FINALLY OPENING UP ABOUT MY POSTPARTUM EXPERIENCE

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  • I finally decided to open up about my postpartum experience. It was definitely a lot harder than I expected. And included a roller coaster of emotions.
    Thank you so much for watching:)
    -Trace and Lydia🫶🏼
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  • @JolovesDecor
    @JolovesDecor 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +555

    There’s a block button. Use it. This is the enemy attacking you. Don’t let anyone tear you down. You’re a wonderful mother, and a Christian. Gods got you. You’re loved, respected, prayed for, and supported . ❤ for any child to be as blessed as yours is that. Blessed. Unfortunately, there are very evil people out there. Just know Jesus has you.

    • @48grandmachocolate
      @48grandmachocolate 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

      That's right it's the enemy the thief cometh not but to steal, and to kill and to destroy Jesus said but I have come that they might have life and have it more abundantly

    • @48grandmachocolate
      @48grandmachocolate 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      You are a great mom and dad ryker is doing great and he is handsome smart sw

    • @sandybarth1
      @sandybarth1 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

      Too many people hide behind the anonymity of the internet. They say things in writing they wouldn't dare to say to your face. They are the ones with problems, not you!
      Don't let people that don't know you bring you down.
      ❤ You are loved by your husband and family and your precious little boy.❤
      Anyone else and their snotty opinions can go pound sand!

    • @veelux76
      @veelux76 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      I couldn’t have said it better

    • @michellecarter5456
      @michellecarter5456 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      You can only block so many people though. And you have to go to there message to block them and see them. Sometimes just deleting and separating your self is the best.
      Lydia your an amazing mom! Everything is about learning don’t stress it! ❤❤❤

  • @Adri-oj3yt
    @Adri-oj3yt 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +206

    I cannot believe people could be so rude and obnoxious. They should be ashamed of themselves. Stop hurting this beautiful couple and family.

    • @katefrench7341
      @katefrench7341 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      It says more about that person than it does about Trace and Lydia. Just a nasty unhappy person in my opinion..that just wanted to hurt someone. Trace and Lydia has us here on YT they have to know that we love them and support them here.

    • @susanmine
      @susanmine 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@katefrench7341oh wonderful for you how you want to fit in the mold of her perfect family. She thinks she is so much better than everybody else. Perfect life. I can't stand stuck up people like her. Christian, my ass. Everyone wants to parade around her and have her perfect life. Just shut up., lydia

  • @user-sb2ez9zc8t
    @user-sb2ez9zc8t 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +138

    For every hater, there are probably 10,000 of us who love you. So sorry you had to go through all of that. So thankful for your families for the support they give you. You are blessed. ❤

  • @melinda123ism
    @melinda123ism 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +132

    Trace & Lydia, you are WONDERFUL parents!!!! I'm a retired family therapist and I've followed you from day #1. Recall that you are engaged in a spiritual battle foremost! You represent everything that Satan hates. Don't let him take you down emotionally, physically, or mentally. His time is short and he's raging war on family right now.
    Sending YOU lots of LOVE, SUPPORT, and ENCOURAGEMENT from Alabama!!!

    • @connecttotech1265
      @connecttotech1265 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      You nailed it! Wonderful reply to support an amazing young family!

    • @jenniferharper1875
      @jenniferharper1875 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It's true that people that follow Jesus are often treated unfairly. But yes Jesus is the way and will help all of us! AMEN! :)

    • @noorbohamad5796
      @noorbohamad5796 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jenniferharper1875nobody should be treated unfairly

  • @patriciastarkey4951
    @patriciastarkey4951 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +157

    Lydia and Trace I am a pediatric RN and you are awesome parents!!!

    • @jessicavanness2934
      @jessicavanness2934 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      You would know if Lydia is doing things wrong.

    • @NancyParish
      @NancyParish 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lydia, I’m a child development specialist and educator. You are both doing a super job, and did from the beginning. It’s sad that a person who didn’t take the time to investigate and find out truth before opening her mouth did that to your family, and shame on all her minions who also failed to do their homework before attacking new parents. It sounds very much like an attention seeking. SMH

  • @jodifoster1973
    @jodifoster1973 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +203

    There are so many evil people out there that love nothing more than to hurt us. Don't listen to the noise cus that's all it is. You're a great mother and that's all that's important.

  • @phillisgodwin84
    @phillisgodwin84 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +113

    Anyone that sees Lydia with him, knows she is a wonderful, loving mom. ❤️

    • @DawnWalker-yg6ji
      @DawnWalker-yg6ji 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Absolutely the Truth!!! 😊❤😊 🙏

    • @user-nb8id7xc5y
      @user-nb8id7xc5y 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      AMEN!

