All those women who commented things like: "you should not feel guilty for betraying your husband like that, and if he doesnt immediately forgive you for wgat you did, he never loved you" are honestly even worse than Francine here They, and now also Francine, have _no idea_ just how much this kind of betrayal scars someone
Whoores defend other whoores. Always. Just look at twatter Siri g the Dillon Dan is Jake Logan fight when Dillon was just Posting Logan’s whoore pics with prev men. Erry cvnt jumped to Nina’s defense
Euhm first of all these story must be fake not cause women are Saint and would never cheat The X chromosome don't got a cheating gene lol and neither is the Y so don't generalise it Also what women calls a men a good provider Also why are those story written like a novel
No. Never. The only ones i knew that never cheated were both of my grandmas, sadly, one died during Pandemic and the other one, well, my grandfather cheated and they divorced but they still on good terms. As of me, got cheated twice, they are never satisfied doesnt matter if you literally tear yourself apart to give them everything you have and more
"Oh, they should forgive you... and if they don't, then they never really loved you." Man, I hate that phase. I remember when this was used on me during my last breakup. If you really love a person, you don't need a reason to cheat! Forgiveness doesn't work like that. Forgiveness doesn't always mean reconciliation. You can't cheat on someone and expect them to want a relationship over an apology. Real love is being able to give a true apology and be okay with the outcome (even if it's not the outcome we want).
Honestly, I would love that to be banned from everywhere. Could you imagine the implications if you tell that to an abuse victim? "They truly love you if they forgive you" Only you're telling the abuser that her victims should forgive her.
You said it perfectly. Forgiveness is for the peace of the soul and mind. And it never means reconciliation. Nor does it mean forgetting about what happened.
I once went to counselling after doing some shitty things that hurt someone I claimed to care about. When the counsellor tried to take that angle with me - that I wasn't to blame and all that - I told her that we were done and I didn't need another enabler in my life.
She’s not remorseful in the slightest. I’ve read posts from truly remorseful cheaters, and those people will go into great detail about their emotional state during the affair, line out all of their horrible actions, leave themselves open to public opinion. Even though they all say they “don’t know why” they did this, the truly remorseful will willingly bear that Scarlet Letter while trying to move on themselves, trying to earn a second chance with a new partner (never the AP) with full honesty about their past. This lady did none of that.
@@sliqyplayz8072 drop that toxic mindset bro, you’ll be better off in the long run not holding onto such negative blanket beliefs. The internet is a dark place.
Her plan was knowing the baby's father before she informs her husband instead, she went to her AP, so she can baby trap the husband. THE CRUELTY OF THIS WITCH. Unfortunately, she's dragging him back.
@MinisterManDan this literally happened to my husband. When we got together he had 50/50 custody paying $400 a month in child support. And since the mom kept leaving their son with us we ended up fighting for full custody. We won and the courts established child support without us asking. They require the mom to pay $6 a month. Its laughable how corrupt the courts are when it comes to fathers.
Ok my two cents regarding the story: In these case the therapist probably should have been a man. According to the comments provided by different women, it's an echo chamber. They are downplaying betrayal to the level of a simple mistake and believe "if he truly loved me then he would have at least allowed me to explain." The whole fundamental is wrong. Men take this on a factual basis of what happened. - She willingly decided keep talking with this guy. - They met on multiple occasions alone. - They created fake accounts to talk with each other. - She hid everything from the first signs of things going beyond a friendly chat from her family, and even more so, her husband. A man takes this as a woman choosing the other side. So the thing he did was separate and leave: "if i am not wanted, i will not try to keep things together". These are multiple choices, not a simple mistake. Whether you are a man or a woman, never take back a cheater, they proved they can't be trusted. Regarding the video itself: I think it would do good to change the format a bit. The story in a single color for the text, your own ideas in another color, and the comments from other people in a 3rd color, to keep everything organized and easy to understand. Also please try to separate what you say from the story itself. Try to make it one piece the story and then your input. Maybe a good idea would be to insert your own thinking between updates, or between the story and other people's comments, so we would know what is from you and what is from OP. It might help to keep things coherent. Best of luck Ngex.
But during the comments, the second or third comment was from a man who excused her cheating and said that his wife cheated on him and he's back together with her, so the therapist'd gender wouldn't 100% play a role in their advice.
Dude... this youtuber steals all his videos LOL. You can literally see in his videos the phrase "hey guys. Mr Reddito here" - this is the catch phrase of another youtuber.
So let me get this straight... this "dark individual" persistently pursued her and resulted in her having an affair, and he's such a terrible person.... but now she's persistently pursuing her husband and luring him into taking her back and she sees this as a good thing? She was "manipulated" = bad She is manipulating = good Man this woman is evil
She was effing deluded to think that her husband would be happy about having a child under those circumstances...as if a child would magically make everything better. Smdh. The stupidity
How she jumped from "I just wait and be hopefull they will forgive me" to "hey, I'm pregnant, let's make a family together, right now". But he was right to divorce her. She clearly didn't deserve the title of Wife.
