#1 Mistake Western Men Make with Thai Women - Plus 11 Tips

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  • 🌏 Are you a Western man interested in dating Thai women and exploring cross-cultural relationships? 🇹🇭 Discover the common mistakes to avoid and essential tips for success in our enlightening video!
    In this eye-opening discussion, we delve into the challenges faced by Western men when dating Thai women, including the language barrier, cultural differences, and the importance of effective communication, trust, and respect in relationships. Learn how to navigate these hurdles and build a strong, lasting bond with your Thai partner. 💑
    From setting clear boundaries and expectations to understanding Thai culture and family dynamics, we provide valuable insights on how to foster a harmonious and fulfilling relationship. Find out how compromising and offering financial support can play a role, while also maintaining a balance that aligns with both partners' needs. 💰👨‍👩‍👧‍👦
    Discover the significance of meeting your Thai partner's family and friends, and why it matters for the long-term success of your relationship. Explore the intriguing dynamics of cross-cultural relationships in the vibrant cities of Bangkok and Pattaya. 🏙️🌟
    Whether you're new to dating Thai women or have experienced common pitfalls in the past, this video provides valuable insights and practical advice to help you navigate the intricacies of cross-cultural relationships with confidence and understanding.
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    CHAPTERS
    0:00 Intro
    1:05 Ignoring her cultural background and beliefs
    2:37 Language barrier
    3:18 Communication, Trust, and Respect
    4:44 Not compromising
    7:22 Not setting clear boundaries and expectations
    9:49 Never met her family and friends
    12:13 Living with her too quickly
    13:22 Too much information revealed too soon
    15:14 Continuing to support her and her family financially
    18:02 You're getting married to someone with a vastly different background
    19:18 Finding a life partner in an "easy" manner
    21:10 Conclusion

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  • @JohnDavies-bj9mz
    @JohnDavies-bj9mz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    A very good video with some excellent suggestions I have been with My Thai partner for a year and have just bought a house for us together my Lady is kind caring and thoughtful Speaks good English but we still have some Misunderstandings I have not met her Mother but Know her sister well. There has been no intimacy with us as she wants us to live together. She has only once asked me for Money when her Brother died. I trust her 100% and love her dearly as I know she does me

    • @majikslim82
      @majikslim82 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Did you say and mean " there has been no intimacy with us " ??!! But you bought her a house?

    • @JohnDavies-bj9mz
      @JohnDavies-bj9mz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes I did we have now moved in and both of us are very happy together @@majikslim82

    • @JohnDavies-bj9mz
      @JohnDavies-bj9mz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes I did we have now moved in and Are both very happy yes some difficulties mainly Language but we are working it out and I have absolutely No regrets she is a kind and caring woman an takes excellent care of of me @@majikslim82

    • @Pennywise4
      @Pennywise4 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ha another sucker, you will lose everything , that is a certainty

    • @JohnDavies-bj9mz
      @JohnDavies-bj9mz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You have no right to call me sucker you don't Know me And you don't Know her she is a wonderful woman takes care of me ad has NEVER taken money from Me only what I give her as house keeping (a relatively small amount) to look after the bills Maybe your the sucker by not realizing that Love with a good woman is a great thing I feel sorry For YOU@@Pennywise4

  • @jeh1333
    @jeh1333 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    When in Thailand, living or visiting, RENT EVERYTHING!
    That includes anything and everything you have, want or need in your life - accommodation, transport, women; you name it, you RENT IT!

    • @jayclarke777
      @jayclarke777 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Life is a subscription service

    • @shabbos-goy9407
      @shabbos-goy9407 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      correct!

    • @georgequek7996
      @georgequek7996 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I lived here with my owned condo for ten years have fun only, but will never marry thais women in BKK kap!🙏🍺👍

    • @mxoldtimer4braaappp858
      @mxoldtimer4braaappp858 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Too many beautiful distractions in Thailand

    • @RickiHockersmith83
      @RickiHockersmith83 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There are too many beautiful Thai women, too many options so it hard to choose. So I rather stay single and be a playboy. LOL

  • @dougunderwood2313
    @dougunderwood2313 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Put a ring on it? I'm 65 and
    you just took me back to the 1950s.

  • @rickandersen707
    @rickandersen707 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I'm an Aussie.....been travelling to Thailand since 2003....I would never contemplate any dowry.....reason being I too have culture so a Thai woman needs to compromise or it's a NO from me....

    • @lavish_1717
      @lavish_1717 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re looking for a Thai wife ?

  • @brentonl
    @brentonl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Synopsis .. #1 - #11 don't get involved. YW

    • @shadowfilm7980
      @shadowfilm7980 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Definitely agree.

