My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With My Best Friend, At A Friends' Gathering He Beat Me Half To Death...
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- My Girlfriend Cheated On Me With My Best Friend, At A Friends' Gathering He Beat Me Half To Death...
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Lily is gaslighting you, why would she be meeting him and watching movies and cuddling with him , just kissing twice 🙄. She said he confessed his love to her , yet she is still seeing him and doing all these things for over a year . Just go no contact you can never trust her .
She didn't say where she kissed him.
Adults don't kiss they F.
They fuckin 😅
100% were cheating
Thank you for your perspective. I see your point, and it's really opened my eyes to the extent of her actions. Going no contact seems like the best option to protect myself and start healing. Appreciate your support!
1. They definitely fucked.
2. She enjoyed every moment of it
3. She liked OP's access to money and liked neediness of the ex-bff
Sorry but OP should not have let Lily into his home, instead he should have called her parents to get her. Letting her in gives her the chance to make false accusations against OP.
"you can ask me anything, I've had time to get my lies in order."
The fact she was more worried about the friend when her boyfriend was beaten half to death with the guy still trying to kill him and her still being in contact with him shows she's just enabling this behavior. And she never told him to stop badmouthing her boyfriend. If she really cared about her relationship she would have told her boyfriend about everything from the beginning and also cut contact with the friend in the beginning.
The ex-friend needs to go to prison for his assault.
Some friend! 😒😒 This wimp! Your best friend almost killed you over the fact that your girlfriend was cheating with him and you're sitting down and talking with this mess?!
It's better than what you're doing you don't even shower everyday
@@aSipOfHemlocktea same as you dear
@@aSipOfHemlockteayou shouldn't do that every day, showering every day wastes water and erodes your natural bodily oils, causing skin health problems in the future.
She felt stuck?! SHE PUT HERSELF IN ALL THOSE SITUATIONS!!! She could have told OP about everything but chose not to. She could have easily NOT put herself in those situations, but she did. A choice. She could have told OP, but didn't. A choice.
All of her choices were made to protect Ethan, not the relationship, not OP.
OP kept Ethan in his life even though he had been insulting him for years. Not saying Lily is blameless but if he truly cared about her he would have been able to protect her and this might have never happened cus Ethan's threats wouldnt matter and she wouldve felt safe enough to tell him.
OP's literally a doormat. Women want strong men who can protect them from losers like Ethan, not losers who put up with them till its too late, and she only told him after the blowout cus it was safe to do so; cus he finally stood up to Ethan.
Its really that simple...
(hes in the "entertainment industry" so hes prolly a weak soyboy and prolly one of the left wing/neo con types that doesnt know how to take accountability.)
Oh no, step brother (husband's friend)! I'm stuck!
Bro... Who are you? Are you her Father? Are you her Brother? Are you her Husband?
Why you feel so guilt and being responbility for her emotion and her health after repurcation of her own action?
You are nothing but her X-BOYFRIEND
when you truly love someone, you take all those roles and sometimes more. It's easy to say when you haven't felt such things. (yes, I know it's going to be a little different for everyone). I have felt that crushing weight before and it's certainly not an easy one to overcome.
@@The_Imperial_Enforcer when did men become simps for being human? Think about it, this man took time to process his emotions and talk things out, but he's a simp??? If he was with her for some years it would be hard to just brake that clean with no emotions smh we humans it's ok to have emotions
@@19floyed when did I say anything remotely close to anything worth receiving this comment? You LITERALLY agreed with everything I said. Go and reread my comment.
@@The_Imperial_Enforcer I think he was agreeing with you and implying that the initial comment you replied to was suggesting these things. That's how I read it anyways.
@@agx8447 I appreciate your input. I sometimes see comments like as well
Not going to lie I'm a little too vindictive to forgive this if it happens to me
Ya esh, but the op is an idiot for not protecting lily in the first place and should have stopped talking to ethan a long time ago with all the insults, then this wouldnt have happened; lily was ethans victim just as much as op, if not more so.
You call it vindictive…..I call it self respect!
@@jamesremus6777 Exactly! Self respect is what it is called.
What in the simptopia is going on here 😂
A little too late for her to start caring about as you were the one on the ground being assaulted but all she cared about was ethan. Run bro, run and never turn back, she knew she was cooked when she couldnt hide that she was blatantly cheating so she tried softening what she did by saying things like "we only kissed ans cuddled"
Oh, god... she showed her true face at the beginning. You were on the ground after two attempted murders, and she still ran to Ethan. Hell, she had been glued to his side the entire time.
