How To Have a Great Relationship | Mimi Ikonn
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 มิ.ย. 2024
- In this video we share our top secrets and values that make up our relationship. Watch it and let us know what you think. Are you in a happy relationship? What would you like to improve?
Alex's channel - / alexikonn11
Book mentioned - "The Mastery of Love" by Don Miguel Ruiz bit.ly/1C9HYBO
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Mimi
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Didn't seem like the video was 40 minutes long even for a someone single. Great advice and insight. A lot of food for thought for people looking for their other half. Keep being awesome u two!
+claudiaisback Thank you dear Claudia
+claudiaisback haha i agree! first when i saw that it was 40 min long i was like uhh no thanks.. then i started watching it and i got hooked
very great advice. keep on being the beautiful couple that you two are
+claudiaisback I agree it went by so fast!
anyone else liked before watching? 😂💗
me
yes because you dont know why
LOVED this video. My husband and I are very happy together, married for 4 years, and we agree 100% with everything you said. We actually recognize ourselves in you guys and your relationship. My two favourite points were having a shared vision (it was important for us to have the same spirituality and doing volunteer work together) and making the effort (You have to work everyday on YOURSELF so that your relationship can grow). Thank you again for the video x
So true...
Awww :3 Same here! Being married for almost 10 months now and the spirituality of my husband + doing volunteer work together has been SUCH a huge part of our love story
+Gabriela Centurion Neumann oh right I forgot about that part. I agree with you though, to me a truly happy relationship has to have commitment and "rules" the two establish beforehand (like not cheating, not flirting with other people etc) :)
Jennylafrenchie Exactly. And when you do that, you are establishing conditions. The word "unconditional" shouldn't be associated with love. Of course you love the person despite their imperfections, just like they love you like that. But when those imperfections somehow affect the other, it's not logical to keep on loving just the same. And that is a condition :)
Bobik Bobik I am sorry, I don't understand :(
Anyone else here after the break up? I am devastated.
Same! :(
super sad, I was looking up to them 😢
40 minutes of Mimi & Alex?!!! HECK YEAAAAA!
You two radiate so much happiness and peace, a true admiration :)
Thank you Mimi and Alex for sharing all this insightful information in so much depth, I genuinely loved every bit of it. And please, if you are happy to make more 40 minute videos in the future, I'm so down to watch them hahaha! :P I am so glad that TH-cam has provided a platform like this for me to be exposed to amazing human beings like you guys. You two bring so much inspiration to me every time you post a video, I am so grateful for the information you put out! Ahhhh love you two so much! Keep being amazing. x
That first point is so true. My ex and I just broke up because our visions were not aligned.
+Eta L sorry
hope you are better now
same here :/ he had to move to another country
+lalitha pillarisetty Thank you. Only time can heal all wounds. And I'm sorry to hear about yours. I hope you feel better as well. :)
+Eta L if you dont mind me asking, what was your vision compared to his?
+Michael Sórm I'm very up for anything, I like changes. I want changes. I like to experience and do many things. He's very set in his ways. He doesn't like those things. He says he wants to do all these things but he never tries to. He's the type that if it's not broken, why fix it. Or whatever that saying is. And that's not really me. I hope that makes sense.
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Mimi and Alex: "We're not perfect."
Me: [sings 'Why you lyin', mmmmohmygod, why are you lying?']
Lmao😂😂
+Jolielive stop fucking lying xD
+Jolielive "why you always lyin, why you always lyin. MMMMMMMHHHHHHHHHHHHHOhhmygod. stop fucking lying" *
You guys described "unconditional love" in a very wrong way. You are saying that in a relationship you shouldn't put conditions on your partner such as: -they don't have to make promises to you, -they can do whatever they want, -they can flee anytime they want, -they can make their own chooses and not consider you. That is not what "unconditional love is". Unconditional love means loving someone through the thick and thin. If one spouse looses their hair, you love them. If they lose their job and are broke, you love them. You love this person (or choose to love they person), during the times when its hard to love them. You stick with them. People change all the time, and love (the feeling) sometimes goes away, but choosing to be together, working through things, and not giving up is what unconditional love means. (And I'm not saying you have to put up with abuse, or cheating). In my opinion, putting each other first before yourself is love.
