90 Days Sober - Does It Get WORSE? (shocking first hand expereience)

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  • @BEACHDUDE71
    @BEACHDUDE71 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Over 6 months of no alcohol for me

  • @bobbmann5
    @bobbmann5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I was always an evening binge drinker for years. What i'm loving now being sober 5 days now is the fact i can now hop in my Hyundia Tucson and go to Wendy's McDonals's for an evening treat or burger and can drive in which when i drank, i NEVER would do anything like such and that to me is a huge plus for me. Lovin' it so far. I turned 60 today and i want my old life back and not to suffer in the beasts (Alcohols) grasp it once had a firm grip on me. Hope you're all well. -Bob

    • @baldersn4474
      @baldersn4474 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So yiu give up drinking crap to treat yourself eating crap ?

    • @bobbmann5
      @bobbmann5 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@baldersn4474 Doing well here besides a sinus headache. But I’ve come a long way in my drinking habits. 😎

    • @davidmurray6442
      @davidmurray6442 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Keep going😊

  • @thabangmotaung4759
    @thabangmotaung4759 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    82 days sober today

  • @benbelzer8303
    @benbelzer8303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm glad someone brought up the sugar comment and craving certain things once you quit. Make sure to have those craving backups or it is harder to quit

  • @yahiakubara3846
    @yahiakubara3846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m in my 5 days sober but ain’t easy

    • @nightstaber2010
      @nightstaber2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It I’ll get easier, I got 8 months down, now I don’t see a reason for drinking, I had almost a year of if I didn’t drink, I would get the shakes. I can’t see my self going back

    • @GirlMomma
      @GirlMomma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You've got this!!💪❣️

    • @GirlMomma
      @GirlMomma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@nightstaber2010and way to go on your 8 months!!💕🤗

    • @opencurtin
      @opencurtin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s not easy if you don’t want to give up I know that feeling I had to really want to quit and it made it easier mostly down to doing stupid things whole drunk I literally had enough hitting 50 and nothing to show for it , maybe ur too young abs haven’t done enough stupid stuff while drunk ? Age does make you look at your life and your relationship with alcohol ….

    • @nightstaber2010
      @nightstaber2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@opencurtin I’m 42 still too old to do dumb stuff while drunk, the DWI was sobering but I still didn’t stop drinking

  • @TheUkLabourGovIsdangourous
    @TheUkLabourGovIsdangourous 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Second of January(5 weeks ago) was my last 8 beers I drank, I've been drinking nearly every day for 14 years. I'm not desperate for a drink however it's never far away thinking about it. I'm still feeling exhausted, dizziness light heads specially in the mornings and the brain fog. The last week I been suffering with flu like symptoms.

  • @damian-795
    @damian-795 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I got to 4 months , then ruined it with a relapse . It`s very depressing and I have to start again.

  • @nathancole600
    @nathancole600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You guys have helped me so much. Thank you for your videos. From 🇬🇧

  • @opencurtin
    @opencurtin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m over two years sober of late I’m getting a strange longing for a drink to relax it’s very annoying I’m like oh you can now have a few drinks but I know it’s a slippery slope back to weekend binge boozing ..

    • @itsjustme9354
      @itsjustme9354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don't try it! I've just recently relapsed after a long hard haul don't do it! I was back where I was took off.

    • @opencurtin
      @opencurtin 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsjustme9354 that’s exactly what I’d fear will happen ..

    • @ydorri2460
      @ydorri2460 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Try a cozy early night with a great book that let's you escape from real life for a bit or a weekend away actually escaping from real life x

  • @RobertBeach-ps6wb
    @RobertBeach-ps6wb หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wish I would have found this channel sooner but glad I finally did. Coming up on 9yrs here in North Texas. Still need to hear this material!

  • @Plan-C
    @Plan-C 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    In the words of Kryten in Red Dwarf: "Ah pub: A place where people attempt to reach advanced states of mental incompetence through the repeated consumption of fermented vegetable drinks"

    • @yonikki
      @yonikki 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha, so very true!! 😂

  • @barbaragorse3243
    @barbaragorse3243 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Big thank you Marcus & Terry you are the BEST. I can resonate FINALLY. So true.

  • @someonesomeone25
    @someonesomeone25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The biggest issue for me is that even after the physical withdrawal has su sided, and the initial cravings have died down, you're left with all the problems thatbled you to start drinking in the first place. That's the real problem. If your life is bad then what's the point in being sober?

    • @Monkeyabroad
      @Monkeyabroad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hang in there. If you have a tough life and lots of problems, sinking into oblivion will only delay/worsen the problems. Best to face those issues head-on; you'll get through it. Imagine that life once you've slowly made all those amends. Then you can live with serenity. Hope you're doing well today, best of luck

    • @someonesomeone25
      @someonesomeone25 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Monkeyabroad I don't think I can solve those issues, though. I don't think they're solvable.

