Go On The Ice Cream Date - Dating Questions Pt. 1
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.พ. 2025
- Part 1 of listener dating scenarios does not disappoint. We cover how everyone is over dating apps so how we can meet people in real life, how to approach men in the wild, how to tell if he's only looking to get some action, why it's ok that they're a bad texter, how to tell someone you have herpes, and we discuss if the wrong guys distract from the right guy.
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I went on an first date where we got lunch and then got ice cream after. He's now my husband😂
I would love ice cream as a first date!
I think these dates are the perfect first dates because there is no pressure! Evening dates are more intimate I think. At least for lunch, coffee or ice cream you don’t need to get super dressed up & it’s not expensive either 😊
I love this set up in your house! The windows, the vibe 😍
My husband and I went on our first date when we were teenagers! He bought me a McDonald’s ice cream on that first date which happened to be July 19.
Our son was born many years later on July 19. ❤
Meant to be ❤
Those floor to ceiling windows are AMAZING..ITS BEAUTIFUL !😍 ❤️🧡 Btw..love u!!!
Btw, I love ice cream. 😂 🍦
I freaking love this podcast please keep doing them! ❤❤
Loving each of these questions and topics.. side note however… sweatshirt deets please 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
There is simply every other woman that ever existed . And then there is Kristin . Xoxoxo
Totally agree💯on cuttting the relationship with the friends too who does not reach out or initiate talking.
Nope flirting leads to other things. You should not flirt if you are married
I agree!
100%!!! And it's disrespectful to your spouse/partner!!!
@hfm16 super disrespectful to your spouse. Would you like it if your spouse did that to you
I love that we’re on the same wavelength ! We could definitely be best friends
LOVE when you film at the casa!
We used to play a fun “breaking the ice” game at a bar when you want to meet guys if you’re out with a group of girlfriends. The bigger the group the better! Before going out tell your friends to each bring $20 in ones. Once you’re at your table look around and spot someone you’d like to meet. Then at your table everyone guesses what they think the guys name is. Everyone puts a dollar into the “pot” each announcing the name they think he is. Once everyone has put their dollar in, the person that round who “found” the guy goes over to him and asks him to come over totheir table and asks him if his name is….(read aloud each guessed name) and if it IS one of those names, he has to prove it by showing his drivers name or ID and the person who correctly guesses his name gets the “pot”. If everyone is wrong…everyone guesses again in “round 2”. Sometimes the game goes many rounds and the winner gets a huge pot. The guy brought to the table is always flattered and everyone has a great time! Usually the guy ends up buying drinks and bringing his friends over if he is also, with a group. Harmless fun way to meet people! Try it and let us know how it goes:)
Lmaooo Kristin telling people to go where guys go! Nooo, you can’t force meeting the person that’s right for you, maybe just a passing ship. I feel it happens once you get to know yourself and start living your life for you, getting to know what YOUR priorities are and following any curiosities you might have regarding hobbies :)
So random but im curious to see what her makeup routine is ❤
I love your pod and all the different topics you discuss! Not sure why there are so many haters in the comments!!!
I have not read one hateful comment. Maybe they got removed?
Can't wait for Part 2!!!
I think many guys have started doing coffee, ice cream or lunch dates because they are cheaper. If the date doesnt work out, then they didnt spend a lot so its no big deal. What this also says to me is many men now arent dating with intention.
la mejor recomendación de mi papa no solo para date pero para todo en la vida: salir, hablar y actuar! son 3 acciones que se deben hacer siempre todasss , porque no tiene sentido salir sin hablar ni actuar. es saliendo hablando y actuando como se consiguen las cosas
I think if you have herpes or something like that, you need to tell them during the talking stage. Even before an in person date. Why wait until someone is invested and then tell him that? No shame at all. Just thinking how I would feel.
I agree! It’s not fair to either person to withhold that type of information.
Typically, I don’t think that men disclose that at all. Unless they are super mature, which is hard to find. When I was in college, both of my roommates got herpes after the first person they slept with. It’s very common I think 1 in 3 have it and it’s always dirty dick that spreads it.
*To all of the sports teams out there remember that with Kristin, she's not yours it's just your turn. LOL.*
In a marriage ,I think flirting leads to other things…
I agree!
