Forest hermit to Professor, it's never too late to change. | Dr. Gregory P. Smith | TEDxByronBay
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- Completely disillusioned with a society that rejected him, Gregory P. Smith walked into a rainforest near Byron Bay and became a hermit for 10 years. He exited the forest, on the brink of death and still haunted by personal demons, to eventually gain a Ph.D., become a university lecturer in the Faculty of Business, Law, and Arts and become an ambassador for Australia’s ‘forgotten children’. This incredible story is a personal testament to ‘never giving up’. Dr. Gregory P. Smith is a survivor, an academic, and a social researcher. Homeless for much of his adult life living as a recluse in a forest near Byron Bay, he now has a Ph.D. in Sociology and teaches at Southern Cross University in Lismore, Australia. In 2018 he published his memoir ‘Out of the Forest’ with Penguin Random House and has been the subject of two Australian documentaries. His profoundly touching and uplifting memoir is at once a unique insight into how far off track a life can go and a powerful reminder that we can all find our way back. Gregory is heavily involved in advocating for the vulnerable and disadvantaged and continues to be the patron of a number of charity organisations while also consulting with several specialist services and agencies. Currently, Dr. Smith is engaged as a consultant and program evaluator in the Premiers Priority Project to reduce rough sleeping in NSW, Australia by 50% in 2025 and zero by 2030. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
There’s a school nearby that helps troubled children and its motto is “arrive with a past, leave with a future”
My turbulent past is what got me to start my non profit organization helping youths that are homeless, in foster care, aging out of foster care or from low income or at risk households. 2 The Next Chapter (Florida) ... we're hoping to help these youths create their best futures!
I really like that saying!.... It can be applied to so many areas in ones life!...... Thank you for sharing my friend!..... 👍🏻👍🏻
That is pretty cool
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I love this.
I'm 35 and I have already given up on life ( no wife, job sucks and zero social skills ) . This video is a great motivation to keep try and never give up .
The single ladies are there… we’re just tired of all the “bros” out there… AT LEAST I AM
Listen to Esther Hicks.
hey can u share your plan?
Hey you've got this! Its never too late.
@@forbbidenname18 no plans 😐
I had the privilege of going to university with Greg and he is an intelligent, warm, caring man with bucket loads of integrity and honesty. Thank you for being you. Sonya Button
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Such an amazing inspiration! God bless you
What an inspirational person! You're an awesome man and I hope you continue to flourish! The world needs you! Thanks so much for sharing your story! God bless and empower you! ♥️
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I hate labels - someone labelling him a sociopath just created even more inner turmoil. What he was was a victim of child abuse and handled it the way any of us would. What an amazing chap
Normally pain make us very bad human
so we can learn from that
Thats what the society does well because it doesn't like individual responsibility...
This man is inspiring! I'm 41 years old, working a dead end warehouse job for 20 years and this year I finally took some time off to study IT. Today after applying a lot, and never hearing anything back, I had my first interview. I think I totally bombed it and was about to settle for what i did the last 20 years. This made me feel I still have a chance if I just keep on keeping on. Thank you Gregory!
New starts are by definition difficult. what helps me is the awareness that today's decisions affects what happens tomorrow. good luck .
Break a leg
Big up your chest for brave moves.
Go on mate 👍🏽
Hey, you got that far...don't give up just yet. Do 100 that bomb and then do one more.
Guys, thank you for being so supportive! Have I got some news for you all, I got the job!!
@@WhateverNullPointer Congratulations!!
You inspire & impress👍🏽
Big up
London 🇬🇧
I'm more impressed that he survived 10 years in the rain forest, how many Ph.D.'s can put that on their resume.
really moved my heart. I'm 29 and got accepted to university yesterday. The way was an uphill battle, going through drug abuse and depression, healing from childhood trauma. This man gives me hope and clarity to keep fighting!
Keep pushing. Do not give up!! Just keep pushing. It is never over until it is over!!!!
