My gf broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago. When this video dropped and I saw it, ngl it made my heart sank again. It comes back every now and then. But now, I’m starting to feel a bit better day by day and slowly, I’m starting to get back into drawing. Making art has been one of the few things that made me feel comfort, but i still appreciate reminders like this. So thank you.❤
While i disagree with trying to not cry, i agree with not reminiscing too much, or really at all. Also, "forget the teacher, remember the lesson" is absolutely amazing advice.
definitely don’t hold in crying … I don’t believe said that. If I did, my apologies. I think I said don’t listen to sad music but if you feel the need to cry and let it out then do that but try not to dabble in the sad music thing. I appreciate the support and much love to you❤️
the timing, i ruined a relationship with someone who truly cared for me. i wish i could go back and fix everything but some things just can’t be fixed. i wish her the best in everything. i didn’t deserve her (update. me and her were able to work things out and have been fixing things, im doing everything in my power to be the best man i can. Just happy i have the chance to show her i can be better)
The same goes for me, I also ruined my own relationship because I was selfish. The best way to fix this is to distance yourself from her and become the best version of yourself and learn from your mistakes. There is no “what ifs”, what is done IS done! I’m sorry to say this, but you must learn the hard way and suffer, that’s the only way you can grow as a person. You got this jarred, I know you can do this. You will find peace. If it’s meant to be she will comeback, if not then it’s okay because god has different plans for you.
Smae goes with me bro. I don’t wanna go in depth cuz I know I will break down. She gave me so many chances to change and stop treating her poorly and I never took her seriously. We even went on a lil break for a week to sort things out and even that didn’t work. I wish everyday I could go back and fix it after she broke up with me a week ago. I can’t stand to even look at her at school anymore. It breaks my heart walking past her as a stranger now. I still love her but she fell out of love because I pushed her away by being an asshole
@@darkfoxy4711 I’m sorry to tell you this bro, but you must move on. Your actions spoke louder than words, you are in despair because you have a lot of regrets on those actions you did. You must learn the hard way, and learn from your mistakes whether you like or not. You can’t go back in the past because what is done is done. The best thing to do is to improve on yourself and become a better person. You have learned something. Experience. If you do not learn from those mistakes you committed with your relationship you will be in more despair, and that will mean you haven’t learned anything through your actions. I believe you will find peace and solution, believe in yourself and become the best version of yourself by going through hardships and growing as a person. Without despair and suffering there is no growth.
i’m hurting, i have no energy for anyone and anything. i feel so alone and empty with no sense of direction and all i want is to be with him. to be in his arms, to feel his warmth presence. i don’t want to let him go.. he’s been a light in my life. his presence alone has saved me from a deep point in my life. he means everything to me. i think about him 24/7 and sometimes i forcibly distract myself from processing it. i seek love and friendship, he was my only true friend. don’t have anyone else. i really don’t know what to do..
you are not miserable girl. I feel you. just know u are not alone. and u will feel better its just the matter of time. remember that u haven't experienced much better things in life yet. wait for them. I know its hard. much power to you!! :(
I understand. Truly I understand. But you must not run from the pain. You need to face it head on, let it wash over you, and keep moving. Grief is like the ocean, sometimes the waves are violent, sometimes it is completely still. Happiness is also fleeting. So cherish the times that were shared but don’t remain in a place that no longer exists in the present. Your world is so much bigger than you can even imagine. It will take time, and there is no deadline. But you must continue to love yourself the way you love others, even when you don’t feel like it. That is how you will come out the other side without drowning. And I’m saying all this to remind myself as well, because my world just turned upside down too. I am right there with you
I'm sorry to hear this, even though it feels scary and very sad it does get better. I'm almost a year in and I do feel tremendously better than I sis within the first few months. Try to get some sun, go out with friends, and lightly date when you're ready.
I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. He would always compare me to another girl. And since i started talking to him all my friends have been ignoring me. They may be jealous i dont know. All i know is now that im isolated i have more time to focus and learn about me. I trust in Gods plan, and slowly starting to trust myself. ❤
i literally just got broken up with yesterday this is crazy timing. think what i'll do for now is continue to just be positive and work on myself because someone better and who's more deserving of my love will come around. I'll miss her still of course but i ain't letting this hold me back from my growth
@@SoldMyV8 it's going great actually, I'm pretty much moved on, focusing on my own well being and pursuing my own goals and aspirations in life, thanks for checking in with me g i appreciate it. Take care and God bless 🙌
my bf dumped me a week ago at my most vulnerable tym , i loved him so much and id do anything for him . i begged him so many times to to fix things we experienced a small issue , but he decided to leave me and refused fixing things , i thought maybe maybe i was a problem but i noticed that if he really loved me , he would have done anything and i mean anything to fix our relationship but he didnt that gave me courage to step back a little and focus on my books . i was still grieving our relationship and he had already had a new girlfriend in mind . i was hurt coz i was so loyal to him. i hope my heart heals , i deserve better
@@user-dv7fr4go5d ❤️❤️❤️ you absolutely deserve love & respect ❤️ you’re life has meaning & you are worthwhile-no one can ever take that away from you. I hope you find some comfort & peace & know that you are always loved ❤️❤️❤️
Hey, how are you doing we are going through almost the exact same thing he broke up with me 4 days ago I’m in so much pain. I wouldn’t stop expressing to him about the things he didn’t do, he got tired of it and left me and now he follows all the girls he used to follow again even the ones I had doubts on my heart aches I feel like I’m never gonna heal and feel better again