  • @bosheek8632
    @bosheek8632 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Never get into a relationship and definitely dont get married - Go MGTOW

  • @Radha-RamanMere
    @Radha-RamanMere 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice video 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

  • @mauimixer6040
    @mauimixer6040 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    When I lived in the Philippines,it was said Thai women were more beautiful. Then living in Thailand, Philippines women were more beautiful. LoL !! Grass always Seems better on the other side of the Bard wire fence. Life is funny, since it's in the eyes of the beholder ! Both have such beautiful women, everywhere does. What kind otherwise are you looking for? Realize that before you play heart games. Coming for the Heart and communication and sharing pnes journey in life must not be overlooked !!
    Thanks for adding those points in your presentation !! That's unique and wonderfully beautiful. New sub wishing you the best in life. Please keep sharing your thoughts and attitude. Aloha from Maui, Hawaii. 🤷🤙

  • @Keyframe5
    @Keyframe5  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

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  • @alteredillusions100
    @alteredillusions100 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video!

  • @kwazykape
    @kwazykape 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks!

    • @Keyframe5
      @Keyframe5  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      wow thank you so much for the support!

    • @mauimixer6040
      @mauimixer6040 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@Keyframe5where are you at there ? I would love to buy you and yours dinner next time I visit?. After this, that's probably/hopefully mar-may for a final scouting of relocating while still possible. Lived in Phuket last time, yr

    • @kwazykape
      @kwazykape 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome

  • @juancarlosmendez4943
    @juancarlosmendez4943 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    not jet but is a good star. thanks

  • @happierabroad
    @happierabroad หลายเดือนก่อน

    How come dating abroad is mainstream now? When I talked about it on TH-cam before, my videos would get deleted. It was taboo before here.

  • @bechirjano3976
    @bechirjano3976 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    great info ... wonderful .. thx

  • @AlexWBKK
    @AlexWBKK 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Its probably good advice. ^^ It cant hurt at least. Somehow i could bypass these kinds of relationships mostly.
    I have a wife from Ubon Ratchatani, im not old (we are 7 years from eatch other) and i didnt had to pay a baht yet for the family (we are together since 2009...). Thats not saying i never supported them, but if i did it was always completely on my own.
    I also had other relationships, long term and not one of them had me asked for money. There was one, yes. But i met her in Nana, so maybe thats the thing. And even her was actually rather "good" in heart and took what was possible out of her own pocket, to support the family.
    Dont look for women in bars and you will have a way easier time.
    Like, take someone from the south or something. They rarely send money to family. Or choose one who has a daytime job, like clinic/office etc and can support herself. Then you can still add ontop to bring that addon into her life. But its so much more real like this.
    Thats not to downrate the video though, im sure one will find these relationships still.

    • @JohnDavies-bj9mz
      @JohnDavies-bj9mz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      An excellent comment I agree with you 100% my wife and I are extremely happy with all the normal problems couples have .

  • @markbigelow2608
    @markbigelow2608 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Never would i ever.

  • @garyaltenburger6667
    @garyaltenburger6667 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One VERY important thing seldom mentioned about Thai ladies is gambling problems. They are capable of giving up smoking. alcohol and even drugs, BUT they will never give up a gambling habit. They will lie, cheat and steal to keep that habit. I can tell of some of those experiences but I won't bother except to say that the gambling addiction habit has destroyed many lives.

    • @JohnDavies-bj9mz
      @JohnDavies-bj9mz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not all Thai ladies are the same if your lucky there are some good ones

    • @jamied6835
      @jamied6835 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why might so many Thai ladies be addicted to gambling, and more so than peoppe of other ethnicities?
      What about their culture makes them thus?

  • @mauimixer6040
    @mauimixer6040 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What?? Star Wars isn't true?😮 Lol, yet there's so much hidden truth in movies !
    Well done video, glad to find you, even already knowing what you share. Just truth.
    Btw, have you ever been to the Silver temple in Chaing Mai and notice all the ufo aliens with antenna heads carved into the floors and walls ? Seriously, if not, it's a must !

  • @jeh1333
    @jeh1333 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A reasonable attempt at an advert for your books.

    • @Keyframe5
      @Keyframe5  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You've got a sharp eye spotting that book mention for about 15 seconds - it's just a quick shoutout, not the main dish. The real star here is the 24 minutes of pure, unadulterated relationship wisdom. You're welcome.

    • @mauimixer6040
      @mauimixer6040 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Keyframe5should've given more detail of it's content and reason to buy. Nothing wrong with promoting oneself, especially during a really good Free video. Thanks 🤙😎

  • @shadowfilm7980
    @shadowfilm7980 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Just don’t get married. It’s too much trouble. Freedom is important. Most women only care about the money. It’s not about love. No. It’s about the 💵💵💵💵💰💰

    • @mark5338
      @mark5338 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      if ur a fat old dude idk what else can u expect when marrying a 20y old. Jesus fkn Christ.

