😂I’m definitely on this journey with you. Stopped buying souvenirs, high heels, manicures, and costume jewelry! Great to see another luxury lover with a healthy mentality!
I agree with you about budget and conscious spending. As long as you are happy, you don’t need too many things. And it doesn’t have to be frugal either.
You remind me of my daughter. She drove her car for almost 10 years before she had to buy another one. (When she found out her car cost more to fix than it was worth). So...She got a used car. She never uses plastic store bags, only used filtered water from her refrigerator or her Brita filter, plastic bottles are a no no, and keeps her nails clean , and short. She’s uses recycled items if possible, and even has a compost bin.😊
That’s awesome! I have a VW Polo which I have driven for 3 years now and as it was already used, it has almost 300k kilometres on it. My parents and friends always tell me to buy a new car but I absolutely like driving my small car and when it breaks the last time then it breaks. Then I might get a new car or drive with one of my boyfriend’s. Or use public transportation. :) It’s not a big deal!!
I loved these ideas, I don’t buy a lot of these things either as I’m trying to be more mindful and too much “stuff” actually makes me anxious. The only thing from this list I could never stop buying is souvenirs from trips. It’s actually a tradition for me, I always buy one key ring from each city/country I visit and I keep them in a box. For me a $5 key ring is worth it, I mean there really is no logical reason why, but for me it holds a ton of sentimental value as traveling is my favorite thing ever, and looking through my key ring collection always makes me so happy, especially during these times. 😊
I used to collect badges and museum coins too! At one point I had about 67 badges (I used to pin them all on a piece of canvas and hang it on the wall). I understand what you mean, they can feel really special. If they still bring you joy, I'll say go for it xx
I’m working my way into becoming a minimalist, but I don’t think I’ll ever give up buying my souvenir magnets. I love traveling too and I always make sure to buy one from each city I’ve visited. Looking at my collection evokes memories of past travels and joyful once-in-a-lifetime moments.
I am of the same mindset as well. Less is more (freedom, money, time, space). I think the Covid lockdowns have been a wonderful time to pause and think about what's important in life.
Valentines Day is the perfect example of excess! I did just as your husband by preparing a special breakfast and just enjoy the day as every day should be, grateful and loved.
Same here! It's a bit different due to the pandemic now but in the past when my colleagues used to buy single use carrie bags everyday, I would ask if I could keep them (seeing they're going to bin them anyway). I then used them as my bin bags xx
Also started with bringing my own bags, like foldaway bags in my handbag. In Sweden plastic bags at the supermarket have always costed money, but now they cost about 50p or more. I'm also trying my best of thinking of the environment. Thank you again for good subjects.
Thank you very much for talking about this.I came to the same ideas.Probably, I will continue to use my hair conditions.Recently, I found one more thing-when I go to restaurant for special occasion, I try to eat home before, so I don’t order full dinner and can share with my husband.When we go out, I really appreciate every moment with champagne and small meal ♥️👩🦰♥️
Thank you Eileen! I really look forward to your posts every week. You seem like a genuinely nice person. Your advice is priceless and much appreciated.
Completely agree with you. I am also spending less in the things that are not necessary. I am making these changes not just to spend less but also to take care of our planet.
Excellent content! Thank you so much for sharing. I realized I have done much the same, except for the nail polish. I use a beige colour and keep my nails short as I play the piano 😊. I have also started borrowing more books from the library and from friends (before the pandemic) and am not just buying them right away. I'm an avid reader and many books are just "one time reads" even if they are very good.
So informative. I don’t buy costume jewelry or accessories, makeup or clothes that we see on influencers, fashion trends, beauty and skincare, latest gadgets or technology add ons anymore. Minimalism is a mindset. Less is more. ♥️♥️♥️
Loved your videos so much particularly your attitudes toward a more intentional lifestyle not only for your own healthy but for Mother Earth. This shared list is almost the same one I’ve been practicing through my life starting couple years ago, except for the TV cable part that I have not found a best way for a replacement yet as my husband really loves golfing. Our world will be getting better!
I'm with you Eileen. I no longer buy typical souvenirs when we travel. Now I might buy a nice article of clothing or an accessory like a scarf. This way every time I wear it I'm reminded of my trip. We sometimes buy food to bring home. We just traveled to San Francisco and bought 2 giant loaves of sourdough bread to bring home. Much better than some trinket. I also agree with many of your suggestions. Keep up the good content. You are a joy to watch.
I agree! I now much rather spend my money of good food, travel and experiences too. Trinkets look lovely in the store, but when they start piling up in our homes, they become more of a burden xx
Never did high end clothes except jackets, some knitwear and denim that have longevity. Agree on phones and TV but laptop is my main work tool and is used quite quickly. Like to buy my shoes on sale, and have a very limited supply of cosmetics. What I buy is really high quality though. Usually a couple of perfumes that I like to use up and then replace. Love my twillies though, they can so easily change the look of a bag.
You are so down to earth, really nice listening to you! My TV and washing machine are 15 years old, I change my phone maybe every 5-7 years when it really stops working. The pandemic made it clear to me what I don't use. Jeans and jewelry. So I really really try to stop myself from buying any now😃 T-shirts I love, dresses too, but this is something I wear a lot, especially when working from home now all the time, so much more creative with my outfits! I think we should all try to look at our lifestyles and wardrobes etc and be honest about what WE love and wear and want in our lives. And if there's a more sustainable version, second hand etc.
Wow! You are such an inspiration! I live in Spain and having a brand new car is really a thing. So many new cars around here... I agree about costume jewelry. I feel like it is just some random cheap jewelry with a logo on it.