@@joyceballen hey love hope you are well ❤️. Trust me you will heal ,I believe if he loved you so much he wouldn't have left and. Tym for crying over these boys is over,I started loving myself more after he left and he came back crawling after giving him no contact and i tried my best not to think about him, try this you'll feel better soon trust the process ❤️❤️❤️🎀
@@user-dv7fr4go5djust wanted to tell you that you are so strong. I’m going through a breakup right now and your words that he crawled back and u still chose yourself made me so proud of you. Thank u for letting know that time heals. I believe you will meet your person who will be always by your side. Thank u ,love ❤
no lies here. i started putting in so much work and loving myself a lot more after i broke up with her. i can’t even recognize who i am at this point. i’ve grown so much and i love it! (ps: if you’re going through a break up, remember it’s a break from the world for you to take yourself back up😉)
@@joelbenjamin5947 thank you for sharing-finding your comment at a time when I definitely needed a reminder of that last part ❤️ here’s to you being your best you & thank you for the encouragement 💕✨
@@Silent-hill-y4kFor everyone going through this, I want you to know your not alone and this feeling that you have of being sad and more won't last forever have hope that you will feel okay again and even better, I also want you to know that God loves you and there I salvation In the Lord Jesus Christ and peace and love, in God you wil find what true fulfillment and satisfaction is and I pray this for everyone that reads this and around the world and if you feel alone, I think that's okay I feel like we depend a lot on people for our comfort and time but really we should be focusing on God who can fill that emptiness in our heart with his love and joy, and even if you had no on to talk to for a while you won't feel lonely anymore, and God knows that it's bad to be lonely for a long time so he will give you friends that help and uplift you and you to them also
@@Silent-hill-y4kFor everyone going through this, I want you to know your not alone and this feeling that you have of being sad and more won't last forever have hope that you will feel okay again and even better, I also want you to know that God loves you and there I salvation In the Lord Jesus Christ and peace and love, in God you wil find what true fulfillment and satisfaction is and I pray this for everyone that reads this and around the world and if you feel alone, I think that's okay I feel like we depend a lot on people for our comfort and time but really we should be focusing on God who can fill that emptiness in our heart with his love and joy, and even if you had no on to talk to for a while you won't feel lonely anymore, and God knows that it's bad to be lonely for a long time so he will give you friends that help and uplift you and you to them also
Well, my breakup isn't recent (happened a year ago), but I always struggle getting over such things for a long periods of time. Many thanks, you've saved me a few more years of quiet misery.
I still miss her, it’s been 3 months and I continue to blame myself bc if I didn’t do what I did she wouldn’t have been how she was yk? But it’s hard to accept that we’re all humans and we make mistakes but I have hope and faith that one day we’ll cross paths again. I leave it in Gods hands to bring her back all I can do now is elevate myself
What a great time posting this. She broke up with me a week ago and I haven’t been the same since. She was my everything and a part of me still feels missing. I’ve been pursing my passion for Music and skating more now and have become closer with my family and friends over the last week to fill the void
Thank you so much Shimon. I’ve been struggling through my breakup a lot recently and I really needed to hear these truths. Please keep up your great work, you are seriously helping people out here man. I hope for nothing but the absolute best for you bro.
Had some type of situation ship for like 2 years, I was the one that had to stop it since I realised the effort wasn’t equal and he told me he was on a journey to find himself. Later found out during that time we had texted,and during his self journey, he had a girl, broke my heart twice since she cheated on him wit someone else and he lied. Thanks man for this vid it was pretty much applicable to what I went through. Kat hugs for komfort
i coundlt have found you at a better time in my life thank you for making these videos and opoening my eyes you are doing gods work and the world would be lovley place if everyone took the time like you do to make other people see that they are worthy of living thank you for everything you have done and will do for me
we were forced apart by our parents bc we’re toxic. we both did a lot of shit but we weren’t ready to leave. maybe it was attachment but despite everything i went through with him, the control and manipulation, i wanted it to be him. i can’t imagine seeing him with someone else, n my mom blocked him on everything and spies on my phone to make sure we’re not in contact. i feel like i won’t find someone ever who will treat me right and match my type
@@user-pf3ms2qp2n damnn two years, it was 6 months for me. he still secretly contacts me atm and i wonder if i should respond knowing how much he disturbed my peace or choose me. But like if i choose me i know he’ll move on and maybe i will too and we’ll never talk again. I’m stuck on the potential of us 😭
Girlllll I am on the same boat. I’m like spazzing not gonna lie lol. 8 years on dis side and so toxic but i literally don’t know what to do and how to stop being sad. Don’t worry tho god got us, we gonna be good 🩷
I needed this been with an alcholic for 7years and we just broke up for good im in a very empty place, but i Know God is a great God and he will keep me. I also pray he gets the help he needs
@@cynjay8734 I see you & I am inspired by you-thank you for sharing ❤️❤️ your faith will guide you and God has a wonderful plan for you ❤️❤️ and you are very loved ❤️❤️
Texted? I feel like it is the most brutal way to say goodbye. It's like you never cared that much. The last thing you could do was to at least say it to her face.
my bf broke up with me two days ago. i feel so alone, i loved him so much, he was also my bestfriend and the ONLY person i had, no one else was there for me like this man was. we had our problems but i was always willing to fight for him and us, but he just didn't want too anymore. it hurts, it really does especially when you've visioned and planned your whole life with this person. anyways, i came to watch some healing videos bc i have no idea how to move on, how to feel, how to think but coming across this video and reading some of the comments, it does give a little reassurance. ofc it doesn't make the pain hurt any less but i still appreciate it and i just hope one day i can come back to this and not feel the pain.