  • @bethleblanc3775
    @bethleblanc3775 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +62

    Shame on them. A new mother needs all the support and encouragement you can get. You’re a great mother.

  • @karenseay2225
    @karenseay2225 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +175

    Please don't listen to the haters. Anyone who would say ugly hurtful things to someone they don't even know and only see a small snippet of your life has no business telling you ANYTHING! There is not a thing wrong with anything you've said or done. You just keep God first and do what you need to do. Love and prayers going up for y'all!
    Oh my goodness.....he's still the spitting image of Gil Bates!

    • @suefriesen1161
      @suefriesen1161 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      I’m so sorry you and Trace had to go through all of this,both of you love the Lord,you are great parents to a cute healthy boy,best wishes to all of you,

    • @user-el9lp7cw1v
      @user-el9lp7cw1v 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Trace and Lydia you are wonderful parents I absolutely love your videos of you all and all of your family. Ryker is getting so big and he does look like papa Gill I said that from day one, also it is so sweet how your visiting your grandparents mama Jane and papa their so sweet and you guys are the best. Most importantly I’m sorry that all that happened just be mindful some people are just hateful and so judgemental just enjoy your family, love you all 🥰

  • @alikatt
    @alikatt 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +137

    Trace and Lydia, I am so disgusted by the behavior of that creator. What she did to you was criminal! I hope you're doing better.

    • @dogmom7712
      @dogmom7712 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Which creator said all of this?

    • @alikatt
      @alikatt 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dogmom7712 That would be Without a Crystal Ball. She's tame on TH-cam. Her Facebook and Instagram are nasty and she has a habit of writing very nasty, defamatory statements and deleting them hours later as though nothing happened.

    • @Lambchop7
      @Lambchop7 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Katie Joy Paulson, Without a Crystal Ball. There is a reason she is currently in her 6th (maybe 7th) defamation lawsuit. The most problematic, vile, piece of garbage TH-camr.

    • @jenniferrice8137
      @jenniferrice8137 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      Probably the crystal ball crazy lady

    • @anniefenter8697
      @anniefenter8697 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Wow, had no idea this was happening. I have been enjoying seeing Ryker grow up, and he is beautiful and so sweet.❤❤

  • @lyndacrossman4101
    @lyndacrossman4101 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    HAVING BEEN A CHILD PROTECTED INVESTIGATOR...YOU HAVE NO WORRIES...THE CHILD HAS A SAFE HOME, LOTS OF LOVE, CLEAN AND WELL FED. BEEN A NURSE FOR OVER 30 YRS...NO WORRIES!! HUGS LYDIA!!

    • @TinasCrazyLife
      @TinasCrazyLife 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The girl who does report this needs to be investigated for pretty much abandoning her special needs child to bash people online

  • @tami162
    @tami162 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +100

    I’m sorry without a crystal ball did that to you. She’s an awful person and has unfortunately done this to many others. The best things you can do with someone like her is push back and send a cease and desist. Ignoring her doesn’t work. You guys are doing a great job!!

    • @bethannnelson5375
      @bethannnelson5375 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

      I am so sorry that WOCB did that you! She has hurt so many wonderful families and I have heard she is a non believer so obviously Satan is in control of her and so many of her followers! You and Trace are wonderful parents and we all know the truth! Don’t let her steal your joy!

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      I do not watch her videos and I feel sorry for her because clearly she doesn’t know God and doesn’t have a personal relationship with Him! It is so sad that this is the only way she can make a living by gossiping and spreading lies about other peoples real life issues. Clearly, she needs Jesus! How awful for her children to know that this is how their mother makes a living! It’s really sad and I pray that she gets the counseling that she SO desperately needs!

    • @Blinda41
      @Blinda41 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I figured it was KJ. That girl has rabbit hate for any thing IBLP or anybody that might remotely be related to it and that's how she makes her money I figured that long ago she is she just doesn't even see the truth if it's in her face and the ridiculous part is she's had child services called on her she knows what it's like yet she is the ringleader of hate

    • @cynthiajames-brown4510
      @cynthiajames-brown4510 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Love and prayers from Soddy-Daisy, TN . It's terrible that you've been treated so badly . You're wonderful parents . NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOU SHALL PROSPER .

