how to stop Binge Drinking - binge drinking and the link to alcoholism

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    in this live talk marcus and terry will be sharing their stories from how to stop Binge Drinking - binge drinking and the link to alcoholism

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  • @farficknugan
    @farficknugan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I binge drink super hard for like 2 days, and then I spend 2 to 3 days recovering barely getting out of bed, and then when I feel normal again I get confident and try to see if I can just drink a little bit like a normal person, and then the cycle starts all over again

    • @doylahh
      @doylahh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      farficknugan me too, every time

    • @NB-sq7ui
      @NB-sq7ui 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep..chuck in some cocaine too at the weekends..

    • @baldersn4474
      @baldersn4474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And me..Never ending cycle

    • @tcbcmoto4895
      @tcbcmoto4895 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same as myself that's why I'm not going drink again please God, as once I start I dont stop and my hated for myself gets worse everytime I try control not binge drinking but end up again binge drinking not worth it hurting those around me who I love and myself. So goodbye drink it's not end of the world to say that once you start hating yourself drinking 😁💪

    • @fleadoggreen9062
      @fleadoggreen9062 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yea I stopped
      Had to make a pit stop in the hospital
      Just for a day
      They said I’m not a alcoholic but a binge drinker
      I’m not drinking again
      Yes I’ve quit before but I’m doing it again
      Eff those hangovers
      I’m done

  • @kevinwilliams7012
    @kevinwilliams7012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve just started my journey of realising I’m a binge drinker I don’t drink for a couple of weeks then I’ll go out and drink untill I black out! I’ll use any excuse! I’ve set a goal of 3 months no drinking but after watching this it may become a lifestyle choice!

  • @benjaminbelzer5693
    @benjaminbelzer5693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great show. I'm a binge drinker. I do think I have a problem. In therapy now for alcohol abuse. Love your show. Third day into my 90 meeting days

    • @NB-sq7ui
      @NB-sq7ui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How u getting on now?

  • @donaldsheppard4827
    @donaldsheppard4827 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Talk Sober, you got me considering being sober. I primarily drink on Friday and Saturday, six beers and three or four mixed drinks on both days.

    • @TheBrettarcher
      @TheBrettarcher 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ye but does it Fuck u i mean job fights next day to fucked to work or so shit

    • @alexc08
      @alexc08 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      what?

  • @MrWhitty09
    @MrWhitty09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    For me, the alcohol destroys my desire to eat, and I end up sicker than ever, every single time. I also binge drink, or do benders, up to 5 days at a time. I hate this problem, keep up to the good work though.

    • @fleadoggreen9062
      @fleadoggreen9062 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes same , I’m a week clean now
      I quit a million times before
      But I’m tired of wasting all the time and feeling like I’m gonna die
      So I’m not drinking anything
      Not even a beer

  • @mariofilho8880
    @mariofilho8880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hey, you talk is been of great help for a 29yo in brazil. I can go days or weeks without driking, but when I start I cannot stop. it has been this way for more than 10 years, and I could have been so much better in life if it wasn't for this. I cannot take alcohol in a normal level. I either don't drink or get plastered. It is a small difference from 'regular' achollism, but it sucks just as much, I can assure you. Gonna try quit drinking for a year, starting today. Tiping this hangovered, after a shitty night. thanks for sharing your experience

  • @nicolea5251
    @nicolea5251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Been loving all your videos guys! Using them as part of my recovery along with others, 180 days Christmas Day, keep up the good work. God Bless You

    • @TalkSober
      @TalkSober  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      awesome Nicole and congrats on the 180 days :) glad to have you here.

    • @hamacheadel8429
      @hamacheadel8429 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate video content! Apologies for chiming in, I would love your opinion. Have you heard about - Saankramer Life Card System (do a search on google)? It is a great one of a kind guide for learning how to stop drinking minus the hard work. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my buddy finally got amazing results with it.

