomass
    @itzjustthomass 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m 18 now currently, I work from 8 to 5 and when I come home, I’m usually alone cause my parents are usually somewhere all the time. My biggest dream is to be a TH-camr and I’m using all my free time to make it come true.
    With that being said, loneliness is catching up to me quite fast. But this video reminds me that the mindset shift is pretty important for looking at your life differently.
    Thank you for this, and may everyone who reads this have a blessed day and may your dreams come true as well ❤

  • @imakeadifference2011
    @imakeadifference2011 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Queen is back

  • @skyni8877
    @skyni8877 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    damn, I was just writing my journal entry on feeling alone lol. This video is a timely godsend.

  • @jaikooFPS
    @jaikooFPS 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    the divine timing is immaculate on this one

  • @grasshoopercane897
    @grasshoopercane897 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Esa expresión no se puede simular. Transmites buenos deseos y felicidad.

  • @dividesingh7248
    @dividesingh7248 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    spent 3 years like this but things are changing for me so nice

  • @doncheeto3706
    @doncheeto3706 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My main takeaway-life is about striking a balance between the two. Humans are social creatures by nature but it is also in those times of solitude where we reflect the most. Learn to appreciate the social moments as well as the quiet moments in life. We live life moment to moment, not in the past or future.

  • @gazaim
    @gazaim 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    "If you're not happy alone, you won't be happy with someone else. Happiness comes from within, not from others."

  • @davidnaive
    @davidnaive 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    impeccable timing

  • @RennyMcRennyRen
    @RennyMcRennyRen 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    queen posted omg

  • @blackkitty_42
    @blackkitty_42 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    it also nurtures the most important relationship in your life; relationship with your own self.

  • @Cherodar
    @Cherodar 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Oh nice, glad to have the Mozart version back up too!

  • @wavesrng
    @wavesrng 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The timing on this video is insane, thank you very much, really thank you.

  • @frog7445
    @frog7445 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I thank you for showing up on my recommendations 3 months ago, you helped give me a set of mind through thick and thin, you have my gratitude.

  • @notagant47
    @notagant47 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Can’t sleep as I felt lonely because I spend my time with myself today. Read book is not help but this 3 min is really helpful for me .

  • @jaysoncristobal4930
    @jaysoncristobal4930 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i went out to eat at a buffet by myself for lunch. such a calming experience. i feel like these alone times are required for everyone, just to recharge.

  • @junjh4232
    @junjh4232 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

  • @MostlyBuicks
    @MostlyBuicks 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I have been doing most of these things alone as long as I can remember.

  • @tsukki-w8n
    @tsukki-w8n 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Your videos feel like Disney princess movies, in a really good way.
    Maybe it’s the music? Maybe it’s you?
    (I don’t know how else to put how I feel into words)
    Thank you for these small sessions, I love them!!! ⭐️

  • @FujiboHeavy
    @FujiboHeavy 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love it. Self love and independence is a lifestyle/mindset. Not an easy mindset to achieve and sustain

  • @isaaaiah
    @isaaaiah 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm doing everything alone. If I am by myself, nobody could hurt me.

  • @edgardchow
    @edgardchow 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    mozart is my favorite

  • @guffmuff90
    @guffmuff90 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    thank you kind & wise one

  • @Mystic_Paths
    @Mystic_Paths 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Solitude isn’t loneliness it’s a chance to embrace yourself, nurture your inner world, and find joy in your own presence. ❤

  • @EunwooParkapt
    @EunwooParkapt 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Lots of love sis, God bless you 🫶☺️

  • @tomtang3377
    @tomtang3377 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    "We come into this world alone and we leave alone." - yan, 2024

  • @tskhai
    @tskhai 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    being alone does give you independence and gives you a chance for self development and growth!

  • @Ronko_0
    @Ronko_0 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Right when I made a plan on achieving this very thing by being more comfortable being alone, this Video is recommended to me. This only makes me want to try harder to be independent and rely on myself more.😌

  • @ogvamp
    @ogvamp 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    If you are ever alone, Im here to give you hug.