Honestly, while accountability avoidance is very prominent in females, it tends to also be the MO of a typical cheater. Either way makes her unfavorable.
Right sometimes they call out bad behavior and shame it other times they encourage it and straight up victim blame I've noticed they typically are a lot more forgiving towards female cheaters then they are with male cheaters.
Let's be clear: The woman is at fault and the man shouldn't take her back. "If he really loved you..." He did love her, once before, and look how she treated it. She could have said no, she could have decided not to cheat, but she didn't. Let's play the same game: If she truly loved him, she wouldn't have even thought about cheating or acted upon it. "This was a little mistake." No, this was a betrayal. He trusted her to have his back and to stay by his side, but she apparently couldn't maintain bare basics for that. She wanted excitement, she went for it, and she suffered the consequences that should have followed. "He should take her back! She's sorry!" Sorry doesn't magically make things right. She hurt him in a way it seems only men these days seem to truly understand. We aren't allowed to be vulnerable most of the time, usually with anyone, and the few we consider close enough and trustworthy enough are like family. I have maybe three in my entire life that I am capable of allowing myself to lower my guard around and share any issues I might have. If any one of those three betrayed me on a similar scale, I wouldn't forgive them and I sure as hell would be guarded around the other two until I am certain they can't or won't betray me like others have. A simple message to anyone reading, to any who decide to get into relationships: Never forget, never forgive. If they stab you once, they'll stab you again if they think they can get away with it. Don't give them that chance. You aren't in the wrong for leaving them, you deserve better, and if they try to tear you down for not taking them back remember they aren't worth your time. If they truly loved you, they wouldn't have done it in the first place.
Some points to note: she was not ashamed of cheating on her husband for THREE days a week, but of having been discovered. And as if that wasn't enough, she has the AUDACITY to try to convince her children that she was a great WIFE! And here comes the cherry: she babytrapped him! This last one can be seen because the baby was not a reason for happiness due to the motherhood that OP tried for 15 years, but becayse this child was seen as a way for her to return to play her happy family game, which seerns this witch unfortunately will get. If she was so worried about her own baby, she would keep it regardless of who the father was. The fact that she would only keep the baby if it were Ray's shows how much she cares more about the doors that this being would open than about the child itself. It can be seen that OP only regretted being DISCOVERED cheating when in a moment of desperation she wanted someone to say "it isn't your fault" and when her parents didn't do so, she called the home wrecker to get a "shoulder to cry on." Honestly, OP is a disgusting woman who unfortunately got things her way. And I still can't believe that this delusional therapist tried to victim blame while flattering OP, I'd rather think she just did it for the money.
"Sorry" is when you break your partner's favorite beer glass, or if you dinged their car or something.... "Sorry" is for an accident, something that was completely unintentional, what she did was none of those things. She deserves to be alone, more than that, she should have "Cheater" tattooed on her forehead so she can't hurt anyone else.
Only a cheating woman would side with her. Bro was getting sloppy 2nds from his own wife, disgusting behavior. Cheating is never a mistake, it's a series of choices one willingly makes. This is why I'll never reconsile with my gf/wife if she ever cheated.
I hope that Ray doesn't get back together with her due to the reason for her infidelity. She had done it once what's stopping her from doing it again when another person shows signs of interest in her. That temptation will be there and she'll either stay true to her hopes for a happy life or cheat again and things will be back to square one all over again with her life hanging on by a thread.
No matter how happy they may become he should never ever marry her again. That way she would’ve had a consequence, and he could walk out if she ever did something like that again.
Was looking for someone else to be like minded. Probably the 2nd, or maybe the same channel, to do this. I'm not a fan of hearing their input in the story. I'm just here to listen to the story. Do it at the end or at least make it more obvious that its not a part of the story by using another ai voice
Betrayal stands as one of the most grievous wrongs one can inflict upon another, especially between spouses. To downplay such an act is greatly reflective of one's character.
Betrayal is one of the worst action you can cause another human being....particularly husband and wife. The minimization of the act itself is very much an image of character.
Honestly, I don't think she's reeling him back in, I think the OP's perception of what's happening at the end is just more evidence of her delusions/selfishness. She even says it without realizing it. Her kids come by every weekend to hold the baby, taking turns holding the baby. She takes that as them forgiving her instead of just trying to bond with their sibling. All of their actions she describes are actually focused around the baby, not her. Her ex-husband comes by every night to hold and bond with the baby...and then LEAVES as soon as they put the baby down for the night. He said he wanted an amicable co-parenting relationship and split custody. But you can only rarely get fully split custody with a newborn due to physical needs. So he's coming to bond with his son and then LEAVING immediately after he's asleep. Yeah, he brought food once, he's either decent or hungry. She's super convinced all of this means she's going to get everything she wants...but then she was also absolutely convinced everything would go well once she found out she was pregnant. She's deluding herself and everything the others are doing are about the baby, not her.