    • @gailangermeyer4786
      @gailangermeyer4786 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      I stopped watching WOCB along time ago,

  • @marianne362
    @marianne362 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +122

    Lydia, you are a great Mom and Trace is a great Dad! It shows in your beautiful, happy, healthy baby!

  • @alinafrankowski4371
    @alinafrankowski4371 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +85

    Don’t listen to stupid people❤❤

    • @HLuna-qe5ts
      @HLuna-qe5ts 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      I totally agree. When someone is talking about bad things about you, more blessings will come to you and your family🙏❤️

  • @allie8812
    @allie8812 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    Lydia you are an incredible mother don't let anyone tell you different... Ryker is the happiest baby ever... Trace you are an incredible Husband And Father.

  • @jangrady1061
    @jangrady1061 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    Have you ever noticed how brave people are behind a computer?! Those people would NEVER say awful things to your face. You are both doing great. Love to you all. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @sarahludos7970
      @sarahludos7970 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I so agree with you, I say the same thing! I can’t imagine how unhappy they are.

    • @M_momlifestyle
      @M_momlifestyle 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      If it’s the creator I’m thinking of she would. And she’s ruining so many people’s lives!! I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Especially at such a stressful time with everything else. 😔

    • @goose4397
      @goose4397 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@@M_momlifestyleif we r both thinking of the same creator, there's no way she'd say it to their faces. She's terrified of being confronted in person bc of her actions online. She doesn't even leave her house. She has gone nowhere in the last 4yrs, except to the liquor store & to get botox injected into her forehead boil 😂her karma is coming she's so evil & she's gonna reap what she has sewn

    • @M_momlifestyle
      @M_momlifestyle 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @goose4397 Actually, I’m sure you’re right. And keeps saying “I’m not going to a faceless channel, or just a voiceover.” When in fact, that’s exactly what she’s done. I can’t watch anymore lol

    • @LaraCroftEyes1
      @LaraCroftEyes1 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You omitted to mention that she would film it, as she enjoys being the center of attention.

  • @pamelacoffos6288
    @pamelacoffos6288 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

    All babies loose weight after they are born. You two are great parents .Ryker is blessed to have you two as parents.

  • @kde2610
    @kde2610 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +85

    Satan is controlling a lot of people!! All they do is spew evil!! Let's be real ... honestly, critism does hurt. We just need to remember where those lies are arising. Both of you are wonderful!! You're such a very loving Mommy whose love for her little one exudes from every part of you!! May God bless your entire sweet family!! ❤

  • @dianabeauchesne6121
    @dianabeauchesne6121 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    It’s pathetic that people used you for their own social media gains. You guys are great parents and we all can see it. Block the negative and focus on the positive people who love watching your family. Sending you a big virtual hug. ❤

  • @MegaCj65
    @MegaCj65 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    This broke my heart. Anyone can tell you to ignore the hate, but we are all human, and with it coming from every angle, it becomes impossible. I'm proud of you for rising above it. Keep rising above it and continue to speak your truth. That in itself will be healing for you. Sending you all the best wishes, Lydia! ❣

  • @cindylaffoon607
    @cindylaffoon607 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +84

    Honey don't let anyone still your joy. Your doing a wonderful job! Keep smiling!!

  • @melindercaudell2682
    @melindercaudell2682 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +57

    I had no idea you were going through this. People are so cruel. I am so sorry you went through this. You are amazing parents.

  • @robinburke4133
    @robinburke4133 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    And also, I admire the Bates family for their love and support of each other. That’s what family is all about. And I’m sure Lydia that your family is the same way. They seem very sweet.

  • @dsf114
    @dsf114 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    My most useful saying is, "What other people think of me is none of my business." It's just an opinion and everybody has one. It speaks more about THEM than about you. When I took that onboard, I no longer cared what other people said about me, because they did not reflect who I am, only who they are. They are cowards who would not say to your face what they type online. You're good people, great parents, and it shows!

  • @sdunger5901
    @sdunger5901 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    I can't believe how rude people were. I am so sorry you had to go through that.

  • @amandahaynes764
    @amandahaynes764 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    You are a wonderful mom. Anyone with eyes to see can see that. It's a blessing that you have so much family to help with the more difficult aspects of parenthood. Don't listen to the hateful people.

  • @carrielynn1978
    @carrielynn1978 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    Oh Lydia!!! Girl, no one is a perfect parent and God does not send an instruction manual for these little blessings! Everything is trial and error and life is messy. In the end,though, kids are such a joy and a true blessing. Don't listen to the haters! You and Trace are doing amazing and little Ryker is so cute!

