It's not siku za Mama na baba accepting the girl, over here the man doth leave the father and mother and cleave to his wife. So Genesis, so beautiful new beginnings!
I don't want to look like I'm attacking someone, after watching green calabash for some time, there's a lot of cues that we miss in front of the cameras and somehow we assume our life should take that path without accepting our realities and who we are...jina 'toxic and narcissistic' have been misused for failure of taking responsibility and miscommunication...jichunguzeni sana mtapata majibu because the white elephant is so clear for you to see.
If an ex comes back claims they changed and all the jest Thing is people grow in different directions,positive or otherwise Sometimes this growth involves our emotions evolving away from the people we once felt connected to .Even loosing that sense of being physically attracted to them It’s not black and white The shades of grey makes it not as easy as Mike is trying to paint it.
Aki whenever I listen to you two I get this picture of “ two perfect people who had very toxic exs and now they have got good partner like them so fit for each other” doesn’t sound like you played any role in your failed past relationships. Maybe it’s just how I hear it and I am wrong.
So what you want to say this is truma bonding, not a serious relationship,I have seen many celebrities doing it,it's end in tears because you have to be reminded about your ex,if it's serious relationship you don't have to bring your ex to new relationship.
It's actually a red flag when you have only bad things to say about your partner and don't take any responsibility for the downfall and go on to romanticize the current relationship you are in, it gives unwillingness to take accountability because in as much as you can deny it, everyone has trauma and plays a part in breaking down of their relationship, that's why it would come off like they have the perfect relationship and their exs were the problem, remember take everything you consume on the internet with a pinch of salt and don't get too invested in a relationship you only see parts of. I'm not saying I know how their relationship is or their past ones but also look out for red flags in how they communicate about their exs
@@periskiara2213 if you have trauma why can't you deal with it without harming others in your process of healing? , that why you see many relationship breaking because of trauma bonding.
Wow i love love the talk and the chemistry you 2 have😊😊 shiko i used to be your biggest fan when you were in green calabash now finally you are here i will still be your greatest fan😊❤❤❤❤
Weeeeh hapo kwa exes I understand you both. I made some mistakes in the past year 🤣You just learn to take the L. Kuna tabia we can't accept at our big age
This is not a serious relationship, but truma bonding. Both have not heal from previous relationship,if they have they should not talk about exes,or past,it will end in tears I have seen many celebrities doing it.
You do way better for the children when they witness conflict between the two of you and how you resolve it. Transforming your demeanor because children need to see you happy is not the flex people think it is.
My take is that yes she was your wife but nevertheless people change for themselves and not for others, I don't know the extent of separation but I think she left everything under you and waited and persevered the time you would change. However, I love the clarity and honesty you have in the show and the fact that you live to tell your story in a positive way.
Yes it is. Passive aggressive mad abuse. My ex husband used to do the same thing Shiko does to Mike - ignoring the adult but loving on the kids its toxic abusive behavior
@@liamthegamerofficial5138 I found it funny myself ...different couples have different levels of jokes ...that's theirs it wasn't for you to say whether it was nice or not 🌚
Your exes musta' been very toxic and you guys are just victims of toxic people🤣🤣🤣🤣 Id love to hear an episode where you talk about the mistakes you made in your past relationships.....
Hello I was scrolling through the app and I got a psychic divination about you“it appears you are still in love with someone whose access is limited, whom you think doesn’t love you back,am I correct?
Hey guys, a big fan ❤. Quick suggetsion....if you guys switched the seats to have a whitish or greyish color ...that would look lovely...blended in well with the wall
Hello I was scrolling through the app and I got a psychic divination about you“it appears you are still in love with someone whose access is limited, whom you think doesn’t love you back,am I correct?
Always blaming exes like they are the only ones that need to reform. How about you reform? Can't be picking up baby daddies every few years talking about they need some reforming to do. First reform yourself.
@@kenyamyhomemycountry9155 Ain’t Rama. Rama can speak for himself. We just call out a toxic woman when we see one. We support Rama 100% and you won’t scare us from doing so. We don’t believe that their relationship ended coz of Rama. Shiko was 50% of the problem.