  • @janetlynch5804
    @janetlynch5804 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hmmm, guys binge drinking. Well, I have struggled with alcoholism since the 80's. I at first could not imagine a day without drinking. A minute, an hour, etc. then 2 treatment centers in the late 1980's I got 3 1/2 years sober. Then I relapsed again and again, get sober a year here, and there, 30 days, 60 days, 6 months etc. etc. Each time going back to AA. This taught me how to lay off but only after my body felt like it was dying again. I suppose, I didn't realize that I had become a binge drinker. I am sober AGAIN. After 2 weeks straight of heavydrinking. The detox at home again was Hell...It finally hit me, that my alcoholism had become different from what I had known i.e. daily to every minute to spaces in between...anyway around it alcohol will kill you. I wish I was one of those who could just get it the first or second time...but apparently I'm not, SO I have to take the booze off of the table.. .this time for good. It is always when things in life are going good...my health returns, job and all is well, that I seem to sabotage everything. I get in a slump or everything is going well, and/or
    I get to where I don't know how I feel anymore (at that time.) Hope this helps someone else.

    • @rodneyjohnson7327
      @rodneyjohnson7327 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Have you ever completed the 12 step process in AA? And continue steps 10 & 11 every day and night? And step 12 when given the opportunity? Or did you just attend meetings?

  • @yogensharma6303
    @yogensharma6303 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    THANK YOU SIR... GREETINGS FROM DARJEELING ( INDIA) .....KEEP UP YOUR GREAT WORK ..... THANK YOU FOR YOUR VIDEOS ...

  • @NB-sq7ui
    @NB-sq7ui 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Binge drinking..everyday drinking, once a month drinking..Problem drinking is problem drinking..
    .

  • @jpsabbey
    @jpsabbey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been a "semi" functioning alcoholic for about 30 years , now 50. I drink every second night as a rule to the point of being drunk. I've always worked but realize how much drinking has affected my life. Every bad thing that has ever happened i can attribute directly or indirectly to alcohol. The problem is that if i stop drinking for more than a day , life just seems so beige. The night's that i drink just make everything so much better but now being self employed i can't function very well the next day . Big problem!

    • @sarahsmyth5383
      @sarahsmyth5383 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They are beige because alcohol has deterred you from reaching your full potential.

  • @meghanr6a899
    @meghanr6a899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Marcus I'm not doing so good right now:(. I was doing good and was sober for 6 days but then I decided to drink last Saturday night because I had plans to go hang out with my best friend and our daughters to play. I went into saying I'm only gonna drink Saturday night and that's it. My reason was that I felt like if I don't drink I'm gonna be miserable and not have a good time and i definitly would not want to sleep over if i didnt have alcohol to relax me. But it ended up continuing the next day Sunday because then my friend was coming over my house and I had to drink more to deal with the hangover feeling and I was cooking dinner for everyone so I knew I had to be in a good, stable mood, and that just pushed me back into the grips:(

    • @TalkSober
      @TalkSober  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      hey Meg sorry to hear you are having a rough time... join us on todays live :) always good to have you there... and remember setbacks can be as permanent or as temporary as we decide to make them.

  • @zone47
    @zone47 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting discussion!! Thanks for sharing this.
    Weekend binger, that was me. Started at 24 and drank pretty heavy 2 nights a week until age 30 when I got married, started up again at around 34 again to early 50s. It spilled over to Sundays as well, so 3 days a week. I prayed I could quit but really couldn't. I got to the point where (1) I didn't get hangovers anymore. (2) I over drank but my body gave up on throwing up. (3) I couldn't even get a buzz anymore. I would just pass out if I drank too much. God did answer my prayer (it's not what I expected), he allowed me to have a dirt bike accident (totally sober), impaled my leg and thought I was going to bleed out. The ER doctors said my liver enzymes were really high and I better get it under control, I didn't realize the damage I was doing. I would say binge drinker = alcoholic. God will rescue you but you have to want to live for him and not yourself. Sober is an amazingly better life.

