Story 1 op is a strong woman for not putting up her ex bs behavior. He thinks he can live a double life. His kids hated him even his stepkids are fed up with him while he's in a fog of fantasy. He's a pig who couldn't keep it in his pant who's behind child support payment for months smh such a waste of a man, choosing his stepkids who didn't accept him as their dad 🙄 waste his marriage for nothing
Story 2 this op is a doormat She had zero consequences for her emotional affair so she know she can do it again and this man wil only talk his feelings and cry and she will put an act as the remorseful wife . Classic spineless simp Charming. Next time she will go physical
He isn’t even trying to hide the fact that he’d rather be his stepkids’ dad instead of being a dad to his own kids, and only he and presumably his new wife are the ones that want this. OP’s kids don’t want to be neglected. The stepkids already have a dad. OP has done everything possible to have him be a dad for their kids barring locking them all up in a room and forcing them to spend time together. He’s even lying to his own mother to get him on his side. He’s a POS through and through.
Not the 8 year old writing “stories for kids without a dad” right in front of his father! Lmao what a lad! Kid was done with the father’s behavior and was not afraid to show it.
Story 1: Idk why he’s suddenly sad that his biological kids don’t talk to him or interact with him. If he wanted his kids to like him, maybe he should’ve put in the effort to actually be there for his kids instead of treating it as it’s a job.
S2: so She told him to his face that she didn't care how he felt about her "friendship" with this guy, yet as soon as OP stops tolerating it she "coincidentally" already cut it off with the guy after "suddenly realizing" they had "feeling for each other" after all?... man sure is convienient timing that she stopped as soon as OP put his foot down, but this level of disrespect was heavily facilitated by OP TELLING HER THAT HE WOULDN'T LEAVE HER NO MATTER WHAT! Why would you ever tell your wife overstepping boundaries that you aren't going to leave her for overstepping boundaries? OP might as well of gave her permission.
Facts. If you won’t ever leave for any reason then you don’t have boundaries. She might as well have slept with the AP, because there is no way to know if she did or not. The OP is a glutton for punishment or has no self worth. She told him that she wouldn’t want her mother knowing about her habits and she wouldn’t stand for her husband behaving the same way. How many ways can she tell the OP that she’s unhappy with the marriage and wants more?
1st story that dad is trash he left his wife and sons to be another man’s stand in! He is so in love with the mistress/new wife that he don’t even care about his own children and openly hurting them over and over and have the nerve to want to ask about if he is a good dad! Complete trash and that mistress would have gotten slapped if she open her disgusting mouth in front me! Her 15 with be her punishment when she curse her out and call her a dirty home wrecker shameless mistress.
Story 1 - The step kids have it worse. Think about it. They were forced to live with their crappy mom and her affair partner. The guy that ruined their family. The new baby means he's not going anywhere any time soon. They don't seem like dumb kids either. They must know he doesn't even try to be a dad to his biological kids. They're going to hate their mom even more for the fact she forced them all to play happy family with the guy that ruined their lives. Call the new baby what it is: the do-over child. His step kids hate him. His biological children are moving on. That baby is his only chance to be the dad he wasn't to his other kids.
The line “I wanted to cry so badly, but I am a darn mother.” Made me think of my mom. It wasn’t until I met other moms as an adult that I realized how strong she was for me. She almost never cried in front of me. Only funerals and when she didn’t know I was watching her. ❤
The level of doormatism in story 2 is epic and sad. He is ready to fight for her but not himself. People, love yourself before you jump into loving another.
Story 2: She not only broke his trust, she danced on the shattered pieces. The fact that they sat down and seriously talked and she admitted that if the roles were reversed, she’d be mad and hate it, but kept doing it should tell you everything. That won’t be fixed with “counseling” or letting someone “be nosy”. I don’t think I could genuinely trust my spouse after a situation like that. I’d be heavily considering other options at that point.
2nd story the wife cheated first in front her simp husband and didn’t even respect him or cared about his feelings and it is clear about the type of person she is because after her AP wife told him to stop talking to her the sneaked around doing it behind the wife back like two shameless cheaters! OP you wife had a boyfriend on the side and I believe they was physically wouldn’t have stop if the AP wasn’t moving! Saving a marriage is great but know the woman next to you is a cheater that haven’t learned her lesson because she is still lying! This OP will remain in the dark to his wife cheating because he rather be with a cheater than be alone.