  • @kellyg3749
    @kellyg3749 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Personally I don’t think it mattered how you worded it. Some horrible person reads a few sentences and then thinks they know your whole life. This person had zero knowledge about you and your family’s life but felt qualified to give opinions. That not only makes me angry it also makes me very sad. Sometimes people can be so ignorant and ugly. God was and always is on your side, and He is always there to help us navigate through the hard times. You have a beautiful heart and a beautiful family. I honestly feel that there are some people who are broken somewhere inside so they want others to feel the same as them. Please stay happy,healthy and safe and know that you are loved. Much love and prayers from Colorado Springs, Colorado ❤😊

  • @user-rx7yj2hb6o
    @user-rx7yj2hb6o 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    This is so heartbreaking to hear what you have had to endure from such evil people! You both are such loving parents who are guided by God's love ! Riker is blessed to have you for parents!

  • @KatzNDkradle
    @KatzNDkradle 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

    Please dont listen to the haters. You and Trace are both phenomenal parents. Looking beautiful as well. May God our heavenly Father continue to bless you and your family! 🌹 🙏❤️

  • @mymakersdaughter6041
    @mymakersdaughter6041 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Oh beloved Lydia! This video brought me to tears! 😢 I don’t like social media! But please hear this and hear it clearly, as believers we know that we live in a very broken sinful world. People are hurting immensely, and they use the keyboard to express their feelings because they would never say these things to our face! They don’t have the hope of salvation that we have! It is so hard to be a woman and we are harder on ourselves than anyone else. The pressure to be a perfect mother, perfect wife, to be healthy, to be fit, to do everything because the world has told us we can have it all which is a lie from the adversary! We need to straighten each other 👑 when they’re falling down! We need to encourage and edify and applaud each other! A lot of times when I’m in the store and I see a mama in the store struggling; I say to her mama; you’re doing a great job! And every single time I say that she says thank you so much you have no idea what that means to me! Lydia, all those hateful comments that you were getting are from the enemy! You are a fantastic mother! Trace and you need to raise your baby the way you feel is best! I signed the petition for you and your families deportation and I will continue to support your family in anyway I can! The Bible tells us to pray for our enemies! They’re hurting and they have no hope, so sisters and brothers; let’s be bold and courageous and share the good news! Much love to you, Lydia and Trace!❤️

    • @cindyalmond2508
      @cindyalmond2508 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I agree! Satan is trying to steal your joy. You’re fantastic parents with great family support on both sides. God bless you and keep serving him. Ryker is thriving! Love to you all!😊

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@cindyalmond2508 🤗

  • @peislandgirl3770
    @peislandgirl3770 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    God love you, Lydia! You had enough going on with the baby, parents and these “Keyboard Warriors” come after you! How sad of a human these people must be. Thank you for not letting them ruin your YT channel! Love from 🇨🇦

  • @tinaseidel5778
    @tinaseidel5778 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    THAT IS CRAZY I have watch all your videos and NEVER thought any of that in fact I thought you were such a good mom, beautiful, and so sweet. That is so sad you went through that.

  • @lyndabyrne3023
    @lyndabyrne3023 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    Trace and Lydia, as a mom of four, your doing a great job.
    Haters don't like to see others happy and content .
    Well done , love from Lynda in Ireland 🇮🇪.

  • @jennifercody6936
    @jennifercody6936 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    You went through complete abuse by these folks. You both are beautiful people and the world needs more parents like you. ❤ and our world needs more families like yours❤

  • @barbaramiller3205
    @barbaramiller3205 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    This is exactly why I don’t share much of anything about my kids on social media. People are cruel.
    You are the best parent for your kids.

  • @AngelBluff
    @AngelBluff 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Guys some ppl just have mean hearts. Most of the time that kind of stuff is out of pure jealously. Please just block them the first time they says something mean. You do not need to deal with that kind of BS. That is unbelievable that someone would go to that length. Really makes me mad! You are a wonderful mother. These ppl saying other wise don't know you. PLEASE block them! Right now there is a small but loud group of ppl that are anti-Christian. They are trying to hurt you on purpose. Don't let the devil in! You two are wonderful parents and wonderful role models for young ppl

    • @cjb2749
      @cjb2749 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      There is no blocking Woacb.. she has many sock accounts and she isn't above making new ones daily in order to sneak in somewhere that she isn't wanted. She doesn't do well with even the slightest form of rejection, and she obsesses over getting revenge, so while it IS best to avoid her at all costs, it's also very difficult