I’ve been in a state of arrested development since September. Part of that was the girl I was seeing breaking things off but there were a lot of factors. It wasn’t long but it was my first and only so rather than processing it I focused all my energy into school. But because I ignored my emotions for so long, now that school has been over for me I’m working through them now. I feel like I’m better than I’ve been in a while though it could be that I’ve been in the tunnel so long the light seems brighter than it usually is. This seems long and rambling and pointless but this video helped me put words to things I was struggling to express to myself so thank you.
For one i just came across your channel today. You’re real genuine my guy and your words are pure. I broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago and this video really told me what i gotta do. Thank you my guy✊🏽
The way my ex broke things off with me just recently destroyed me, she found someone better in about a week time. Things were tough but I still loved her deeply, now she doesn’t love me anymore and it feels like life is over. I know I gotta move forward but I’m stuck in constant state of denial, suffering, emptiness and pain. I can’t hate her despite what she did, I really love her.
I have yet to experience this, but I really appreciate you preparing me for it. I have recently started to talk to someone, I hope it doesn't happen to me. Have a great day man.
I really needed this :( got out of a relationship few days ago don’t miss the relashionship but feel more lonely, I wanted to be friends but idk if he rlly wants to
I appreciate you. I just started my healing process but then a friend of mine came up with an Idea that i should get into another relationship but then i refused because I had a feeling that I need to heal on my own rather than getting into another relationship. Thanks so much for this message😊😊
I wasn't really in a relationship but I was talking to this girl from January to March and we decided to end things, but I wanted her back so I confessed I had feelings for her and we agreed to try better this time. For a good 2 weeks I was giving my all, but she was starting to fade away. Eventually she told me she can't do it. I still follow her on everything but she made sure to unfollow me on everything, even my friends. Her friends also unfollowed me, not that it matters, but I still follow all of them bc I'm not the type to shut someone out completely. So its been a month I think and I'm for some reason still not over her? You think I would be because we didn't even date, but I have friends who are in or getting into relationships and it's making me miss her more and more. I'll 1000% support my friends but I'm jealous and kinda wish they would shut up about how great their gf or bf is because it makes me stay up at night and wonder to myself what could have been with her...
Woah dawg I didn’t know you blew up like this. I remember watching your “Pornography ruined my life” vid and you ain’t have this many followers. Just wanted to say congrats on the growth and I appreciate your advice it has really helped me grow 😤 God Bless big dawg🙏
“stay true to the journey, everything’s gonna be alright” last Friday i prayed for my relationship to heal and become stronger than ever and the next day we broke up. i was angry at first but after letting tears out and getting blessings i realized my prayer was answered and it’s happened for a reason.
I hope you’ll understand that I’m trying to free myself from TH-cam and such. And actually use the advice within myself, aswell as the advice you gave me
I got cheated on about 2 months ago but I’m doing better for my self.if anyone going through it trust me I know it’s hard but you got to remember they chose to do that so don’t get worked up on it life moves on you should to and yes it will be hard but if you work on yourself and don’t take life for granted you will be much happier
thank you sm man, my gf broke up with me 2 months ago, and i can t get over her, but today i saw your video and im gonna change, at least i will try to forget her, but i think that s impossible
Personally I’ve always been had a void not from a breakup just in general i was looking for love it’s not until I got with my girlfriend is when I learned that my void is my own to fill and I can’t have someone else’s love to fill mine and I’m still learning tbh I’m greatful for the person who I’m with hoping things last with her
it kind of just struck me out of nowhere but you were talking about going back to the things you like to do and being urself and it made me think.. what do i even like to do by myself? i work most of the time and on my days off i’d either be with my ex or with my friends.. crazy how you don’t even know urself sometimes
I ended my relationship with my gf almost a month ago. I feel I made a big mistake I was so stressed and clouded in my thoughts. She cared about me so much and loved me with every part of her. I don’t think I’ll ever find someone like her again. I just want to see her again. She says we need time. She added nothing but value to my life and I couldn’t see it.
This is what my boyfriend admitted to me before he left me last night, and now im here. I’m trying to understand from his side of things and why he did what he did when he knew that all I did was care and love him so deeply like no one did before. I don’t even know why im replying to this but it was a perfect example of what happened. If you don’t mind me asking, how are things now? I’m not sure how I can get through this.
@@meliakyal8233 it’s really tough. We haven’t talked in 4 weeks. I really wanted to try this again I really did but I don’t think she wants to cause I hurt her so bad. I wanted to say things in person but idk if I’ll ever get that now. She’s probably angry
For everyone going through this, I want you to know your not alone and this feeling that you have of being sad and more won't last forever have hope that you will feel okay again and even better, I also want you to know that God loves you and there I salvation In the Lord Jesus Christ and peace and love, in God you wil find what true fulfillment and satisfaction is and I pray this for everyone that reads this and around the world
My Gf broke up with me 5 hours ago because she thought we should just be friends and she wanted to focus on herself. So stay strong, guys. Also, I'll update this if i get better 💀
We tried a long distance relationship because he said he was fine w it even though I knew he isnt. I wanted it to work out so bad because i promised that it would be worth it to wait for us but he didnt. I asked to fix things, to talk deeply about it but he didnt. Man i wish he understood.
