I'm Annoyed With My Neighbor! This Has To Stop!

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  • @Sooner_Spy
    @Sooner_Spy 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +54

    Dutch, being a good neighbor is one thing, but when you've spent as much time, labor and money as you have in order to have a good hunting season on "Your Own Property" to have it Destroyed by your neighbors cattle because they're too lazy to come get them, at some point they're considered abandoned and become yours! Contact that neighbor in writing and give them 48 hours to retrieve their cattle or they become yours.

    • @MSG1776
      @MSG1776 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

      Absolutely right. Another tact is to just do you and if one of those cows gets in the way and dies as a result of your lawful hunting on YOUR property, then so be it. Being neighborly is a two way street if you're trying and they're not...then no reason for being neighborly anymore!!

    • @samanthaorchard6174
      @samanthaorchard6174 20 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

      Enough is enough you have been putting up with this for way too long. First of all, you should contact your local extension office and then contact your local law enforcement people. When they destroy hunting ground that to me is just wrong when you have told them about this problem. Since you have proof that the cows knocked over your deer feeder, I have your neighbor reimburse you for damages.

  • @JiggyjarjardoM77
    @JiggyjarjardoM77 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +44

    "BEEF" it's whats for dinner.

  • @billjarzemba2387
    @billjarzemba2387 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +31

    I swear Mr. Game Warden. It was the biggest black Angus deer I ever shot.

    • @annelack8903
      @annelack8903 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂 lmbo

  • @stephenreiner1523
    @stephenreiner1523 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +27

    Your neighbors cattle have been there long enough. It's his responsibility to keep his bovine properly fenced in on his properly and to maintain the integrity of his fences.

  • @joannpetroff2709
    @joannpetroff2709 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +43

    You may want to send a bill to the cattle owner for feeding & sheltering them $$

  • @suethomas5387
    @suethomas5387 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +24

    Tell your neighbor if he doesn't come get his cows, you figure he doesn't want them and you are going to take them to the sale barn. He should be right over.

  • @bethminnick6728
    @bethminnick6728 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +21

    I'd put one of the steers in my freezer if I were you.

  • @vickiherring5422
    @vickiherring5422 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +22

    I hope you had your neighbor a bill for all the corn and the plot that his cows and steers keep destroying.

  • @patmcateer4222
    @patmcateer4222 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +28

    Sounds like your neighbor set you up...all the deer are on their property....

  • @KBAILEYinMS
    @KBAILEYinMS 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    So sorry about the pests. I think I would be calling animal control because that is ridiculous. I know my husband and he would be calling the neighbor and saying look control your cows or I'm gonna have a freezer full of beef instead of deer.

  • @darlenestorer8898
    @darlenestorer8898 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    After you contacted all the neighbors and the sheriff's dept and it's been 2 weeks or longer and no one came and got them.Load them up take them to homestead and go to freezer camp they go. Is what I'd do for sure.❤Darlene from Ohio

    • @cathytuffley5472
      @cathytuffley5472 11 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Lester need you now the coyotes are back and they’ve taken couple of the babies and alpacas have killed one of the coyotes but they got two baby goats before the alpacas got that one

    • @cathytuffley5472
      @cathytuffley5472 10 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Lester need you now the coyotes are back and they’ve taken couple of the babies and alpacas have killed one of the coyotes but they got two baby goats before the alpacas got that one

  • @AJ1CaL365
    @AJ1CaL365 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +27

    Reach out for legal advice. I had a tresspasser that did property damage with a four wheeler. He was charged with a Felony and required to pay damages. Those cows are damaging your property. The owner in not retreiveing them is causing tresspass with willful damage. There is being neighborly and being a rug, you choose.

  • @thomasedwards2754
    @thomasedwards2754 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Good day, sir. In Colorado, it is the responsibility of the land owner to keep the unwanted animals off the land owners' land. Put up a 4 wire fence. It is your responsibility to keep them off your land. Also, the fence would keep the trespassers off your land too.

