Disarming Narcissists: 10 Verbal Tactics They Can't Stand

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    Do you feel like you are constantly dealing with narcissistic people in your life? Believe it or not, there are ways to manage them and disarm the situation for a better outcome. In this video, we'll discuss 10 powerful verbal tactics that narcissists cannot stand. Learn how to take control of your conversations and stop feeling overwhelmed by these difficult people. Get ready to take your power back - watch now!
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  • @legaleagle7226
    @legaleagle7226 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    1. Refuse to argue 1:19
    2. Ask clarifying questions 3:32
    3. Honest Compliments 5:18
    4. Acknowledging their feelings 6:59
    5. Setting Boundaries 8:45
    6. Neutrality and Objectivity 10:05
    7. Staying in control of yourself 11:52
    8. Mindful body language12:43
    9. Standing your ground - Without being confrontational 13:40
    10. Expressing your thoughts - While remaining respectful 14:10

  • @kg0148
    @kg0148 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am left having to coparent with my daughters father. Upon trying to figure out our schedule for next week he called me a retard and told me I must be having a down syndrome day reminded me that my house is a mobile home so I am trash. He has damaged me horribly bad and I hate that my daughter has to bare witness to his tactics.

    • @ginadellgrottaglia6897
      @ginadellgrottaglia6897 ปีที่แล้ว

      Forgive me. I laughed at how you blatantly just wrote that. I'm here gaining some ammo against a self-righteous narc brother and it reminded me of how, years back, he went into this whole diatribe of how "There's trailer trash, and there's apartment trash..."
      I was living in an apartment at the time. He's a sniper. 😉

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Check this out - icanslay.com/
      Stay strong & keep slaying!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @jessicahayes2419
    @jessicahayes2419 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I NEEDED this more than Ever. Thank you Rebecca Zung!!! Truly THANK YOU!!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Check this out - icanslay.com/
      Stay strong & keep slaying!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @michaeleckert5877
    @michaeleckert5877 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You must engage your mind to focus on what is important. Everything you have discussed is so very true.❤❤

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      You got this! 💪

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @Whatitsreallylike
    @Whatitsreallylike 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you , this helps.

  • @debrakekaualua1806
    @debrakekaualua1806 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yes 45- years is killing me and ive no resources!

  • @lekaniko
    @lekaniko ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for this .succinct, will keep it by my side as I have to negotiate and revise property settlement with narc ex. 'high conflict personality' is a useful description to bear in mind, and remaining respectful is helpful in adopting a confident stance. Much appreciate your generosity in sharing this information. Australia.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Check this out - icanslay.com/
      Stay strong & keep slaying!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @annamay2152
    @annamay2152 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you...great tips and tricks😊

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Check this out - icanslay.com/
      Stay strong & keep slaying!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @christinaackerman7734
    @christinaackerman7734 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much you're so helpful so informative for me to understand the sick s** they do and say.🤬🌹🌹🌹 Love you so much for all your help you've really helped me to understand what the hell I'm dealing with

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Check this out - icanslay.com/
      Stay strong & keep slaying!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @tamarabrady1472
    @tamarabrady1472 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Rebecca!!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Check this out - icanslay.com/
      Stay strong & keep slaying!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @lisadaniels8875
    @lisadaniels8875 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Check this out - icanslay.com/
      Stay strong & keep slaying!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @tracymullane8818
    @tracymullane8818 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, why would you want to acknowledge their emotions? It seems too easy to get sucked into their side if you do that. Personally I want to stay far away from their emotions.

    • @tamarabrady1472
      @tamarabrady1472 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMy God this speaks to me

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @arthurcurry7688
    @arthurcurry7688 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What advice can you give me Rebecca regarding a man who I once was dating for a brief period of time, before we married in a foreign country, and then he took all my money and abandoned me. I returned to the USA, and never heard anything from him in over 8 years! Now, he has resurfaced in my hometown, claiming that he is married to another woman! Yet, is also claiming that he is still in love with me.
    What divorce advice could you please give me?

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Check this out - icanslay.com/
      Stay strong & keep slaying!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @lekaniko
    @lekaniko 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I used this video, to go from this email, exhibit A, to this, exhibit B. I got away from being in victim mode to being objective, respectful, but firm and in control.
    Exhibit A "Frankly I am appalled at your sense of entitlement, at intruding into my home and without even the barest courtesy regarding that action.
    I have made it clear I do not want any contact with you and I do not want you intruding into my life.
    I am asking you to confirm within the next 7 days that you will stay away and not come here again.
    I have the right to live in peace.
    Exhibit B
    I appreciate your offer to verbally negotiate my request for you to respect my boundaries. .
    In preparation for that I ask that you make a formal proposal of how you will respect my boundaries via email in the next week.
    Regards
    ❤thanks so much Rebecca

  • @tamarabrady1472
    @tamarabrady1472 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you be my lawyer???!!!!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Schedule now: negotiate.rebeccazung.com/order-form-strategysession

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com

  • @phillipdugan9075
    @phillipdugan9075 ปีที่แล้ว

    East Belfast love gorgeous

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  ปีที่แล้ว

      Check this out - icanslay.com/
      Stay strong & keep slaying!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Narcissists just suck the life out of you but I know you got this! ❤ So I am hosting an amazing live free event on September 30th at 9:00AM PST/ Noon EST to launch my brand-new book “SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win” where I will reveal my revolutionary, proven, simple framework on how to flip the power dynamic against narcissists. Sign up at >> www.slaythebullylaunch.com