  • @NB-sq7ui
    @NB-sq7ui 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is such a good video guys thanks...I relapsed after 2 months off, had a binge over weekend felt desp ill for 3 days afterwards...Doing the steps prop now and have a sponsor

    • @NB-sq7ui
      @NB-sq7ui 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Update : I gave up in the steps and meetings, not fir me but have manged to stay off drink so far...I love the support mechanism if AA but I think the steps etc work more forchemically dependant people..

  • @NB-sq7ui
    @NB-sq7ui 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    16:25.
    Story of my life, every sunday after a weekend binge for 30 plus years lol..

  • @billmoore1936
    @billmoore1936 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes you can stop the drinking is will power for positive attitude

  • @gjjgb
    @gjjgb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks guys. I love these podcasts with video as apposed to just audio only!

  • @brandi5730
    @brandi5730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is me if I drink which is only six times a year I go all in and I’m on klonipin I suffer from panic disorder and bipolar depression I don’t understand why even if I have three drinks I’m a mess I think it almost puts me in a Black out

  • @lorimedves7860
    @lorimedves7860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m having a hard time staying stopped😔 I have no issues stopping drinking but I go two weeks then back at it I need some advice . I go to meetings I have a sponsor that I talk to I read the book I pray and meditate wtf am I doing wrong?

  • @13abcde
    @13abcde 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I consider binge drinking to be when you start to have the urge to drink after a certain period of time, say every 5 days. On hangover day, you're done. You don't want to drink and this continues until day 5 rolls around, then you start to get irritable, itchy, whatever, and before you know it, you're drinking. Then the cycle repeats. When I first drank in College, I would get trashed once in a while, but there was no craving and no pattern had developed.

  • @caprilover6391
    @caprilover6391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Marcus and Terry AWESOME show! You two are great! Thanks for talking the LSD way to sobriety. Also thanks Marcus that you read a lot and talked about the jungle juice and that crap doesn't work, it's all within you.

  • @R01120
    @R01120 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you ever wonder if you have a drinking problem...Yes you do.

  • @ciaranmac8689
    @ciaranmac8689 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m a binge drinker I’m of it now 77. Days but last drink I had was 5.,days of beer fealt sick then I stopped, it’s insane they way I do it it’s like I can’t stop it for a few days it causes problems I Mised work, I have stopped it loads of time but every time I do it’s a bindge

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I went somewhere to drink again yesterday , I felt guilty for myself

  • @cristinaherrera7090
    @cristinaherrera7090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My so. Is only 31 and he is a full blown binger and he cant he thst he killing himself there is not s day thst he dont tell me he hss headache he tired all tne time

  • @Jimmypagesgreat
    @Jimmypagesgreat ปีที่แล้ว

    My breakfast lunch and dinner was beer, barely ate anything except for greasy food at my local Mexican restaurant/store I would always frequent where I would always buy my beer.

  • @13abcde
    @13abcde 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think, if you're feeling cravings (real cravings and you're giving in) on a regular cycle, you're an alcoholic. When you start drinking every day, all the time, and drink first thing in the morning. If you throw up and keep drinking, then you're a raging alcoholic.

  • @BobBob-uv9fq
    @BobBob-uv9fq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Accept that when you have one you will go on to have a lot ,just accept this ,then if u want say two beers ,have them when you are unable to get anymore ie shops closed pubs closed ,it worked for me I’m just about not dr

  • @ydoicare2000
    @ydoicare2000 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg. The non alcohol. Never thought of that. Nooo. My bf would have called bull ?$&/ and caught me 😂😂😳
    He used to smell my glass.
    60 sober 👍

  • @lorimedves7860
    @lorimedves7860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🙏

  • @TheBrettarcher
    @TheBrettarcher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am defo a binger dont. Drink all time but 3 - 4 days a week or more. But then ill drink one and boom 12 cans wines i drink till drop ie sleep arrested a@e then regret sick never again im the kinda nut bag who will get drunk then go round the. Party pub bar hoovering up all the leftovers of others and end up stuck on a 12 ft fence at 2 am because ?

