I Dug Up My Mom's Grave
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Five years after my mom died, I went back to Iowa do find her gravestone. What I didn't expect was nearly a foot of snow dumping onto me and everything around me the day I arrived - including the gravestones. But I made the best of it, and after a morning of digging up graves, I finally found my mom's. Also included are some pictures of the less morbid things I did during my time in the Quad Cities. Make sure to subscribe to my channel to keep up with new videos!
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Nick- Don't apologize for crying. I have been watching since you worked at the hotel in Davenport. I remember when your mother was sick and passed away. I totally understand how you felt and how you feel. My mother passed away unexpectedly this year on June 4th. My brother and I cremated my mother and got some keepsake little urns. I went on an 8k mile cross country trip this summer and took my mother with me. I left a little bit of her on top of Sentinel Dome at Yosemite National Park. Take care.
Please fine a niche for her somewhere. I say this because I worked at the coroner's office. After a generation or two, these urns turn up in the hands of careless family or strangers and we take possession of them and throw them in a potters field.
who else thought he really dig up someone's grave.... I was thinking that this video was going to be a Norman Bates thing... by the name of the title 😅😓😄😅😅😅😅
Ya know that's why I clicked on here lol
why would some one dig up some ones grave hes not crazy
Clickbait!
My grandpa died last year and I miss him so much 😭💔 god bless you 😢😇❤
Are you in California
My grandpa’s brain is failing and he is going to go in a own home you know where they take old people
Don't worry bro
Nick, your video was not at all creepy. From a time of grieving to a time of celebration, everyone and every culture has its own way of dealing with death. And while it snowed there, sometimes the best time is right after the snow fall when every thing is decorated in white. Your pictures captured that beauty
Well, I haven’t been able to see my mom’s grave since we buried her last April. I’m not emotionally stable for it. She joined my dad whom we buried in 2021. I talk to them every day, this is how I cope with losing them. Have them on my fridge all smiles, saying my good morning and good night to them every day. I guess this video was a reminder that it’s ok, i can go see their graves and be ok after it. 🖤
omg bless you sweetheart its ok to cry she is your mum and like you said you have more of your mum at home and BEAUTIFUL memories of her she's with you everywhere you go god bless xxx
Thanks for sharing such a personal experience...right before thanksgiving when we're all thinking of our families even if we can't be with them
I'm very sorry for your loss. I lost my mother a couple of years ago. I haven't gone back to her grave yet. I watched this because of the title. I thought that maybe one other person is having the same issue as myself. But ,alas , no. I had the need to knock over the care takers as they buried my mother. I just wanted to dig her up out of that cold ground. So, I don't go to mothers grave as I don't want to be arrested. It's starting to sink in now that mother is really dead and not cold or in pain. It's taking me a long while to work through moms death. My heart goes out to you.
Something happens when you see the stone with your loved ones name and dates. It breaks you down to reality.
Your mom omg I fell so bad she's your mom she cooks for u helps you and especially she loves u .remerber wherever she is she is still with u
sorry you lost your mother especially as young as you seem to be....good to see a young man that still shows appreciation of his mother although she's in a urn at your home which is better if you feel she's closer to your heart that way.sbes with you always and you'll see her again one day....my mom was 49 yrs old when she passed away a young lady to soon to be tooken and I was 27 to young to be without my mother I know all to well how life changes when this has happened so hang in there nick
you are not alone brother,i visit my dad's grave time to time......very,very sad reality check.
I'm so very sorry for your loss.. it's ok to cry hun.. she was your mother. You obviously love her very much. I don't know what you're belifs Are, but I believe our departed are with is still us no matter if they are alive or have left us.
It's ok to show emotion, you love your Mom! I understand!
I truly understand how you feel I visit my mothers grave yesterday, I lost it emotionally. Thank you for sharing..
Very sweet little video. Thanks for sharing this with us Nickas!
God bless you sweetheart.May your mom be at peace with the angels and the saints!❤️😘
I'm sorry for your loss. It sucks. Prayers
I lost my mom 6 years ago and I can not let go of her ashes I still do the ugly cry when I hold her I hope you found what you were searching for peace
I'm so sorry for your loss. Glad you got to see where your mom is buried and you saw the stone. God bless you.
