This video almost made me cry because a couple of days ago I was feeling awful and asking myself why is that there is always a man showing up to destroy whatever I built. And keep in mind I am not only talking about romantic relationships! It is at work, family, etc. They literally come around and step all over like a little boy destroying the beautiful sand castle the girl just built.
Your country had the shortest serving Prime Minister that caused financial chaos and poverty in a matter of days. At least the previous Prime Minister that had the record for the shortest term in office had an excuse - he died. Look at what Margaret Thatcher did, increased child poverty by a factor of 3. I'm not saying men do any better, they do not. But I'm not about to think women are without fault. Just look at what Lucy Letby did to vulnerable children in the UK. She took delight in seeing parents pain. Why would someone do this, a woman? This happened in the 1990s, Beverley Allot, she did it too, another woman.
Ive noticed this with the tyoe of yard chores men choose to do: destroying and controlling nature - trim/cut down trees, mow the yard, rip up vines or an old garden, loudly blow leaves on a monoculture lawn. Vs women planting and nurturing a garden or leaving more of a natural area, putting up bird feeders, etc.
All you need to do is look at the state of the environment and planet today to see that it's true. Every day I see vids of men pulling stuff out of the Earth to sell or mess up
I’m curious, is that year based on some historical evidence or just random? I’m trying to figure out the exact age of patriarchy. Is it when we became agrarian society 12k years ago or is it when religion started around 6k years ago?
I've been thinking about the same for a long time. Such a default setting for so many males, we can even see it in little children who don't fully know what they are doing yet. It's narly.
@@likemycommentifyouwantareply So true, many animals, especially with clever males like elephants and dolphins are exactly the same. Shmexual and vioIent instincts are there with added cunning to enact the crimes. They'd too get 🌽 addiction if they had it, 100%. Good cooperative ones, acting more like monogamous birds are the exception, not the rule.
Yeah? Who is going to do the hard jobs then? You won't, most women won't. How many women work at the waste treatment plant? I'll give you a hint, none..
I'm very interested in this concept of man as consumer and woman as consumable. I recently read The Sexual Politics of Meat by Carol J Adams and it really opened my eyes to these narratives that permeate every part of our society and economy
My ex threw out my stuff on the street when we had a fight and people took my expensive pair shoes and other stuff. We had a catastrophic mould accident in our rented apartment while we were abroad for months and most of his paintings got destroyed in one of the rooms. My stuff was in a different room and survived except for 2. Then he manipulated me to let him paint on my best painting so that I can feel the loss he had to experience even though I wasn’t responsible for it. Later he started to flake on work or any normal behavior. I had to work and pay the rent for long months and he tried to steal money from me because he smoked and slowly became an alcoholic and I didn’t give money for these things obviously. When he started to work again occasionally, he asked for money for traveling and lunch. He said if I don’t give 20 pounds he doesn’t even go to work so if I wanted to see any money from him I had to invest.. he often took the food and drinks I bought. I went to sleep and he woke up on the middle of the night and ate everything. I cooked a big pot of soup and he ate all of it overnight. I worked in a restaurant and brought food so I can eat as I didn’t have time to cook after my late night shifts. He regularly took half of that too. He never bought anything household related but he happily used the things I bought. He didn’t come to the store with me to help carrying groceries so I could buy only as much as I could carry home. If I sent him to the store then he forgot half the things or lied that they were out of stock..This was the last 2 years maybe out of the 7 then I escaped🙏🏻
Id like to say that's all facts, but I've know some really toxic men AND toxic women in my life . And they were chaos. Turned so much into chaos, games, sabotage, abuse, etc. There are definitely some women who fit the best case scenarios.
There was a test done where, styrofoam blocks was put in a room with the girls and boys separated, the boys shaped the styrofoam into guns the girls shape into babies baby bottles
Good grief. Be thankful for those men that defended against fascism. Women make the majority of spending decisions. Who buys the most clothes, women. Many are made in sweatshops. What about vaccines, who did the original work. Edward Jenner. What about antibiotics, Alexander Flemming. Men have also been responsible for significant technological advancement. I appreciate women didn't have the same access to education but many men didn't either. It's never been applicable to all the men or women. The level of virtue signalling is ridiculous.
Obviously a real man. They exist. They aren't condescending, they're supportive, they're kind, and they don't hate on people for no reason. If you're always listening to the videos that describe bad men instead of looking up what a healthy adult man should be, that's kind of your own problem. You have a computer and can educate yourself about what a healthy person should look like. Tons of information about how you should treat someone, and how they should treat you in a relationship.
Lisa ,did you ever make a video about your life story ? Who you are, what is your background, where do you get your research etc ,I didnt find anything like this on your channels
She does not have to supply you or the public her personal information and I hope she doesn't. People are asking for it to staIk or discredit her, or use it as ammunition against her later.
She is Ukrainian. Self describes as Slavic woman. She said it many times. She moved to the US at 3. She is married for 12 years. If you listen you will learn
As far as “ background and research” goes what’s more eye opening than real life lived experiences of women all over this f ing planet?? Real life speaks for itself.