Hey! I'm 27 and in my first semester of college. I have a similar story-- drug abuse, depression in my late teens, early 20s because of childhood trauma. We can do this!
good luck ! i hope you are doing it well!
How does one overcome feeling of regret of wasted youth and potential? It's eating me up from inside and it makes me hopeless about any positive future.
@bapbirb I also had to condition myself to be forward looking rather than backward looking.
I was fortunate enough to publish Gregory's memoir, OUT OF THE FOREST. It's an extraordinary book and it was such a privilege to work with him on it. It's great to see him finally getting the public recognition he deserves.
“I had no idea what I was doing, but at least I was doing something…”
@UC5Kx6MY4nH2aBXi5m-iLYfw Actually no, I posted this here by mistake, It was intended for a different video, oops.
@@davideeyo Epic troll with all them likes 🤣🤣🤣
Me too xxxxxx blpody bravo maye xxx
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@@davideeyo that happened to me recently.... quite embarrassing. .
This brave man with one good ear can help us all see a future worth pursuing. You've just opened my 43 year old eyes a little wider. Thank you!
Ear not eye
@@deannasimons8092 thank you for pointing out that mistake I made, I appreciate it.
It could be eyes also because maybe you now see HOPE after this Ted Talk.
There is no future for most of the people in society. Sadly but this is how survival game works. Hope is delusion!
Real talk
I couldnt help but cry watching this.. took me 6 years to dig myself out of a hole like this.. well, im still digging actually.. not too many things hit home like this.
Keep going.
Me too! 😎
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How awesome that you are still “digging” so many people have given up..If you are inspired by this then you have it in you to be like him xxx Go for it be an inspiration....xxx
Never give up the fight
Wow as a 6 year sober and clean man that really resonated with me. Also abused and I'm still working out my trauma. But now as I write this I realized how far I've come. Good luck to all that struggle to find their way to the "sacred heart space."
Back at you man. Hugs to you, be proud of your journey 💪❤️
Love this ! So inspiring !!!
Check out Dr. Joe Dispenza’s work! It’s changed my life as someone with a similar past. Blessing!
@@Bigdaddyinthesky I know of him and other wise man and woman. Thx 😊
If you can find a good therapist that is trained in EMDR therapy, it works wonders by physically changing the "wiring" in your brain. When a child experiences a trauma, the synapses in the brain do not develop properly aka wired improperly. EMDR digs up painful memories that explain the cause of why you are the way you are and changes your brain to be wired properly. It was a miracle for me. I hope I explained this properly. Do some research if this sounds like something you can benefit from. This form of therapy has gained popularity, so it is getting easier to find a professional with this specific training. If it doesn't seem to work, try a different therapist. I hope this helps. You're not alone.
This is everything that a TEDx Talk should be. Engrossing, inspiring, educational and most importantly human.
So he got his 1st job at 51 yrs ? Thanks to TED talks youngsters (I'm withought direction at 50 1/2 yrs !) can be inspired by real life no-quitters like Dr Smith. It also shows that there are accomodating, open-minded and considerate people out there who are courageous enough to give such outcasts a chance back in ! Either way; just find out what you are good at and reach out to people withought giving up............this guy rocks
It shows that we need to know ourselves deeply. Our triggers to anger, our history of trauma and abuse. No other way to get through to the other side
"A CHANCE".. THE OPERATIVE WORDS
A wonderfully inspiring talk that reveals that transformation of the Terran Earth Human is possible when prompted from a drive coming from within the person. As a Krishna Naturopath of an Anglo-Caribbean flavour conditioned by Quaker and Hindu literature and counselling, I believe that there is that of God in everyman and living thing. By making determined efforts. he reconditioned his personality in an exemplary way. Bless his spirit, and may he continue to evolve towards higher ground in consciousness.
