This is so critical at getting girls and keeping relationships going. My last relationship failed simply because I failed her tests (my first relationship). Yesterday I had a girl over for netflix and chill as a second date and she was trying to convince me to see her sooner than I said I would since I was busy. She ended up giving me the cold shower and turned her back towards me for a solid 5min and I just let her, didn't say anything or tried being affectionate towards her and just kept watching the movie. She then suddenly turned back and said fine and cuddled up next to me and was even warmer than she had been before. I probably would have tried to get her out of her cold shoulder if it wasn't for these videos (like I would do in my failed relationship). Thanks Corey!
bear532 i got this girl who is clearly interested in me...we chatted for a while and I invited her to come to my apartment. But she said: "From where I come from, guys come to girls"...so I guess she's not willing to come to me! Or...she's only testing me to see if I'm just like the others before me! What should I text her?
Matteo Quintavalle that seems like it's something too important for her to give up on so don't bump heads, your job right now is to make everything flows smoothly. Once you sleep with her she'll be even more attached and then you can work on setting boundaries
When I was 16 and came across these videos I thought this guy was full of shit. But my god I'm turning 20 here in a couple months and it's scary how true this shit is. This whole video is golden.
So just say “women test men like a toddler tests its parents.” Most women are seeking a parental figure. They push their boundaries and they clamor for attention. I’ve made the mistake of thinking of past girlfriends as “partners”. Reasoning with a toddler is a joke. I’m holding out for an adult. I already have a child. Lately, if I get “boundary/daddy tested”, I lose interest pretty quickly. And I’m perfectly happy allocating my time and resources to my son.
Dude you have the perfect advice that set me back on track! I was very much like all your advice in my 20's and had tons of success. Then my dad and my step mom was always telling me i was arrogant and i was a woman hater. So i decided to let off a bit. Horrible mistake!!! Women became so damn disrespectful and ungrateful, but i wasn't mad at them, I was mad at myself for believing that I should be certain way with women. In this day n age a lot of women want to wear the pants and my step mom wears the pants so she wanted me to be submissive as well. My advice for all men is that you NEVER listen to another woman about how to get women. Use your MANstincts. Keep it up bro. You are a savior of men
I went to an amusement park with my GF and a few other friends. She doesn't like the big rides but I do, so I went on them. She said she was fine and I could go with them, but afterwards she became angry and accused me of not caring about her and leaving her by herself while I went to have fun blah blah blah. So she was testing me by saying it was fine to see if I would go or not. I told her I came to have fun as well as be with her and she was being very unfair to me, I even said if she wanted to control me like this that I would leave her right now. She changed her tune very quickly and we have been fine since :)
Like so many men here. The pain I caused myself by screwing up my relationship has brought me here to learn, improve & make myself a better man. I am studying everyday to become a 3% man.
Tests are ok as long as it's not disrespectful. If she's openly flirting with other guys in front of you, insulting you (especially in public), lying, etc. Those aren't tests. She's not fit to be a partner. Have one last romp with her and say goodbye.
Thank you for illuminating the complex of weakness, blindness, fearfulness and self centeredness that men must endure. May one be blessed to find a woman who simply understands their man and doesn’t have to “figure him out”.
Here is what you MUST know about the “S” test: 1. If you agree to it then you have already flunked it. The only “S” test you should agree to is the one you give HER. 2. All answers given MUST be no answer at all. For example, “Really?” or, “Ha, that’s funny” or even, “Well, that's ridiculous” or simply no answer at all. 3. Always SMILE at what ever they say to you no matter how ridiculous or rude they become. This tells them that WHAT they say to you has no bering - they have absolutely no AFFECT on you OR your mood. 4. If at any time they become unentertaining OR too rude, simply walk away. 5. If they flunk YOUR “S” test - do NOT give them another chance. Simply walk away. 6. NEVER lose control of the situation. Never allow them to believe that THEY are in control of you. Everything should be done at your behest with your expressed permission. Anything less and they will lose respect for you AND the relationship will be over. This does NOT mean that you have to be rude or a control freak. Always be nice - even when they are not nice to you. REMEMBER THIS FIRST AND FOREMOST: Never EVER put up with a woman's “S” - Not even her “S” tests. As soon as she finds out that you are willing to put up with her crap, that is all you can ever expect from her. She has to be aware that you are NEVER willing to be complacent about how she treats you. If she treats you poorly - the exit is close by. Use it. Absolutely nothing is worth the price of a female’s “S”. PERIOD. FINALLY: Women do not set the social “standards of etiquette” for our society - but they should abide by them. Moreover, it is inappropriate in today's environment for anyone to cull their own group as MORE SPECIAL or exceptional than any other. In short, they should abide by all of the SAME social rules of engagement as any other group. Never allow the females in any situation to collectively hold males to standards they themselves are unable to act in accordance to. Keep this at the forefront in all dealings with ANY group - especially females in specific and women's groups in general.