Neighbour from Portugal and totally understand about the car! My friends ask why I have luxury bags and drive such a simple car? I love bags and not cars so 😊
I wish you would have included a picture of your beautiful wedding shoes. Btw I love your videos! I look forward to them every Sunday! And for the acne, I suggest Differin.
I do like your perspective! I am learning! I wish you could share more about your skin care products and little make up collection 😊 and a Big Thank you
I have a very similar lifestyle, I like to keep everything reasonably simple & just enjoy a few luxuries here & there. I definitely agree about the cars, I drive mine until it’s no longer worth fixing & by then I have more than enough money put aside to purchase another one without having to waste money on interest. I prefer to try & purchase cars around 2 years old with low mileage, that way I’m not worried about scratches or initial depreciation. Costume jewellery is also a definite no.
Boomer and former beauty adviser and retired professional nurse, here. I used to go to salon also for hair color. I am now silver, and have not seen a salon in almost a decade. I even cut my own hair, which is now longer and thicker than it has been since I was a child. I am on zero meds, so no hair thinning. My salon colorist told me back in the day that home kits are extremely damaging to the hair follicles because of the salts in them, which contribute to hair thinning. So, I stopped coloring altogether, and have a beautiful silver look. I keep my hair from turning yellow by avoiding heat of any kind, and I never use shampoo. Oribe is all I use.
I am exactly like you with the cars! I had to buy a “new” used one 3 years ago and had a decent down payment for it. I adore your philosophies on spending. I am working on downsizing and consciously purchasing items. Thanks as always❤️
I have a few things similar. Eg heels, fake lashes, upgrade gadgets, charms, costume jewellery . But I do go for facials and manicure because at my age I would not want to look like mom next to my spouse. The treatment has massage that gives blood circulation and lift up my face. I only have a belt and I am. Happy.
I agree with the facials. It’s a treatment that some people need and it’s equally a treat. Same with pedicure and manicure. I hardly have my nails painted is just the massage and tlc that I appreciate.
I bought my camera in 2008 and still take amazing pic so for me I only upgrade tech devices if I can no longer use them. Never a fan of costume jewellery I'm with you to save a bit longer to buy fine jewellery or I go to pawnshop because it is way cheaper. Great list!!!
Been doing most of what was said for years. I see some of it is personal for you to obstain from(like sweets,I use to be like you until a friend became a classically trained french pastry chef and I felt like I entered a word of artistic edible art in flavor and experience due to her and her classmates at the time.To me the creativity that came from some of the high end desserts are unreal and an experience that I want to spend some money from time to time on. Just to name one of my things I like to invest in sometimes. ) On the other hand,some of the advice is pure common sense. We only live on this earth once we should live comfortably but with a sense of sensibility which I see is completely lost during these days..when even the algorithm on TH-cam glorifies people who buy in excess.
What a lovely Valentines Day! Sadly I have curly hair and I require deep conditioning and regular conditioning. Your husband is a gem. Luxury tshirts are a ripoff. You are wise on that one. They also are surprisingly cheaply made, which I don't like for the price. Heels are a blight. I don't wear them either. No expensive costume jewelry thanks. Nice video. It makes you think.
I used to be extra girl. Thanks fully i found your videos. Your contents so interesting, hope i can learn from you to be a minimalist person sooner or later
I drive my cars to the ground, too. 😂 When my 2003 C32AMG died after many years of service and over 200,000 miles, my husband found a 2004 Benz S Class with only 22,000 miles. I was so happy. I could continue to drive a nice car without worry of a small scratch or dent and continue to use my favorite German car repair service. 🌸🐝
Covid caused me to have to colour my hair at home, and my husband helps me do the back. I find I'm saving tons of money, the look is just as good, and I don't have to worry about making small talk for hours with the stylist,!
Its hard to know what another person likes, unless she tells you specifically... i agree its better i choose what he gives me if its an expensive item.
Lol after watching your video I guess I was always a minimalist. I only started buying bags two years ago and I am 60. We have stayed in a decent home for the last 20 years. I never buy luxury RTW or shoes. We spend more money on travel.
Thank you so much for your video. I needed this. I have to get myself a birthday present and this list has helped me narrow it down to the one item I really want.
Great video Eileen. I love the concept of luxury minimalism and appreciate the guidance that you share. I agree on all of the points in the video, particularly the luxury logo tees. I'd have to take it to the drycleaner. Tees are so fragile and prone to holes and stains, I would be devastated if I ruined one. Admittedly I am looking at one particularly beautiful piece of costume jewelry, but I'm planning to transition to a few fine jewelry pieces in the near future.
I don't collect designer anything, but I do enjoy watching your videos, because you speak so beatifully and appreciatively of stuff. I think sustainable consuming lies there - appreciating things more, in a way that we want them to last and to take good care of them, and where we appreciate quality. I have one or maybe a few 'designer'-brand pieces, because at the time of purchase, they were the best tailoring for me. I'm not attached to the brands themselves, and I prefer if there are no visible labels, and the pieces are classical and simple in a way where you can combine them with anything, expensive or cheap, old or new. It makes me embarrased if I'm dressed from head to toe with one brand and it's visible (I have some full outfits like this in outdoor wear, because certain brands are better fit for my body or fit my other criteria better than others, like materials and price) I'm a frugal minimalist but I like to go for products that don't look cheap or expensive and are more on the traditional side. For example beautiful bar soaps can be hand-made and somewhat expensive to buy, but they last a long time. I like owning less but beautiful and carefully chosen items that reflect the times before consumerism, when things were made with craftsmanship and lasted for generations. If feels luxurious compared to owning lots of consumeristic stuff. But my things don't reflect this completely of course. I have many fast-fashion clothes left, my home is not plastic-free, and so on.