Yeah some people are pessimistic, but this story warrants that feeling. She continually went against her husband’s wishes and the office rumors to have this affair partner in her life. She even admitted that she wouldn’t tolerate her behavior if the husband did it. That’s an astronomical level of disrespect for the marriage and her husband. She knows who she married. Someone with no level of self love and who wouldn’t ever leave her. She fell in love with an outside partner while married and then wants to remain married?! How is that a recipe for any long happy marriage?
You can be optimistic but don't be delusional. Once a cheater always a cheater. Cheaters who cheat once will have a higher risk of cheating again. And it wasn't as if she wanted to end things. It was the circumstances with her AP that caused them to split. Not because the wife wanted them to.
S2 OP didn't stand up for himself. He just learned to be a delusional doormat. Clearly his wife has no worthy affection for him. She just stays because she's afraid of the consequences. Yet OP thought he'll have her back after she just expressed she's capable of disrespecting their marriage.
The tldr unnecessarily vilifies the mil😂 also story 2: many people might cry that op is a doormat but I truly believe that the relationship almost derailed and the people in the situation decided to behave like adults instead of acting like horny teenagers. Op didn’t abandon the relationship and the wife realised the problem on her own and cut off the friendship before things would spiral out of control
Story 2 OP is a chump. She refused to listen to anything he said. Then when OP left her she coincidentally had already made the decision to break things off with the guy... and also coincidentally the dude is moving away for unrelated reasons. mmmmmmk Have fun supporting her until she finds her next man
I feel luke this pastor as a councilor is bullshit. He is only certfied to advise u on you relationship with god not your wife get some professional help not spiritual.
Story 1: Imagine ruining your relationship with your actual kids for kids that genuinely hate you. The ex is goddamn pathetic it’s hilarious
And they have all the right, he is a home wrecker
at that point, they’re probably only still together bc they already broke up a family, so calling it quits would prove it was for nothing
Father is a piece of crap.
Story 1 op is a strong woman for not putting up her ex bs behavior. He thinks he can live a double life. His kids hated him even his stepkids are fed up with him while he's in a fog of fantasy. He's a pig who couldn't keep it in his pant who's behind child support payment for months smh such a waste of a man, choosing his stepkids who didn't accept him as their dad 🙄 waste his marriage for nothing
Strong woman? No it's called having self respect
the fact that the ex and his new wife REALLY thought that the stepkids were fine with their relationship. the 15 year old knows what actually happened
Story 2 this op is a doormat
She had zero consequences for her emotional affair so she know she can do it again and this man wil only talk his feelings and cry and she will put an act as the remorseful wife . Classic spineless simp Charming. Next time she will go physical
He isn’t even trying to hide the fact that he’d rather be his stepkids’ dad instead of being a dad to his own kids, and only he and presumably his new wife are the ones that want this. OP’s kids don’t want to be neglected. The stepkids already have a dad. OP has done everything possible to have him be a dad for their kids barring locking them all up in a room and forcing them to spend time together. He’s even lying to his own mother to get him on his side. He’s a POS through and through.
Not the 8 year old writing “stories for kids without a dad” right in front of his father! Lmao what a lad! Kid was done with the father’s behavior and was not afraid to show it.
That’s A1 nasty work. A master of his class.😂👍
Story 1: Idk why he’s suddenly sad that his biological kids don’t talk to him or interact with him. If he wanted his kids to like him, maybe he should’ve put in the effort to actually be there for his kids instead of treating it as it’s a job.
S2: so She told him to his face that she didn't care how he felt about her "friendship" with this guy, yet as soon as OP stops tolerating it she "coincidentally" already cut it off with the guy after "suddenly realizing" they had "feeling for each other" after all?... man sure is convienient timing that she stopped as soon as OP put his foot down, but this level of disrespect was heavily facilitated by OP TELLING HER THAT HE WOULDN'T LEAVE HER NO MATTER WHAT! Why would you ever tell your wife overstepping boundaries that you aren't going to leave her for overstepping boundaries? OP might as well of gave her permission.
Facts. If you won’t ever leave for any reason then you don’t have boundaries. She might as well have slept with the AP, because there is no way to know if she did or not. The OP is a glutton for punishment or has no self worth. She told him that she wouldn’t want her mother knowing about her habits and she wouldn’t stand for her husband behaving the same way. How many ways can she tell the OP that she’s unhappy with the marriage and wants more?
Story #1: What a selfish, pathetic man-child. Blames his ex for his own failures then goes crying to mommy. What tf did OP see in him? Omfg
Story 1’s ex sounds like an absolute loser
1st story that dad is trash he left his wife and sons to be another man’s stand in! He is so in love with the mistress/new wife that he don’t even care about his own children and openly hurting them over and over and have the nerve to want to ask about if he is a good dad! Complete trash and that mistress would have gotten slapped if she open her disgusting mouth in front me! Her 15 with be her punishment when she curse her out and call her a dirty home wrecker shameless mistress.