Riddle me this: she’s happily married for 13 years. So she makes these videos to get back at her father, who abandoned her when she was young. Change my mind.
Riddle me this: He's never had a girlfriend. He hates his mother because she still washes the shit stains off his underwear. His only friends are through his headphones in the latest violent game that he plays in his basement. He hasn't left the house in weeks.
@@bensanderson7144 Oooorrr....she advocates for the rights of oppressed group of people and this pisses you off because you are on the privileged side.
Instead of having any humility and asking a question, like the average guy, you order all these women to “change my mind” like a toddler like the mental labor of resolving your cognitive dissonance is our problem. Grow up. The mind is a terrible thing to waste.
It’s a known fact that up to 40% of first trimester pregnancies end in miscarriage (otherwise known medically as *spontaneous shmabortion* )- shmabortion by choice is minuscule in percentage compared to this and the woman is at that time choosing to CREATE something else, such as a safe place financially for future offspring to land in, or looking after her mental and physical health to care for the offspring she already has- it’s ALL creation for women, one way or the other. Community, family (in whatever shape this emerges), ecosystem, home- I’ve NEVER been with a man that did any of that, not even for his own children.
Women are producers, men are consumers - Princella the Queenmaker
This video almost made me cry because a couple of days ago I was feeling awful and asking myself why is that there is always a man showing up to destroy whatever I built. And keep in mind I am not only talking about romantic relationships! It is at work, family, etc.
They literally come around and step all over like a little boy destroying the beautiful sand castle the girl just built.
Your country had the shortest serving Prime Minister that caused financial chaos and poverty in a matter of days. At least the previous Prime Minister that had the record for the shortest term in office had an excuse - he died.
Look at what Margaret Thatcher did, increased child poverty by a factor of 3.
I'm not saying men do any better, they do not. But I'm not about to think women are without fault. Just look at what Lucy Letby did to vulnerable children in the UK. She took delight in seeing parents pain. Why would someone do this, a woman? This happened in the 1990s, Beverley Allot, she did it too, another woman.
Ive noticed this with the tyoe of yard chores men choose to do: destroying and controlling nature - trim/cut down trees, mow the yard, rip up vines or an old garden, loudly blow leaves on a monoculture lawn. Vs women planting and nurturing a garden or leaving more of a natural area, putting up bird feeders, etc.
Interesting, I never paid attention to that before.
I Had To Gut Grass Around Home, And It Hurt My Feeling Every Time,I Felt Guilty..😓 I Knew It, How Wrong It Is.. I Hate Trees Gets Cuts..🌳🌿
I never thought about this 😮
This!!! Such a good one
To be fair, if you have a monoculture lawn, it has to be mowed by someone. That's not to detract from your excellent point.
Women are the real source of power, source of abundance, source of life energy ❤ WOMEN ARE THE PRIZE ❤❤❤❤
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All you need to do is look at the state of the environment and planet today to see that it's true. Every day I see vids of men pulling stuff out of the Earth to sell or mess up
This is so dumb..
@@krumplethemal8831how?
Thank you! I think about this often. The patriarchy is about conquering and destroying nature.
@@Emptytopfloor that's a guy ♂️ trolling.
Pillagers since 5924 BCE
I’m curious, is that year based on some historical evidence or just random? I’m trying to figure out the exact age of patriarchy. Is it when we became agrarian society 12k years ago or is it when religion started around 6k years ago?
That made me laugh. So true.
I've been thinking about the same for a long time. Such a default setting for so many males, we can even see it in little children who don't fully know what they are doing yet. It's narly.
It’s biological. Women don’t want to accept that including yv but it’s true. The Y chromosome is missing a lot of genes
@@likemycommentifyouwantareply So true, many animals, especially with clever males like elephants and dolphins are exactly the same. Shmexual and vioIent instincts are there with added cunning to enact the crimes. They'd too get 🌽 addiction if they had it, 100%.
Good cooperative ones, acting more like monogamous birds are the exception, not the rule.
they are obsessed with having women being their peace, yet they make anything but
Never be a mans peace
@@sunnyvasic they just steal our peace, that’s what they mean.
Give a man everything, and at that moment, everything isn't everything.
He'll just take advantage of you and treat you like a doormat
Oh. Damn.
This video is TOOOO good....
EVERYTHING you said in this video is completely true. 💯 I completely agree.
We need more women and less men.
Yeah? Who is going to do the hard jobs then? You won't, most women won't. How many women work at the waste treatment plant? I'll give you a hint, none..
@@Greenplanet949I agree, we need more women on frontlines in wars. We need more women on sites doing oil rig job. We need more women firefighters.
@@alexr6470there are increasingly more women in all of those jobs.
@@krumplethemal8831women already do this.
@@briskettacos no they don't..
