In the Czech Republic, where I come from, is a three-year paid maternity leave... It is not a huge amount of money, but worth for it! God Bless my country! Of course we have many other problems, but I am very glad for the opportunity to spend so much time with my small kids.
I remember when my parents would take a trip without me when I was a child, I loved it, it was exciting for me to spend time with other people, and still now I respect my parents for taking time for themselves and I think it set a great example for me.
You don't have to agree or disagree....because cheating is never black and white, regardless of whether the man or the woman cheats. It takes two people to have a relationship.
@@MimiIkonn it takes two people to have a realtionship . and one person to cheat !! if one drives the other one ' out' of the relationship , break up and do what you want . cheating is wrong !!
I agree with everyone here. Cheating is never ok. If you have a problem with your partner just talk about it or leave her/him and then sleep with whoever you want to
Why are people so harsh in the comments? Sure, they're not perfect, they're human beings! This is a VIDEO. We have no right to criticize their relationship. If you work together and spend as much time together as these two do, have a child together, be together like 10 years, then maybe you can talk. They've been through so much together. I am in a 10 year long relationship and we're also business partners so we work together, almost always together. I understand Mimi and Alex's dynamic. They are just so used to talking together, it's like a naturally choreographed "dance". Maybe they talk over each other sometimes but who cares? You know when you're excited to talk to your best friend and you just keep talking over each other but ultimately you're listening and you care about what they say? Anyway, I loved this video. Very real and authentic, not too filtered and lots of awesome advice. Thank you for keeping it real Mimi and Alex :)
I think it's because through the years they have become very preachy - and also, they have been caught being dishonest quite a bit. We get it, they want to sell an image but for those of us who have been following them for 10 years - it's disappointing.
I’m so happy you guys addressed your old videos and how much you’ve grown since then. I still remember seeing you guys say “oh yeah, our baby will adapt to our traveling and our lifestyle!” I remember thinking that was very naive! Hahah
You said you didn't have a mum here- but i remember Alex's mum stayed with you for six months after Alexa was born? how come you didn't talk about her?
I thought the same. I don't know if they think their followers are dumb/blind, but we have seen the help they have gotten. Especially those of us who live in South Ken and see them.
Alex looks so bored in this video, fidgeting, yawning. It is good that you acknowledge just how much help you've had. Wish you were more open about that throughout the years. Women feel so much pressure to copy perfection they see on social media failing to realize that things are not as they seem and people have a lot of help behind the scenes.
What happened you guys. 😭😭😭 I saw your post on Instagram and I feel so bummed by it. I pray maybe you both come back together at some point. Hugs to you three! ❤
I dont have a second child, but I dont think you have to analyze things that much/and you also have to think about what Alexa would feel, how she would change, what she would learn from having a brother or sister, how she will grow not having your permanent whole attention etc/so this is just theory.....having or not having a second/third child. You have young parents, you are two, you have financial stability....so....I really dont know/before people used to have more children and the living conditions were way worse than today/only thinking about changing reusable diapers....after watching your video, I dont even think anybody would decide to have a child anymore.
I think most couples need to realize that being a first time parent and the little children stage is just plain out rough, like a war zone rough. It’s a transitional season of life, parenthood and marriage. It’ll pass. If you both go into it with that mentality and both know no matter what you are in this together, you will survive and things will get better. Don’t give up, the other side of this season is amazing. Your love grows deeper and you appreciate each other so much more because of that bond and trust you develop during this season.
I feel like we sat down for a chat ❤️ I loved how real you guys were. children change your life and I'm happy I'm watching this way before I have a child. It's tough but rewarding and you gave great ideas about what needs to be discussed once the two become three. Or even more 🙈 oh and coconuts!!
Coconuts! We have 2 years old girl and we also went through all the stages :D amazing video, thank you so much for sharing! I read a beautiful article recently in New Yorker - When the father is doing things with and around kids, he is not "helping mom" he is BEING a father :) I'm so grateful to also have a man who loves being a father and spending time with our daughter. One suggestion: It might be really helpful to look into the "culture of a dialog" especially when you are so gracious to share your conversations with us. I used to interrupt my partner all the time, he also did not mind (just like Alex) but some friends told me it looks rude from the outside. It really helped our communication as well and he did not have to "try so hard" all the time to share his opinion. I learned patience and it helped me in other areas of my life also. I hope you don't mind me saying this, it really helped me and I know you're always looking for ways to improve. Lot's of LOVE ❤️
Having a child is "la prueba de fuego" for a relationship. True, the key is communication and please don't make assumptions. Also true, the first 3 months are the hardest, breastfeeding is intense, sleep deprivation is real!!! But everyday will be better, trust yourself and your partner.
He wasnt sweet or suportive '' helping '' you .... its his child too , i think its ' normal' !!. if he doesnt that would be not right !!! and COCONUT and i love the vibe of the video
@@ewagornisiewicz-kusiak6814 totally , or encourage men to compare themselves to fathers that do '' less '' like alex said on the video : atleats i do that , some guys .... !! for me its like saying '' I can be worst , so be gratful !! But atleast they have the same view about it , so its okay , its their mentality both and it works for them !!
Men have many many outside obligations so yes when a man helps from his heart and wanting to spend time with his baby that's a huge support. And I think we need to thank our men for everything they do. Gratitude shows respect. To everyone. Even strangers. So why wouldn't you thank your man? Being an ungrateful bitch will just turn him away so good luck let me know how it goes. Not everything has to be looked at through the equal rights lense
Having a second child was a game changer for us. Especially when the two are so close in age. It is hard at first when they are under 2. But then they really grow together, play together, and learn so much from each other. It's a very enriching and bonding experience. And it's also helpful for the parent in terms of giving attention. As the children have a companion in each other, they don't demand your attention as much.
My husband and I also had a 100% perfect relationship UNTILL kids. But I have to say , kids makes your life so more meaningful and joyful. You have to adapt for sure! Now we have a second baby of 7 months and a toddler of 3,5 year and its even MORE difficult. When the one is sleeping the other seeks attention. You don’t have any time for yourself anymore. But seeing my kids together is sooo rewarding
She’s always a know-it-all, shows a lot about a person. I view Mimi as an insecure person but trying to mask it by always taking the spotlight. Most intellectual people I know and seen are great listeners and more laid back coz they dont need the urge to sound smart all the time.
@@jadeaj7 I think she doesn't mind it in a bad way but going a step further she seems to be very CONTROLLING ( money, feelings, love, friendships) 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Coconuts! thanks for being so truthful, this was helpful....just after having my baby I had so much resentment for my husband and he was helping but not enough in my opinion and I always remember my mother saying...."stop expecting the level of effort between the two of u to be 50 50 when dealing with the baby, especially in the first year and u will be much happier, most men aren't built like that"...today I still don't know if I agree with her completely, but I do know that when I lowered my expectations of him it did improve my sanity some what lol
What is your maternity leave policy for your employees? And your paternity leave policy? How do you make it work? I’m curious because it’s sometimes hard for businesses to cover those costs even though people deserve maternity and paternity leave.