Oh I think you’re doing great! To be honest I don’t think any of us can be perfectly sustainable anyway. Someone wise once said, a more sustainable world requires all of us to do things imperfectly rather than one person doing them perfectly xx
@@ColourfulNoir Exactly! I try to incorporate new sustainable things to my life every now and again. Over time, it makes a difference. Love your videos and good luck on your journey!
I've been doing all that for years. Hub has been trimming my hair for 18 years now. The only thing he can't do is the cable lol. I only owned 5 hand bags since I don't use too often. I'm very picky when it comes to wardrobe i only purchase the ones that never goes out of style. I like to keep everything simple but classy for age appropriate.
I do treat myself to a slice of cake once in a while but I have cut down on buying trinkets and Knick nacks a lot. Good advice on the leather charms. I want to save towards a road trip this year. My weakness is souvenirs I admit. You look so elegant today. 💕
I agree about the car. I recently had to get a new one I was so pissed the engine blew up in my car and I had to get another one. I never buy designer tees or tennis. I also do my hair at home and use essential oils I think it is much healthier now. I love to cook so homemade sweets work best for my family. We don’t eat out much. I also take my lunch and snacks to work everyday
I am very intrigued by the olive oil tip, as my hair feels very dry since I have dyed it to gray... I heard JLo loves olive oil as well in her beauty routine! Thanks for the tip Eileen! ❤️
It’s getting harder to repair things well. It has become the custom to just replace or buy new . I built a clock at home and felt very proud :) Then I mended the oven myself without blowing up...But I had to because we can’t get orders online or in the shop yet. It makes you think. If everything just stopped- the movement of goods, or supply of electricity or gas- we are back to bare basics. Now I am shopping for candles, torches, bigger freezers earthenware pots and storage utensils for more cooking and storing:) I think working from home changes how you dress and accessorise for your day. Soft shoes and less structured pieces.. easy clean too. Cable TV is a waste of money but I love Eurosport for Winter Olympics and snow sports. It helped through Lockdown as we could not go outside much . Is there a Depression coming,do you think..?
Thank you so much for sharing! I agree the pandemic has really changed the ways we see life. It too made me realise I don't need that much to live a good life. As for depression, I'm not sure if it's coming but the world has definitely changed since last year. I hope things get better soon xx
Hi Eileen, I am always amazed with how healthy your hair looks. You mentioned that you added few drops of olive oil into your shampoo, I wonder what kind of olive oil is that? Is it the one specially for hair or you can simply use normal olive oil? As always, your videos inspire me and remind me to be wiser in my spending:) thanks Eileen
I’m still on a journey of completing the colors I like to have when it come to bags. And I’m sure I’m gonna have purse peace. Did you think this way as well? I don’t have lots of money but I’m trying to get my basic colors. I’m certainly do not like every bags that comes out cos I know what I really like so I don’t just jump on new things. Like the Chanel 19 I think they’re hideous on the exception of the denim one. I never liked WOC. I don’t like classic flap either. I only had two coco handle I sold the other one cos it’s too big. But I like more on that style or the mini rectangle top handle. It’s crazy that I’m not a fan of classic flap but who knows maybe one day I’ll own one. Or I’ll have the urge to own one.
Thank you for sharing. We don’t own a tv. I want 1 belt. I have the GG but I’ve realized I no longer use it/like all the logos. So I’ll be hunting for another. I don’t know if I’ll let it go or not. Been having a hard time letting go of it
I love decluttering the pieces I don't reach for anymore but I definitely don't recommend rushing into anything if you're not too sure. Give yourself enough time and your heart will tell you when you're ready xx
Wow! You’re skin looks amazing...I would have never guessed you broke out! I think a healthy diet and drinking lots of water makes the most significant difference on your skin. Of course, I agree that a dermatologist can help more with problem skin than facials.
It's a lot better now but I used to get a lot of acne on my chin. I'm so thankful for my dermatologist, she gave me back so much confidence. Water and a good diet are key too xx
The thing that surprised me in this video was that you just wear a regular lip balm... and why wear anything else when your lips are naturally so beautiful? Makes perfect sense. I never wear lipstick but I do wear tinted lip balm when I want my lips to be a bit more visible.
I agree (and already do 😌 ) with Point 1, 3, 5, 11, 12, 14, 15, 17, 18, 20 I still have to work on Point 2, 6, 7, 8, 9, 16, 19, Point 4: I don’t have a car 🙃 Point 10 and 13: Never 😱 I love Make-up to much 😉 Love this Video 😘
Omg I love your channel!!! I am so glad I found you, I can listen to you all day, you are so smart and an inspiration 😘 i just started getting into luxury brands especially Chanel but i am so disappointed with the constant crazy ridiculous price increases, you are a lifesaver 🥰 liked and subscribed
I do a similar thing. I have a hair oil in a pump. After shampooing I put it in the bottom third of my hair while it is still wet. I’ve been doing this for a couple years.
Loved this video, really shows us how your very clever with the way you spend your money and how you're able to still maintain a good lifestyle. Would love to know what tips you have for a university student who loves to spend money on designer goods. Once again amazing video ❤️
Thanks so much! 😊 To be honest, I didn't spend on any designer shopping when I was in university seeing I lived on a full scholarship. I browsed a lot online but it was strictly window shopping. With any budget, priority is key! If you can afford it very comfortable, by all means enjoy it but always live below your means xx
@@ColourfulNoir Yes I get what you mean and wow you must have been very smart to get a scholarship and I think I'll try to be low budget and start saving, also did you study accounting; watching your videos and hearing you talk you use a lot of accounting terms. Thanks again for the advice ❤️
I don't purchase almost everything you listed except for the sweets (I love sweets 😏) and also conditioner. I have curly hair so without conditioner my hair would look like a birds nest lol
Hi Eileen, thanks for Sharing. Ok I agree with the car, I have my car for 11 years now, I bought it new. I will always buy a new car because i know it last me for many years. Ok, I love my face, so I do spend my money on good face creams. I got rid of my cable last year and I dont miss it. I am learning French and I have been doing a lot of reading. I get movies from my Amazon Prime membership. Unfortunately most people get their values in their cars, handbags and clothes (that they cannot even afford). You will be saving a ton of money from your choices. Good luck!