Just separated with my wife after 13 years. I wasn’t a good man for a while. We both made a lot of mistakes. Got married at 19 and 20 without knowing what marriage really was. 13 years and 3 kids later we’re splitting. Hardest thing I’ve ever been through.
I hate that I fucked everything up I just wish she had been more empathetic to what I was going through at the time. I just hope she valued what we had together
For everyone going through this, I want you to know your not alone and this feeling that you have of being sad and more won't last forever have hope that you will feel okay again and even better, I also want you to know that God loves you and there I salvation In the Lord Jesus Christ and peace and love, in God you wil find what true fulfillment and satisfaction is and I pray this for everyone that reads this and around the world and if you feel alone, I think that's okay I feel like we depend a lot on people for our comfort and time but really we should be focusing on God who can fill that emptiness in our heart with his love and joy, and even if you had no on to talk to for a while you won't feel lonely anymore, and God knows that it's bad to be lonely for a long time so he will give you friends that help and uplift you and you to them also
Broke up with my wife of 15 years have 2 beautiful girls and now 8 months of loneliness later I’m still just so heartbroken and don’t wanna do anything! It’s hard to move on for me , my family moved on and it just hurts more and makes me not wanna do anything ! I need advice keep making this videos to help ppl like me …
@@eelizabethrosas thank you it means a lot , isn’t it easier for women to move on with there life tho? Us men struggle more with things like this and it’s harder for us to move on ! I just want you to know that if you need someone to talk to I’m just one TH-cam msg away, let’s get over this pain together with a lil bit of gods help we’ll be good.
@@G.Ramirez86 to be quite honest, im not sure if women get over it easier. this is my first actual heartbreak, so im on this journey for my first time. also, thank you! i appreciate the kind gesture! my youtube msg is always open too! id suggest you finding a hobby that will distract your mind! i’ll be praying for the both of us too 🥺
@@eelizabethrosas well my ex moved on quick so I just feel like women do move on quicker. I’m sorry your dealing with something this painful cause I know it hurts, well maybe we can both help each other cause only god knows why he put our path together on this road we call life, and no need to thank me that’s just who I am. Okay I’ll keep msg’n you cause I need ppl to talk to I have no one lol. Yea ima start hitting the gym and go get some counseling, I will pray that you heal ASAP! 🙏
@@G.Ramirez86 i appreciate the kind words so much! i think its different for everyone when it comes to moving on. i guess we all just heal and figure it all out within time. and thats fine i dont mind! here in the comments lol? and i def think that would help you!
My ex and I had an on and off relationship and have broken up again about two weeks ago (1 week NC), and he has already moved on. I know it isn't a reflection of my self-worth, but it's pretty hard to not think that the relationship or I didn't matter to him.
I just ruin a relationship with someone I really love and I knew was good for me but she had 3 kinds and they was very disrespectful so I ain’t know what to do weather to leave or stay but I left I felt like I did the right thing but again I hate being alone and I know it’s only so many good people god will bring your life but I feel like I should start focusing on myself now I’m at the lowest point in my life right now
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My gf broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago. When this video dropped and I saw it, ngl it made my heart sank again. It comes back every now and then. But now, I’m starting to feel a bit better day by day and slowly, I’m starting to get back into drawing. Making art has been one of the few things that made me feel comfort, but i still appreciate reminders like this. So thank you.❤
Jesus can heal you please God loves you believe and pray and he can help you
While i disagree with trying to not cry, i agree with not reminiscing too much, or really at all. Also, "forget the teacher, remember the lesson" is absolutely amazing advice.
definitely don’t hold in crying … I don’t believe said that. If I did, my apologies. I think I said don’t listen to sad music but if you feel the need to cry and let it out then do that but try not to dabble in the sad music thing. I appreciate the support and much love to you❤️
What music would you recommend? If you dont mind me asking @@AskShimon
the timing, i ruined a relationship with someone who truly cared for me. i wish i could go back and fix everything but some things just can’t be fixed. i wish her the best in everything. i didn’t deserve her (update. me and her were able to work things out and have been fixing things, im doing everything in my power to be the best man i can. Just happy i have the chance to show her i can be better)
The same goes for me, I also ruined my own relationship because I was selfish. The best way to fix this is to distance yourself from her and become the best version of yourself and learn from your mistakes. There is no “what ifs”, what is done IS done!
I’m sorry to say this, but you must learn the hard way and suffer, that’s the only way you can grow as a person. You got this jarred, I know you can do this. You will find peace.
If it’s meant to be she will comeback, if not then it’s okay because god has different plans for you.
@@Nirvanzia41 Needed to hear this. Thank you got this . Maybe one day but i need to fix myself. 🙏🏽
I lost mine too, same reasons I suspect. She was so cute. yah anyway bruh, tears come and go, spirit becomes less judgemental and selfish
Smae goes with me bro. I don’t wanna go in depth cuz I know I will break down. She gave me so many chances to change and stop treating her poorly and I never took her seriously. We even went on a lil break for a week to sort things out and even that didn’t work. I wish everyday I could go back and fix it after she broke up with me a week ago. I can’t stand to even look at her at school anymore. It breaks my heart walking past her as a stranger now. I still love her but she fell out of love because I pushed her away by being an asshole
@@darkfoxy4711 I’m sorry to tell you this bro, but you must move on. Your actions spoke louder than words, you are in despair because you have a lot of regrets on those actions you did.
You must learn the hard way, and learn from your mistakes whether you like or not. You can’t go back in the past because what is done is done.
The best thing to do is to improve on yourself and become a better person. You have learned something. Experience.