Coconuts! Made it to the end, I don't have kids, I'm not married and I don't intend to have kids. But from you two guys there's always something to learn. Also, I enjoy seeing how you're doing every once in a while! Alex looked devastated in this video. Not only because of the constant swallowing yawns, but also some nervous ticks with his face and shoulders and his necks seemed tense or something. I hope it was just a matter of one night of very bad sleep. Sending you two guys some love from NYC 😘
Good old relationship videos is what I enjoy most here like from the beginning of this channel. It is beautiful to see how you change and evolve as a couple. This is great advice. Coconuts to you))
Coconuts 🤗 thank you for sharing your relationship journey, I always feel like I am evolving when I listen to you guys. I am currently a live-in nanny in an Australian family, and I have re-watched a couple of your videos a week ago, the ones where you traveled with Alexa, as well as your tips on parenting, and I have adapted the way I speak to the children since then. The parents use the word "no" very often, which is their way of parenting and totally respectable as well, but for me, I can already see an improvement in my relationship with the kids now that I speak mindfully to them, and this is all thanks to your beautiful self and all your advices. You educate yourself with tons of books, you have lots of friendships that are giving you different perspectives, and you have gained so much life experience.. For a 24 year old like me it's such a pleasure to listen to your advices and put them in practice. I am so grateful for you being part of my self growth, even virtually. You are a gem 🙏❤️
I absolutely LOVE these types of videos! Thank You Mimi and Alex for sharing this wealth of knowledge with your subbies. Coming from a happily married almost 24 years, together for 27, and mother of four I truly second EVERYTHING you said here! 👏🏽👏🏽 I cannot agree more! The best chance couples have at being a great team in parenting is having already established an incredible dynamic before baby. You and your partner are just as important as the child bc this beautiful baby will grow up and leave and your partner will still be there. God Willing. So it’s best to really communicate and stay in the same page with each other. I was very blessed to be a stay at home mother and have had the pleasure of raising my kids, hands on from the start. I truly believe that a child comes into YOUR life not the other way around. So if you’re already living a happy positive loving life the baby will usually just add more of those emotions to you. Sleep is incredibly important and I always say nap when baby naps and YES a great sleep schedule is CRUCIAL! You and your partner need to have special one on one time together so sleep training is so important. I also believe that happy couples are those who continue to date and woo each other. Date nights out are awesome but if you cannot leave the baby or go out have a date night at home! Just do your best to BE the best version of yourselves and you really will be able to weather whatever storms come your way. I say a relationship is like a balloon. You BOTH must always be blowing air into it or it will deflate. Mimi and Alex I also agree that you must give 100% and when ppl say it’s 50/50 that frustrates me bc it’s almost an excuse to just not use much effort. I want to give my best to the ppl I love and I really appreciate it and acknowledge it when they give their best to me in return. It’s just so important. I say if you love to travel or to eat out or go shopping whatever it is that you love and helps keep you sane. KEEP DOING IT when baby comes! It only helps your child be so much more outgoing more social more knowledgeable and well rounded. Sometimes I see a baby acting out or screaming in restaurants and the parents say to each other “this is why we never go out!” I say to my husband that if you take them out MORE they will learn how to behave and to express themselves in a more appropriate manner bc it will be something they’re used to. Things like that are so simple yet many parents avoid it. Anyway I went on a tangent and all over the place but I could literally listen to you both and conversate with you all day! 🥰👌🏽 I hope you have a great Sunday and Alex it’s Father’s Day here in America so Happy Father’s Day to you! You’re both an inspiration to many young and even older couples! Hugs and love to your family~Miranda 💜
Sounds like you missed having your Mum with you, which couldn't be helped. But having someone to talk to, give advice, offer support, love the baby as you do, share some if the experience with you, help clean up. These are probably the things your Mum would have done for you. But you got there Mimi, and you have a gorgeous little girl, so it was all worth it. The gift of having a child, which I have never had, is an amazing experience, special and so rewarding. I can see just by watching your videos how lovely and special Alexa is, she's so funny, smart, caring and a beautiful. So it was worth a millions times going through the difficult and trying times.x 😊
This definitely hits different now, the divorce makes sense... the failed Love hair business, their new daughter, not being active on TH-cam anymore... Not posting many videos together anymore... :( I hope you will get back to each other someday
Coconuts, I gotta go to bed but I wanted to say hello. This video took me thee days to finish because I myself have a two year old(this week) so I can't spend my time in the phone this long. Parenting is the hardest most rewarding job I've ever had. It's truly amazing.
I immediately called my fiancee to tell him I´m gonna teach him how to cook when we are married, because I realized when the baby comes, I´m not gonna have time for that... Thanks a lot! ❤️
Alex is a very chill guy, and Mimi is more expressive, and they are both kind people. They understand each other and Alex let Mimi talk because she is telling everything there is to say, I don't know why are people misinterpreting him speaking less with weakness. He is just very chill and both of them have their own individual personalities. I have been following them since the beginning. And from what I see from their content on the media, is that they both know how to take care and fulfil their own selves each other.
Coconuts! 😂 Yes we made it to the end. My husband and I watched this entire video together today on Valentine's day. All I want to say is thank you! We could relate to a lot of what you discussed (we have an 8 month baby) and like you, we were in a long relationship/marriage before deciding to have kids. Your advice was so helpful and practical. Thank you again! 💕
The getaway thing is Amazing!! I did it for the first time when my oldest was 3 and youngest 1, and we had the best time! It was sooo hard leaving them, but I prepared mentally some weeks before and did it!!! I encourage you to do it!! ❤️
AWWWW YOU CUTIESSS 🥺 you both inspire me sooo so much, like in alllll aspects of life!! I’m constantly sending my boyfriend your podcast episodes too honestly hahaha ❤️
Great video, but with all due respect, Mimi you should let Alex speak and finish his point without interrupting him all the time! I’m sure you don’t notice and don’t do it on purpose but it’s respectful to listen fully to what the other person has to say before you make your point too. We as viewers would appreciate that, I hope you take it as the constructive criticism it means to be 🙏🏼
I was thinking the same thing. I felt uncomfortable or bad whenever someone keeps interrupting someone else because it happens to me all the time. Active listening is work, but it makes the other person feel respected.
You guys inspire so many of us. Thank you for a rare positive presence on social media. Love you guys. Miss these kinda videos. Hope you grow & fulfill all your dreams & enlighten us with such words of wisdom!!
Omg Mimi, I can't believe you have just done a new relationship video. I've just been re-watching some of your old ones this week. Love you two, and love your relationship! And love Alexa too.x 😊
Mimi,thank you for everything you are doing! Once you help me to overcome difficult anxiety during hard times!Really wish you and Alex happiness and love ❤️
Finally finished watching this video over my toddler’s afternoon naps over 3 days ;) Given the fact we haven’t had a date in 20 months, sleep deprived (but happily with my child all the time) I’ve learned a lot here! Thx guys
appreciate these types of videos so much ❤️ as someone who wants to have kids in the next 10 years ish it’s so nice to hear this type of honesty so that we can prepare 🙌🏼❤️
COCONUTS 🤣🤣🤣 but to be serious, this video spoke so much to me! I read a few books on the topic and omg the sleep training was a life saver for me too! My daughter is almost 1, and it seems to be that she’s an early riser too and I’m so happy to hear that an early bed time is normal! 18:30 for us too and I enjoy those evenings with my hubby so much and I hope they last for a few years! And the one advice that I’m gonna focus on is dates. It’s hard to go out with the pandemic, but we can try to even do something romantic at home. I was not doing that! Thank you guys so much for the honest video!