There is often so much rubbish, so much arrogance in these presentations...this is a life lesson an important one and a powerful statement delivered in full humility. my life was worse, far worse. If you can imagine it was so terrible as not to even be able to speak about it publicly, despite the fact that I had no responsibility in it. My alcoholic mother committed suicide when I was aged 13 leaving myself and my 3 brothers (ll with different fathers) destitute. I have trodden a remarkably similar path as well, and have made a comeback. Achieving a BS at the age of 57, two master degrees at the age of 58 and finally my Ph.D at the age of 64 helped me to validate not only my my worth to myself and to others, but also my existence.
When you knew that path was dangerous, you set yourself up for disaster...
You're worthy without the degrees. Unique and loved just as you are. But a much deserved Congrats to you.
Good going, you have a great name to, live up to it
And what are did you achieve the PhD, just interested....and are you Australian?
Good for you, sir
BRAVO and many CONGRATULATIONS
Know this: 'your struggles will play the biggest role in your purpose'. Each & every one of us can relate to something he said.
Yes
Amazing. His story deserves a movie.
Makes you wonder how many other people were diagnosed incorrectly with the DSM. Hope more mental health professionals open up to exploring the effects of trauma.
I second the movie idea. Though I think everyone watching this filmed and edited their own movie in their mind. If you've ever been mystified by conversational hypnosis, this is a prime example: a story told so well you saw yourself in his shoes, and made all the change he did in your own mind. I did.
I second the movie idea. Though I think everyone watching this filmed and edited their own movie in their mind. If you've ever been mystified by conversational hypnosis, this is a prime example: a story told so well you saw yourself in his shoes, and made all the change he did in your own mind. I did. A good storyteller with a inspiring and believable narrative can change lives.
YES it absolutely does deserve a movie
@@rexjantze296 twice. and all of the times i agree.
yeah I agree! definitely worth a movie to explore all these actual real problems that still persist in the twenty first century for heaven's sake!!
This video really brings things into perspective. Being in my late 20s I’ve always had the thought “it’s probably too late for me to succeed”. I’m grateful to hear evidence to the contrary.
25 here and my gf is about to be 28. I sometimes feel the same, and I know she does. We really are so young man and we have so much ahead of us! Keep your head up and keep trying new things. 🤘🏼
Never too late 😉
You've got this my friend. You're still so young.
It is always too late specially for people who were already deficient in some way by birth. Nature doesn't care about individual humans.
What?
You’re still a puppy...enjoy it!!
It was such a privilege to work with this remarkable man on this talk and to get to know him as a truly remarkable human. His standing ovation here is a tribute to his resilience and sheer determination to become an important part of our society.
I envy your knowing him.
He’s important all right. He’s a beacon of light for any struggling addict drowning in a sea of self doubt.
Blessed are those who overcome
What a privilege it would be to sit down with him and have a talk
All for Almighty God glory ...🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
I greatly admire this man. To start over in his mid-40's without an education and with many challenging emotional issues and succeed to reach a PhD is, frankly, a miracle! And he performed it, with a little help from friends who believed in him. I wish the remainder of his life will be far happier than his past.
I'm not often touched, but this chap's calm presence as he tells his story, really has
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Yes, and he narrates the story without any trace of bitterness, but with occasional pun! Gives us all hope.
And let me tell you that calmness comes with age and God's presence in your life knowing he was always there
@@kimm59 still believing in god, are we? I thought it was 2021.
Dr. Smith, as a senior woman who still is finding her way your story is so encouraging.
Same! Just started a new job today and the whole time I am thinking, am I too old for this? My husband reassured me it was ok, and to not think about it and just enjoy my day
Lot of us can relate
70 is the new 40 ❤️
We believe in you - everything is working out just as it should for you.
We never stop finding our way... regardless of age.
This man is not only a survivor,he is a thriver.he overcame what we perceive as the absolute impossible and his beautiful intellect and soul shine brighter than any beacon to anyone striving to overcome any situation.
I salute this brave and wonderful man
The humanitarian hope is spontaneous end of negative like mildness
As a deaf person, would really appreciate closed captions for this talk. thankyou
Now this is one professor I'd listen to. Life experience means alot.
Experience in real life means EVERYTHING.
There's no such thing as a professor without life experience.