Coreys the man. Because of his videos i understand why women like my strong side. I used to try to be different because i was too much of an asshole. Now they see the side as strong. ofcourse i replaced the anger with playful confidence and results are amazing.
Yo, how did you manage to switch that anger to playful confidence? I have that problem with women, I am pretty strong and never let women or anyone fuck with me, but I do express anger and seriousness very often, which of course they don't like.
i always try to control my strong side and pt it down. Thats why i dont get the ladies. Typical nice guy here. Im trying to become the good guy woman want.
Never thought of testing anyone on purpose, but I think 1) Good eye contact and smile is important - sooner or later. Not once, not short. 2) Interesting conversations are important 3) Good manners are important (lady - gentleman) 4) common background is important 5) common goals for the future are important.
Corey thanks man. I am tired of making a fool of myself and blaming the women I date or try to date. It’s me. I’ve listened to your audible probably 15 times now. I don’t enjoy reading. ADD lol. I now understand the importance of the 10-15 times. I recommend more. This is great information and is allowing me to grow as a man. Not manipulative stuff just facts and internal searching and growing the fuck up. Again. Thanks Coach.
Lol I've cut a few females off over this so called "test" stuff. It's annoying. I ask a girl out, I don't put her through dumb tests. What happens, happens.
Every time I hear Corey talk all I keep hearing in his voice: “Calm and confident” It’s almost like it whispers in my ears even when I don’t watch his videos 🤣
As a matter of fact, if I find out a man took back or woman or chased a woman who broke up with him wanting to sleep with other men, I'd never be able to take him seriously again. They are too many single woman for that foolishness.
One of the best feelings in the world is when a woman you really care about is slowly distancing herself away from you and inching closer to another man's sphere of influence, and you slowly feel her slipping away and there's nothing you can do, nothing you can say to change it. Because whatever you do, she has lost respect for you a long time ago and you can't regain it back unless you disappear into space, train for 10,000 years by lifting 10,000 suns, and come back a new man, fresh from sun warfare, more powerful than aware, burn-averse and without form or gender, then she'll finally love you. Simple enough. Good luck, fellas.
this video reminds me of a running argument/joke I had with my last girlfriend. she used to say "what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine", and then I would proceed to argue the finer points of ownership with her for like ten to 20 minutes.
Why would he want her back after she said she wants to sleep with other men? Really? I hope he found someone else. Wanting her back just says you have low self esteem and she'll likely dump you again if you get back together.
I was tested on online dating by a girl. She would bring up other guys she was messaging while we were texting, I focused on the date alone. The only positive thing to do was play it James Bond. Downplayed the competition, told her she was already going out with the best. If you as a guy gets defensive or touchy in that situation, b*llshit as it is, you'll lose the girl. Unfortunately it's a game that must be played. If she flakes out and goes for another guy, part of the journey. Second date is a couple days from now.
Cory, I watch and listen to your stuff. It is very good. Wish I had of come across your material 20 years ago. Interesting to hear and American dude's take on women. I like the directness and wisdom. Thanks man...I apperciate it.....Vancouver BC
Give her a time and date to go out. If she doesn’t accept, don’t try giving her another day. Just say: we’ll talk another time. This shows her you have things to do. DO NOT make her plan anything. You do the planning. Just have her come
Corey I hope you'll read this. Your content is golden but my suggestion to you is to talk a little bit more about setting boundaries to women. Its ok to test us, we will put up with it but it would also be good to talk about setting boundaries and maintaining value in her and your own eyes. Set 'em and don't tolerate nothing above that.
I couldn't agree more but sadly the reality is the women know that they are in the ascendent nowadays. Society treats them better than men. The outcome is - they will leave if you put the boundaries on them, which is perfectly fine if the guy has a strong character. However most men these days don't have inner strength WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN.
On the dressing part, fellas sometimes a woman is truly wants her man to look better . My ex was very fashionable and ironically way more chicks were on me cause of her help lol. I still dress much better and will going forward and women are more attracted to that .
You could call me bitter, except that I think the same thing of men as well. Just my observation of people in general, not saying that women are morally inferior to men. So yeah, I'm bitter. Just not exclusively towards women.
+Woohoo I've "hung out" with many different crowds. People just generally seem to have a lack of self control or a sense of perception about how they act affects the people around them. The truth is that most humans, by nature, look inward at themselves, and not outward.
I think the vast majority of women are capable of love. The problem is that there are too many men and women who are not compatible and should have recognized that well before getting serious. 90% of people don't want to be alone and invest time in themselves. They'd rather live a lie with someone who isn't fit for them and then inevitably the whole thing fails. Just look at the high rate of divorce.