Coconuts! I loved this video. My and my bf we have 7 years of relationship and we still feel like we don.t want a kid yet. That we are not ready. So I appreciate and love what u guys saying. Hugs and wish u all the best
It's interesting because a friend of mine told me the same thing. How exactly does it get easier? I'm just wondering because now my husband and I have only one child and it was so hard for the first 2 years
It depends on a child you get 😉 it was true for me because my second is a much easier baby and sleeps so much better. For my cousins, on the other hand, it was much harder because the order was reverse for them and their second child is a handful.
It’s exactly the opposite for me, with child number 2 things became much harder, and if we had a bit of time for each other with baby number 1 , we were full hands with baby number 2 and left with no time what so ever to spend with each other, always exhausted!
I always thought in this relationship, one of them wanted children more than the other one (mimi). I'm going through this with my partner. I feel that i want children more than he does. I know we love each other and I hope when kids comes we will woek it out.
I adore you two (three!) and appreciate your perspectives, no matter the topic. Although I’m not a parent, you and Alex always drop gems that are so applicable to life in general... Thank you for sharing...I’ve been walking alongside you both since 2014! I hope to see more videos soon. Much love from San Francisco 😘
You guys are great parents! Thanks for sharing your advice and also your differences. I had my daughter about 6 months after you, so I’ve loved being just that little bit behind you and learning/sharing some of these experiences “with” you! Also, “coconuts” made me laugh so hard because that’s my daughter and husband’s shared “swear” word... when something goes wrong they’ll both say “coconuts!” ... perfect word for a parenting video 😉 The couple getaways have been life changing for us... so when you feel comfortable, we 100% recommend it. We’ve been doing biannual trips... one long weekend and one full week and Bella stays with grandparents. They love it and Bella loves it and it just changes my whole perspective on life. We are now expecting our second in January and are ramping up for a crazy 2021... we feel much more equipped this time but also more nervous since we know exactly how hard it is. Thankfully, like you said, we’ve been having the conversations early about how we’re going to set up our life and routines which is so important and we are going to hire help from day one. Currently we have a nanny, but we are planning on getting additional help for the first few months while we all adjust. Anyway, thanks again for sharing your hearts. Always love your videos! ❤️❤️❤️
Wel done you two, such great advice. I think so often people make assumptions about their partner and don't full discuss things. I think absolutely if you are thinking about marrying/ settling down with some one/ having a baby all these important discussions need to take place. I feel if people did that more there would be less relationship breakdowns. When looking for a partner look for someone you can talk to, some one who wants to hear your point of view. Basically someone who is emotionally mature.
Coconuts ❤️ you guys are amazing! Thank you for sharing your views on parenting and giving us access to your insights and private life. It's such a wonderful experience to witness how your YT channel changed and realize that both us the viewers and you the creators grow up together somehow. I send you lots of love ❤️
I loved this video!! I had my baby almost 7 months ago and I recognize so much of what you are saying. Having a child and wanting to be fully present is amazing but can be challenging! Thanks for sharing its refreshing to now I'm not the only one going through this xxxx
Oh how I love this collaboration!!! I have always loved you both and you are an amazing couple. As a mom of 3, I can agree with so much of what you are saying. I don't know how single parent homes do it. I have so much respect for them. This world needs more amazing Dad's like Alex!!! ❤❤❤
*America needs paid parental leave!* I've seen having a newborn and then having to go back to work in three weeks cause so much added stress and hurts the physical and mental health of the baby, mom and dad. And of course this is bad for everyone and society as a whole (severely sleep deprived workers, more sick and injured people, more infant mortality). We are WAY behind I recently discovered because the U.S. is the ONLY developed country to not have ANY paid maternity leave, and globally there's only 3 other countries that don't as well. We also have the highest maternal mortality rate of developed countries....so it's not really a family (or relationship) friendly country to be yet
I'm only 20, so I don't have a child but this worries me as an American. I can't imagine giving birth and having to go back to work immediately after! so cruel
Omg really? We have maternity leave for 1.5 to 2 years whatever you decide and it can be taken by mom or even a dad. Forst 1year you get 100% your salary then half a year tou get 60% of ypir salary and then from 1.5y to 2y you get just 40% of salary. And you can go back to work whenever you want. Sometimes dads decide to take maternity leave cause their salary is higher and both parents can sit home
You should move to Europe. America is too bad for people the cost of healthcare and all.. Whats in Europe for free in america they charge hindreds of thoisands lol
🥥 it was very useful and insightful video, not only for married couples with kids, but also for couples in the long term relationship. Thank you Alex and Mimi for great tips, and very well done for investing in your relationship and trying to go through hard times together ♥️
Coconuts😉 thank you so much for sharing! I think we need more real chats like this, because we only see the beautiful side on instagram and don’t know the hard work behind this great relationship. And thats why when you compare your everyday relationship with instagram highlights you feel like you are failing. Thank you guys! Would love more content like this.
Coconut !!! I can both feel for Mimi need to share the heavy responsibility of care and frustration of not being supported enough (as care in the beginning is HUGE). But at the same time Alex's need for self-care. Because the truth is Mimi also need self-care and can't have it at this time but she also want to be responsible and committed and involved. I know how this feels very frustrating and conflicting. People always underestimate how much spport is needed. Not just from the partner as it is overwhelming for them too but it should also come from family, nannies, etc.. I can totally relate to Mimi's resentment. That's why as she says it's important to set your expectations straight, it won't be equal, as a mom (if you breastfeed) you put a lot of work in and you need unconditional and strong support from anyone who can help. You cannot do it alone. People not going through the same journey (breastfeeding full time) do not understand how much of a sacrifice it is for both partners and the importance of support you need to go through. Also I agree on how much you can handle to have another one. There is nothing wrong with people having multiple in a row but not everyone care/give as much attention as you guys do for their children and that's why they can have multiple in a row.. Because it is physically impossible to give the full time care/attention you Mimi give, to multiple children at once. And this, no matter how easy the child is. Great video ! Thanks for sharing your experience Mimi !
Thank you for this positive video. It seems like everyone on YT just talks about the negative side of having baby. You gays are so positive every time I see you! Keep posting, I miss you! ❤
Coconuts xx - Thank you for creating this! It is very appreciated especially during a time where couples are beginning to talk about and trying to become parents.
