My Spouse Wants A Divorce. What Do I Do? - Pt. 3

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  • In this final video of our three part series, Dr. Joe Beam explains that you need to get the right help (because some resources aren't actually helpful!!). Dr. Joe Beam also teaches you how to find the best resources for your marriage and what resources you should definitely avoid.
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  • @stacalina11
    @stacalina11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I found your channel the other day and have to say I’m so glad I did! I’ve been watching videos on a couple other channels but they’re not specifically channels focusing on marriage. Their relationship advice still valid & very helpful but not custom fit for the delicacy of marriage. Your channel is exactly what I needed. Thank you for providing the resources and knowledge!!!

  • @janellemclaughlin2234
    @janellemclaughlin2234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you for the videos they are slowly sinking in and starting to help. The biggest issue is trying to control myself when I do talk to my spouse. I am so anxious and missing him and wanting to talk to him that when I do I think I rush and jump the gun just out of impulse. I can see now how that has been pushing him away. Thank you for the delicate way of showing that the problem is not always what the other spouse has done and also clairifying that not all men are narcs as that is what is portrayed so much. I am hoping we can come to Nashville.

    • @stephenbaker1562
      @stephenbaker1562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My wife left me this past Friday August 27th. I had no idea it was coming. I miss her very much

    • @MohammedAli-lw6tm
      @MohammedAli-lw6tm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@stephenbaker1562 mine left me in July I miss her too

    • @dhangsommers
      @dhangsommers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@stephenbaker1562 I'm so sorry.

  • @shannoncockrell4861
    @shannoncockrell4861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Again thank you this is very uplifting and it’s definitely pointing me in the direction that I need to go choose you choose somebody close to me you’re doing God’s work

  • @tammytakitch8741
    @tammytakitch8741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You need a course that prevents a marriage from falling apart. Your almost there.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Spoiler Alert... we're working on something for that exact situation! Hopefully releasing by the end of the year! 😊

  • @erikaahello0880
    @erikaahello0880 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found your videos last week my husband is shouting divorce he wont even say “I love you to me” infact he told me he hates me 😢 I feel like I found my solution now the hard part is implementing

  • @freddavidson286
    @freddavidson286 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My wife moved out after 43 years miss her so much so much hurt and pain father thank you for giving me the strength and power to make it amen

  • @wheelmangames5366
    @wheelmangames5366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My wife had her mom come to stay with is just as we began to reconcile. The day after and now 2 weeks later, its a total nightmare....Nothing but ALL Negativity from her in every way.

  • @user-mj1ht1tw2w
    @user-mj1ht1tw2w ปีที่แล้ว

    Merci beaucoup pour vous

  • @michaelalexander4656
    @michaelalexander4656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    How would I get my wife to talk with you when she is saying it’s over and doesn’t want to fix our marriage?

    • @tb87670
      @tb87670 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any update? This just happened to me.

    • @stevenramon3709
      @stevenramon3709 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any update? This just happened an hour ago to me.

  • @uchman2640
    @uchman2640 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you

  • @bobbob9364
    @bobbob9364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tbh it’s sad ,having to rearrange a whole life ,especially at an older age,I could probably have a secure life with pretty decent pension ,is it worth risking it

  • @marvelenemhlepukoi9959
    @marvelenemhlepukoi9959 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need your consoling to safe our marriage. How can we be console? My spouse live in the USA and am currently in West Africa Liberia. Dr. Joe please give my case attention sir.

  • @gloriatucker9796
    @gloriatucker9796 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope my husband agrees to a marriage coach

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We can still help either way. Learn more about our solo program here: marriagehelper.com/solo-spouse-workshop/

  • @MohammedAli-lw6tm
    @MohammedAli-lw6tm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you help marriages in the UK

  • @heavyrightfoot7947
    @heavyrightfoot7947 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think this guy of all people knows what hes talking about.

