Western VS Asian, Girls Talk About Sex Cultural Differences!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ม.ค. 2023
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Today, Korean girl Heejae and European girl Suji talked about sex cultural differences in countries!
Did you find some similarities? Or differences?
Please leave comments about your own culture♥
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I'm a Western girl and I relate more to the Korean girl lmao. I think this is also personality-based rather than just cultural.
It's actually both, at the end of the day your personal identity is connected with your sense of belonging that is related to your social "web" (relationships) with your family, school, any religious organization, etc. In some cultures family, government and religion play a huge part in ppl development as an individual and as a member of society and that's going to "affect" how you relate to certain topics, and how comfortable you feel talking or living certain scenarios. I'm Mexican and I can relate to both, I know people that are really conservative regarding sex topics because of their religion or their family, and the key is not to judge, respect other's points of view, and do not try to impose the way you think to others, especially if this is violating their rights. At the end of the day I consider sexuality should be discussed from a young age and that we need to see it as something natural as is a normal biological behavior.
same here
Same
@@hanadoarte disagree
Poland apologizes for Polish women. They will only behave like this abroad. xd
I love how polar opposites Heejae and Suji are!!! It's really cute their reactions to everything
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Both can share the experiences and cultures
good pairing. back when soros didnt bankroll this shit
what is Heejae and Suji?
Cuteness is an illusion and manipulation tactics use by women to hide their flaws and evil deeds
I’m from Poland like Suji but I had more common answers with Heejae. Even when your upbringing can make a difference in your experiences, I think it’s more personal than „national”. I also had a sex Education in middle school only
I think that calling those lessons "sex education" is a big exaggeration, I didn't learn anything useful.
Me too... Suji is too open for me. And Its not normal in Poland
Exactly, Suki isn't a good Polish example.
I think it depends on the city and person, family... its different for people from smaller cities as well. But f.ex. my mum talked to me as well about sex before we had it at school (primary school 6th grade). I also think many had sex in high school, although starting later is common too. Everything depends, why so serious
research shows that sex education does not improve the awareness of teenagers, and even spoils this intimate sphere of life.
I was pregnant at 15. I had my daughter at 16. Then had my son at 19. I’ll be 38 in 3 weeks and my kids are 21 and 18. Finished school and working full time. I guess I raised them well. 😊
Sounds like you took responsibility and did a good job! You should be proud!
I have a similar age gap with my own mother (she was 21) as your son and I think that was great. My parents were young and healthy, could be very active and keep up with me and my sister. Speaking of which, there's only a 13 month gap between me and my sister, so she and I grew up almost like twins. We also have a cousin who we grew up with who was in the middle, so she was like a second sister. That was also great. As a result I have a very strong bond with my family. I hope your family is the same.
I am not sure how is that legally possible. Sexual action before the age of consent regardless of the individual nor a mutual consent, is deemed a criminal act and can be prosecuted in the eye of law (especially from the male aspect - it can be categorised as Sexual assault) . To my knowledge, the youngest age of consent is 16 years old....
I'm curious as to how old the father was?
@@Kxng0903 It's 15 in several European countries as far as I'm aware, but with some protection laws to prevent older people from taking advantage of younger people.
@@CottidaeSEA noted. Thank you
Don't feel guilty for being conservative, Heejae.
Heejae is wife material while Suji is girlfriend material only.
@@jinlee2617u won’t have either so why do u care
@@jinlee2617 I love how you typed that as if Suji would even look in your direction lmao a girl like that would never be your girlfriend buddy.
@@webuyhouse8917 A wise advice to their future man 😂😂😂. My church is my local strip club and brothel house 😂😂😂.
@@mt6897 Nah bro, even I wouldn't want it. I am more into wifey material than street material.
Lol! As a Polish women I must say that in Poland it's like 50/50. Usually most of the kids know a lot about sex from their ,,naughty" friends, but the knowledge isn't always right. One night stand is not popular at all and most of the parents still don't want to talk about sex. So... I would say there are different groups in Poland: the conseravative one, the normal one who treats sex as part of love and the pathological one.
Is it split like A and B Poland?
@@kanalisationerstellen Yes it is, and there is also Poland C like Sosnowiec or Czestochowa.
@@kanalisationerstellen ironically, Poland B is a lot richer than Poland A
@@user-tb5nq9sx1h where's the irony tho
@@xbeast1ny0m4m4 it's not
I think Suji was raised in a very modern and especially open-minded family. I think for most east europeans it doesn't look like that, i don't know anyone who had similar experience.