If your constantly calling her, texting her, spending all your time with her, & validating her, shes going to get bored. Women wanna feel their emotions. They wanna wonder about you.
what do you do when you've been in quarantine for weeks during the COVID-19? Can't make a date. Only possible thing is to text. That clearly gets boring fast.
I had a 3 month relationship with a woman who was smothering me.... First time I warned her to back off, she didn't take it well, start accusing me of hiding something, because I wanted some private space... 2nd time I warned her I said I don't wanna see u anymore... lol... well that was that!! probably dind't handle right, but it was just too much.
Hey coach Corey, I can easily detect every test my girl does. The problem is, there are constant tests and she never gives up, no matter how well I pass them. She is very insecure, and that might be the reason why she tests so much. But I am going nuts, this is too much. What can I do? Thank you.
Coach you're good at what you but, at 19:30 - 20:30 it just kills me how ppl get mad or annoyed with men for not understanding what it took you years to understand yourself. Most ppl are not teaching their sons or little brothers this stuff about women. Then they program young men to be nice guys & good little boys. Then when we don't understand females or female nature it means ... we're not taking responsibility? Just a bit of a rant but thanks for all that you do
I guess nature disigned women to filter men out as much as possible. So in this sense, the best genes are passed to the next generation. Remember, nature is always for the best interests of the survival of each species. So if women were equal as men, there wouldn't be an efficient and organic way of filtering out weak men.
fuck. I've been watching your videos for about a week now; soaking in everything you say. My very nature, my DNA, is all wrong. Years ago, I had no problems with women, today I'm cursed. I'm a guy who goes after, flirts, gives my full attention to a women I'm interested in, and it sours out. At first (watching your videos) I thought I'd have to literally "become" a different person (learn how to act) to get a fucking date. BUT, I'm taking what I need from your videos of what will work for me because I seriously believe I need to be myself, and I'm NOT going to change for no one, I can't act this shit out. It feels so right for me to give my full attention and go after a attractive female, and I can't believe I'm doing it all wrong, lol. What an eye opener, thanks for these videos, I will get my head on straight and start practicing :)
Was this a test? My female "friend" told me last weekend that I need to shave off my scruffy facial hair. We are just good friends, so why would she care, especially after she told three weeks earlier when I first grew the "scruff" she said it was cute. I told her I wouldn't shave for her or any other woman. Bad move? She responded "well then I won't shave my legs for you and grow arm pit hair. I had to shave my scruff off this week anyway due to an interview I had for a different job opportunity. I did bring up the shaving thing with her yesterday and she said "God, you responded so firmly, it's just that you have always been clean cut" Of course she also added she would shave her legs regardless...Dumb!
My husband doesn't want to take the lead in the relationship. He calls what we have a partnership. I don't know what to do with that. I want a husband and wife relationship. I want him to assume the husband role, but he thinks that's something Biblical and therefore refuses. I feel tension and conflict because I know if I flex my own power and he doesn't like something I do say or think, then he plays the alpha dog to correct me. He's a nice guy, but so what if he doesn't know how to be a careful husband? What do you suggest I do?
Hey Corey. I'm wondering, what do you do if you make a definite date with a girl and she doesn't show up and didn't text you to warn you? Do you just move on?
so I was teasing a girl and she was fine with it. I put my earphones up to her ear and she slapped me on chest kinda hard and said it hurt. she then acted like it was more serious then it was and said it really hurt and acted mad and annoyed like the next 20min and then the next day. was she testing me to see if id say sorry and stuff?
Hi Corey, at 18:40 you get into the 3rd guys situation which involves his gf breaking up with him and basically saying "i've decided i want to fuck other guys now but i still love you so lets stay in touch whilst i tell you all about it :) ". I'd be really interested in your personal opinion on that sort of behaviour from women and what it says about them as people. it's seems immature at best and greedy/entitled at worst. I know it was his behaviour that you pointed out that allowed it to happen and thats whats important for us to learn. But i'm really curious to know your personal opinion on women that act like that because you say it's not her fault but surely he's better off without her? Would all woman act like that if they thought they could get away with it? personally I would get her out of my life and i wouldn't ever let her back in once i saw that side to her! i think it's grossly entitled and disrespectful, I definitely wouldn't encourage him to try and get her back! Am I being too sensitive? Either way, great lesson, cheers! and i'm interested to other peoples opinions on here too.
Ok but if you also "want to have her all the time". Back when i was in love my girl would ask for my attention if I was doing something, and I always was willing to, because I could never get bored of spending time with her. She left me maybe because of that but whatwas I supposed to do?
Any kind of testing is toxic. In controlled testing the participants sign up and know that they are going into certain territory. A girlfriend has no right to test you at all. Not to mention, how you perform on her test does not actually indicate future behavior.
confused. 13:13 you seem to say getting coffee is bad 13:40 you seem to say coffee is good unless you simply mean you just dont hang out until the evening?