Nice sharing and now I’m rethinking the need to buy a new car haha 😆 am also considering to streamline my costume jewellery collection to start investing in fine jewelry. I reckon I won’t be wearing them as much in the future but I totally love some of Hermes’ clic H and CDC24! I don’t do cosmetic either but will spend on good skincare supplements and products 💖
Great video! I can relate with the belts. The make up is still something I’m working on but have dialed back a lot. Getting there. Lol. Thank you for sharing!
Hi Eileen, you look lovely as usual. May I ask what is the size of your pearl earrings? I am shopping for a pearl earrings and want the right size to pop but no too large. Your pearl earrings look perfect!
I collected designers but once i a have i stop it as long as i have those luxurious each designers is enough for me or else you will get addictive and greedy ..and most of all i don’t post or show off in the social media coz its not fair some are not fortunate to buy expensive ..you are just inviting negative energy from people and you can’t please everyone. So be stay humble and be blessed .
100% I'm coming along with your journey Eileen. I'm already doing the same conscious effort as you are except for the conditioner. I'll try olive oil with my shampoo, sounds interesting.
😂I’m definitely on this journey with you. Stopped buying souvenirs, high heels, manicures, and costume jewelry! Great to see another luxury lover with a healthy mentality!
Great minds think alike! xx
I can listen to you for hours, calm, peaceful and wise, like playing soothing music. Purging for pure joy. Thanks.
Wow, thank you! It's really encouraging for me to hear such positive feedback, you've made my day xx
I agree
I agree with you about budget and conscious spending. As long as you are happy, you don’t need too many things. And it doesn’t have to be frugal either.
Less is more definitely xx
I’m with you on TH-cam over TV. I can’t even remember the last time I watched TV, and I watch TH-cam almost every day!
Glad to have you here on my channel for sure! xx
You remind me of my daughter.
She drove her car for almost 10 years before she had to buy another one. (When she found out her car cost more to fix than it was worth).
So...She got a used car.
She never uses plastic store bags, only used filtered water from her refrigerator or her Brita filter, plastic bottles are a no no, and keeps her nails clean , and short. She’s uses recycled items if possible, and even has a compost bin.😊
She must take after her mum 😇 Really glad to hear she's living an intentional life xx
That’s awesome! I have a VW Polo which I have driven for 3 years now and as it was already used, it has almost 300k kilometres on it. My parents and friends always tell me to buy a new car but I absolutely like driving my small car and when it breaks the last time then it breaks. Then I might get a new car or drive with one of my boyfriend’s. Or use public transportation. :) It’s not a big deal!!
I loved these ideas, I don’t buy a lot of these things either as I’m trying to be more mindful and too much “stuff” actually makes me anxious. The only thing from this list I could never stop buying is souvenirs from trips. It’s actually a tradition for me, I always buy one key ring from each city/country I visit and I keep them in a box. For me a $5 key ring is worth it, I mean there really is no logical reason why, but for me it holds a ton of sentimental value as traveling is my favorite thing ever, and looking through my key ring collection always makes me so happy, especially during these times. 😊
I used to collect badges and museum coins too! At one point I had about 67 badges (I used to pin them all on a piece of canvas and hang it on the wall). I understand what you mean, they can feel really special. If they still bring you joy, I'll say go for it xx
I’m working my way into becoming a minimalist, but I don’t think I’ll ever give up buying my souvenir magnets. I love traveling too and I always make sure to buy one from each city I’ve visited. Looking at my collection evokes memories of past travels and joyful once-in-a-lifetime moments.
I am of the same mindset as well. Less is more (freedom, money, time, space). I think the Covid lockdowns have been a wonderful time to pause and think about what's important in life.
Hi Denise, I agree! The pandemic definitely changed the way I used to think so much xx
Valentines Day is the perfect example of excess! I did just as your husband by preparing a special breakfast and just enjoy the day as every day should be, grateful and loved.
Love that! Seize the day, everyday xx
Yes to encouraging sustainability 👏 I have my reusable grocery bags and I'm using the plastic ones I still have as garbage bags
Same here! It's a bit different due to the pandemic now but in the past when my colleagues used to buy single use carrie bags everyday, I would ask if I could keep them (seeing they're going to bin them anyway). I then used them as my bin bags xx
Also started with bringing my own bags, like foldaway bags in my handbag. In Sweden plastic bags at the supermarket have always costed money, but now they cost about 50p or more. I'm also trying my best of thinking of the environment. Thank you again for good subjects.
Thank you very much for talking about this.I came to the same ideas.Probably, I will continue to use my hair conditions.Recently, I found one more thing-when I go to restaurant for special occasion, I try to eat home before, so I don’t order full dinner and can share with my husband.When we go out, I really appreciate every moment with champagne and small meal ♥️👩🦰♥️
That's really sweet! A lovely idea too xx
Thank you Eileen! I really look forward to your posts every week. You seem like a genuinely nice person. Your advice is priceless and much appreciated.
Thank you so much! xx
Completely agree with you. I am also spending less in the things that are not necessary. I am making these changes not just to spend less but also to take care of our planet.