If you do not learn from those mistakes you committed with your relationship you will be in more despair, and that will mean you haven’t learned anything through your actions.
I believe you will find peace and solution, believe in yourself and become the best version of yourself by going through hardships and growing as a person.
Without despair and suffering there is no growth.
i’m hurting, i have no energy for anyone and anything. i feel so alone and empty with no sense of direction and all i want is to be with him. to be in his arms, to feel his warmth presence. i don’t want to let him go.. he’s been a light in my life. his presence alone has saved me from a deep point in my life. he means everything to me. i think about him 24/7 and sometimes i forcibly distract myself from processing it. i seek love and friendship, he was my only true friend. don’t have anyone else. i really don’t know what to do..
i am so miserable.
I have no advice to give, but I'm so sorry, boo🥺🥺🫂🫂 You'll get thru this rough patch!
you are not miserable girl. I feel you. just know u are not alone. and u will feel better its just the matter of time. remember that u haven't experienced much better things in life yet. wait for them. I know its hard. much power to you!! :(
I understand. Truly I understand. But you must not run from the pain. You need to face it head on, let it wash over you, and keep moving. Grief is like the ocean, sometimes the waves are violent, sometimes it is completely still. Happiness is also fleeting. So cherish the times that were shared but don’t remain in a place that no longer exists in the present. Your world is so much bigger than you can even imagine. It will take time, and there is no deadline. But you must continue to love yourself the way you love others, even when you don’t feel like it. That is how you will come out the other side without drowning. And I’m saying all this to remind myself as well, because my world just turned upside down too. I am right there with you
@@selxwrld You ain
I almost killed myself yesterday because she broke up with me. She was my everything. Thank you for posting this, it means a lot to me
You matter ❤ keep going. It gets better
I'm sorry to hear this, even though it feels scary and very sad it does get better. I'm almost a year in and I do feel tremendously better than I sis within the first few months.
Try to get some sun, go out with friends, and lightly date when you're ready.
I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. He would always compare me to another girl. And since i started talking to him all my friends have been ignoring me. They may be jealous i dont know. All i know is now that im isolated i have more time to focus and learn about me. I trust in Gods plan, and slowly starting to trust myself. ❤
I believe in you
No shot, this is the best video timing ever. Thank you
How are things going
i literally just got broken up with yesterday this is crazy timing.
think what i'll do for now is continue to just be positive and work on myself because someone better and who's more deserving of my love will come around. I'll miss her still of course but i ain't letting this hold me back from my growth
How’s it going?
@@SoldMyV8 it's going great actually, I'm pretty much moved on, focusing on my own well being and pursuing my own goals and aspirations in life, thanks for checking in with me g i appreciate it. Take care and God bless 🙌
my bf dumped me a week ago at my most vulnerable tym , i loved him so much and id do anything for him . i begged him so many times to to fix things we experienced a small issue , but he decided to leave me and refused fixing things , i thought maybe maybe i was a problem but i noticed that if he really loved me , he would have done anything and i mean anything to fix our relationship but he didnt that gave me courage to step back a little and focus on my books . i was still grieving our relationship and he had already had a new girlfriend in mind . i was hurt coz i was so loyal to him. i hope my heart heals , i deserve better
@@user-dv7fr4go5d ❤️❤️❤️ you absolutely deserve love & respect ❤️ you’re life has meaning & you are worthwhile-no one can ever take that away from you. I hope you find some comfort & peace & know that you are always loved ❤️❤️❤️
Hey, how are you doing we are going through almost the exact same thing he broke up with me 4 days ago I’m in so much pain. I wouldn’t stop expressing to him about the things he didn’t do, he got tired of it and left me and now he follows all the girls he used to follow again even the ones I had doubts on my heart aches I feel like I’m never gonna heal and feel better again
@@joyceballen hey love hope you are well ❤️. Trust me you will heal ,I believe if he loved you so much he wouldn't have left and. Tym for crying over these boys is over,I started loving myself more after he left and he came back crawling after giving him no contact and i tried my best not to think about him, try this you'll feel better soon trust the process ❤️❤️❤️🎀
@@user-dv7fr4go5djust wanted to tell you that you are so strong. I’m going through a breakup right now and your words that he crawled back and u still chose yourself made me so proud of you. Thank u for letting know that time heals. I believe you will meet your person who will be always by your side. Thank u ,love ❤
no lies here. i started putting in so much work and loving myself a lot more after i broke up with her. i can’t even recognize who i am at this point. i’ve grown so much and i love it! (ps: if you’re going through a break up, remember it’s a break from the world for you to take yourself back up😉)
@@joelbenjamin5947 thank you for sharing-finding your comment at a time when I definitely needed a reminder of that last part ❤️ here’s to you being your best you & thank you for the encouragement 💕✨
The hardest thing i’m dealing with. Is being alone :/
Same but uh just feeling unlovable and alone for me :D
@@Silent-hill-y4kFor everyone going through this, I want you to know your not alone and this feeling that you have of being sad and more won't last forever have hope that you will feel okay again and even better, I also want you to know that God loves you and there I salvation In the Lord Jesus Christ and peace and love, in God you wil find what true fulfillment and satisfaction is and I pray this for everyone that reads this and around the world and if you feel alone, I think that's okay I feel like we depend a lot on people for our comfort and time but really we should be focusing on God who can fill that emptiness in our heart with his love and joy, and even if you had no on to talk to for a while you won't feel lonely anymore, and God knows that it's bad to be lonely for a long time so he will give you friends that help and uplift you and you to them also
@@Silent-hill-y4kFor everyone going through this, I want you to know your not alone and this feeling that you have of being sad and more won't last forever have hope that you will feel okay again and even better, I also want you to know that God loves you and there I salvation In the Lord Jesus Christ and peace and love, in God you wil find what true fulfillment and satisfaction is and I pray this for everyone that reads this and around the world and if you feel alone, I think that's okay I feel like we depend a lot on people for our comfort and time but really we should be focusing on God who can fill that emptiness in our heart with his love and joy, and even if you had no on to talk to for a while you won't feel lonely anymore, and God knows that it's bad to be lonely for a long time so he will give you friends that help and uplift you and you to them also
Go to the gym there people with the same problems
@@gabisilekubeka5503 how ab you go to the gym
Well, my breakup isn't recent (happened a year ago), but I always struggle getting over such things for a long periods of time. Many thanks, you've saved me a few more years of quiet misery.