🥥 🥥 🥥 !!! Thank you so much for creating this video! My husband and I have been together for ten years, but married for four years and we are beginning to try for a baby! I plan on watching this video again with my husband so we can discuss your key points. Thanks again! Stay well! ❤️
Thank you so much for this video and your honesty. No one talks about how hard it is especially when we want to bring our kids up a certain way ( conscious parenting) your advise is spot on . Xx
I am still wondering what is so special about being present with your child 😀. In Czechia mums stay at home with their children for 3 years (and they have no help).So its something everyone does in my community Btw many psychologis warn about sleeptraing . Term self-soothing its not natural.Its normal that babies wake up during the night.Its everyones choice but do a good research
🥥 thank you guys for that video! I’m not planning on having a child anytime soon but I’ve always loved the parenting style you seem to have on social media. Thank you for being so open. I feel that we are able to discover more of the real Mimi and Alex thanks to that video! Love from France 🇫🇷💙
i don't have kids or want kids anytime soon yet, but i already appreciate this video! super helpful and honest! will share with my partner as well! thank you!
I don't agree with anyone's comments here. OMG! This video is not all about Mimi at all. Alex is a great guy and loves his wife. Honestly, Mimi is the one that keeps looking at Alex when he speaks so I don't believe she's only concerned with what she has to say but instead really engaged with what he has to say. I think they are a great couple and giving excellent tips. Mimi, you are an incredible mom and your devotion to Alexa is worth it. You are creating a beautiful bond with someone that you will only have full time in your life for 18 years. I've been married 9 years and have two kids and I completely agree with them. It seems that people love to instigate when a couple isn't the way they think a couple should be. Coconuts
Such a great information, amazing as always. I lost the conection with you guys for few months, and now I am so impressed about your experience. I have twins now,2years old,and the relation with my husband goes wors.. we don't have Anyone at least for 1h break, always in that rutine,which doesn't let as enjoy couple life anymore. I really hope we'll have the power to get throw for more peaceful and enjoyable life. Congrats guys!!🤗😚
I remember that in a video where Mimi was pregnant ( maybe 4 mo or so) she was saying how the baby would have to learn to stay with the babysitter because she had to work. I guess you never really foresee how much you're really gonna love your kids. On the other hand, I think it would be good for Alexa to learn how to be apart from you guys gradually ofc, so she doesn't suffer from separation anxiety in the future. One thing is for sure, she's a beautiful happy kid and having her parents have a good relationship is really important for her happiness 🥥🥥🥥🥥
Coconut! Thanks for the video =) As per the getways, the best way is to start with something short and simple. I’m also a mom and I too am not a big fan of leaving my kids behind. What I’ve learned: 1. Go somewhere non "child friendly", otherwise you will be thinking “Ohhh Alexa would love this etc” 2.Go for a short period of time. From Friday to Sunday. When you are a full on parent having 2 nights for yourself its amazing, and time does not goes by fast, cause your not used to having so much time for yourself, so it will feel like it was a week, but in a good way! 3. If you can leave her at your home with family. So in her environment with someone she loves (like a grandmother) and that you fully trust taking care of her. Hope it helps, Mimi and Alex! Bye :)
I agree mom here ... my hubby and I started with going away fri-sun no more then 2 hrs away they stay with my mom but my kids have been basically raised with my parents since birth so they are very comfortable at their home .... that small time way is like the best recharge every !!!
Coconuts!!! I just loved the video. Im going through this parenting-relationship situation and it is really helpful. Thank you guys for sharing! Sending you lots of love ❤️
Love this, I wish I had it too! My husband and I fought so much when we never use to. We have also grown so much together since our daughter! Now our love is so strong and I'm grateful! Mimi, you mentioned basic needs have you researched Maslow's Hierarchy of needs? Sending lots of love xxx
I have three children, I found the transition from 1 to 2 hardest. The 3rd just slotted in. Three children means a lot of noise, and a lot of mess. It seems much worse than when we had 2!
Hi Mimi, since i have come across ur channel I m just hooked to it. I have watched each and every video till date..u bet! You little daughter is adorable just like her parents. I love to watch your videos be it QnA, travel, in general etc. You and alexa have such a beautiful smile. Its pure happiness to watch your videos when you shoot with your fmly. You both are so amazing n supportive towards each other. Great job! Love from India 😍
I knew this already. I'm surprised how many people don't know it and just reproduce. I kind of envy them. They just really want kids. I'm a total 'head' person if I think about kids. I barely think about the joy that kids will give only about the work and responsibilities. Remark about the part where she speaks about the child not seeing the arguments from parents. I seen all sorts of arguments from my parents and especially from my grandparents as a child, but it never bothered me, if anything it made me more realistic about relationships in the future. I would hate if my parents would keep their conflicts from me actually, I want to know what they are up to. So these children exist too. Some are not bothered and some are.
Thank you coconuts, I loved your video and the conversation. I also appreciate your podcasts. We went to California for a weekend and left out 5y.o. boy with his grand parents for the first time and it was crazy, fun and we did missed him. I slept more than 10 hours 🎉. Where would you like to go for a getaway (weekend) when you are ready????? Much love and thanks so much! Congratulations to you and Alexa. The world is better because of our children and mindful parenting . We all do what we can with what we have❤️
In the Czech Republic, where I come from, is a three-year paid maternity leave... It is not a huge amount of money, but worth for it! God Bless my country! Of course we have many other problems, but I am very glad for the opportunity to spend so much time with my small kids.
I remember when my parents would take a trip without me when I was a child, I loved it, it was exciting for me to spend time with other people, and still now I respect my parents for taking time for themselves and I think it set a great example for me.
Mimi I really disagree on the cheating point. Guys just so you know: if someone cheats on you, it's not your responsibility. It's their decision!
You don't have to agree or disagree....because cheating is never black and white, regardless of whether the man or the woman cheats. It takes two people to have a relationship.
Pretty Peach same here. I agree
Mimi Ikonn it’s very possible that one person gives everything and the other still cheats.
@@MimiIkonn it takes two people to have a realtionship . and one person to cheat !! if one drives the other one ' out' of the relationship , break up and do what you want . cheating is wrong !!
I agree with everyone here. Cheating is never ok. If you have a problem with your partner just talk about it or leave her/him and then sleep with whoever you want to
Why are people so harsh in the comments? Sure, they're not perfect, they're human beings! This is a VIDEO. We have no right to criticize their relationship. If you work together and spend as much time together as these two do, have a child together, be together like 10 years, then maybe you can talk. They've been through so much together. I am in a 10 year long relationship and we're also business partners so we work together, almost always together. I understand Mimi and Alex's dynamic. They are just so used to talking together, it's like a naturally choreographed "dance". Maybe they talk over each other sometimes but who cares? You know when you're excited to talk to your best friend and you just keep talking over each other but ultimately you're listening and you care about what they say? Anyway, I loved this video. Very real and authentic, not too filtered and lots of awesome advice. Thank you for keeping it real Mimi and Alex :)
I think it's because through the years they have become very preachy - and also, they have been caught being dishonest quite a bit. We get it, they want to sell an image but for those of us who have been following them for 10 years - it's disappointing.
I’m so happy you guys addressed your old videos and how much you’ve grown since then. I still remember seeing you guys say “oh yeah, our baby will adapt to our traveling and our lifestyle!” I remember thinking that was very naive! Hahah
I could tell sleep was a very big part of Alex’s life by the fact that he was yawning for half of the video😂😂 so funny! Love you❤️
He was holding half of the time not to yawn :)
Coconuts 🥥
🤣 I wondered if I was the only one who noticed
Not having a child, not even being in a relationship, but watching this video right away 😅
Thank you darling :)
lol, same here :D
BE QUIET SNEEKY SMELLS
You said you didn't have a mum here- but i remember Alex's mum stayed with you for six months after Alexa was born? how come you didn't talk about her?