I agree! It's always a good idea to be kinder to the one planet we have xx
Excellent content! Thank you so much for sharing. I realized I have done much the same, except for the nail polish. I use a beige colour and keep my nails short as I play the piano 😊. I have also started borrowing more books from the library and from friends (before the pandemic) and am not just buying them right away. I'm an avid reader and many books are just "one time reads" even if they are very good.
The books thing is huge…esp if you read a lot. I’ve realized too I don’t have to own everything I read.
So informative. I don’t buy costume jewelry or accessories, makeup or clothes that we see on influencers, fashion trends, beauty and skincare, latest gadgets or technology add ons anymore. Minimalism is a mindset. Less is more. ♥️♥️♥️
Thanks for sharing!! Less is definitely more, I feel so much lighter when I desire less too xx
This is the most sensible video I have seen!!!
Thank you xx
I bought my engagement ring with my mom. My husband just gave us a budget and we got it less than half his budget. Win win!
I got my anniversary ring the same way
What a lovely idea! Thank you for sharing xx
@@ColourfulNoir the upside I got exactly the one I wanted!
That’s sweet! Not all men know their woman’s taste in those things so I appreciate that gesture. :)
@@LittlestBlackJack Precisely, happiness all round. I find jewellery companies very easily send men on guilt trips. Bless them!
Loved your videos so much particularly your attitudes toward a more intentional lifestyle not only for your own healthy but for Mother Earth. This shared list is almost the same one I’ve been practicing through my life starting couple years ago, except for the TV cable part that I have not found a best way for a replacement yet as my husband really loves golfing. Our world will be getting better!
I'm with you Eileen. I no longer buy typical souvenirs when we travel. Now I might buy a nice article of clothing or an accessory like a scarf. This way every time I wear it I'm reminded of my trip. We sometimes buy food to bring home. We just traveled to San Francisco and bought 2 giant loaves of sourdough bread to bring home. Much better than some trinket. I also agree with many of your suggestions. Keep up the good content. You are a joy to watch.
I agree! I now much rather spend my money of good food, travel and experiences too. Trinkets look lovely in the store, but when they start piling up in our homes, they become more of a burden xx
Never did high end clothes except jackets, some knitwear and denim that have longevity. Agree on phones and TV but laptop is my main work tool and is used quite quickly. Like to buy my shoes on sale, and have a very limited supply of cosmetics. What I buy is really high quality though. Usually a couple of perfumes that I like to use up and then replace. Love my twillies though, they can so easily change the look of a bag.
Thank you so much for sharing! xx
You are so down to earth, really nice listening to you! My TV and washing machine are 15 years old, I change my phone maybe every 5-7 years when it really stops working. The pandemic made it clear to me what I don't use. Jeans and jewelry. So I really really try to stop myself from buying any now😃 T-shirts I love, dresses too, but this is something I wear a lot, especially when working from home now all the time, so much more creative with my outfits! I think we should all try to look at our lifestyles and wardrobes etc and be honest about what WE love and wear and want in our lives. And if there's a more sustainable version, second hand etc.
Thank you so much for sharing! I share your sentiment, sometimes simplicity is what brings joy xx
Wow! You are such an inspiration!
I live in Spain and having a brand new car is really a thing. So many new cars around here...
I agree about costume jewelry. I feel like it is just some random cheap jewelry with a logo on it.
Thank you for sharing! Leashing a new car every few years is quite a norm here in the UK too xx
Neighbour from Portugal and totally understand about the car! My friends ask why I have luxury bags and drive such a simple car? I love bags and not cars so 😊
@@claudiakalkbrenner4148 to each his own!
@@perthfanny3017 so true!
Love this! So refreshing to see people talking about not buying something
Aww thank you! xx
I wish you would have included a picture of your beautiful wedding shoes. Btw I love your videos! I look forward to them every Sunday! And for the acne, I suggest Differin.
Logical way of thinking ..is a must...you’re absolutely correct in the choices you make
Thank you! xx
I do like your perspective! I am learning! I wish you could share more about your skin care products and little make up collection 😊 and a Big Thank you
I have a very similar lifestyle, I like to keep everything reasonably simple & just enjoy a few luxuries here & there. I definitely agree about the cars, I drive mine until it’s no longer worth fixing & by then I have more than enough money put aside to purchase another one without having to waste money on interest. I prefer to try & purchase cars around 2 years old with low mileage, that way I’m not worried about scratches or initial depreciation. Costume jewellery is also a definite no.
Thanks for sharing!! I send your sentiment, I'll most likely get a gently used car for my next one xx
Boomer and former beauty adviser and retired professional nurse, here. I used to go to salon also for hair color. I am now silver, and have not seen a salon in almost a decade. I even cut my own hair, which is now longer and thicker than it has been since I was a child. I am on zero meds, so no hair thinning. My salon colorist told me back in the day that home kits are extremely damaging to the hair follicles because of the salts in them, which contribute to hair thinning. So, I stopped coloring altogether, and have a beautiful silver look. I keep my hair from turning yellow by avoiding heat of any kind, and I never use shampoo. Oribe is all I use.
I am exactly like you with the cars! I had to buy a “new” used one 3 years ago and had a decent down payment for it. I adore your philosophies on spending. I am working on downsizing and consciously purchasing items. Thanks as always❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words! xx
I have a few things similar. Eg heels, fake lashes, upgrade gadgets, charms, costume jewellery . But I do go for facials and manicure because at my age I would not want to look like mom next to my spouse. The treatment has massage that gives blood circulation and lift up my face. I only have a belt and I am. Happy.
I agree with the facials. It’s a treatment that some people need and it’s equally a treat. Same with pedicure and manicure. I hardly have my nails painted is just the massage and tlc that I appreciate.