I agree, Her track record is telling. She doesn't seem like someone who can stay single. Cause whats even the point of this new relationship so quick? Why not focus on your three children and rest and 'reform' yourself. This is irresponsible decision making on her part. Introducing different men to LIVE with your kids 🤦🏾♀️
@@lilywhite8029 patterns don't lie and wanakaa kama wanawalk on eggshells with each other, man's legs are shaking throughout..Shiku body language doesn't look like in her previous relationship where her eyes would speak of love
@@nq4733 I guess they're settling in plus I'm sure they are way more careful more traumatized from their previous relationships. And also the blended family thing. That's alot on their shoulders.
10:50 Bro. In that example, She cheated. Guess what, the bible says in the case of infidelity, you have the power to divorce her and toss her to the streets. I disagree with giving ex-wives advantages.
Nice one, however our behaviour may explain our traumas but our traumas shouldn't be an excuse for bad behaviour like hurting/polluting the environment/other people as stated in the analogy! We willingly choose to behave
U guys opened a channel to talk about ur exes😂😂😂..na mkikosana? ....what will be ur new channels with ur new persons?😢😢😅😅..Grow up guys..& keep ur relationships private...free advice...
Hello I was scrolling through the app and I got a psychic divination about you“it appears you are still in love with someone whose access is limited, whom you think doesn’t love you back,am I correct?
Shiko is really giving grown and sexy vibes. Her make up, her fit, her dumure jewellery. Mike be giving homeless 😂 lolz Shiko you need to style your manz
No she need to do nothing 😂 absolutely nothing let him look homeless she continue to look cute because why are u changing a man kwani he don't see he need a wardrobe make up 🫢don't change a man 😜
I've heard shiko severally say,how she had to call her family at the middle of the night to be evacuated and how scared she was for her life.; What are we supposed to assume/ think?. That RAMA was A monster..maybe he needs to come out and clear his name🤷
The audio chemistry is more top notch than that of the video
Yea, the video showed us what we were all eager to see. Sioni the connection kapsaa
No difference, they just have to keep facing the camera since there is video recording
Mike was meant for the airwaves... loved his intro today...
Ok now is this shiko from green calabash. Haiya she look young, happy and glowing. Kweli there is light at the end of the tunnel. God bless
Shilo we missed you, loved your earlier shows
I noticed that too..she's so beautiful and looking very happy than the days she was moving to Kilifi in calabash❤
It's not siku za Mama na baba accepting the girl, over here the man doth leave the father and mother and cleave to his wife. So Genesis, so beautiful new beginnings!
I don't want to look like I'm attacking someone, after watching green calabash for some time, there's a lot of cues that we miss in front of the cameras and somehow we assume our life should take that path without accepting our realities and who we are...jina 'toxic and narcissistic' have been misused for failure of taking responsibility and miscommunication...jichunguzeni sana mtapata majibu because the white elephant is so clear for you to see.
If an ex comes back claims they changed and all the jest
Thing is people grow in different directions,positive or otherwise
Sometimes this growth involves our emotions evolving away from the people we once felt connected to .Even loosing that sense of being physically attracted to them
It’s not black and white
The shades of grey makes it not as easy as Mike is trying to paint it.
Aki whenever I listen to you two I get this picture of “ two perfect people who had very toxic exs and now they have got good partner like them so fit for each other” doesn’t sound like you played any role in your failed past relationships. Maybe it’s just how I hear it and I am wrong.
So what you want to say this is truma bonding, not a serious relationship,I have seen many celebrities doing it,it's end in tears because you have to be reminded about your ex,if it's serious relationship you don't have to bring your ex to new relationship.
I echo your sentiments 💯.