  • @SMILESDaMILL
    @SMILESDaMILL 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    You might want to invest in a good thermal drone. It's a good way to see where the deer bed down, where the cows are, and just who or what is roaming on your property day-time or night.

  • @grammy3g808.
    @grammy3g808. 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +8

    You can take legal action, it is your land, sounds like they have been using this land for years, way before you purchased the land. They feel entitled to the use of the land ... You may need to let them know they are trespassing, a lawyer's input needs to be utilized.

  • @robertchall8576
    @robertchall8576 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +11

    When the cows find and tear up your tent then what.

  • @brendahogue5487
    @brendahogue5487 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +15

    Dutch love and enjoy your videos. May the lord bless and protect you hunting and that cattle would be in my freezer teach the neighbor a lesson

  • @LouisLong-t1i
    @LouisLong-t1i 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    Hand him a bill for the damages and feeding them on your property they have to pay it because of Oklahoma law

  • @JoanneLayman
    @JoanneLayman 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    A visit with the neighbor - "You need to get your cattle YESTERDAY because tomorrow they are headed for my freezer." Maybe that will spur them into action. Just be prepared to keep your promise. Be sure to record your conversation.

  • @GraceCook-g1l
    @GraceCook-g1l 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    Michael Martin has the right idea, fill the freezer. Warn the owners first by letter. If no response, feel free. Cows can be a real nuisance. That's why they should be fenced. Then again, you could build a hot fence and keep em. Beef is expensive, at least here in CT.
    Just saying.

    • @caroleshay9153
      @caroleshay9153 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      If sending the owners a letter, you want to mail it "return receipt" so you have proof that the owner did receive the letter and when.

    • @gingin294
      @gingin294 56 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Be sure to have a copy and mabey even get it notarized. Proof positive

  • @MarthaDawson-o6l
    @MarthaDawson-o6l 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    If the neighbor doesn't do something with them, I believe that I would take me a steak or two and some hamburger meat. I mean they have been told to gather them up off of your land

  • @Papa-e2s8b
    @Papa-e2s8b ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Telling him once should be enough, I'd be inviting friends over for a steak dinner 😂

  • @birdie9250
    @birdie9250 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    I wanted to tell you that there was going to be a problem with the cows during gun season but I didn't think it was my place to tell you that

  • @Kate_Neuman
    @Kate_Neuman 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +9

    I’m so sorry you have to deal with those cows Dutch. You’ve been more than accommodating and neighborly. It’s time for them to go. Wishing your family a fabulous Thanksgiving! God bless and love from Canadice NY ❤

  • @michaelmartin3475
    @michaelmartin3475 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +26

    If they didn't get them off of me there my freezer would be full of meat

    • @country808-si7xw
      @country808-si7xw 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      What did you say

    • @TimAZ
      @TimAZ 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      we called them slow deer

  • @billanddar3
    @billanddar3 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    Cows,like pigs can keep deer away. Time to call neighbors and have them removed. It may be too late.

    • @bethhayes8427
      @bethhayes8427 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree that the cows need to be gone. But cows don't keep deer away. We have thousands of cows within a mile of our house. We have 2 that graze right in the middle of our hoses and the neighbors' cows. We have hundreds of deer around us. Have seen 28 at one time in the cow pasture. Had a young buck bed down in the corner of or pasture near the house a couple of evenings ago. Looked right at me standing on the porch and laid down. Our road is only a mile long, and 2 have been hit. So don't guess the cows bother them much.😊

  • @pamcorbett9331
    @pamcorbett9331 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    Tell him if they are abandoning the cows on your property then they are yours to butcher

  • @cheriecronin7688
    @cheriecronin7688 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    Ask the sheriff when it will be OK to just claim the cows there and then put out video and flyers to let everyone know that you are fixing to take them to the slaughter house. So maybe that will put a move on them.