I thought the same. I don't know if they think their followers are dumb/blind, but we have seen the help they have gotten. Especially those of us who live in South Ken and see them.
Lol Mimi and Alex are upper class London millionaires living in their bubble
Alex looks so bored in this video, fidgeting, yawning. It is good that you acknowledge just how much help you've had. Wish you were more open about that throughout the years. Women feel so much pressure to copy perfection they see on social media failing to realize that things are not as they seem and people have a lot of help behind the scenes.
The 2nd kid was so much easier for us. Knew what to expect, how to sleep train, and just more relaxed.
No one cares
SeekTruth You cared enough to reply, loser.
What happened you guys. 😭😭😭 I saw your post on Instagram and I feel so bummed by it. I pray maybe you both come back together at some point. Hugs to you three! ❤
I dont have a second child, but I dont think you have to analyze things that much/and you also have to think about what Alexa would feel, how she would change, what she would learn from having a brother or sister, how she will grow not having your permanent whole attention etc/so this is just theory.....having or not having a second/third child. You have young parents, you are two, you have financial stability....so....I really dont know/before people used to have more children and the living conditions were way worse than today/only thinking about changing reusable diapers....after watching your video, I dont even think anybody would decide to have a child anymore.
I think most couples need to realize that being a first time parent and the little children stage is just plain out rough, like a war zone rough. It’s a transitional season of life, parenthood and marriage. It’ll pass. If you both go into it with that mentality and both know no matter what you are in this together, you will survive and things will get better. Don’t give up, the other side of this season is amazing. Your love grows deeper and you appreciate each other so much more because of that bond and trust you develop during this season.
Thank you so so much for sharing all of this! Bookmarking this video to watch again with Louis when it is time for us 😊❤️
I feel like we sat down for a chat ❤️ I loved how real you guys were. children change your life and I'm happy I'm watching this way before I have a child. It's tough but rewarding and you gave great ideas about what needs to be discussed once the two become three. Or even more 🙈 oh and coconuts!!
awww....thank you for watching till the end
Coconuts! We have 2 years old girl and we also went through all the stages :D amazing video, thank you so much for sharing! I read a beautiful article recently in New Yorker - When the father is doing things with and around kids, he is not "helping mom" he is BEING a father :) I'm so grateful to also have a man who loves being a father and spending time with our daughter. One suggestion: It might be really helpful to look into the "culture of a dialog" especially when you are so gracious to share your conversations with us. I used to interrupt my partner all the time, he also did not mind (just like Alex) but some friends told me it looks rude from the outside. It really helped our communication as well and he did not have to "try so hard" all the time to share his opinion. I learned patience and it helped me in other areas of my life also. I hope you don't mind me saying this, it really helped me and I know you're always looking for ways to improve. Lot's of LOVE ❤️
Having a child is "la prueba de fuego" for a relationship. True, the key is communication and please don't make assumptions. Also true, the first 3 months are the hardest, breastfeeding is intense, sleep deprivation is real!!! But everyday will be better, trust yourself and your partner.
He wasnt sweet or suportive '' helping '' you .... its his child too , i think its ' normal' !!. if he doesnt that would be not right !!! and COCONUT and i love the vibe of the video
This! I think we should stop praising men for doing the absolute normal thing. No one is clapping for mums for holding babies in their arms, right?
@@ewagornisiewicz-kusiak6814 totally , or encourage men to compare themselves to fathers that do '' less '' like alex said on the video : atleats i do that , some guys .... !! for me its like saying '' I can be worst , so be gratful !! But atleast they have the same view about it , so its okay , its their mentality both and it works for them !!
@@laseiz I hope it is! Mimi said she was not having it at the time.
@@ewagornisiewicz-kusiak6814 yes I hope so !! but since they said now its 99% so i guess ...
Men have many many outside obligations so yes when a man helps from his heart and wanting to spend time with his baby that's a huge support. And I think we need to thank our men for everything they do. Gratitude shows respect. To everyone. Even strangers. So why wouldn't you thank your man? Being an ungrateful bitch will just turn him away so good luck let me know how it goes. Not everything has to be looked at through the equal rights lense
Having a second child was a game changer for us. Especially when the two are so close in age. It is hard at first when they are under 2. But then they really grow together, play together, and learn so much from each other. It's a very enriching and bonding experience. And it's also helpful for the parent in terms of giving attention. As the children have a companion in each other, they don't demand your attention as much.
My husband and I also had a 100% perfect relationship UNTILL kids. But I have to say , kids makes your life so more meaningful and joyful. You have to adapt for sure! Now we have a second baby of 7 months and a toddler of 3,5 year and its even MORE difficult. When the one is sleeping the other seeks attention. You don’t have any time for yourself anymore. But seeing my kids together is sooo rewarding
Agree with you 100%, same case here with 2 kids x
Well maternity leave depends on the country you live in, in Poland we have up to 12 months, in Romania you have even 24 months
Yes,in Czech Republic we have 3 years🙂 . And no kinderagrten or nursery until your child turn 3
Mimi you kept interrupting Alex and that was driving me crazy darling!
She has been doing it since they together 😃
@@truffle_and_sony Yeahhh.. But OK
She’s always a know-it-all, shows a lot about a person. I view Mimi as an insecure person but trying to mask it by always taking the spotlight. Most intellectual people I know and seen are great listeners and more laid back coz they dont need the urge to sound smart all the time.
@@tamytonse8337 ohhh really...
@@jadeaj7 I think she doesn't mind it in a bad way but going a step further she seems to be very CONTROLLING ( money, feelings, love, friendships) 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Coconuts! thanks for being so truthful, this was helpful....just after having my baby I had so much resentment for my husband and he was helping but not enough in my opinion and I always remember my mother saying...."stop expecting the level of effort between the two of u to be 50 50 when dealing with the baby, especially in the first year and u will be much happier, most men aren't built like that"...today I still don't know if I agree with her completely, but I do know that when I lowered my expectations of him it did improve my sanity some what lol
Take a shot for every time Alex yawns. Good luck team
I love all the points you’re making! Having a supportive and helping partner is so important
What is your maternity leave policy for your employees? And your paternity leave policy? How do you make it work? I’m curious because it’s sometimes hard for businesses to cover those costs even though people deserve maternity and paternity leave.
Interesting! Loved hearing these perspective of parents cause I'll never experience it. Don't want children, never will.
Coconuts! Made it to the end, I don't have kids, I'm not married and I don't intend to have kids. But from you two guys there's always something to learn. Also, I enjoy seeing how you're doing every once in a while! Alex looked devastated in this video. Not only because of the constant swallowing yawns, but also some nervous ticks with his face and shoulders and his necks seemed tense or something. I hope it was just a matter of one night of very bad sleep. Sending you two guys some love from NYC 😘
I can't steel believe they are not together anymore💔Hope they will be back together!
