The old adage “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater” is practically being screeched from the rooftops. Guy should have packed it in and divorced her after the first affair, especially if he had evidence.
I know this may be cruel but I genuinely do not like OP in first story. He's too forgiving especially towards his ex wife and mom when they had both hurt him and allowed their mistreatment of him to be brushed off. I really wish he learns to cherish and respect himself more.
And if.you love me you would fight for.me. and this will affect someone elses child very negatively if you stop being a father to them. You owe us that much... lmfao
“This is how brothers bond.” Hmmm… I grew up with two older brothers; I don’t recall ever bonding with them by trying to feed them screws. Hell, the two of them fussed at each other constantly, and they didn’t do that shit… Although when they were 7-8ish, the oldest tied a brick to a string hoisted it up from a tree limb and dropped it on the younger’s head, and my middle brother whacked (more dropped it on top, really) the oldest in the head with a rake-one of the rigid-tined metal ones. You could still see the dimple in the top of the oldest’s head in his twenties and thirties after he started shaving his head. 😂
I really don't like the OP in story 1. Yeah, his brother and his ex are the biggest assholes with his mother not far behind, but he's far from innocent, or at least so stupid I can't feel sympathy for him. He forgave his wife for cheating TWICE (once I can maybe see, but twice? Sympathy gone), then he abandoned the kid. Yeah, most people will say that he has no responsibility to "another man's child" but we know that he and his ex were married at least 4 years and that the kid was concieved before... 4+ years and he feels nothing by vanishing from his life? Then his mother... so no confrontation? No telling her how this is all her doing by coddling the brother all his life? No? Just forget about everything? If you're doing that then you might as well just forgive your brother, since the only one setting any boundaries with her is the father (who is the least asshole but is still an asshole for not nipping that behavior in the bud as soon as he could).
The old adage “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater” is practically being screeched from the rooftops. Guy should have packed it in and divorced her after the first affair, especially if he had evidence.
Why do people always say "I don't wanna raise my child(ren) in a broken home" when the cheater already fkn broke it.
What kinda logic is that??
Doormat logic sadly.
Sunk cost fallacy unfortunatelly
Story 1: Serves the brother right. He kept screwing around and kept finding out and now he REALLY found out
Story 1:
This why u dont take back cheaters because they will do it again if they think they're not going to get caught again
I know this may be cruel but I genuinely do not like OP in first story. He's too forgiving especially towards his ex wife and mom when they had both hurt him and allowed their mistreatment of him to be brushed off. I really wish he learns to cherish and respect himself more.
You were such a wonderful father that i just couldnt stop acrewing your brother. Lol
And if.you love me you would fight for.me. and this will affect someone elses child very negatively if you stop being a father to them. You owe us that much... lmfao
“This is how brothers bond.” Hmmm… I grew up with two older brothers; I don’t recall ever bonding with them by trying to feed them screws. Hell, the two of them fussed at each other constantly, and they didn’t do that shit… Although when they were 7-8ish, the oldest tied a brick to a string hoisted it up from a tree limb and dropped it on the younger’s head, and my middle brother whacked (more dropped it on top, really) the oldest in the head with a rake-one of the rigid-tined metal ones. You could still see the dimple in the top of the oldest’s head in his twenties and thirties after he started shaving his head. 😂
I really don't like the OP in story 1. Yeah, his brother and his ex are the biggest assholes with his mother not far behind, but he's far from innocent, or at least so stupid I can't feel sympathy for him. He forgave his wife for cheating TWICE (once I can maybe see, but twice? Sympathy gone), then he abandoned the kid. Yeah, most people will say that he has no responsibility to "another man's child" but we know that he and his ex were married at least 4 years and that the kid was concieved before... 4+ years and he feels nothing by vanishing from his life? Then his mother... so no confrontation? No telling her how this is all her doing by coddling the brother all his life? No? Just forget about everything? If you're doing that then you might as well just forgive your brother, since the only one setting any boundaries with her is the father (who is the least asshole but is still an asshole for not nipping that behavior in the bud as soon as he could).
Story 2 I would just start a sexting conversation with him and send him his mom's pictures.
This is straight bull$#@%
So, he didn't stand up to his brother at all and then forgive his wife for cheating moron
Did you watch the full story or did you stop at certain points of the story
No