Agreed 100%
@@Pukwudgie_Surprise not all professors have had these kind of life struggles. I know professors from MIT that had pretty easy lives and never had to deal with what this professor has had to.
This may be the best ted talk i have ever watched.
Feels more like i witnessed it.
I'm crying. Definitely the best TedxTalk I've seen.
YES - that was amazing...
O Lawd. You TEDsters are a sappy lot if nothing else.
This clown is a fraud, an actor, perhaps a decent storyteller 🙄.
@@Andrew-yw6kt Hipster TH-camr is too cynical to accept reality.
How unique and special.
You have to watch the documentary on him Google his name it's the best thing I have seen.
This is the story of how important it is to belong. When we as humans belong we are capable of everything. God bless you sir - I wish you a beautiful life!
Wow this man does not look like his past. He talks with such calmness, ease and security. I’m soo grateful that god allowed me to come across this video
Conversely, given trends in education, it’s never too late to go from professor to forest hermit.
Would you be referring to the trend toward neo-Marxist liberalism or is that just plain old cynicism?
@@liammurphy2725 Do I have to choose ?
Highly recommend Dr Gregory P Smith’s book ‘Out of the Forest’, an amazing story written by an amazing man. One of the best books I’ve ever read.
Thank you for this information.
Thanks for sharing 😀
"Homeless till midway through my degree in 2005". After watching this I now realize that I have to admit that I have taken things for granted in my life and my current troubles are absolutely nothing compared to what Dr Smith has gone through. This video has really given me inspiration to get my act together and shown me that anything is possible, I just need to stop f.....g around ,focus and work on what I know can do then I will succeed. I know what I need to do and I will start the journey from this moment. I came to this video completely by accident and it's almost as if a higher power sent me here because I really needed this video but I am definitely not religious, im more spiritual. Sounds corny I know but this video has really given my the final push that I needed to make positive changes in my life that I was thinking about doing and im grateful for watching it. Anyone reading my comments please dont throw up in a plastic or paper bag :)
we all do what we need to do when we need to do it. how could it be otherwise? victory(whatever that means to you) is yours. reach out and take it.
@@miosis23 Thanks for the encouragement.
This was a beautiful and humble testimony. No boast. Just humility and determination to change the bad cards dealed to you.
And gratuitous humor to go with it. I don't think I could tell a story like that and say anything funny at all.
Outstanding. My deepest respect for this gentleman. Your story is one to be shared with all of humanity
Well said.
There's really hope for humanity 💕thank uDr. Greg
I have witnessed cold Turkey
I am totally in awe of this truth.
So much trauma
Yet so much hope
So much courage
So much humility
So much truth
May you be greatly appreciated and greatly blessed.
Hello, how are you?
You, sir, are an inspiration. It's never too late. I start an undergrad degree 4 yrs ago. I am now in my 2nd year of a PhD. I'm 53
I have the utmost sense of gratitute for being able to hear your struggles and the beautiful outcome it had.
9:37 just when I thought, there is no way that this could get ANY WORSE, he comes up with "I became psychotic". One single psychotic episode can sufise to destroy an entire life, but for him it was merely a sidenote. What a lad.
What monster throws a 2 year old against a wall? And the mother allows even more abuse for another 8 years? Bless this man forever. His strength and determination is heartening. Love to you Sir.
We had a foster son whose dad threw him up against a wall twice and he suffered badly from ADD. Always wondered if that was why and always alcohol involved. It's not called the devil's brew for nothing.
Traumatized people tend to traumatize other people. And sometimes, for some, healing starts percolating. Healed people tend to heal other people. Healers arise from monsters. Monsters arise from monsters. Isn't this a monstrous machinery? 🍀
@@cynthiajones1461 ADD is a neurological developmental disorder. It happens in utero. Although trauma could definitely exacerbate the symptoms.
If dad is happy to throw his kid across a room I'd imagine that he'll do worse to the kid's mother if she so much as gets in his way.
Trauma breeds more trauma … mama probabaly watched it In her childhood home and she was Probably terrified of him. May have been the best thing she could have done for him was to get him away from herself and the father.