    • @dogvip7688
      @dogvip7688 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly.👍

    • @dogvip7688
      @dogvip7688 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pay and walk away. Once bitten twice shy. Marry yourself.

    • @mauimixer6040
      @mauimixer6040 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Buying milk or the whole cow. 😊

    • @AmariKhumalo
      @AmariKhumalo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Relationships (regardless of dating/marriage and nationality/upbringing are all a lot of work. I've been married twice and although I am still married to my second wife (and likely will be with her until I die) it's VERY hard to deal with the upkeep of it all. Supporting your family financially, being emotionally available, and keeping your head held high sounds easy (and it is at first) but after many years it takes it's toll... Especially if you are more of a hermit-type like I am. I've never had any problem with women as I am relatively good looking but my "battery" runs out quick if too much is going on at once.
      There are many times I wish I had just stayed single so I could have more money, less stress, and more free time but being single has it's negatives too, mainly loneliness which can lead to depression.
      My first wife was from my home country and my second wife is a foreigner and while things started off very differently they ended up being eerily similar as the years passed. The only real differences are that my ex was extremely jealous of other women and accused me of cheating all the time and my now-wife doesn't care at all about it as long as I tell her (so she can join in as she is bisexual) but is a bit more financially needy and worse with money.
      Then again, my first wife came from a rich family so she was naturally better with money due to that and my second is from a poor, rural family so she never had much money at all until she met me. I have worked on helping her budget better while shopping and she has done better about buying store-brand items or items on sale but she still likes to eat out a lot because she never even ate at a restaurant before we met (when she was 18) which honestly surprised me. She just loves to be served food instead of having to cook despite being a very good cook.
      But from my experience with over a dozen girlfriends and two wives (of many races) is that women are generally the same regardless of where they are from. The biggest factor in regards to a woman's character is her upbringing. If they are from a rich background they are generally more intelligent but more strict as well. If they are from a poorer upbringing they aren't as intelligent but a lot more "go with the flow". My ex-wife was smarter than I was but was no fun to be around as she wouldn't let me drink or hang out with my friends so it made the marriage impossible for me. My current wife is more fun to be around by far and let's me do whatever I want (within reason) but isn't nearly as fun to talk to because most of what I say just goes right over her head.
      And yes, my wife is basically an ex-bar girl who did it for 2 months before we met so I guess I snatched her up before she got too corrupted by society, she also only had one prior boyfriend and one prior girlfriend. My ex-wife, despite her better background had been with dozens of men and I run into her exes all the time to this day which I just find ironic.
      Sorry for rambling or whatever. Was procrastinating changing my cars oil lol 😆.

  • @ras9875
    @ras9875 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They make the blunders

  • @seanb6478
    @seanb6478 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    #5: Isn't it traditional to not move in until marriage?

    • @JohnDavies-bj9mz
      @JohnDavies-bj9mz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes it is But it doesn't have to be a formal wedding I am now considered to be a husband to the woman i met 18 months ago all we had to do was pay her mother a dowery and are man and wife.

  • @gotthesinglelife
    @gotthesinglelife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good tips after traveling to Thailand many times, You have heard so many bar girls said story you could write many books of what went wrong. And if not that then choosing the wrong women even if she is not a bar girl.
    Just as anywhere else you have to be in your toes to adviod the pitfalls and have seen the good side of Thai marriage to the envy of others.

  • @damico3212
    @damico3212 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If you are the foreign man with the money, only spend what you want to. Dont worry about the culture, if she has a problem with it send her on her way. Your next girlfriend is only minutes away

  • @mauimixer6040
    @mauimixer6040 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    No Money, No Honey ! Not Funny!(my add on !)😊

  • @iftikhkhan253
    @iftikhkhan253 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Each Thai woman has one local husband/man and three western friends, one in UK, second in Sweden and third in Germany. She and her local man lives comfortably on income provided by the western men. Any western man call her she answer I love you but has no meny (money), send me more meny.

  • @seanb6478
    @seanb6478 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Much of this is true when Americans are dating each other.

  • @andrewmontoya5617
    @andrewmontoya5617 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One must go to the fishermen to learn how to fish.

  • @mikaso30
    @mikaso30 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you 👍

  • @ruelte4092
    @ruelte4092 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It is also important if your specific to your preference, make sure you have chosen whether a Thai woman since birth or after birth to avoid regrets.

  • @mangostickyrice555
    @mangostickyrice555 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thumbs up 👍

  • @ras9875
    @ras9875 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything will be Thai Thai Thai
    There will be no reciprocating

  • @jayclarke777
    @jayclarke777 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You could also with #*Spoilers* add bragging, pillowing talking about what you have.
    Great list KF5.