She was being very intimate and public about their affair and revealed her own feelings in that moment of pitched conflict.
She picked Ethan but still wants to have the OP as her fallback plan and wallet.
Should have gone no contact. She made her choice. She doesn't care about him or what he has to say.
This is an old tale. OP is a doormat.
Someone needs to program the AI better. A GFs parents are NOT your inlaws
I was wondering if this is AI lol
A petty person would show him a contract that says he can't be around you or your family under 1000$ fee with legaleze fineprint that forces him to stay away from Lily, give her parents a copy.
State he either sign or you'll sue him and make sure his life is ruined by giving him a record for assault.
Wow, this guy is a sucker!! Lily is stringing him along
Oh yeah she was the greatest thing since sliced bread, that's why your friend almost killed you. Dude what a waste of time. But you want to invite more of this drama into your life, who am I to stop you.
This, ladies & gentlemen, is why you go no contact. You start forgetting the important details & allow yourself to be manipulated by people who you know are liars. Why put yourself in that position? Just walk away & realize the relationship didn't work & move on. You don't need any more details than that
leave and re block her. there are so much people in the world that you will find someone better who would have never put you in that situation and thats someone worth fighting for. NOT HER.
she enjoyed feeling needed she continued to see and talk to him,...yet you feel guilty...................
And lets not forget she most likely physically cheated too
See fellas, the ending of this story is why you go NC. She’s gonna try to worm and squirm and sneak her way back into her life if you give her even a bit of daylight. Leave her 100% in the past and move on wit ya life g
He aint no "g" bruh, he literally still calls the guy best friend in the title even though he would start sht. Women instinctively go for the stronger guy, thats why she let ethan do these thing and didnt confide in him till after ethan was out of the picture; the guy let ethan insult him for years so she prolly thought ethan was the alpha in that relationship.
rofl i wouldn't be surprised if he becomes buddy buddy with ethan again and let him walk all over him again....
Nah she realized what she lost and that she kept doing more damage than good. She just trying to get you back and if you fall in, she’ll know you’ll forgive her again or she can get away with things years later in to your relationship.
You are not your Xs keeper, the factbshe cheated means she never loved you; and no, it wasn't "a mistaken." she chose to cheat
Adults don't "just kiss"
I'm sure sje just kissed his pns
She’s playing you.
She cheated with so called friend he tried to hurt ya no op cut her out she will she made choice not mistakes
The thing that sucks about betrayal is that it can only come from those you love and trust..
Don't let her worm her way back into your life.
Bruh. Ethan wouldn't be with us anymore and neither would Lily.
Cheating should be a felony punishable by no less than 5 years in prison, no parole. You cannot change my mind.
That OP is one weak man i tell you. She can do that again with another friend or some other guy who needs" inspiration" from her , who are weak and wants a shoulder to lean. She is a master manipulator and OP is a fool.
I am most concerned that op and Liky are stuck not mocing on. I really believe OP needs to see conselling to move on. Lily does too. I actually think Lily got caught up in a situation with Ethan that was totally toxic. I think in the beginning she was just trying to help him. What happened after is rather murky . People don't realize the power abusers have iver their victims its really sad
Michael's story is a poignant tale of betrayal by both his girlfriend and best friend, revealing the fragility of trust and the pain of shattered relationships. His unwavering support for his friend and openness in his relationship highlight his loyalty and commitment, making the betrayals even more heartbreaking.
Could op be dumber? Probably not.
Lily played stupid games and won the ultimate stupid price. Op really needs some therapy and deal with the issue that Lily never truly loved him (She loved being there for op in his vulnerable state), she loved her savior complex.
That's why she felt used and abused... Nobody is telling what a great savior she was, everyone (for sure) is telling what a backstabbing pos she was that sided with the one that tried to murder her bf.
As soon as she can't take her own BS anymore, she will join Ethan.... Living a joyful miserable life.
Don't feel too bad dude. You didn't do anything wrong. Shit gets better. Yes there will always be a hole that's left, but over time it gets filled in and paved over. I went through heartbreak so bad from the same person twice and I got through it thanks to my friends. It gets better dude. 🤘🏻😎🤘🏻
Sackless dude gets gaslighted into thinking he’s wrong.
Story as old as time.