Good old relationship videos is what I enjoy most here like from the beginning of this channel. It is beautiful to see how you change and evolve as a couple. This is great advice. Coconuts to you))
Coconuts 🤗 thank you for sharing your relationship journey, I always feel like I am evolving when I listen to you guys. I am currently a live-in nanny in an Australian family, and I have re-watched a couple of your videos a week ago, the ones where you traveled with Alexa, as well as your tips on parenting, and I have adapted the way I speak to the children since then. The parents use the word "no" very often, which is their way of parenting and totally respectable as well, but for me, I can already see an improvement in my relationship with the kids now that I speak mindfully to them, and this is all thanks to your beautiful self and all your advices. You educate yourself with tons of books, you have lots of friendships that are giving you different perspectives, and you have gained so much life experience.. For a 24 year old like me it's such a pleasure to listen to your advices and put them in practice. I am so grateful for you being part of my self growth, even virtually. You are a gem 🙏❤️
I absolutely LOVE these types of videos! Thank You Mimi and Alex for sharing this wealth of knowledge with your subbies. Coming from a happily married almost 24 years, together for 27, and mother of four I truly second EVERYTHING you said here! 👏🏽👏🏽 I cannot agree more! The best chance couples have at being a great team in parenting is having already established an incredible dynamic before baby. You and your partner are just as important as the child bc this beautiful baby will grow up and leave and your partner will still be there. God Willing. So it’s best to really communicate and stay in the same page with each other. I was very blessed to be a stay at home mother and have had the pleasure of raising my kids, hands on from the start. I truly believe that a child comes into YOUR life not the other way around. So if you’re already living a happy positive loving life the baby will usually just add more of those emotions to you. Sleep is incredibly important and I always say nap when baby naps and YES a great sleep schedule is CRUCIAL! You and your partner need to have special one on one time together so sleep training is so important. I also believe that happy couples are those who continue to date and woo each other. Date nights out are awesome but if you cannot leave the baby or go out have a date night at home! Just do your best to BE the best version of yourselves and you really will be able to weather whatever storms come your way. I say a relationship is like a balloon. You BOTH must always be blowing air into it or it will deflate. Mimi and Alex I also agree that you must give 100% and when ppl say it’s 50/50 that frustrates me bc it’s almost an excuse to just not use much effort. I want to give my best to the ppl I love and I really appreciate it and acknowledge it when they give their best to me in return. It’s just so important. I say if you love to travel or to eat out or go shopping whatever it is that you love and helps keep you sane. KEEP DOING IT when baby comes! It only helps your child be so much more outgoing more social more knowledgeable and well rounded. Sometimes I see a baby acting out or screaming in restaurants and the parents say to each other “this is why we never go out!” I say to my husband that if you take them out MORE they will learn how to behave and to express themselves in a more appropriate manner bc it will be something they’re used to. Things like that are so simple yet many parents avoid it. Anyway I went on a tangent and all over the place but I could literally listen to you both and conversate with you all day! 🥰👌🏽 I hope you have a great Sunday and Alex it’s Father’s Day here in America so Happy Father’s Day to you! You’re both an inspiration to many young and even older couples! Hugs and love to your family~Miranda 💜
coconuts.. I dont have any kids but i still like to watch the honesty and understanding you guys bring to the table. God bless your beautiful family!
Sounds like you missed having your Mum with you, which couldn't be helped. But having someone to talk to, give advice, offer support, love the baby as you do, share some if the experience with you, help clean up. These are probably the things your Mum would have done for you. But you got there Mimi, and you have a gorgeous little girl, so it was all worth it. The gift of having a child, which I have never had, is an amazing experience, special and so rewarding. I can see just by watching your videos how lovely and special Alexa is, she's so funny, smart, caring and a beautiful. So it was worth a millions times going through the difficult and trying times.x 😊
This definitely hits different now, the divorce makes sense... the failed Love hair business, their new daughter, not being active on TH-cam anymore... Not posting many videos together anymore... :( I hope you will get back to each other someday
Coconuts, I gotta go to bed but I wanted to say hello. This video took me thee days to finish because I myself have a two year old(this week) so I can't spend my time in the phone this long. Parenting is the hardest most rewarding job I've ever had. It's truly amazing.
100 and 100 is 200.
Also 1 in 4 cannot be 46%.
Maybe she meant 1 in 2 couples that make 1 in 4 people
Now divorced..
There was a lot bottled up, and just Kept on romanticizing their relationship.. 😢😅 🥥
I immediately called my fiancee to tell him I´m gonna teach him how to cook when we are married, because I realized when the baby comes, I´m not gonna have time for that... Thanks a lot! ❤️
Why would you get with someone who can’t cook???
It’s only the first few months where you don’t have time to cook but you’ll be able to do it sooner than later
Alex is a very chill guy, and Mimi is more expressive, and they are both kind people. They understand each other and Alex let Mimi talk because she is telling everything there is to say, I don't know why are people misinterpreting him speaking less with weakness. He is just very chill and both of them have their own individual personalities. I have been following them since the beginning. And from what I see from their content on the media, is that they both know how to take care and fulfil their own selves each other.
Coconuts! 😂 Yes we made it to the end.
My husband and I watched this entire video together today on Valentine's day. All I want to say is thank you! We could relate to a lot of what you discussed (we have an 8 month baby) and like you, we were in a long relationship/marriage before deciding to have kids. Your advice was so helpful and practical. Thank you again! 💕
The getaway thing is Amazing!! I did it for the first time when my oldest was 3 and youngest 1, and we had the best time! It was sooo hard leaving them, but I prepared mentally some weeks before and did it!!! I encourage you to do it!! ❤️
So, I am going to make myself some hot cocoa, burn some candles and run a bath and watch the video. Byeeeeee 😉
AWWWW YOU CUTIESSS 🥺 you both inspire me sooo so much, like in alllll aspects of life!! I’m constantly sending my boyfriend your podcast episodes too honestly hahaha ❤️
Coconuts😅
One of the best videos with realistic advice and down to earth!thank you for being so good influence and parents
Great video, but with all due respect, Mimi you should let Alex speak and finish his point without interrupting him all the time! I’m sure you don’t notice and don’t do it on purpose but it’s respectful to listen fully to what the other person has to say before you make your point too. We as viewers would appreciate that, I hope you take it as the constructive criticism it means to be 🙏🏼
I was thinking the same thing. I felt uncomfortable or bad whenever someone keeps interrupting someone else because it happens to me all the time. Active listening is work, but it makes the other person feel respected.
You guys inspire so many of us. Thank you for a rare positive presence on social media. Love you guys. Miss these kinda videos. Hope you grow & fulfill all your dreams & enlighten us with such words of wisdom!!
Coconut! Ahhh such a giving treat. Theres water, cocononut meat, coconut bark for gardening, coconut bowls.
A real zero waste gift from mother nature
Omg Mimi, I can't believe you have just done a new relationship video. I've just been re-watching some of your old ones this week. Love you two, and love your relationship! And love Alexa too.x 😊
Thank you dear Beverley
Coconuts 🥰 I appreciate this video so much. My husband and I are going through everything your talking about now and I truly appreciate this advice.
Oh, I"m sure you are not the only one
@@MimiIkonn Thank you!!! 🥰❤🥰❤🥰
Mimi,thank you for everything you are doing!