Yeah, the evening. Corey is all for the hanging out and hooking up in the evening as it can lead to sex. A coffee in the PM at a nice restaurant or bar has more potential than during the lunch hour at a local Starbucks :)
I’ve regretted every single time I took back a girl as booty call, after she went and messed with other dudes. For some reason the realization that at one point you were taking her seriously, but now you only want her for a good time, makes them a bit crazy. The few extra sessions of horizontal mambo are not worth the drama they unleash upon you once they feel rejected. Of course, once they went and f*cked other dudes only a simp would consider committing to them again
That would make sense but what if all that was happening by the time she answers you back, and then your interest has fallen in her (Like shes not as important now as she was before) then what would you say?
Our joyful masta figured out the way of the pearl. Masta, who taught you this powerful magick? We must locate the source of this infinite knowledge and squeeze it all out of him.
bro y want to clarify something, when you say always follow your emotions I THINK IT CONFUSES PEOPLE beacuse most things specially on social dynamis and femenine psychology are counter intuitive don't you think?
the best success stories are always from guys who read the book 10-15 times. You can disagree all you want but after having coached and taught tens of thousands of people from all over the world and every cultural background how to properly apply what I teach, I know what people are doing right and wrong and what they need to focus on instead.
Making a date with anyone while they are wasted is an example of the--I dont know the psych terms--reductive approach The CW takes in his public outreach about hetero relationships. While you are doing your manly independent things, call her for a hook-up? Of course, Cory isn't trying to be a marriage counsellor, and that is a good thing.
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This is so critical at getting girls and keeping relationships going. My last relationship failed simply because I failed her tests (my first relationship). Yesterday I had a girl over for netflix and chill as a second date and she was trying to convince me to see her sooner than I said I would since I was busy. She ended up giving me the cold shower and turned her back towards me for a solid 5min and I just let her, didn't say anything or tried being affectionate towards her and just kept watching the movie. She then suddenly turned back and said fine and cuddled up next to me and was even warmer than she had been before. I probably would have tried to get her out of her cold shoulder if it wasn't for these videos (like I would do in my failed relationship). Thanks Corey!
bear532 i got this girl who is clearly interested in me...we chatted for a while and I invited her to come to my apartment. But she said: "From where I come from, guys come to girls"...so I guess she's not willing to come to me! Or...she's only testing me to see if I'm just like the others before me! What should I text her?
Matteo Quintavalle that seems like it's something too important for her to give up on so don't bump heads, your job right now is to make everything flows smoothly. Once you sleep with her she'll be even more attached and then you can work on setting boundaries
When I was 16 and came across these videos I thought this guy was full of shit. But my god I'm turning 20 here in a couple months and it's scary how true this shit is. This whole video is golden.
Dextah I wish I started watching this guy. I started at 26
Ryan vtec I’m 15 😂😂it’s working good over here
dave pop I’m not the only 15 year old?😂
@@VoiceOfThe same here. amazing how many things i've been doing wrong.
You lucky little bastard this information is Magic it's gold
So just say “women test men like a toddler tests its parents.” Most women are seeking a parental figure. They push their boundaries and they clamor for attention. I’ve made the mistake of thinking of past girlfriends as “partners”. Reasoning with a toddler is a joke. I’m holding out for an adult. I already have a child. Lately, if I get “boundary/daddy tested”, I lose interest pretty quickly. And I’m perfectly happy allocating my time and resources to my son.
Dude you have the perfect advice that set me back on track! I was very much like all your advice in my 20's and had tons of success. Then my dad and my step mom was always telling me i was arrogant and i was a woman hater. So i decided to let off a bit. Horrible mistake!!! Women became so damn disrespectful and ungrateful, but i wasn't mad at them, I was mad at myself for believing that I should be certain way with women. In this day n age a lot of women want to wear the pants and my step mom wears the pants so she wanted me to be submissive as well. My advice for all men is that you NEVER listen to another woman about how to get women. Use your MANstincts. Keep it up bro. You are a savior of men
Michael Goins Would you ask a fish how to fish?
Lol exactly
I went to an amusement park with my GF and a few other friends. She doesn't like the big rides but I do, so I went on them. She said she was fine and I could go with them, but afterwards she became angry and accused me of not caring about her and leaving her by herself while I went to have fun blah blah blah. So she was testing me by saying it was fine to see if I would go or not. I told her I came to have fun as well as be with her and she was being very unfair to me, I even said if she wanted to control me like this that I would leave her right now. She changed her tune very quickly and we have been fine since :)
Alpha move
I would have thrown her a quid to go on the tea cups
Like so many men here. The pain I caused myself by screwing up my relationship has brought me here to learn, improve & make myself a better man. I am studying everyday to become a 3% man.