Yep, it does. This was the worst advice!! And it's disrespectful!!
Your setting in the background looks so inviting, and comfy! It would be Awesome to sit on those couches and have a conversation with you on all of this and life in general.
Love listening to your podcasts, UnCommon James Beauty, jewelry, etc.
When are the UnCommon sweats going to be available again? Been waiting since October. ❤ Ya!
F the hater below. Mothers can swear now, it’s 2025, there are worse things Ya’ll. Thanks Queen for always being REAL!!! Your kids are very lucky to have you as a mom. 🫶🏻
I went on a first date after weeks of talking. We went to dinner then gameworks. He is my hubby now. :)
Where did you meet him?
have a wonderful week and a wonderful month of febuary
Kristin you should try to get Matthew Hussey, Mat Shaffer or Matt Boggs on the show. Or maybe all of them. So odd that they're all Matt's. But they're all very insightful about dating and the male mind.
She didn’t yell into the microphone the first minute of show. Love it!
You've came a" Long Way In This Business " I'm extremely Proud of your Progress "....
Go out with Tom Brady, he is older, done with kids, working on being a business man. Or who is your dream guy. If single reach out to him.
Hell, no. Tom Brady is so in love with himself. He would be one of the last people I’d wanna date.
Way to leave us on a cliffhanger Kristen, what!?!
As Scorpion says in the video game, “Get Over Here!” - 😂
joking.❤
Thank you so much! You are so right!!
Im actually poor and broke and my confidence comes from assuming everone is faking it till they make it.👌🌞
Because they are 👍 Confidence is everything! Better to be broke and confident, than rich and insecure.
You can build with someone.
@@michellenoel2869What woman wants to build with a grown man unless she’s a Pick Me
Fake it till you make it is very underrated. Now…that doesn’t mean go buy some Louis Vuitton when you can’t afford it. And if you do buy something you can’t afford…make sure it’s gold (like a Cartier love bracelet). Do NOT waste money on designer stuff that isn’t gold !
I was happier when we were poor..just be good to someone ,love them,have their back…
Kristin, you kinda sound like Carrie Bradshaw from S&C!!! hehe :) Keep up your hard work!!
Ice cream dates are not ideal for gals who are lactose intolerant 😬 My now partner post-divorce took me on our first date to dinner then a Bulls game and he was cool with leaving the game early since I was not into the game. (Can't stand the squeaky shoes on the floor the whole game) But wanted to have the experience. Then went back to our area and ended the night at a local bar having a couple drinks. Was a very lovely evening. We are now going on 5+ yrs and have an 18-month-old daughter.
I love you Kristen and I hope you get to see this this being the first comment❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤I learn and get so much good advice to help me give advice to my grown kids!!!
One time I made bubble gum ice cream with bubblegum flavoring and chicklets. It was aight. 😂
the only way to have confidence, is to get better at it. the only way to get better at it, is by doing it. just talk to guys
I’ve always been very attractive and never had a problem dating or meeting guys. But now that I’m almost a year and a half broke up with a guy that I dated for 4 1/2 years who left me with a broken smile (he was physically abusive), i’m really shy about dating and putting myself out there. I get a lot of messages on that Facebook dating website or whatever it is with guys that seem really normal asking me out but now I’m scared of rejection when I meet them in person they will see that I have a missing tooth. Imagine Kristin and then imagine her with a missing tooth. It’s a very different look and people treat you like shit.
@@HH-gv8mx So sorry that happened to you! Is there any way to do a dental implant? I know it's an expense but it may make a difference. I also think most guys won't care about a minor 'issue.' Look at Winnie Harlow or Jordyn woods before she closed her gap (I think she did, anyway).
@@SumanSridhar1023 I don’t have enough bone density in that area to get a tooth implant so the dentist recommended a bridge which means they would have to shave down the surrounding teeth to little nubs Before placing the bridge with the dental implant. it’s still very expensive tens of thousands of dollars and if the Dental bridge fails or breaks or comes out I’m left with a whole arch of a smile. So I’ve kind of been putting it off. 😬
If a guy is going to ask me out to go goofy golfing, he better have a water bottle full of vodka
Guys think women want to be taken out to expensive restaurants all the time, and maybe some do but you don't have to spend a lot of money to have a romantic date, just to show that you were thinking about the other person. Thats just my opinion though. Some chicks want all that extravagant stuff. I like simple flowers, a cute note, sweet small gestures
When are Ryan reynolds and Kristin going to meet bc likeeee that would be so refreshing and likeeeee I can’t, that would be the wild wild Wild West like do you know what I mean, like, lmao I can’t
if a guy wants to take me on an ice cream date, I'll PASS! It's a red flag for me
Lolol…I can’t get an ice cream by myself..😅😅😅coffee better..