    • @AngelBluff
      @AngelBluff 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@cjb2749 ahhh I had no ideal they were talking about without a crystal ball!! That explains it. I know who she is well. She is full of herself trying to make content by lying on people. I couldnt figure out who in the world would be so mean knowing now it is WOACB explains it all. She certainly isnt one who should be talking about people not taking care of their kids. She has had many encounters with DHS over her son. THANK YOU @cjb2749 Now knowing it was her makes sense WOACB hates Christians I should of known it was her

  • @turner23kc
    @turner23kc 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I am so sorry for you guys! I remember seeing this back then and I remember who started the accusation and it is disgusting. People like that should not be allowed to have a platform to make money off of lies! You don’t have to take on the blame this person would have found anything to accuse you of…it is what they do. It is so easy to see how wonderful you guys are as parents. Keep up the good work!

  • @TeressaJ1960
    @TeressaJ1960 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I can't believe anyone could say anything negative about either of you! All they have to do is watch you with him to see the enormous love and care you two put into him. He obviously adores his parents, too. I'm so sorry you had to experience that and I hope you will allow the hundreds of positive comments here to sooth your stress. There are more of us who love you than there are of those who don't. God bless you all.

  • @anarhlia
    @anarhlia 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Lydia it’s absolutely massive what you went through, pregnancy with a little baby that you thought may have had restricted growth, plus your families deportation, and all of it looming over head while you just want to celebrate a little life.
    People are so mean, you are amazing.

  • @sunshinevandever4828
    @sunshinevandever4828 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    I'm so sorry you had to experience all that garbage! You can tell by looking at Ryker that he is well cared for by his parents!

  • @lianet777
    @lianet777 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Man.. i had NO idea all this stuff happened... im very sorry that you guys went through all of that. God bless you both and the baby❤

  • @cindymiller9548
    @cindymiller9548 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I have never in my 62 years responded to a video. But I’m appalled and so sorry you went through that. You are wonderful parents and may God continue to bless you both.

  • @rucker1977
    @rucker1977 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    This person loves drama! You guys are doing an amazing job!

  • @joymccullar1612
    @joymccullar1612 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Lydia. You’re a beautiful person and excellent mother. Naysayers are always there. I’m sorry you had to go through all of that.

  • @Happywatcher962
    @Happywatcher962 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Lydia I'm so sorry you had such a hard time. Your next time will be better.

  • @deborahenos3127
    @deborahenos3127 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    You're both wonderful. My mom and dad stayed with my grandma the first week of my life cuts my mom was afraid to take care of me by herself. That's what family is for.

    • @cjb2749
      @cjb2749 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I stayed with my parents for the first 3weeks of my daughter's life, just for reassurance and to have backup while I was learning how to be a mother.. it's really not an uncommon thing to do, at all

  • @donnagarretson3621
    @donnagarretson3621 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    You are great parents and that was evident from the get-go. Mean people have too much time on their hands; remember the Devil is a liar and the father of it, so the Devil always knows where to hit below the belt especially when you are at a weak place in body and emotions. God bless you all and keep up the great parenting. This little guy is growing up surrounded by love which is genuine. I praise the Lord for godly and loving people like yourselves.

  • @omirasantillanes5150
    @omirasantillanes5150 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Saturday evening and night with baby Ryker and he is so cute and adorable and he is 7 months old and he is getting so big already.

  • @BakersAcresFarm
    @BakersAcresFarm 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I’m so sorry you were treated in such a horrible way. You are doing great!! Keep up the good work and 🙏🏼God blesses you all with a rainbow baby soon😘

  • @helenbell1988
    @helenbell1988 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    She is a disgrace and I was horrified when I heard that nonsense she spread.,. She is very cruel .. I hope you know now that your wonderful parents and the only parents Ryker wants or needs. !!.,, she has no right to speak on things she knows nothing about and cause any upset or anxiety for a beautiful young first time mum post partum when your emotions are up in the air and you feel criticism like that all the more . Irresponsible. You’re part of a very loving supportive family .. please never let internet trolls spoil your joy ❤

    • @user-rz5hv1yl9k
      @user-rz5hv1yl9k 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Comments like these are getting deleted! It’s just another pass woacb will get so she can continue to do what she does No accountability

    • @helenbell1988
      @helenbell1988 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I just amended it … thank you

    • @Melli6000
      @Melli6000 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The most evil part about all of this is WOACB targets the religious sector of youtube because she knows they will not sue! She has stated it many times that it is against their religion smdh! Biggest bully around! ​@@user-rz5hv1yl9k

  • @MitMag-id1ij
    @MitMag-id1ij 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Lydia, just heard the intro on your video. People are jealous of you. You are young, beautiful, talented, and more importantly a believer in Jesus. The devil hates those of who walk with Christ! You are an incredibly loving, joyful mom! Ryker is blessed to have you and Trace for parents! God bless you!