Story 1: if OP's ex wants "easy" he should look at his wife
1) im glad op is okay and has her ex's mil support, and that your kids were okay
2) your wife has no consequences, OP will be cheated on soon or later
Story 1 - The step kids have it worse. Think about it. They were forced to live with their crappy mom and her affair partner. The guy that ruined their family. The new baby means he's not going anywhere any time soon. They don't seem like dumb kids either. They must know he doesn't even try to be a dad to his biological kids. They're going to hate their mom even more for the fact she forced them all to play happy family with the guy that ruined their lives.
Call the new baby what it is: the do-over child. His step kids hate him. His biological children are moving on. That baby is his only chance to be the dad he wasn't to his other kids.
Story 2: So he's staying with a woman who has started falling in love with someone else? He's such manipulable
The line “I wanted to cry so badly, but I am a darn mother.” Made me think of my mom. It wasn’t until I met other moms as an adult that I realized how strong she was for me. She almost never cried in front of me. Only funerals and when she didn’t know I was watching her. ❤
S1; ex fucked around and found out. What a stupid loser.
The level of doormatism in story 2 is epic and sad. He is ready to fight for her but not himself. People, love yourself before you jump into loving another.
Story2 op, please!!!! Next time, she will just hide everything that why she gave in because ap was moving away
Story 2: She not only broke his trust, she danced on the shattered pieces. The fact that they sat down and seriously talked and she admitted that if the roles were reversed, she’d be mad and hate it, but kept doing it should tell you everything. That won’t be fixed with “counseling” or letting someone “be nosy”. I don’t think I could genuinely trust my spouse after a situation like that. I’d be heavily considering other options at that point.
2nd story the wife cheated first in front her simp husband and didn’t even respect him or cared about his feelings and it is clear about the type of person she is because after her AP wife told him to stop talking to her the sneaked around doing it behind the wife back like two shameless cheaters! OP you wife had a boyfriend on the side and I believe they was physically wouldn’t have stop if the AP wasn’t moving! Saving a marriage is great but know the woman next to you is a cheater that haven’t learned her lesson because she is still lying! This OP will remain in the dark to his wife cheating because he rather be with a cheater than be alone.
Story 2: What a simp! He is Aden and his girlfriend is Carrie and we know how this will end up.
Who is Aiden and Carrie
Story 2: You need to leave your wife; she broke your trust! There is no coming back from this!
story 2 what a pathetic man.
Spineless simp Charming White Knight doormat
Right. What a simp!
What are you? A shrimp?
Story 2: Man, a lot of ppl are pessimistic I on the other hand, am more hopeful I hope OP and his wife have a long happy marriage
Yeah some people are pessimistic, but this story warrants that feeling. She continually went against her husband’s wishes and the office rumors to have this affair partner in her life. She even admitted that she wouldn’t tolerate her behavior if the husband did it. That’s an astronomical level of disrespect for the marriage and her husband. She knows who she married. Someone with no level of self love and who wouldn’t ever leave her. She fell in love with an outside partner while married and then wants to remain married?! How is that a recipe for any long happy marriage?
You can be optimistic but don't be delusional. Once a cheater always a cheater. Cheaters who cheat once will have a higher risk of cheating again. And it wasn't as if she wanted to end things. It was the circumstances with her AP that caused them to split. Not because the wife wanted them to.
@SuperMcgangbang At least she realized it and broke things off with the guy
S2 OP didn't stand up for himself. He just learned to be a delusional doormat. Clearly his wife has no worthy affection for him. She just stays because she's afraid of the consequences. Yet OP thought he'll have her back after she just expressed she's capable of disrespecting their marriage.
The tldr unnecessarily vilifies the mil😂 also story 2: many people might cry that op is a doormat but I truly believe that the relationship almost derailed and the people in the situation decided to behave like adults instead of acting like horny teenagers. Op didn’t abandon the relationship and the wife realised the problem on her own and cut off the friendship before things would spiral out of control
Story 2 OP is a chump. She refused to listen to anything he said. Then when OP left her she coincidentally had already made the decision to break things off with the guy... and also coincidentally the dude is moving away for unrelated reasons. mmmmmmk
Have fun supporting her until she finds her next man
I feel luke this pastor as a councilor is bullshit. He is only certfied to advise u on you relationship with god not your wife get some professional help not spiritual.
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