  • @jimdemichele5479
    @jimdemichele5479 ปีที่แล้ว

    She has told me she is going through with the divorce and I’m devastated

    • @patrickdeminter8678
      @patrickdeminter8678 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Right with you. 15 years for me and she wants out. I don’t drink, do drugs or beat on her. We drifted apart and instead of asking her to work on it, I gave her space. Somehow that worked against me. I am doing the right thing and giving her the break up. I do not want a divorce so I am learning here and anywhere else I can to improve me or my chances to reconnect with her. Be strong. You are worth it. You are special. Be the lover you need and start loving yourself. You deserve to be happy. You are the only you in this world and that makes you amazing! Take a moment and cry. Take a deep breath then tell yourself you are strong. You are a warrior. You Got This. Then breathe out the pain. Above all else strive to become the better you you can be. We are special people and deserve to be happy. Work on being the best you can be. You and I got this! God bless

    • @jimdemichele5479
      @jimdemichele5479 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@patrickdeminter8678 I’ve been doing extensive work and giving her the space she requested and I thought it was important which it is, but after 23 years, it seems not to matter

  • @violetharprashad9805
    @violetharprashad9805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need help my husband leave more than 2 months and now he send me divorce mail, how can save my marriage

    • @rebeccatailor2727
      @rebeccatailor2727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @rebeccatailor2727
      @rebeccatailor2727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whats""app him👇

    • @rebeccatailor2727
      @rebeccatailor2727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±2348170575769⏯️⏯️??????????♠️💔💖👶

  • @carlosg2151
    @carlosg2151 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My wife therapist is not helping my marriage. He refused to see me. what can I do. she's already at the let's be friends after the divorce. we are still living same house. what can I do?

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Carlos G, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

  • @dodgebullet7423
    @dodgebullet7423 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My wife came home and said “ I told you to mow the lawn “ ( me) oh I thought you said to watch t. v. !?

  • @marthasmith5854
    @marthasmith5854 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband moved out and left me with 2 kids. Now he finds time for them though so far he didnt care...I want to move on and sort out the divorce- he said he didnt love me - but he is helping now, answering calls, taking kids out but won't commit...how to set boundaries and start to learn to live on my own.

  • @zuesrameris7340
    @zuesrameris7340 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is there a number to call?

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello, Zues! Yes, please call us at 866-903-0990.

  • @maritesallen5966
    @maritesallen5966 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    V

  • @shad6519
    @shad6519 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is your location?? Thanks

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shadbanoo, we are located in Nashville, Tennessee!

    • @shad6519
      @shad6519 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marriage Helper why didn’t you send me his number on what’s app? Thanks

    • @shad6519
      @shad6519 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marriage Helper could you please help me how to communicate with him because he is not communicating with me in any form. Thanks

  • @lxvedhibiscus6765
    @lxvedhibiscus6765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    John, i want a divorce.

  • @caseythreatt5938
    @caseythreatt5938 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My wife stay with but she wanna let our marriage both messed up in im still in love with her by her still here with me means something

    • @juanmadera5180
      @juanmadera5180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As long is she is there you have a chance.. i wish mine was aleast here.. you have no idea how it hurts when she tell you. I dont want to be with you anymore.. and its not inlove with you..

  • @JorgePerez-hf3nv
    @JorgePerez-hf3nv 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This channel is interesting but in my opinion are more interested in making money selling the services than in the people … what a shame

  • @jessicarussell6000
    @jessicarussell6000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you work with same sex couples?

  • @larry2031
    @larry2031 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    flush them down the toilet twice and move on there is better person waiting for you and thank God too

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey larry, thank you for your comment. However, we disagree. We believe there is ALWAYS hope for a marriage no matter what. If you have had a bad experience in the past that has caused you to feel this way, we understand wholeheartedly. But there is always hope. If you change your mind and decide you would like to seek help for your marriage, we would love to talk to you and will always remain a safe place for you. You can call us directly at 1 866 903 0990 if you'd like to chat. Blessings,

  • @peterchew846
    @peterchew846 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just divorce

    • @rebeccatailor2727
      @rebeccatailor2727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @rebeccatailor2727
      @rebeccatailor2727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whats""app him👇

    • @rebeccatailor2727
      @rebeccatailor2727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±2348170575769⏯️⏯️??????????♠️💔💖👶

    • @peterchew846
      @peterchew846 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rebeccatailor2727 just divorce..