I still miss her, it’s been 3 months and I continue to blame myself bc if I didn’t do what I did she wouldn’t have been how she was yk? But it’s hard to accept that we’re all humans and we make mistakes but I have hope and faith that one day we’ll cross paths again. I leave it in Gods hands to bring her back all I can do now is elevate myself
Shimon with the IMPECCABLE timing 😭
Nah literally
Ong
always
Update?
@@SoldMyV8still not better lol 😂 it’ll take time depending on the person
What a great time posting this. She broke up with me a week ago and I haven’t been the same since. She was my everything and a part of me still feels missing. I’ve been pursing my passion for Music and skating more now and have become closer with my family and friends over the last week to fill the void
Thank you so much Shimon. I’ve been struggling through my breakup a lot recently and I really needed to hear these truths. Please keep up your great work, you are seriously helping people out here man. I hope for nothing but the absolute best for you bro.
Had some type of situation ship for like 2 years, I was the one that had to stop it since I realised the effort wasn’t equal and he told me he was on a journey to find himself. Later found out during that time we had texted,and during his self journey, he had a girl, broke my heart twice since she cheated on him wit someone else and he lied. Thanks man for this vid it was pretty much applicable to what I went through. Kat hugs for komfort
He used me and told me its a casual relationship and my heart sank. Just when i finally let myself be vulnerable, again I find I am never enough
To everyone here going through this, keep your head up and let’s find something in life that makes sense to us…
Damn... dropping a video like this when I need it most.
Almost been a month now, she found someone else after 2 weeks and i see them together all the time, it really breaks me everytime i see it
I’m so sorry! I hope you are in a better place now ❤
Brother this is god-sent timing thanks a ton for ur amazing content you have no idea how many people ur helping💕🙏
i coundlt have found you at a better time in my life thank you for making these videos and opoening my eyes you are doing gods work and the world would be lovley place if everyone took the time like you do to make other people see that they are worthy of living thank you for everything you have done and will do for me
we were forced apart by our parents bc we’re toxic. we both did a lot of shit but we weren’t ready to leave. maybe it was attachment but despite everything i went through with him, the control and manipulation, i wanted it to be him. i can’t imagine seeing him with someone else, n my mom blocked him on everything and spies on my phone to make sure we’re not in contact. i feel like i won’t find someone ever who will treat me right and match my type
Me toooo
I feel so shitty i came from work everyday seen him was with him everyday
For 2 years it hurts so bad
@@user-pf3ms2qp2n damnn two years, it was 6 months for me. he still secretly contacts me atm and i wonder if i should respond knowing how much he disturbed my peace or choose me. But like if i choose me i know he’ll move on and maybe i will too and we’ll never talk again. I’m stuck on the potential of us 😭
Girlllll I am on the same boat. I’m like spazzing not gonna lie lol. 8 years on dis side and so toxic but i literally don’t know what to do and how to stop being sad. Don’t worry tho god got us, we gonna be good 🩷
im going through a breakup with a friend group and honestly this helped too even if it were in regards to a romantic relationship
I needed this been with an alcholic for 7years and we just broke up for good im in a very empty place, but i Know God is a great God and he will keep me. I also pray he gets the help he needs
@@cynjay8734 I see you & I am inspired by you-thank you for sharing ❤️❤️ your faith will guide you and God has a wonderful plan for you ❤️❤️ and you are very loved ❤️❤️
This literally popped up after I literally just texted my girl we should be friends. Damn
God Bless
Shimon on that quick timing
Texted? I feel like it is the most brutal way to say goodbye. It's like you never cared that much. The last thing you could do was to at least say it to her face.
@@Martulthis is sadly the world we live in now
She's mine now
my bf broke up with me two days ago. i feel so alone, i loved him so much, he was also my bestfriend and the ONLY person i had, no one else was there for me like this man was. we had our problems but i was always willing to fight for him and us, but he just didn't want too anymore. it hurts, it really does especially when you've visioned and planned your whole life with this person. anyways, i came to watch some healing videos bc i have no idea how to move on, how to feel, how to think but coming across this video and reading some of the comments, it does give a little reassurance. ofc it doesn't make the pain hurt any less but i still appreciate it and i just hope one day i can come back to this and not feel the pain.
I’ve been in a state of arrested development since September. Part of that was the girl I was seeing breaking things off but there were a lot of factors. It wasn’t long but it was my first and only so rather than processing it I focused all my energy into school. But because I ignored my emotions for so long, now that school has been over for me I’m working through them now. I feel like I’m better than I’ve been in a while though it could be that I’ve been in the tunnel so long the light seems brighter than it usually is. This seems long and rambling and pointless but this video helped me put words to things I was struggling to express to myself so thank you.
