The Cheat Code for Mating
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The more one follows his purpose as a man, the more you realize you only have time and energy to date or deal with women you "click" with.
Exactly.
dudewat212 Absolutley true
dudewat212 very true
That opposites attract and "polarity" is deep and I've seen it first hand. Too many people look for superficial commonalities like "we like the same shows" or "have the same favorite color" LoL!
Instead, look for the compatibility based on personality, vibe, and shared goals for the relationship.
Well said.
@@RomWills Good morning sir I have been listening to your podcast for awhile now. I wanted your thoughts on something I have come to the conclusion that our way of thinking is becoming obsolete for this paradigm going forward. Being if this is so I came across a book on critical thinking by Richard Paul and Linda Elder the book is called Critical Thinking tools for your professional and personal life. Also they have books on analytical thinking, strategic thinking and socratic thinking. I have them all and its amazing how we have been left out of this thought process check them out.
went through absolute hell with a hot girlfriend. some days i wished she got hit by a car rather than come back home to me, the confusion, mental and physical abuse made me a prisoner of my own relationship.. almost embarrassing to think about what i accepted.
Learn from the experience.
Dont be they are hundreds of million men who go through that and even worst did you loose half yo shit ? did you get killed or locked up ? You learned now stay on your gaurd and keep steppinn
Was it because of the sex?
Excellent as always. My wife and I are complete opposites in personality. I'm a thinker she's a feeler. She stops me when I'm talking from an intellectual side and hurting other people's feelings, because I don't even think about feelings. So I rely upon her for that kind of help. When there's an intellectual argument she comes to me, because she can't figure it out as an emotional person. I explain the intellectual side to her, and she's able to act on that. So together we make one half way balanced individual. I've also noticed that I'm annoyed by women who have my exact same personality. Of course A lot of people are annoyed by my personality.
That's how it works.
I like this comment. I know exactly what you mean.
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Platinum video today. 💥💥💥
Mate blockers:
1. Chasing culture, keeping up with the jones
2. Friends and family
Simple, logical advice
Yep.
Literally told a friend of mine this last night. Told her not to worry too much about her looks. I personally have connected with women I never thought I’d be with. Sometimes you just click with people.
Square, Right, Square, Square, L2, X, Triangle, X, Triangle
Right, Left, Up, Down, Up, Down
A, B, A, B, ⬆,⬇,⬆,⬇,⬅,➡,⬅,➡, select, start
We know which console y’all use👀👀👀
This hit me hard.I have met numerous women that I've "clicked"with that were odd matchup on first glance. Some are still in my life to this day.I encourage men not to have a "scorched earth " approach to women. Some can be great allies down the line.I got a married accountant chick doing my taxes to this day that I haven't touched in 15 years. I always retain women with attributes outside of sex.
That's real bro. I have a ex girl from high school that I'm still cool with as friends. She came and picked me up one night when I was too drunk to drive home and dropped me off at home safely. She went out of her way to do that for me and she didn't even have to do that.
That's how you do it.
That's the game
Azrael6394 EXACTLY
Civil Rights negro, that's human nature in the nutshell. Everyone has a want or a need and we keep individuals in our lives to satisfy it whether it be friends, women, etc.
Can’t lie... when I am bored for those IG fitness modes lol
The women I got were honestly hella cool. We honestly never argued. My problem is that I was always looking for a prettier woman or I was focused on my mission.
I understand that.
I can relate to this. I always want to look for someone prettier too. Male hypergamy perhaps?
Ellis Jackson never thought of it like that but it is definitely a form of male hypergamy. I think people always want to get the best they can. As you get older your definition of what is better changes.
Yeah. I mean if I'm with one girl and another one who is equal in all ways (to the one I'm with) except better looking comes along showing interest in me, then i would probably consider her. Based on what I've heard so far, there are some similarities between male and female. The dating life of a "top 20%" male is probably similar to that of a 8+ female. Except that the top 20 male has women chasing after him.
You are a grown man when every women in your life don't serve a sexual outlet for yourself...you truly learn the value of a individual and the balance they contribute to your life and daily routine as a individual(health...spiritual...mental...common routines we all must share as people...you'd be surprised...who your trusted person can be in certain times in your life
Too many men trying impress other men.
That needs to stop.
Me and my son's mother is polar opposite of each other in many ways but we always clicked. Our only problem was that she was not used to being with a man who didn't judge her all the time or didn't tell her what she wanted to hear all the time. It caused alot of friction between us but we have gotten better over the years of being friends and co parents.
That's what's up.
Thanks Uncle Rom for the cheat code. This will make my life a whole lot easier: going for a person who compliments who you are
Uncle Rom.. always thinking bigger than the bigger picture. Salute
Thank you.
That's the very reason why I I don't f*** with the norm or what's done commonly 🤔
Wow- I'm a new sub and I love your ability Rom to intelligently keep it real on a core level and school us. Momma, friends even therapists can't always do this. You are a gem. I heard you mention "the mask"; Have you or can you do a video on looking past this and truly knowing who you're dating BEFORE matrimony? Thanks much.