  • @bethtaig
    @bethtaig 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I’m so very sorry you had to go through that. You are so fortunate to have the loving support you had. I helped my daughter. You did do everything right. There are some very nasty mean spirited people in this world. Every baby loses weight. Huge hugs 🤗

  • @sherrylee1072
    @sherrylee1072 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    I’m sooooo sorry y’all had to go through that! What is wrong with people! Love y’all

  • @janetflorine2669
    @janetflorine2669 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Usually, when people put other people down, they're jealous of them. You're a wonderful mom. God loves you, all your family loves you. We love you. 🥰 The haters are going to hate, especially when they're jealous.
    Don't listen to them!!!

  • @annielyst
    @annielyst 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    That is soooo awful Lydia! I'm very sorry to hear how bad it was. I know who that influencer is - she needs to worry about how she's raising her own kid and mind her own business. I was shocked when I heard what she was saying about you - I didn't know she said for people to call CPS. I am glad you had so much support. You are a terrific mom - he is so alert. I think he's going to be super smart.

  • @susanpunako8590
    @susanpunako8590 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Aww. So sorry you had to deal with such bad grief from negative people who felt it was necessary to be so ignorant to say such horrible things. A new parent(s) are learning how to navigate everything! It’s. Learning experience, your world is essentially turned upside down for a bit and that’s bad enough. I sure hope those picture perfect people got the feeling that they wanted from them harassing y’all. When people talk bad like that I was always told it’s them that has problems and we are supposed to pray for them. That sounds so weird but it’s true. Thanks for sharing your experience. Ryker sure looks very handsome and he likes to babble on !!

  • @mountaingirl8124
    @mountaingirl8124 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    You guys are AMAZING parents and come from AMAZING parents. The Enemy is on the prowl for those doing God’s will. As believers, we are targets. Praying for your sweet family, God bless! (Love, from another TN Bates family!)

  • @scrapper900
    @scrapper900 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I can’t imagine having my first baby literally on blast! People can be so awful. My mother gave me some very sound advice after I gave birth. I asked her how do I do it. How can I do all the things, all the time. I’m so tired! She said you do “whatever works”! I’m so sorry you were robbed of this experience that should have been peaceful. Motherhood is HARD!!! If you need extra hands…take advantage of the love! You are doing perfect momma! Don’t let anyone tell you different! ❤

  • @Melli6000
    @Melli6000 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Fortunately, the gossip tabloid channel that encouraged the hate and wished for more hate to pile on, has moved on to other victims to try and tear down. It’s honestly very sad.
    I can tell baby is so loved and nurtured. All of that babbling comes from attention, love and two amazing parents doing their very best to raise him❤❤❤.

  • @lealuby884
    @lealuby884 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Bless your hearts. I truly do not understand people acting like that. Y'all are doing a great job with Ryker!

  • @Happywatcher962
    @Happywatcher962 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    There is only One who can/will judge us. The rest who try are just blowing words in the wind. You guys are great parents and Ryker is doing good and God knows when will be the best time to Bless you with a brother/sister for him.

  • @suestephan3255
    @suestephan3255 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Ahh Trace & Lydia thank the Lord for Jesus. I am just stunned that that blew up like that. So untrue. We were all watching the same thing seeing what wonderful parents you are. Trace you were a big blessing to Lydia in how you took control of things and was a super wonderful husband & father. Lydia we literally saw & see such a loving doting mother. Again thankful for Jesus!!!! Our Rock

  • @missbarbarajean
    @missbarbarajean 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    This infuriates me! I wish I had known and could have least encouraged you. You did/are doing an excellent job! Ryker is such a beautiful boy and you both obviously love him very much. I'm so sorry you went through that. I am a great grandmother (I can't believe how fast that happened) and when my first baby was born we were nowhere near family, but my mother and grandmother drove hundreds of miles to come help me for awhile. I was only 18 and my husband was in the Army in Washington DC. I didn't even have friends. I am just so thankful you share your beautiful life with us. I am humbled and encouraged by such wonderful young parents. God bless you and prayers that you will have your rainbow baby very soon!