  • @carolwarren1631
    @carolwarren1631 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    Document document document

  • @earlshaner4441
    @earlshaner4441 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +10

    Time to deal with the pack of dogs

    • @airtek4809
      @airtek4809 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes, those as well.

    • @earlshaner4441
      @earlshaner4441 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @airtek4809 yes my friend and I have had a few run in with different packs of dogs attacking people and pets and farm animals

  • @stevewilson4463
    @stevewilson4463 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +7

    It looks like it’s beef season

  • @dash5257
    @dash5257 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    They've been on your property for over a week. I would tell the cow owner that he will be missing some cows because of them being on your property and causing damage!

  • @beverlybennett963
    @beverlybennett963 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    Where I live Animal Control will remove the cows etc.

  • @sallycripe2697
    @sallycripe2697 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    It may be that the neighbor who's cows they are, may have wanted hunting season messed up.

  • @davidcarberry3547
    @davidcarberry3547 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +6

    send them a bill at liest for all the feed and money for the foodplots destroyed

  • @rebeccaplumlee9601
    @rebeccaplumlee9601 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I had a problem with a neighbor parking a truck in my back yard. Id asked him to move them several times, he said it wasnt in my way. I finally sent him a letter telling him to get his truck & tractor off my property. 2 years later, while i was in hospital he began parking in my driveway cause it is closer to his front door. My help had trouble getting to my house to get my clothes & i had things for sale. I finally had police tell them that their cars would be towed.... Thing is, if hed asked, id have made a schedule for my help to get in. But nope.

  • @garymixson687
    @garymixson687 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hunted with cows for years. Step in their patties to hide my scent. Their noises hide mine when walking and have used them to hide behind when slipping up on deer. Good sometimes and sometimes they give you up😂😅😊.

  • @robertheinemann249
    @robertheinemann249 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    They will fill your freezer faster than a deer, fair exchange for the corn.

  • @dawnmcdonald1867
    @dawnmcdonald1867 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    I'd say it's time to fill some freezers.

  • @nobodycares9201
    @nobodycares9201 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    If you want to keep cows off your land, only thing to do is put up a barb wire fence. Cows are free ranging and a fence will be needed. Fence or collect pasture paddies.

    • @smn39
      @smn39 45 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      The farmers don't have the right to free range their cattle on other people's property.

  • @bobbydee1187
    @bobbydee1187 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    I’d find out who owns the cows and send them a bill.

  • @johnkirby6547
    @johnkirby6547 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    Dang Sean they found your corn and cleaned up. You also have to deal with those dogs and coyotes or you won't have much success hunting.

  • @robertchall8576
    @robertchall8576 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    Call the sale barn see if they have any cow ranglers that will come get them .

  • @jayvanleuven6528
    @jayvanleuven6528 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    If it had been more than 30 days, you can claim cows. Some western states laws….yes.

  • @michaelmartin3475
    @michaelmartin3475 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +40

    If you can't get deer meat you have beef

    • @hossieb4874
      @hossieb4874 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Lol

    • @kimmie6138
      @kimmie6138 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Lol

    • @cindiallain8542
      @cindiallain8542 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      My thought exactly.

    • @catherinekoretz4327
      @catherinekoretz4327 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yep got 1 week to get your cows or everyone of my family and friends gets a beef cow for Christmas 😅

    • @abbyu209
      @abbyu209 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Bahahaha

  • @aliasfred
    @aliasfred 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Get you some good old Military "Caltrops" should take care of your problem critters in short order.

  • @bigredwic
    @bigredwic 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +20

    It’s time to let him know to round up his cows and get them off your property!!!!!!!

    • @sharolbangerter4057
      @sharolbangerter4057 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      If his neighbor doesn't want his cow's . He just got some for free without paying for them . Because possession is 9/10 of the law.

    • @hossieb4874
      @hossieb4874 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      In a nice way n sure he will understand!