I might have something in my archives but I can do another one.
It's strange. I likes em thick with hips, etc. But I've had all types. That "click" for men is the same for men and women alike.
IMHO, all the stuff like Briffault, 95/5 Rule, etc ends up hamstringing people out of fear.
It really does in the end. That's why i say select/non-select and that a man can be both depending on the women.
Great vid! When you were talking about finding your match and gave a example of a extroverted man and introverted woman. I immediately thought of Lavar Ball and his wife Tina😂😂. We know about Lavar but Tina has been quiet as a church mouse. That's a right match because there will be steady conflict with two outspoken people. Need the ying and yang
You're right about that.
Men talk of 8's 9's and 10's mostly referring to womens outer appearance/attractiveness which like you always say is opinion based. I have found that the more attractive the outer appearance of a woman the ugglier she is when it comes to personality. Esp if she hasn't been sheltered from the evils of the game. When people try to promote women as good girls, be it family, friends. etc. tells me that she is most likely a spoiled or sheltered entitled girl who doesn't feel she has to do any work to meet a man if not why the hell would she need all them to cosign and promote her if she is so great.This normally comes from people trying to match make for people, which I find silly in our culture since we don't have much culture left to effectively support it. Along my path of success I have discovered that my lack of success in the game, has been due to my dedication to being successful in life. Oh but I have been having a blast and despite having relationships I have enjoyed the long breaks. I'm glad that now that I have discovered who I am and what I want in life that everything is easier when it comes to knowing what I want and don't want. Most women you have to turn down because it isn't worth the headaches. A bitter woman around a man is a living hell. I leave that to the Alphas and stick to my Sigma strategies. Keeps my ass from getting caught up. I'll take a humble 6-8 over a 8-10 any day. To be honest a 4-6 can beat a 8-10 if she has all the feminine qualities, keeps herself up well and is compatible with the man she wants in genetics and personality. To me this is how many 4-6 looking women pull men over the 6-10 rated. When a woman carries herself with respect everyman has to change his attitude around her because she knows what it means to be a woman. Being attractive scores 0 points on my scale when it comes to being a woman. Attractiveness is a genetic trait not a personal quality and this is what gets men and women into trouble. Raw & Real
Well said
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this is the realest shit out here, everyone is after some artificial shit and will never find happiness
Very great video. So true. Great game. Sometimes when u break up with a random woman who is attractive, when she is giving u hell all u can dream and think of is that woman u click with. That vibe is special.
It is special.
Darth Romulus, you are worrying me with all this talk of world domination because that is my endeavor as well and I don't want us to eventually have to battle for control of the world...
This being said, I am in the market for a Prime Minister for when I DO take over the world, and you exhibit the perfect balance of ruthlessness and benevolence for the job.
LOL! I'll keep that in mind.
*Pinky and the Brain theme music plays*
This vid is soooooo important and central to it all, there sh/could be a reminder on all your vids, along with the link to this, to relisten to this vid!!!🌟👍😊☺
Good refresher course with some 300 level course undertones. Good stuff as usual Rom.
Thank you.
So you're saying if I stop working out I'll attract women who do? Let me cancel my gym membership, I keep attracting out of shape girls lol .
LOL! It don't quite work like that. It's more about personality.
You better stay in the gym lol
I'm introverted but I seem to attract extroverts why is that.
Complimentary energy.
Me too. I'm really quiet and introverted but I attract extroverts. A girl I used to be with was borderline crazy.
I prefer chemistry or the click over anything else.....subsequently I leave a lot of 8s or better on 'stuck' cuz of the lack of substance I perceive.... I'm a lot harder on 9s and 10s just too see where they are at.....cuz I think a lot has been handed too her just cuz of her looks but not me tho......
I feel you on that.
Rom Wills I have a question. Maybe it sounds silly but I want to ask it anyway. or maybe you can make a video of it would be nice. it is the following, if you are as a selected man. that many non-selected men want a friendship with you. and usually in the end you feel like a selected man that the other person becomes jealous that you look better or are selected as you say it. they also go against those women who like you, tell negatively about you. if you do not have 100% self-confidence, then you become insecure and look weak. what I want to say is that as a selected man you also attract a lot of bad people who are jealous. Of course you also attract positive people, but bad people also join. What are you thinking about here? did you experience that? how can a person deal with such a situation? or maybe it is that person himself?
Sadly I see more and more stubborn plain janes most of the icons I’ve met are really down to earth
"Click" - sounds like a title for a web series.
sometimes feel like you if you get someone that has the same interests like you do. it wouldnt go so well. like i knew one girl that (traveling at the time) that had similar ways and interest like me. im like "We'll Probably Destroy Each Other" lol but i see what you're saying.
It's a lot of nuances with it.
People look for your opposite. Look for that other part of you trust me you will be totally happy.
I know. That's what i basically mean.
Yep.