  • @arkinsons
    @arkinsons 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    ugh love the vids as always

  • @xrai5284
    @xrai5284 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thankyou so much for coming across me.
    Your videos are truly inspiring and relatable;)

  • @deverrebrown8623
    @deverrebrown8623 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Thank You 🙏🏽 💚✨Lady Yan✨💚

  • @taylorrobb13
    @taylorrobb13 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you’re amazing i’m so glad i found this channel. you’re always saying exactly what i need to hear so thank you ❤

  • @RyanScarbrough
    @RyanScarbrough 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    being alone gives you the opportunity to better understand yourself, but don't give up on seeking meaningful relationships!

  • @iori_france
    @iori_france 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i really love your channel. It even inspired to make my own!!

  • @grasshoopercane897
    @grasshoopercane897 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    And preety on clean face. The real beauty.

  • @bobmeyers186
    @bobmeyers186 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mozart piano concerto! I love his concertos too :)

  • @doesyourheartyearnforme
    @doesyourheartyearnforme 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    thanks for this. happy new year, yan !

  • @GabrieaDee
    @GabrieaDee 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omg!! I love your videos

  • @mayatamang1353
    @mayatamang1353 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How can you speak so nicely??? Your voice and each word soothe me and i wish to speak like you someday..♡♡

  • @YoshiFunkin
    @YoshiFunkin 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    When you are alone you discover who you are, that's right. But if you are a child of the Most High, not only you discover yourself, but you might discover you in Christ, if you talk to God!

  • @UnohanaMash
    @UnohanaMash 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    being alone and being lonely is not the same. "Alone" is a matter of being with or without human interactions. Which is a choice, in some cases. "Lonely" is an emotion. You can very much be lonely in a group of people. Being lonely is rarely your own choice. But it can be your choice whether you want to stay lonely or not. A change of perspective can be key

  • @CLEMENTEGONZALOCCALLALLA
    @CLEMENTEGONZALOCCALLALLA 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    that was amazing

  • @aarnav_bhagat_0111
    @aarnav_bhagat_0111 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    bro i love watching movie alone

  • @KavanOBrien
    @KavanOBrien 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Keep in mind that Angels can fly because they take themselves lightly = everything must pass so relax and chill out more .

  • @Eddiescybergame
    @Eddiescybergame 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    beautiful

  • @kiettran978
    @kiettran978 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I like more your videos when there are no music (or maybe less volume) i can absorb and understand better (i'm not a native english). I like the lofi quality filter on your voice ! Thank you for your advices it help me a lot :))

  • @prabin0176
    @prabin0176 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you❤

  • @ctrlvish
    @ctrlvish 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    the timing

  • @PeterVarga-mr8lb
    @PeterVarga-mr8lb 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are amazing

  • @theglowcloud8889
    @theglowcloud8889 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I hope your grandmothers see this video! Hi Kristine’s grandmas!

  • @elithebeyonder8381
    @elithebeyonder8381 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is a mood

  • @mikaeelsamodien8016
    @mikaeelsamodien8016 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I found the best TH-cam channel 🫵🏼❤️

  • @lovely_bean
    @lovely_bean 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your videos

  • @KYShepherd
    @KYShepherd 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's ironic to stumble across your video. I bought land in the foothills of the Appalachian mountains beside a river. I'm building a cabin, workshop and farm, all by myself. I like Independence but I don't recommend spending all of your time alone. We all benefit and flourish when we find our other half but until then I'm going to build something to be proud of.

  • @nox_ferox
    @nox_ferox 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Idk why I keep getting these on my page, but I don’t mind them. It’s a nice way to spend a few minutes.
    When you get accustomed/“good”at being alone, you become free. You’re able to do whatever you want, whenever you want.