Always disgusting when cheaters say others destroyed their relationship. The cheater chose to destroy her marriage when she cheated. Not to mention cheaters downplaying serial cheating as a singular mistake
I dont even need to heard this story to say that. 1: Save the marriage, Yeah no that's not gonna happen, The trust is broken and you wont be able to fix that. 2: You have a 50/50 chance to save the relationship with your kids, It all depends on how act and prove that you have changed your ways. 3: Its possible for you to have a friendly relationship with the Father of your children. Cheaters always think they can fix shit, its like you smashing a vase and thinking you can fix it with glue. Yes it might be whole again but the cracks will never go away.
It is inconceivably sad that your partner being very affectionate is a red flag, but that's really how it is now. Cheaters are never truly remorseful, male or female doesn't matter. They're all the same. Edit: WOW I can't believe she would expect her lover to apologize for "ruining her marriage" lol okay, human garbage can
About bringing food and staying intill night time is something you should do.. Not because you care about the your ex wife/girlfriend but because of the baby.. Your hate for your cheating wife won't overshadow the joy of becoming a parent again. Offering some food to your ex doesn't mean shit, is she breast feeding the baby? If so, its important that she is healthy and eats well for the babies sake. Ray did everything correct in my opinion. I would have done the same.
The way AP cut her off tells me he’s married and isn’t trying to get further caught up. He’s hoping her husband doesn’t find his real fb account and mess up his spot.
People who encourage/affirm cheating make me sick. It’s disgusting. Especially when you’re married. I had a bf, he cheated, and it was heartbreaking. There is NO excuse for cheating (unless ur partner is like abusive or knowingly negligent)
Cheating is not a mistake, you knew this would affect your spouse, you knew it would affect your family members, you knew what it would do to yourself There is no “MiStAkE”, a mistake is accidentally walking into the wrong classroom, walking into another person’s bed is not a mistake, AS AN FUNCTIONING ADULT NO LESS
4:10 is the exact moment that she lost the right to be a family with her husband and children. It's that simple. She "could" have said no but she didn't. End of story. Gg go next
If you’re gonna do the commentary thing, as it wasn’t always like that, at least change the color or wait until after. There’s a real disconnect of suddenly interrupting the story with an offhand comment. I don’t mean to compare channels, but the mainly facts guy used to not have his color changed to a different color, but when he did it was a big help. And then he just started giving his say after each story, which I feel flows easier.
Or even better, just don't interject opinions at all. The video maker's opinions are totally banal and uninteresting, and add absolutely nothing to the stories. It's like "I was cheating for 2 months". Added opinion: "so she's been cheating for 2 months by this point. That's awful".
The difference between this channel and the mainly facts dude is that the latter actually tries with his content. This is just lazy text to speech with minimal editing, and lots of Ai stories. Cranking out just enough to get some ad revenue.
She thinks if they get back it’s good news? Not for him already baby trapped and every time she’s out of sight he’ll be worried who she’s opening her legs for?
the woman in the comments holding her hands are cheaters themselves that's why they didn't call her out on her shit and I love the fact she blame the affair partner ruining her marriage when it was she who ruining it. his single and new she was married he has no partner but she did she lost her kids and husband. he would be dumb to take her back.
The title spoke for itself. I'm not even going to watch because cheaters get what they get. As a child whose mother abandoned her, her siblings, and father, for a different man, I have no sympathy.
Francine isn’t the only guilty one here. It takes two to tangle. That said, Leonard is just as guilty. Francine, if she really is a changed person, that is up to her if she wants her husband back. However, it is ultimately up to the husband if he wants her back.
"It was just one stupid mistake!" Oh, no. No no no~! You do NOT get to play that card in this game! She made a fake Facebook profile for secret communications and snuck around her family to be with her affair partner. That shit takes conscious and deliberate effort and planning. That's not a mistake, she knew damn well what she was doing.
why should he be sorry? he got what he wanted and she could have stopped that way before her husband ever found out. Women control access to X men control access to relationships.
She is dillusional. I've met people who blew up their mariiages or those connected but still had kids to worry about. Once the kids were no longer needing them as part of support the cheaters found out they were just a now disposable side affect of the kid needing support. Your car is not working with kid "Okay, I'll come look at it." Without kid. "Why are you calling me!" Can't affored rent with kid. "Okay, I'll give you some money" Without kid "Why are you calling me!"
Blamed Leonard when it was her fault. If someone makes a move on you when you’re in a relationship with someone it’s your job to turn that person down. Also you got these people defending her, bunch of simps and women who also made bad decisions.