He's the reason my friend chose SCU for uni :) A uni that can see that potential is a good uni. And then to hire him a social work lecturer who knows about life on the ground - great uni!
Not even one minute in, I've already cry a river. I had to pause the video for a while before play it again. This has to be one of the most profound TEDx Talks I've ever watch in my life. He shows to the world how he's a living proof of someone who overcame childhood trauma and also it's never too late to change yourself. Thank you very much Dr. Smith for this amazing talk.
This 20 minutes video taught me more about life than my high school!
I hope you find your purpose! 👍
Me too
It's not designed to teach you about life. It's designed to prepare you for college and uni.
@@davecullins1606 that's the problem! And then college prepares you for work and then work prepares you for retirement and then your life's over. Houses were the banks idea and college was the banks idea. And people wonder why anxiety and depression are the #1 health issue now worldwide.
@Will Swift schools are for indoctrinaction and to create the new slaves generation.
Amazing story. Struggle is guaranteed in this life but to overcome this level was herculean. Life has a special purpose for you my friend. Respect
I strongly agree with everything you just said.
No! R.E.S.P.E.C.T!!! 😄👍
I couldn’t agree with you more
The Hero's Journey personified. Thank you Gregory.
"It's never ever too late." I agree completely. 🙂
I'm 39 and found out only a couple of weeks ago I have C-PTSD which has always kept me from being able to function properly. I'm very much aware that hadn't it been for the welfare they put me on, this or someone quite similar could've been me. (Not that my life is anywhere near fulfilling.) Hearing this man's story and how he managed to overcome so much trauma and all its consequences, truly gives me hope for my own future and strengthens my belief that maybe some day sooner than I ever thought possible, I too will finally be able to contribute in a meaningful way and won't be so lonely and neglected anymore. This man clearly is a living legend! 💪🏻
Notice how he says “I had a rough trot in life, but I wasn’t the only one.” That there is testament to the true grit and character of this man, he refuses to be a victim; even though his internal world has been at the unmatched depths of despair, salute to Dr Gregory P Smith! I will never forget this man and he has influenced me to go after my goals.
I feel so privileged to have met and learned from Gregory while undertaking a bridging course at SCU Coffs Harbour in my 40s a few years ago. Such an inspiring story from a lovely man.
What a beautiful life's story. Inspiring and reassuring! Indeed it's true that.... It's NEVER TOO LATE!
I went back to college after a 20 year break -- as a single mom with a 17 year old and a 1 year old. Feeling rejected, misunderstood and yes, suffering from PTSD! I found myself starting life all over gain in a new state and enrolled in college as a Non-Traditional Student. I completed my Bachelor's degree at the age of 47! I went on to pursue a Master's degree and graduated at 49 yrs. I immediately started an online PhD program but had to stop due to various barriers---BUT, I feel a new wind after watching this event! Watch out for Dr. Lucille!!!!
One of the most inspirational Ted talks I have ever come across. It is neve too late to dream of a better life and work towards it. Thank you Dr Smith.
To think that I almost skipped this when I saw it was almost 20 minutes long... this story should be turned into a movie.
There is a doco, I think it's called out of the forest.. on TH-cam
@Jake Stockton Right .. if only the length of the video was the main measure ... for me though it was how much time I can spend watching youtube videos as opposed to doing other chores, in this instance I haven't regretted it
So hard to hear this man talk about his suffering when he was just a little boy. But then you wind it back, what suffering drove his father to be as he was ? Hurt people hurting people, and what of all the people he inflicted his pain on as he was struggling to grow up. Suffering propagates and spreads, much like cancer. What encourages me about us, human beings, as a species - is that we can take those hardships and dark experiences, and lift ourselves up, and then find ways to lift other people up (just as he's doing now). Kindness and truth propagate too. Goodness connects, and spreads.