Happy you were able to do what you wanted. I'm sure that she is looking down and smiling. Lost my Mama 3 yrs ago and part of me went with her. God bless you.
I'm soooo sorry for your loss Nick, bless you sweetie.
It is good you are talking about your grief....you are allowed to ugly cry, handsome cry...any type of cry ......if you had no emotion at all to your moms grave, that would be odd.....hope you have good memories to last your life time.....
your mum is in your memories and heart and she is wherever you are xx
chellyw63 ,
Sorry for your loss just know that her love is always with you. The grave, urn, the ocean nomatter where their bodies are, "the grave", death, is not the end.
My story is almost just like yours. I did this trip in April, the feelings are hard to explain, relief, closer. I last was here in 1968. 50 yrs. just wanted to share.
My Dad died when I was 4. Because of family circumstances I was never taken back to see his gravesite which is in Texas but several hundred miles away. At 22 I decided it was time to return there. After all those years and thinking I'd be walking a cemetery alone just wandering. As I pulled in something just told me to take the last drive in. I parked in the middle of that last road and started the first row of graves to my left. I found my grandparents within a couple of minutes and my Dad next to them. I'm sure the other people driving down the road running by the cemetery or even on the interstate could hear me wailing for a good 20 minutes. The sense of sorrow, loss and yes anger just poured from my soul. My Dad died just before Christmas driving drunk and just happened to
Sorry....meet another drunk driver at what the DPS at that time estimated was about 80mph at midnight. I never knew or admitted I was angry at his drunk driving until my soul poured it out. I'm sure the lady at the sheriffs office where I went to inquire about who to have his headstone pulled and replaced because after almost 20 years it had settled thought I was there to report a crime. My face was red and blotchy and my eyes were red and almost swollen shut and we don't want to mention the black mascara eyes and red runny nose. I too did not expect this emotion. I knew I would be sad but nothing like this. As heartbreaking as it was it was the best thing I ever did. After I got home I knew I was at peace now. God bless you for completing your quest. I pray you too have felt the sense of relief. It wasn't just a grave marker it was leaving a heartfelt reminder to the world she was here and she was loved.
dcricket1 thanks for sharing that story. I'm sorry for your loss.
My grandma died 3 months ago and I still miss her a lot. May God and the angels take cake care of her
Nice to hear from you as always.
So Sorry for your loss ... my mom passed away in dic 22/2010 also... God bless you!
Sorry for your loss
Clearly a touching experience for you Nick. I used to have friends who lived in Geneseo (sp?) Illinois and I visited there a couple of times while I lived in St. Louis. On one of those visits we went into Davenport and saw George Carlin do his show. My total Quad Cities experience. Thanks for sharing!
If you ever read this your mom is with you there in spirit
You're a good son. I'm sorry for your loss.🧡💚💜
Greetings from Melbourne Australia Hope your ok mate, it's hard when we loose a love one. Remember the good times you both shared, stay strong God bless you ❤
sorry for your loss
I'm sorry for your loss
My sister Michelle who was only 19 years old when she died in 1986. Where she is buried is a part of the newer graves at the the time of her untimly death. She has a plack type grave stone like your moms. It is certaintly a pain in the Ass to find her when I want to visit her which is often. I hated trying to look for her even though i know exactly where she is.She hasnt moved for 36 years now. I do how ever go one row up but at least its in the same place. Though my older brothers grave which is in another Cemetery in his Wife's family plot his grave Stone is easier to to find. Which i wish my sister grave would be too.
I'm so sorry and my God bless u. I feel really sad by watching u.😥life is crazy. Anyways good luck bro
That’s really sad your mom died and that’s really sad my mom I never want my mom to die she’s the best I love her so much so I feel really bad no offense but your mom is a great person. 😭
@@xxmidnightxxyeckel9126 same here
I would love to see how my grandpa looks like he past away from a stork and I am sorry for your lost
Queen Royalty a stork do you mean a stroke?