Every time i hear one of these stories and they say something along the lines of "i will stay by his side forever and never do something like this again" i chukle since over here there was a court ruling that the word "forever" means 10 years
"Well, isn't it the consequences of my own actions." Cheat on me once... I may forgive you, but I'll never be with you again. You will never have my trust. Forgiveness will be only because hate will bring me down, and I have to let hate go for me. But you'll never be back in my life. She got what she deserved. I guarantee everyone who was like... "Don't wear your infidelity as a Scarlett letter" were all cheaters at some point. So what... the VICTIMS (husband, kids, parents) are all supposed to roll over and say thank you? Girl, get out of here. Maybe one can overcome past wrongs... but first they have to own up to it and stop blaming everyone else and playing the victim... and second, they have to accept they aren't owed forgiveness and sometimes they just need to be better for someone new.
Bad move Ray, me personally ain't no way, I will help take care of my child, but no playing house with that cheater. She disrespected you for months and slept with you on the same day, while cheating until you caught wind of it. The kids can have a close relationship with their mother.
The saddest things about men and women . Most of the time they have been cheating for years. In that time they could have give their spouses a diseases. or std’s. But the funny part is they always want their spouses back after they have all the fun. That shit they really get on my nerves.. I believe that once you cheat your ass is done with me.
She's blind. The family is only there for the baby! They are being nice for the baby's sake. They are indifferent to her cause she doesn't matter anymore
Your husband and children did not abandon you. You betrayed and abandoned them by cheating. Yes your AP is in the wrong to sleep with married woman multiple times. But he didn’t force you to drop your shorts and open your legs multiple times . . . The first time you cheated you went home and gave your hubby sloppy seconds. You even noticed changes in your husband and didn’t care . . . YOU ABANDONED YOUR HUSBAND AND CHILDREN . . .
I have a theory that this is an AI reading from text, which is then automatically subtitled by AI. This is the only way I can explain both reading "AP" as "app" and "Libyan Craig".
Imagine you a cheater insulting your affair partner because they couldn’t stand by you. That’s when you need to take a long look in the mirror. He didn’t ruin your marriage you did.
If you've already accepted that it was 100% your fault, why do you feel the need to make a long a** post just to make excuses for yourself? People who fully accept that they're guilty also accept the consequences. You, on the other hand, are just looking for sympathy from strangers online. *SMH*
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All those women who commented things like: "you should not feel guilty for betraying your husband like that, and if he doesnt immediately forgive you for wgat you did, he never loved you" are honestly even worse than Francine here
They, and now also Francine, have _no idea_ just how much this kind of betrayal scars someone
You have alot of dregs from r/cheating that like to post on these stories giving support to fellow cheaters.
Punishment should suit the crime, in her case, where is the punishment?
Whoores defend other whoores. Always. Just look at twatter Siri g the Dillon Dan is Jake Logan fight when Dillon was just Posting Logan’s whoore pics with prev men.
Erry cvnt jumped to Nina’s defense
Exactly, still don't see anything 😞 wrong after being caught cheating, delusional ladies, in support of other cheaters.
The only people who sympathized with her were other cheaters. It's a circlejerk of garbage.
“Well what did you expect them do to?” is so true
Responsible, hard working, provider, loving father and husband...
Still gets betrayed.
...are they ever satisfied?
never, coitus is overrated, better alone than with bad company
Euhm first of all these story must be fake not cause women are Saint and would never cheat
The X chromosome don't got a cheating gene lol and neither is the Y so don't generalise it
Also what women calls a men a good provider
Also why are those story written like a novel
No. Never. The only ones i knew that never cheated were both of my grandmas, sadly, one died during Pandemic and the other one, well, my grandfather cheated and they divorced but they still on good terms. As of me, got cheated twice, they are never satisfied doesnt matter if you literally tear yourself apart to give them everything you have and more
"Oh, they should forgive you... and if they don't, then they never really loved you." Man, I hate that phase. I remember when this was used on me during my last breakup. If you really love a person, you don't need a reason to cheat! Forgiveness doesn't work like that. Forgiveness doesn't always mean reconciliation. You can't cheat on someone and expect them to want a relationship over an apology. Real love is being able to give a true apology and be okay with the outcome (even if it's not the outcome we want).
Honestly, I would love that to be banned from everywhere. Could you imagine the implications if you tell that to an abuse victim? "They truly love you if they forgive you"
Only you're telling the abuser that her victims should forgive her.
You said it perfectly. Forgiveness is for the peace of the soul and mind. And it never means reconciliation. Nor does it mean forgetting about what happened.
I once went to counselling after doing some shitty things that hurt someone I claimed to care about. When the counsellor tried to take that angle with me - that I wasn't to blame and all that - I told her that we were done and I didn't need another enabler in my life.
She’s not remorseful in the slightest. I’ve read posts from truly remorseful cheaters, and those people will go into great detail about their emotional state during the affair, line out all of their horrible actions, leave themselves open to public opinion. Even though they all say they “don’t know why” they did this, the truly remorseful will willingly bear that Scarlet Letter while trying to move on themselves, trying to earn a second chance with a new partner (never the AP) with full honesty about their past. This lady did none of that.