I agree with u, get coffee is better than ice cream😁
Girl!, I love you! BUT, if he is flirting, he is incapable of stopping. They can be respectful to your face and be "two faced." If he is flirting in your face...he will take it as far as he can. This is just based on my experience.
My good looking husband don’t care if i flirt with men at work lol. He is cold, uncaring, he also lacks empathy, he doesn’t give a damn 🤷♀️I think he see me as his toy but he never abused me, he do treat me with respect. He said ‘’flirting don’t mean nothing, only insecure people will make a fuzz about’’ i agree that flirting is not cheating, it’s more ego, confidence boost. Flirting will be cheating only when it’s sxual, sleeping, kissing with another person that would be cheating. So basically flirting don’t mean nothing 🤷♀️ it’s just confident boost.
Get to know someone for a couple of years..not a couple months..
I’m allergic to ice cream so thinking about it, I’ve probably lost out on a date or two years ago after a guy had hinted at ice cream 😬
It's Showtime!
i dont know who needs to hear this but your husband isnt going to expose himself before the first date
Amen!
What husband? She's not married 😅
@@jilllatacz-hueston1118 did you listen to the episode?
Where is your sweater from,❤
I'd rather have a lunch date than go for drinks. Feed me dammit! Or active, yes!
I feel the same way about apps. I met my bf at work.. and everyone says don’t sh-t where u eat but that’s how ppl in the 80s 90s met that way.
We worked in a big corp office so if it didn’t work I didn’t see him he was on a didn’t floor but it happen naturally from the office holiday party then through months talking in the kitchen ect and now 3 yeats later we live together
It’s also kinda nice dating at the office in some issues cause u know the same ppl and get what each others going through in ur work life and can relate on issues and ppl. I wouldn’t date someone in the same department as me
No one in Hollywood has the right to give any advice they can’t keep themselves in a relationship
Actually..scan the guys and see who makes contact with you..If you like ,just go and ask him ‘Are you staring at me’…then say my name is so and so…
There’s a country club in my town and I’ve met some really great men there. And yes, it’s loaded with men.
Ok but Zins......is like what the teens are doing, ..maybe early 20s. Just calling em 'zins'..is nickname 15, 16 yr olds are using.....if not, thn their immature. Personally, I don't think the bar, bar atmosphere is whr anyone shld waste time looking for a serious relationship-type partner. Idk...not 20s anymore. Yes, thr is the exception. But ...thats whn it 'just happens to happen', like you're at the bar for a totally different reason, and that shit happens. I totally agree w/being ok w/ a liitle bit of flirting, innocent flirting as you explained. Men as we know are chemically biologically just made up differently and throat a whole life of being with one person just to have that innocent flirt now and then is healthy for them, makes them feel good, alive and for their masculinity and a whole bunch of other crap. 25:31 I'm 49, my husband and I have been together for 31 yrs, married 19 yrs. In our younger yrs, yep we played games back-and-forth and would break up. Get back together, break up, get back together. Then broke up for a good 4 years. Which is what I think I personally needed which was in my 20s and I use that time to get to know myself go out party date date date. And as they say, if you're meant to be together, you guys will find each other again.Which happened, but we honestly, he remained distant friends throughout time apart. Anyhow, my point in all this is that I believe that places where there is that ability for intoxication.
