Mom of 15: How to Get Your Kids to Do Chores
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.ย. 2024
- Are you a busy mom who needs a little advice from a woman with experience? Well look no further and meet the woman who knows, Lyette Reback, mother of 15 on this brand new episode of Mom 15, a HooplaHa Original Series. Lyette grew up an only child. When she met her husband, David, it was love at first site and they were immediately engaged. It didn't take long for the newlyweds to decide they wanted a large family. As I'm sure you can imagine, Lyette and David have a very busy life, making sure their children are happy, productive and doing what they love. Lyette strives to teach her children the importance of family, patriotism and the ways they can make the world a better place, but creates long lasting memories for her children by helping the laugh, love and have fun!
On this episode, Lyette reveals her secrets to getting her kids to help out around the house. She has revolutionized the concept of chores into a household contribution to the greater good. Her kids not only learn the tools they need to maintain a household, but to see first hand how their work benefits the ones they care about.
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Why are people always quick to point out the bad in every video of this family. We don't live with them, let them be. of course their not perfect, and neither is anyone else on Earth for that matter. Stop judging, she is teaching her children to be productive, as far as I have seen.
So what does she actually DO, aside from assign jobs to all her kids that she should be doing herself? And you stick your stupid mug on the internet and make youtube videos, expect people to have their opinions.
Rachel Brookes, there are many chores that aren't even shown that must be done daily or weekly especially with a very large family. I taught our sons to do most of the chores in our house. They are now grown and can do almost anything in their homes. Their Daddy knows so very little about housework but loves anything outdoors. Teach your children as much as you can so they are self reliant as adults.
When you put yourself out like this its so people will judge you ( thinking she's a perfect mother) well people did judge her just not the way she wanted them to.these poor kids.education should be the focus not them doing the things the parents should do.
Rachel Brookes well put
Linda Segraves that's just sad if you can't handle being a parent then don't have kids.SIMPLE
this lady got herself a small army of housekeepers
Love this video! Your home is beautiful and it is so wonderful to see a large family working so efficiently together. I appreciate how thoughtful your videos are you can tell you all plan and practice before you present and it looks great! I also find kids who have responsibility for each other appreciate each other and work well together. Starting off young with that mindset is great and they won't have to adapt to it later in life which can be a struggle. If kids just have to clean up after themselves they are not learning to look out for one another and serve one another. Helping someone else is a gift better than buying something at a store . Sometime we will do more for strangers and guest than we are willing to do for our own families.Who better to serve than your brothers and sisters and parents!You have a lovely family. Have a great day😇
TheDanielsDiva best comment ever
I think teaching them how to clean, do laundry and cook is very important. I was thought that in the orphanage and I’m so glad I did. Even thought I hated it at that time.
No but in your case it's understandable that is how orphanage works.
I'm almost 12 and I clean my room, rotate with parents of washing dishes, I hand wash, fold, and put away, everyone's socks, and my mom's gonna teach me how to use the washer and dryer to clean my own loads of clothes. I almost always help my mom set the table because my dad refuses to, he says it's "girls work." but I live.....
I’m 14 and I have to clean my room, stack and unstack everyone’s dishes in the dishawash by myself most of time (my litttle sister only helps if you bribe her with something), everyone’s laundry wash, hang out on line, iron, fold, put away, sweep and mop the kitchen, dining room and bathroom everyday. Vaccum carpet every 2 or 3 days and wash and vaccum out both cars once a week. You have it easy
Wow.hod bless u
I have to vacuum (maybe sweep up some crumbs in other areas), wipe counters, do all my laundry and fold my clothes, help set the table, dust furniture, make my bed and clean my room (at least where everything is in its spot and off the ground) and starting this summer, I want to start a garden in my backyard which will take a lot of work daily so watering and caring for the plants will also be added to my chore list. We all have things we have to do and sometimes we don't get paid to do them, but the lesson that teaches us is that not all the time do we get paid for doing kind things for others and learning valuable things for ourselves. It's required of me so I just do it, even when I don't want to I have to
My children dont have "chores" but they do need to clean up after themselves.