Thank you so much for sharing! xx
I bought my camera in 2008 and still take amazing pic so for me I only upgrade tech devices if I can no longer use them. Never a fan of costume jewellery I'm with you to save a bit longer to buy fine jewellery or I go to pawnshop because it is way cheaper. Great list!!!
I must say I never thought of the pawnshop option, good tip! xx
Been doing most of what was said for years. I see some of it is personal for you to obstain from(like sweets,I use to be like you until a friend became a classically trained french pastry chef and I felt like I entered a word of artistic edible art in flavor and experience due to her and her classmates at the time.To me the creativity that came from some of the high end desserts are unreal and an experience that I want to spend some money from time to time on. Just to name one of my things I like to invest in sometimes. )
On the other hand,some of the advice is pure common sense. We only live on this earth once we should live comfortably but with a sense of sensibility which I see is completely lost during these days..when even the algorithm on TH-cam glorifies people who buy in excess.
What a lovely Valentines Day! Sadly I have curly hair and I require deep conditioning and regular conditioning. Your husband is a gem. Luxury tshirts are a ripoff. You are wise on that one. They also are surprisingly cheaply made, which I don't like for the price. Heels are a blight. I don't wear them either. No expensive costume jewelry thanks. Nice video. It makes you think.
Thank you for sharing your list with us xx
Great list! I am with you on the heels! I am doing a low buy year this year...it's not easy when watching luxury videos on youtube!
You can do it! Sending you lots of positive energy xx
I watch the luxury videos for the people I enjoy to see, followed by a low buy/no buy video to keep me on the straight and narrow. 😆
I used to be extra girl. Thanks fully i found your videos. Your contents so interesting, hope i can learn from you to be a minimalist person sooner or later
Thank you so much xx
Great video. I already do all of the things you mentioned, except bottle water. Great tips! thank you
Wonderful!xx
I drive my cars to the ground, too. 😂 When my 2003 C32AMG died after many years of service and over 200,000 miles, my husband found a 2004 Benz S Class with only 22,000 miles. I was so happy. I could continue to drive a nice car without worry of a small scratch or dent and continue to use my favorite German car repair service. 🌸🐝
I just discovered you and I like your content. I see the need to downsize my closet tremendously … at this point it is an act of sanity!!!
Glad you're decluttering things you don't need, it's really refreshing xx
Covid caused me to have to colour my hair at home, and my husband helps me do the back. I find I'm saving tons of money, the look is just as good, and I don't have to worry about making small talk for hours with the stylist,!
I cut my own hair now and I agree no small talk 😁
Malaysian subbie here :) I absolutely love your curated content and appreciate your realistic (but satisfying) approach to luxury and life!
Terima kasih banyak banyak! 🇲🇾
Malaysian subbie here too!!
We have a lot of similarity in terms of surprise presents, cars, upgrades, and so many other items
Its hard to know what another person likes, unless she tells you specifically... i agree its better i choose what he gives me if its an expensive item.
Definitely! I also love gifting gift cards for that reason xx
I completely resonated with this! Thx for sharing 😊 Valuable content especially prioritizing life choices & what brings joy!
Glad you enjoyed it! xx
Lol after watching your video I guess I was always a minimalist. I only started buying bags two years ago and I am 60. We have stayed in a decent home for the last 20 years. I never buy luxury RTW or shoes. We spend more money on travel.
That is awesome! Traveling and seeing the world are always worth the money xx
Thank you so much for your video.
I needed this. I have to get myself a birthday present and this list has helped me narrow it down to the one item I really want.
Happy birthday! I hope you get something you truly enjoy xx
A while ago, I read a tweet which said, if an item was 1000$ but was discounted to 800$ and you buy it, you did not save
Great video Eileen. I love the concept of luxury minimalism and appreciate the guidance that you share. I agree on all of the points in the video, particularly the luxury logo tees. I'd have to take it to the drycleaner. Tees are so fragile and prone to holes and stains, I would be devastated if I ruined one. Admittedly I am looking at one particularly beautiful piece of costume jewelry, but I'm planning to transition to a few fine jewelry pieces in the near future.
Thanks for sharing!! Less is certainly more for me when it comes to jewelry. Fine jewelry will truly last forever, you'll enjoy them xx
Hello.Thanks a lot for sharing.I fully agree with your points.You're very smart and savvy.Thanks!!
Great insight as always, and big BIG THUMBS UP on cutting plastic waste, that’s what I’ve been doing too, thank you!!
It's always good to be kinder to our planet xx
I don't collect designer anything, but I do enjoy watching your videos, because you speak so beatifully and appreciatively of stuff. I think sustainable consuming lies there - appreciating things more, in a way that we want them to last and to take good care of them, and where we appreciate quality. I have one or maybe a few 'designer'-brand pieces, because at the time of purchase, they were the best tailoring for me. I'm not attached to the brands themselves, and I prefer if there are no visible labels, and the pieces are classical and simple in a way where you can combine them with anything, expensive or cheap, old or new. It makes me embarrased if I'm dressed from head to toe with one brand and it's visible (I have some full outfits like this in outdoor wear, because certain brands are better fit for my body or fit my other criteria better than others, like materials and price) I'm a frugal minimalist but I like to go for products that don't look cheap or expensive and are more on the traditional side. For example beautiful bar soaps can be hand-made and somewhat expensive to buy, but they last a long time. I like owning less but beautiful and carefully chosen items that reflect the times before consumerism, when things were made with craftsmanship and lasted for generations. If feels luxurious compared to owning lots of consumeristic stuff. But my things don't reflect this completely of course. I have many fast-fashion clothes left, my home is not plastic-free, and so on.