Once you help me to overcome difficult anxiety during hard times!Really wish you and Alex happiness and love ❤️
Finally finished watching this video over my toddler’s afternoon naps over 3 days ;) Given the fact we haven’t had a date in 20 months, sleep deprived (but happily with my child all the time) I’ve learned a lot here! Thx guys
appreciate these types of videos so much ❤️ as someone who wants to have kids in the next 10 years ish it’s so nice to hear this type of honesty so that we can prepare 🙌🏼❤️
It was so nice seeing a cuople tandem.really love it.keep enjoying your company and thanks for sharing your relationship situation
COCONUTS 🤣🤣🤣 but to be serious, this video spoke so much to me! I read a few books on the topic and omg the sleep training was a life saver for me too! My daughter is almost 1, and it seems to be that she’s an early riser too and I’m so happy to hear that an early bed time is normal! 18:30 for us too and I enjoy those evenings with my hubby so much and I hope they last for a few years! And the one advice that I’m gonna focus on is dates. It’s hard to go out with the pandemic, but we can try to even do something romantic at home. I was not doing that! Thank you guys so much for the honest video!
Coconuts! I loved this video. My and my bf we have 7 years of relationship and we still feel like we don.t want a kid yet. That we are not ready. So I appreciate and love what u guys saying. Hugs and wish u all the best
I would say once you have your second kid, it actually gets (I feel ) a LOT easier!
It's interesting because a friend of mine told me the same thing. How exactly does it get easier? I'm just wondering because now my husband and I have only one child and it was so hard for the first 2 years
It depends on a child you get 😉 it was true for me because my second is a much easier baby and sleeps so much better. For my cousins, on the other hand, it was much harder because the order was reverse for them and their second child is a handful.
It’s exactly the opposite for me, with child number 2 things became much harder, and if we had a bit of time for each other with baby number 1 , we were full hands with baby number 2 and left with no time what so ever to spend with each other, always exhausted!
I always thought in this relationship, one of them wanted children more than the other one (mimi). I'm going through this with my partner. I feel that i want children more than he does. I know we love each other and I hope when kids comes we will woek it out.
Leave him. There guys out there who actually want to become a father.
I adore you two (three!) and appreciate your perspectives, no matter the topic. Although I’m not a parent, you and Alex always drop gems that are so applicable to life in general... Thank you for sharing...I’ve been walking alongside you both since 2014! I hope to see more videos soon. Much love from San Francisco 😘
You guys are great parents! Thanks for sharing your advice and also your differences. I had my daughter about 6 months after you, so I’ve loved being just that little bit behind you and learning/sharing some of these experiences “with” you!
Also, “coconuts” made me laugh so hard because that’s my daughter and husband’s shared “swear” word... when something goes wrong they’ll both say “coconuts!” ... perfect word for a parenting video 😉
The couple getaways have been life changing for us... so when you feel comfortable, we 100% recommend it. We’ve been doing biannual trips... one long weekend and one full week and Bella stays with grandparents. They love it and Bella loves it and it just changes my whole perspective on life.
We are now expecting our second in January and are ramping up for a crazy 2021...
we feel much more equipped this time but also more nervous since we know exactly how hard it is. Thankfully, like you said, we’ve been having the conversations early about how we’re going to set up our life and routines which is so important and we are going to hire help from day one. Currently we have a nanny, but we are planning on getting additional help for the first few months while we all adjust.
Anyway, thanks again for sharing your hearts. Always love your videos! ❤️❤️❤️
Wel done you two, such great advice. I think so often people make assumptions about their partner and don't full discuss things. I think absolutely if you are thinking about marrying/ settling down with some one/ having a baby all these important discussions need to take place. I feel if people did that more there would be less relationship breakdowns. When looking for a partner look for someone you can talk to, some one who wants to hear your point of view. Basically someone who is emotionally mature.
The lightbulb moment, when you put shutters in the kids bedroom and they wont wake up with the sun anymore.
Coconuts ❤️ you guys are amazing! Thank you for sharing your views on parenting and giving us access to your insights and private life. It's such a wonderful experience to witness how your YT channel changed and realize that both us the viewers and you the creators grow up together somehow. I send you lots of love ❤️
I loved this video!! I had my baby almost 7 months ago and I recognize so much of what you are saying. Having a child and wanting to be fully present is amazing but can be challenging! Thanks for sharing its refreshing to now I'm not the only one going through this xxxx
Coconuts. I have been following you for a couple of years and enjoy seeing you share your beautiful life together. Bravo!
Oh how I love this collaboration!!! I have always loved you both and you are an amazing couple. As a mom of 3, I can agree with so much of what you are saying. I don't know how single parent homes do it. I have so much respect for them. This world needs more amazing Dad's like Alex!!! ❤❤❤
*America needs paid parental leave!* I've seen having a newborn and then having to go back to work in three weeks cause so much added stress and hurts the physical and mental health of the baby, mom and dad. And of course this is bad for everyone and society as a whole (severely sleep deprived workers, more sick and injured people, more infant mortality).
We are WAY behind I recently discovered because the U.S. is the ONLY developed country to not have ANY paid maternity leave, and globally there's only 3 other countries that don't as well. We also have the highest maternal mortality rate of developed countries....so it's not really a family (or relationship) friendly country to be yet
I'm only 20, so I don't have a child but this worries me as an American. I can't imagine giving birth and having to go back to work immediately after! so cruel
Omg really? We have maternity leave for 1.5 to 2 years whatever you decide and it can be taken by mom or even a dad. Forst 1year you get 100% your salary then half a year tou get 60% of ypir salary and then from 1.5y to 2y you get just 40% of salary. And you can go back to work whenever you want. Sometimes dads decide to take maternity leave cause their salary is higher and both parents can sit home
You should move to Europe. America is too bad for people the cost of healthcare and all..
Whats in Europe for free in america they charge hindreds of thoisands lol
🥥 it was very useful and insightful video, not only for married couples with kids, but also for couples in the long term relationship. Thank you Alex and Mimi for great tips, and very well done for investing in your relationship and trying to go through hard times together ♥️
Coconuts😉 thank you so much for sharing! I think we need more real chats like this, because we only see the beautiful side on instagram and don’t know the hard work behind this great relationship. And thats why when you compare your everyday relationship with instagram highlights you feel like you are failing. Thank you guys! Would love more content like this.
Coconut !!!
I can both feel for Mimi need to share the heavy responsibility of care and frustration of not being supported enough (as care in the beginning is HUGE). But at the same time Alex's need for self-care. Because the truth is Mimi also need self-care and can't have it at this time but she also want to be responsible and committed and involved. I know how this feels very frustrating and conflicting. People always underestimate how much spport is needed. Not just from the partner as it is overwhelming for them too but it should also come from family, nannies, etc..
I can totally relate to Mimi's resentment. That's why as she says it's important to set your expectations straight, it won't be equal, as a mom (if you breastfeed) you put a lot of work in and you need unconditional and strong support from anyone who can help. You cannot do it alone.
People not going through the same journey (breastfeeding full time) do not understand how much of a sacrifice it is for both partners and the importance of support you need to go through.
