When Penson said we're worried about the wrong things if we're worried about the government but out society is falling apart and the family unit is in tatters I felt it. We can't even lead ourselves as individuals, let alone relationships, families. Mmm. True.
Thank you Lelo, what a wonderful conversation. I envy your guest for being close with his siblings. I pray to God in my next life i am close to my siblings. Lobola never made sense to me, i feel like women are being sold. Paying Lobola gives a man control over the woman and in that way it is seen as purchasing a person as demonstrated by the following: “… women are less powerful because after Lobola he will be the ruler in the house.” “Yes, it makes them seem as a commodity and also they have no say.” Today's lobola is a business transaction. My son is not going to pay hundreds of thousands for someone. He's not going to suffer while im around. Marriage is an agreement between two parties. Communication is key to a "scuccessful' marriage. Talk about finances, talk about your fears, talk about cheating. Talk!
Im from Limpopo province families don't work together because of witchcraft this side everything else spoken about I agree to some extent the only thing going to save us is going back to basics great conversation
Trust most people are brainwashed you will never talk sense into them they are so entitled you will never tell them anything, but life is the good teacher.
Penson is an absolute gem, frank and congruent. I was scolding Penuel at the 1st Annual Game Changers event ukuthi why didn't he come with him but this episode made up for it❤❤❤ thanks Sib😊 Keep changing the status quo one video at a time with brilliant guests as you are!!!
Penson should come again for the second interview I feel like he needs another hour🤝✅. Overall I enjoyed the whole conversation, It covered most of today's challenges and reality.
My 2 faves in one video ❤ Got to know Penson better, so I understand his context in his videos - his family values, his perspective on relationships etc. He's a Sibling now ❤ let's talk and learn..
Not to be overly religious, the part about parents telling their children not to bekezela etc. because they don't want them to feel pain. Just like Abraham was asked to "kill" his son, I think the conceptual relevance today would be: Give your child up to the world, that's what strengthens them, otherwise you are unbeknownst to you, creating a weakling that will crash at the first sign of tragedy. The world is a rough place, and suffering is guaranteed. Allow them to get strong but not shielding them.
If u give money to another in an out of community of property without accrual,how will u then build ur wealth whereas ur partner will do so bcos each other's assest belong to that partner individually
I have a feeling he has been dating wowen who depend on him and are weaklings ,why would a woman not be able to take her of her 3 kids and depend on him fully . AND before anything else he is not forced to Lobola that 3 kid woman but can always find the perfect one for himself ....but you know what Lobola still stands and some white people are expecting if there daughter marries black
Thanks again Lelo!
I loved the conversation 😊
Looking forward to reading all the thought-provoking comments ❤
Thank you for coming through, such a fun conversation 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@pensonmlotshwa is so cute ☺️ and of course sib you stay gorgeous. To top it off this was a great conversation. Keep it up sib ❤
@@ApricotJam-m5v❤
When Penson said we're worried about the wrong things if we're worried about the government but out society is falling apart and the family unit is in tatters I felt it. We can't even lead ourselves as individuals, let alone relationships, families. Mmm. True.
I believe this is one of those episodes where Lelo herself will re-watch again..again and again
They way I always watch interviews with Penson
Thank you Lelo, what a wonderful conversation. I envy your guest for being close with his siblings. I pray to God in my next life i am close to my siblings. Lobola never made sense to me, i feel like women are being sold. Paying Lobola gives a man control over the woman and in that way it is seen as purchasing a person as demonstrated by the following: “… women are less powerful because after Lobola he will be the ruler in the house.” “Yes, it makes them seem as a commodity and also they have no say.”
Today's lobola is a business transaction. My son is not going to pay hundreds of thousands for someone. He's not going to suffer while im around. Marriage is an agreement between two parties. Communication is key to a "scuccessful' marriage. Talk about finances, talk about your fears, talk about cheating. Talk!
I would actually like to see their sister, because the brothers are gorgeous.
It begins and ends with the man, whatever we ALLOW in society is what happens
Great conversation and great calm host 🙌
Thank you for listening 🙏🏽
Im from Limpopo province families don't work together because of witchcraft this side everything else spoken about I agree to some extent the only thing going to save us is going back to basics great conversation
Love the fixing of family ❤
Thank you sib for tuning in 🥰
This one has been very helpful for me. Thought I was the only going through the most.