It's actually a red flag when you have only bad things to say about your partner and don't take any responsibility for the downfall and go on to romanticize the current relationship you are in, it gives unwillingness to take accountability because in as much as you can deny it, everyone has trauma and plays a part in breaking down of their relationship, that's why it would come off like they have the perfect relationship and their exs were the problem, remember take everything you consume on the internet with a pinch of salt and don't get too invested in a relationship you only see parts of. I'm not saying I know how their relationship is or their past ones but also look out for red flags in how they communicate about their exs
@@periskiara2213 if you have trauma why can't you deal with it without harming others in your process of healing? , that why you see many relationship breaking because of trauma bonding.
oh so am not alone in this line of thought
I honestly wish them well, love looks good on them.
My peeps aki I love this ..I use to listen to shiku akiwa gree calabash and here I am again....mko poa n fits each other
I just love you guys, i could listen to ya'all all day. Love the love and friendship that you two have, its so evident and easy 🤗♥️
As a seeker of authenticity am hooked,am enjoying your podcast
Yo! At this point I genuinely think my contribution to this channel's progress will always be a "Y'all look so cyut together" because waaau! 😍
Ciku is glowing❤❤❤love to see it…You guys look really good together…
Wow i love love the talk and the chemistry you 2 have😊😊 shiko i used to be your biggest fan when you were in green calabash now finally you are here i will still be your greatest fan😊❤❤❤❤
Haiya....this is Mike....i listen to u wen going home from work...in the matatu za 36 buru...aaraarraaaaa😊
Love you guys and the content😍🔥
Weeeeh hapo kwa exes I understand you both. I made some mistakes in the past year 🤣You just learn to take the L. Kuna tabia we can't accept at our big age
This is not a serious relationship, but truma bonding. Both have not heal from previous relationship,if they have they should not talk about exes,or past,it will end in tears I have seen many celebrities doing it.
You do way better for the children when they witness conflict between the two of you and how you resolve it. Transforming your demeanor because children need to see you happy is not the flex people think it is.
Lovely conversation...Optics angle is a big one!
Mike Mondo has a voice! Ciku looking pretty. nice couple
My take is that yes she was your wife but nevertheless people change for themselves and not for others, I don't know the extent of separation but I think she left everything under you and waited and persevered the time you would change. However, I love the clarity and honesty you have in the show and the fact that you live to tell your story in a positive way.
Silent treatment is abuse
Yes it is. Passive aggressive mad abuse. My ex husband used to do the same thing Shiko does to Mike - ignoring the adult but loving on the kids its toxic abusive behavior
People who give silent treatment are Individuals with abusive tendencies
Mike mundu alioa damme ameokoka. Waoh
Facebeat before he wakes up was so raw 😂😂😂😂 shiko kwani unakaanga aje ukiamka ??😂😂😂we need evidence ❤❤❤.
That comment is meeeh. Not nice at all
@@liamthegamerofficial5138 I found it funny myself
...different couples have different levels of jokes ...that's theirs it wasn't for you to say whether it was nice or not 🌚
😅😅😅😅
@25:23 Shiko looking and lowkey admiring the self-proclaimed foolishness of her man🥴
Your exes musta' been very toxic and you guys are just victims of toxic people🤣🤣🤣🤣 Id love to hear an episode where you talk about the mistakes you made in your past relationships.....
Second chances are craaaapy .... never ever ever again 😏😏😏😏
Manifesting such a healthy relationship
I used to manifest Shiko's past relationship so...😂
@@carol76798 lol acha kushout aki
Hello I was scrolling through the app and I got a psychic divination about you“it appears you are still in love with someone whose access is limited, whom you think doesn’t love you back,am I correct?
@@JosephEbiagbor Wueh🤣🤦🏾
@@JosephEbiagbor heeeeh😂😂
Mike...... God created you for a reason
I love this podcast.Learning a lot...in an interesting class.
No. I would not take them back
Hey guys, a big fan ❤. Quick suggetsion....if you guys switched the seats to have a whitish or greyish color ...that would look lovely...blended in well with the wall
Forgiveness and forebearance.
Hello I was scrolling through the app and I got a psychic divination about you“it appears you are still in love with someone whose access is limited, whom you think doesn’t love you back,am I correct?