Guys stop being so mean to him he is going through a hard time in his life!! What if your mom died how would u feel! Loosing someone hurts even though I haven’t lost a family member in my main family I can still know the feeling by trying to be in somebody’s shoes! Have you ever heard about that.. If not I guess you haven’t been a good listener in school! We should all stop letting people feel bad about themselves! There would be a lot less suicidal deaths if we stop hating!! Thank you for your time! Make a difference in this world! (I’m 14) I realize that this video was posted two years or so ago but still!!
My dad died 2 year's ago (Thanksgiving Morning). Everytime I visit his grave, my tear's pour. I know how you feel. It's called Grief and it really suck's.
You are a good son,your mom would be so proud of you,but not surprised I bet !😘
I'm so sorry about your Mom.
Thanks!
My twin brother died in my arms on the side of a highway, as the result of a car accident by a drunken driver, when I was 14. This March will be the 20th anniversary....
God bless you my heart bleeds for you I lost my daughter 19 months ago and I do the ugly cry every night here is a video hug xox
That makes me so sad to read. Very sorry for your loss; I cannot imagine. Wishing you the best.
it's ok to cry
I almost cried because I understand what your going throu my mother died of drug overdose but it's ok she died when I was 2 years old. my father raised me and my brother by himself I have allot of respect for u and him god bless u all 😇😇
It's. Ok. To. Cry, I. Know. What. U. Going. Through, it. Sucks, I. Miss. My. Mom. Too
My dad died when I was 17 he had a really good gasket and it really good Bolt and my grandpa tells me that in a hundred years he could be dug up and get still look the same so that's just something I'm curious about and mind you this was back in 2011
Thx for sharing. Very cute & touching.
I am sorry for your loss. :( I am from the quad cities too!
In other country's they take out the body's put new clothes on them and worship the death and the take them out for pictures every year 3yrs
I cant believe you dug up her grave.
I don't know how or why I ended up on this video. But, thank you.
The best thing I've found out to heal my heart from that loss if mom. Look in a mirror. Then know that shes a part of you allways. Your part lives on. You will see trates of her in you. The love never dies.
Nick, I am really sorry for some of these comments I'm reading in here.. I really feel for you and sorry for your loss. Big hug from me!
my mom died when i was 2 i really miss her too skull girl im also sorry for your loss
Your mom was cremated & is in your home....and you got on a plane to visit an EMPTY grave???? Seriously?
I. Do. It. Ever time. I. Think. About. My. Mother
I realize this video is somewhat old but I felt an odd closeness to you. I've been to that location many times over the years and admired those roses on various occasions. I even recall seeing your snowman albeit partially melted and praying your family finds relief. So although bittersweet seeing this video, I hope you find a little comfort knowing some slightly strange woman nearby is helping tend to this beautiful memorial for your mother for no other reason than just knowing that feeling as well. I'm sorry for your loss, darling.
Really?? You've been there and seen the grave site? That's pretty amazing. What a coincidence. Thanks for sending some good vibes. It has been over six years since she died, but I've only seen the spot at the cemetery twice and it's never easy. xoxo
nickasarbata I actually moved here almost 6 years ago and have a dear friend I've been visiting there for the last 4 years. I also have a similar situation with my great grandparents. Though I have their ashes with me visiting the plots back home hits me hard every time after close to 12 years. That's the thing about love! :) Thank you for taking the time to connect with a stranger. xoxo
My mom just passed in October I can’t bring myself to go to the cemetery it’s too soon and the pain still intense 😢
It's a good thing to visit your mom's grave, the over dramatic and misleading title we could have done without.
i thought this was going to be something completely different
I'm sorry for your lost nick I subscribe to your channel
My Granpa and my grandma died, I HATE CANCER
My grandmother died 1 year ago today.
RIP...
Hallo Nick es ist gut so nur starke Männer zeigen wahre Gefühle.Ich habe mein liebsten Bruder verloren, sei tapfer,du trägst sie in deinem Herzen.❤liche Grüsse aus Deutschland von einer 79zig jährigen alten Seele.