    • @starlenekalinski5633
      @starlenekalinski5633 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I t might be time to charge your neighbor board for the cows.

  • @thomasarnold2465
    @thomasarnold2465 53 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dutch you are so soft hearted. You need to call the game warden an report the cows again .. Lucky if you get any deer as long as those cows are around eating all of your corn . You need to man up an do something glad it's not problem. Cows would of be gone before now.

  • @earlshaner4441
    @earlshaner4441 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Good evening from Syracuse NY everyone and thank you for sharing your adventures and your farm and it's time to take some cows home

  • @regana6425
    @regana6425 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sorry about the cows. I would give the owner heads up, come get them, or I'll take them to the next sale and keep the money for damages. Cows do a lot of damage and eat everything so there's nothing ledt.

  • @suzannewise8045
    @suzannewise8045 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    At least they aren’t in your yard. I keep having issues with neighbors cattle getting out and making a mess of my yard.

  • @riqboze3695
    @riqboze3695 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    If the owner of the cows hasn't picked them up yet, it may mean that he may have intentionally put them on your property for free grazing
    Those look like quality cattle and it seems pretty sketchy that the owner has yet to retrieve them or at the very least contacted you

    • @rebeccaplumlee9601
      @rebeccaplumlee9601 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      I concur. He's got free feed for those cows

  • @joycedavis9843
    @joycedavis9843 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Well...
    what did you think would happen? Cows are voracious eaters! So are sheep, that's why Cattlemen and sheep herders hate each other, they both wipe out each others. Grazing. What the cows leave, the sheep will take it right down to the dirt!

  • @nadineduerksen6556
    @nadineduerksen6556 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    sounds like there yours! good eats.

  • @anj3595
    @anj3595 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    BTW, have you even notified the owner? All that work setting up those plots and feeding stations…

  • @carolynnance2376
    @carolynnance2376 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    This was a great video Dutch. All your videos are like an adventure to me. Never know what you’re going to run into. Haha. Have a great weekend and I’m praying you get a super big buck! Hunt hard bub!❤ blessings from OKC.

  • @dantempleton8217
    @dantempleton8217 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    Free beef lol

  • @PhilipImler-s1d
    @PhilipImler-s1d 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Sounds like cow season to me!!

  • @terryfuller8724
    @terryfuller8724 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    It’s for sure cows and deer don’t really care to be together. I’d report to the DNR and maybe they’ll capture them hold them until claimed then fine him. Beef fits in the freezer just as easy.

  • @jackiebeauty9007
    @jackiebeauty9007 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    I would say for Mt trouble give me one cow!!!

  • @blnfuse
    @blnfuse 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    call a local cattle farmer and get their advice on what to do . don't ask youtube commenters .

  • @DixieBourne
    @DixieBourne ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    You need to call the sheriff office and see what they can do you have put up with the cows enough seams like your neighbor just wanted Free grass for them.

  • @DarrylSparlin
    @DarrylSparlin 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Maybe someone cant afford to hay them this winter, and just gifted you some cows!!! Sure looks like it too me.

  • @melissahermann1005
    @melissahermann1005 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    Lots of/beef for your freezer

  • @barbarajohnson1348
    @barbarajohnson1348 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Ohh, the cabinets. That's wonderful.

  • @wayneseifert4324
    @wayneseifert4324 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    If they come back, it's time to take some beef steaks

  • @normastevens2165
    @normastevens2165 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Well you can always put a cow in your freezer

  • @brendashaw5721
    @brendashaw5721 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Have the animals picked up.

  • @aliasfred
    @aliasfred 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Solar camera power.

  • @gingin294
    @gingin294 46 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

    I would not be afraid to say those are his dogs too

  • @gina5191
    @gina5191 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Yeah they should let ya have a cow

  • @LeeeDay
    @LeeeDay 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    30 day abandonment,,,freezer beef

  • @patriciadavenport4967
    @patriciadavenport4967 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    The neighbors doesn't have to feed or take care of the cows, if you are going to let him leave them where they are.

