Getting Through Early Sobriety: 5 Things You MUST Do (Day ~1-90)

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  • @LeonSylvester
    @LeonSylvester  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

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  • @JesusIsKing1979
    @JesusIsKing1979 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am over a month sober now and could not have done it without finding this channel that teaches you how to view alcohol differently. God Bless you Mr. Sober Leon for helping me turn my life around.

  • @shellaDionne
    @shellaDionne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    1 week clean and sober! So glad I found your channel!! It’s been so helpful!!

  • @amyshomesteadanimals
    @amyshomesteadanimals ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im so jealous of, yet happy for, all of you sharing your days of sobriety!😢❤
    I am back to day 1. Again.

    • @declankelly9829
      @declankelly9829 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulations being on Day 1!!! Many are NOT.

  • @anthonysosa2311
    @anthonysosa2311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    151 days. It's been very hard. Anxiety fear depression.. relearning how to live is so hard.

    • @danielbrowne9344
      @danielbrowne9344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I don’t think it’s relearning how to live, it’s living!

    • @MoneroMac
      @MoneroMac 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you. I’m really scared to start that process.

    • @anthonysosa2311
      @anthonysosa2311 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danielbrowne9344 I like that

    • @danielbrowne9344
      @danielbrowne9344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@anthonysosa2311 Yes sir! It’s a gift to get sober. 179 days for me, and got nothing but my future ahead ahead. I wish I could have done this long ago, but that’s where the serenity prayer comes in, you need to accept the things you can’t change. But,even more important is having the courage to change the things you can!

  • @bucky14b
    @bucky14b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I was told that you can drink tomorrow but you can never drink today. My next drink is always just a day away. That really helped me early on by making the goal seem a little more attainable and claiming a small success every day.

  • @BuddhaSunn
    @BuddhaSunn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I’m 6 days sober. Your videos are really helping. Thank you 🙏

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GaylordFocker no worries! Glad to have you here

    • @gwillis01
      @gwillis01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations Continue to improve yourself

    • @shaniecegullison
      @shaniecegullison 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heyyyy!!! How is it going????

    • @BuddhaSunn
      @BuddhaSunn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shaniecegullison Heyyyyy, Im sober! Have had a few one off slip ups but life is good thank you!!!

    • @shaniecegullison
      @shaniecegullison 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BuddhaSunn that’s so awesome to hear!!!!!

  • @xmafaka
    @xmafaka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    One day sober from a 45 day streak. Thanks for the video!

  • @kibbylee69
    @kibbylee69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love number 5!!!!! I am doing it, hell yeah! I don't want to feel like I'm missing out when everyone else is drinking. Perspective......I'm winning! 751 days

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep it up!

    • @CharlesHippe
      @CharlesHippe ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations. I'm 6 days sober and hope I can post a number like this in a couple of years

  • @williammwangi4955
    @williammwangi4955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanks leo 1month sober now... keep up the good work... from kenya east africa uplands lari sub county

  • @dougbritnell6742
    @dougbritnell6742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Longest time ive gone without alcohol is a month. I always seem to go back. I am going to give it another shot. I miss the mental state I was in.

    • @skypiev4438
      @skypiev4438 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep trying till you get it right!

    • @danielbrowne9344
      @danielbrowne9344 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Day 32 for me and not looking back!

    • @DCLCRayP
      @DCLCRayP 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same exact way for me
      That month was awesome

  • @NB-sq7ui
    @NB-sq7ui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2 months in after 30 plus years of on/off binge drinking amd recreational drugs..Drank most weekends and holidays etc..Only drunk twice this year...Knew I had a problem foe years finally doing it properly...

  • @Moist._Robot
    @Moist._Robot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You have a great point about watching a lot of news here.
    My mate drinks no alcohol but is swimming in bad news every day and it controls his life.

  • @lucitamagana2795
    @lucitamagana2795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    CELEBRATING 55 DAYS!!!🙏🏼🥳🙌🏼😄😆🎊👏🏼. THANK YOU LEON.

  • @mysoberlifestyle5646
    @mysoberlifestyle5646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    great video mate! I am 135 days Sober and have followed most of those tips! It's also very important to have a BIG WHY, a big reason why you want to quit! it helped me so much in the early days!

  • @brucelinton5472
    @brucelinton5472 ปีที่แล้ว

    16 days Soper, feels alot better. Thanks for the Coaching. This is a must in my life.

  • @luckymaria7330
    @luckymaria7330 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am grateful for your inspiring videos. Thank you so much for sharing your tips and enthusiasm 😊 well done you😅

  • @at9048
    @at9048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you change, things will change for you....
    If you improve, things will improve for you...