Exactly, it shouldnt be a 10 year olds job to work out when her brothers need their football uniforms ffs!
We have eight boys and they are responsible for keeping their room clean, playroom clean, cleaning up what they dirty and that is all that I ask. And maybe set the table once in a while.
I agree but having a 10 year old in charge of laundry for 18 now (she has a new baby) is crazy. That is too much on a 10 year old. Plus a new baby adds a ton of laundry. Folding putting away or being responsible for a zone such as towels for 18 people sounds more reasonable for a 10 year old.
It's her ONLY job. 10-yr-olds are MUCH more capable than people think.
Tessie Dobey
Cool
Tessie Dobey I have 8 boys as well!!
Do it yourself are you that lazy
Um helllooooo. I just found my sherrro!!! I LIKE how she kept it real at the end regarding patience and a lil sweat and negotiating yourself 😂.
I always help around my house. I hear my name called 15+ times lol
I'm a kid. dat neva wurked on me. I once went 3 days without eating, because of online parenting tips. Here is a parenting tip, from a kid, get to know your kid, first. Then see what there intrests are, and PERSONALY ask what they would do something for. and tell them to be reasonable
Awesome idea! That teaches them responsibility! I left home not know how to properly wash clothes and I ruined a lot of clothing. I wish I had learned as a child!
I know someone who could use some advice from this lady. She has 6 boys and none of them do chores. The house is filthy. I think chidren who do not do chores will have no work ethic instilled in them.
Girl please, I'm 15 and I don't do chores and never have and I'm top of my class and I am currently devoloping a game, and before you say anything... yes I did click the video just to make a point to parents that us teens and the kids (I was once a little kid too) dont listen now a days to your threat, 1) all you parents give kids devices as soon as they come out the womb now, you really think they gonna care what you say? Nah they've gotten away with not doing chores so far so obviously they won't care what you say and they won't be scared of any threats made, Hell a lot of teenagers we don't do chores because sometimes we are in a bad mental state, either suffering from depression, toxic relationships, tons of school work that you can't get done without over stressing, and sometimes we just don't want to leave bed because of it all, and when you parents scream and yell at us and always point out what we do wrong, we're less likely to talk to you about ANYTHING we feel or that is going on for us especially the negatives, because a lot of us feel that if all you care about is what we mess up on you're gonna not listen and just get mad at us for feeling the way we do, or just not bother to help or even make it worst, and sometimes there are teens that have homework, practices, clubs, and chores to do to where they get barely any time to theirself to where a lot of times we are less likely to care if you take away things if we don't do chores as a lot of times we'd rather be left alone for a while, and if your kid is 16+ they are at the age they can technically leave home if they can prove they can provide what they need themselves because a lot of teens feel leaving home is the only way to leave toxic areas, what you should do is ask them nicely, try to see if you can help them with anything, make them feel safe and like they can go to you, try to not pile them up with a ton of chores, and try to understand if they do them later on at night or the next day because maybe they're going through something and really need time to their self, if you don't try to help them, and help relieve the stress and whatever else they are feeling and don't try to help them get through with whatever they are going through and help them into a better mental state, you could wake up one day to a note and they being dead, because not many can handle all the pain, and even for the happy ones who have nothing wrong, if they aren't doing their chores already then they aren't gonna start especially if they are at working age because then you could take away things and theyll just buy new ones
great woman. people try to see sense and family values. she has produced 15 responsible families.
great tips thank you motivates me to clean since i have a much smaller space and two kids
This mother is very wise.Most kids nowadays are lazy.
my son will start doing chores soon as he is sensible enough.so inguess at 18 months he will be picking up his toys and putting them away. as the years roll on my I'll add a few more things. bring his backet to the wash room, take his bedroom trash to kitchen etc. but i will not let my do everyone's laundry. that seems crazy especially thats a very big family . come on 18 outfit is a lot for one kid more over if you wait 5 days to do laundry thts 18x5=90 outfit not including sleepware n other nicnac.