  • @airtek4809
    @airtek4809 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    Use a magnet to find your mic.

  • @floridagoods
    @floridagoods 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Just claim the cows as your own they're on your property. Harvest a couple and grow the rest. Or donate the rest.

  • @sharolbangerter4057
    @sharolbangerter4057 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    In Utah possessions 9 tens of the law ! So you just got some cow's for Free .

  • @aliasfred
    @aliasfred 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    start putting your old trees and brush piles on your line, after all it won't cost you much.

  • @PeggyWade
    @PeggyWade ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I would take a good size steer , neighbors have warn out the welcome, agreed with time limit, have a law enforcement officer go with you when you go talk to owners, show proof of what has happened, provide bill. But I would definitely put a steer or 2 in my freezers

  • @Breanna7
    @Breanna7 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @juliettewannet6594
    @juliettewannet6594 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Do you have a drone? Maybe you can look for them ❤

  • @airtek4809
    @airtek4809 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    They smell the corn.

  • @Shoots-A-Stick79
    @Shoots-A-Stick79 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It's time to give your neighbor an ultimatum.

  • @debbiebliss-laird1508
    @debbiebliss-laird1508 31 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

    You should got a steer because of all the damage they have done. You certainly have the proof.

  • @patriciaevans1129
    @patriciaevans1129 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Talk to your neighbor again and if he does nothing talk to the sheriff's to work it out

  • @kennethowens1956
    @kennethowens1956 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Give him a timeframe to get those cows off if he don’t meet it then fill your freezer

  • @jamesmckinney9648
    @jamesmckinney9648 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    after 30 days thay are yours

  • @sandraanderson5398
    @sandraanderson5398 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Like a lot have said they need to repay your food plots and corn and get them off your land

  • @RochelleHickey
    @RochelleHickey 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Well you know what if you have to take down some beef instead of dear can't be at fault because they're on your property

  • @iking75050
    @iking75050 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Time for a steak dinner

  • @gordondollman3606
    @gordondollman3606 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Glad yas are doing well stay safe and warm 💓 😊

  • @barbaranash9052
    @barbaranash9052 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤❤ not just the corn. The food plots the deer were eating. Cows eat so much and will strip the ground. If they are in one place to long. ❤❤❤

  • @karenbarnes5517
    @karenbarnes5517 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hi 👋 Dutch

  • @PaulMihelic
    @PaulMihelic 42 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

    Man up and straighten the neighbor up. Consequences either way it goes.

  • @norrinebuchholz3236
    @norrinebuchholz3236 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    You do know if you can take a picture of the brand on any of the cattle you can take it into the law enforcement and identify it with the owner. That way you can contact the owner or have law enforcement do it and they have to pay for any damages their cattle caused on your property.

    • @aliasfred
      @aliasfred 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Or ear tags because some people think it's cruel to burn cows in the butt areas.

  • @kathywifall6844
    @kathywifall6844 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love, love that creek property. I also like the neighbors cows, but would prefer them at the neighbors, unless they were here and I could process them.🤪 It was always interesting to see a deer herd in our pastures as a kid, but boy did they eat alot of our silage, hay bales for our cows.

  • @LindaHollister
    @LindaHollister 43 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    The sheriff needs to pick them up.

  • @carolwarren1631
    @carolwarren1631 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    I hope you confront your neighbor

  • @airtek4809
    @airtek4809 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    If no one claims the cows, then are they free game?

    • @annelack8903
      @annelack8903 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      That's a good question???

  • @rosemaryjordan8541
    @rosemaryjordan8541 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    you got the proof,. now go get em!!!!!

  • @joetaylorchristmastree2866
    @joetaylorchristmastree2866 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    how are your family doing today and Happy Thanksgiving to your family ❤