  • @JerzyOstapko
    @JerzyOstapko 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello Sister 👋
    I sincerely pray you're not too offended my calling you that? You see I call all young ladies sisters in my Church Community. Anyway, just wanted to say how very impressed I am with your very bold attitude to life at your young age. Congratulations actually and I sincerely pray that other young people and even older persons can learn from this and take heed. Thank you so much sister, for your honesty and for sharing. May God Bless you and your whole family. George 😇🙏

  • @Tbvvhhb
    @Tbvvhhb 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I was watching your old video 1 hrago

  • @ABV-v6h
    @ABV-v6h 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great video thank you. 👍👍. ( Lower the background music a little bit so that we can hear you better. I hope you do not mind. Thank you. From the USA.

  • @kenta-o8q
    @kenta-o8q 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you came at the right time

  • @劉芳春-b6h
    @劉芳春-b6h 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Love you

  • @RiruKrypto_
    @RiruKrypto_ 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was a lonely Christmas for me. 😢

  • @heavenhouse7894
    @heavenhouse7894 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    damn youtube recommended really targeting me with this one

  • @kin6kon6
    @kin6kon6 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Be my maybe ❤

  • @Qahtanite
    @Qahtanite 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ur room seems chill

  • @syanhc
    @syanhc 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are gorgeous ❤

  • @redwavez3436
    @redwavez3436 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Well said

  • @thomascao-t8s
    @thomascao-t8s 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm gon go watch Howl's moving castle tommorow (it's Saturday) at the local movie theater

  • @aipokk.
    @aipokk. 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    hi, yan! I really love your videos :)
    I really enjoyed how you discussed independence and how it can help with being alone.
    I was wondering how you come up with ideas for your videos, or how you find topics to talk about. I've really been meaning to begin creating my own videos as well, but find it hard narrowing down topics that are meaningful to me, thank you so much.

  • @doshacat8480
    @doshacat8480 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i have already done it and its more peaceful

  • @GEL4T0
    @GEL4T0 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Girl, you need an editor. Love your motivational content!

  • @reyjusuf
    @reyjusuf 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If I don't go to my favorite restaurants alone, I would never go there because everyone I know doesn't like the restaurants I like.

  • @Souler5z
    @Souler5z 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Your grandmothers sound cool

  • @sonoroprosound2919
    @sonoroprosound2919 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've being evolving my skills like that and I'm completing 10 years the same way as Samurais was doing!
    Ever have you travel alone with no programing your routs os agenda? 💫💜..💜

  • @zayyh4294
    @zayyh4294 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Being alone is fine if it is a choice. Being alone when you want company can be painful

  • @mathewpius7403
    @mathewpius7403 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    One of my favourite thing about your videos were your soothing and calming voice. I feel the background music is kinda ruining that soft voice :(

  • @minnkhant918
    @minnkhant918 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤

  • @r0skii069
    @r0skii069 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    beautiful video and speech, i wanna ask you did you write this down or just speak out of your mind

  • @CilVine
    @CilVine 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loneliness, happens to those have not discovered the fulfilment that comes with solitude. The Buddha, Jesus, Muhammad, etc., all acquired enlightenment through solitude.

  • @Guilherme-wf4sh
    @Guilherme-wf4sh 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hiii yan!! I love the style of your videos! What app do you use to edit them?

  • @obxarms7685
    @obxarms7685 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    atta girl!

  • @ParkPondLover
    @ParkPondLover 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My whole life

  • @khalidhossain787
    @khalidhossain787 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Hi Ms. Yan . How are you ?

  • @justanothernguyen2334
    @justanothernguyen2334 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thats the average male experience tho

  • @Muhammad-Jacobs699
    @Muhammad-Jacobs699 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How curious, am I the opposite? I've lived my entire life convincing myself I'm an introvert and should be happy being alone at all times. I've discarded so many potential relationships because of that. Yet as I grow older, the thought of dying alone, having never found love and companionship sounds too scary.

  • @rohannayak49
    @rohannayak49 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thanks :D

  • @bugcatchertimothy7380
    @bugcatchertimothy7380 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    damn it's my everyday life