🎶A tAlE aS oLd As TiMe SiMpY aNd ThE bI7@#🎶
Another Simp
My next step would be to put myself into a situation with Ethan to try and get him to attack me again so then I could take out all that anger on him 🤷🏼♂️
*Shakes head and sighs* You've been hurt. But at the same time, by the end of the story, you sound like you do miss her. The question that is probably important is, did she sleep with Ethan, and do you believe her when she says she didn't? The usual things people point out is, did she ever start hiding her phone tablet, etc. when you entered a room, did she .ever start having a lower sex drive around you like im too tired. im not in the mood multiple times.Did she go out a lot on 'girls' night, "and you were not able to cooberate with the other girls to see if it's true. She was obviously abused at least once by ethan, but she probably thought she could help/fix him using dumb girl logic. Want my honest opinion get counseling together. She stuck by you when you were struggling jobwise. She definitely needs to go no contact with Ethan he's toxic. 100% no contact he might try to guilt trip her into giving him a second chance like can we still be friends. Also, as for the kissing thing, ask your friend who witnessed it if it was Ethan being aggressive or if it was reciprocated because their is a difference. One could mean she was into him the other could mean she didn't tell you because she didn't wanna make you think she was cheating. During those 5 days, was she always over at Ethans, or did she go to other places like her parents' home or friends. Her not contacting you was messed up. I'll admit I'd be pissed too. Truthfully, if you give her another chance, tell her she's on a short leash. She needs to tell you all her media passwords, no locked phone or laptop. No, going out with girlfriends unless its confirmed by them or their husbands they are meeting up. Can't stay out later than her other friends. No unknown 'guy' friends buying her drinks or touching period, she 100% needs to tell them no. If she agrees, give her a chance if she doesn't kick her to the curb. If she can keep herself clean, you can decide when to lengthen the leash.
Yeah nah, i think the part that was the absolute most telling ,is the part where he was almost quite literally killed by Ethan and she decided to ONLY show concern for Ethan, not OP, Ethan. There's no fixing to be had for what's not there, history doesn't really matter at that point either when it is very clear who she prioritized, and you can bet if she prioritizes Ethan she is sleeping with him aswell. She's trying to make excuses and portray her actions as stupid instead of willfully decietfull, because at least with one of those there's innocence.
When Jenny finds out you are a millionaire, and reappears after almost a decade, dying of AIDS and with some other man’s bastard, that is when you should RUN, Forrest, RUN!
Ethan moving like john redcorn
If "your" girl cannot cut relationships that need cutting, that is not your girl that is the girl of the boldest guy around her at any given moment
I mean if you want to hurt him then just sue him for physical and emotional damage
Get ethan arrested...
OP is afraid that Ethan would then press charges against the 2 friends.
What gets me is he was afraid because they broke Ethan's nose and gave him a concussion ... and downplays that HE had his elbow FRACTURED! That's broken! Affecting one worse than a broken nose! Plus his ribs, which can be very painful! Unless the judges are really bad, Trying to stomp on someone's head is Attempted MURDER! SMDH
When she showed up at his door, he should have said "Call your friends" and would have closed the door. He's a lost cause. He's giving her excuses she never said. He's putting situations in him mind about her that probably didn't happen. That car ride was weird. She wants to use him. And he seems to be ok with it.
Nah, just sue him if you take his money and use the protection act that allows individuals to protect someone under attack so he can't win.
I was cheated on by my best friend of 11 years. We broke up of course as I do not stick with cheaters but the one thing that must be done is to forgive them. Not for them but for yourself. Letting that anger eat you alive will just do harm to you and they will be winning. Forgive and forget will give you a lot of peace of mind.
OP is a beta simp
If you can get them to admit to kissing it 100% means they had sex. Adults don’t just “kiss.” Once the line has been crossed it flips a switch and opens the flood gates. Kind of like, “I’ve already gone this far, so it doesn’t matter if I go further.” You’re literally more likely to get struck by lightning than to have her stop at kissing.
Throw it away and forget about her move on and Lock in on yourself and only yourself
BTW girls always go one step back so what Lilly really said was second base twice and a home run once lol.
its someone else story, feel sorry for the guy, who was not at fault. If someday he read this: just lie and end things, get on with your life, or get her out of your life at once. The trust that you shared is no longer there, even if she was the result of abuse of a third party, and she was not able to share, But you do what your heart say, even knowing there is a possibility of being hurt once again. By best wishes to the guy
Why didn’t you file charges regarding the assault?
That so called best friend was never a real friend and it amazes me how females love to pick absolute losers. Then when they get used and worn out by the dude they want to blame all men for the choices that they made.
Friends do not do stuff like this. I have a former "friend" who was always jealous that I actually did something with my life while he sat back making excuses as to why he has no life. Once I got engaged he made some disparaging comments about my relationship and another one his friends who got engaged just after I did. That was the final straw. I knew then and there is was time to let him go. 25 years of so called friendship gone.