Congratulations
Always blaming exes like they are the only ones that need to reform. How about you reform? Can't be picking up baby daddies every few years talking about they need some reforming to do. First reform yourself.
Hey Rama, thought we advised you not to listen to this podcast, it ain’t healthy for you..
@@kenyamyhomemycountry9155😅😅😅
@@kenyamyhomemycountry9155 Ain’t Rama. Rama can speak for himself. We just call out a toxic woman when we see one. We support Rama 100% and you won’t scare us from doing so. We don’t believe that their relationship ended coz of Rama. Shiko was 50% of the problem.
😂😂😂😂😂😂@@kenyamyhomemycountry9155
I agree, Her track record is telling. She doesn't seem like someone who can stay single. Cause whats even the point of this new relationship so quick? Why not focus on your three children and rest and 'reform' yourself. This is irresponsible decision making on her part. Introducing different men to LIVE with your kids 🤦🏾♀️
😅😅😅never I don't read books backwards ✌️
♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
Thanks your exs, now that they gave you ar eason to open a podcast
Ati hedgehogs! 😂😂😂
Stoping using bible titles ,this is blasphemy!
Kijana, stop using kiswahili and English names! Are you even a farmer?!
This is not church, it's a podcast😮
Weeh hii sioni ikienda mbali but I wish you well
This is deep. Why would you say that 😢
@@lilywhite8029 patterns don't lie and wanakaa kama wanawalk on eggshells with each other, man's legs are shaking throughout..Shiku body language doesn't look like in her previous relationship where her eyes would speak of love
@@nq4733 I guess they're settling in plus I'm sure they are way more careful more traumatized from their previous relationships. And also the blended family thing. That's alot on their shoulders.
@@nq4733 manz shaky legs though - I clocked it last week
The leg shaking could also be attributed to alcohol seen this with heavy drinkers and when sober they tend to shake legs unconsciously
10:50 Bro. In that example, She cheated. Guess what, the bible says in the case of infidelity, you have the power to divorce her and toss her to the streets. I disagree with giving ex-wives advantages.
Nice one, however our behaviour may explain our traumas but our traumas shouldn't be an excuse for bad behaviour like hurting/polluting the environment/other people as stated in the analogy! We willingly choose to behave
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Hooked!!!!
U guys opened a channel to talk about ur exes😂😂😂..na mkikosana? ....what will be ur new channels with ur new persons?😢😢😅😅..Grow up guys..& keep ur relationships private...free advice...
Hello I was scrolling through the app and I got a psychic divination about you“it appears you are still in love with someone whose access is limited, whom you think doesn’t love you back,am I correct?
To each their own my friend, learn to let people be. Kama wanakuboo si uende
They will just delete the videos
Allow people to enjoy their present moments..
You watched it though 😂😂😂😂😂. Hijio ni maku
Wheee!
Shiko is really giving grown and sexy vibes. Her make up, her fit, her dumure jewellery. Mike be giving homeless 😂 lolz Shiko you need to style your manz
He actually looks classic, old money vibes and his age
No she need to do nothing 😂 absolutely nothing let him look homeless she continue to look cute because why are u changing a man kwani he don't see he need a wardrobe make up 🫢don't change a man 😜
Manz introducing himself first ‚ 'mike and Shiko' is giving me an egotistic man. I could be wrong though
I think it just has a better ring to it. Like it rolls off the tongue easier.
Yu mean ramah was toxic😢😢😢😢
Aki I wanda
There are 2 sides of the coin
I expected him to say something when this started but hakujitetea so probably he was abusing her
I've heard shiko severally say,how she had to call her family at the middle of the night to be evacuated and how scared she was for her life.; What are we supposed to assume/ think?.
That RAMA was A monster..maybe he needs to come out and clear his name🤷
@nzisawambua4141 She didn't mention Ramah. Remember there is baby daddy no. 1 also
Shiko si ungetoa tu nguo zote ukuje ndethe
Let shiko be she look good 😍
Chini ya maji bado ako soko. As a commenter said above, hii haikai kuenda mbali. The foundations are too weak.
wacha ushamba😂