Not to mention that Poland is still culturaly very conservative.
Poland is changing a lot in this respect. It also depends on where in Poland you live. In big cities people are more open than in the provinces. I know quite a few people like that. And that's how I raised my daughters. Talking about sex, the world, whatever they were interested in is normal and obvious to me. I'm not hiding anything, I'm just adapting to their age
@@katarzynasaganowska2322 That's great! I hope Poland will change for better, but we definitely need a lot of time for this. Small steps!
@@katarzynasaganowska2322 that's what am also doing. Where is safer environment to get some knowledge than from home?
@@katarzynasaganowska2322 Hope you educated them on soul ties. Because that’s a very real thing.
@@catalinarossiDon't worry about their education - these are girls who are very aware of themselves and the world, who know their value, empathetic, who will not be manipulated by religious or patriarchal texts. What a partnership is, respect in a relationship, they learned by looking at their parents
I'm an Asian Turkic, but I also had the experience of studying in the West. I concluded that it's more up to a person than a culture, coz there are plenty of conservative people in Europe and America and some liberal people in Asia (AFAIN, Japan, China, at least major cities). But I agree that Asian culture is more judgemental about these kinda "sensitive" questions, which is why I'm here with Heejae!
Right. It's true. There are even men in America, Europe, and other parts of the world saving their virginity for their future spouses. I'm 36 and I haven't had it either. I remember getting mocked for it, but who cares if I'm conservative. (I'm from the Phils.) I don't even judge them for having sex, but they made me feel as if I was doing something wrong for choosing not to. So, stay conservative if you want to.
What is your nationality
@@lifeisboring- I'm ethnically Tatar with mixed Tatar-Kazakh ancestry. I'm from Kazakhstan, but I also lived in Tatarstan. So, it's easier for me to introduce myself as a Turkic because both Tatars and Kazakhs are Turks :)
Edit: Guys, Turkic people do not equal Turkish people/people from Türkiye! There are Turkish, Kazakh, Tatar, Uzbek, and many other Turkic ethnicities from different countries. People sometimes just get confused by it. So, let me add this remark! Cheers! (:
@@rais.online you are right I'm Turkic too I'm from Turkey
@@lifeisboring- Greetings! I like your country! (:
im french but relate more to heejae, honestly i don't know many people around me who are more like Suji, so i guess it really depends on the individual
Exactly, Poland is a mixed culture, too.
Me too
I always love these open topics and see the difference in cultures. And I agree with Heejae that protection is so important! And Suji also that education should be taught properly at puberty ages ❤
Here in America, the things that are being taught as early as first grade are destroying the culture, and therefore the country. The subject matter is very important.
@@JohnWarner-lu8rq nobody teaching things like that to first graders and sex ed has a net positive on society
@@gwendolyn643 postive?? All i see is teen pregnancy
@@AnkitaBaka May have more to do with the increasing rate of growing up in a single parent home or having a bad home life. Also in the US the current media is usually very sexual and dark. Then porn addiction. Nothing wrong with that but making that as a norm will definetely affect kids
@@gwendolyn643 that is bad job. Having sex before married is huge sins. Thats why Muslim really love Jesus not as son of god but as a prophet who has Mother Mary who is virgin. Stop promoting sex before marriage! Western people destroying human life and our tradition.
I'm from Poland but I'm more similar to Heejae like I couldn't even imagine talk about sex with my Mom and even more with Dad it's too awkward for me but I think my sisters wouldn't mind that
I remember not being interested in guys and sex up until 18-20 years old. I was so different from other girls in my school cause I grew up with three older brothers and their friends so males just weren't interesting to me, nothing new... But I was interested in female friendships for the first time lol I remember some girls making me feel ashamed cause I didn't have sex in high school. Now I'm happy I didn't and I waited til I was more grown up and ready.
Please don't be ashamed those girls should be ashamed they don't the know the meaning of pure love and affection normally we call them hoe and if we say that out loud on there face they will get offended
Great job
Good
I have a question. Why do people still have sex? Sex is very gross, nasty, messy, and disgusting! I don't see how sex is a good thing. Why don't humans just remove sex from this world? Women can still get pregnant without sex (there's a lot of ways women can get pregnant without sex including artificial insemination). Sex does cause a lot of problems, so the world might be a much better place without it.