  • @joannajones4390
    @joannajones4390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your videos are the most straight forward and real. So goooood!

  • @christopherwilliams7157
    @christopherwilliams7157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am 29 days clean and sober, roll on 30 days clean and sober and so on 🙏🏼👌🏼

  • @jennygirl6855
    @jennygirl6855 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The self love was the best part! Totally agreed thanks Leon

  • @zanegrider4765
    @zanegrider4765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great info! All of what you are saying has worked for me. Thank you Leon! Soberclear has absolutely changed my life.

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate that Zane! Thanks for checking in!

  • @andimatt7232
    @andimatt7232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Also, in addition to that: Pump yourself up like you said and ask yourself, who else would have the balls to do that? And if we look in society ... almost "no one" is doing this. Everybody's on drugs nowadays ...

  • @lovolutionband
    @lovolutionband 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks fur your channel. Early sobriety for me is One Thing only. Gratefully cherish the gift of this very moment with clear eyes and mind.

  • @adamconstancio9889
    @adamconstancio9889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can really pay attention to your videos Leon and let me say they help alot thank you keep it up 💪

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you like them! Happy to help.

  • @gwillis01
    @gwillis01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree that you should count your blessings and celebrate success.

  • @bigblue9484
    @bigblue9484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Day 3 today:)

  • @Disappearit
    @Disappearit 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What’s up my guy! Savage tips!
    Just got on break. Someone tried to offer me some Bissell Brothers Substance just now and I turned them down! I’m so proud! Normally I’d grab it in a heartbeat! It’s great beer and far from me! So I’m just like wow I said no to free beer!
    Couple more hours of running beer then I can get home in a beer free environment lol
    Thank you for the vibes my guy and support!

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Watch You Melt awesome man! You’re doing great 👍

    • @gwillis01
      @gwillis01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations on resisting temptation. Keep up the good work. Continue to improve yourself.

  • @steviewilx
    @steviewilx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rebuilding not recovering!! That’s brilliant

  • @andrewmclelland3657
    @andrewmclelland3657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It’s Friday I’m dying for a few pints 🍻 😞 but I’m on day four now and quite proud of myself and I’ll disappoint myself and family if I drink now ffs

    • @nikkijames2546
      @nikkijames2546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here. It's harder when the weekend hits.

    • @andrewmclelland3657
      @andrewmclelland3657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Jo In back on it after 7 days 😞

    • @andrewmclelland3657
      @andrewmclelland3657 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@plusbonus1165 thanks man it’s not easy in these shitty times either, good luck to you 👍🏻

    • @andrewmclelland3657
      @andrewmclelland3657 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Jo In 11 days is amazing mate I wish you only the best and I hope you can keep it up 👍🏻 well done

    • @NB-sq7ui
      @NB-sq7ui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Start working out..Trust me..

  • @mateuszszubert9237
    @mateuszszubert9237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Leo, you really inspired me🙂👍Many thanks

  • @brederode9487
    @brederode9487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are on the point...great! Keep up the good work.

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Much appreciated! We've got a tonne more videos in the pipeline :)

  • @shaunreddy7548
    @shaunreddy7548 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sober Leon. I'm Drunk and can't stop. I've seen your videos, makes sense but i still drink

  • @webman1956
    @webman1956 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sober almost 23 years now. Just a note to all you "newbies", and that is to take baby steps at first and don`t look to far down the road, just today and get ready for tomorrow. I went to AA but that is not for everyone since it basically strips you down mentally and rebuilds you to face life head on without drinking or drugs so you have to get a certain mindset that will work for YOU on living life day to day free of drinking and drugging. The good news is that it does get easier and better over time, just stick with it!

  • @jameshoey69
    @jameshoey69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your videos have been really helpful. Thank you :)

  • @mtbandmore6443
    @mtbandmore6443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Day 1 for me today....

  • @jameswesley6039
    @jameswesley6039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant video!

  • @colinj5291
    @colinj5291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I mixed fitness and alcohol for many years. After stopping the results in strength gains come a lot quicker. Fat loss also becomes so much easier.

  • @airplanegeorge
    @airplanegeorge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    made it through day 2.

  • @fishingpinky3165
    @fishingpinky3165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Day 2! These videos are my plan to help me! This far exceeds what AA does. Thank you!

    • @danielbrowne9344
      @danielbrowne9344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AA has gotten me to 32 days, but a big thing is the desire to change. If you aren’t 💯 percent willing to change, it will be hard. Meetings for me are my stepping blocks.

  • @goodatsolitaire
    @goodatsolitaire 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maybe I'm missing something, but I think you said you'd put a blog post in the description that gave more concrete steps as to how to actually set goals and make concrete plans? But I don't see it 😕

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a really good coach

  • @avoccado9753
    @avoccado9753 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do we apply to sign up?