The fact there are women out there who are willing to cheat on me literally just because they felt like it is why I will always stay single
@@sliqyplayz8072 drop that toxic mindset bro, you’ll be better off in the long run not holding onto such negative blanket beliefs. The internet is a dark place.
Her plan was knowing the baby's father before she informs her husband instead, she went to her AP, so she can baby trap the husband. THE CRUELTY OF THIS WITCH. Unfortunately, she's dragging him back.
This woman is a piece of work
I think what you really meant was POS
AP didnt destroy OP's marriage, OP destroyed OP's marriage
Fast forward Ray ends up with a new girl and the ex wife goes into deep depression 😂, well that's my prediction.
Lol I can tell Ray doesn't take any BS so I can see that happening 😂
50/50 custody and having to pay child support is crazy
It’s the tell that the story is fake
@@MinisterManDanIt has happened before
@MinisterManDan this literally happened to my husband. When we got together he had 50/50 custody paying $400 a month in child support. And since the mom kept leaving their son with us we ended up fighting for full custody. We won and the courts established child support without us asking. They require the mom to pay $6 a month. Its laughable how corrupt the courts are when it comes to fathers.
Well, isn't that his kid?
@@narsilthefreak6171 is the mom gonna pay the dad child support also
The audacity of this woman
"i am sorry"
More like sorry for being caught
Ok my two cents regarding the story:
In these case the therapist probably should have been a man. According to the comments provided by different women, it's an echo chamber. They are downplaying betrayal to the level of a simple mistake and believe "if he truly loved me then he would have at least allowed me to explain." The whole fundamental is wrong. Men take this on a factual basis of what happened.
- She willingly decided keep talking with this guy.
- They met on multiple occasions alone.
- They created fake accounts to talk with each other.
- She hid everything from the first signs of things going beyond a friendly chat from her family, and even more so, her husband.
A man takes this as a woman choosing the other side. So the thing he did was separate and leave: "if i am not wanted, i will not try to keep things together". These are multiple choices, not a simple mistake. Whether you are a man or a woman, never take back a cheater, they proved they can't be trusted.
Regarding the video itself:
I think it would do good to change the format a bit. The story in a single color for the text, your own ideas in another color, and the comments from other people in a 3rd color, to keep everything organized and easy to understand. Also please try to separate what you say from the story itself. Try to make it one piece the story and then your input. Maybe a good idea would be to insert your own thinking between updates, or between the story and other people's comments, so we would know what is from you and what is from OP. It might help to keep things coherent. Best of luck Ngex.
But during the comments, the second or third comment was from a man who excused her cheating and said that his wife cheated on him and he's back together with her, so the therapist'd gender wouldn't 100% play a role in their advice.
Dude... this youtuber steals all his videos LOL.
You can literally see in his videos the phrase "hey guys. Mr Reddito here" - this is the catch phrase of another youtuber.
I’m a woman and I would never cheat on my partner, but I would also never forgive cheating. Those people are just shit and gender doesn’t matter.
That counselor should be fired immediately, she is not helping this woman she is deceiving her and blowing smoke up her behind.
These men are all just walking ATMs, until they walk.
She's a shallow and selfish person who blames everyone else but herself. I feel bad for the husband who's now stuck with her.
So let me get this straight... this "dark individual" persistently pursued her and resulted in her having an affair, and he's such a terrible person.... but now she's persistently pursuing her husband and luring him into taking her back and she sees this as a good thing?
She was "manipulated" = bad
She is manipulating = good
Man this woman is evil
She was effing deluded to think that her husband would be happy about having a child under those circumstances...as if a child would magically make everything better. Smdh. The stupidity
I hope he doesnt fall for her game. The baby was a pawn she used, cause she knew he wouldnt leave. Cheaters never take responsibility of their action.
How she jumped from "I just wait and be hopefull they will forgive me" to "hey, I'm pregnant, let's make a family together, right now".
But he was right to divorce her. She clearly didn't deserve the title of Wife.
14:52 and she had the audacity to call herself a "good wife"
I hate how other people seem to support her through out this. She is childish and can't take proper responsibility like an adult.
*"I accept 100% of the blame" proceeds to blame someone else. Typical woman*
Honestly, while accountability avoidance is very prominent in females, it tends to also be the MO of a typical cheater.
Either way makes her unfavorable.
some times reddit is toxic while other times its not
Right sometimes they call out bad behavior and shame it other times they encourage it and straight up victim blame I've noticed they typically are a lot more forgiving towards female cheaters then they are with male cheaters.
She’s the A and he knew she cheated, he found out and then she got confronted. Do you really think that you can be trusted?
Let's be clear: The woman is at fault and the man shouldn't take her back.