Tests are ok as long as it's not disrespectful. If she's openly flirting with other guys in front of you, insulting you (especially in public), lying, etc. Those aren't tests. She's not fit to be a partner. Have one last romp with her and say goodbye.
Be sure you get your last romp!
Right on. Fuck her and leave. Especially after lies and flirting with men.
Thank you for illuminating the complex of weakness, blindness, fearfulness and self centeredness that men must endure. May one be blessed to find a woman who simply understands their man and doesn’t have to “figure him out”.
Now I know that 90% of arguments are started by women...because guys in general don't get her tests.
Amen brother ...
this is true. Girls tend to get bitchy when there man isnt being the man they thought he was.
And 80% of divorces lol.
Here is what you MUST know about the “S” test:
1. If you agree to it then you have already flunked it. The only “S” test you should agree to is the one you give HER.
2. All answers given MUST be no answer at all. For example, “Really?” or, “Ha, that’s funny” or even, “Well, that's ridiculous” or simply no answer at all.
3. Always SMILE at what ever they say to you no matter how ridiculous or rude they become. This tells them that WHAT they say to you has no bering - they have absolutely no AFFECT on you OR your mood.
4. If at any time they become unentertaining OR too rude, simply walk away.
5. If they flunk YOUR “S” test - do NOT give them another chance. Simply walk away.
6. NEVER lose control of the situation. Never allow them to believe that THEY are in control of you. Everything should be done at your behest with your expressed permission. Anything less and they will lose respect for you AND the relationship will be over. This does NOT mean that you have to be rude or a control freak. Always be nice - even when they are not nice to you.
REMEMBER THIS FIRST AND FOREMOST:
Never EVER put up with a woman's “S” - Not even her “S” tests. As soon as she finds out that you are willing to put up with her crap, that is all you can ever expect from her. She has to be aware that you are NEVER willing to be complacent about how she treats you. If she treats you poorly - the exit is close by. Use it. Absolutely nothing is worth the price of a female’s “S”. PERIOD.
FINALLY: Women do not set the social “standards of etiquette” for our society - but they should abide by them. Moreover, it is inappropriate in today's environment for anyone to cull their own group as MORE SPECIAL or exceptional than any other. In short, they should abide by all of the SAME social rules of engagement as any other group. Never allow the females in any situation to collectively hold males to standards they themselves are unable to act in accordance to. Keep this at the forefront in all dealings with ANY group - especially females in specific and women's groups in general.
Kilroy best comment 2018
Kudos man. You are a guy who gets it.
man if I got a dollar for every time he said Hang out Have Fun Hook Up... I could pay for my college rn.
That’s the main essence of his book
Repitition is the mother of skill.
@@ronchua3031 oh I know. I'm not disagreeing or complaining just pointing it out 😂
Where tf you go to college?
If only it was that easy.... 😐
Coreys the man. Because of his videos i understand why women like my strong side. I used to try to be different because i was too much of an asshole. Now they see the side as strong. ofcourse i replaced the anger with playful confidence and results are amazing.
Yo, how did you manage to switch that anger to playful confidence? I have that problem with women, I am pretty strong and never let women or anyone fuck with me, but I do express anger and seriousness very often, which of course they don't like.
i always try to control my strong side and pt it down. Thats why i dont get the ladies. Typical nice guy here. Im trying to become the good guy woman want.
Chris Kardiac ive been supresing my strong big mistake. I blame school movies tv shows
Never thought of testing anyone on purpose, but I think 1) Good eye contact and smile is important - sooner or later. Not once, not short. 2) Interesting conversations are important 3) Good manners are important (lady - gentleman) 4) common background is important 5) common goals for the future are important.
Sonya Erxn Common background? Who cares.
Corey thanks man. I am tired of making a fool of myself and blaming the women I date or try to date. It’s me. I’ve listened to your audible probably 15 times now. I don’t enjoy reading. ADD lol. I now understand the importance of the 10-15 times. I recommend more. This is great information and is allowing me to grow as a man. Not manipulative stuff just facts and internal searching and growing the fuck up. Again. Thanks Coach.
Lol I've cut a few females off over this so called "test" stuff. It's annoying. I ask a girl out, I don't put her through dumb tests. What happens, happens.
Every time I hear Corey talk all I keep hearing in his voice:
“Calm and confident”
It’s almost like it whispers in my ears even when I don’t watch his videos 🤣
As a matter of fact, if I find out a man took back or woman or chased a woman who broke up with him wanting to sleep with other men, I'd never be able to take him seriously again. They are too many single woman for that foolishness.