  • @katiemckenna1521
    @katiemckenna1521 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Oh y’all. I’m so sorry for the difficulty you have faced in such a vulnerable time in your lives. Wish I could have given you a hug! From one former EP mama to another, you are a ROCKSTAR. Sending all kinds of love your way. ❤️

  • @jenniferanngoebel875
    @jenniferanngoebel875 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I’m a mom of six and there are so many haters out there and people who think they know better than anyone else , or their way is the only way ! My advice to new moms is always to enjoy and embrace all those precious newborn moments even though they are usually very challenging, ask questions from people who you trust and admire the way the have raised there babies but ultimately I always say trust your motherly instincts because you are really the only one who knows what’s best for your child specific needs and grant your self grace , no matter how many children you have you are always learning new things and new ways to parent. You guys are amazing!l You love for each other and your baby is so evident! I have also had 2 miscarriages they are so hard but you are not alone. I hope you are blessed with a rainbow baby when end you are ready ❤

  • @salliecinnamon
    @salliecinnamon 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I’m sorry that happened to you. Absolutely insane. Many new parents hire baby nurses to stay with them to assist with care for the baby, so if one is fortunate to have family to help - that’s awesome! No need to apologize for how you previously worded anything in those early newborn days - you owe us no explanation. Take care, thank you for sharing your family with us! ❤

  • @Motherhood2Menopause
    @Motherhood2Menopause 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Lydia you ARE a wonderful MOMMY!!!! Do not listen to those “keyboard warriors”/aka trolls who would never say to you in person what they say to you in this forum .we absolutely love you guys so much . I love how good Maui is with Ryker SOO sweet and gentle. Stay strong! You will be gifted your rainbow baby in the Lords perfect time . Don’t ever let your shining light dim!

  • @papaapple93
    @papaapple93 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Thank you sharing your post partum experience it was touching listening to you express what you had gone through. You and Trace are truly terrific parents to your son and you’ll continue to be wonderful parents as Ryker grows. I love watching your TH-cam channel videos, looking forward to the next video I can see how much time and attention you put into each one and it is always appreciated

  • @user-ro5ot1px6w
    @user-ro5ot1px6w 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Ryker is a beautiful healthy happy baby and you are both loving wonderful parents!!! After 2 weeks of breast-feeding the pain will leave. ❤

  • @amandamendoza4181
    @amandamendoza4181 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so sorry you had to go through this! Sending love!💗

  • @melissastark3003
    @melissastark3003 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So so sorry you had to go through that! You’re doing a GREAT job!

  • @krispettit6355
    @krispettit6355 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    So sorry you had to deal with that kind of thing as a new mother!! Some people are just evil & have nothing better to do with their time than to hurt others being their lives are so miserable!! Should something like that ever happen again, just know that God has your back, know that you’re a good person & that whoever is spreading hate is a sad & desperate fool trying to cause pain for their own twisted satisfaction! Don’t allow them into your world! Don’t let them win!! You & Trace are beautiful Christians living your lives with his best interests at heart! Keep doin what your doin 👍🙏🏻🫵🙏🏻💪🙏🏻🫶🙏🏻

  • @joyzee1967
    @joyzee1967 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    So many bad people out there. You’re doing fabulous! God bless you and your little family.

  • @sissat4880
    @sissat4880 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so, so sorry that you went through all that! That makes me so sad. Sending lots and lots of love ❤

  • @lindahickman8639
    @lindahickman8639 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You both are amazing parents and love watching your channel!!!!

  • @sherrylee1072
    @sherrylee1072 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    And I’m glad I didn’t know anything about all this, except I would have prayed for y’all

    • @LisaGoehringer
      @LisaGoehringer 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Is that Ryker crying so long?

    • @sherrylee1072
      @sherrylee1072 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@LisaGoehringer I can hear him playing and making noise in the background, don’t sound like crying and look at his face, he doesn’t look to be crying.

  • @carlalewis6080
    @carlalewis6080 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Don’t listen to all the negativity. You all are amazing parents and love you for sharing your videos.

  • @susanboyd3260
    @susanboyd3260 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    i am a RN nurse, just rinse the pump parts and stick in frig when busy, the cold slows bacteria growth, please ignore the haters. You are doing a great job, you both are wonderful parents.

  • @camillemitchell301
    @camillemitchell301 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so sorry that happened to you guys! Praying for yall. I LOVE my hands-free pump as well!