And where people let their inhibitions down make bad choices. All not a good place to meet someone you're trying to build a life with, just a waste of your time, not meaning. A good time you may have but investing in someone that you may think is worth it. Come to find out they have a girlfriend down the line or some bs., which I mean, can happen in any way you meet a person again. Personal opinion bars are toxic. As for the ice cream date, I think that's a great idea because you want to start any date any meeting with a potential lifer, so to say, as a friendship, so don't worry too much about where you are for the date itself. But the conversation you have developing If you have chemistry, just taking a walk in talking, treating dam like you're becoming friends. Being friends with your partner, your spouse, your wife, your husband boyfriend, girlfriend, is the key tool to a lasting relationship within that friendship. You're gonna argue you're gonna have great times sad times all that b. S, but friendship is the most important thing to develop. Do not worry about having drinks. In fact, don't have drinks, keep alcohol out of it. Don't worry about having sex. You should not have sex. Honestly, you'll know if you're attracted to the person.But just for yourself, you should withhold sex and be friends and develop a great, strong friendship first. There are ways to keep a man, a good man that you're attracted to I want to eventually have a serious relationship and still not have sex with them yet. Buy in the way you treat them and how you let them know, believe me. Just by letting them know you would love nothing more. Then 12 become intimate with them, and that it may be all you think about, but right now you're trying two build something else, and it will be worth the wait. And if they are worth the wait, they will wait and respect you greatly and only strengthen that bond between the both of you. How long? 3 months. And if you can't wait three months, then that's messed up
And if he can't wait three months well then he doesn't deserve it, he doesn't deserve you. There will be what will be a lifetime of sex with this person. Challenge yourself to find that strength in growth. It's a part of us getting older and becoming wiser, and like I said, a great tool for lasting relationship. Anyhow ✌🏻😢
Does anybody do dating on Facebook? They have that free dating part of Facebook would’ve been so much easier if they had this 10 years ago when I couldn’t find anyone in my area.
i know someone who met their gf through FB dating!
I don't even like icecream. Weird but true. 😮
I have BILT... it's OK. You need a shit ton of points to use them for anything....
I just love you
I find you just stunning....inside and out.....
Don’t say y’all. You’re from Cali. I know you’re living in Tennessee but u ain’t country 🤠 Keep saying like and continue to cuss a lot.. it’s who you are which is what makes you great 👍🏻
Asking men for zyn is so freaking juvenile and childish for a 40 year old woman. Cringe!!!!!
Yes I could never 😆
Get a life ... All your contributions to TH-cam are negative and judgemental. How about work on yourself 😊
@@gabidickson986even your comment tho? You’re saying that to make yourself feel better. If someone is struggling and you see them writing negative comments think about how you could say things productively.
@Nklloa I don't know anything about this individual other than the choice of comments she chose to leave on others people's videos.... If she's struggling maybe she should be more empathetic . My comment is constructive and true.... Plus it's pretty great advice to be honest
@Nklloa ohhhh actually I can see all of your comments are negative and hating on Cavallari too. You guys must be in some group 🤪
Ice cream 🍨🍦 really, what are we, teenagers. Pick eitherv the 🥤 juice, soda or liquer Ill serve to share our taste with one another also it will force us to be creative in creating the drink beocouse both have to face finding the best mix😜
They get married and can’t keep their marriages going
The whole thing is a mess
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I just had a thought, and maybe it won't work bc of the Craig history or none history, but can we can Paige on?
Dating a young man of 24 yrs old and she’s in her late thirties
If all your interested in in money it won’t last
Well they do chest in Hollywood all the time
I’m a homebody,too..even on vacation ,Im uncomfortable ..I want to go home…
I really thought you grew up.
Jay moved on and engaged. Kristin dating guys in their 20s and giving dating advice. Whaat. Jay always seemed so family oriented and trying to get Kristin to be rather than wanting to be in the spotlight.
Kristin has basically gotten full time custody of her kids in recent months after having one week on and one week off, and Jay was arrested a couple months ago for a DUI and guns and trying to bribe someone off. Yeah he's a real family saint.
I just think people tend to be a lot harsher on women than men.
I have herpes and brain 🧠 cancer 🦀 and crabs
Why why why is every word out of your mouth the F balm stop
Your a Mother
This woman has no right to be giving dating advice atcall she can’t keep her own relationships going she’s giving advice really
That’s so mean..you were not in her shoes with 3 kids..move along
@ I disagree with you
Act like a Lady
Imagine women not faking and my confidence not coming from faking but believing the rich girl is faking 🤑💰 🤑
Imagine being the only weirdo in a comment section
What about sporting events? Hockey? 👀👀
Why why why is every word out of your mouth the F balm stop
Your a Mother