"If he really loved you..." He did love her, once before, and look how she treated it. She could have said no, she could have decided not to cheat, but she didn't. Let's play the same game: If she truly loved him, she wouldn't have even thought about cheating or acted upon it.
"This was a little mistake." No, this was a betrayal. He trusted her to have his back and to stay by his side, but she apparently couldn't maintain bare basics for that. She wanted excitement, she went for it, and she suffered the consequences that should have followed.
"He should take her back! She's sorry!" Sorry doesn't magically make things right. She hurt him in a way it seems only men these days seem to truly understand. We aren't allowed to be vulnerable most of the time, usually with anyone, and the few we consider close enough and trustworthy enough are like family. I have maybe three in my entire life that I am capable of allowing myself to lower my guard around and share any issues I might have. If any one of those three betrayed me on a similar scale, I wouldn't forgive them and I sure as hell would be guarded around the other two until I am certain they can't or won't betray me like others have.
A simple message to anyone reading, to any who decide to get into relationships: Never forget, never forgive. If they stab you once, they'll stab you again if they think they can get away with it. Don't give them that chance. You aren't in the wrong for leaving them, you deserve better, and if they try to tear you down for not taking them back remember they aren't worth your time. If they truly loved you, they wouldn't have done it in the first place.
The dog seems like the only loyal one there
Some points to note: she was not ashamed of cheating on her husband for THREE days a week, but of having been discovered. And as if that wasn't enough, she has the AUDACITY to try to convince her children that she was a great WIFE! And here comes the cherry: she babytrapped him!
This last one can be seen because the baby was not a reason for happiness due to the motherhood that OP tried for 15 years, but becayse this child was seen as a way for her to return to play her happy family game, which seerns this witch unfortunately will get. If she was so worried about her own baby, she would keep it regardless of who the father was. The fact that she would only keep the baby if it were Ray's shows how much she cares more about the doors that this being would open than about the child itself.
It can be seen that OP only regretted being DISCOVERED cheating when in a moment of desperation she wanted someone to say "it isn't your fault" and when her parents didn't do so, she called the home wrecker to get a "shoulder to cry on." Honestly, OP is a disgusting woman who unfortunately got things her way. And I still can't believe that this delusional therapist tried to victim blame while flattering OP, I'd rather think she just did it for the money.
"Sorry" is when you break your partner's favorite beer glass, or if you dinged their car or something.... "Sorry" is for an accident, something that was completely unintentional, what she did was none of those things.
She deserves to be alone, more than that, she should have "Cheater" tattooed on her forehead so she can't hurt anyone else.
Only a cheating woman would side with her. Bro was getting sloppy 2nds from his own wife, disgusting behavior. Cheating is never a mistake, it's a series of choices one willingly makes. This is why I'll never reconsile with my gf/wife if she ever cheated.
I hope that Ray doesn't get back together with her due to the reason for her infidelity. She had done it once what's stopping her from doing it again when another person shows signs of interest in her. That temptation will be there and she'll either stay true to her hopes for a happy life or cheat again and things will be back to square one all over again with her life hanging on by a thread.
No matter how happy they may become he should never ever marry her again. That way she would’ve had a consequence, and he could walk out if she ever did something like that again.
Cheaters support and encourage cheaters, who could see that lol. Garbage is garbage.
'And just like that there was no, I'm sorry for destroying your marriage Francine' So now its all his fault you cheated on your husband?
"I won't blame it on someone else" 1 minute later "I fell under the deception of a very dark person". Well, that didn't take long, ham?
If you plan on adding your own commentary, change the color so its less confusing. Or even the tts
Was looking for someone else to be like minded. Probably the 2nd, or maybe the same channel, to do this. I'm not a fan of hearing their input in the story. I'm just here to listen to the story. Do it at the end or at least make it more obvious that its not a part of the story by using another ai voice
Literally takes responsibility for NOTHING LOL
It’s always “a stupid mistake” goddamn
11:36 It wasn’t one mistake it was multiple cuz it didn’t just happen once..
Take note of how she brought this guy up in colloquial conversation with her husband. She did this for very specific reason.
Betrayal stands as one of the most grievous wrongs one can inflict upon another, especially between spouses. To downplay such an act is greatly reflective of one's character.
Betrayal is one of the worst action you can cause another human being....particularly husband and wife. The minimization of the act itself is very much an image of character.
Honestly, I don't think she's reeling him back in, I think the OP's perception of what's happening at the end is just more evidence of her delusions/selfishness. She even says it without realizing it. Her kids come by every weekend to hold the baby, taking turns holding the baby. She takes that as them forgiving her instead of just trying to bond with their sibling. All of their actions she describes are actually focused around the baby, not her. Her ex-husband comes by every night to hold and bond with the baby...and then LEAVES as soon as they put the baby down for the night. He said he wanted an amicable co-parenting relationship and split custody. But you can only rarely get fully split custody with a newborn due to physical needs. So he's coming to bond with his son and then LEAVING immediately after he's asleep. Yeah, he brought food once, he's either decent or hungry. She's super convinced all of this means she's going to get everything she wants...but then she was also absolutely convinced everything would go well once she found out she was pregnant. She's deluding herself and everything the others are doing are about the baby, not her.