What a encouraging word
God blessed him and choose to be an Ambassador for all that misfortunated kids who are forgotten and abandoned! 😥🙏
Sing it 🎶♥
Beautiful post my unknown friend. I completely agree. Blessings from
Auckland, NZ.
beautifullysaid. Dads are soooo important! Men can stop the chain of trauma by starting anew with their babies. their babies give them all the love they never had, they believe thier Dad is smart, powerful, handsome. Put the pain behind you and embrace the love
Absolute legend, even if he just came down and got healthy and spent his life as a cleaner or garbo he would have been as much of a legend. Truly a magnificent achievement.
Hi Greg!
Please kindly accept my highest respect for your sharing your experience. So profound... so heartbreaking... so inspiring!!! There are so many brilliant Ted talks and i love so many of them, but no one ever punched my soul as yours, i believe you make countless people's tears pour down...
As someone who deeply cares about the well being of every human on this planet and made healing my mission and my job, your experience silenced me completely before reaching the 8th minute, with full awareness that what you provided there is a hard-to-be more powerful story that billions wounded souls should hear. Biiiiiiiiiig hugs for you, May God bless you with love and peace in the life onwards~ You truly suffered enough.
Thank you for those words Eunoia
You’re a great man, Dr Smith.
Bless you sir, foy giving this speech to us and learn a great story. "No matter how far a person goes off track there's always a path back"
The whole point of this existence is redemption - from religion to philosophy, its the same - Plato to Aristotle; how the lost and forgotten may be found and delivered unto exultation. Here's to triumph, our dear friend and courage to those still journeying through the rubble!
This is an astounding story.
"It's never too late to be what you might have been." - George Eliot.
Favourite quote!
Only this moment in the never never
Go Gorge Eliot
The psychologist Adler says the same! I'm still plugging away! Enjoy
“When we treat man as he is we make him worse than he is. When we treat him as if he already was what he potentially could be. We make him what he should be.” Goethe
"I never felt safer in all my life...."
We're all seeking that, no matter the myriad manifestations of human behavior and actions
I do love the opportunity that TED Talks provide for people to share their life experiences
When I travelled to
Australia for 7 months I was shocked out how many mentally ill persons were rejected by society on the streets. It showed the truth of Australia, much like LA and San Fran as a place full of wealthy people who walk without compassion among those who have nothing. Not even a sound mind. Some of them pretty scary. But no one seems to care. ? Although Instagram would make you think everyone in these places are so charitable.
I don't know where you travelled but I have lived in a lot of Australia and you paint a very bleak picture that is simply not true. Mission Australia is one charitable organisation that helps amongst many others. As always things could be better...no doubt...but I have lived in many other countries and the homeless problem is way worse.
bad wealthy people and bad poor people who walk without compassion among those who have nothing.
Need correction
Yes I agree with you about Australia.
@@leecourt8509 Sheltered liberal detected.
@@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything ...or maybe you need another definition for what "wealthy" truly means.
This is one of the most emotional and inspiring talks I have ever listened to. Such a gifted speaker, it's hard to believe he spent 10 years speaking so little. Thank you for sharing this story. It's humbling.
Hello, how are you?
@@brianramsey7280I am alright, thanks for asking.
500-1000years ago being a hermit,priest,monk,relgious etc was a reverred way of life nowadays its frowned upon and people would think that the individuals who chooses such a way of life/lifestyle are looked upon as having psychological disorders.
This man's story tops that of a novel.
Diogenes is my spirit animal.
Practicing Buddhist monk is still cool.
@@STMARTIN009 im not budhist
You forgot the motivation- for Greg it was out of necessity rather than a choice between carrying on in society or retreating to go on a spiritual quest.
… and his time there was filled with spirit rather than spirituality,as he states.Still, he learned so much about himself out there over 10 years
The sad thing is me, like many others, will be so arrogant to assume that we are the exceptions who cannot change. That there is something so flawed and so wrong with us that we will be the ones to never recover and succeed. Perhaps this neglected and hurt subconscious part of us is where we really need to focus.