Hi. You make good points, and I think if they could answer us they would agree to those points as well. I don't think they are saying not to love the person when things are bad at all, I just think they came to point from another direction.😊 They love each other so much that they are willing to give each other nessasary freedom at times, and will both be comfortable and confident in the relationship if the other had to go on a solo trip etc. But it seems as though they really do love each other and if either if them had to go through something very difficult, I don't doubt they would be there for each other 😊. That's just my opinion. Thanks for yours! 👍🏼😉
Yes👍👍👍
i don't feel like i wasted my time. i could watch another hour of this. i benefited a lot. thank you ❤ from Morocco 🙌
Думаю, что еще не раз пересмотрю это видео! Оно настолько граммотно и доходчиво поднесено, что у меня не возникло ни тени сомнения или непонимания. Хочется всем парам пожелать постигнуть такие же знания скорее рано, чем поздно, ведь от этого зависит то, как развиваются отношения и будет ли развитие у отношений.
Вы большие молодцы!!! Сейчас принято выбрасывать вещи, а не чинить их. Так же и в отношениях. Вы проделываете огромную работу и я определенно хочу у Вас учиться)
I love how they look at each other
It's love :)
You both light up every time when you look at each other.
THIS.WAS.EXCELLENT! Re-watching to take notes! Thank you!
Watched this when I was still in college, watching it now again and it's 2021. I can honestly say that until now, Mimi and Alex's relationship is still and is continuously doing great! 💛🥰
😢😢 no more
I usually don't watch videos like this or watch videos this long that's just someone talking, but I loved this! Thank you!
He looks like Roger from 101 Dalmatians.
OMG! ♥♥♥♥
When I saw how long the video was I didn't think I would be able to sit through all of it, but I cannot emphasize enough how much I loved this video. This wasn't a typical relationship video where the key to a successful relationship is "honesty, communication..." and so on. This was such a relevant, refreshing and passionate video. You can truly see the love you have for yourselves and each other. Amazing amazing advice!
Y'all are the perfect example of how relationships are supposed to be. In this world things can get misconstrued and y'all have been gifted with truth and it takes such courage to post this and I hope all of this take this into our lives. It's a challenge but it's freedom happiness and so worth it! Love y'all!!!❤️❤️❤️
A common vision is everything! I want someone who dreams like me. And works like me. Understands me. Obviously compromise is still involved because we wouldn't be the same person, but we'd be walking together in the same direction. I think that is my issue, is that I sometimes come off as unapproachable. It actually just takes me a while to fully open up and trust someone else with my thoughts. And though many people express interest in me, I rarely explore the possibility because I'm looking for someone very specific, a companion for my life in medicine and my hobby in music. Someone who sees what I see would be a worthy partner for life.
I didn't even realise that video was 40min long!!! Time flies when you watching Mimi and Alex :)
Mimi and Alex, great video, you two have a great foundation. One point I would love to add having been in a great one myself for 20 years. Relationships are always easy when everything is wonderful, the true test of a great relationship is how well you support and respect each other in the tough times. Love you guys🙋🏻💕
Thank you Alex and Mimi for sharing so many inspiration!! I'm in a happy relationship but I have to improve in talking, sharing fears and deep emotions. It's so hard for me to talk about my deepest self, but I know it's important for our future so I will make the effort! It worth :)
My boyfriend and I have been having some problems. When I saw this video, I felt so inspired to share this with him. Thankfully, he was open to watching it too. And he loved it! We're are going to start following this in our everyday lives and even come up with our own things. Mimi, please, make another one of these videos! I love watching your channel. Whenever I see in my notifications that you have a new video up, I get so excited. You've inspired me to be a better person. Love you!!
Mimi and Alex,
Wow. This video was really eye opening. Through out the video, I kept trying to visualize my partner and I doing these things with each other. I kept relating your examples to my own. I realized that I couldn't, because we don't have a common goal so he as an individual doesn't meet my needs. We won't ever start and finish a hard conversation because he doesn't care if I feel understood. I always imagined in conditional love to be working inside myself to not be bothered by him. And putting up with feeling small and belittled. I always imagined the success of our relationship being based on my ability to find tolerance. But its not. Alex makes me see that there are guys out there who want me to be independent and heard and wouldn't do things to make me feel insecure because me being successful and happy benefits them. Thanks guys. I appreciate the clarity and the honesty.
Never go sleep when you are fighting, always solve problems before you go to bed... That's our important rule 👍🏼
This is so refreshing! I'm only 17 years old, and my boyfriend and I are in a very solid relationship. Since we're still in high school, many people think we're still naive and immature. I identify with what you guys are saying which makes me so happy and gives me so much confidence and hope. YOU GUYS ARE GAME CHANGERS
Thank you, Mimi and Alex, for sharing your love and wisdom with us -- unconditionally. The impact of your loving intent is boundless, profound and uplifting.