@@icysnow57cold64 Life would be easier without many things. Too bad it's a basic human instinct. Eating and pooping are disgusting as well but you can't get rid of it. They are also very pleasurable like sex. The problem is pleasure.
This is such an interesting video! It’s interesting hearing Heejae’s perspective and personality because of the culture and just who she is 😄 Just all interesting to me!
Polish culture is still conseravative, Suji is a bad example, greetings from Poland!
Polki podbijają daleki wschód, jeszcze tam nie mieli wyrobionej opinii o Polkach. Wstyd na cały świat po raz kolejny.
I can relate hee jae as an Asian and indian
I WAS WAITING FOR THIS DUO FINALLY
What is wrong with sex education? It is necessary. Even young kids may be abused, but some of them don't know something wrong is going on or don't know what to do when they don't feel comfortable with something what is happening to them.
I bought book 'My body belongs only to me' where is explained that kids don't have to agree to everything what adults want to do to them. My older daughter (5y.o.) knows how to react at least in theory but this is more than nothing.
She also knows basics where the kids are coming from.
And above are basics to start sex education - 1. you are free to set bonderies, 2. your body is unique and important, 3. your body will be able to bring new life one day.
yeah but a lot of times when people learn about it then it makes them want to look up porn and it affects their mental state taking up all of this info when your not mature
@@user-me6bt9hm6n sure, we all are crazy sexuoholiks, addicted to porn. Well, its better to be educated and safe than hypocrite making kids vulnerable in looking for help, especially in world of prude and sexually frustrated adults.
There correlation between marriges before 18 y.o. girls (or even much younger), which are socially accetable in similar places where sex education is not, leaving them unprepared to consious defense against it, but also abuse in and outside marriges, sexual education sounds like pure evil.
If my choise it to raise kids who would not be affraid to speak to me about anything and free to make thair own discoveries in their own pace in save environment vs not able to recognize danger and vulnerable to abuse - I'll go for the first.
@@jutrzenka7503 yeah but if your not affected by those things then it just be another step into turning people in down bad and dangerous but I completely understand your pov
@@user-me6bt9hm6n I just wondering what do you (as plural not you personally) think we theach as part of sexual education - sex positions with real life demontrations or during watching porn? Well, this was already invented in Asia, as Kama Sutra is the oldest book/esey (not sure how to name it is English) and includes among the other also well ilustarted chapter about sexual positions. And to be honest I would call it even first sex education coursebook, which treats how build relationships, how sexuality is important in relationships and how to enjoy it in safe way + some theoretical insteuctions together with nice images ^.^
It is funny how in Asia sex is taboo, but Asia developed on Kama Sutra, legal courtizans, harems, multiple marriges, very young girls being forced to be married and many more I am not even aware of. West is not flawless but what I, as Pole, hate a lot is being prude and hipocrate.
@@jutrzenka7503 I think instead of showing sex itself just mention things to avoid because seeing new things makes you want to find more about it and the effects of our bodies growing oh yeah also tell them that condoms are a thing that can prevent a lot of these problems
It's so good to see Suji back and her hair has changed, didn't recognise her for a second there!!!
15 is waaaaaaay too young to be having intercourse even by western standards. The people you hear about in school being sexually active at 15 or 16 are very, very few compared to a school population as a whole. They're a drop in the ocean, and they're usually that 1 or 2 students in the whole school year who ends up pregnant, depending on how big the school is.
I went to several high schools because I moved a few times when I was younger, and the pattern is always like this. A random girl and boy (from or outside of the school) want to act older than they really are and then she ends up pregnant. And hormones aren't an excuse, because everyone has free will and it's not as if every 15 year-old out there is sexually active, whether there's sex education or not. And I can see this video is attracting the people who did, because there are comments with such stories in this comment section.
Still, a few individuals' experience doesn't determine the actions of a 10k-14k group of people or less. That's not what a "standard" is.
it really depends on where you are, in Sweden the age of consent is 15.
@@oifelixcomeherebro1689 That's also the age of consent in Japan, for example, but that doesn't mean there are 15 year-olds having intercourse left and right. That wasn't decided by 15 year-olds who demanded that's what they wanted...it was probably some utter creeps who are obviously grown adults who magically decided a 15 year-old is old/mature enough to risk pregnancy and have intercourse responsibly...
And there are other countries in which the age of consent is minimum *14.* Just a bunch of adult creeps, I'm telling you.
In NZ the age of consent is 16. Most people are fine and explore it healthily because of our good sex education and openness.