  • @gwillis01
    @gwillis01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have heard other TH-camrs say that stopping drinking ignites sugar cravings. The other people also said "Just relax about sugar for a month or two before you start to reduce sugar. "

    • @feelinsupersonic1606
      @feelinsupersonic1606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was craving anything sweet but it only lasted 2/3 weeks

    • @nannetteralphs9042
      @nannetteralphs9042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Craving sweets rn. I'm just letting myself eat it. I try to cut refined sugar w fruit, or I'll try to go for healthier stuff, but right now it's about changing habits for me, and if my body is telling me it wants sugar, I'm just glad it's not booze.
      I will say though, sliced apples + honey + cinnamon feels like a real treat. So does jelly and cream cheese on toast.

    • @gwillis01
      @gwillis01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nannetteralphs9042 I also love the combination of apples, honey and cinnamon. YUM YUM

  • @toteyboy8191
    @toteyboy8191 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video leon 😃

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lesley thanks a lot! Good to have you here

    • @toteyboy8191
      @toteyboy8191 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why is it when we start to feel good not having alcohol then think about it again leon? 🙂

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lesley I’ve got a video on that - just search ‘how to stop thinking about drinking’

    • @toteyboy8191
      @toteyboy8191 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks leon 😃

  • @codymaverick6528
    @codymaverick6528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You should also make a video about how alcohol messes up digestion

  • @toobsteak
    @toobsteak ปีที่แล้ว

    How is that the word, "food?"

  • @raymondlin8728
    @raymondlin8728 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1. Kick in laws out the house
    The more that moves out, the less I drink

  • @gwillis01
    @gwillis01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    fyi: that helpful person may be called a life coach or a sobriety coach

  • @trinashumaker9929
    @trinashumaker9929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love you. Chocolate cake lol❤😆

  • @whitneyhammock6610
    @whitneyhammock6610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I knew it was because the alcohol had so much sugar. I'm on day 10 and have been eating donuts and danishes, been craving sugar but I don't want to gain weight so no it's not ok!😆😭

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👊🏻👊🏻

    • @SatoriLight
      @SatoriLight 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Most people have intestinal parasites that crave sugars and alcohol. Parasite cleanses and water fasting can eliminate them.

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SatoriLight dude do you know any good resources for parasite cleansing!?

    • @SatoriLight
      @SatoriLight 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LeonSylvester hi Leon. The information I have is not for public consumption..eg I won't post it on TH-cam.
      If you would like to talk to me privately we can do that. I'll send you an email.
      Peace

    • @majoroldladyakamom6948
      @majoroldladyakamom6948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sugar is a registered toxin in the human body. Google it.

  • @NALYcooks
    @NALYcooks 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Day 41 😱🙏🏻 ❤

  • @omarethiop6778
    @omarethiop6778 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wonder why he threw “hire a coach” in there? 🤔

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Only good and supportive sporty and smart Russian social circles

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alochols only gave me very bad memories and some scars on my face , I dont even know what da fuck was going on . Damn alocholic peoples

  • @DOFMLUS
    @DOFMLUS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was starting to worry that the answer to number 2 was 'Wife'

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep healthy clean and fit , stay at my purposes and keep side hustle girls

  • @TruthSeeker-rd5uj
    @TruthSeeker-rd5uj 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm fucked here fellas. I got to go in s rehab I can't live like this no more

  • @aorjira339
    @aorjira339 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @gwillis01
    @gwillis01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hello there

  • @joycollins8531
    @joycollins8531 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hate ur word MUST, in AA there are no rules, no u must or u have to its all u ought, after members before us used the 12 steps an they worked for millions. How are you different? Than other alcoholics. I'm sober years but really only today cause today is all I have, yesterday is history an I cannot change that, tomorrow is a mystery cause I don't know will I b alive but I have today so I live in today. Don't take the 1st drink for today an keep putting it off he by hr till day passes. Get to meetings to charge ur battery with people who are the same as u. Keep on step 1 for a year as do it for urself no one else. Make no Mager dessicions for a few years an pass no heed on this rubbish. It will b a few mths before if u know if ur coming or going but keep it a day at a time an get phone no's of others at meetings who u identify with.

    • @azlizzie
      @azlizzie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad AA works for you! Keep it up!

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Only these type of Russians

  • @sarahmaurer4804
    @sarahmaurer4804 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should probably recommend therapy.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stay sober and go to dance studios with bunch of girls

  • @ArjunDas
    @ArjunDas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Irony is, most of the guys watching, are watching drunk, dislike the comment if its not correct

  • @silverlining7298
    @silverlining7298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1