You are not arrogant, it is just that your experience to date limits the possibilities. It’s important to be open to this transformation and reinforce through positive intention and thought. The most direct self healing process I have stumbled on is Zhineng Qi Gong. The masters here teach us techniques that enable us to heal ourself! Then the rest of it is up to us to enable the process. The exercises are quite simple but not easy. Improving our conscience is the secret to our healing success.
In the last day, that great day of the feast, Jesus stood and cried, saying, If any man thirst, let him come unto me, and drink.
He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water. John 7:37,38
People will either use whats gone wrong in their life to be a victim and always complain about how hard their life has been and NEVER change, or like this man, use their suffering to make something of their life. Very eye opening story
@@howiseetheworld3581 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby. Hebrews 12:6,11
You are worth the effort, trouble and time it takes. No matter how many false starts or dead ends and disappointments you may encounter, know that you are worth the struggle. Start with your dreams and hopes, set them out and own them. Best wishes to you for a bright future. I believe you can make it happen.
THIS man is incredible!!!!! Cold turkey suffering for an entire year after a lifetime of trauma and a side? Do you know how difficult that is and how hard you have to want to change your life around to do that?? This person has my unwavering respect even before he became a doctor!
VERY difficult indeed. you have to WANT to. it never happens when forced on one. we all become who we are meant to be. for some it takes a bit longer than others.
This video is a rare treat. So many videos leave you feeling depressed, this one lifts you up. Thank you.
This story, this man- so sweetly triumphant! I'd love to be a part of his society ♡ blessings to all who feel alone or left behind ♡
My favorite part was when he said: “I LOVED learning!!!!!” This man is an inspiration and a warrior!!! Too bad the doctor who misdiagnosed him is probably no longer alive - that was malpractice!!! I hate that he was made to believe something so extreme about his identity at such a young age….”you’re a sociopath” - how’s that for a limiting belief?!
Where did he say he was misdiagnosed, I missed it
@@Nightingale47 was thinking the same thing. In my mind there's no question he fit into any number of diagnoses in the DSM V. He overcame, has close relationships, feels empathy and that's the key to society
Here are 2 of the criteria for Antisocial Personality Disorder (the modern name for a sociopathic diagnosis) which are taken from the DSM 5:
“Impairments in interpersonal functioning (a or b):
a.Empathy: Lack of concern for feelings, needs, or suffering of others; lack of remorse after hurting or mistreating another.
b.Intimacy: Incapacity for mutually intimate relationships, as exploitation is a primary means of relating to others, including by deceit and coercion; use of dominance or intimidation to control others.”
In this video, at 17:53 , this gentleman states: “I learned to let people into my life, and into my heart. I made some strong connections with my university peers that became beautiful and special friends.” A statement such as this clearly demonstrates our friend’s capacity to engage in meaningful, loving, and caring relationships in his life. His ability to connect with others in a genuinely meaningful and loving way clearly renders his previous “sociopathic” diagnosis null and void. Folks with ADP are not able to form attachments to others simply for the sake of caring about them, there are always ulterior motives driven by a desire for personal gain or control. The statement made by this gentleman makes it abundantly clear that he was previously misdiagnosed. One can only imagine what it took for this man to overcome such a harsh - and ultimately inaccurate - label!! I have nothing but admiration and respect for him!
I needed this today, he’s such an inspiration.
Me as well 😀
This needs to be played at the beginning of every school year in every school to help remind teachers and administrators see how they can help children to not only learn, but have hope for a good future.
he’s calmness calms me 🙌🏼
What a wonderful human being. He had a mission and this was it.
One of the most humble persons I’ve ever listened to.
@Oil Knowles, Derek Prince, good company. God bless!!!
The way he tells a story had me hanging on to every word. Captivating...loved it.
This brought me to tears. I had a rough childhood myself, struggling with mental health issues my whole life. More often than not I find it excruciating to get motivated even to do the daily tasks. Such stories are not only motivational but also of essential help to the majority of people out there. I hope we see and hear more of him on social media. Thank you Dr. Gregory P. Smith.
I’m going through some difficult phase of my life and this gives me hope. Thank you Dr.