I love you guys! Thank you for these priceless tips. Your videos are never too long, I could watch you for hours, litterally !
WE WANT MORE OF RELATIONSHIPS VIDEOs
+Nawel Abdennebi awww..thank you:)
oh my God! ! 40 min!!! YESSSSSSSSSS. CAN'T WAIT TO WATCH THIS!!!!!!
I come back to this video so often. Whenever I feel like I'm slipping, I just come back and I watch this and it realigns myself.
I am so impressed and happily surprised when I realize this video is 40-minute long. Thanks for always sharing genuine sense of your life and advice!
I agree with most of your points but not quite with the "independent" side of the relationship you guys seemed to have mentioned. Yes, the individuality of a person is very important and you should try to grow and be the best version of yourself while in a relationship. However, I feel like stating that you wouldn't have a right to tell the person to stay if they decide to go travel the world or that the two people in the relationship have to be independent is somewhat dismissing the relationship in my opinion. You should care about each other and that involves not simply thinking oh if this is good for me I'll do it no matter whether it affects the other person or not. To me it also seems like unconditional love means you wouldn't care about them more than you in a way, so not completely agreeing with the putting yourself first either. Yes, learn to love yourself in order to get what you truly deserve. But not in the way where you always put yourself first in the relationship.
Mimi, I have got a question for you - would you be totally fine with Alex's decision to travel the world (because of his inner calling) now when you are about to have your first child? My point is that with commitment comes certain level of responsibility towards the other person especially when a child is involved. So the part about travelling the world or when you are in a committed relationship to just leave the person because you suddenly felt some sort of inner calling to leave, I cannot really agree with it.
Lelde L I think the idea behind it is- that whoever you choose to be with wouldn’t leave you alone in that situation to be a single parent. And if they did, it at least wouldn’t be a surprise, because that’s the person/personality you fell in love with and choose to be with. Because in the video they talk about respecting others’ visions for their lives/future, and to not set yourself up for failure by thinking people will change with time or for you, but instead be aware and be realistic. Having the same vision is important they mention too. Of course in reality, I do recognize that it’s not that perfect and a hypothetical like this could turn out to be like a very surprising and dramatic situation. But just a thought haha based on what I got from the vid
I agree with Sarvani, look if you make a decision together to be parents, to raise kids, then that means it is something both people want. So Alex would not leave to go on holiday if Mimi got pregnant. Because the couple both really want to have kids. But if the man doesn't 100% want kids and the woman decides to get pregnant, then well the man may well leave, that is the point of this video, that a couple should have a shared vision of what they want today and for their future. I have tons of girlfriends in unhappy relationships because they have partners who want a different life, I also have other female friends who set goals for themselves and only date men who share their goals and visions. Being 40 now, I can say that the people who struggle in relationships in their 20s are still the same people in their 40s trying to find partners, while those who understand this simple rule have had a much easier time dating, and being married and or being in long-term relationships.
It is really that simple, but so many people struggle to understand that you have to find that person who wants a similar life to you, once you get that person the rest is much easier.
So I would say for single folks, make a list of what you want, then next time you meet a guy and start dating just be honest and ask them those important questions, if they tick 80% then that is something you can work with. But if it is less than 60% then move on to the next person because you will not be happy in that relationship ! Seriously I know guys who do this, and women.
It ain't that hard but you need to have the self discipline and love for yourself to walk away (even if the relationship is a happy one, minus the fact that Partner x doesn't want to live abroad, have kids, and so on and so forth)
My husband and I have been together for 13 years, married for 12 this New Year's Eve. We have a very similar approach and give similar advice when others ask us about our relationship. Alex and Mimi thank you for being you.
Mimi, I think you and Alex are both such beautiful, thoughtful, inspiring souls. I can't even describe how accurate everything you said in this video is, and how this kind of deep talk helps not only me and my relationship but so many others. I think you're one of the most rational and non-superficial youtubers out ther, and I have to thank you for all the effort you put in your work and for how it makes us reconsider everything and grow as human beings. Good vibes sent your way, may you be blessed forever
I LOVE the way Mimi looks at Alex!!... I notice it in every video :) P.S. I Love you guys!