    • @Monkeyabroad
      @Monkeyabroad 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@someonesomeone25 Even the process of trying your best to solve them will bring you to a better place than alcohol or substance ever will

    • @someonesomeone25
      @someonesomeone25 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Monkeyabroad I'm not sure. I drank because my life was bad and at least by being drunk I didn't try and self-delete. Now my life is still bad, but I'm sober. I guess we'll see what happens.

  • @nathanassenmacher914
    @nathanassenmacher914 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I got sober because she dumped me for it. I’m 90 days sober but she doesn’t care enough to even respond.

    • @joewalsh4685
      @joewalsh4685 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You choose sobriety for you.

  • @grahamherbert3612
    @grahamherbert3612 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had a total mental collapse at two years. I eventually concluded that AA was the problem.

  • @daleandrews3698
    @daleandrews3698 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks guys, you're so inspirational! I gave up on New Years Eve 2023, it's now Feb 20th, it's getting a little tough but I think I've got this!

  • @TK76er
    @TK76er ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sitting firmly on the pink cloud right now. 45 days sober and checked all those boxes you listed. A little concerned about the eventually fall off.

  • @barbaragorse3243
    @barbaragorse3243 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No way would I pay this money. Ridiculous. I work too hard & dont spend this amount on anything.

  • @restivo808
    @restivo808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your talks are helpful

  • @positivelivingmusic5497
    @positivelivingmusic5497 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I relapsed on the very day I was supposed to get my ninety day chip. I rule!....NOT.

  • @barbaragorse3243
    @barbaragorse3243 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Luv chemical information. So important. Thank you.

  • @blueskyalldayeveryday
    @blueskyalldayeveryday 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your website is down, are you still active? I found this very helpful.

  • @davo5809
    @davo5809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    just remember everyone it gets better just keep the poison out of your mouth !! keep up the good work marcus and terry !!

  • @yahiakubara3846
    @yahiakubara3846 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had to go to the ER I’m glad I did cuz alcohol me loses a lot

  • @barrytierney414
    @barrytierney414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I slept 4 hrs in 2 weeks when I got sober I quit on my own it was hell

    • @benbelzer8303
      @benbelzer8303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've had trouble with sleep too. I wish I had googled things to help with sleep before I stopped drinking. I know getting plenty of B vitamins early each day helps with your nerves. And that helps with everything

    • @barrytierney414
      @barrytierney414 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@benbelzer8303 thankyou

    • @benbelzer8303
      @benbelzer8303 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@barrytierney414 yep! Especially B1 which is thiamine, just google foods and vitamins that are good for your nerves

    • @itsjustme9354
      @itsjustme9354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Magnesium is good for sleep.

    • @benbelzer8303
      @benbelzer8303 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsjustme9354 Correct. I take that too

  • @wallysmomma7870
    @wallysmomma7870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello TS FAMILY Been Subbing for are first grade here in lake Geneva but next week is my final week so i will be back on the lives . A Big Thank you to Marcus and Terry for this awesome channel.

  • @TheThesalsalady173
    @TheThesalsalady173 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Geez trying to quit drinking 3 beers a day and you made it sound like it will be hell.😆

    • @maryann7619
      @maryann7619 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not funny.
      Give it a try now, before it gets impossible.

  • @alclark10
    @alclark10 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Allergic to Fibre-Glass. 😂

  • @stangedude5646
    @stangedude5646 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everyone that has an occasional drink is not an alcoholic. Like me you guys had no self control.and alchol consumed your lives. I never got to the point where alchol affected me the way it did you guys but I quit because once I began drinking I couldn't cut it off.

    • @rugbyelite1361
      @rugbyelite1361 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @baldersn4474
      @baldersn4474 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would argue that anyone that consumes any smmount of alchchol is on a spectrum tbh...Legal poison that affects every cell in our bodies.

  • @marcuswilliams1540
    @marcuswilliams1540 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dont pay too much attention to this vid. after 90 days it gets easier.

  • @GirlMomma
    @GirlMomma 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💜

  • @tawnihaynie1065
    @tawnihaynie1065 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙂🙂🙂😇😇😇👍👍👍

  • @jamieknight9636
    @jamieknight9636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fellas, fyi. I feel the talks are getting too drawn out

    • @Allwestconstruction
      @Allwestconstruction 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I disagree, they are doing excellent

    • @Lovely0710
      @Lovely0710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The longer the show on YT, is more money

    • @Allwestconstruction
      @Allwestconstruction 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Lovely0710 You do know that no one is making you watch, you should just move on and create your own videos and then you can make all the money

    • @eternalcycle6380
      @eternalcycle6380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I disagree too, I see an excellent evolution and refinement of thoughts as the live-streams progress, and there are only few sobriety channels on TH-cam which can match this one

    • @wallysmomma7870
      @wallysmomma7870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Allwestconstruction exactly

  • @lindafitzgerald2837
    @lindafitzgerald2837 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You know nothing