A doormat is going to do what doormats do best, walked all over.
The way OP takes jabs at Americans suggesting suing the other guys instead of simply explaining that he is from a different country and the justice system works differently is just unnecessary because in the USA depending on state, what he went through can be considered attempted murder
Ever heard about filing police complaint??
FULLY press charges & as you do NOT believe she slept with him do a preemptive STD test to prove yes or no & I personally would've said ALOT worse
honestly he's a simp and another thing, if i had a person like ethan in my life ohhh trust me he'd have to think twice before raising his hand on me.
Dude , thinks too much , and lives in a crappy country
Whatever country this is has a crazy legal system
I'd take advice from Bing if I was in this situation
Lemmi guess op goes back to lily,she uses him for his money money and for power dynamic goes to other men who need her kisses...😊
Noodle spine needs to crap or get off the pot. He knows already all that he needs to that when the chips were on the table she was next to Ethan not him.
Another episode of the Simp-Son.
I can understand people having still feelings for someone after a breakup or after something horrible, but this guy is just a moron. Opening the door in the rain like a movie? Unblocking her?
I'd have shut the door and refused to open it. "Get away, you ruined my life". Period. Damn.
She sides with ethan during the fight! Whilst he is trying to kill him naa she's ethans woman through and through she's in his bed!
This guy is a fool.
Such a liar she saved him multiple times while u damn. Near died
What the@#$@ wow a simp story ok lol
Ethan wanted everything you had gained for yourself after a long period of stewing in his own juices. He isn't the person you remember from college. I doubt he ever WAS the person you think you remember, sadly.
Though I think you SHOULD have charged him with aggravated assault and had him go to jail for it. For me it's more of an accountability issue.
Lily is just lying too you. She wanted Ethan and is way to emotional invested into him.
In my honest opinion i would give it time.
Maybe some new truth will come of it. However the trust you and her had is gone op. I know its a tough pill to swallow and she is purposefully leaving things to try and get back into the door so she can make things work. To go back to normal, but normal is gone. That life, gone, murdered dead the minute ethan decided to try and kill you. She stood by him, not you. Any woman in love will show who they love when their partner is almost getting hurt or in a serious situation.
If you do decide to get with her request that she show you phone records. Not texts on her phone (she can delete them) but text records on the phone record will still be there regardless of deletion on the phone. If she wont provide them then don't take her back.
Personally if my girl favored another dude while i was laying on the ground and not fucking him up, I'd either be dropping her off then and there or I'll be divorcing her.
The woman i am with will ride and die with me. Cause my perfect woman is gonna be a spit fire and have means to defend her man just as much as i will defend her.
For commenters wondering why this guy is so delusional over his ex, y'all really need to sit down and listen to Percy Sledge's When A Man Loves A Woman, multiple times if that what it takes, then perhaps you'll understand.
If it lasted a year its definitely is sexual😅😅
What a let down
😂😂😂 whimpy
From experience I myself have been in her shoes, twice. I was weaker both times not sticking up for myself and allowing it to happen. I did try a couple of times it worked but they were stronger. When someone is like Ethan who is very aggressive and in a way didn't take no for a answer was delusional in thinking other wise she was playing hard to get. Which wasn't the case. It was hard for her cause she felt conflicted between you two in she didn't want to cause any problems with your friendships and she tried to fix the problem. He threatened her which they do, he wanted to make her his and his alone. He isn't going to stop, the letter was a big red flag, if she goes missing that's were you send police. Just saying
It is annoying when people's first reaction to these stories is calling OP a simp or doormat, and not thinking outside the box about why it happened. It is not always as it seems. She could be lying, but she could have also been a victim to Ethan.
NC
Bro do u get sleep while chatgpt dose stuff (no hate)
That's the most hate no hate i have ever seen
@@fabledkitty214 LOL
Any updates???
I doubt that you are confused and clueless ...
Ai story, but still entertaining!
Go NC
😊
Hahaha funny simp story.
Did you SUE HIM? If not, lol at you...
Fake story, check the inconsistent details in some parts yet other parts are lackign detail and then going back referencing false detail.
Where in the fuck on earth thats not america are there friends with these names? Tom chris lilly ethan jane katie josh... All quintessentially american names. Cap.
My problem with these stories, too much repetition.
talk shit get hit lmao
Women. ☕🙂↔️
Everyone in this story is unlikable lol.
Women ☕️
Women will be women
weak!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!