Oh I think you’re doing great! To be honest I don’t think any of us can be perfectly sustainable anyway. Someone wise once said, a more sustainable world requires all of us to do things imperfectly rather than one person doing them perfectly xx
@@ColourfulNoir Exactly! I try to incorporate new sustainable things to my life every now and again. Over time, it makes a difference. Love your videos and good luck on your journey!
I just purchased my first and only rodeo charm. I waited until I found one that I really love the color. I also want a Kelly belt.
You have a soothing voice I can fall asleep with this tone of sound :)
You're too sweet, thank you! xx
I've been doing all that for years. Hub has been trimming my hair for 18 years now. The only thing he can't do is the cable lol. I only owned 5 hand bags since I don't use too often. I'm very picky when it comes to wardrobe i only purchase the ones that never goes out of style. I like to keep everything simple but classy for age appropriate.
I do treat myself to a slice of cake once in a while but I have cut down on buying trinkets and Knick nacks a lot. Good advice on the leather charms. I want to save towards a road trip this year. My weakness is souvenirs I admit. You look so elegant today. 💕
Aww thank you! I love having a goal to work towards, wishing you a lovely trip xx
I agree about the car. I recently had to get a new one I was so pissed the engine blew up in my car and I had to get another one. I never buy designer tees or tennis. I also do my hair at home and use essential oils I think it is much healthier now.
I love to cook so homemade sweets work best for my family. We don’t eat out much. I also take my lunch and snacks to work everyday
Safety comes first! I hope your new car is serving you well. I religiously bring lunch to work too, so much cheaper and healthier xx
It is thank you despite my apprehension it worked out for the best. We got a beautiful car
I am very intrigued by the olive oil tip, as my hair feels very dry since I have dyed it to gray... I heard JLo loves olive oil as well in her beauty routine! Thanks for the tip Eileen! ❤️
Thanks for sharing!! xx
Hi Eileen, I have a tiny request! Could u please share with us get-ready-with-me or morning routine? 😝 really like your clean and elegant look!
Great idea!! Although my routine is really quite simple and boring 🙈
It’s getting harder to repair things well. It has become the custom to just replace or buy new . I built a clock at home and felt very proud :) Then I mended the oven myself without blowing up...But I had to because we can’t get orders online or in the shop yet. It makes you think. If everything just stopped- the movement of goods, or supply of electricity or gas- we are back to bare basics. Now I am shopping for candles, torches, bigger freezers earthenware pots and storage utensils for more cooking and storing:) I think working from home changes how you dress and accessorise for your day. Soft shoes and less structured pieces.. easy clean too. Cable TV is a waste of money but I love Eurosport for Winter Olympics and snow sports. It helped through Lockdown as we could not go outside much . Is there a Depression coming,do you think..?
Thank you so much for sharing! I agree the pandemic has really changed the ways we see life. It too made me realise I don't need that much to live a good life. As for depression, I'm not sure if it's coming but the world has definitely changed since last year. I hope things get better soon xx
You always look so lovely with your minimal fine jewelry and neutral classic tops!
Oh thank you so much xx
i totally love this. i don't use make up or nail polish either. no designer anything for me either. i do have a wekness for bags, but not luxury bags
Hi Eileen, I am always amazed with how healthy your hair looks. You mentioned that you added few drops of olive oil into your shampoo, I wonder what kind of olive oil is that? Is it the one specially for hair or you can simply use normal olive oil? As always, your videos inspire me and remind me to be wiser in my spending:) thanks Eileen
Dear Eileen! I love your content and your way to see things!! Kisses from Brazil!
Thank you so much! xx
I’m still on a journey of completing the colors I like to have when it come to bags. And I’m sure I’m gonna have purse peace. Did you think this way as well? I don’t have lots of money but I’m trying to get my basic colors. I’m certainly do not like every bags that comes out cos I know what I really like so I don’t just jump on new things. Like the Chanel 19 I think they’re hideous on the exception of the denim one. I never liked WOC. I don’t like classic flap either. I only had two coco handle I sold the other one cos it’s too big. But I like more on that style or the mini rectangle top handle. It’s crazy that I’m not a fan of classic flap but who knows maybe one day I’ll own one. Or I’ll have the urge to own one.
Totally agree with you about designer t shirts and designer jewelry.
Thank you, Susan! xx
Thank you for sharing. We don’t own a tv. I want 1 belt. I have the GG but I’ve realized I no longer use it/like all the logos. So I’ll be hunting for another. I don’t know if I’ll let it go or not. Been having a hard time letting go of it
I love decluttering the pieces I don't reach for anymore but I definitely don't recommend rushing into anything if you're not too sure. Give yourself enough time and your heart will tell you when you're ready xx
@@ColourfulNoir thank you and yes. I need to wait, give myself time and then access.
Thanks again for the wise video!
I love how people look in heels! If my feet liked them, I might have bought some myself xx
Excellent, lots of really good advice!
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Wow! You’re skin looks amazing...I would have never guessed you broke out! I think a healthy diet and drinking lots of water makes the most significant difference on your skin. Of course, I agree that a dermatologist can help more with problem skin than facials.
It's a lot better now but I used to get a lot of acne on my chin. I'm so thankful for my dermatologist, she gave me back so much confidence. Water and a good diet are key too xx
You don’t have to explain yourself but I can understand for those in the back! I am the exactly same way! Frugal and thoughtful.
Thank you! xx
Really enjoyed this video, my husband and I do a lot of these things too. Can you please share the skincare you've been using?
Hi Eileen! Where do you shop for your jumpers and tunics? I love the pieces you wear especially the longer style tops!