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Brilliant conversation, we are lost Sociaty
That Pollard analogy is on point
Thanks for listening ❤️
Woooow I enjoyed everything especially the importance of Capital Maintenance also his outlook on life is amazing and of course he is so cute 😅😅
I’m so happy u did my sibling 🙏🏽 no comment on the last sentence 😂😂😮💨
@@lelonWakaGatsheni 🤣🤣🤣
Very empowering and thought-provoking conversation! Thanks Sib 👏
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Trust most people are brainwashed you will never talk sense into them they are so entitled you will never tell them anything, but life is the good teacher.
Sbonge 🙌🏾
Penson is an absolute gem, frank and congruent. I was scolding Penuel at the 1st Annual Game Changers event ukuthi why didn't he come with him but this episode made up for it❤❤❤ thanks Sib😊 Keep changing the status quo one video at a time with brilliant guests as you are!!!
This must be the most heart-warming comment today, thank you so much my sib. You made my day 🙌🏾❤️
@@lelonWakaGatsheni 😘😘😘 keep shining Sib💐
beautiful conversation guys!
Great content, I luv that "The Sibnation" is not being misled. If you did err you will make them aware. Reliable information is necessary. Big up
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️thank you
Abantwana baka Mamsie ba rhelerhele❤
Nje!
Penson should come again for the second interview I feel like he needs another hour🤝✅.
Overall I enjoyed the whole conversation, It covered most of today's challenges and reality.
My 2 faves in one video ❤ Got to know Penson better, so I understand his context in his videos - his family values, his perspective on relationships etc.
He's a Sibling now ❤ let's talk and learn..
Thank you for listening, once again my sib❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰
Awee penzoh ❤❤thank you sisi for this interview
this was nice considering how God Pen always makes this guy sound so average on PEN&PEN with that said can Lelo give us a show without make up
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@Sylersyd....I assume next time you'll ask Lelo to give us a show with chiskop😮😮😮
@@QueenZan that's not necessary but it wouldn't be bad if she does one without that fake hair.
😃😂🤣🤣 Hey Penson that CV thing , reference and milage is killing me
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One of the best videos
I'm now subscribing because of brother man! Loved the episode ❤❤
Siyabonga ❤️
We are game changers ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Great conversation sib❤❤❤
Thank you for watching my sib
Penson sounds like his brother Penuel .
Yes i agree with you, most celebrities
These days they wants to "keep up with the Joneses" why mara?
Thanks for watching ❤️
Nazoke Penson 🔥
Haibo Lelo! When did we start with the interviews??😻😻👏🏾👏🏾Love it!❤
"Elibele engigabha"🤣🤣🤣
Lobola is not fair whereby u get married out of community of property without accrual & u must further all times give money to ur lady
So what would you suggest ?
Lobola stands Sir nd its fair 😊
Lol, one can always opt to be single and celibate, you know.
shaya grootman shaya. Mr 101😂
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Camera man!
What happened sib ?
@@lelonWakaGatsheni I thot he will zoom in the interviwee....
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Not to be overly religious, the part about parents telling their children not to bekezela etc. because they don't want them to feel pain.
Just like Abraham was asked to "kill" his son, I think the conceptual relevance today would be: Give your child up to the world, that's what strengthens them, otherwise you are unbeknownst to you, creating a weakling that will crash at the first sign of tragedy.
The world is a rough place, and suffering is guaranteed. Allow them to get strong but not shielding them.
If u give money to another in an out of community of property without accrual,how will u then build ur wealth whereas ur partner will do so bcos each other's assest belong to that partner individually
Good one 👏🏽
I gues "bekezela" needs 2 b accompanied by a sober minded end plan that's worth "bekezela" 4.
I have a feeling he has been dating wowen who depend on him and are weaklings ,why would a woman not be able to take her of her 3 kids and depend on him fully . AND before anything else he is not forced to Lobola that 3 kid woman but can always find the perfect one for himself ....but you know what Lobola still stands and some white people are expecting if there daughter marries black
Deep
this life think ain't lol
Eish 😮💨
yhoo thank my brother life line you could not have said it better '
Thanks for listening 🙏🏽