Always disgusting when cheaters say others destroyed their relationship. The cheater chose to destroy her marriage when she cheated. Not to mention cheaters downplaying serial cheating as a singular mistake
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
You gotta change the subtitle color of your commentary tho
Would help a lot
Edit: gosh she just doesn't want any accountability
I dont even need to heard this story to say that.
1: Save the marriage, Yeah no that's not gonna happen, The trust is broken and you wont be able to fix that.
2: You have a 50/50 chance to save the relationship with your kids, It all depends on how act and prove that you have changed your ways.
3: Its possible for you to have a friendly relationship with the Father of your children.
Cheaters always think they can fix shit, its like you smashing a vase and thinking you can fix it with glue. Yes it might be whole again but the cracks will never go away.
Sorry for destroying your marriage?!? SHE destroyed her marriage and family.
It is inconceivably sad that your partner being very affectionate is a red flag, but that's really how it is now. Cheaters are never truly remorseful, male or female doesn't matter. They're all the same. Edit: WOW I can't believe she would expect her lover to apologize for "ruining her marriage" lol okay, human garbage can
POV: If Invincible was a 7 Seasons of this.
About bringing food and staying intill night time is something you should do.. Not because you care about the your ex wife/girlfriend but because of the baby.. Your hate for your cheating wife won't overshadow the joy of becoming a parent again. Offering some food to your ex doesn't mean shit, is she breast feeding the baby? If so, its important that she is healthy and eats well for the babies sake.
Ray did everything correct in my opinion. I would have done the same.
The way AP cut her off tells me he’s married and isn’t trying to get further caught up. He’s hoping her husband doesn’t find his real fb account and mess up his spot.
Loving narrator's little jabs whilst he's reading this.
I Feel sick hearing this 🤢
I'm pretty sure this is lifted directly from the Find Your Alpha channel, and redone with an artificial voice. If so, that's not a good look.
It's not a good look at all; and this isn't the first story from fya either
I kinda expected the husband would be gathering information about her
People who encourage/affirm cheating make me sick. It’s disgusting. Especially when you’re married. I had a bf, he cheated, and it was heartbreaking. There is NO excuse for cheating (unless ur partner is like abusive or knowingly negligent)
If she was relieved to know it's really rays, kid does that mean that there is another potential dad
Brodie is a badass. Although he should’ve told her to terminate the damn thing, he handled it like a true og
Cheating is not a mistake, you knew this would affect your spouse, you knew it would affect your family members, you knew what it would do to yourself
There is no “MiStAkE”, a mistake is accidentally walking into the wrong classroom, walking into another person’s bed is not a mistake, AS AN FUNCTIONING ADULT NO LESS
she tripped and fell on another mans junk at least what 17 times give or take.
Very Good story. I'm in love with your channel
4:10 is the exact moment that she lost the right to be a family with her husband and children. It's that simple. She "could" have said no but she didn't. End of story. Gg go next
If you’re gonna do the commentary thing, as it wasn’t always like that, at least change the color or wait until after. There’s a real disconnect of suddenly interrupting the story with an offhand comment. I don’t mean to compare channels, but the mainly facts guy used to not have his color changed to a different color, but when he did it was a big help. And then he just started giving his say after each story, which I feel flows easier.
Thank you I thought I was the only one who complained about this format off videos, cause it sometimes gets hard to distinguish who is taking
Or even better, just don't interject opinions at all. The video maker's opinions are totally banal and uninteresting, and add absolutely nothing to the stories. It's like "I was cheating for 2 months". Added opinion: "so she's been cheating for 2 months by this point. That's awful".
The difference between this channel and the mainly facts dude is that the latter actually tries with his content. This is just lazy text to speech with minimal editing, and lots of Ai stories. Cranking out just enough to get some ad revenue.
@@afroforeskinit’s actually stolen from a channel called find your alpha
She thinks if they get back it’s good news? Not for him already baby trapped and every time she’s out of sight he’ll be worried who she’s opening her legs for?
Guys, are you not observing how strong the MORAL values of your GF before marrying them?
the woman in the comments holding her hands are cheaters themselves that's why they didn't call her out on her shit and I love the fact she blame the affair partner ruining her marriage when it was she who ruining it. his single and new she was married he has no partner but she did she lost her kids and husband. he would be dumb to take her back.
The title spoke for itself. I'm not even going to watch because cheaters get what they get. As a child whose mother abandoned her, her siblings, and father, for a different man, I have no sympathy.
When even the narrator roasts you
Francine isn’t the only guilty one here. It takes two to tangle. That said, Leonard is just as guilty. Francine, if she really is a changed person, that is up to her if she wants her husband back. However, it is ultimately up to the husband if he wants her back.