The one I wore in the video was from Zara. Usually I also look at John Lewis, Allsaints, and Outnet xx
The thing that surprised me in this video was that you just wear a regular lip balm... and why wear anything else when your lips are naturally so beautiful? Makes perfect sense. I never wear lipstick but I do wear tinted lip balm when I want my lips to be a bit more visible.
Aww you're too kind Jonna! The lighting definitely helps xx
I agree (and already do 😌 ) with Point 1, 3, 5, 11, 12, 14, 15, 17, 18, 20
I still have to work on Point 2, 6, 7, 8, 9, 16, 19,
Point 4: I don’t have a car 🙃
Point 10 and 13: Never 😱 I love Make-up to much 😉
Love this Video 😘
That looks like a fabulous list to me! xx
Omg I love your channel!!! I am so glad I found you, I can listen to you all day, you are so smart and an inspiration 😘 i just started getting into luxury brands especially Chanel but i am so disappointed with the constant crazy ridiculous price increases, you are a lifesaver 🥰 liked and subscribed
Love your natural nails and we are very similar, no lipstick or lashes for me too
Thank you so much, i watched many of your video its really inspired.
you have helped me with my spending so much - thank you
I'm so glad! Thank you! xx
Great money saving changes, kudos to you! Very helpful!
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you xx
Great video as always. Please share the link for substituting conditioner with olive oil as I’ll really like to give it a try 😊 xx
I do a similar thing. I have a hair oil in a pump. After shampooing I put it in the bottom third of my hair while it is still wet. I’ve been doing this for a couple years.
Hi Yunnie, I can't really recall the exact video but a few minimalists have posted the same tips, maybe try TH-cam it xx
Loved this video, really shows us how your very clever with the way you spend your money and how you're able to still maintain a good lifestyle. Would love to know what tips you have for a university student who loves to spend money on designer goods. Once again amazing video ❤️
Thanks so much! 😊 To be honest, I didn't spend on any designer shopping when I was in university seeing I lived on a full scholarship. I browsed a lot online but it was strictly window shopping. With any budget, priority is key! If you can afford it very comfortable, by all means enjoy it but always live below your means xx
@@ColourfulNoir Yes I get what you mean and wow you must have been very smart to get a scholarship and I think I'll try to be low budget and start saving, also did you study accounting; watching your videos and hearing you talk you use a lot of accounting terms. Thanks again for the advice ❤️
I don't purchase almost everything you listed except for the sweets (I love sweets 😏) and also conditioner. I have curly hair so without conditioner my hair would look like a birds nest lol
Thanks for sharing!! xx
Hi Eileen, thanks for Sharing. Ok I agree with the car, I have my car for 11 years now, I bought it new. I will always buy a new car because i know it last me for many years. Ok, I love my face, so I do spend my money on good face creams. I got rid of my cable last year and I dont miss it. I am learning French and I have been doing a lot of reading. I get movies from my Amazon Prime membership. Unfortunately most people get their values in their cars, handbags and clothes (that they cannot even afford). You will be saving a ton of money from your choices. Good luck!
When I remove unnecessary things from my life, I feel lighter, my house is roomier and my bank account looks healthier too xx
Great choice.. I already do most of that but that was good.🥰
Love having another mindful spender here! xx
Nice sharing and now I’m rethinking the need to buy a new car haha 😆 am also considering to streamline my costume jewellery collection to start investing in fine jewelry. I reckon I won’t be wearing them as much in the future but I totally love some of Hermes’ clic H and CDC24! I don’t do cosmetic either but will spend on good skincare supplements and products 💖
I feel you! For me, skin care is always worth my money xx
I love my MINI and it is 9 years old this year.
We're in the same MINI club! xx
wonderful tips! thank you Eileen
Thanks for watching! xx
No more TV for me too lol. I just watch YT when I have some spare time. I need to try out the olive oil for my hair. Thank you for sharing😍💕
It's so good! Give it a try xx
Great video! I can relate with the belts. The make up is still something I’m working on but have dialed back a lot. Getting there. Lol. Thank you for sharing!
Hi Eileen, you look lovely as usual. May I ask what is the size of your pearl earrings? I am shopping for a pearl earrings and want the right size to pop but no too large. Your pearl earrings look perfect!
I still buy hair conditioner and I wear belt all the time bur other than that I agree with you.
Can you link that video about replacing conditioner with olive oil please? Great video as always Eileen ❤️👌🏼
Wonderful and thoughtful video. Thank you!
Glad it was helpful! xx
Wow … I’m glad I came across your channel thank you
I collected designers but once i a have i stop it as long as i have those luxurious each designers is enough for me or else you will get addictive and greedy ..and most of all i don’t post or show off in the social media coz its not fair some are not fortunate to buy expensive ..you are just inviting negative energy from people and you can’t please everyone. So be stay humble and be blessed .
Is rhis a re-upload? Because I really thought I have watched this video before.
Love it!
Not a re-upload but an updated list 🧚♀️
I thought so too
I do all the same things! Thought I was crazy, but I guess there are other people like me!
Wonderful video. Great points. I hope you keep making these! New subscriber so I’m catching up on all these (& will be rewatching them all!)
Welcome to my YT family xx
I love your videos. they keep me on track!
Thank you! xx
I still purchase plastic for my dustbin, can't help.. Is there any better way?
I love this! Thank you so much for sharing..
100% I'm coming along with your journey Eileen. I'm already doing the same conscious effort as you are except for the conditioner. I'll try olive oil with my shampoo, sounds interesting.
Welcome to the path of mindful spending! You won't look back xx
Hi Eileen, can you share the video you mentioned watching? I'm always open to tips on how to improve my haircare. 🥰
Hi Evelyn, I think it's one done by Sarah Therese xx
@@ColourfulNoir ah thanks! ❤