    • @Keyframe5
      @Keyframe5  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don't like to kiss and tell :D.. maybe after a few beers

  • @Tunsmandie
    @Tunsmandie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Marriage is too hard. I'll just avoid it !

    • @c.k.2
      @c.k.2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You haven’t met the right one.

    • @ras9875
      @ras9875 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not worth the gamble ​@@c.k.2

  • @djeejah
    @djeejah 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Communication Trust and Respect are the basic for any relationship. If you don't overcome the language barrier, if any, act suspicious and do not share culture or make no effort to get to know the person and appreciate said person for whom they are; then how can a relationship "blossom" ?

    • @JohnDavies-bj9mz
      @JohnDavies-bj9mz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very true one of the biggest problems we had at the beginning of our relationship but it's getting much better with time and patience

  • @Hexenmeister999
    @Hexenmeister999 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You talk about "Thai Partners" like a species of animal. The whole video sounds like a tutorial on how to care for your pet lmao

  • @cole_passportbro
    @cole_passportbro 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why do you believe the relationship would be more successful if both thai girl and farang both spoke English primary as opposed to both speaking Thai? If anything I would believe both speaking Thai would create a stronger bond for a relationship, especially if the home base was in Thailand

    • @soichirohonda267
      @soichirohonda267 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But...who speaking Thai?

  • @alediaz67
    @alediaz67 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Basically you're saying that to have a traditional woman (by the way they are simply beautiful) you have to be a traditional man, be respectful, be careful, take your time, don't believe all you hear, respect and get involved to her values, culture and principles, don't play around, don't be a fool neither a bad smartass, commit to your words and do your best and expect her best, and be happy. Be traditional to get traditional women and have a traditional, peaceful and happy life.
    And never forget that you will be dealing with a woman, traditional woman, in a beautiful country, a better perspective on love, loyalty, values, , goals from respect and family grow (if it apply) to investments, administration and savings and it's objective and having a better life... Who will not subscribe to that?
    Love, happiness, family, respect, peace of mind, reciprocity, valoration within a reliable and deep relation chance (most work than lucky) against what you most probably get on your home land.
    Without a blink I'll be gone.
    Just for the chance you would find truthful and genuine LOVE...
    Even the devil will get his passport and he has three of the four sixes...
    My best wishes.

  • @jungleworld11
    @jungleworld11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're the wise guy, right!? 😂

  • @kennetharntson5912
    @kennetharntson5912 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes and no about marrying the whole family. The are two types of Thai women. There is the Thai woman and then there is the Thai Chinese women.
    To make short a Thai Thai woman, yes, you will will also be supporting her family. You will also find that her family is far more important than you. You will be lucky if some of the family don't move in with you. I married a Thai Chinese girl (now married 26 years) Chinese custom is for the wife to be the new daughter to the husband family. This is probably due to the fact the oldest Don will inherit the families wealth. My wife was happy the she did not have to worry about taking care of my family. As for giving giving money to the family, that only happens on Chinese New Year when my wife gives a red envelope with cash to her parents, at the same time her parents give our 16 year old a red envelope. As for our marriage, we had the ceremony in a church even though my wife was Buddhist, she wanted to wear a white gown, the reception was held at a hotel with over of a hundred relatives attending all leaving red envelopes that actually paid for the wedding and reception. In my case no dowery was asked probably because I was 24 years older than my wife and both of us had university degree (my wife a pharmacist I a Construction Manager for a major oil company) I also promised her parents I would send her daughter to America for a Master's Degree which I did (she graduated in 2 years with a 4.0 average) and I'd now a department director at our largest city hospital where me and or so are treated free.
    I know of other foriegner that have married Thai Chinese girls in similar situations. But you will not meet these ladies in a bar, nor will they waste their time with you unless you are successful or have a university degree.

  • @burtonknows9201
    @burtonknows9201 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Not revealing any of your financial information is smart, Thai, or otherwise.

  • @asher8261
    @asher8261 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    *Promosm*

  • @WanderingBobAK
    @WanderingBobAK 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Asia ... only about money ...

  • @steveg6978
    @steveg6978 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thai relationship = $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

    • @JohnDavies-bj9mz
      @JohnDavies-bj9mz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      RUBISH not all Thai ladies are the same

  • @oh_k8
    @oh_k8 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So many desperate dudes...😂

  • @ninjahentai-tmx964
    @ninjahentai-tmx964 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    lol thailand is a total red flag :P

  • @internationalfranchisealli5547
    @internationalfranchisealli5547 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good video with no BS.. just one comment please. If a Westerner wants a good life here make sure you make Thai friends and not only mix with other Expats

    • @JohnDavies-bj9mz
      @JohnDavies-bj9mz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So very true learn the culture and don't expect it to be like your home country that's why your here after all ENJOY it