Fanny Canvas me too it's like looking at him fills her heart with warmth
Who came hear after divorce announcement?😢
Really great video guys. I love that you went into details with this and didn't just scratch the surface. Relationships of any kind take a lot of work and effort but the payoff is worth it. I absolutely loved the empty fridge story...it really hit me. Much love from Canada! I hope you never stop doing such inspirational videos :D
The way you hug just calms me so much I can feel it physically! Great Thank You to all the greatness you spread to the world
Fantastic....live like this for 100 yrs..may god bless u...
This makes me happy.Other than mine and my husband's relationship (21 years happily married yaaay) you guys are my favourite couple! We have so many similarities , we just travel less...for now;) Cheers from Vancouver!!!
+Moni Ka Oh and I forgot to add guys, that ever since we've watched your interview on LR everytime we go for a walk we do it your style aka "gratefulness walk" now...and right now we are grateful for that little cottage in Hawaii :)
I absolutely loved this video! I really enjoy seeing them open up about the aspects of their lives that we don't see on camera often, especially their relationship! They both have such unique viewpoints on a lot of things, and while there are some points I didn't fully understand or agree with for my own personal relationships, I think it's so wonderful that they promote mutual respect, understanding, and positivity in a relationship. It's wonderful to see they are still truly happy together after nearly a decade. I would love more videos similar to this one! Beautiful video, guys! (Also, I ADORE your top, Mimi!)
I salute you guys. I love how natural, caring and loving you both are being so young.
You set great example in today's world.
i am sooo glad that finally someone says that common vision is the main thing! i am with my boyfriend for almost 9 years and we still struggle with many things but we are so harmonised ... thanks for new ideas!
Nice job guy's. .so lovely couple. .good luck 4 evryone. ..
you're both deserve each other
This video is timeless. Great topic and quality, especially for someone watching it over a year later!
Wow, I feel so inspired after watching this! You guys are amazing and it's great that you actually do all this to make your relationship even better! I wish everyone on this planet could see this and truly understand what it takes to have a healthy and beautiful relationship. Love you guys! x
Loved that video! As always: Very inspiring, motivating and informative - thank you for that! :)
+annalaurakummer Thank you Anna
I so love this video! Please do more of this kind... All the best guys! X
This is the best video I have seen. You two deserve all the best in the world, because you share all this with the rest of the world, you are the living proof that something beautiful like a GREAT relationship can exist! I can't believe that there are people who think about this topic just the way I do. Thank you for spreading so much positive energy and inspiring me and many many other people! Keep up the great work! Greetings from Germany!
please do a part 2 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this video helped me so much, mimi and alex you are truly an inspiration and when i see your videos i get the sense of peace !!! thank you
Just love the way you look at Alex when he is talking :D you're so cute guys!
Loved the video!
A Question for you is.. HOW do you meet the love of your life? I've been dealing with lots of guys lately, but none of them feels like the right one and it just leads to disappointment. Sometimes we don't get to share the same vision, other times there's something that just doesn't work. I could really use some advice! Thank you so much Mimi and Alex for the video, I really appreciate it! xx
I kid you not, this video saved my relationship. Thank you so much for all the helpful advice and tips for not only making a relationship work but also having a great relationship and love for yourself. Please keep making more of these types of videos!!!
Whenever I'm about to listen to Mimi's vids in the background, I end up sitting in front of my computer screen and watching closely :) you are both so beautiful and harmonious, wonderful energy. Thank you for your work!
you guys are such an inspiration to me! not only my "couple goal", but also my "life goal" :) I have a question for you: how do you deal with each other's families? do you get along well with them or have some issues? and if so, how do you come up to solve them? thaaank you and keep up the great work!
I saw this in my subscriptions and oh my goodness! A 40 minute video with both of you guys?! Christmas has come early! :) amazing advice!!! Thanks for being awesome!
Oh, I LOVE the idea of the secret date! Gotta try it!
+Marta In Cactus Land Thank you so much Marta
I swear i watched this five times and still learn something new 💕 thank you alex and mimi for the video :)
You guys, I absolutely LOVED this video and it got me to some serious thinking. I honestly was shocked I had never seen it so simple before - if you want a cat, well, get a cat. Ive spent so many wasted hours, days and months with people who I knew were not what I need and want, out of loneliness. This was a fresh view and I loved your honesty. You two are great together. THANK YOU!!!