We don't make mistakes..Just happy little accidents --- The late Bob Ross (The Joy Of Painting Host)
One of the best feelings in the world is when a woman you really care about is slowly distancing herself away from you and inching closer to another man's sphere of influence, and you slowly feel her slipping away and there's nothing you can do, nothing you can say to change it. Because whatever you do, she has lost respect for you a long time ago and you can't regain it back unless you disappear into space, train for 10,000 years by lifting 10,000 suns, and come back a new man, fresh from sun warfare, more powerful than aware, burn-averse and without form or gender, then she'll finally love you. Simple enough. Good luck, fellas.
this video reminds me of a running argument/joke I had with my last girlfriend. she used to say "what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine", and then I would proceed to argue the finer points of ownership with her for like ten to 20 minutes.
"What women want is for you to do what the fuck you want"
YES! YES! HE UNDERSTANDS!!!!!!!! lol
+The Esco And yet they do exactly the opposite.
Why would he want her back after she said she wants to sleep with other men? Really? I hope he found someone else. Wanting her back just says you have low self esteem and she'll likely dump you again if you get back together.
I was tested on online dating by a girl. She would bring up other guys she was messaging while we were texting, I focused on the date alone. The only positive thing to do was play it James Bond. Downplayed the competition, told her she was already going out with the best. If you as a guy gets defensive or touchy in that situation, b*llshit as it is, you'll lose the girl. Unfortunately it's a game that must be played.
If she flakes out and goes for another guy, part of the journey. Second date is a couple days from now.
Really needed to hear this man. I'm in a power struggle. No more Mr. Nice guy, no more b.s.
Cory, I watch and listen to your stuff. It is very good. Wish I had of come across your material 20 years ago. Interesting to hear and American dude's take on women. I like the directness and wisdom. Thanks man...I apperciate it.....Vancouver BC
Give her a time and date to go out. If she doesn’t accept, don’t try giving her another day. Just say: we’ll talk another time.
This shows her you have things to do. DO NOT make her plan anything. You do the planning. Just have her come
Mind = Blown
This makes so much sense.
Boiled down and condensed. Be a fucking man.
I like that women test. They're trying to make us men better than we otherwise would be.
i was pissed at the testing in the beginning. but now know i understand it and yes it will make me a better man.
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@@beardedbutcher5333 hahahaha thanks for the laugh . Good day mate
@Mr I RIGHT ON,, try having BOTH PARENTS being Narcissist..
Your wisdom is much appreciated
Corey I hope you'll read this. Your content is golden but my suggestion to you is to talk a little bit more about setting boundaries to women. Its ok to test us, we will put up with it but it would also be good to talk about setting boundaries and maintaining value in her and your own eyes. Set 'em and don't tolerate nothing above that.
I couldn't agree more but sadly the reality is the women know that they are in the ascendent nowadays. Society treats them better than men. The outcome is - they will leave if you put the boundaries on them, which is perfectly fine if the guy has a strong character. However most men these days don't have inner strength WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN.
On the dressing part, fellas sometimes a woman is truly wants her man to look better . My ex was very fashionable and ironically way more chicks were on me cause of her help lol. I still dress much better and will going forward and women are more attracted to that .
You can tell that man read that book 10 to 15 times don't get rid of them birds man .
know what i like more than materialistic things? KNOWLEDGE
90% of these situations aren't examples of women being in love because 90% of women don't seem to be capable of love.
Christian H Bitter much.
You could call me bitter, except that I think the same thing of men as well. Just my observation of people in general, not saying that women are morally inferior to men. So yeah, I'm bitter. Just not exclusively towards women.
+Woohoo I've "hung out" with many different crowds. People just generally seem to have a lack of self control or a sense of perception about how they act affects the people around them. The truth is that most humans, by nature, look inward at themselves, and not outward.
I think the vast majority of women are capable of love. The problem is that there are too many men and women who are not compatible and should have recognized that well before getting serious. 90% of people don't want to be alone and invest time in themselves. They'd rather live a lie with someone who isn't fit for them and then inevitably the whole thing fails. Just look at the high rate of divorce.
Yup they just want us for protection and providing the bacon.
If your constantly calling her, texting her, spending all your time with her, & validating her, shes going to get bored. Women wanna feel their emotions. They wanna wonder about you.
I felt threatened by the challenges and hurt of life. So I'm making some heavy fucking changes. Push your limits, look up. Get up. And NEVER give up.
what do you do when you've been in quarantine for weeks during the COVID-19? Can't make a date. Only possible thing is to text. That clearly gets boring fast.
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Bro!!! The Pillsbury Doughboy part killed me. That was hilarious. I was anticipating, hoping you’d do the sound and you delivered. 😂 Made my day.
This guys really knows what he taking about
26:40 🤣😆 I almost choked!
Gotta love Coach Cory.
Hey Corey, reading your book, going at it a little slow But am on it.