@@Pumpkin0_0 agree, but in sweden having sex early on is normal, like the average age for losing your v card is like 16/17. The age of consent is lower because of culture but also because we want younger people to seek yk "help" if they need it. Like asking or using condoms, asking how sex work, get tested for STDs etc without having to fear getting punished for having sex.
Age of consent and the age of maturity are two different things.
Way too many kids are getting pregnant or an STDs in there early teens, they are not prepared for the long term mental, emotional or physical responsibility that comes with being sexually active.
Suji looks so pretty in this seriously.
Im an asian. And i am very conservative like the korean girl.
The more conservative the more decency
That's why Asian society is much better
I'm way more like Heejae on this subject and I'm western so 🤷🏼♀️ can't fully base it on where you're from.
Same for me. I’m from Europe.
@@mules8662 nice, I'm from the US.
@@mules8662 me too, friend
Same, I'm from Europe
You are exception, not the rule
Sometimes I love it to be grown at a conservative household
Love to see Suji again. Hopefully more content with her in the future.
Sexual education is very important and seeing heejae shocked at knowing at a young age how babies are born and that in Korea they don’t explain it well was really sad, kids should know how babies are born, to prevent from adults abusing of their innocence and to help them be aware, ofc not the details but they’ll learn it anyways cause they start to get curios about their bodies; especially they should know ways to prevent babies from being born because sometimes In the first ten years controlling your hormones is not very easy and sometimes it may happen, you just need to know how to prevent from it being a bigger problem, although I agree that s3x should be done with a patner and at a mature age, I totally respect people who don’t think it the way I do!
Nope, she seems like she was raised right and learned right, and is actual wife material unlike the other girl. If you just want throwaway fun, you go with the other girl, if you want someone responsible to raise a family with, you go with the Korean girl.
Kto od doktora Szarpanki?
Polish and slavic people in general aren't Western btw, us Western europeans call them Easterners and they themselves also do not see themselves as Westerners. Eastern and Western Europe/Eurasia are completely different.
I manage adult stores here in Australia, and I love watching the different cultures come through the store and react to having items right there in their face, some people just ask what the things are, others want to know but you can see they too shy/unsure to ask. But it is a job where you heard all about peoples sex lives, problems, questions etc
Very interesting Tammy. This sounds like you would have great material for videos and stories.
How much/ how often do customers ask your advice?
What are the topics you discuss?
Heejae’s English is so adorable 🥰
As a Pole i've never had a sex ed talk with my parents or really nothing of this sort....
She : I'm five
All stays : i'M FOivE
That’s what was on my mind 😂
At this point being conservative is the best choice
@@Sambodian19 means?
@@myhomemykook means what
I’m from the US and I didn’t lose my virginity till I was 18. I’m married to that same man and we had our first baby together last year ♥️
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Nice story
Btw your husband is white men or black?
@@Baphomet-bk7cx does it matter and wtf is this question?
@@Baphomet-bk7cx what….
@@Baphomet-bk7cx what bruh are you racist bc god doesn't want racist
As an Indian, I can verify that everything she says is valid for Asian and South-east Asian parents and households. Forget talking about sex, we're even asked to leave the room if a kiss scene pops up.
How are babies born ? (The most common question from kids)
Answer : oh, god planted a seed in me, that seed is you (or) oh, god sent you to me (or) oh, god made a flamingo drop you off in a basket in front of our house. 🤣🤦🏻♀️
Highschool is when we get to know stuff and it's so embarrassing to even look at your parents and relatives who have had babies in the same view. Everything you study flashes in front if your eyes because apparently you weren't aware and thought that babies are given by god overnight in a mother's stomach and get born later. Pregnancy, sex education, birth stuff is a taboo if spoken about in public. Asian parents will kill us if we open our mouths about it 🤦🏻♀️
Lol Being a fellow Indian I can totally justify 'The God putting the baby in Moma's stomach' lol.
🤣🤣
@@shaikhrabbana454 absolutely 🤣
@@f6cks 🤣🤣
But it's a good thing because of them by saving ourselves. We have get mental stability in our life with our partner by offering something special from both sides
Suji have really cute makeup and hairstyle in this video. I think it suits her very well. She looks great🌞
I always watch this channel, but this video makes me think they need a different color background. Especially when both Heejae and Suji somewhat blend into it cuz of how bright the lights are.
the blond Pole is definitely an outlier, most Europeans aren't that open about sex at that young of an age
Poland and most central and Eastern European countries tend to be very conservative in general including when it comes to conservatism in sex life
From what I see in Poland, I'm afraid not. Promiscuity is quite high.