Very best wishes for overcoming your difficulties, and transforming your life with self-compassion.
Don’t let your suffering take over. If you let that happen, it’ll take over your life and there won’t be a way back out. You have to FIGHT. I hope you can muster the strength. Good luck. I’m rooting for you.
A truly caring man. He understands how hard it is for the disenfrachised God bless him
I am so happy for this man. The proof that it's never too late. 🙏
Thanks Dr. Smith. That destination where one feels a part of the human family without the need to feel less than or greater than is beyond description. Sharing your journey is a service to us all.
Very well spoken dear Ronald 👍greetings from Germany
Fantastic, what an inspiration and wise thoughts
You Sir,
Have given me hope where i believed there was none. And i am most deeply grateful, for your taking the time to share your journey.
Now, i "know" that i can move forward.
Most respectfully yours.
This story needs to be made into a movie.
Total BS. Good actor/conman.
I don't buy it.
But you TEDsters fall for this type touchy-feely nonsense.
I perhaps would have preferred it to be a work of fiction.
"Social disconnect and Loneliness fed a massive hole in me"..I can say I resonate with the hole in my chest feeling aswell, thank God it's healing.
All my love to you
Former ward of the state myself.
Excellent explanation of your circumstances and how you overcame them.
I salute you Gregory. Your presence, your story - told in under twenty minutes - will accompany me and light the dark moments for the rest of my life. Profound gratitude and respect.
To give a person hope is the most valuable thing you can give someone who has none . Excellent talk . 👍🌍✌
One of the best TED talks I've seen. Motivational and realistic. Slow and steady won the race. Well done man.
God Bless You Dr. Smith!!
A goal of AS in human services, is still a work in progress... when I was 64, back I went back again...and failed algebra for the 5th time. I started at 30...after the death of my Beloved Sister at 35, I was dx'd with Bipolar 1 and spent nearly 2 years in and out of psy hospitals...totally psychotic and coming back again to 'normal?" I have all my credits and more except, I just can't get algebra! It's Never Too Late, I just turned 68, a goal...algebra for a 6th time. I spent nearly 28 years in a retail position because it was 'safe'. Had I believed in myself, not lived my life from fear thinking, I probably would have been a therapist. I'm hoping before I die I'll have that AS degree.
I can't believe you're being held back from your goals because of someone's insistence on algebra! That's just wrong!
One of the most touching story I've ever heard. Thanks for sharing it, Dr Smith, it was a precious moment!
One of the most honest and sincere Ted talks I’ve ever seen. Thank you
Dr. Gregory Smith…. I salute you a thousand times. What saved you was a strong sense of survival in spite of being traumatized at an early age. When we are young, it is important to know of someone who believes in you, which then gives you permission to believe in yourself. You finally got that experience much later in life. What also may have saved you was your sense of humor along with being a highly intelligent person. Today, you must have many people who believe in you and are truly an inspiration for others to never give up on themselves. One more salute for you, sir.
As soon as his last words came I welled up and when they stood to applaud this inspiring man I saw him pull at back of his jacket. Truly a wonderful story of a man 'simply trying to fit in'
This is one of the most inspirational TEDtalk ever.
What a courageous man! Thank you for not giving up!
What an incredible story. May God bless you and your family Dr Gregory P Smith
Everyone has a story. I’m so proud of this man whom I’ve never met. Dr; you’re setting a bar. Anyone and everyone should be trying to reach the highest bar possible. And keep reaching. Help empower others by boasting them up!! Thank you for this! Strong work!!
What if someone wants to live in the forest?
His will to survive, overcome and proceed is mind-blowing.
Wow this man is not only inspiring but also an amazing storyteller with such a soothing voice 😌
Dr. Gregory, You are a great person...I am 47years old... I want to start my studies again...your life experience gave me loads of encouragement....wish you all the happiness and success in your life....This is a strong proof that never too late to change your life...never too late to study...
Dr. Smith comes across as so humble and kind. What an amazing talk from an amazing human being.