You can still spend time with your woman when you make the time. Its just the time difference. I don't mean Greenwich Mean TIME. Each person's perspective on time spent together is a matter to be discussed. But spending sometime with her is key. Clicking with her makes the difference in whether a man will spend time with her. Even busy people spend SOME time with someone ELSE.
Typical knowledge dropping Uncle Rom✊🏾
Thank you.
No offense, but isn’t that a little obvious? Then again it’s a needed reminder cos common sense ain’t that common
We both know it isn't obvious. There are grown men chasing IG models and grown women chasing Prince Charming.
Rom Wills not to mention pookie and dem
Great content per usual Unc. The ways of a superior man is a great reference for this subject.
True.
This message was a good basic message because the click makes it flow easier. I believe when I force it with a woman that's kold it's not the same long term when it didn't click. Just was holding on off the she fine factor. Old video but still relevant.
Thanks Uncle ROM for the Equal Opportunity info you just drop
Thank you.
Request,
Uncle Rom, in one obsidian last videos someone asked him how come he hasnt writtwn a book and he said that black men don't read can you please comment in reference to that particular statement whether or not black men read since you are a author of a couple of books
Thanks
I'll address that issue because it's been around since at least the nineties. I know the real deal.
Rom Wills
Like i told O. Native born Africans DOS act exactly how they were programmed to act.
Example:
1.who were the popular ppl in school. Nerds or athletes
2. Who got beat up for acting or sounding white. Nerds or athletes
3. Who do u see on tv all day black ceo and business men and woman or athletes
Even then brothas read but how much material out there is geared towards brothas?
Yeah I've heard alot of women say they want a tall man like myself (6'4ft) but I immediately see if I'm physically attracted too her some do be attractive but we don't 'click' or i feel she doesn't bring any value too me or I don't see her as an asset.... .
That click is important.
Wait hold up, Rom, you said that a woman who dates a well off man will get mad because he doesnt spend enuf time with her, since he is out making the scrill that attracted her to him in the first place?!? So whats the point of bothering to find any sort of match at all?
robert moses that's why it's called a game. Pump and dump.
I've witnessed it on numerous occasions.
That man was truly not a match for that woman, even though she thought he was initially.
In order for it to work you must both be a match for each other. It cant be one sided. Thats the point of finding the match.
Poor man have no money ..... The Rich man have no time ..
What woman wouldn't be supportive of you being into money?! lol
You'd be surprised.
A woman might feel as though your market value rises if you have your finances together and she isn't quite pleased with the female attention you're already getting now. She might also be financially independent and feel as though she can buy her way into your heart.
Uncle rom salute
Thank you.
Awesome material as always, Rom. I must say you are right I still have a lot of work to do on myself. But that cheat code is real. For whatever reason I click well with dark as night skinny women. However, I too worship at the alter of the big booty. But I forget all of that when a skinny dark skin seven smile at me. Good one my man you got me thinking.
That's how it works.
I am still looking words of wisdom.
I don't chase i let it become. Whenever she wants me i'm ready for whatever. No joke.
Seen.
Is there some sort of test a couple can take to evaluate compatibility
I think there are some tests. Some dating sites used them.
I was in your neck of the woods this past weekend Omg I always liked Maryland and DC women Northeast women are totally different.
Another great vid Mr. Rom!! Thanks
You're welcome.
6/8/2022. 5:20 am. Second time listening to this.
thanks again brother, its hot keep the vids steam rolling
see that why I listen to uncle Rom because he striving for king Rom or emperor Rom lol world domination in full effect 😎😎😎😎
Yes indeed.
Great video
Thank you.
Bru you got a music list? Some smooth shit u got playing
Just the jazz station playing in the background.
By the way my first crush as a kid was Grace Jones. So you understand the chocolate fetish. LOL!
Yep.
What's up Big Rom, the cheat code is to never lock into a committed relationship because once she accomplish you then she'll change her mind That's what relationship is to relate to each other and ship out to experience someone else you can't get mad because once you get what you want and then change your mind exspeically wemen just think about how many different kind of styles of panties and shoes she ware never the same style for different occasions.
Yep.
Fax
Real truth !!
Thanks.
Hey Rom, You said you and your Co parent had that click and got along. Why did the relationship end?
Things change but we spend a lot of time together as co-parents.
yes it's not easy
Is that you with the girl?
I've done enough car videos for you to know what I look like.
Nice Brother
Morning UNC ROM
Morning fam.
yo rom do you think its racism if a woman refuse to date men of her own race?
More of a form of self hate.
Think chicks be preferring Goku White over Goku Black?
You can't please so many of them, we need to be Paz from Ghost in a Shell he sleeps with a different woman every night and keep it moving. :D
Good video👍
Thanks luv. You've been MIA for awhile.
Rom Wills ☺Yeah. Just doing me.☺Keep up the good work.
Women want to want not to have
I didn’t know Afro punk was a thing.
Big thing.
say she's fine but I can't stand her Lol
Third.. Good shit big Rom
Thank you.
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Thanks.
First and the best!
Yep.