Heejae and Suji are angels 😍
Yes,great duo!!!
It all depends of your family background and if they are religious or not.
I like Heejae, she's clean and decent 😅
I can relate to he Jae as an Asian(Pakistan).
I'm 19+ and I haven't even had a boyfriend in my entire life 🤝 Because I am Muslim and our religion does not allow us to have a boyfriend or girlfriend.
That’s why I’m confused because if you don’t date how are going to find a significant partner for yourself and learn and understand each other , and not just have an arranged marriage, like how does that work?
@@emmanuellaanyanwu3718 before marriage there is engagement during that period of time the couple gets to know each other if they understand each other and view each other as a solid couple then they get married ! if not they break off the engagement. I hope i got to answer your question
Really? Doesn’t allow having bf and gf ? 😮 one of my friend is Muslim but she has bf 😀!?
@@gargee840 well not everyone follows the exact rule at the end of the day it's a personal choice
@@mary5581 oh ok
I am with you Heejae!!
As a Turkish I can relate with Heejae
I love it so much ❤
I watched video twice first I watched video with caption and then the second time only heejae reactions.... how cute she is🥰😍😘
Societal consequences of teen pregnancy include: greater rates of miscarriage, stillbirth, and neonatal death; greater rates of mental health issues for teen mothers; greater poverty rates and greater reliance on public health systems; lower educational attainment of teen parents; even years later, children of teen parents have more negative outcomes such as greater incarceration rates. Whatever discourages teen pregnancy, be it education or a more conservative culture, etc. is thus worth pursuing. And didn't Heejae talk about this topic back in June?
"greater rates of miscarriage, stillbirth, and neonatal death"
It's nothing in comparison with having kid after 35. The risk factor after 15 is very little, once again just in comparison with 30s women, so it's a bit of a dramatization to focus on that. The real problem with teen pregnancy is everything else you mentioned, in those I agree.
@xenotypos No, what he's saying is that at or before 15 those risks are greater; it's not to diminish what you say about women over 30. That's precisely why the say the clock is ticking because the ripe age is between 18 - 30 to have the most kids.
Teen pregnancy rates have been declining since the 90's, which is around the time when efforts towards sex education were made. It is essential.
I would love to be in one of these videos! The cast seems so much fun
as a turk girl, that's really interesting to see how different the cultures are when i compare them to the turkey’s, here there's no education at all, and u cannot talk about it with ur family (except ur mom or sisters depending on their approaches and ages) and first sex usually starts in university time here which i haven't had (im 24yo(even though im not religious or conservative but all my friends have overall 20-25 ages).)
Actually it depends on where do u live in Turkey. In the Marmara and Aegean regions, people generally start to have sexual intercourse at the age of 14-16 in recent years, and this is quite normal for many young people.(not for me ofcx xd) There are different types of people in every country. As seen in the comments, many women living in Poland say that they do not actually live like the girl in the video.
@@Vyndrill actually your points are right, the things i've typed are according to my experience, should have indicated it more widespread
Yes it definitely is, it's a very long topic but I didn't want to write it in detail.@@Beyza-wt8me
I like Heejaes answers alot
I'm from Poland as well, although older than Suji (early 30s) and I can definitely identify more with Heejae. I knew of girls having sex early in my hometown but most girls were definitely not willing to do that at 15 or even 16.
I guess it depends more on the family life.
which is their good right
Polki pięknie nas reklamują. Mam nadzieje że jesteś dumna
That's good to hear. That Suji girl seems very similar to American girls, which is not a good thing at all.
It really depends on person, not on nationality. Hard to put all people in one bag, unless you want to go through the whole nation, which from logistical viewpoint might be quite difficult.
I'm so inlove with Suji, she's so fun and charming
I love korea for being conservatives. sex shouldn't be done at 14/15 y old
@@user-xv6sr2xx4j they do but it’s still good to have conservative sides
@@roses_are_rosee6676 most Koreans are conservatives
well you are definitely right but Koreans are not really conservatives because conservative people have a lot of kids, Koreans are the least fertile people in the world.
Lol Poor Heejae looked so conflicted through this whole thing!