Also I agree on how much you can handle to have another one.
There is nothing wrong with people having multiple in a row but not everyone care/give as much attention as you guys do for their children and that's why they can have multiple in a row.. Because it is physically impossible to give the full time care/attention you Mimi give, to multiple children at once. And this, no matter how easy the child is.
Great video ! Thanks for sharing your experience Mimi !
Thank you for this positive video. It seems like everyone on YT just talks about the negative side of having baby. You gays are so positive every time I see you! Keep posting, I miss you! ❤
Coconuts xx - Thank you for creating this! It is very appreciated especially during a time where couples are beginning to talk about and trying to become parents.
This hits different now
🥥 🥥 🥥 !!! Thank you so much for creating this video! My husband and I have been together for ten years, but married for four years and we are beginning to try for a baby! I plan on watching this video again with my husband so we can discuss your key points. Thanks again! Stay well! ❤️
Thank you so much for this video and your honesty. No one talks about how hard it is especially when we want to bring our kids up a certain way ( conscious parenting) your advise is spot on . Xx
Sitting there in your matching sweaters😆.... yeah I don’t think anyone can relate
You two are amazing! “Coconuts!” Thank you for sharing this challenging & vulnerable chapter of your life. This is a very helpful video.
I am still wondering what is so special about being present with your child 😀. In Czechia mums stay at home with their children for 3 years (and they have no help).So its something everyone does in my community
Btw many psychologis warn about sleeptraing . Term self-soothing its not natural.Its normal that babies wake up during the night.Its everyones choice but do a good research
Wow the feedback with eye contact and hand stroking is a great tip. This video is just what I needed guys. Thank u so much xxx
🥥 thank you guys for that video! I’m not planning on having a child anytime soon but I’ve always loved the parenting style you seem to have on social media. Thank you for being so open. I feel that we are able to discover more of the real Mimi and Alex thanks to that video! Love from France 🇫🇷💙
i don't have kids or want kids anytime soon yet, but i already appreciate this video! super helpful and honest! will share with my partner as well! thank you!
I don't agree with anyone's comments here. OMG! This video is not all about Mimi at all. Alex is a great guy and loves his wife. Honestly, Mimi is the one that keeps looking at Alex when he speaks so I don't believe she's only concerned with what she has to say but instead really engaged with what he has to say. I think they are a great couple and giving excellent tips. Mimi, you are an incredible mom and your devotion to Alexa is worth it. You are creating a beautiful bond with someone that you will only have full time in your life for 18 years. I've been married 9 years and have two kids and I completely agree with them. It seems that people love to instigate when a couple isn't the way they think a couple should be. Coconuts
Awwww....i missed your talking videos so muchh😘😘😍😍lovee youu mimi😘😘😘😘
Thank you Asha
@@MimiIkonn omg looking forward to it mimi😊😊😘😘
Such a great information, amazing as always. I lost the conection with you guys for few months, and now I am so impressed about your experience.
I have twins now,2years old,and the relation with my husband goes wors..
we don't have Anyone at least for 1h break, always in that rutine,which doesn't let as enjoy couple life anymore.
I really hope we'll have the power to get throw for more peaceful and enjoyable life.
Congrats guys!!🤗😚
I remember that in a video where Mimi was pregnant ( maybe 4 mo or so) she was saying how the baby would have to learn to stay with the babysitter because she had to work. I guess you never really foresee how much you're really gonna love your kids.
On the other hand, I think it would be good for Alexa to learn how to be apart from you guys gradually ofc, so she doesn't suffer from separation anxiety in the future. One thing is for sure, she's a beautiful happy kid and having her parents have a good relationship is really important for her happiness 🥥🥥🥥🥥
Coconut!
Thanks for the video =)
As per the getways, the best way is to start with something short and simple.
I’m also a mom and I too am not a big fan of leaving my kids behind. What I’ve learned:
1. Go somewhere non "child friendly", otherwise you will be thinking “Ohhh Alexa would love this etc”
2.Go for a short period of time. From Friday to Sunday. When you are a full on parent having 2 nights for yourself its amazing, and time does not goes by fast, cause your not used to having so much time for yourself, so it will feel like it was a week, but in a good way!
3. If you can leave her at your home with family. So in her environment with someone she loves (like a grandmother) and that you fully trust taking care of her.
Hope it helps, Mimi and Alex! Bye :)
I agree mom here ... my hubby and I started with going away fri-sun no more then 2 hrs away they stay with my mom but my kids have been basically raised with my parents since birth so they are very comfortable at their home .... that small time way is like the best recharge every !!!
Coconuts!!! I just loved the video. Im going through this parenting-relationship situation and it is really helpful. Thank you guys for sharing! Sending you lots of love ❤️
Coconuts! You guys are my absolute favorite 🥰 the topics you post about are always aligned with my life. We are connected 💕✨
Coconuts!! 😂
I really enjoyed everything you have shared with us. When I hear "couple goals" I think of you guys. Oh you are my favourite couple ❤️
Such an important video for all generations, especially the young one.Thank u for the intelligent change in people’s mindset!❤❤❤
Love this, I wish I had it too! My husband and I fought so much when we never use to. We have also grown so much together since our daughter! Now our love is so strong and I'm grateful! Mimi, you mentioned basic needs have you researched Maslow's Hierarchy of needs? Sending lots of love xxx
I think it's time for Alex to get a nice haircut :D
He looks fine
Coconuts !!! We’re about to start our family and this was very helpful. We both watched it. Thank you!
I love you two!!!! I met you twice in london if you guys remember. Keep being great role models for us xx love you
*Coconuts* I am not a parent yet. But you guys are influencing me on so many levels! 💕🙏
I have three children, I found the transition from 1 to 2 hardest. The 3rd just slotted in. Three children means a lot of noise, and a lot of mess. It seems much worse than when we had 2!
Hi Mimi, since i have come across ur channel I m just hooked to it. I have watched each and every video till date..u bet! You little daughter is adorable just like her parents. I love to watch your videos be it QnA, travel, in general etc. You and alexa have such a beautiful smile. Its pure happiness to watch your videos when you shoot with your fmly. You both are so amazing n supportive towards each other. Great job! Love from India 😍
I knew this already. I'm surprised how many people don't know it and just reproduce. I kind of envy them. They just really want kids. I'm a total 'head' person if I think about kids. I barely think about the joy that kids will give only about the work and responsibilities.
Remark about the part where she speaks about the child not seeing the arguments from parents. I seen all sorts of arguments from my parents and especially from my grandparents as a child, but it never bothered me, if anything it made me more realistic about relationships in the future. I would hate if my parents would keep their conflicts from me actually, I want to know what they are up to. So these children exist too. Some are not bothered and some are.
Thank you coconuts, I loved your video and the conversation. I also appreciate your podcasts. We went to California for a weekend and left out 5y.o. boy with his grand parents for the first time and it was crazy, fun and we did missed him. I slept more than 10 hours 🎉. Where would you like to go for a getaway (weekend) when you are ready????? Much love and thanks so much! Congratulations to you and Alexa. The world is better because of our children and mindful parenting . We all do what we can with what we have❤️