Yea, we can tell they are having fun cleaning 😂😂😂
Very nice video great job fully watched keep it up thanks for sharing I am your new friend and ❤️joined 👍💯
something that always happens wen we try to come up with a plan is that they complain about who does more or who hasnt done the chore or if someone doesnt do a chore i will give it to someone else cuz i just want it done
If the kids do all the chores what do u do
giving birth to more kids
she obviously does her hair and nails, goes out with her friends and does nothing
Pops out 15 kids and then thinks the kids should do the work that she incurred. I wonder if these kids are really as happy as they say here, or were they ordered to say it?
How did you come up with that name for chores
Work yourself out of a job and into upper management LMAO!!! I can't wait my girls are 1,2 &3 👌🏽😆
Jesse Garcia
It is management. Its called managing a household. Everybody knows that an important aspect of management is delegation
you are busy very busy mom love love love your channel and how you keep it together
She make a little army for clean her house xd
Just curious if they dress alike all the time, or if that's just a special thing for the videos?
ikr. who does that.
mtnkat47 😂
Is it too early for a 9 year old girl tp start doing chores? What shoud she do or not do?
+Kim Too early?!? Are you kidding? She should have been doing chores (at least simple things) for four years now. My parents had us doing laundry as soon as we were tall enough to reach over the washer to reach the buttons.
I agree but having a 10 year old in charge of laundry for 18 now is crazy. That is too much on a 10 year old. Plus a new baby adds a ton of laundry. Folding putting away or being responsible for a zone such as towels for 18 people sounds more reasonable for a 10 year old.
Very helpful thank you for sharing
My mom is just like her
And my siblings and I have shores and I have 9 siblings
Mom of 16- Would like to see your real day to day life ........ It seems to scripted and fake. Your kids seem well behaved, but almost to well behaved. If your on Utube and putting your life out there, show the viewers the real stuff.
very true and how amazing I always wanted a large family but wasnt in the cards but I have a daycare ;)
So the kids in yourU tube is daycare kids?? Okay.....
+Shar Frederick Can they say "stepford"?
Shar Frederick Please see her video: Believe with Me Mornings:Week 3. It will give you an idea of why she is able to do this. Additionally, when you take family pictures, don't you show your best clothes & pose? These are snippets that she prepares for an audience with a short attention span. Please enjoy a well structured uploaded video.
This society just seems to dissect everyone & everything, without looking in the mirror. We need to change & remember we are all members of the human race, fallen & in need of the redemption that only comes from knowing an all loving G-d.
You don't have any videos either. Show us you too!
We use to have zones. We moved to a smaller house and now we are trying to find our grove.
I already love chores. And im an kid
is putting them all in the same colors/outfits part of it too? :P
you could just pay them. That's how it works in the real world. Incentives!
They are like the mothers little slaves! "Let's have lots of children so they can do all the work! Cook our dinner, wash our clothes and clean our house!" Talk about role reversal.
This is crazy my sons job is to do good in school not worry about making dinner or what clothes I need.btw these poor kids are like robots.
Cynthia Linn. Right! Dinner should never be on the kids minds (I mean...they can help out, by all means..., with prep etc) but not have to worry about it. Also, clothes, kids shouldn't have to worry for their parents. Yet, having chores is very important (but doesn't always work out...lol)
the game
Wow! She just blew my mind.
She looks like mommy dearest .... YIKES!
why in heck do you all dress alike for..
they're like a reality show.....
I wondered the same thing. We have eight boys and they never dress alike.
Most likely so that if they go out in public they can regonize their children easier
Audra Hollis my sister and dressed alike until 5th grade 3rd for her
When Kemper gets mad do u call it a Kemper tantrum
you're an amazing woman, good on you! I hate to visit houses and not even being able to to sit down because of the mess present, this mums blame their houses filled with rubbish because they have kids.. kids need to learn habits!