Actual topic. Of course, everything is in Korea, and teenage sex and early pregnancies and one-night stands and frequent partner changes, sex toys, BDSM. But they don’t talk about it openly. Especially in the video on TH-cam. Korean society is not so open to such revelations. But Western promiscuity is also not the best example for a model. It is best to strive for the golden mean.
western society is doomed and that's the truth koreans are open but not as western society and i respect it
period
West also successfully spread AIDs
How did you know that about Korea?
It's extremely uncommon. That's mostly a western thing, fact.
Polish isn’t western. Western is referring to Western Europe and the Anglo world
Poland belongs to Western civilization
15 is too early. The girls are still developing emotionally and physically.
She sounds like jisoo!😮😮
I am from Europe, but my family is very religious and conservative. I wasn't allowed to date or go out except to school and with parents until I was in the university. I was shocked when my friends had early experiences. I am absolutely not against that and would never judge. I am just thinking it depends more on the person and their environment for certain things. Rather than if they live in different continents or countries.
Are u from east Europe ?
@@Imetwurld_ No, I'm from Portugal.
@@karurashiruva2017 potugal is in which side of Europe
@@Imetwurld_ Western Europe. It actually has the most western point of Europe.
Portugal is still quite Catholic from what I'm aware of so I'm not too surprised.
Welp, as a westerner, and Im almost 19, and still got my virginity card in stock, I do get alot of shit from people, saying I should of lost it by now, ''what am I doing with my life'' and stuff like that and they say they lost at at 16-17 and sometiems 15... And frankly, sometimes it does get to me and it makes me wonder if I am doing something wrong.. but at the same time I dont care.
You are doing nothing wrong dear, the right person will come except you don't want him/her
It's way better to do it with someone you fully trust and love than with anyone because you were peer pressured. I wish western society stops stigmatizing being conservative. Being one doesn't hurt anyone at all. It makes no sense to hate it.
Don't let them put you down from an African i can say you are better than them.
most teenagers lie about it dont be so hard on yourself.
Lose it as quickly as possible. You need to keep up or you'll regret it!
Good episode👍🏻
Yea I don’t think it makes sense to have the same westerner on here over and over to use as an example of what westerners are like? Do you actually think a lot of us are having sex before the age of 15?…
Cuz that’s not really the case and it’s different for anyone… I didn’t have a relationship til I was 19 and sex til I was 20… my sister was 28 when she lost her virginity… and none of that was for religious reasons… also I’ll be turning 38 this month and I’ve only ever had sex with the two people I was/am in a relationship with… and I’m not actually close-minded I just made my own choices for myself… as many of us do… so I think it would be nice if you had a wider range in types of people on your show when comparing cultures… otherwise you’re probably just helping to create stereotypes😕
You can look at the average age of having sex for the first time. It usually a lot lower in the western countries. You might want to look into Scandinavian countries. It around 15 lol.
Western countries have sex very early compared to conservative countries. STD rates are very high as well
i was born and raised in NYC and relate more to the asian culture.
I heard that in NYC people fukin on the street or subway openly is very normal ..
I don't know maybe it's a stereotype
@@vitadude5004 that’s literally illegal so no
@@peachyskeleton7484 A lot of things are illegal, yet they still happen frequently.
In my humble opinion, I think it doesn't depend that much on country or culture. Its rather that in bigger cities people are more open minded, most probably you have a lot more cultures living together. Than in smaller cities people are more conservative. I don't think one or the other is bad. Just don't take it to extreme. Don't do crazy stuff for your own good, while don't be too conservative, which isn't good aswell.
The big cities are obviously bad, just look up single-parent households (common in big cities), the amount of prisoners who fill up jails mostly come from single-parent households, and single-parent households mostly come from epople who are more open-minded about intercourse. Ultimately, it is a bad thing when it comes to societal cohesion.
I missed Suji!!!
Suji!!!! missed her
The B is back looking prettier than ever. Hmm...I felt Heejae may not have been comfortable with the candid personality Suji possesses, but I think she's a breath of fresh air. (She's a guy's girl, I believe.)
Also, I really hope no one is judging these amazing, grown women for their individual perspectives on sex.
If it's consensual and safe, let them be.
In college, almost all of my friends had a least a few one night stands. It's not unusual. For me, well...I spent a lot of time at church so my activities were strictly PG. lol
I hope Suji can become a permanent member of the team. Think about it. The first Koreans React channel to include a non-native Korean in its cast. Groundbreaking.
P.S: Can Suji return to goofing around with the guys? Comedy is her strength and I fear it's wasted in vids like this one.