For one i just came across your channel today. You’re real genuine my guy and your words are pure. I broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago and this video really told me what i gotta do. Thank you my guy✊🏽
The way my ex broke things off with me just recently destroyed me, she found someone better in about a week time. Things were tough but I still loved her deeply, now she doesn’t love me anymore and it feels like life is over. I know I gotta move forward but I’m stuck in constant state of denial, suffering, emptiness and pain. I can’t hate her despite what she did, I really love her.
I am so sorry to hear this! I hope you feel better soon, sending you lots of love ❤ everything will be fine
I have yet to experience this, but I really appreciate you preparing me for it. I have recently started to talk to someone, I hope it doesn't happen to me. Have a great day man.
I really needed this :( got out of a relationship few days ago don’t miss the relashionship but feel more lonely, I wanted to be friends but idk if he rlly wants to
Spoke to me deeply and eased my grief thank you so much ❤️❤️✨
I appreciate you. I just started my healing process but then a friend of mine came up with an Idea that i should get into another relationship but then i refused because I had a feeling that I need to heal on my own rather than getting into another relationship. Thanks so much for this message😊😊
I wasn't really in a relationship but I was talking to this girl from January to March and we decided to end things, but I wanted her back so I confessed I had feelings for her and we agreed to try better this time. For a good 2 weeks I was giving my all, but she was starting to fade away. Eventually she told me she can't do it. I still follow her on everything but she made sure to unfollow me on everything, even my friends. Her friends also unfollowed me, not that it matters, but I still follow all of them bc I'm not the type to shut someone out completely. So its been a month I think and I'm for some reason still not over her? You think I would be because we didn't even date, but I have friends who are in or getting into relationships and it's making me miss her more and more. I'll 1000% support my friends but I'm jealous and kinda wish they would shut up about how great their gf or bf is because it makes me stay up at night and wonder to myself what could have been with her...
I needed this and thank you.... wrote your quote on my whiteboard. "Forget the teacher, remember the lesson." Powerful! Keep this content coming.
That one girl is trying to do the same thing to me again. And you are helping me on the right path
I wish u all the succes in the world !! Ur an awesome human being and we are happy too hear ur thoughts and insight
Woah dawg I didn’t know you blew up like this. I remember watching your “Pornography ruined my life” vid and you ain’t have this many followers. Just wanted to say congrats on the growth and I appreciate your advice it has really helped me grow 😤 God Bless big dawg🙏
this prolly the best advice i've seen on youtube. thank you bro
i hope he gets to see this video too
“stay true to the journey, everything’s gonna be alright”
last Friday i prayed for my relationship to heal and become stronger than ever and the next day we broke up. i was angry at first but after letting tears out and getting blessings i realized my prayer was answered and it’s happened for a reason.
I hope you’ll understand that I’m trying to free myself from TH-cam and such. And actually use the advice within myself, aswell as the advice you gave me
I love how he said "forget the teacher remember the lesson"😂.
I got cheated on about 2 months ago but I’m doing better for my self.if anyone going through it trust me I know it’s hard but you got to remember they chose to do that so don’t get worked up on it life moves on you should to and yes it will be hard but if you work on yourself and don’t take life for granted you will be much happier
@@Tedros-zy6ch Glad it helped
I definitely needed to hear this today. Thank you 🙏
literally couldn't be more needed rn
You’re the best, Shimon.
Thank you for this video man.
thank you sm man, my gf broke up with me 2 months ago, and i can t get over her, but today i saw your video and im gonna change, at least i will try to forget her, but i think that s impossible
You're helping me fill my void bro
Watching this video to know what better perspective can I give to my friend (he can't just watch the vid because of language barrier)
Personally I’ve always been had a void not from a breakup just in general i was looking for love it’s not until I got with my girlfriend is when I learned that my void is my own to fill and I can’t have someone else’s love to fill mine and I’m still learning tbh I’m greatful for the person who I’m with hoping things last with her
love you man such wise words❤
I have watched this multiple times, thank you for the advice you give
I needed this.. thank you..
Aye bro this video was helpful thanks
it kind of just struck me out of nowhere but you were talking about going back to the things you like to do and being urself and it made me think.. what do i even like to do by myself? i work most of the time and on my days off i’d either be with my ex or with my friends.. crazy how you don’t even know urself sometimes
He just broke up with me. I’m so devastated. I thought we were it.
I'm so sorry hun.. It's gonna get better, and I know everyone says that. But trust me, it may seem like it's the worst rn. It's gonna get better
i’m not enough but i’ll get through
you are more than enough and you will get through
@@AskShimon peace and love my friend
THANK YOU VARY MUCH I NEEDED THIS
I ended my relationship with my gf almost a month ago. I feel I made a big mistake I was so stressed and clouded in my thoughts. She cared about me so much and loved me with every part of her. I don’t think I’ll ever find someone like her again. I just want to see her again. She says we need time. She added nothing but value to my life and I couldn’t see it.
This is what my boyfriend admitted to me before he left me last night, and now im here. I’m trying to understand from his side of things and why he did what he did when he knew that all I did was care and love him so deeply like no one did before. I don’t even know why im replying to this but it was a perfect example of what happened. If you don’t mind me asking, how are things now? I’m not sure how I can get through this.