I was listening to this like this was the bible. Amen
You guys literally melt my heart 😍💕
If you weren't yet, non you absolutely are the most inspiring couple ever seen. You know what? You give me hope: it's really strange, but everytime I watch you're videos I see the concrete realization of what I think is the "ideal relationship". I love and completely share the way you have reached a "dreamy" lovestory just being 100% honest and realistic! It's a kind of magic! I think all I need it's just a little luck meeting the right person... I should say the one who have my own vision! Thank you to be so inspiring and make us part of your world... huge hugs!
Even though I am not in a relationship right now, I totally agree with everything you guys said. Especially the point you guys made about sharing feelings and thoughts and talking until both people feel at peace. I love you guys so much. Thank you for this. 💕💫
This was really amazing and great advice!
Hi Mimi, after you talked about the book "mastery of love", I read some quotes and I decided to buy it. Then I thought, maybe you could make a video where you talk about all the books that were significant to you and that helped your inner growth. I love the way you are and for sure the books have helped you to be who you are today. I would like that...think about it =)))) A big big hug...love you
You guys are such kind and open minded people, it's refreshing listening to you talk, way to go!!!! Much looove
+Mimi Ikonn Most inspiring video ever! As I listened to you and Alex , it seemed as if my parents were talking to me! They gave me the same advice you guys are talking about in this video, they always told me that the most important thing in a relationship is mutual respect and sharing same perspectives and goals in life... And this year they'll be celebrating their 39th wedding anniversary! Thank you guys for sharing this!
Какое полезное и мотивирующее видео. Спасибо Мими и Алекс. ☺️💕
this is a great video guys! I will be waiting for a new edition - how to keep your relationship great after having a baby. :)))
Literally writing down tips for now! I read The Four Agreements and its such a good book. Of course I am going to buy Mastery of Love!! Thanks for sharing!! Always love watching you two together! xx
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I am pretty sure this video will be a 'hit' on this subject on TH-cam.
And all the couples who want to have a great relationship and don't have it, should for sure watch this video as you recommend in the end of the video.
Thanks for sharing with us.
I NEVER comment on videos, but thank you sooooo much for sharing this. These tips are amazing, and people should really learn from it. I know I will! i am so exited for bringing this into my relationship. My boyfriend and I live 9000 km apart, but our vision is the same. And I know it will work.
I'm totally single but i still benefitted from this video! will not be accepting any damn cold pizza lol
Watched this video after your recent marriage Q&A, and this is so helpful and inspiring. Thank you so much for these amazing advices. I will use them in my next relationship for sure. Sending lots of love xx
This is by far my favourite video you've made! You guys had a lot of useful tips and many insights I hadn't thought about before. I think we all have food for thought after seeing this. Thank you for shooting it and keep being amazing as you are! The type of life you guys have and share is a VISION!
Best message. I love you , you love me. We trust each other. Whatever makes you happy I will support you. I will let you be you and you will let me be me xo
Wow, this is my third time watching this episode. You guys are amazing.
This is one of the best videos I have ever seen on TH-cam. I really enjoyed it. I'm so glad I came across your channel.
Mimi, Alex thanks for sharing the book I am reading it right now, and it is amazing how my perception of life is changing, I really love it and I would recommend this book to everyone I know, thank you so much I really appreciate it. You guys are the best!
So many great points
Not even having a relationship, still loved to watch the video ❤️
Great video Mimi and Alex! I totally loved it from beginning to end! Right now I'm dealing with some problems about most of the "topics" you mention about relationship problems, so this video helped me A LOT. I cannot thank you both enough all your beautiful advices all these years, you've totally change my life-style and point of view and that's great because I was so unhealthy and had no idea of how to make myself a better human being.
I love you so much! I appreciate so much this type of videos
I haven't found that special someone yet but these tips really encouraged me to becoming the best version of myself! It's so true what you said about people having expectations but not thinking about if they harmonised with their 'prince charming'. I have the greatest respect for your relationship and really appreciate you sharing such genuine advice which I think will save a lot of us unnecessary heartbreak in the future! The tip with the talking and hugging actually also works with friends, just gave it a try with my flatmate and we're all zen once again :D Thanks guys, big virtual hug! :) xx
am the first one how do like and coment wwwaww love u mimi so much
Good stuff, I have viewed relationships like this since I understood what a relationship was. Problem for me has been finding a female that sees it this way. Also, I don't actively look for relationships because I'm quite content alone (that whole loving yourself and having a fantastic relationship with life itself) but when I choose to be in relationships I try to bring this philosophy to the table and I am constantly misunderstood.