Hugs to all:)
Becca
The American Christian, moral culture has been destroyed since the late 60's, and it happening by design, mostly in public schools. One of the two ways to destroy a country from within in to destroy the culture. The past 20+ years children are indoctrinated from 4th grade, and now it extends to kindergarten. Sex isn't supposed to be a recreational activity unless one is married, or plan to be.
@@JohnWarner-lu8rq As I stated, my choices are very different than hers. But, I don't think any of us should be in a position of judgment.
BTW, I just checked and my lighted bible verse of the day is Matthew 7:12.
"Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets."
I personally interpret that as showing compassion and understanding.
Have a great day:)
@@jpeopolis The Bible is all about judgement, and choosing right from wrong, is it not? And I'm glad that your choices are different.
I would also like to see Suji more and with more humorous episodes 😁 and she is i think first Polish person in Koreans shows, and she represents us so well
@@lillylilly3035 She's soooo funny. Just have to give that kid a chance to shine:)
I am Indian so it's same as Korea . Honestly I agree with heejae because it's the same here
i was 15y for my first experience and my GF 14, we were really attracted by eachother and she asked me, everything was fine and cool, its wasnt tabooo and we experimented things, we stayed together 4 years and now she is still one of my closest friends more than 10y after. at the end of school (18y) in my class , i remember few people still virgin and my GF also explained me that lot of girl don't talk about that , as they can be shamed sometimes.
heejae is sooo pretty
I finally found the love of my life and once you are in love (at least for me), true love, sex is just part of the amazing moments together. i am just as happy cuddling as i am with sex. even just holding hands is special. it's like finding your missing piece you didn't even know was missing. i think sex is overblown these days because people are avoiding real feelings.
Wonderful. That's the way it should be.
Finally someone who thinks like me
I feel the same
Agree. It's such a waste of time giving it away on a fling. It's better if it's with the right person at the right time
I think you are demisexuals, You need and strong conection to have sex, which for me was like the normal, the baseline... But Guess what MANY people like flings and thats why they have on stand nights, the simple don't need the love conection first...for me is imposible to Even Kiss someone i don't like but hey there are a Lot of people i'm the world
In primary school?
We didnt get the sex talk until we were 12-13 in the Netherlands...
in Poland, most schools start sex ed when we are 10/11 but it is not about sex at all from my experience the actual sex talk starts when we are 12/13 :)
What Heejae said is the same in my country Philippines 🇵🇭
Awesome world is getting wild 😆
To be honest, Suji's responses were kinda uncomfortable for me. (I'm from Europe too) Like I totally get it, that all people are different, but like there should be some limits, norms, otherwise how are we different from animals?! There is an age for everything, teen pregnancy should not be considered something normal, neither should be middle school sex.
Oh, I'll surprise you, we are biologically no different from animals. We are animals with imposed cultural norms. Everything is just a quantitative difference, not a qualitative one. No divine element, only instincts, on which a corset of culture and social rules was imposed. But so do ants, wolves, chimpanzees, and elephants. Cows and pigs too. Best to accept it
@@katarzynasaganowska2322 doesn't mean you have to act like one. There is nothing bad about having norms and culture.
@@riharddauze5947 it is very wrong to deny your nature. This creates powerful internal conflicts and leads to many disorders
what part of Europe are you from?
Sujis answers were perfectly fine and honest.
Sex Ed is an important conversation, the reason South Korea is very conservative on this issue is because it is over populated, consider the geographical size of the country as the same as Ohio in the USA and it has a population of 11 million. Therefore the conservative approach to sexual activity is probably a good idea for South Korea - where other countries can absorb the population growth. This is really great video, make more like this one XOXO
That is not the case at all. Usually most of the asian countries are super effing conservative because it is considered a 'taboo' topic in general overpopulation is def not the reason
Overpopulated? They are currently having a HUGE problem with not enough babies being born. In 2021, there were only 6.89 babies being born per 1000 people, placing them at number 2 of the lowest birth rates in the world. They may have a lot of people now, but they will lose A LOT very soon as the older generation dies off and is not replaced with enough people in the younger generation.
@@ajdevries9 - South Korea has a population of 51 million in a country the size of Ohio, which has a population of 11 million so in that sense of the word - overpopulation - would be correct - not that your definition is incorrect though
Umm noo
I just don't think teens should be pushed to have sex. Warnings, talking about the biological stuff yes. But the whole thing with different positions and stuff is just weird imo
I'm with you heejea 🙆♀️
The Korean girl has the same voice than Jisoo
I am from Poland and this girl is not representative. Polish girls are more conservative in general.