  • @momsquared-lh4rm
    @momsquared-lh4rm 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Y'ALL ARE THE MOST AMAZING PARENTS AND IT IS TOTALLY CLEAR HOW WELL YOU CARE FOR RYKER. DO NOT LISTEN TO THE HATERS AND BLOCK THEM IF YOU CAN. I AM SO ANGRY THAT THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU. YOU ARE SO SWEET AND LOVING!

  • @MonicaLopez-js4zn
    @MonicaLopez-js4zn 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Lydia so sorry that happened to you, you seem like the most sweetest, kindhearted person. Some people will say that it comes with putting your life out there, but many fail to realize that the only one that should judge us is God!

  • @user-ll8uc5oe5p
    @user-ll8uc5oe5p 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry for y’all you had gone through. You’re a beautiful person and yall are wonderful parents ❤

  • @Twins.mom04
    @Twins.mom04 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sending love to you, Lydia & Trace! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @LisaR2392
    @LisaR2392 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I had mine before social media…. I think people don’t realize anymore that you don’t owe anyone a play by play of your daily life. I can’t imagine posting everything for everyone. I was in another world and didn’t care about anything but my baby. I lost track of even what day it was. You DONT OWE ANYONE ANY INFORMATION about your life!! Us here that are here every week are just thankful for what you choose to share that brightens our day❤

  • @csaunders2081
    @csaunders2081 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    He is so precious!!

  • @angiecunnington127
    @angiecunnington127 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bless your hearts! Know there are so many more out there that love you guys then the ones that don’t. You guys do these videos for us your fans who love to watch you and don’t have to. So please don’t let the enemy use these ugly people to upset you. You are both amazing parents and you have experienced everything that every other newborn parent have experienced. God bless you both! Keep up the good work and thank for sharing your lives with us!!🥰🥰🥰🙏🙏

  • @user-sn1ft4dg8r
    @user-sn1ft4dg8r 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Haters goona hate. Ryker is a happy ,beautiful ,healthy, baby. You’ve done a wonderful job. New motherhood is hard. No one expects a new mom to know it all. Support is the key. God Bless❤

  • @marsihopkins1995
    @marsihopkins1995 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Don’t pay attention to those people you are great parents from all we’ve seen. We’re with you Lydia Trace and Ryker. Love listening to Ryker chattering in the background . Oh my goodness he is so cute and talkative. He so looks like Gil .

  • @susandeveuve2478
    @susandeveuve2478 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Love you guys postpartum is hard you are a great mom .

  • @aliciawhitlock6396
    @aliciawhitlock6396 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh my goodness- I have never once thought yall were anything but amazing! I’m so very sorry you had to experience this. Thank you for sharing your life and if you choose to step away that’s ok too. God has amazing plans for you all. We live in a world with a lot of lost people, lost people act lost. Prayers for you all.

  • @user-ng2ez6ul3l
    @user-ng2ez6ul3l 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You're both the sweetest people and the best parents for your sweet little boy!! You can tell by looking at him that he is healthy and happy 🩵

  • @pamberry9167
    @pamberry9167 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I'm so sorry you went through that. There are cruel jerks out in the world. Stay strong and don't let them define you. When i had my baby years ago. I was a wreck the 1st month plus I was a single mother. I thank God for my parents and the support system I received from them. You are surrounded with so much love and support from family and friends. There is also a great community out there supporting and praying for you.❤

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Your so brave for sharing your story ❤

  • @markbutler5233
    @markbutler5233 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We’re so sorry you all had to go thru that. Be encouraged and blessed! You are wonderful parents it is evident even thru your streaming vlogs. God sees and knows…..peace 😊

  • @andreawilliams8708
    @andreawilliams8708 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are wonderful parents!!! I’m so sorry you had to go through that!!! God bless your beautiful family!

  • @janschleiger6544
    @janschleiger6544 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I am SO very sorry people were mean, rude, nasty and hateful to you. I cannot believe how awful it can be. You're a wonderful mother. Please know how much you're loved and admired. God bless you, sweet girl. You're fabulous parents. Plus, you're a new mama, get all the sleep you can. Every mama needs help and a support system. Nursing can be difficult. Don't feel guilty.

  • @jeandelaney8080
    @jeandelaney8080 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My heart is broken that folks can be so cruel! Please don’t listen to them! Don’t forget you are the son and daughter of The King!

  • @colleenG.
    @colleenG. 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love your channel and Im so sorry there are not nice people out there saying awful things like that and that you had to go through this at all. You have many good supporters out here and we hope you know this....💗💗💗💗

  • @brendasweet4744
    @brendasweet4744 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am so sorry you went thru this . Your great parents ❤️ thank you for sharing your hearts