You can’t be influenced to cheat! You choose it!
I've never hated an anonymous stranger more.
I like this poster, he say reality to these Ops, people need more harsh reality instead of cuddling,
How do u go from walking ur dog to leting him walk his dog into u😂😂😂😂
"It was just one stupid mistake!"
Oh, no. No no no~! You do NOT get to play that card in this game! She made a fake Facebook profile for secret communications and snuck around her family to be with her affair partner. That shit takes conscious and deliberate effort and planning. That's not a mistake, she knew damn well what she was doing.
why should he be sorry? he got what he wanted and she could have stopped that way before her husband ever found out. Women control access to X men control access to relationships.
She is dillusional. I've met people who blew up their mariiages or those connected but still had kids to worry about. Once the kids were no longer needing them as part of support the cheaters found out they were just a now disposable side affect of the kid needing support.
Your car is not working with kid "Okay, I'll come look at it." Without kid. "Why are you calling me!"
Can't affored rent with kid. "Okay, I'll give you some money" Without kid "Why are you calling me!"
Blamed Leonard when it was her fault. If someone makes a move on you when you’re in a relationship with someone it’s your job to turn that person down. Also you got these people defending her, bunch of simps and women who also made bad decisions.
She doesn't feel the pain that he feels. Just awful and terrible.
Every time i hear one of these stories and they say something along the lines of "i will stay by his side forever and never do something like this again" i chukle since over here there was a court ruling that the word "forever" means 10 years
To play on her past to minimize her affair what victimhood she's trying to act like a victim for her terrible choices what a joke
Francine is delusional to the fullest extent of the word
Another strong independent woman looking for the support of a not for nothing man!!!
"Well, isn't it the consequences of my own actions."
Cheat on me once... I may forgive you, but I'll never be with you again. You will never have my trust.
Forgiveness will be only because hate will bring me down, and I have to let hate go for me. But you'll never be back in my life.
She got what she deserved. I guarantee everyone who was like... "Don't wear your infidelity as a Scarlett letter" were all cheaters at some point. So what... the VICTIMS (husband, kids, parents) are all supposed to roll over and say thank you? Girl, get out of here.
Maybe one can overcome past wrongs... but first they have to own up to it and stop blaming everyone else and playing the victim... and second, they have to accept they aren't owed forgiveness and sometimes they just need to be better for someone new.
Bad move Ray, me personally ain't no way, I will help take care of my child, but no playing house with that cheater. She disrespected you for months and slept with you on the same day, while cheating until you caught wind of it. The kids can have a close relationship with their mother.
Which subreddit was this on? The comments were waaaay more supportive than how Reddit typically treats cheaters. It was uncanny and creepy.
lol SHE abandoned THEM way before she said they abandoned her. what a hippocrit
"...over one stupid mistake."
Actually, it was 16 to 17 times that you made 1 mistake.
The saddest things about men and women . Most of the time they have been cheating for years. In that time they could have give their spouses a diseases. or std’s. But the funny part is they always want their spouses back after they have all the fun. That shit they really get on my nerves.. I believe that once you cheat your ass is done with me.
She's blind. The family is only there for the baby! They are being nice for the baby's sake. They are indifferent to her cause she doesn't matter anymore
Your husband and children did not abandon you. You betrayed and abandoned them by cheating. Yes your AP is in the wrong to sleep with married woman multiple times. But he didn’t force you to drop your shorts and open your legs multiple times . . . The first time you cheated you went home and gave your hubby sloppy seconds. You even noticed changes in your husband and didn’t care . . . YOU ABANDONED YOUR HUSBAND AND CHILDREN . . .
If your relationship was so rock steady why did it take so little effort to get you to cheat?
I have a theory that this is an AI reading from text, which is then automatically subtitled by AI. This is the only way I can explain both reading "AP" as "app" and "Libyan Craig".
I hate the commentary during the reading. It isn't needed.
All I can is if the tables were reversed she would’ve done the same thing
I heard that prenatal tests have health risks for the baby. I guess she doesn't care about that. Only cared about this could help her.
Imagine you a cheater insulting your affair partner because they couldn’t stand by you. That’s when you need to take a long look in the mirror. He didn’t ruin your marriage you did.
Control of her mind but not her legs. She can’t keep them closed.
Ppl have a right to cut/ghost ppl wen they betray your trust. Cheaters defend cheaters lol
The fuck is this…? There’s the OP as narrator, then a different voice adding analysis and commentary …all in the same voice. Fucking hilarious.
If you've already accepted that it was 100% your fault, why do you feel the need to make a long a** post just to make excuses for yourself? People who fully accept that they're guilty also accept the consequences. You, on the other hand, are just looking for sympathy from strangers online. *SMH*
That post's entire comment section probably turned to cheaters-united reunion