Polish guy here.
What is that..... creature.... sitting on the right side of my screen? This is a real polish girl? Where did you guys find such a.... creature?
50/50 happens. I think she belongs to the street
@@julekwisniewski3362 bro
she IS the street
informative
thanks
I come from Poland and I didn't even know that they consider us the west
Heejae's voice is like Jisoo 🤍
Especially when she said “ Oh Really? Wow! “
I'm 23 and Still Virgin
Some Ppl are Calling me Gay But I Don't Care🤣😅
Its normal. My father didn’t get into any types of relationships until he was 32 and got married with my mother 🤡
@@Tn-of1xz Ohh nice My Pland is to get Married When I reach 26 and I'm Introvert 🙏
got married to my mother*
@@Tn-of1xz I Got it Bro. And Wht about u Are u Married? Or u want to Follow ya Dad Step
@@justmagaji Ah I just correct my grammar mistake. Back to your question, I will follow my heart so Im not really sure :))
Heejae sounds like Jisoo 😍 And Heejae is so prettyyyyyyyy!!
The Korean girl is stunningly beautiful
I just remembered the time when, in philosophy class, we talked about how porn may change the perception of sex for teens. And our teacher asked us "Well how does porn usually go?" and nobody wanted to talk about. I didn't watch porn because I'm ace. Idk about the others. But our teacher got so frustrated that nobody said anything and started explaining detail. She then finished the class by saying "You all should watch some porn. How can you not know that stuff"
Terrible teacher. It leads to psychological dependencies that are very difficult to break.
In Australia, I had sex education as part of the school curriculum in final (7th) year of primary school (Grade 6). (Though it was purely about biology as I went to a Catholic Primary school). This included an after school presentation on the 'birds & bees', which we had to attend with our parents. Afterwards my Dad stated, he believed it had something to do with the arrows...lol...😜
India - what is sex education??😅
Hee Jae is a conservative woman who has principals. I love how she is respectful of herself. She would make any parent proud.
Hee Jae would get my vote, and attention.... not the blonde. Too much like a sloot.
A woman like that would never be attracted to you
@@m.joseph1858 You have it exactly backwards. And, you're projecting.
this is such a weird comment.
@@JohnWarner-lu8rq you wish you were a chad
I love em both! But Suji, call me... Lol
p0lish women are like this to their 30s, then they come back to Poland and act like nothing happened - this one actually doesn't have a shame, so she recorded a video about it
btw. word "modern" became synonym for word "degenerated" for such ppl
I admit to being surprised at Heejae's answers! I would have thought Heejae was experienced! But, what WOULD have been really interesting, is to see how Yumi would answer these same questions!
She’s a grown woman why would she not be
@@webuyhouse8917 I mean there's still alot of people not thinking sex all the time. They thinking about it but not getting too seriously. I don't judge people who is open about it but sex or even masturb*tion is a waste of time for me, so I guess we all people have different perspective in life.
Yeaa here in the states id always hear guys and girls bragging about who've they been with and it kinda wierds me out. No one needs to know how many who when and wheres youve done it with.
Korean parents talking to their kids about relationships:
During k-12: Study in school, nothing else, don't waste time.
During college: Where's your fiancee?
Yay polish girls are the best.
As for me I'm 19 and I still haven't lost my virginity so its different for everyone
As an Indian . My school teacher skips the reproduction chapter .We are told that babies are shifted to stomach from God's hand. Asked to leave the room even if a kiss scene pop up. Mobiles are not given before passing 10th standard...🤣
In the United States it definitely starts before highschool. Not for everyone, like for me it wasn't until I was 16 that I lost my v card, but in middle it definitely happened quite a bit. Before I went to highschool there was even 3 girls who got pregnant at my middle school. I respect cultures view but sexual education is super important, like that should start in middle school. The western girl mentioned 5th grade, which is the same for me, but that was more so a video about what you're going to experience when your hormones hit full on, not so much sexual education. When hormones are hiting like a truck for the first time (mainly middle school) I feel like that is when sexual education about things like tampons, condoms, STDs, hormones, and what not are important discussions to have because at that age you're so new to it but stuff like that is all around you.
As an asian I can feels the feelings of the korean girl this is the real things because of the conservative area
Poland 🇵🇱 be like:
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