EP 15 | Esther - Women Don't Need To Know Everything

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  • @NungariwaMuchaiCeo
    @NungariwaMuchaiCeo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I have come to like Mike,was always a fan of Shiku,am so happy for you guys and may God PRESERVE THIS UNION!! CONGRATULATIONS AM HAPPY FOR YOU!

  • @lizgathu7098
    @lizgathu7098 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My biggest take aways from this podcast.
    1. As a woman who didn't grow up with brothers and close male friends, I'm learning alot about how men think.
    2. If he wanted to, he would.
    3. I might not agree with some things Mike says, but he has alot of wisdom. Great leadership right there.

  • @suzanneayako4600
    @suzanneayako4600 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Also Mike, brothers like you who are accountable, stay true to their word & hold down their households are rare in today's society. Give Shiko grace & never get tired of reassuring her if that's what puts her mind at ease

  • @aj5819
    @aj5819 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can see Mike’s point. The thinking is from good will and responsible men usually feel as if they don’t want to hustle their women with details that will worry them. Since he will remain consistent, Shiku will gain trust with time.

  • @Nyargot00
    @Nyargot00 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this podcast. Just got wind of it the other day and I have listened to all the episodes. Mike and Shiko, you’all doing an amazing job. And congrats on your nuptials.

  • @suzanneayako4600
    @suzanneayako4600 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Congratulations on your union guys 💝
    The thing we need to understand is how we're used to operating & making decisions as independent individuals, will drastically shift once coming together as a couple/family unit. I think when it comes to major purchases (cars, land, houses) partners, especially married couples need to keep their significant others in the loop, just so that each party can feel included & give their input.
    You may come home with a title deed of land you purchased for us in Lamu, then it gets dismissed probably coz there was something better she had spotted in Tigoni with a higher R.O.I.
    Then everyone ends up catching feelings chini ya maji 😩 which could have been avoided through simple communication

  • @catherinek3409
    @catherinek3409 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Shiko has zero chills, if a relationship isn’t working, you move on to the next

  • @lifeinitscolours4206
    @lifeinitscolours4206 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    What if you die in the process of buying? Before completing the transaction? Life is lived through conversations, no need to get your partner anxious. Two become one.

    • @cnm3844
      @cnm3844 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

  • @SW-iw3bt
    @SW-iw3bt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Aiiii…. I don’t know about this 🚩🚩🚩

  • @adminmary9033
    @adminmary9033 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    You didn't talk about Esther at all😅

    • @chumamuyunda4980
      @chumamuyunda4980 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The idea is to take a lesson from her of trusting without knowing everything and having faith that it will be done

  • @nighthoodgaming8662
    @nighthoodgaming8662 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I've enjoyed the discussion. Shiko is right in some way. We women like the finer details too much. Besides our Kikuyu men have been known to keep things to themselves leaving us to deal with big betrayals in later years.

  • @Sly_Isaacs
    @Sly_Isaacs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm investigating In this relationship ❤ I'm happy listening to Mundo and Shiku. Soon we shall be at 100k subs.. i love the consistence and every bit of the discussions. Also Mike, more oftenly call SHIKU SWEETHEART and such other names 😊😊

  • @spikybuttrue8569
    @spikybuttrue8569 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Blind trust is never a good idea. And the two shall become one - that means you plan and execute together. Let's not underestimate the pressure of handling everything financial on your own. This is why so many men have taken out second mortgages without telling their wives or gone into gambling debt. All of it is our money and we decide how it's used for the benefit of our family. We are one. Shiko's anxiety can only be alleviated by knowing whats going on

  • @graciellahnjeri3368
    @graciellahnjeri3368 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve heard my man through Mike throughout the episode.
    Wow…just wow.
    Glad to know that I’m not the only one who overthinks…and loves to have details in every scenario..
    😂

  • @adminmary9033
    @adminmary9033 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Well damn how much did those chairs cost😂😂😂, mike u r great but the mansplaining is killing me tone it down a notch

  • @euniceshiro1711
    @euniceshiro1711 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I see where Shiko Nguru is coming from in terms of buying a land....l would gladly be ok if the plot involves both parties BUT would have a problem when a man buys a land in secret under his name not once /twice n never disclose to the wife, but comfortable telling friends out there...why the hypocrisy ???

    • @virg7841
      @virg7841 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree unfortunately this guy is a redflag. I like Shiko

    • @SW-iw3bt
      @SW-iw3bt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@virg7841A big 🚩

  • @polynegakuureagan6673
    @polynegakuureagan6673 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love listening to you guys 💕 congratulations 👏👏 n May God bless your union

  • @amollodama4830
    @amollodama4830 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys are amazing ❤️.