Super 1 keep going bro. 👌🏽. Get the audio book as well.
I had a 3 month relationship with a woman who was smothering me.... First time I warned her to back off, she didn't take it well, start accusing me of hiding something, because I wanted some private space... 2nd time I warned her I said I don't wanna see u anymore... lol... well that was that!! probably dind't handle right, but it was just too much.
He said come over here and give me some sugar before I go. 😂😂😂
What happens when she calls you closed minded, for standing up for your beliefs?
coach you re totally right im a woman and i can t agree more with you!
I can sum it up in just one sentence. Be yourself.
My ex used to complain that I never called her on the phone. I started to do it and shortly after she broke it off. Never back down or get punished.
what is this book that the coach talks about. can someone please tell me the title of the book so i would buy it. thanks
Hey coach Corey, I can easily detect every test my girl does. The problem is, there are constant tests and she never gives up, no matter how well I pass them. She is very insecure, and that might be the reason why she tests so much. But I am going nuts, this is too much. What can I do? Thank you.
Justin McNab find a secure woman.
"Pillsbury Doughboy" LOL
:D:D:D
"Pillsbury Doe Boy." LOL !
Ughh those tests -.- no wonder I'm still single when I get easily annoyed by those
Coach you're good at what you but, at 19:30 - 20:30 it just kills me how ppl get mad or annoyed with men for not understanding what it took you years to understand yourself. Most ppl are not teaching their sons or little brothers this stuff about women. Then they program young men to be nice guys & good little boys. Then when we don't understand females or female nature it means ... we're not taking responsibility?
Just a bit of a rant but thanks for all that you do
I wish nature made it more simple . Why not wire women as logical based creatures? Dayumn.
because then even a potato would be able to "logic" its way into her pants
LOL
I guess nature disigned women to filter men out as much as possible. So in this sense, the best genes are passed to the next generation. Remember, nature is always for the best interests of the survival of each species. So if women were equal as men, there wouldn't be an efficient and organic way of filtering out weak men.
fuck. I've been watching your videos for about a week now; soaking in everything you say. My very nature, my DNA, is all wrong. Years ago, I had no problems with women, today I'm cursed. I'm a guy who goes after, flirts, gives my full attention to a women I'm interested in, and it sours out. At first (watching your videos) I thought I'd have to literally "become" a different person (learn how to act) to get a fucking date. BUT, I'm taking what I need from your videos of what will work for me because I seriously believe I need to be myself, and I'm NOT going to change for no one, I can't act this shit out. It feels so right for me to give my full attention and go after a attractive female, and I can't believe I'm doing it all wrong, lol. What an eye opener, thanks for these videos, I will get my head on straight and start practicing :)
Was this a test? My female "friend" told me last weekend that I need to shave off my scruffy facial hair. We are just good friends, so why would she care, especially after she told three weeks earlier when I first grew the "scruff" she said it was cute. I told her I wouldn't shave for her or any other woman. Bad move? She responded "well then I won't shave my legs for you and grow arm pit hair.
I had to shave my scruff off this week anyway due to an interview I had for a different job opportunity. I did bring up the shaving thing with her yesterday and she said "God, you responded so firmly, it's just that you have always been clean cut" Of course she also added she would shave her legs regardless...Dumb!
1: who fuckin cares what she thinks. Thats the test. Stop giving a shit and do what you want.
2: you dont owe anyone an explanation.
you should have told her you can shave her hair if she wants while you maintain eye contact with a smile on your face.
A man that shaves his beard for a woman deserves neither
22:26 LMAO I am dying of laughter lolol
Yeah best coach on youtube!, these creatures give you tests never being honest with you!
Maybe he should just invite her once in awhile to go with him to care for his birds. Get her involved. I do agree he should not give up the birds.
What about when they ask you if you're sure you want to take them some where?
Setting up a date really quick on social apps. Won't that come around as being needy?
Corey can you do one on a long distance but not very long distance relationship and how that might come about and complete itself
P.S. fuck Bill Gates and the NWO
My husband doesn't want to take the lead in the relationship. He calls what we have a partnership. I don't know what to do with that. I want a husband and wife relationship. I want him to assume the husband role, but he thinks that's something Biblical and therefore refuses. I feel tension and conflict because I know if I flex my own power and he doesn't like something I do say or think, then he plays the alpha dog to correct me. He's a nice guy, but so what if he doesn't know how to be a careful husband?
What do you suggest I do?
@RunningOnEmpty she said he doesn't want to be biblical tho?
@RunningOnEmpty sounds like her man is/was actively against traditional roles.
Hey Corey. I'm wondering, what do you do if you make a definite date with a girl and she doesn't show up and didn't text you to warn you? Do you just move on?