February 27 of next year will mark 12 years since my mom passed
why does there have to be rude comments my grandma is baired she's cremated and in unrin if you want to pay that kind of money u can do it that way cremate her then Barie her if thats what he wanted to when it's time for his mom to go it's his right to do that it not right to judge some one and call it fake when in reality you don't know what really happened none of us do
Why can people leave the dead alone let them rest in piece
I lost my great grandparents and I lost my grandpa in January
be strong man that hard
Wow I'm in Il we don't have snow yet. But I know it's coming😔
Sorry to hear about your mother young man.i hope your well.remember Jesus loves her and you.
Wow this just came up on my feed. Iam a subscriber and iam not sure when I subscribed to your channel. Anyway I live in Texas iam from Illinois and the weirdest thing is I was sitting here thinking I was bummed I didn't go to my mom's grave when I went back home. That's cause I don't believe she is there I know she is with me always. It had been 17 years since I had been home. I just found it strange this video popped up at this time. She would love the snowman better than flowers cause you made it yourself. Much love. Here in 2019
take it for what it's worth the guys mom died and he hypothetically dug her up hence he dug her tombstone up
Is that his mom's jacket he's wearing, too?
I've gone to my parents grave, and I always fill that I'm at home, I don't know why maybe cause there was so much going on at there burials, don't know why ?
So sad... Bless Your Heart.
OK, not knocking, but dont understand driving to BFE when shes in an urn at your house. That said, the only creepy part was the snowman in the middle of the cemetery !!
Anyway, glad you got it done, and hope it brought you a little peace brother.
I'm so sorry. I want you to know the creepiest treasure map is a term i will use from this day until my last day. Thank you for sharing this! ❤
I'm sorry to here that
I did not dig it up
Your a good son but we have known that. Actually it reminded me of my experience doing the same thing only I thought it was part of the cost which had been paid. Two years after I could return I discovered there was nothing but a piece of card board with her name and dates. Needless to say I stormed into the cemetery office furious that there was no plaque (she is buried next to my dad). Long story short, they ordered one. I couldn't understand why they hadn't contacted me about it. Memories come up when we least expect. Good you can feel those emotions and still express them. Remember the good times and be thank for this Thanksgiving Day.
I live in the quad cities 😂 seen this video once didn’t realize it was close to here, seeing it again I realized lol
Nick you should take a still from that footage of the tree with red berries covered in snow and make it into a Christmas card! That was gorgeous.
Wow my mom passed 5yrs ago .
Very sorry to hear it.
My brother died so I make old videos
and thats what I always said I want when I die is to be cremated and baried next to my dad I been saying that ever since I was a little girl and still say it to this day and 40 I want to cremated as well as be baried next to my dad there is nothing wrong with that and be sides it's his money being spent to cremate her and then Barie her next to her mom and buy the grave stone not any one else money being spent on his mom its his and it shows how much he loves his mother
I'm sorry
yes him and his sister has some of her ashes in a little urine sorry I can't spell to day but any ways even though they each her ashes to have her around does not mean the rest of her ashes didn't get baried next to her mother because I know some friends of mine kepted some of there dad's ashes and baried the rest of the ashes next to there grandma and grandpa there dads parents and if she was not baried there he would not been able to the paper saying where she was baried
Wow, nice click bait title. You shoveled snow off of her grave. I thought this was going to be interesting.
!!!!!! I live in Aurora,Illinois!!!
My grandma died 7 months ago I miss her soooo much and I’m ONLY 7 years old
im sorry i dont mean to sound mean but he dont look or sound sad hes sounds like he just wanted to make a video
Im so impressed on your determination to actually find her ..
Ps ..nothing creepy about this video
My uncle died July 7th at 4:45 pm 2019 and so today is his birthday and he was in the army he is now 90 years old Name: George Stallings earned the purple heart the rarest army award children: 2 son's btw sorry for ur loss
How is Purple Heart the rarest when almost 2 million people were awarded it? The Badge of Military Merit created by General Washington in American Rev-War, is a badge that gets awarded for the same reason as Purple Heart. If anything the rarest is The Victoria Cross
She died when I still in my mom stomach