I don't know if its the women I've dated, or if it's because their previous relationships have jaded them to only see relationships in one way ("it has to be this way, because that's all I've known"), whatever it may be. You guys are lucky, you've found what I've always wanted since jump.
no comment ♥ you guys are like guides for how i want to live my life. you are talking and i'm like selecting with who i wanna be...i think the best secret behind all this is the "honest conversation/dialogue" love u dears
Mimi, Alex I can't thank you guys enough for the book recommendation. It is truly life changing...
Share the three V's. Vission, Values and Vulnerability.
you guys are awesome humans
IMMEDIATELY the first tip caught me. This is legit Mimi! Keep being awesome and inspiring!
Thank you for making this video. I just stumbled upon this video at the right time of my life. Having both of you guy's input makes this so easy to watch and comprehensive to each points.
i love love your vision!! i want that too with someone :D
'Sneezes mean that's true' that was so russian :D my mommy also always say that. love it!
and polish as well!
This video exactly sums up my definition of a relationship I wanted to have even when I was not dating. I think I am too young but these points make so much sense. Thanks Mimi and Alex for making a video like this because my values were just scattered and now you have helped me put it into words. Amazing video 😚
I just found your channel through amelia's vlog and I'm so happy I did! I've been with my partner for 13 years and totally agree with everything you said! We also do very similar work and have the flexibility to be together for much of the day, have travelled the world etc. and most people can't believe how we don't kill each other but it is such a source of fulfilment for both of us. I've never sat down to enumerate all the things we live by but we definitely do everything you both mentioned!
I'm turning 19 this year and still haven't had a boyfriend. It never really bothered me (i always knew the right one would come one day) but ever since I entered college a month ago I've been feeling immensely insecure about it. Mainly because my eyelids don't look identical and I also squint due to a tumor I had on my lid as a baby (which luckily got removed) I think no boy would even look me in the eyes and think they're beautiful. I hate making eye contact with other people because of this and it's just.. Devastating.
I have worn glasses since the age of seven. My eyes are deviated and I cannot solve the problem. Not even with surgery. But you know what my husband says? That they are lovely. He looks at me in the eyes and say I am beautiful... even when at times I am feeling ugly. The man that is for you will not let those things stop him from seeing your heart, the person you are on the inside. And he will see how beautiful you are. Don't get discouraged, please. Use this time of single to get to know yourself better, learn who you are and when you feel that you are able to bring someone else to the equation, the right man will come along. It's what happened to me. Trust me, it is worth it :3
thanks a lot for your kind words, they really cheered me up. :) I'll think back of them whenever i should feel upset again !
Rebekah, everything will work out for you. Always tell yourself that. You're still young and have plenty to figure out, but it makes me sad to see that you're not confident! Use this time to develop that because being single will help you grow so much and then you'll find someone who fits so well with you. You're beautiful and have wonderful qualities that you just need to focus on. I used to hate how I looked and I definitely wasn't confident. But one day it clicked and I realized how smart I was and how many talents I have and I realized that I was so proud to be who I was. Please, look people in the eye and smile! Ask anyone around, one of the most attractive attributes a person could have is confidence. Don't be afraid to smile and say hi to people. If they don't smile back or say hi back, well then be glad you didn't make a friend like that! You'll make tons of friends and soon find that special someone. All the happiness in the world to you ❤️.
I'm nineteen and also in college and never really had a boyfriend. I totally understand how you feel because even though my eyes are fine I have insecurities that are just as strong in the back of my mind. But sometimes I think, which isn't the best thought but it makes me feel better haha "I've seen very physically unattractive people before who are in a relationship and seem to be so in love and their appearance doesn't matter. Every woman can find a man just as ugly as them, and they will both think the other is beautiful and love them completely." I hope that doesn't sound too bad but it helped me put things in perspective. I also doubt your eyes can be that bad as you look very pretty in your profile pic. If they don't won't you, then you don't want them.
thank you
Question: How to know if it's time to let go of a relationship and move on?
+petitsjoujoux I think you always know it in your heart. It's just about being honest with yourself.
+Mimi Ikonn Thank you Mimi for reminding me to search within
+petitsjoujoux Answer: The minute, you have this question on your mind.
Thank you for sharing your take on how to have a great relationship! I 100% agree with the points you made about self love, and your unconventional thoughts on not saying forever. Wishing you and Alex all the best!
My fiancé and I have been together for almost five years now and I agree with much of what you say in this video. I've always enjoyed watching you guys over the years. Cheers to many more years of happiness!