Yeah don't text her ever
"she loves u so much, that she wants to go a F other guys" lol Corey
so I was teasing a girl and she was fine with it. I put my earphones up to her ear and she slapped me on chest kinda hard and said it hurt. she then acted like it was more serious then it was and said it really hurt and acted mad and annoyed like the next 20min and then the next day. was she testing me to see if id say sorry and stuff?
3:25 and 4:00 what to say when a woman tests you
Oh man I hate being smothered. Makes me feel suffocated and trapped. PS 17:09 😂👍
On the second email, how did she test him at all? I don’t see the actually test for strength
Love your vids. Wish I knew a man like you
Hi Corey, at 18:40 you get into the 3rd guys situation which involves his gf breaking up with him and basically saying "i've decided i want to fuck other guys now but i still love you so lets stay in touch whilst i tell you all about it :) ". I'd be really interested in your personal opinion on that sort of behaviour from women and what it says about them as people. it's seems immature at best and greedy/entitled at worst. I know it was his behaviour that you pointed out that allowed it to happen and thats whats important for us to learn. But i'm really curious to know your personal opinion on women that act like that because you say it's not her fault but surely he's better off without her? Would all woman act like that if they thought they could get away with it? personally I would get her out of my life and i wouldn't ever let her back in once i saw that side to her! i think it's grossly entitled and disrespectful, I definitely wouldn't encourage him to try and get her back! Am I being too sensitive? Either way, great lesson, cheers! and i'm interested to other peoples opinions on here too.
She belongs to the streets!
Great audio
That first woman sounds like a straight-up codependent. It's not okay.
I called this girl cute and she said “how”, any tips on how to respond to that?
Girls say cute say sexy.
A woman’s tests are not really harmless nor playful for if you consistently fail them she will up and leave you.
Exactly...
It’s funny how they know the fundamentals and still exhibit the same needy behavior.
Pillsbury Doughball. That's funny. 😂
God dang. They whine about you not being vulnerable and when you are you're weak...wtf?
great information. thanku
Starbucks!!! seems to be the best place for a first date
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Ok but if you also "want to have her all the time". Back when i was in love my girl would ask for my attention if I was doing something, and I always was willing to, because I could never get bored of spending time with her. She left me maybe because of that but whatwas I supposed to do?
Hi Corey, how do women react when they find find out that you teach this stuff ? :)
i meant his girlfriends
He's an Alpha male. they don't care. The world has a huge shortage of the breed and women crave it.
So true
amazing words
Any kind of testing is toxic. In controlled testing the participants sign up and know that they are going into certain territory. A girlfriend has no right to test you at all. Not to mention, how you perform on her test does not actually indicate future behavior.
confused.
13:13 you seem to say getting coffee is bad
13:40 you seem to say coffee is good
unless you simply mean you just dont hang out until the evening?
Yeah, the evening. Corey is all for the hanging out and hooking up in the evening as it can lead to sex. A coffee in the PM at a nice restaurant or bar has more potential than during the lunch hour at a local Starbucks :)
I wish I could read in English and I will buy your book
8:19 Amen!!
thanks a lot !!
Good videos.
I’ve regretted every single time I took back a girl as booty call, after she went and messed with other dudes. For some reason the realization that at one point you were taking her seriously, but now you only want her for a good time, makes them a bit crazy.
The few extra sessions of horizontal mambo are not worth the drama they unleash upon you once they feel rejected. Of course, once they went and f*cked other dudes only a simp would consider committing to them again
That would make sense but what if all that was happening by the time she answers you back, and then your interest has fallen in her (Like shes not as important now as she was before) then what would you say?
Cory is the best
your facial expression at 13:16 is fucking priceless
This is a good one, glad I found this
Our joyful masta figured out the way of the pearl. Masta, who taught you this powerful magick? We must locate the source of this infinite knowledge and squeeze it all out of him.
Omg, ive had three girls ask me to shave my chest hair....helll no!
bro y want to clarify something, when you say always follow your emotions I THINK IT CONFUSES PEOPLE beacuse most things specially on social dynamis and femenine psychology are counter intuitive don't you think?
The holy people who are confused are those who do not read the book and learn the fundamentals first.
I do not agree but ok. Thanks for the advice and time to reply.
only not holy
people cherry picking info get confused because they are looking for shortcuts and not willing to spend the time to master the fundamentals
the best success stories are always from guys who read the book 10-15 times. You can disagree all you want but after having coached and taught tens of thousands of people from all over the world and every cultural background how to properly apply what I teach, I know what people are doing right and wrong and what they need to focus on instead.
Making a date with anyone while they are wasted is an example of the--I dont know the psych terms--reductive approach The CW takes in his public outreach about hetero relationships. While you are doing your manly independent things, call her for a hook-up? Of course, Cory isn't trying to be a marriage counsellor, and that is a good thing.