@@meliakyal8233 it’s really tough. We haven’t talked in 4 weeks. I really wanted to try this again I really did but I don’t think she wants to cause I hurt her so bad. I wanted to say things in person but idk if I’ll ever get that now. She’s probably angry
thanks for the video, i needed this
Perfect timing!!
Happy Mother’s Day
these videos help so much thank you Shimon.
Appreciate you dawg 🫡💞♊️
2 weeks have passed now after 3 years together I'm blocked on everything like I never existed...
For everyone going through this, I want you to know your not alone and this feeling that you have of being sad and more won't last forever have hope that you will feel okay again and even better, I also want you to know that God loves you and there I salvation In the Lord Jesus Christ and peace and love, in God you wil find what true fulfillment and satisfaction is and I pray this for everyone that reads this and around the world
My Gf broke up with me 5 hours ago because she thought we should just be friends and she wanted to focus on herself. So stay strong, guys. Also, I'll update this if i get better 💀
I hope you are doing better
We tried a long distance relationship because he said he was fine w it even though I knew he isnt. I wanted it to work out so bad because i promised that it would be worth it to wait for us but he didnt. I asked to fix things, to talk deeply about it but he didnt. Man i wish he understood.
Thank you this is exactly what I needed to listen to ❤
no shot bro uploaded this the same day we broke up
So we all needed this talk🫠
Just separated with my wife after 13 years. I wasn’t a good man for a while. We both made a lot of mistakes. Got married at 19 and 20 without knowing what marriage really was. 13 years and 3 kids later we’re splitting. Hardest thing I’ve ever been through.
this is so real thank you
Love the advice brother thank you needed to hear this
Thank you Shimon!
only if she didn’t go on vacation bro. she would still love me.
crazy timing
Yo wassup bro we create similar videos man and im gonna be honest bro you still inspire me with things I go through bro💪🏽
much love brother and keep pushing forward 🧘🏾♂️I’m subscribed
Thanks for this!
Woah! I literally just ended it with a guy. I needed this! ❤😮
I hate that I fucked everything up I just wish she had been more empathetic to what I was going through at the time. I just hope she valued what we had together
Keep up the work.
Thank you man❤️
For everyone going through this, I want you to know your not alone and this feeling that you have of being sad and more won't last forever have hope that you will feel okay again and even better, I also want you to know that God loves you and there I salvation In the Lord Jesus Christ and peace and love, in God you wil find what true fulfillment and satisfaction is and I pray this for everyone that reads this and around the world and if you feel alone, I think that's okay I feel like we depend a lot on people for our comfort and time but really we should be focusing on God who can fill that emptiness in our heart with his love and joy, and even if you had no on to talk to for a while you won't feel lonely anymore, and God knows that it's bad to be lonely for a long time so he will give you friends that help and uplift you and you to them also
Nah bro I agree with that fr fr (for real for real)
GREAT VIDEO BRO 😎🔥✊
i know it’ll happen soon so it might as well be a sign, i’ll choose to acknowledge it
Does anyone know where to find the tree of life beaded necklace he wears??
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The thing is when we broke up I lost a lot of friends bc they were also friends with her even tho I wasn’t in the wrong it js hurts being lonely
Broke up with my wife of 15 years have 2 beautiful girls and now 8 months of loneliness later I’m still just so heartbroken and don’t wanna do anything! It’s hard to move on for me , my family moved on and it just hurts more and makes me not wanna do anything ! I need advice keep making this videos to help ppl like me …
i hope things get better for you! remember you are not alone, im right there with you
@@eelizabethrosas thank you it means a lot , isn’t it easier for women to move on with there life tho? Us men struggle more with things like this and it’s harder for us to move on ! I just want you to know that if you need someone to talk to I’m just one TH-cam msg away, let’s get over this pain together with a lil bit of gods help we’ll be good.
@@G.Ramirez86 to be quite honest, im not sure if women get over it easier. this is my first actual heartbreak, so im on this journey for my first time. also, thank you! i appreciate the kind gesture! my youtube msg is always open too! id suggest you finding a hobby that will distract your mind! i’ll be praying for the both of us too 🥺
@@eelizabethrosas well my ex moved on quick so I just feel like women do move on quicker. I’m sorry your dealing with something this painful cause I know it hurts, well maybe we can both help each other cause only god knows why he put our path together on this road we call life, and no need to thank me that’s just who I am. Okay I’ll keep msg’n you cause I need ppl to talk to I have no one lol. Yea ima start hitting the gym and go get some counseling, I will pray that you heal ASAP! 🙏
@@G.Ramirez86 i appreciate the kind words so much! i think its different for everyone when it comes to moving on. i guess we all just heal and figure it all out within time. and thats fine i dont mind! here in the comments lol? and i def think that would help you!
thanks bro you got me to get back up!!!
Bro I think my girl is cheating on me I feel it she s been distant alot going out without telling me and lying about it am I over thinking bro 😞😞😞😞
My ex and I had an on and off relationship and have broken up again about two weeks ago (1 week NC), and he has already moved on. I know it isn't a reflection of my self-worth, but it's pretty hard to not think that the relationship or I didn't matter to him.
Love the vids, I also love those paintings on your wall. Can I ask where you got them lol?
Needed this 😕
I just ruin a relationship with someone I really love and I knew was good for me but she had 3 kinds and they was very disrespectful so I ain’t know what to do weather to leave or stay but I left I felt like I did the right thing but again I hate being alone and I know it’s only so many good people god will bring your life but I feel like I should start focusing on myself now I’m at the lowest point in my life right now