  • @NB-sq7ui
    @NB-sq7ui 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    9:40 spot on..

  • @dd81807
    @dd81807 ปีที่แล้ว

    You first bro

  • @TheBrettarcher
    @TheBrettarcher 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    binge is me

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Actually my friend was talk to them and we had conversations

  • @t-mac6210
    @t-mac6210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just broke 12 years of Sobriety because your mic's weren't synced and I couldn't take it anymore.

    • @TheBrettarcher
      @TheBrettarcher 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ye sound is not equalized

    • @meghanr6a899
      @meghanr6a899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I notice what you're talking about but I watch it live and I'll tell them if the sound is off, and Marcus fixes it usually right away. There are not too many live yt vids on this subject, so it's pretty cool. They are live every Thursday at 11am

    • @marceloalfonso7130
      @marceloalfonso7130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Appreciate Video! Sorry for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you tried - Saankramer Life Card System (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is an awesome exclusive product for learning how to stop drinking minus the headache. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my old buddy Taylor finally got cool results with it.

    • @maiberlinhernandez3008
      @maiberlinhernandez3008 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kudos for the video content! Apologies for the intrusion, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you researched - Saankramer Life Card System (google it)? It is a good exclusive product for learning how to stop drinking without the headache. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my close friend Aubrey at last got great results with it.

  • @craighall2819
    @craighall2819 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou

  • @cristinaherrera7090
    @cristinaherrera7090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alcohol has ruined my sonslife half the time hes drunk tbe other half he sick my godhe needs to figure it out fast he really do t c wst he doin

  • @ianmunn437
    @ianmunn437 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sure you have been asked this but I haven't been able to find it that is what is your opinion about harm reduction I am 42 I have lower back problems I also have the gene for alcoholism when I started vaporizing cannabis I found that it made me think about how bad alcohol is it also made me realize that I needed to cut out all prescription drugs including my acid reflux pills and start eating better I'm not here to judge I'm curious what you think about someone using cannabis to stop alcohol and prescription drugs

  • @yellow6100
    @yellow6100 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Marcus, is it much easier to be a profesional marketer than pro athlete or pro poker player if youre an alcoholic and not in recovery yet?

  • @cristinaherrera7090
    @cristinaherrera7090 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I so worried my son doesn't want to talk to me he says im toxic because i tell him tne truth he wo let. Me c .y grandson because he decied toquit. Again for tne 20th TIME because he decidec2 to quit again he punishing me i dont k ow wzt to do should i leave him alone stop texin him?im lost and i NEVER tbioght i woulx be stressi g o. My son drinking he reslly do t k ow wen or how to STOP wat could i do 😔😔

  • @TheBrettarcher
    @TheBrettarcher 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Markus your sound is much weaker than Terry ( who is v loud and clear ) noticed on your videos

  • @TheBrettarcher
    @TheBrettarcher 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i can drink socilly and sometimes one or two but then bng ill drink v fast (due to nerves ) and bang until 10 yrs ago its wasnt to bad but ending up in AE hospital waking up in a forest minus most of my stuff ...and so on

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Because I went home alone with dizzy head

  • @brandi5730
    @brandi5730 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hate that I’m not normal my life is for shit

  • @thcgamer3093
    @thcgamer3093 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shoot. Missed Session Again. Forgot it was Thursday, dang it. Plus Stuck Playing New Smash Bros Ultimate Game. Will set alarm clock for next week. Really like participating. Sorry, but good News Still Sober 50 Days. :)

    • @everydaysober4104
      @everydaysober4104 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congrats on 50 days, see you next week :)

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    And I didnt meet girls who know my worth , why would I send money to them to make others rich

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    But I met a group of people , two guys with one very attractive girl from МГУ , I should talk to them and get girl number

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    МГУ студентов умное ченовек

  • @baldersn4474
    @baldersn4474 ปีที่แล้ว

    Smoke weed lol