  • @Monsterbrawller
    @Monsterbrawller 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Shiko operates under the bigger picture. This frustrates those who only consider the now.

  • @kandisphere8828
    @kandisphere8828 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So, a man should not consult before buying a car, but a woman who is buying her car with her own money, or buying a plot with her own income from her work/business, are expected to consult?? This is ridiculous, given that in most relationships these days, the women equally contribute financially, in addition to the non-monetary contributions. If a woman's money is not used for the family, then she should not be consulted by the man, but surely, these days women work, pay school fees, contribute to mortgages, we buy our own cars etc., because we do earn similar to our men.

  • @that_truth_teller001
    @that_truth_teller001 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please please we love Shiko's mind way too much, allow us to hear her!

  • @lilywhite8029
    @lilywhite8029 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree that couples should not suffocate each other. Give each other room because we are all adults with lives outside marriage not unless you don't trust each other.

  • @trishtrish2349
    @trishtrish2349 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Arnold Schwarzenegger did not come clean about siring a baby with the house keeper. The poor wife found realised the kid was his because he looks like him more than the ones he had with his wife.

  • @precious_warighe
    @precious_warighe 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just love this couple! Congratulations 😍🙏

  • @greatness23FL
    @greatness23FL 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mike Mike Mike what happened to words of wisdom at the end ???😢😢 I thought in the previous blog you promised to get back to it 🤓🥺really loved that part...ending in a banger or cliffhanger of food for though ❤❤❤❤.

  • @vanillamint7854
    @vanillamint7854 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    here we go again: men & women are simply wired differently... heeeih! 😂

  • @PeaceIrene254
    @PeaceIrene254 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    @Mike napenda what y'all are doing...
    One day itakua Shiku Mundo

  • @underthebaobabtree7289
    @underthebaobabtree7289 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful couple 😍

  • @cnm3844
    @cnm3844 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mind is only on overdrive when it comes to my kids. My husband even brought a dog to the house wuehh!!! Let me wait for my Mike in the next life.
    Na book ya Esther iko where 😅.
    For real Mike is so wise.

  • @BookreviewswithNimoh
    @BookreviewswithNimoh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Congratulations on your marriage guys 🤎

  • @rosenjiru4907
    @rosenjiru4907 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I read somewhere that the reason why God didn't create the woman first is because he didn't want to be given advice
    Mike, that is also coming out from you as l listen to you😂😂

  • @shimwa5913
    @shimwa5913 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congratulations lovely people 👏 🎉

  • @joycegichuki5726
    @joycegichuki5726 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Let the leader lead n just relax

  • @sharondebear
    @sharondebear 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Congratulations to you people ❤

  • @sylsylsly
    @sylsylsly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Shiko Mondo 🎉🥰🫶🏾 congrats you guys..

  • @justbeingmeciru
    @justbeingmeciru 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shiko i think also has ptsd.anxiety is real

    • @eyvonndua8162
      @eyvonndua8162 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think so too😢❤❤

  • @wambuirk
    @wambuirk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice couple.

  • @lauramheta5211
    @lauramheta5211 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    At this rate, Mike is teaching me Swahili. Can we please have translation because, sir, I have no idea what you are saying. Sawa....lol

  • @Kakwasi
    @Kakwasi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Shiko allow yourself to be led. Punguza boss energy ya kumake all decisions.

    • @angelatwist8085
      @angelatwist8085 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      my take dont try to change a patner......you will get a diff package

    • @GeorgeOtieno
      @GeorgeOtieno 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hii ni kupigia mbuzi kinanda, only a young childless and unmarried woman can sit back and let the man lead

    • @lilywhite8029
      @lilywhite8029 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad I'm not the only who sees this. She is a feminist and I'm certain she struggles with submission. Mike is a typical African man; I pray she improves on that. I'm rooting for these two

    • @justbeingmeciru
      @justbeingmeciru 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @jedidahakinyi9681
      @jedidahakinyi9681 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@GeorgeOtienoyou know!

  • @bamkubwanyundo
    @bamkubwanyundo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This convo is so random

  • @sheilamurengu2977
    @sheilamurengu2977 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Congratulations 🎉🎉....but Syokimau was just chilli shuwally

    • @Nyargot00
      @Nyargot00 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @candywendy2082
    @candywendy2082 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🚩

  • @veronicagitau-njeru2501
    @veronicagitau-njeru2501 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel seen 😅😅

  • @mamahazbaima6732
    @mamahazbaima6732 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Mike talks too much! Give Shiko time to speak i beg

  • @imungukalevera8671
    @imungukalevera8671 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    heh!