I'm very interested in this concept of man as consumer and woman as consumable. I recently read The Sexual Politics of Meat by Carol J Adams and it really opened my eyes to these narratives that permeate every part of our society and economy
My ex threw out my stuff on the street when we had a fight and people took my expensive pair shoes and other stuff. We had a catastrophic mould accident in our rented apartment while we were abroad for months and most of his paintings got destroyed in one of the rooms. My stuff was in a different room and survived except for 2. Then he manipulated me to let him paint on my best painting so that I can feel the loss he had to experience even though I wasn’t responsible for it. Later he started to flake on work or any normal behavior. I had to work and pay the rent for long months and he tried to steal money from me because he smoked and slowly became an alcoholic and I didn’t give money for these things obviously. When he started to work again occasionally, he asked for money for traveling and lunch. He said if I don’t give 20 pounds he doesn’t even go to work so if I wanted to see any money from him I had to invest.. he often took the food and drinks I bought. I went to sleep and he woke up on the middle of the night and ate everything. I cooked a big pot of soup and he ate all of it overnight. I worked in a restaurant and brought food so I can eat as I didn’t have time to cook after my late night shifts. He regularly took half of that too. He never bought anything household related but he happily used the things I bought. He didn’t come to the store with me to help carrying groceries so I could buy only as much as I could carry home. If I sent him to the store then he forgot half the things or lied that they were out of stock..This was the last 2 years maybe out of the 7 then I escaped🙏🏻
Facts.
Id like to say that's all facts, but I've know some really toxic men AND toxic women in my life . And they were chaos. Turned so much into chaos, games, sabotage, abuse, etc.
There are definitely some women who fit the best case scenarios.
There was a test done where, styrofoam blocks was put in a room with the girls and boys separated, the boys shaped the styrofoam into guns the girls shape into babies baby bottles
Excellent. 😊
Please Lisa, police your comments 🙏. We need to keep this a safe space for us. There are so many xy trolls here. We would be so grateful.
We are trolls, but she is a monkey. You want a safe space..safe from what? Hearing words that you don't like to hear?
@@XX-mw5fh Aww, you sure showed them buddy! Do you want a gold star for being such a good boy?
@@XX-mw5fh This comment is pathetic
Good grief. Be thankful for those men that defended against fascism. Women make the majority of spending decisions. Who buys the most clothes, women. Many are made in sweatshops.
What about vaccines, who did the original work. Edward Jenner. What about antibiotics, Alexander Flemming. Men have also been responsible for significant technological advancement. I appreciate women didn't have the same access to education but many men didn't either. It's never been applicable to all the men or women.
The level of virtue signalling is ridiculous.
See Janet Jackson…..
Correct
Eh...I honestly believe it's more biological than socialized.
Definitely biological.
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I have to know, what kind of man are you with who is so perfect to tolerate? I’m sure you’ve been asked before. Is there a video you explain?
Obviously a real man. They exist. They aren't condescending, they're supportive, they're kind, and they don't hate on people for no reason. If you're always listening to the videos that describe bad men instead of looking up what a healthy adult man should be, that's kind of your own problem. You have a computer and can educate yourself about what a healthy person should look like. Tons of information about how you should treat someone, and how they should treat you in a relationship.
2:42: “even if it was biological, it would still be wrong.” 😑
Lisa ,did you ever make a video about your life story ? Who you are, what is your background, where do you get your research etc ,I didnt find anything like this on your channels
She does not have to supply you or the public her personal information and I hope she doesn't. People are asking for it to staIk or discredit her, or use it as ammunition against her later.
@ds37215 I'm not asking for address ,calm down
Tbh, even if cc's are discovered to be hypocritical I don't care as long I'm enlightened by their content.
She is Ukrainian. Self describes as Slavic woman. She said it many times. She moved to the US at 3. She is married for 12 years. If you listen you will learn
As far as “ background and research” goes what’s more eye opening than real life lived experiences of women all over this f ing planet?? Real life speaks for itself.
Riddle me this: she’s happily married for 13 years. So she makes these videos to get back at her father, who abandoned her when she was young. Change my mind.
Riddle me this: He's never had a girlfriend. He hates his mother because she still washes the shit stains off his underwear. His only friends are through his headphones in the latest violent game that he plays in his basement. He hasn't left the house in weeks.
@@bensanderson7144 Oooorrr....she advocates for the rights of oppressed group of people and this pisses you off because you are on the privileged side.
That’s not a riddle, it’s an immature, silly, way of viewing things.
You're always telling on yourselves with these comments. Always. We see right through you
And what we see is really embarrassing
Instead of having any humility and asking a question, like the average guy, you order all these women to “change my mind” like a toddler like the mental labor of resolving your cognitive dissonance is our problem.
Grow up. The mind is a terrible thing to waste.
You’re the best!! 🙌🏼
Hands down!! 💯💫
I love watching you make these ❤️🙏🏼
What happened to the other third of pregnancies? Those that were not "creative"? Some were miscarriages, the other were....choices.
It’s a known fact that up to 40% of first trimester pregnancies end in miscarriage (otherwise known medically as *spontaneous shmabortion* )- shmabortion by choice is minuscule in percentage compared to this and the woman is at that time choosing to CREATE something else, such as a safe place financially for future offspring to land in, or looking after her mental and physical health to care for the offspring she already has- it’s ALL creation for women, one way or the other. Community, family (in whatever shape this emerges), ecosystem, home- I’ve NEVER been with a man that did any of that, not even for his own children.
Choices to put themselves first. Nothing wrong with that. No one else will.
Stay mad about it.