Awesomee!!
I have 4 children..2 girls and 2 boys. They fight all the darn time and always try to scurt from their chores....#witsend
1) Try the penny jar. Each of the children get a small jar. Every day, put a certain amount of coin money in it. (50 pennies for example) Tell them you are going to keep track all day of how well they obey. Explain you will take out a penny (or whatever coin you use) at the end of the day for each and every infraction - fighting, disobeying, failure to complete chores, talking back, refusing to do X as instructed. At the end of the day, read from your list, take the appropriate number of coins, and give the rest to the child. Only take out more than one penny per infraction for major serious things and decide that before hand. Begin EACH day new with a new jar and full number of coins. Apparently, this is magical in terms of encouraging kids to end their wild child ways.
2) Each week, take each child by themselves with you for an hour. (If you can). Once each child starts getting an hour alone with you at least once a week, you'll be amazed at the difference. Something as simple as a walk down the street where you chat and expect nothing from them is crazy effective after a period of time.
3) Take away ALL ELECTRONICS AND/OR TV time. The ONLY way to earn it back is to complete assigned chores. IN NO OTHER WAY can they earn this - not by 'being good' - not by not fighting, not by eating their veggies, not by doing something they choose in the house. ONLY BY COMPLETING THEIR ASSIGNED CHORE ON TIME can they earn electronic/tv time.
\Good Luck. I also had 2 boys and 2 girls.
Kemper is a cute na!e
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Still can’t figure out if this is for real or a joke. Sweat equity makes it sound worse than chores though!!! I’m all for kids helping but what does the mother do?!
Nothing but boss the kids around.
So what does the mom do 🤔
A Disgrace
Obviously shes doing SOMETHING right, for everyone to be happily workimg together and doing their chores. She doing her job, its called training her children. Its management for sure. Managing a household
wauw
no me gusta
You deserve more subscribers, but that will come with more of the real footage such as shaytards
Mashallah 🌻🌻🌻🌻👍👍
Y uno que tiene prueba de esta wea
Yes, very fake.
That is a job of a parent and/or a maid. Let kids be kids.
yiyi izi
wow...did you birth all of the kids??
yeah!!! kids for slave labor!!! kids should be kids, not born to do you're laundry at 10 years old!! I'm a mother, and let my kid be a kid!!😑😏
I guess it depends on what you think "being a kid" IS. If more parents took up the idea that childhood is the time that kids learn to be good adults whilst being surrounded by the safety of their family and not an unending recess, we'd be a better society.
I think it's best to raise a child who knows they are not the center of the universe. A child that has a purpose and feels needed - that their contribution is necessary and appreciated for their family - will grow up to make wiser decisions and choices in life because they won't be spending years and years all traumatized trying to figure out why society at large doesn't think they're the be all and end all. PLUS they will already know how to take care of themselves (and think of others). How is that a bad thing?
Goodluck raising a big baby! I've seen this over and over on different families; friends, relatives, acquaintances. People who didn't teach their kids responsibility at a young age still depends on their parents for everything as adults...sort of a 30yr old living in their parent's basement and can't seem to stay employed!
Lark Bird what a perfect reply. 100 percent agree with you
Kids just allowed to be kids end up at 16 having no idea why shes depressed and suicidal. Coddled childhood doesn't equate happy childhood. Kids need to know they're more than just ornaments
Kids can learn responsibility and still be kids. No wonder so many children grow to lack basic skills.
so bad
Video ql me cagaste el nem :c
Avere 15 figli per farli lavorare da piccoli....poverini👎👎👎👎
What there not slaves there Children OMG ALL THE MEAL ALL THE LAUNDRY WHAT DOES MOM DO OH I FORGOT NOTHING
Haha fake
Cringe😬
how long does it take to COAT your face with that makeup?